Seductress is a jezabel spirit it's a seducing spirit
@aboveaveragejane31263 жыл бұрын
@@beeaboutabbabusiness8738 Yes true, I focus on the other three, especially flower
@michellekalski88233 жыл бұрын
@@beeaboutabbabusiness8738 not necessarily. The seductress can just be sensual and natural.
@chavelahutchinson26573 жыл бұрын
@@beeaboutabbabusiness8738 No...some women are just beautiful and curvy and catch men's attention. That doesn't mean they're whorish. Matronly, obese, homely looking chicks tend to constantly label others " jezebel." Every woman wants to be desired but most of us can't pull it off....so we become haters.
@RachelScottDance3 жыл бұрын
You come across as motherly with elegance! But the motherly is likely because you are mentoring us ♡
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@shantewilliams76843 жыл бұрын
I agree with Rachel Joanna... ever I'm getting sexy, seductress vibes as well!
@michellekalski88233 жыл бұрын
These are all different sides of myself. People and situations bring out one aspect more than the others.
@Brandy33193 жыл бұрын
The same goes for me Michelle.. You’re spot on!
@Pinkpanda8113 жыл бұрын
I mostly embody the sophisticated/regal energy. Only recently have I embraced this about myself. I used to try to tone it down in order to not be intimidating, but that's just who God created me to be. I know that my empathy and warmth are enough to make me approachable for the right king 💕 I also have a good bit of seductive energy. I think of you as a regal, seductive, sweetheart. Like you know how to switch between all three at the right moments. Great video, Chengi!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Yes Queen! You are necessary xx Thank you ❤️
@alexusrichardson3182 жыл бұрын
YES God's creation. These WEAK male are not your fault. They have their own insecurities that has nothing to do with you.
@alabasterbox1433 жыл бұрын
Definitely I intimidate men. Could never understand it - until now! I am a massage therapist that enjoys nurturing my clients. Viewed a video with you and R C Blake's and can't get it off my mind. Earlier this month I retired from the position of sergeant in the jail. I've been operating in masculine energy for so long. I want to understand the femine energy that is my divine birthright. Thank you for sharing this gift of teaching.
@nurtured-channel29533 жыл бұрын
I am naturally number 4 The sophisticated elegant energy...and I can testify to the fact that it makes it harder to be approached by some people...but I am definitely a magnet to wealthy people . I am also the Nurturing one.
@nomvulavmoloko62553 жыл бұрын
I am the motherly elegant. Problem-solver, with Queen presence. Thanks for this video, Chengi. 💝💝
@angievisocchi11013 жыл бұрын
Same 👏
@andreabryan82503 жыл бұрын
Love that summary...Motherly elegance
@alexusrichardson3182 жыл бұрын
I would go with the sophisticated elegant energy woman!!. I have been told since high school days by boys," they feel like they can not measure up to me. They feel like they are not good enough ". Most often times they are correct!!
@Julia-0411-k8x3 жыл бұрын
When I am leaning too much in my masculine energy I am very loud and dominant but I found out that my feminine side is actually very soft and flower like and its funny because I was this very bossy, loud women and now I still am sometimes but more in a kind of happy way than an angry way like I was before , but most of the time now I have this soft, don't want to argue with anyone energy the only real disadvantage is that when I am leaning into my feminine energy I seem very naive and I sometimes really am and I tend to attract people who want to take advantage of my good will. Your energy I am not sure I think mixture of elegant and motherly.
@smores89823 жыл бұрын
This was very interesting. I’m definitely not the sexy seductress, I don’t flirt. I am also not very motherly or maternal. I suppose I’m a bit of the other two feminine energies; the (shy) delicate flower and the sophisticated elegant one - both of which I’ve been told before
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Great self awareness ❤️
@mizzmohagani342 жыл бұрын
1. Definitely I am maternal And nurturing energy 2.QUEEN CHENGI IS Sophisticated Combined with Nurturing Energy for sure 💯💯💯
@mitsumiko3 жыл бұрын
Unfortunately I'm not yet in this list 😅... I'm the boss lady... But I'm working toward the elegant feminine woman 🙌 thanks for the video ❤️
@Miss_Nontoe2 жыл бұрын
I used to be boss too like full on 😆😅and I’ve worked to become more feminine with it and over time I think I just fell on the Elegant group. But I still struggle with dating down, I’ve done it so much I thought it was a curse. Lol but my dating down mentality is “shredding off” I laugh at myself sometimes like Girrrrl🤣. Being a women is just a whole lot of constant work on yourself journey.
