HOW 'PLAYERS' ACT (Girls Can't Resist This)

[@JLuisito13]

1. Emotional Distancing 2. Powerful Socialization 3. Rejecting Rejection 4. Playing the Rebel

[@perplexingperceptions8888]

@Discovering Real Truth Yup.

[@antoniestan]

@Discovering Real Truth Says the guy who has probably 1-3 lay counts based on the three dots. Come on, stop being a sheep and keep looking for steps cause it all ultimately comes down to how you can apply this to your life it's like looking for the best Extra Large Shirt when your body isn't even that large

[@David-lx4yb]

Players get laid -- that's it. They have no idea how to have a relationship or bring any value whatsoever to a woman since they are low value f*uck boys. When a woman wants a relationship, she dumps the player so fast he doesn't know what hit him. Of course, it doesn't matter to him because he just goes elsewhere.

[@antoniestan]

@@David-lx4yb lmao you need to watch rollo Tomasi here because you have SO MUCH TO LEARN. His research and study will change your life forever

[@andrecostermans7109]

@@David-lx4yb so true, players mostly (99%) get girls/women with a craving for addiction, that could be drugs, money, sex, gaming aso .. relations never lasted ..

[@skeelo6219]

Not falling in love is the key, all other aspects will almost fall into place automatically. To all women u dated but never loved, u behaved like a player by default

[@jogendrajoshi7327]

Yep

[@rossitzaouzounova4383]

Because when you fall in love, you start projecting your own ideas of an ideal girl on the poor girl you fell for, who starts feeling uneasy because 1) she knows that she is not perfect & 2) she feels that you actually love something else. So if she has some good sense of self-worth, she will inevitably reject you. When you have spent some time together and got to know each other better, true love and affection comes. Then you can let it flow ☺️

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@rossitzaouzounova4383 pro tips!

[@JamesJones-wy9oo]

@@rossitzaouzounova4383 Bravo! MY friend. You hit it right on the head. A solid friendship as a foundation is the way to go.

[@rickyrunks510]

@@JamesJones-wy9oo Man's didn't say anything about "friendship". Simply means don't come in with expectations, live in the moment and accept them for who they are. Friendship = friends zone. A man that's assertive, dominant & confident will never take a friendship approach.

[@lesloveshouse]

If rejected, smile thank them for their time and walk away. Don’t ever lose yourself in the process.

[@wolfman231]

Thank the ones who reject you. They are saving you time and effort. Next them for the ones who truly want you.

[@precogtyrant]

Don't even thank them for their time.

[@ceezytech4913]

thank???? lmao

[@wolfman231]

Yes, thank them, or at least stay classy. Hot women often have hot friends who will be interested....

[@TRIP2.0_]

I see what ur saying. But I wouldn't thank them tho. It'd be more like "Kew, see u around"...then walk off. And don't even THINK about looking back.

[@WolfGr33d]

How to handle rejection: Step 1: Sternly remind yourself that there are plenty of other girls out there for you (higher quality ones too) Step 2: Should any whiney unconfident inner thoughts arise, such as 'but what if there aren't?', shut it out and refer back to step 1.

[@David-lx4yb]

A TRULY confident man would rather be alone than with a low value/toxic woman.

[@yooo711]

Always assume rejection is the most possible outcome, then you have nothing to lose

[@InitialDL84]

Point blank!

[@RedMichicompanies]

How to actually handle rejection without being an Emo guy like OP: Reject them before they reject you. Go for another girl and make her chase you, instead of you chasing her. Then you are the one who can reject. Tbh being rejected means you are doing everything wrong and probably you are acting like a desperate GF instead of a cool guy that doesnt care.

[@RedMichicompanies]

And the there are many girls outhere is just a fact you dont even need to think about it. Your advice sounds like you feel sorry for yourself

[@doubleg1878]

Rejection lasts a day…regret last a lifetime! Take it to the bank Fellas.

[@kisigma1011]

For real at least u can say u own properties on earth when u leave everything else is a temporary

[@daysgoneby3527]

Both last a lifetime

[@iREZARECTEM]

@@daysgoneby3527 , rejection is only going to last as long as you keep reliving failure 😂 keep it moving. People on their death beds always regret the chances they never took. Rejection is better than never taking the time to find out.

[@larryrubin5150]

@@iREZARECTEM best comment yet

[@larryrubin5150]

Best comment yet

[@wojtekwilk3938]

Handling rejection well is attractive too, more than a few women will doubt their decision after rejecting you and seeing how you just don't care. But the most important thing you get out of this is self-respect, self-confidence and an unbreakable heart.

