5 Tricks to Regain a Woman's RESPECT & DESIRE (make her want you again)

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Here's how to get a woman to respect you again if you messed up and lost her attraction. Making a woman respect you again is the first step towards attraction.
In this episode, dating experts Bobby Rio and Calvin Jameson discuss why a woman may not be returning despite having feelings for you and share five key strategies to regain her respect. They delve into real-life scenarios, providing practical advice on how to navigate emotional quicksand, show strength without anger, and create a sense of mystery. Learn how to rebuild your social circle, ration your attention, and become comfortable in the gray area to reignite attraction and get your relationship back on track.
Time Stamps:
0:10 Intro
2:07 The Big Mistake
2:54 First Step Getting Her Back
4:49 Tip 1: Show Your Sword
13:19 Get Comfortable Handling Tension
17:52 Be Willing to Say No Without Explanation
21:50 Ration Your Attention
27:54 Expand Your Social Circle
32:10 Recap of 5 Steps
32:51 Coaching Info

[@BobbyRio]

Learn more about coaching with Calvin: bobbyriotraining.com/advice/coach-calvin/

[@edrisaceesay9576]

Rio, there is this Girl i was trying to get, one day I told her you are not serious and from that she get upset with me and we finally broke up, I really love her but I don't want to Apologise to her because I may feel low, What should I do? How can I get her back without apologising?

[@mistermagoo777]

Get her back!? No. Move on and get another girl. There’s millions of them out there. While waiting for the next love… love yourself , work on yourself.

[@dereckwarren6276]

Facts 1000x1000

[@annslow41]

Agreed. These 5 principles are still valuable for gaining and keeping the respect of future partners tho

[@konstantink7310]

Ey this Coach sends wrong tipps. I had a conversation with a Woman , i needed more respect After some silence so i sended that i have different plans and exactly that line what in the Video was told . She went emotional and opposite of that what the Outcome should be. Guys This Video and the tipps their don’t work.

[@LateNightChess]

And all are the same! Congratulations! You got played!

[@bryancaraway7206]

Unless the girl is amazing and you take accountability and ownership thay it could actually been you that messed things up

[@darksideofthebright4284]

1. Show your sword, but not use it. 2. Be comfortable in a grey area. 3. Say "NO" without giving a long explanation. 4. Ration your attention. 5. Build up your social proof, your social circle.

[@CoachCalvin]

Flawless list

[@videotampa]

I can't tell you how important these pillars of truth are to maintaining your frame with others. Thanks for the vid guys.

[@RandomInternetUser999]

Being comfortable in the grey area is such a great point. Honestly the grey area is the exciting part of life. A lot of us are anxious and want reassurance but that kills attraction and is boring. I've got some younger guy friends trying to navigate the dating world who I've been coaching some and getting comfortable in the grey area is a big idea I've been trying to get them to understand and run with. It leads to being or at least appearing more confident which is really attractive

[@BobbyRio]

anything in life worth having is won in the gray area

[@BrianNassar]

I just watched this video!! I'm a LPC and have been a behavioral health therapist for 20 years. This is done of the best information I ever heard!!! Thank you and I will be a client tomorrow!!!!! 🙏🏽

[@BobbyRio]

thanks for sharing, glad you thought information was good!

[@Thilosophocl3s]

That's toxic.

[@Darren-su2gm]

The friend zone shouldn't exist

[@Thilosophocl3s]

@@Darren-su2gm it doesn't, it's a conceptual place that only has meaning to those without boundaries, or those without the courage to go it alone. The only unifying aspect is irony that both parties involved actually are alone but one knows exactly where they're going while the other just feeds the fuel to keep the delusion alive. I think we would all spend some time in the phantom zone to show us how selfish and careless (no, not all) most women can actually be if they're not held accountable.

[@davidwhyman1189]

All well driven home by the GO TO phrase "...fully formed as a masculine man" at 2:56. That's what we must aim for. Thank you Calvin.

[@CoachCalvin]

Glad that phrase connected with you, David.

[@dbird9415]

These guys are the BEST!! They know what they are talking about. I'm 46 & I've been dating women my entire life. Been married twice. I've always dated beautiful women & my x wives are no exception. The woman I’m in love with now & want to make my 3rd and final wife, which I do believe she honestly will be has been testing my patience a lot. These guys are totally helping me & I can’t give them enough credit. I will faithfully follow their advice & would love to one day shake their hands & but em both dinner. Rock on fellas - I’m grateful ✌🏼

[@BobbyRio]

so happy to hear the advice is helping you out! best of luck with the new woman!

[@jjducci]

Summed up: A man’s greatest weapon: Letting her know you are willing to walk away… A man’s best friend: A woman’s imagination…

[@bobmorgan5636]

Sometimes, a woman must meet you when you set new boundaries, turn into a more stoic, confident masculine guy who can live without her crap. That's really what she wants, but she refuses to admit it.