@m.s91463 жыл бұрын
Great video. I’m a combination of 3 and 4. I attract men of wealth and power but also masculine. It’s a challenge to most men. Finally met the right one 11 years ago, he chased me until I was caught. He thinks I’m very sexy though and feminine.
@Miss_Nontoe2 жыл бұрын
I’m an elegant woman (dominantly) and secretly Motherly. and I usually date down😭😭😭😭😭😭now I understand why I keep losing and I’m unlearning a lot 😭😭😭. I’ve been masculine all my life and that has been a hard pill to swallow🥲it explains why I have been in therapy for over 8 years. Now I just realized that Oh huny your survival mode that you have been using has kept you masculine😓. Now I’m learning how and what I can do to rest in my feminine. Honestly, I love it here❤️
@tolandahughes51673 жыл бұрын
I think your energy touches a Lil bit of them all...you know how to balance them all..you go girl!!!
@sly62482 жыл бұрын
I'm the one with the motherly thing with some elegance......I consciously wanna upgrade to majorly elegant. It makes me feel more confident. You come across to me as elegant.
@BlackPearlMona3692 жыл бұрын
Oh, very nice said... In my journey back to build my stolen femininty, I learned that I have to balance between all these types of femininty. Once being balanced, I feel I will attract my soulmate....
@karrykay17283 жыл бұрын
I definitely give off more of the Motherly energy (I’m always giving wisdom and my friends tell me about how nurturing I am- people off the street/in public can tell me their whole life story in detail that they wouldn’t dare say to someone else(I appreciate it lol)) with a mix of sweetheart energy but I actually want to balance all of these. I definitely want to work on my physical appearance so that I have that Elegant and sexy confidence. I hope I learn and master the seductive type energy bc I feel I am lacking in that area 😭🥺 You are amazing for making this video and I get very much Elegant and sweetheart with seductive in there as well for you Miss Chengi!! ❤️❤️😍✨😁
@karrykay17283 жыл бұрын
Now that I rewatched the video I don’t think I’m as soft as I’d like to be. I’m very outspoken and will be working on that. Still a sweetheart but not the quiet girl type of sweetheart lol 😆
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
You are a gift to the world! We are so blessed to have you and you can definately develop and work on the others with this strong foundation. Thank you for your perspective on me! You are loved xx
@melissacoleman60193 жыл бұрын
Classy and elegant. Your energy classy and elegant
@rochellelinder36143 жыл бұрын
I think your feminine energy is a bit of elegant and seductress. My feminine energy is flower and motherly from what you described those two energies to be
@April-tn7zz2 жыл бұрын
I think I’m more mothering & soft & delicate! I think your more sophisticated and elegant
@NisiJ283 жыл бұрын
Definitely the regal snob. Or at least that’s how I’m taken. And I hear time and time again how I’m intimidating, or make others feel that I think I’m better, or “I thought you were stuck up” after getting to know me. Uuuugh!!!! Still waiting on that wealthy king though. I definitely put myself together in a way that makes unworthy men feel not good enough which is a blessing and a curse I guess. I try to laugh and joke around more but I always feel like I have to be someone I’m not completely to make others feel comfortable. It feels untrue to who I am, what I like, and what I will tolerate and will not. At my core, I am a goofy silly thing though. Just depends on my comfort level. You’re motherly and regal I think. Your accent is EVERYTHING!!! So very classy!!
@The4s2 жыл бұрын
I have a mix of all of these. So now I am just single and loving the process of taking care of and getting to know myself ❤
@patriciawilliams51722 жыл бұрын
Nurturing and soft spoken
@djemaaroyster62723 жыл бұрын
I am mostly the flower so setting standards and boundaries keeps me safe.