[@eyevincast5440]

Having a good time is key……that’s all you need to know not chasing anyone not trying to make people like you not caring what people think…..it’s just you and enjoying what you like

[@DUKETACTICS333]

Ba ha ha ha.. You look like the Dude in the Thumbnail

[@vantastic3dolph493]

Facts. And never ever compete unless that's how you actually bring out your best self not insecurities weaknesses which is what usually happens. Remain neutral yet low key enticing, she'll up the anny. Seem flattered yet not convinced and she'll convince you that she's worth your attention.

[@robertvermeer5951]

Not caring about what people think is impossible unless you're a shallow sociopath. Not to mention that it sounds like a pretty empty and miserable existance to me.

[@lesloveshouse]

The women are the real players. They know it too. You all know, but you’ll never admit it.

[@Vicknasty89]

Nah I agree. Its true.

[@yooo711]

Until they get rejected, then they turn into spiteful vengeful beings

[@DrBaronMunchausen]

@@yooo711 Cat Karens

[@Mrfantastic-hp2en]

😂🤣🤣🤣 you beta for saying that

[@lesloveshouse]

@@Mrfantastic-hp2en Incorrect. Sigma.

[@lesloveshouse]

In my personal opinion don’t ever give yourself away until you’re certain she’s staying. Don’t feed into sexual desires right off the hop.Worst way to go. If she can’t wait then that tells you something doesn’t it.

[@Dr_E_Yekley]

Gentlemen, the biggest thing you can do to attract the love of your life is to stop caring about women and being yourself. Girls who like you for just being you, and not being the "bad guy," may seem rare, but they ARE out there, and I'm speaking from experience. I've never been a bad guy, or a rule breaker, and I've never experienced rejection (which I'm sure I'd take like a baby), but I still met someone who I love, and who loves me back, dearly. The wait may seem long, but let me tell you, it is ABSOLUTELY WORTH IT! We've been going strong for nearly four months, and our relationship is only getting stronger.

[@user-nl2hs1gp2w]

😂You guys still together?

[@lesloveshouse]

Having a good time with multiple women Diminishes your future savings/retirement.

[@nlouisf]

That’s right

[@lesloveshouse]

@@nlouisf Yes Sir!

[@mikebingham9700]

@@lesloveshouse They never talk about the financial cost of dating many women! It's expensive. Then she eventually marries the Blue Pill Beta for Security!

[@charlesselrachski34]

TJ bro.

[@benjamincochran3670]

Not if they are paying!

[@WATDC]

Players are also good at playing hard to get.😉

[@tasosarvanitis844]

nope they really dont care cause we have many girls to choose, thats comfidence.. get it now bro? gg like shes on my leauge but shes not the only one even if shes looking like my perfect match .if she give me her attention i will give her some of mine to see where this is going and then i will deside if i like her as a person or as a body...

[@maybachjack3050]

Cap. Players will gladly smash an easy woman if she’s handing it out. You’re framing it in the female version. The male version of playing hard to get is more so a “hard to lockdown in a commitment” situation as opposed to sex.

[@unclebob2792]

​@@tasosarvanitis844 its like a game of monopoly, 1 woman is never enough, we play with a dozen at a time, we CHOOSE our players, and slowly "dominate" all of them, if they dont comply to what we desire then they are out of the game, end goal for a player is to win at all cost. not just confidence but adaptability is key also. answering to the main comment: players are indeed in a way hard to get, why? we choose our battles wisely. we play to benefit not exhaust ourselves. remember we play to "WIN" not play hard to get. that's it.

[@gabrieljordan8015]

A lot of nice guys end up becoming players after years/decades of rejection. However you have to make yourself a high value man over time in order to become a player in the end. Then the former 'nice guys' can finally be the ones who play all the games and do all the rejecting.

[@highvibrationalbeing5592]

Factoligist

[@Mrfantastic-hp2en]

😂😂 that's a lie high value is all cap

[@teravolt6113]

Some of them just become Johns/punters. Even better than players. 100% no strings attached sex with whoever they like.

[@danbredan5566]

@@Mrfantastic-hp2en 😂😂😂😂 high value is a cap

[@marynorth235]

A low self esteem girl might fall for this once...but then she's gonna wise up and go for the emotionally available guy

[@borhanmousavi2196]

totally depends on what kind of girl you're dealing with

[@jeffkaranja1636]

yeah

[@cameronbendson9746]

Yes players get ho's

[@jude9876]

@@cameronbendson9746 lol cap mature men get mature females you are what you attract.

[@Rinndery]

👍

[@ShaferHart]

I can read see the blue pills from here.