[@Imgrateful777]

That stoic idea is crap. She is either all in or not. Why she isn't all in is of course the Big Question! Beyond being happily married for 40 years. My wife is still as stunning as the day I met her. She has gained a whole 3 lbs since our wedding day. Size 0 jeans. She is faithful, supportive, loving, caring, and smarter than me. Not controling, committed, intimately connected. Least of all she looks much younger than her age. Now for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! What can I say, I like her. Now 5 grandchildren. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. So, now they are all adults we do enjoy are us time! We travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting her 110 lb Ferrari frame into her Ferrari. Currently I feel I am the most blessed man alive!!! So, I need some advise as to what we are possibly doing wrong. Always looking to elevate our relationship.😊

[@Luckystoic]

I once dated a woman who had a dog named Buck. This woman was always telling Buck what to do and how to do it. When I finally ended our relationship, she couldn’t understand why I was doing so. I told her that she needed a man like Buck and that I wasn’t Buck

[@Ralph-k5x]

Thanks guys! I'm in the gray area right now, and I feel sooo much calmer watching this video!

[@Coveiled]

I've been consuming some material from other coaches essentially calling for scorched earth - Any setbacks or signs of resistance, just go no contact and move on to the next. Your advice and breakdowns are actually helping me understand what is actually happening and making such drastic measures unnecessary.

[@douglasgallagher1279]

Become bulletproof when interacting with her! Excellent advice from Bobby and the gentleman that just won an Oscar for Oppenheimer. Cheers Gents 🍻

[@BobbyRio]

nice! Glad you enjoyed

[@CoachCalvin]

Hahaha cheers, Douglas

[@Thilosophocl3s]

​@@CoachCalvinwhy not teach guys that it's actually usually better to let exes be exes. Teach them to be the prize, not the simp playing games... How many of these guys get their exes back just to lose them again because they haven't actually taken the time to invest in themselves first, become the prize, and be the one's that are chased. Women need to chase. They need to be the adorer for the romance fantasy to work.

[@CoachCalvin]

@@Thilosophocl3s We teach all that and more in the private coaching.

[@scottlocke.]

Bobby, Glad to see you posted a full length video. Thanks

[@BobbyRio]

glad you enjoyed it.

[@CoachCalvin]

It’s fun to go in depth with these.

[@dbird9415]

“Own the gray area, live in the gray area relax in the gray area” absolutely priceless. Golden

[@nobody123-b5r]

Hey Bobby, I've just wrapped up the final video on your channel, and I wanted to express my gratitude. Your content has truly transformed my perspective, not only on the game but on life itself. Please keep those videos coming so I can indulge in them; I'll be there for every upload!

[@BobbyRio]

hey man, thanks for the comment! Glad you found the videos helpful, got a few already recorded that I'm excited to release.

[@CoachCalvin]

Congrats on your transformation

[@ladyjei]

These are all exceptional points. Please also remember that women will push you away when you suffocate them. I especially like the tips about HAVING HOBBIES and FRIENDS because there are few things more annoying than have a guy wrapping himself around you and making you his everything. Now you have to figure out how to dislodge this leg humper without violence and bitterness. Please have a sense of self and don’t make a woman your entire world. It’s not attractive and it will always end badly for you - if not both of you. Excellent advice in this episode for men of all ages. Thank you.

[@Imgrateful777]

I agree with most of your comments. Beyond being happily married for 40 years. My wife is still as stunning as the day I met her. She is faithful, supportive, loving, caring, smarter than me. Not controling, committed, intimately connected. She has several close friendz and does make time to get together with them with her own set boundaries. She is though my best friend ever! Least of all she looks much younger than her age, its a generic thing I guess. Now for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! What can I say, I like her. Now 5 grandchildren. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. Nursed them all and she love every aspect of raising them. So, now they are all adults we very much enjoy are us time! We travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting her 110 lb Ferrari frame into her Ferrari. Currently I feel I am the most nlessed man alive!!! We accomplished all this without any self help programs.

[@dbird9415]

I want to say the chaps who say “Next” and “amature hour” they just haven’t had the great women. Find some great women & you’ll want keep em. These guys are spot on & very helpful

[@CapitanTavish]

Thank you. This is a video I needed. My gf, the person I thought since yesterday was going to be the person of my life, told me she lost respect for me. I needed a revaluation of me, of her and of the dynamics. Thank you guys

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@AugustusTiberius-tq1gw]

My X burned 🔥 her bridge with me as soon as she found a rebound guy. My X lacked accountability, empathy and compassion. I leveled up. While my X down graded.

[@frankbarenbach6044]

Thanks for the video and the captions. Makes it easier to understand for non-English speakers. 😊👍🏻

[@CoachCalvin]

Glad to have you watching

[@willambable]

Numerous times I've asked girls over social media to meet up and they always told me they finally answered after a few weeks because I never followed up after that. One of them lasted a few years and was great. When they say it's the little things they ain't talking about cards n roses

[@ki-ka]

Could not agree more - respect is everything. Therefore never take your ex back, after she betrayed you.