@RizaMukherjee3 жыл бұрын
I think you are more of the mother like feminine energy with a mix of elegant energy! I'm a mixture of wallflower and mother like energy..70%-30%
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Awww just what the world needs. Thank you 💕
@misslondiwenene8038 Жыл бұрын
I think I'm type 4, sophisticated and classy😍
@reneecrotty69102 жыл бұрын
Okay sometimes I imagine you as a motherly mother too. You would make a wonderful mother and aunt! Just agree with other comments. You are like a really loving mother x
@blackswanrelationshipacademy2 жыл бұрын
I love that ☺️
@tolandahughes51673 жыл бұрын
My Feminine expression energy resonates with the sophisticated/classy....I always thought that men thought I am intimidating..he just put words to my energy expression.
@gosegomareme63653 жыл бұрын
i have a seductress energy with a little bit of sophisticated only because i have been told that i look unapproachable...you are definitely maternal and elegant energies😍😍😍😍
@angelsemien-dugar85773 жыл бұрын
Charging energy is sophisticated I’m sophisticated for sure and nurturing
@lisaedmonds95733 жыл бұрын
I Am Flower Energy. And, yes, I grapple with attracting that strong masculine man who is overly controlling; something I just cannot tolerate. I feel you are a Flower Energy as well.
@edytadelfel2493 жыл бұрын
Love your Channel and your content! I am learning heaps. My Feminine energy is 3 out of 4, except the one that soft and fragile. I prefer to live my dreams and purpose in life rather then just having man by my side controlling me. I am very intrigued by safisticated type of woman however I am huge fan of adventures and exploring the world, so hard it’s to pigeon hole me.
@AT-pw9dx3 жыл бұрын
Are you an isfp personality by any chance ?
@MultiGats3 жыл бұрын
I think I'm all four depending on the situation.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Good job x
@ladyddatruthseeker3 жыл бұрын
Me too, it depends on the situation and the person.
@refiloendlovu65182 жыл бұрын
Flower slash elegant, I think.
@cg20332 жыл бұрын
I’m #3 the Flower 🌸 In my experience I appeal to men who #1 have a daughter (very different than men who never raised a girl) or #2 men who are looking to make a child.
@laureltruesdell91503 жыл бұрын
Changing you are Elegant...I am a nuturer.
@anitarolle20272 жыл бұрын
Motherly..but I’m going to work on bettering this gift!
@raghadalshadidi29012 жыл бұрын
I would go with the flower and seductive energy, i have also elegant energy but i would say that i have intentionally embraced this type of energy within me, I think that your dominant energy is the elegant one
@brierodriguez32543 жыл бұрын
I will say I'm a seasoned medly of all 3 of them & only a dash of " wallflower" energy tipping twards extreme sweetheart, but not soft spoken 🤣which is something I think I'll be working on now that you've given me more gems to take on my journey 😍My lovely, I think you are definitely a beautiful blend of the "motherly elegant seductress" like myself✨ this was so much fun Chengi😍 thank you!!!!😘
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Beautiful blend of you! Thank you for your take on me. I can see that! xx
@jesuslovesyou9163 жыл бұрын
I had a seductress energy with my first husband. A flower energy with my 2nd husband, And a motherly and elegance energy with my 3rd hubby. I'm 32 and a mother. Last year I started working more on my seductress energy because being a stay at home mom changed a lot about me. Thanks for opening my eyes to these.
@thewealthofhealth64043 жыл бұрын
Flower 🌸 with a mix of elegance ✨but I embody them all for sure
@annettewebbsamuels7093 жыл бұрын
I am new to uyour channel. I am a combination of the Elegant Sophisticated with the Maternal. I do attract wealth successful men. You are spot on!! I love your chanel!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Welcome my love ❤️
@clk8883 жыл бұрын
On first contact I'm regal/elegant which comes across as cold at times, then I settle into a flower but once you're in my IN I'm the motherly. I'm a person of service in general. So I'm both a cold and warm person, it just depends on the situation. I lack the skills of a seductress, could definitely use that in my basket. I'd would say you're the elegant fem with a seductress hidden underneath.