[@AndrewAzurdia]

It’s weird because i’m having a harder time with the average looking girl rather then the beautiful girls. The average girls feel insecure and feel I can do better so they give up. The beautiful ones get ignored and try harder for my attention. A player will take any girl thats down, but some girls feel like he’s out of reach but if they tried harder he’ll give in……if only for one night.

[@Ronin-kk4bt]

You seem conflicted? What do you want dude? Forget about average or really beautiful what is your type? For me I like fit girls so I find myself talking to them more. Find your type and focus on that

[@xmanofficial]

@@Ronin-kk4bt I like thick woman. Like woman who have meat on their bones… not exactly fat but not skinny either.

[@unclebob2792]

just choose your battles wisely. play to benefit not exhaust yourself. remember we play to win. that's it.

[@estacx.]

I started watching this man's videos 3weeka ago. And now in can clearly see my huge change to my life Seriously(Thanks a lot Far from average❤)

[@unclebob2792]

thread carefully brother, to be a player or playing these games is a lifestyle. ive played these games for more than a decade now ever since my heart was broken to pieces at a young age of 17, i am the very description this video entails but our decisions and choices always comes with consequences . dating is not harder, in fact its easier these days, ive crafted my skills through rejections and experiments , this video has certain truth to it to what we are seeing in society now, yes players adapt, players are more sociable, players are rebels, but what you do not know is TRUE players "lack conscience", they suppress it from their system, they play with feelings, its all psychological, being manipulative, show confusion, attract women with one of a kind phrases, an ALPHA wolf on different clothing. Sex is not just the end goal, but full domination, to mindfuck women with different tactics, tell them what they want to hear for an ideal relationship, but never fulfilling ALL of those anyway, it only gets hard when women play with you at the same time, but that is the challenge there, its all fun and games till someone falls for the other, 1 prey is never enough, its like a game of monopoly you CHOOSE and set your preys to the game and slowly dominate all of them, but the thing is players will only show effort if its worth the effort and time (money is never an issue to be a player) in my experience, players should address to other players ONLY, dont touch the innocent or non players, they dont know how the game is truly played, it no longer applies feelings, its fake, only after certain interests, and thats fucked up. ive stopped playing just this year. it ruined my ideology of a true relationship and love for women. i just hope you wont stray as far as i did.

[@xMckingwill]

Just be you remember not everyone is a player or nor is every guys goal to be a playe. If you try and be a player and its doesn't fit WHO ARE people will see RIGHT THROUGH YOU especially them and you would likely have LESS SUCCESS.

[@jamesl2531]

Disagree. Try.

[@GabrielXDrums]

This is true.

[@GabrielXDrums]

@@jamesl2531 I’ve tried myself, he’s right, it doesn’t ALWAYS work. People don’t want an asshole, at least not everyone does, SEEMS like they do, but I’m sure it depends.

[@HAHA-kk2xy]

And the girls who want a player are immature and insecure they would suck to date anyways... I use to be that girl now I'm totally opposite as I grew up.

[@xMckingwill]

@@jamesl2531 ???

[@donmarquez2411]

There Is No “One Size Fits All” When It Comes To Being A Player… Being A Player Is Basically Fluency, Effortlessly Being Yourself And Becoming Adaptable To Any Social Situation and Most Important Of All A Conversation. And A Dash Of Confidence doesn’t Hurt Either. But It All Depends On Your Angle, Because The Game Is Constantly Changing. 💯

[@unclebob2792]

being a player is a lifestyle the biggest attribute you said to be a player is "ADAPT" and i agree with that. just choose your battles wisely. play to benefit not exhaust yourself. remember we play to win. that's it.

[@stormblazt90]

I was a natural player throughout my 20s. I wasn't the most confident guy, but I talked to several girls at the same time, with an abundance mindset, and tried to have sex with all of them. And I did with nearly all of them, and strategically had them find out about the other girls. This made them compete for me. Its literally how I got into all 3 of my serious relationships. Women want a guy who has options, a guy that feels like a prize.

[@bbeeez]

It’s like the cool or rich guy they never say it bc they never have to, it doesn’t even occur to them bc it just is. I’m a dating coach and I giggle inside a little when guys tell me they used to be players…. 🤦🏼‍♀️

[@stormblazt90]

Russell Krue because I am sharing my experience, in light of this video. But hate all you want.

[@stormblazt90]

Chantals Cats Pajamas lol ok like rappers and plenty of celebs aren’t flexing their money all the time. Im saying I USED to be, not that I am. 🤦🏻‍♂️ I smell a little jealousy. Look at my socials, I have dozens of pics with beautiful girls. Not trying to brag, just factual statements.