[@Johntravolta-w8d]

Living with an incurable disease is so hard, but you just have to live life day by day as it goes by (Cancer sucks)

[@ratdaddee]

God bless you, buddy. Stay strong!

[@johnkay6639]

You got this bro

[@spcflicker]

much better video than i expected. thanks guys. catch this sub!

[@oilyrooster]

Just found y'all and damn I've been dealing with the exact situations you present. Oddly enough, when I've instinctively acted like y'all say I should things go perfect but then I devolve into some of the bad behaviors y'all bring up so I'm seeing how I should move.

[@JasonAuger-gs4ve]

Definitely dont need any validation from social media, but everything else was great. Thanks guys! ❤

[@frontlinethru]

Not validation. It is just a tool, like the rest of the list to let her know you are a man, not a puppet.

[@howlingwolf9729]

One of the best things I've watched and learnt for years. Thank you lads.

[@muskeldeutsch4769]

Very useful video 🫴 Thank you, coach Bobby Rio!

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@amaansheikh175]

Thank you bobby , I've been learning from you from a long time now and it helped a lot . ❤️

[@BobbyRio]

Happy to hear that! Thanks for watching

[@kirkjaygomez5566]

The big plot twist after focusing yourself and getting comfortable at your own skin. They became an ordinary person in your eye then you will realized that its just your love that makes them special. Wake up brother.

[@TheRumpelstinskin]

I love this video! Packed with great advice. I'd love to watch more on respect and boundaries ❤

[@Rossimac_]

Married almost 10 years… I’ve been seeing signs my woman is a covert narcissist. Steadily peeling away respect… highs are lower, lows are consistently low. She treats me with the same respect she shows the kids. No joke. I’m in the gray area right now…. My expectations have dwindled to nearly zero, fellas. You have to let go of the expectations and be cool hand Luke. It’s absolutely sad…. That it’s a giant game. So I stopped playing. I’m still loving but I accept the space she is pushing me to… and the constant ignoring and lack of affection. I’ve actually had a mental funeral for the idealism I was holding on to about the relationship we had. I don’t know what the future holds… really don’t. I am almost certain she’ll never respect me again but continue to devalue me and eventually discard… but every day, I focus on myself, being cool hand Luke. Going to the gym. Not flirting with others or playing a game but just looking to be a fun person again.

[@REVAS1601]

Don't lose hope brotha, 16 years here and working on yourself is step 1. You need to bring yourself to the table and sacrifice the peace in your relationship to be heard. And be ready to walk away when the shit testing and disrespect comes... all women do this its built in. If you get past all that, you can rebuild your relationship... most men don't go this route... they suffer in silence. So far so good with me, but you got to stay the course.

[@Jeronimo.67]

Was married 12 years. Same thing. The exhaustive damage control nearly killed me and we ended divorced with 3 young kids. Stop her selfish and controlling BS as fast as possible or prepare for divorce.

[@Imgrateful777]

Wow. This stuff is so sad to hear. We have one life to live on earth. Time is unreplaceable. Beyond being happily married for 40 years. My wife is still as stunning in every way as the day I met her. She has always been faithful, supportive, loving, caring, smarter than me. Regardless of my early issues I brought into the marriage. It though can be either spouse. She was not controling, but her approach was being committed, and always intimately connected. She is now for the past 28 years my best friend as I made all the right course coreectons! Least of all she looks much younger than her age, even with putting up with me early marriage disfunction. I tell her its God's gift to her for being a saint! I look back and realize until I emptied my baggage it was impossible to get better. I allowed so much to be stolen, but that ship sailed and is long gone. Now for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! Now we have 5 grandchildren who are priceless. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. Nursed them all and she love every aspect of raising them. So, now they are all adults we very much enjoy are us time! We travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting her 110 lb Ferrari frame into her Ferrari. Things can get better if we look to find the root of the problem, as though we where told there is $100 million dollar check made out to our name somewhere in our house. If that wouldn't motivate someone to take action, then all hope is lost! We accomplished all this without any self help programs. Not that I agree with all the suggestions its a start in the right direction. I hope things move in a healthy direction, but it takes an effort, time, forgiveness, and patience! I am the most blessed man alive!!!😊

[@jimowens2046]

Bobby Calvin ? You guys are great! enjoyed that segment especially mastering the grey zone! You guys are powerful together, want to see more! Jim

[@BobbyRio]

glad you enjoyed it. I've got a few more videos with Calvin already in the pipeline, and should be released over the next month... We just recorded a "case study" video on how he turned things around for a client after a woman told him she "wanted space".... its a great video, as he provides everything the client did (including the texts he sent her)

[@CoachCalvin]

That grey zone is where it’s won or lost. Master the grey zone and so many doors open for you. Really glad you liked it, Jim

[@felixpeters4953]

Move on. Life is too short to wait on anyone. Do what you love to do and have fun doing it.

