4 Reasons a Woman DUMPS You (the ONLY REAL reasons)

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When a woman leaves you, she will use a lot of excuses but these are the four main reasons a woman will end things with a man.

[@mm-zn5hh]

Pre-selection works wonders. Experienced it myself. Bobby is always spot on.

[@LeeEverett1]

Remember fellas it doesn't matter how well you treat a woman, you could literally do everything right and she can still leave you for whatever her reasons. If you're genuinely a good guy focused on your purpose and don't put them on a pedestal and she still leaves, it has to do with her and not you. Most of these women today are damaged and broken. They can't sustsin longterm relationships, it's important to ask about her exes and get an idea of how many of them she left and how long she dates them.

[@davidpark2509]

Modern woman don't want good men..aka men that don't care about them or anything. You will find a good woman when a man is on sr.

[@wulfclaw4921]

The biggest reason is in the spiritual realm. Like it or not. These days as the world hauls ass into the end times more than ever we are faced with those who lack empathy, loyalty & integrity. They simply cannot hold up to what they face. Simply put - few women have the ability to treat a good man well. Not a " nice guy", a good man.

[@frankbarenbach6044]

With 44, I can only agree with Bobby. - make interesting things, not just watching TV or so. Best announce s.th. like "no appointments next Friday". This keeps her excited. - don't be a helpless weak problem. I see this at some couples with kids: the husband is the additional kid when it comes to chores and other stuff. - don't change your appearance. Stay the guy she felt in love with! Watch your weight, watch your clothes!

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

I appreciate that this is classy and gives advice for a successful dynamic rather than a sleazy hookup.

[@mundoeuniverso5123]

5th Reason: For nothing!

[@divineprovidence803]

She always has options. She meets another guy who offers more and she'll move on to him. The whole dating game is stacked in the woman's favour. It's frustrating as a man.

[@celinelia8127]

@divineprovidence803 i never had "options" and i had guys leave me for a different woman. when i left a guy, it was always because he either mistreated me, or talked lots of sh* about people or because we were not a good match, he wanted differentthings out of life than me.

[@divineprovidence803]

@@celinelia8127 You always have options.. You could easily walk away from any man and find another man without too much difficulty. Most average men do not have that option. It's near impossible now for an average man to find any women to date and have a relationship with because women have ridiculously high standards and like to play mind games. Average men like myself get constantly rejected..What options do I have to find a woman? Dating apps and asking women out doesn't work so I have to settle for being single. Can you see why I'm frustrated?

[@Kezonenyc]

Bobby Rio delivers every Sunday.

[@kargs5krun]

Bobby gives good advice here as far as framework goes per analysis. Yet it's general advice. Every person (M & F) is a unique individual with unique circumstances that mold their character/beliefs/behaviors, past-present-future. There are NO guaranteed successes here, just "odds," so to speak. "Play the game " actively or not, but you are in the game until your last breath. For it's just basically a continuous game/dream we have here before us....of which you'll experience both winning and losing, no matter what.....guaranteed. #life #playthegame #smile

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*One major reason women might dump a guy is poor communication. If you’re not expressing your thoughts and feelings, she may feel disconnected. Make it a habit to check in with her emotionally and share your own feelings openly. Building that connection can strengthen your relationship and help avoid misunderstandings.*

[@BobbyRio]

yes, have to humanize yourself, and create a connection.

[@lorderectus1849]

Don’t waste your time , her reasons are endless!

[@BobbyRio]

true, but they stem from these four things

[@Accordforex]

You're right Bobby, those are the four crucial mistakes. I made all of them, I realized mistakes and this videos also shed more light on it

[@celinelia8127]

@@BobbyRio Many guys dumped me for a woman with better body,doesn't matter if i'm kinder,nicer,smarter and she's mean, they just want better body.

[@scottverge938]

​@celinelia8127 most guys never dump women. It's usually the women that dumps the man. The men you date dump you for a better body. Tons of men don't care that much about a hot body and honestly couldn't get a woman with one.

[@Sports_Shorts_21]

She is never yours, it's just your turn.

[@tetedur377]

@josephpolicastro3149 Simp.