[@princeameyaw8055]

You damn right

[@coolseaking3757]

You gotta walk through your fears to to get to your dreams!🙏🏾🚀

[@FluentOfficial]

props to u for using skateboarding as an example. skating is pretty much like life. u keep falling and falling every time, til u got a trick down u've been working so hard on and investing ur time to will pay off. but sometimes, u landed it luckily. but w repitition, its gonna be muscle memory. u will get use to it almost everytime w practice

[@FlavBoe]

'Charming rogue' would be a much better descriptor than 'rebel.' You must display a capacity for defying the norms and standards, but in a style that does not leave you with a negative image in the minds of those around you. Reputation is everything, and being the anti-hero is the sweet spot that you're looking to hit.

[@jerryh2954]

I don't agree. Having had a good history picking up women and having seen a couple of friends that are good with women, being able to talk with them and having fun with them goes a long way. I never played the "bad boy" card and could pick up any woman I wanted as a younger man. I always ended up with and eventually married a supermodel-like woman. Just talk with people every chance you get and you will get better at it. No secret.

[@clevelandwilliams5922]

The first step to attracting a woman is to engage in a conversation and finding topics you both enjoy talking about.

[@xXGamer_Jeven20Xx]

Yeah what Clever man said he basically means to just talk to them about anything, just some casual talking it can be about a game or a small thing, like "Nice necklace wheed u get it blah blah blah"

[@xXGamer_Jeven20Xx]

Clever land Williams*

[@clevelandwilliams5922]

@@georgebell1927 You have to remember 1000 women you’ll come across you’ll only gain the interest of 5 to 10 women. You also need to realise they’re just as nervous. The key is to build on that relationship until the right time approaches like she says “It would be nice to see myself at that park” if for instance you talk about a park you like. Then you can say in return “Well I can take you there here is my number let me know and I’ll meet you at this train station.” She has to make the effort if she doesn’t, it means she isn’t interested.

[@georgebell9634]

🧢

[@alanb9148]

We’re good at what we do😌😤 people at school hate me cause of this when all it is, Is being nonchalant really it’s all natural, everything he described and said in this is true but it really just comes down to it if you were born like this or grew up talking to girls staying to yourself and watching everyone’s moves to understand their intentions while still being a mystery to them 😗

[@zozovavavum1370]

It's their looks style charisma, swag and aura.

[@nellvalenciaespiritu3570]

Best comment in entire world

[@kisigma1011]

Big facts

[@catdaddy5498]

On point

[@torianprettymuch999]

So that's why, I ended up being the introvert that many ladies enjoyed . Being over excessive about my Vocations,naturally created the emotional distance necessary, and here I was thinking that maybe what I was engrossed in was just that interesting to them.. Cheerio

[@rishiyoutube383]

How to be a player 1. Stay emotionally distant. Girls are unconsciously attracted to guys who are emotionally distant. It is more attractive to girls. Have lack of emotions. Be cold. Don't show emotions around her. Girls are attracted to men who don't show emotions beacuse not showing emotions is linked to masculinity. And beings masculine is attractive. Turn off your emotional connection switch. Don't get attached to her. And never ever express your emotions and feelings to her even while making out. If she ask tell her you're not here for a girlfriend but wanna have some good time / some fun. 2. Have powerful socialization. Be good at socialising. Have great communication skills and able to communicate well. 3. Reject rejections. Go and try. If you never go, you'll never know what you can do or achieve. Either you'll win or you learn. Handle rejection well and do the improvement. Even pro players get rejected. But they learn if anything new improve or just move on to another one. You lose all the shots you never played. Rejection hurt less, regret hurt more. Rejection last a day. Regret last a whole life. Rejection isn't the end. The whole lot of opportunities are waiting. Have abundance mindset. New and better girls are always present. And you can always chose new ones. But she don't have such privilege. Because she can't approach. And only wait for a good guy to come and approach her. Moreover rejection isn't personal. You're just not her type, or she might be busy in life or career. Or she might have low libido. 4. Be self confident and self assured. Be assertive and dominant. Be the leader and take decisions.

[@suvajitmukherjee9674]

yes you have to not tolerate disrespect and handle rejection from women well enough

[@fuzzypanda1684]

Making yourself emotionally available and letting a girl know that you like her are the fastest ways to kill all interest and attraction she has for you. I can't think of any girl I've ever met who stayed around once I let her know I liked her. Usually, they'll tell you they feel the same way and lull you into a sense of thinking that she actually likes you, then suddenly and without warning, you'll get the dreaded "yeah, I don't think we should see each other anymore, byeeeeee" text. And more times than not, that text will come the morning after she told you that she loves you the night before. Women are professionals at stabbing us right in the heart.