@Mae-rr5ye2 жыл бұрын
Hey Chengi! ☺️I've been called classy a few times and I love being this way,so I think I'm the last. I do have a question I hope you can help me with 🙏 I've been told that I'm very beautiful, I dress well, am very bubbly; I truly care about my appearance and I'm educated :). I love being feminine! I'm in my early 20s and I make it a point to be kind and classy but don't get approached very much by successful men who are in my age range. I'm mostly in church lol but I try to travel and go out sometimes. Any advice on attracting a high quality man in his 20s who might also want marriage in a few yrs? I guess I just learned what I want young. ❤️ Love the channel!
@cardyb92233 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much Queen Cheng..you're making my lovelife more peaceful because of your advices...I was really behaving low value and thank you for pointing that out..Now I know what to work on.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
❤️🖤🦢
@glossybossy74703 жыл бұрын
Motherly-Elegant. I think Changi is Soft-Elegant 💕
@moulee74483 жыл бұрын
I think I am a mix of 3 and 4! I think you are a mix of 2 and 4😁
@shalondamcm53 жыл бұрын
This is so enlightening! My most natural/dominate is to be mothering but I definitely identify with all four!
@lightlydark4163 жыл бұрын
Flower Seductress...Men think I am flirting with them when I am simply giving my feminine energy. 💜🤎Chingy you are Flower Elegance🤎💜
@originalgoldengoddess2 жыл бұрын
Lol the first 2 feminine energies I know all too well... I have kids and I am very very mothering but only to my kids I don't have the time of day to mother a man who has his own mother... but when I'm ready to go out for the night let my hair down my energy definitely switches to the seductress energy lol doesn't mean I'm going to pay attention to every man though... and with the 4th type of feminine energy unfortunately I have been told by many guys when I've gone out that when they first saw me they thought I was pretty or cute but I was either snobby or they thought I had really high standards and that they wouldn't fit into that or i look intimidating... look they could be right about them not fitting my type of guy but I'm not a snob but I'm happy to make new acquaintances when I go out...
@janetngare10033 жыл бұрын
Fantastic...am a mixture of seductress n motherly...Chengi I think you're the last feminine energy..the elegant one
@portiamogale34653 жыл бұрын
I think im the Elegant type
@andreabryan82503 жыл бұрын
I'm definitely sophisticated elegance. and motherly energy. Most men say I'm out of their league. My looks causes them to think I'm sexy seductress but I'm very motherly.
@Trex71243 жыл бұрын
So, Im trying to heal this "feminine energy". Thought Id try the meditation.. I got a result instantly.. I recieved a text for a job interview. Ok, so its not exactly love, but Ill take it.. (LOL 😜🤣) I used to be the seductress. When I ran business, I had to be intimidating. Im definitely not motherly.
@vatyvibes72223 жыл бұрын
Mine is more motherly. But I want to mix it wth sophisticated woman
@blacksongbird1003 жыл бұрын
I think I'm a mix of elegant (which is why men often think I'm scary 🙄) and a seductress (which totally explains why I meet so many emotionally unavailable men). I do have a motherly side but I don't think that's the energy that comes from me primarily.
@mercylynirungu95313 жыл бұрын
sophisticated elegant
@marisagallegos17383 жыл бұрын
I think I’m a nurturing wallflower!!!
@YGabi3333 жыл бұрын
I am 3 out of 4. I need that breakable one!
@annettejules13932 жыл бұрын
My energy are number 1and 3, I think you are 3 and 4
@annettejules13932 жыл бұрын
Hi girlfriend am I right
@chasidycrossley76973 жыл бұрын
I think I am the wallflower.
@haleycorthell47143 жыл бұрын
I don't know if I am the motherly or the flower... I feel like I'm more of the flower. I think I'm a little bit of both though!