[@adamdesalvo6949]

You're teaching us how to be men again. And dating comes after that. Bravo guys!.

[@BobbyRio]

glad you're finding it helpful. And yes, everything stems from a place of masclininty. When you get that right, everything else becomes easier.

[@sarinamazina2188]

By far, best video guys! So much pertain to me its like you've been following me

[@stevestevesteve]

Anyone else watch these videos and say to themselves, “what the fuck is wrong with women?!” So many hoops to jump though just for the a normal basic relationship.

[@mattblack9344]

Exactly.liking someone shouldn't be a game.Just do it normal

[@Imgrateful777]

Wow. This stuff is so sad to hear. We have one life to live on earth. Time is unreplaceable. Beyond being happily married for 40 years. My wife is still as stunning in every way as the day I met her. She has always been faithful, supportive, loving, caring, smarter than me. Regardless of my early issues I brought into the marriage. It though can be either spouse. She was not controling, but her approach was being committed, and always intimately connected. She is now for the past 28 years my best friend as I made all the right course coreectons! Least of all she looks much younger than her age, even with putting up with me early marriage disfunction. I tell her its God's gift to her for being a saint! I look back and realize until I emptied my baggage it was impossible to get better. I allowed so much to be stolen, but that ship sailed and is long gone. Now for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! Now we have 5 grandchildren who are priceless. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. Nursed them all and she love every aspect of raising them. So, now they are all adults we very much enjoy are us time! We travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting her 110 lb Ferrari frame into her Ferrari. Things can get better if we look to find the root of the problem, as though we where told there is $100 million dollar check made out to our name somewhere in our house. If that wouldn't motivate someone to take action, then all hope is lost! We accomplished all this without any self help programs. Not that I agree with all the suggestions its a start in the right direction. I hope things move in a healthy direction, but it takes an effort, time, forgiveness, and patience! I am the most blessed man alive!!!😊

[@MrRobertcarlson]

I dump any woman who disrespects me. I am who I am and don't need to be in a relationship full of fakery to regain respect. My girlfriend now is more than 2 years, if she starts playing these disrespect games, fine. Then I'll be free to get someone else just as easily as I always have.

[@WanderlustOnWheelz]

Great video with real Content.. Not only this video, but I've been watching your videos since last 1.5 years bobby, and it not only helped me to overcome a break-up, but has transformed my personality and I've become a real man. These are helpful in all parts of life. My heartfelt gratitude for teaching us all😊 By the way, I'm from India, do let me know if you ever plan to visit India & I'll happy to host.😀

[@CoachCalvin]

Good work bouncing back from that breakup and using it as a catalyst to become your best self

[@prosenjitdas7479]

What's the point of getting back a girl who left me when I was in level 4 and she was in 5 so what I will do, I'll take myself to level 10 and when I'll go on 10 I'll want a girl who's in level 10 and not go back to the previous level 5 one, nor I'll crave to be with her of want her respect or company!!!

[@steve6886]

WHY AM I GETTING VIBES FROM THE MOVIE *SAY ANYTHING"... STREET BENCH SCENE ?😂,🤣🤣🤣

[@johnroman7659]

Actually my ex asks her sister about what I’m doing. I tell her the truth, loving being single with choices!!!!🎉🎉

[@Ottomanmint]

The GREY area works wonders for married men as well, adding a sprinkle of mistery with confidence can go a long way 😊

[@mitrakasg8519]

Great video! Thanks alot for doing them in a 5 tips format it makes it alot easier to remember!

[@BobbyRio]

Glad it was helpful!

[@davidwhyman1189]

And another GO TO comment, at 13:28, is "The game is won in the gray area". Cheers.

[@BobbyRio]

almost everything worth having in life, is won in the gray area.

[@jaspergabriels8933]

We need more then every Bobby his advice

[@MikeGadda]

on the fifth rule, what if your ex contacts you and asks why did I avoid her? What happened to us? Are you avoiding me? DO you really want me to even be here? (the last one is what gets me all the time) The only responses I have seem callous and aggressive. (This is in the hallway exchange you guys created for context)

[@abrambadalyan965]

Dammm😮😮😮😮facts 💯 R i.p Kevin Samuels the one and only said the same thing!!! He said if we're soilders and the team Leader starts crying 😭 and saying there gonna get us" 😡 there showing weakness.

[@Deron8564]

These are some fairly practical and easy to understand tips. And a lot of these work even if you're not trying to regain respect from a woman, but ways to set yourself up to start on the right path. Although i will disagree on social media. I am generation X. Social media is fake as F to me, for the most part. I believe that a mature man should severely limit his social media presence.