[@alaya6742]

I'm gonna speak for all the ladies! FIrst of all, guys who are distant don't always get us. When you are cold and distant in a relationship we feel sad and disconnected to you. We don't feel loved, we feel played and distant from you. If you want the relationship to be serious and successful don't be a player! You will probably lose the girl in a couple of months.

[@HammadFitness1]

Someone played you, didn't they? 😁 Feels like you're speaking from experience sister

[@vincelorino4394]

1 minor thing ; its easy to " handle rejection" when its likely the 1 time youve been rejected in recent time AND have other options awaiting you versus not having options , and this is " just 1 more L to hold " .

[@jasluvdeepsingh8491]

Players are not winners. Not always Don’t be the guy who tries to be a player to win women. The key is to be comfortable with women. If she feels safe, entertained and loved around you, she will not give her heart and body to anyone else unless you really drive her away by doing something. Remember this. The key is to be comfortable around her. And to do that be comfortable with who you are. Change your appearance, your social status and other things so you love the version of you. You have to see yourself as a King for her to respect you and see you as a King and stick with you.

[@eloreiseiij7072]

.. this is byfar the realest comment I’ve ever read on any type of video like this .. I’m a college football player and going into my Senior yr.. this IS THE TRUTH!! I’ve seen it the past 3 years in college and in HS! I never had to do what this video said, it’s the comfort around any type of female & Kingly Confidence to make a girl feel safe and to be able to be herself around me that always made them fall.. it’s a solidness and honor you carry that will make you win in life I feel like.. being solid and strong with who you are .. that’s what makes the King Unique.. YOU ARE SO RIGHT ABOUT EVERYTHING YOU SAID !! You have the Gold on this one! I felt it when I read it and could see it !

[@foxtailhxc]

When You Said She Plays Runscape... I Subscribed!

[@DRHellcat319]

Thanks man I watch your videos and I love your channel you've taught me so much about female nature

[@motina2960]

1. Know to have fun 2. Positive Character 3.value man, same values she have and more 4 have the same goal 5. Communication Good luck

[@jaxthree2247]

What even is this its all wrong. “Players” get laid and “get the girl”, sure we can agree with that. But just like dudes, women are all different. The only girls “players” attract are the emotionally/mentally unstable ones. Or the ones with daddy issues or of the sorts. Sadly. So if thats what you are aiming for or what your into then go ahead XD. They can also just get “hook ups” but not a stable relationship. Emotionally stable women wouldn’t go after a player. They want a balanced stable man. They want a guy who is sure of himself and has goals and hobbies and who is stable/happy alone first. “Nice guys” are usually just guys who are overly nice and forget to take care of themselves. And a man who always puts her needs and never addresses his own is unstable, and thats why girls don’t like that. If you wanna be a “player” its just playing a role and your gonna get the girls who fall for that. If you want hook ups, ok then, go for it. But for a mature relationship, you have to be who you are, be happy stable and alone first, then the right match will come on their own.

[@unclebob2792]

"The only girls “players” attract are the emotionally/mentally unstable ones." well ill agree to that statement at about 50%. in my experience not all girls when i play are to be emotionally unstable, its situational at most. true some are emotionally unstable, and some are tend to have a need for a partner, and some have just fallen to the game in our hands. "But for a mature relationship, you have to be who you are, be happy stable and alone first, then the right match will come on their own" but this i agree 99% , why not 100? because you left the word committed. "for a mature committed relationship should be right" players are scared of this word.

[@Violentic81]

This was almost like holding a mirror in my face. I have to admit I don’t even know that it might be payed instead of my natural me. My dad raised me to be my own rules. I really want to reflect on this. Well done, great job👍🏾

[@alexislaura4426]

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[@alexislaura4426]

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[@JCno28]

dont be a player guys, just have the confidence and assertiveness of one!

[@nakedtrader7104]

It’s definitely just a mindset & can’t let your emotions rule your actions. Easier said then done.

[@SlomoUofR]

If you’re a player you’re probably a 9 or 10. You’re not watching this video and you’re probably not any better at communicating than anyone else. Women go for looks first.

[@r3tro374]

@chocolate bunny your ex-boyfriend a player ??