[@alexflips393]

Shut up man

[@se78836]

@josephpolicastro3149 Women initiating 70% of divorces would suggest otherwise. But good attempt to white knight

[@se78836]

@josephpolicastro3149 That reply doesn’t even make sense. Betas don’t understand women. But it seems to be the only comeback you know

[@se78836]

@josephpolicastro3149 Admitting you have nothing better going on in your pathetic empty life. Yes you conveyed that perfectly - well done

[@JohnJohnCrusher]

Great summary.

[@Sigma77-n2u]

The secret is having your own life and still doing things you love by yourself. Many guys give up hobbies and gym time and that’s not right!

[@BeardOvBorgia]

Ah yes.. Hypergamy

[@tomspellings6738]

Bored, not board lol. Thanks, bobby!

[@Accordforex]

Your videos are professional Bobby, it has help me shape my thinking properly. I do like you to make video on how to react after meeting an ex 1.relationship went well 2. relationship didn't went smoothly with How can someone react and communicate with them The one i want you to emphasize on is, the one who's ex underrated, dump and cheated on and told to work on himself before dumping him for another guy she feels is good for her

[@arminxvs3372]

So much work - I don't need a second job at home playing those games with a woman. The manual you need to follow just to "keep her" is really not worth it anymore.

[@MrJohnnyWheeler]

Tough situation. She's my boss. I can't go after her like I normally do, or I risk an HR complaint. Anything she perceives as flirting, or hitting on her, and she gets mad. She flirts with everyone else, and she is super nice to everyone else, but she's disrespectful, insults me, and puts me down all the time. I've confronted her multiple times, and cut interactions with her to a minimum. She treats me completely differently than she does anyone else. She used to subtly flirt with me, but the only flirty thing she does with me anymore, and she doesn't do this with other people, is give me hugs. She knows I like her, and also knows I will never act on it because she's my boss. I can tell she likes me, but she sees me as her subordinate. I've told her that I'm looking for another job now. And she knows she'll need to hire 2-3 people to do the job that I do, and not as well as I do. I have a lifetime of experience in this field. I'm normally very blunt, obvious, and don't waste time when I like a chick. It's agonizing to have her thinking I'm too scared or shy to hit on her. It takes a lot of effort to not hit on her...well, it used to. I've lost a lot of interest because of her bullsh*t. Is there a path with her?

[@tedwilson1477]

I HIGHLY recommend you let her go if she's decided she WANTS to leave. Focus on healing yourself so you do NOT need her. That is the ONLY way to get your life back.

[@SPACEGVNG]

I'm not her's , its just her turn

[@terrywilliams2349]

This on point 🎯🎯🎯💯

[@bjornviir3333]

most obvious reason...she met someone she likes better.

[@Cairo198]

@bjornviir3333 no,most obvious reason for me is: i am happier alone than with the guy who is being so hurtfuI to me. the second: i'm happier alone than with this guy with whom we don't get along - he doesn't get me and i don't get him.

[@lint8391]

Which is fine. If any woman I was with met a man that she liked better, I'd want her to leave me and move on to him.

[@celinelia8127]

@@lint8391 Many guys dumped me for a woman with better body,doesn't matter if i'm kinder,nicer,smarter and she's mean, they just want better body....

[@lint8391]

@@celinelia8127 How tall are you and how much do you weigh?

[@PhilCowdery]

Bobby my ex broke up with me because her dad said he would not support her financially if she kept going out with me. We had been going out 3.5yrs. Then went cold . She still loves me and we have caught up under the radar. She moved back into the family home.