[@BobbyRio]

thanks for watching, glad you found the tips helpful. I agree about social media, but everyone's different in that regard.

[@Saru-yr3qk]

You're from an older generation. Most of the women you date within your age range won't care about social media either. If you're younger though, you're making pursuing women extremely difficult by not having a social media account. That's my problem. Not just women, everyone within my age range will not want your phone number. They only want your Instagram, and will give you their number once they're more comfortable with you.

[@Deron8564]

@@Saru-yr3qk men aren't supposed to pursue women. Women subconscious disqualify men who persue them. Women also subconsciously disqualify men who overuse social media and interact with her social media posts a lot. It triggers her "simp alarm".

[@THE_REAL_KiNGTOPNOTCH]

I thought from first look you guys were a couple of sniveling dweebs. But after i watched this video, i realised you gentleman have great incite and knowledge. You got my subscribe.

[@BobbyRio]

haha well, thanks I guess :)

[@robnaranjo1980]

To men of the world: Greetings, The Gray area arena becoming your "Home Court" advantage, connects completely to using your gray matter -- your brain. The heart goes "to h_ _ _ in a hand basket -- put your heart away, go with the gray matter (brain) in the gray zone. I also agree with a prior post that espoused, "What the h_ _ _ is wrong with women?" Answer: They don't really know what they want and that is innate, it's hardwired into them. It goes back to early man thousands of years ago where the 35:27 35:27 y had the very same vexing problems that modern man is experiencing. Respect was just as important to early man then as it is now! Take these gentleman's advice on this podcast, and go with it. Like an old commercial used to say, "Never let them (women) see you sweat . Good luck, R.N. Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA

[@Imgrateful777]

I must disagree with most of your comments. Beyond being happily married for 40 years. My wife is still as stunning as the day I met her. She is faithful, supportive, loving, caring, smarter than me. Not controling, committed, intimately connected. She has several close friendz and does make time to get together with them with her own set boundaries. She is though my best friend ever! Least of all she looks much younger than her age, its a generic thing I guess. Now for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! What can I say, I like her. Now 5 grandchildren. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. Nursed them all and she love every aspect of raising them. So, now they are all adults we very much enjoy are us time! We travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting her 110 lb Ferrari frame into her Ferrari. Currently I feel I am the most nlessed man alive!!! We accomplished all this without any self help programs.

[@khristhompson]

We split up she camexrpund said she wanted to wprk on it then i flipped cos she was ignoring me now saying i wont get anothef chance its frustrating cos my actions caused it to get this far if id of watched this beforehand, if only man 😢

[@helder6175]

Not interested in damaged goods. Time to move on if she's seemingly beyond repair. The problem out there nowadays is that there are a number of women with excessive wear and mileage even if they're still decent looking on the surface... including the younger ones. As a man approaching fifty and is currently separated from his wife of twenty years, it's disheartening. However, I just keep my chin up and keep doing my thing without any expectations from others. It avoids further disappointment and doesn't interfere so much with my confidence/self-esteem because of knowing my self worth. Be strong, fellas.

[@backyardrailroader]

Listening to this again got me thinking.... on an unrelated subject. I have been learning Argentine Tango Dancing for almost 6 years. While I am getting better at it, it is raking me 2-3x as long to be able to dance as other people are able to dance in 2 years. When I am not do I ng thi b fs perfectly, I am told about it by my dance partner, I do nit SIMO out, but acknowledge I am doing something wrong and continue on. I may need to go one step further if it is happening frequently during the dance.

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Regaining her respect is all about actions, not words. When you improve yourself, the desire follows naturally. Anybody else working on themselves and seeing the benefits in their relationships? Let’s talk about what’s worked for you!*

[@KevinBruceRoy316]

This is some great stuff. Thanks so much you guys! I’m going through a bit of a gray area myself atm.

[@BobbyRio]

glad you enjoyed, being able to handle the gray area is key.

[@KevinBruceRoy316]

@@BobbyRio I think I’m doing well so far! I’m learning to feel at home in the gray area and now she’s viewing my stories first and messaging me first etc.

[@reggiereginato1526]

Great stuff Bobby! Rob Judge, Chris Sixty, Jon Sinn, and now Calvin. You definitely have the All Stars! By the way, Calvin reminds me of Damone from Fast Times....... "Hey Rebecca, glad you can make it, make yourself at home." LMAO!

[@BobbyRio]

glad you enjoyed... lol, i'll have to make Calvin do a Damone impression next time lol

[@CoachCalvin]

About to watch Fast Times in honor of this comment

[@rajatsrivastava2657]

This makes hella sense..thnx

[@BobbyRio]

glad it resonated

[@MadinahInsight]

3:55 good idea

[@Rafe-h9z]

The captions are not perfect but I appreciate them. I am not hearing impaired either, it’s just a nice touch.

[@BobbyRio]

thanks for the feedback!