[@Rinndery]

I believe the people that “fall for players” had been growled up by toxic people who have done not secure attachment style of parenting .. in fact if you were securely loved while growing up , you would have seen the red flag before it came , and understand you shouldn’t and can’t change people , you can only protect your own self .. and with that said the guy you are “falling for “ it’s not even worth you because you have learned if he is falling for you he isn’t worth it , so most of the times you would fall for people that most likely will hurt you , and be mad at them most of the times .. then when they aren’t changing in falling for you. I would say a secure attachment look like a lot like being your true self also saying directly if something is bothering you , and if there is no attachment or any topics in common , or similar mindset .. just go away. Or if In other hand the person have all that characteristics you are looking for but don’t prioritise them as you do .. it means you don’t have the same mindset and values .. so It wouldn’t have worked anyway. And I bet somewhere in there is someone with the same values as you. So I think it’s really worth it working on attachment styles .. since it’s the root of that kind of problems .. that is valide for both genders btw.

[@blaze0052]

💯

[@M.H.I.A.F.T.]

The longer I live and the more I learn about this stuff, the more impossibly complicated women seem.

[@charbeelaoun]

You need to stop watching this kind of videos then, cz you will get addicted to those

[@DUKETACTICS333]

Their not.. To be honest. Within the coming years you're not even going to need them anymore or making a high things like that. The only thing they're going to be heated floors reproduction and even that isn't even in that facility anymore you can incubate eggs and things like that so honestly there's really no use for them, just a waste of time,

[@charbeelaoun]

@@DUKETACTICS333 reproduction eggs?? What is that lol You are making it even more complicated

[@blaze0052]

@@charbeelaoun haha

[@Jdog305Cubanito]

Turn your feels off simple & keep it playa 😎

[@theheretic6739]

Bad at socializing, worse at handling rejection and several broken heart phases of mine taught me to be emotionally distant and tear down stereotypes. Will not disclose my relationship status, but would have been good to test myself if i remained single 😅

[@sleepycoyote1]

Nooo... only airhead girls, care about Players. I don't like players or bad boys and I think they are losers. I'll stick with my strong, hard, yet soft, masculine, selfless, honost, hardworking and loving Cowboy. Country men are the only perfect men left. They have integrity and are loyal to family, friends and country. True patriots. Any woman can happily take a Country Man, home to her family. Those are keepers.

[@nikyabodigital]

Also bro the most important shit is take care of your damn self inside out. You gotta look nice too. Work out , eat good food. And this too.. It's not like you have to use this to manipulate ladies , You got to be you. And the mission is to be the best you, It's not the other way around

[@hailey8513]

When someone is more attractive, they tend to care less because they know they have more options.

[@JoseTorres-ry9qe]

Always remember, Now and forever, *LOOKS MONEY STATUS* *NOTHING ELSE MATTERS*

[@infinityj2268]

FarfromAverage: "They just want to have a good time." Aka Claping those cheeks.

[@scottmason578]

Most all people are diffrent, so I would say just be yourself and talk to her. To many people screw up and listen to people telling them what to do. This is not you! She will like you better being yourself! If she don't move on!

[@panaoutsios1990]

Player until one crazy girl played him and be sad for the rest of he's life

[@unit1291]

My girlfriend broke up with me but when I talk to her it gets worser but I'm healing and I'll heal faster if I find someone new she's waiting for me

[@finodiez9227]

all of this comes from what they are, which is not mentioned at all here. They have emotional distancing because they have been involved with really hot girls before and its not new to them, so they are like "meh, you might be just like the one before" or "meh, you are not as hot as the one before" They have powerful socialization because they are listened to when they speak, because they have the high ground in social status. This means that they are: 6 feet tall or more, very handsome, and/or have lots of money or show it with a great car and clothing, and/or they are buffed. If you are 6 feet tall or more, and buffed, you just are in the top 5%-10% of all men in the entire world because the rest didn't put 10 years of non-stop effort in the gym and were not born lucky enough to be very tall. Rejecting rejection comes naturally because of the above, the guy knows he is high status, and can get other girls interested, probably has a lot right now, so one random bimbo rejecting him it like nothing when you have that many options. Playing the rebel comes from the same place of status. "These guys telling me what to do? Dude, I get more chicks than you, you midget. You're nothing." thats whats on their minds when this happens. SO basically, no matter how much you try you wont be able to do what they do just by being an actor imitating them. You will have to at the very least get wealthy, get buffed and start escalating the amount of girls you get on your bed to scrub off that virginity until you feel nothing for any of them anymore.