[@benjaminpikoikj7090]

There are times when a guy cheats or is abusive. This is not in these situation "You are just not noticing the signs." Women's are subtle 1. She gets bored. Boredom equals death with women. If she's indifferent to you- you're too predictable. Emotional and mental engagement. Attention equals attraction You need to give her the mental challenge. The more automous you are the more naturally challenging you become. 2. Loss of respect If she starts to lose respect for you. A. Lack of ambition. Having goals and passions. Lack of boundaries- if she watch bosses and friends talk down to you. B. Don't have options other than her. Showing her that you can get others and your with her cuz you want to be with her. "Keep your sword sharp" C. If you change who you are for her. 3. Lack of taking on the masculinity role. Sharing your feelings vs relying on her for emotions support She's not your therapist and not partner. Take the initiative and confidence. Be the person who can lead and be confident. 4. She's seeking a more exciting sex life It's more about not tapping into her fantasies enough. Sexually. Eg Maybe it's the thrill of getting caught. Dominated. Being submissive

[@Cairo198]

the REAL reasons: 1) i'm happier alone than with the guy who is being so hurtfuI/scary/mean to me. 2) i'm happier alone than with this guy with whom we don't get along - he doesn't get me and i don't get him. 3) i'm happier alone than with a guy to whom i'm simply not attracted to or a guy who is clearly not attracted to me and just settled for me 4) i'm happier alone than with a guy with extrem!lst opinions and beliefs

[@Luja2024]

By believing as beeing recected is wrong instead thinking not beeing chosed is the wright thought

[@JoaoGabriel_WM]

Such a cruel world... it only shows that relationships (and even friendships) are nasty. It's just a waste of time and energy. I'm simply going my own way and I want women to stay away from me. After all, if even we share the same tastes and she seems to be nice and kind at first, I still can't trust her, then who am I going to trust?

[@Cairo198]

@user-xq1uj4cu1c same here, why should i trust a man, he's going to hurt me and cheat on me with a 20year old blonde anyway

[@massangabe]

12:13 "My secret garden" by Nancy Friday, published 1973. Sequel "Forbidden Flowers: More Women's Sexual Fantasies" 1975

[@BobbyRio]

i only read the first one but def shocking..

[@sekernbo]

ty

[@texxstalker]

I allow them to dump me, because i realize they are batshit crazy, but i dont want further problems.

[@Heywood.Jablome]

One thing I've learned, is you can do everything right and still fail this game. Western women are just too overwhelmed with abundance and distractions. It DOES "come out of nowhere". They hate stability and security. Let them get bored and leave.

[@acekhumalo9789]

I literally got all the answers right, but the creator of the quiz had to prove me wrong

[@zepcrazyfre]

Don’t be boring, demonstrate ambition, masculinity, consciousness, patience, respect and understanding of and for HER sexual curiosity and intelligence and make her *CHASE ME* not the other way around; Got it!!!

[@BobbyRio]

yep, got it!

[@celinelia8127]

@zepcrazyfre if she likes herself and has self-esteem, she'll not stick around just to alway chase you. Many guys dumped me for a woman with better body,doesn't matter if i'm kinder,nicer,smarter and she's mean, they just want better body

[@seanroberts7695]

The only Secret Garden book I find is a children’s novel.

[@Ascerian]

it's called MY secret garden, i don't know how he f'd that up. The box art shown is even wrong.

[@haylamino3648]

Genius !!!

[@EraphaseContemplation]

"Trying to get any woman is a waste of time. She either is interested or not. My self worth is not built on her liking me or not. I am who and what I am and so is she. The attraction happen and become clear over time. I be myself always and she is her self. The relations builds on the common interests and mind as well as the positive tension of difference about each of us that attracts the other with interest also. The continuity is based on the values in life that are common. 0 - 0 = 0. You cant lose a woman who is not a fit so why be destroyed ? Just walk away and pursue your purpose in life and allow this action to attract the right one and stay with you and you with her. Only 3% of the men in the world know this. It works.

[@PaulTrippy-bj8ho]

girls LOVE Drama. look at that K-Drama category, Women in the West are WILLING to watch a Drama Series from a Foreign country with another language just for that DRAMA .

[@moverabc]

sounds like too much work for me. Imagine having to do this your whole life just to keep her

[@rascal211]

Of course I can make decisions if I live alone.

[@citizenoz]

What was the meme that did the rounds a few years ago? "If you understand why pizza is made round... packed in a square box... and eaten in a triangle... then, my friend, you understand women." 🤔

[@se78836]

You have to continue to remain her best option at all times. Women will never understand or appreciate the amount of work this takes. They get to just chill and follow

[@BobbyRio]

very true

[@ssap3717]

You need to learn the tricks to subtly devalue her in her mind so you are always at the top.