[@jjducci]

It would be dope if the next video was for guys dating a girl with borderline personality disorder, aka: BPD… Yes, I know every single girl has this, but there are girls who are way worse than others. I a genuinely care about this girl, but with her emotions, I don’t know how to maintain a steady relationship with her respecting me all the way through.

[@brianharris4121]

Thank you very much for the video❤ Please make a video on how to gain her back through text messages🙏🙏 I was with a girl for a few months, and made all the mistakes you mentioned in that video "5 mistakes men make when she polls away"😢😢 I know she likes me but we didn't stay friends so the only way to gain her back is through text messages...

[@BobbyRio]

we've got a video coming up soon with a 'case study' on how to do it.

[@brianharris4121]

@@BobbyRio Thanks !!❤️

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

Really good practical information.

[@hendrikmostert4463]

This was the most amazing thing to watch. My ex girl left me a week ago when i was at work she just left with our child for now my mindset is in so many places we havent spoken since then but shes playing very hard to get but im not stupid to talk or building convos with her shes not gonna get me in that way cause i think she lost respect for me and i really need help by showing her that this wont get to me i will come out better and she will regret doing this to me she cheated on me and seem to find the easy way out by leaving me like that as to face me in person. Please i need help.

[@reecejones51]

Mate, if she cheated on you and left. MOVE ON. I'm in a similar situation, she left me took my home and now the lies she told me arent adding up. When you start to heal and the trauma isnt so intense you start to realise the manipulation. Its hard to do bro but you must. Try therapy, counselling reach out to friends, work out, go hiking I found that really good 👍🏻

[@Mike-wh7nf]

Yeah please bro take it from me. Taking back a cheater will not make you happy. It will only prolong your pain and suffering and most likely will repeat itself again and again for as long as you keep allowing your woman to cheat on you. YOU DO NOT DESERVE THAT BRO! You will go from a simple broken heart that will be healed up in no time to becoming a severely damaged man for being in a relationship with a serial cheater.

[@lhughes521]

Such a great video! And I have your program the Scrambler!!!

[@BobbyRio]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@utubberize]

At this party your talkin about...What if she thinks your not interested and goes to another guy?

[@MrByxiga]

I’m going into a breakup but even donos still love her I don’t want her back. I agree she lost the respect for me and that sucks I’m now trying to not be the same old loser I used to be. But I still love her and I’m not ever taking her back again doesn’t matter how hurt I am

[@CoachSteveJandS]

You need to do a Ted talk bobby or a speaking tour...

[@BobbyRio]

I don't think Ted would let me on lol, but thanks!

[@brianandlynphilippines]

Ex's are best left ex's. If she broke up with you for any reason... She really never gave a damn about you, especially if she has been bangin some other dude before "coming back". No, bad idea, move on

[@aquastone5870]

Women want deep honest transparent intimacy where 2 become one. Men who lack the maturity, desire and ability to feather her nest and provide her with the necessary security and love within her expected time frame will be moved into the friend zone

[@glowsticks2003]

Honestly, i did, but her moving after breaking up f no dude now I'm happy 👌

[@backyardrailroader]

If one likes going to the beach a lot and the other enjoys hiking in the mountains on the weekends, even though you like each other you may have different lifestyles that do not mesh together. Best scenario: The best you can be is friends and move on finding someone else to be inva deeper relationship with. And yes, men and women can be still friends without getting deep into it.

[@LeslieTaylor4Jesus]

No, and thats all lies, she just wants to be able to cheat without you caring, and you take her back shes just gonna dump you for the next guy, You men start doing all us men a favor, they dump you, and go off cheating, You never want them back, and dont take me back, dont ask em to come back, its no, go away, and dont ever call me again, For all our sakes.

[@UncleDavid]

go heal.

[@LeslieTaylor4Jesus]

@@UncleDavid If your so low life, that youd accept some cheater, its you that needs to heal, and go get yourself a STD tests too.

[@PremiumUserUltra]

​@UncleDavid lol no u

[@unabridgeddick6645]

Yep. When the 5-7 ovulation cycle is done, she'll want her security blanket piggy bank dummy back. 🤣

[@realxreack497]

This is Personal

[@WilliamBrownson-w2e]

"You say you married somebody (or didn't)? Great! Welcome to the family! We're part of the same flow chart now! (explain later). Hey, is that a platter of those tiny ass shrimps that I really like that I see? Hey, gotta go, catch you later, great seeing you, and may the force be with you!"

[@comitosway]

Coach Bobby, my girl recently said she wanted space about a month ago. She came back last week and we hung out. Had a great time. Then she left to go see her niece and sister and we I was doing no contact for like 10 days then I invited her out to my buddies birthday party this weekend when she arrives back from her trip, she left me on read… what do you suggest?