[@fiftyshadesofgrey1991]

And players have a hard time to handle rejection. They just learn how to hide it but surely having no remorse

[@medicmikerelf3309]

I’m 46 Years You Are So Right about Players, when was in high school they would have very dusty cloths and pull women all the time and now players don’t have even work, they got women providing them a placed stay and feeding them and buying them cloths and shoes, And the woman working 12 hour shifts and 16 hour shifts to provide for herself and her man

[@thisguyrools2807]

I have Aspergers, it's hard for me to be the bad boy. I'm always awkward and girls think I'm shy. I hate that I can't be that cool guy that everyone is attracted to. There are so many social cues I can't understand. I'm very muscular and dress nice but attraction relies on a lot of social cues I don't understand. It really sucks there aren't many resources that cater to helping people on the spectrum have great sex lives with multiple partners and build great relationships with neurotypical women. The only KZbinrs I found that give great advice for dating with autism is Aspie World and Aspergers Growth.

[@Vonrak]

Embrace yourself brother! No one else can be you!

[@sauravbasu8805]

You construct sentences and express yourself so well - maybe you are being too much critical of yourself. Not everyone is born with similar traits , a male who is very capable of attracting females might be utterly miserable in many other ways, and vice versa.

[@pmscalisi]

90% of it is based on appearance at least to the girl.

[@Granola_cat]

5:17 that man coming up scared the crap out of me xD I thought it was someone's hands bout to take my device.

[@dickersonleon8610]

its not on you its in you . A player is smart enough to realize the effect of their charms or personality on their environment and the people that surrounds him . As he grows older ,he masters his game /charm by trial and error and becomes more and more irresistible to everybody around him , men and female .think about it as a politician . If you are not appealing to men(not talking about sexual attraction), if the men you are seen with dont have a slight of jealousy in their eyes .or better yet see you as a threat or component , then the possibility is the ladies will see you like that too - not worthy of her time , a boring man etc .People rarely do things if they expect negative outcomes, meaning that, they make decisions based on the level of satisfaction that it will provided them but the hack is people believe what they want to believe and they want what they can’t get and what everybody have … peace and love

[@flocklegend1412]

You saved my life with the most dangerous thing a man can do video.

[@silkroad1201]

I can get women easily but they lose interest after a couple weeks. I've always seen life as a game and I really am in a different reality than most people. Women have always just been human toys for me to play with emotionally and physically. I don't mean hurting them, I don't hurt women and it's not a Silence of the Lambs kind of thing either. It's hard to explain, but it's like a kid using his imagination with his toys. I say and do things to them for my own entertainment that I look back on and think "Why on earth did I do that?". I guess my point is, not caring does get them, but you have to care a little bit in order to keep them. Just be a normal human being, that usually works for me when I can snap out of my insanity for a while

[@lewisgreene2488]

I've seen these ''players'' swoop in and take someone else's girl. I've also seen the "players" get their asses handed to them on a golden platter by the betrayed guy.

[@protoneuronium]

I find this knowledge to be new and superoriginal. Really. These ideas are innovative. Wish the great and powerful @TheRationalMale gets to see see this video of yours. Congrats!

[@protoneuronium]

@RolloTomassi (I'm tipsy right now, but...)

[@The_preserver_x16]

Yo do you mind organizing your channel and creating playlists.

[@BelgraveDiop]

It's not easy for players to get girls. It's skill. They may not talk about it, but it's on purpose. I don't have a single player friend who gets girls without thinking. What I will say though, is that players never break character. You won't see him break down and be like. "Yeah I'm insecure, what do you think bro?" We don't do that. Never let your guard down, that's when you get got.

[@madzgville]

I love to see this in recommended after going through a breakup. She played me, usually imma player. The thing she said was she “lost feelings” her own friend told me this. Which is toxic, she called me obsessive and ugly right after p.s not true but meanwhile you was dating me long enough to not be saying that. 😂

[@randomlygeneratedname]

Doesn't matter if your the hottest man in earth women always do that to justify their decision whether it was good or not

[@TheScorpion615]

Step number 1 for being a player join a band of become a rapper after that you don't have to do anything else besides do music and watch women fall over you and treat you like a king

[@ibrock476]

Great... You just spill everything out...

[@jacopobalia31]

I love how you are fixated with RuneScape and you put it randomly just coz

[@nghianguyenngoc5690]

bro i think adding some examples of practical situations would make the video much easier to approach and make use of what you showed

[@AdamWarIock]

From a former player, it's not cool and it stunts your emotional growth.. it leads to broken hearts

[@kacklerot]

Rejection is easy to handle you just have to think a different way about it. The rejection is not about something being wrong with you. It's like you're a piece of candy. Not everyone likes the same candy. Say you're mint chocolate. You're not any better or worse than the other candies. But not everyone likes mint chocolate. But there is some who absolutely love it and seek out that flavor. But it's doing you a favor when you get rejected. Because you're not wasting your time for someone who clearly isn't interested. Which could be for many reasons other than just not their type. Maybe not wanted to date atm? Just broke up with a really bad person and weathered by the ordeal? Already taken? Not enough time for another partner? Thinks you fit a stereotype you are not? The way you stood reminded them of someone else from their past they can't stand? But besides all of this every failure is more steps closer to achievement. You keep at it and you will succeed. It's how anyone is successful at anything. Take the failures in stride and put it behind you and yell...Next! Just stay positive and focus on the goal with the willpower of a savant autistic boy memorizing every color of every car registration sticker in every state from 2010-2019.