[@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato]

Same experience here, I think bieng is the best because women these days play games, uhh

[@BobbyRio]

everyone plays games, we just do it differently.

[@celinelia8127]

@@BobbyRio Bobby when will you please demonstrate how to tell a girl that her question was unoriginal/dum ,and still comeoff as charming?... you've received enough r/ threads showing how women don't care about what you drive

[@geoeconomics5629]

When she knows she got you She will be turned off by you

[@MrChambers8109]

I wish everything this man was saying, was wrong.

[@jamescarlangelio1629]

The truth is more to be doubt than false

[@douggraham7998]

what if with her is where i want to be in life and im content? why is no woman happy with a guy who adores her and simply wants to be with her. are all the headgames always necessary

[@EJP177]

The secret garden book you show is a F-ing childrens book. You probably meant the book written by Nancy Friday with same title.

[@nadahere]

+++ My Secret Garden en.wikipedia.org/wiki/My_Secret_Garden Chapter One: The Power of Fantasies Chapter Two: Why Fantasies? Frustration Insufficiency Sex enhancement Foreplay Approval Exploration Sexual initiative Insatiability Daydreams Masturbation The lesbians Chapter Three: What do women fantasize about? Anonymity The audience Rape Pain and masochism Domination The sexuality of terror The thrill of the forbidden Transformation The earth mother Incest The zoo Black men Young boys The fetishists Other women Prostitution Chapter Four: The source of women's fantasies Childhood Sounds Women do look Seeing and reading Random associations Chapter Five: Guilt and Fantasy Women's Guilt Men's Anxiety Chapter Six: Fantasy accepted Fantasies Fantasies that should be reality Acting out fantasies Sharing fantasies ... .. .

[@KennyNeilson]

This man is exactly right I was such a loser because I did not move on a hint from a very beautiful woman long ago .you may not even have but a few hours to move.butterflies will cause you to lose her and you will regret it for the rest of your life

[@CsabaGamings]

Being bored means she's in a secure place. Any normal woman would like that, so the first thing is too toxic for me to even see the 2nd reason lmao. I don't want a toxic relationship at all

[@arminxvs3372]

It's not toxic per se but basic human emotions. We crave dopamine andnonce it's off people will seek it elsewere - like junkies.

[@kytaylor5080]

Maybe someone can correct me if I'm wrong, just seems like Bobby talked about once, there a group, of women. Who enjoy being flirted with! They like the excitement! and attention! However they have no intentions of committing to a date! And when men misread those women and never get a text back or call back or automatically confused or something🤔🤔... Seems like Bobby had talked about this... Not what was related to in the video post today, however what I'm bringing up...

[@BobbyRio]

hmm not sure exactly what video, but there's def a video where I talk about how women will keep guys around as a "backup plan".

[@kytaylor5080]

@@BobbyRio Totally RAD, thanks for the clarification...

[@celinelia8127]

Bobby you've received enough r/ threads showing how women don't care about what you drive,so... when will you please demonstrate how to tell a girl that her question was unoriginal/stupid/bad ,and still come off as charming?......

[@BobbyRio]

you obsessed.

[@ProfWho-ut5he]

Women only reject me if they are married! Unfortunately, whenever I meet an attractive woman, she turns out to be married already.

[@MichaelBabaoKuyaPotato]

Awtch hahaha

[@MyDreamside]

Yeah that's the reason some men cant be with a woman, i want from the woman all those things i should act i dont need to. So if you dont need her you have her but if you dont need her why should you settle with her?

[@WildSkyMtn]

Exactly. All these coaches online are about running games. You do need to understand this stuff to do well. But there is way more than these four things. These four things are very topical. There’s religion spirituality parenting techniques communication styles. All sorts of reason adults break up with each other that aren’t these very topical things.

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

Good video, I’m glad you’re still putting this content out.

[@BobbyRio]

glad you're enjoying it!

[@rascal211]

What if there are no other good options?

[@alexflips393]

Sometimes her suggestions are ok. For example I did do my beard how she liked and she became more attracted to me.