[@kavishkhamesra3582]

Thanks guys, ur awesome #legendary .... This might be the best things I heard today. Not to mention , help me to be with my son in our marriage . Cheers

[@wulfclaw4921]

Can you guys do one on ....She had a stalker years ago... I get that...but will not allow me to pick her up or know where she lives. We've only been on a few dates and now she keeps sh!t testing me and cancelling after i set up a date. I havent shown anger about it...but WTF. It's annoying. I walked away before, then she contacted me months later.

[@a.d.b535]

He can regain my respect when he apologizes for the lies, and qu quit talking with the ex GF he refused to put in the rear view mirror.

[@StaceyFields-w9l]

Hey guys It sounds like you guys have this thing mastered I would like to know how to get in touch

[@JbStuart]

I have a few ?s I need a lil advice on

[@chadag777]

I need more bar type hook up techniques I’m not looking to get a girl back I’m a single dad 52 but everyone tell me I look like I’m in my late 30’s early 40’s I’m retired I have a place in florida and now summer place is Pennsylvania . Thanks bro love the videos

[@BobbyRio]

nice! Here's some that cover more "pickup" type of material: kzbin.info/aero/PLm_2CgReqE395t12HmOh0Fqf33K7582Sp

[@kardzfn21]

How about this what to do after a woman says "No" see 3 or 4 yrs ago I used to dog/house see before moving? I lived there over 30 yrs of my life I didn't like hearing "No" she told me you know I had your Mom in 2nd grade" She was always my favorite teacher?" I said "Oh yeah" She said "Yeah, you had an awesome Mom since my Mom passed from Cancer in 09" That 1 was awesome to hear but it stuck w/me like I did have an awesome Mom and apparently 1 heck of a teacher" I didn't doubt when she told me that it, oh man I'm thinking about memories of my Mom it's a hard 1 to take man! I loved hearing my Mom was her favorite teacher despite not getting the date?

[@joshscarabin]

I’ll be single until I find a sane woman who doesn’t play these nonsensical games

[@eldonkeate]

I should have listened to this video longer. As soon as I heard show your sword i ended the video. I've been sending anh women that ever lost respect for me my sword pictures. Unsolicited thinking that would work. I found out the hard way that made my situation worse.

[@amanjonheyp9689]

Dear Bobby, Something doesn't make sense.Could you explain it? Please and thank you. The title " Making a woman respect you again is the first step towards attraction." you wrote it, it was all about the grey area when **you have communication** with an ex or a girl who we can't get. OK Most break ups or rejections they stop their communication and they have 0 communication , cause the initial breaker tends to distant himself/herself from the other person. Dating advice in **whole** youtube tends to promote "no contact " and "radiosilence" to get an ex back. The big question is HOW to make a women reach out when she break up with you/rejects ? The breaker is not reaching out because in their minds they think they have "granted" the other person. If the breaker is a women will reach out only when she find out that the other guy has moved on or he pass his time good but only when she is sure about it. If the guy use grey area , I don't think grey area will have a possitive affect on her to reach out to a man. She will be affected but it will give her and negative emotions of resistance. I want to be clear , resistance come 1. by your video ,if she watch this video she gains informations and she understands the gameplay and the 2. some women(especially breakers or the one who rejects) are by their nature let things flow and will tolerate the grey area and keep pushing it. I used chatgpt to find out grey area vs radiosilence and what I find interesting enought is based here the results : Grey Area: The "grey area" typically refers to a state of ambiguity or uncertainty in a relationship. It's when the status or nature of the relationship is not clearly defined. This could manifest in various ways, such as when two people are unsure if they're exclusively dating, if they're just friends, or if they're something in between. It can also refer to situations where there's confusion about feelings or intentions, leading to uncertainty about where the relationship is headed. Radio Silence: "Radio silence" usually refers to a period of time when one person in a relationship or potential relationship stops communicating with the other person abruptly and without explanation. This could be in the context of texting, calling, or any form of communication. It often leaves the other person feeling confused, frustrated, or hurt due to the sudden lack of contact. When a women is in a relationship (or not )with a man (and she initiates break up or reject) we have radiosilence, because she initiate it. What strategy Bobby you do in this case? ( My opinion mirror her and do radiosilence or walk away and never look back) When we have communication we have grey area.Example after 1 year of no communication she gets in grey area? Thanks it would be good to hear you from you back in the comment. I have used scrambler and the grey area - how to stay on a women mind programms in old times and really did a great work

[@sashnaumoski7479]

No one has an hour to read message mate

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I don't know if it is better or worse the older women get. I've had a woman in her 50's play these games. I met a woman in her 60's older than me and she's playing games. I would expect better from a woman 6 years older than me. But she's also terrible at it and gets advice from another woman. It would be so much easier if she was honest and just said "sorry for flaking is that invitation still available?"