[@jorgecaostalwart]

One day I was a player among girls, actually that's what they like... You take risk all the time 😜 Now I can not be that Guy anymore ... When you want someone to love is totally different ❤️😍 than hang out some random girls nothing they want just you... Nothing serious!!!

[@angiojunio7477]

Let's give it up to the person drawing the same thing over and over

[@TheGamingTitan]

I appreciate the drawing and animation it’s really good

[@HimanshuKumar-ph8pj]

There are three pools actually that girls categorise guy into ... Maybe Boyfriend , Definitely Fun Encounter , Just a Guy ( basically to ask for help and socialize) .

[@brianeno1062]

this used to be a good channel with many great advices, now it got reduced to a colection of clickbait titles

[@sisiaaiaisisiaiqiqq7399]

Well it seems like all these things in the video i have been doing unconciously and naturally but my plans from my thoughts makes me do different things instead

[@streamspambot7825]

So is everyone just ignoring this mans Amazing Drawing skills

[@RandySnarsh]

Your drawing skills is pretty awesome.

[@foreverstrong693]

Just always be Yourself 😎👌

[@jukijunk]

Wish me luck guys, asking a girl out tomorrow

[@holyroller7743]

How did it go

[@jukijunk]

@@holyroller7743 she said she was busy next few weeks. Took that as rejection, went cold and just ignored and walked away from her. She tried to contact me weeks later, ignored her lol.

[@holyroller7743]

@@jukijunk great move lol. There's no time for games. Silly how some of them operate.

[@MrDannyk01]

Shit I just wanna find a good woman. I'm 40 and not ugly but I eventually keep getting played by the tomboys I date. My game is gone. 20s to mid 30s were great tho.

[@andersspencer]

Shit fam don't expose me

[@SoaringRedEagle]

Holly SH*t..!! I been doing that most my of life, and not even knew this.. 😝😝😝😝

[@bigwavesun]

When I see emotionally distant, I hear broken softie lol. "My heart hurts....I shall be aloof and listen to dark piano music while acting tough and looking deep." 🤣

[@apoocumber4164]

This might be true to a certain degree. But when you hit 23-24 and you’re reward to date long term, this won’t work.

[@kareemghanem4296]

Simply they were born with it be yourself

[@THEMAN03100]

Pro tip: treat all girls as average even if they are a 10, it’s like talking to a girl your not attracted to. Distance yourself and the girl will chase because she’s wants to know why your not interested… play it cool don’t over text give her enough to bite on

[@retim9290]

What if the player gets played?

[@adissadi]

Anyone reading this please answer bro how to emotionally distance yourself is not given here

[@ibrahimmateen6347]

Emotional distancing girls.. Rejecting rejection... Be fun... Be rebel...break rules

[@Noonewillrecognizeyou]

Big Pun said, Still Not A Playa😅

[@cyndyedwards1153]

Character, integrity, the best qualities ev....

[@viciousvigilante4985]

Walks away. "Nah" 😭😂😂

[@samrgam6138]

What happens if you're accepted? I'd rather be rejected than accepted. When I feel followed or liked, I tend to say odd and unpleasant things in order to make them dislike me. Why would anyone want to accept a wicked expert evil manipulative girl into his life? She's been in several relationships and likes to tell you she's only done it once or twice! Is it possible that you've lost your mind? Unless you're an evil manipulative person, in which case I (might) understand!

[@likewise4Gaming]

Care less. Get more. That’s always been my experience with women.

[@BihFaca11]

Players look good, they calm and smooth. Trust me. Works like a charm. You can't force to be a "player" you have it or your don't.

[@ceckolalovia]

While i may agree with some things. The things that really annoys me is that people are watching this kind of videos and cant never behave how they are. Meaning they will never have lasting or even truthful relationship its really sad, if your goal is to be a player. Sooner or later you will find a truthful man/woman who will just not tolerate bulshit like this and you will miss the greatest chance life gives you just because you cant be yourself. All this videos are just a proof that so many people are afraid, that's why all the tricks and tips which are making you more afraid, so you have to play games in order to make the goal. Pathethic really

[@medicinekeysformrcps5025]

I really love this channel.