[@macpzesst9661]

Used the wrong "bored"

[@Ascerian]

12:15 The book is MY SECRET GARDEN not THE SECRET GARDEN. How did he both get this wrong AND show the wrong image of the book. The secret garden is a children's book. jeez

[@BobbyRio]

editors mistake, by the time i got the video back too late too change.

[@BobbyRio]

hopefully a lot of guys didn't buy the wrong book lol

[@holdstrongchannel]

You should never ever try to make a women fit into your life. You should always be focused on you. If she adds value to your life. Then give her the chance to be a part of it. If she disrespects you or plays any games. You seperate. She either fixed herself or you move on. You’ll find one that compliments your life and sees your life vision. Don’t chase. Be the man.

[@BobbyRio]

true

[@joro7777777]

bored not board lol

[@ThaiPredator]

I had a girl who sent me a text message and i did not respond for 4 days did not open the message, she unsent her message what do you think of this?

[@chaabimaroc]

Sounds like you act, like insecure woman act.😂

[@KennyNeilson]

I think you took too long to answer her.they don't give you long . They think you're not interested.dont wait a full day to answer .

[@nobodyknows3180]

Awww, dude, you referenced the WRONG BOOK. "The Secret Garden" by Frances Hodgson Burnett is about a 10-year old girl and is Juvenile Fiction. What you meant was the book "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday. You should take this video down, correct it, and repost it.

[@gregoryrose1931]

My secret Garden by Nancy Friday

[@RandyWebb70]

Hey, Bobby you spelled Bored wrong

[@BobbyRio]

lol bad mistype.

[@cartiluscarlsky6127]

Why have you not written books about that many will read it and suck up the informations

[@Gregimus]

Just throw in the god damn towel, the game is rigged folks!

[@WilliamBrownson-w2e]

Hey Bobby, some things. First of all, I noticed a lot of "dumping and getting her back videos" coming from you lately, and all I can say to that is that (apparently) I've been dumped a lot in my life (but hadn't really noticed), because (for the vast majority) I don't remember being there at the time that it apparently happened, and as for the "getting her back part," most of the time I don't remember ever wanting to do that, more that I would be more willing to pay her to stay away from me, not that I ever remember ever having done that (but still feel that way today). That being said, should your travels ever take you to these parts, I do invite you to look me up, as I am currently studying for PHD school (at the strip bar), and would be willing to treat you to the baked potato bar that they have, so long as you show up on a Wednesday, because I have a coupon, and also I was recently having an interesting conversation with "Vega" there, where I learned a lot about glitter and some other things, where I think that your valuable contributions and insights would be most appreciated. Other than that, most of your videos lately have gone right over my head, got no clue whatsoever how they apply to me in any but in a very small way, and I've actually been around for awhile, and that's all I 'm saying.

[@BobbyRio]

thanks for the comments, videos have focused on that because a large majority of guys who hire us for coaching, that's what they are asking us for. best of luck! glad to still have you around!

[@lint8391]

"Treat to the baked potato bar" That's an oxymoron! 😁

[@mikegrowgreens9125]

You really spelled it “board” like a ply board. Or she is bored? Smh

[@tonyalmeida5174]

I didn’t check it thoroughly after getting back from my editor. My bad.

[@Aria-nl3xp]

I don't even care anymore stop trying all around

[@sekernbo]

kids book? dude......

[@massangabe]

13:40 watching the movie "body of evidence" by Madonna aroused her

[@BobbyRio]

me too

[@DaveStoner-w4e]

Last day we was together it was great she wanted to go slow we were I message her neck and feet I don't think that 😂she was worry now she will not talk to me I don't why

[@chanbormesuting6179]

😂😂😂

[@markeckert3943]

Signs Signs Everywhere the Signs. Do this, don't do that cant you read the signs? Imperpetuity. Just sayin

[@jboneunbelive6968]

Please guys stop listening to garbage these guys come out with, it's all about making pennies, end of day it's meant to be, it's clicks n sticks when it's right, ain't it funny how he says a date from the pass, why's he not with her still??? errrmmm because they didn't click, n as for a ex, ya never go bk because either u or her, knew deep down ya not right, why put yourselves through the same garbage 3 months down the line, move on