[@TheRealFFknReal]

At least the title of the video is honest. While following this advice is actually an effective way the “trick” certain women, the problem is, the men who follow it aren’t equipped to hold onto what it helps them attain because it requires they keep up the act. A man who does these things, not because

[@toddpiorkowski9325]

Can u post a video about when a girl tells you not to talk to her b But her behavior has been erratic. Should I let her contact me or contact her

[@aquastone5870]

Loyal intelligent commitment minded women only lose interest if the man presented himself fraudulently as something different than he really is. When a man presents himself authentically, honestly and transparently and she falls in live with that man and has a real spiritual, emotional and physical relationship with him, she wants to marry and put down roots with him!

[@Imgrateful777]

Spot on!!!!! Wow. This stuff is so sad to hear. We have one life to live on earth. Time is unreplaceable. Beyond being married for 40 years, the last 28 have been blessed. I found the problem, and it was me. My wife is still as stunning in every way as the day I met her. She has always been faithful, supportive, loving, caring, and smarter than me. Regardless of my early issues, I brought into the marriage. It, though, can be either spouse. She was not controlling, but her approach was being committed and always intimately connected. She is now for the past 28 years my best friend as I made all the right course coreectons! Least of all, she looks much younger than her age, even with putting up with me early marriage disfunction. I tell her it's God's gift to her for being a saint! I look back and realized that until I emptied my baggage, it was impossible to get better. I allowed so much to be stolen, but that ship sailed and is long gone. Thank God I didn’t lose her!!!! Now, for the good part. We have had 7 children together in our first 11 years of marriage! Now we have 5 grandchildren who are priceless. All 7 births had natural deliveries. Last 3 at home with midwives. That was her idea, and went great. Nursed them all and she love every aspect of raising them. So, now they are all adults we very much enjoy are us time! Now days we travel, thank God we have financially done "very well" through my business ventures. I just surprised her with a 2023 Ferrari F488 Pista for her birthday last year. She was absolutely blown away! She has no problem getting herself in and out of the car as she has been blessed with a 110 lb. Ferrari frame. That is from God goodness to her, and he is well pleased with her!! Things can get better if we look to find the root of the problem, as though we where told there is $100 million dollar check made out to our name somewhere in our house. If that wouldn't motivate someone to take action, then all hope is lost! We accomplished all this without any man made self help programs, butvthrough the grace of God. I am the most blessed man alive!!!😊

[@NoName-zb1gm]

I did not know a person knows who's watching their Facebook stories. Can they tell even if you're not friends on Facebook?

[@BobbyRio]

yes you can see who watches your stories. I believe you can even if you're not friends (although not sure how you would see them)

[@alexkerr4847]

I come from a family thars vocal and goes wtf when someonss out of line. But when i finally got my girl. We were going out. I arrive at her place and go in for a kiss and her arm reaches out and pushes my chest. I was like wtf but i said nothing . Stood back feeling like an idiot. Just wanted to say hi and give her a quick kiss. I loved her. Didnt know about shit tests. Anyway soon she was disrespecting me. And we are no longer dating.i wouldnt let anyone else away with that but i didnt want to lose her. Never again. I think what youre saying is i shouldve left because i didnt want to over react

[@abubakarisa5440]

Am married for 12 years with 3 wonderful kids.But I noticed lots of changes in my wife. She no longer respects me like she use too and always on her phone then she gives priority to her work and her colleagues not the family any more.Have discussed with her still she hasn't changed. How can I regain my respect again and her attention.

[@JeffMTX]

Stay for the kids, then split when they’re over 18. The kids lives are more important than those years, but they don’t need the mom dad stability as much once they’re pulling away from the family.

[@KevinWalters-bd8bj]

Hey what if u have kids and u r the only one taking care of the kids, and u working but not making enough to take care of ur spouse and children. She then leaves u and told u that she's not happy and that the two of u ain't compatible. The kids aren't hers and she has none, how do u deal with that??

[@nevinbrockett1858]

When Calvin is talking at 2:40, he says “erased,” but the writing says “embraced.” That really had me confused for a minute, I had to watch it a few times to realize he said “erased.” Get it together man.😂

[@BobbyRio]

lol yea i caught that too, too late. def changes the meaning of what he's saying, sorry about that.

[@alexflips393]

Finally got Calvin back on 👍

[@BobbyRio]

more coming from him soon too

[@CoachCalvin]

Thanks, Alex

[@tonyb.9827]

Hey man where the case study link for the girl whoo needs space mentioned in this video???

[@BobbyRio]

the video of the case study will be released soon here, when we put it up, we'll also put a report

[@Owam777]

Thank you so much for this video time readjust

[@BobbyRio]

glad it was helpful!

[@earx23]

All good general advice for dating. However, isn't wanting your ex back a minority report? You don't have options? What makes you think this time things will work out? Think about it.

[@jasonherron8332]

My girlfriend of a year now she refuses to open up an talk to me about anything disagreements her wants or needs she says she don't know how

[@GUITARTIME2024]

Her interest is lessening. You've likely been too needy and too available.