@spirituallynak3d2 жыл бұрын
Gratitude 💜🖤✨
@ashleyhays7575 Жыл бұрын
I am all of them
@sonys95102 жыл бұрын
I 'am soft elegant classy. Last man I dated made me feel he wasn't good enough. He thought I have a lot of money. God has been good to me but I'm nobody's Atm.
@Lbxrr3 жыл бұрын
I'm def the elegant one💅🏾
@gsothisiswhatitis55102 жыл бұрын
As a single mother of two boys and off the dating scene for 16 yrs (age of my oldest) I really do not know what type I am or that show unconsciously. As a mother of two boys I want to show them how an shining feminine should be as I am their first example before they turn into a man to choose their own type.
@XOAliciaMarie2 жыл бұрын
Motherly + Elegant with flares of seductress!
@christineasaba47302 жыл бұрын
Hi Chengi, I have just across this and I needed it. Well for me, am motherly but also the flower wall but I think many times I think am more of motherly. Yet I want and strive to be the elegant and poise one. Is that possible?
@nervgirl11023 жыл бұрын
I’m definitely the flower type w a sprinkle of sophisticated (which protects me to an extent). we do attract strong masculine men which I love BUT we also attract the wounded masculine/self-proclaimed alpha type that have fragile egos bc they perceive us as docile and easy to control😅
@SeeShells793 жыл бұрын
I’m the sexy seductress... Chengi you’re the elegant/poised. Great video!
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
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@quiettefoxworth47133 жыл бұрын
I feel that I am primarily maternal and secondary to the seductress expression. I feel Chengi's expression comes across as first as Elegant with a mixture of maternal expressions.😍 I would love to know which one(s) you are Chengi.
@courtneydixon61803 жыл бұрын
Sexual seductress definitely! But sometimes I’m the motherly. Chengi you would be the elegant one!
@nicolewest80512 жыл бұрын
I was very out of touch with my feminine energy until a few years ago. Now when I go anywhere men of every age look my way, so much so that my husband has his work cut out for him and appreciates it when I don't dress up too much, lol, at least not without letting him know what he's getting into 😂 💃 I'm in my mid 30's and have 4 kids, but look much younger so I'm learning how to tone down my sexy seductress and be a little more mysterious and elegant. I have a very fun and outgoing personality so I'm also trying to grow in listening better 😊 I think Chengi you are truly a sexy seductress at heart who's learned how to be elegant and carry yourself in a way that says, "I'm not for playing with, but I know how to when I want to!" 💗🔥💋
@mayda20603 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@jeraldinefrancis5222 жыл бұрын
I am struggling to find your ebook the ultimate guide to finding true love. Could you perhaps please send me a link?
@joannemakawa98853 жыл бұрын
I express motherly, flower& elegant but dominant in motherly.
@thalitatasy95843 жыл бұрын
Can talk about this again in deep please.I've just discovered you,you are amazing
@angelaprice18003 жыл бұрын
Mines is 2 & 4
@divineone24183 жыл бұрын
You should have used pictures to describe the woman nice video tho 💕😍😍
@merinajalaya7402 жыл бұрын
What gets me the most is when a masculine woman lusts after me like a man would lust after me. Crazy, same look in the eyes just different genders. I'm the seductress. Not on purpose, whether I wear makeup or not, long hair or shaved bald, loose clothes or tight men and women are enamored by me, I always dress modestly. Unless the women see me as sexual competition I typically have both men and women going out their way to help me.
@ebonyevans252 жыл бұрын
I think my dominant is #3 with a trace of nurturer and I mean a trace lol
@annborn65633 жыл бұрын
I see part elegance in you too!
@tiland033 жыл бұрын
I feel like I’m all of them.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
Good 😌
@minnaTwo3 жыл бұрын
I think you're the regal feminine woman but you know how to be warm and how to open up. I yoyo between the seductress type and regal type, 60/40.
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️💕
@morgan38663 жыл бұрын
What advice would you give to someone who is mainly in elegant feminine energy who has a bit of seductress, if she wants a very masculine man like the flower type energy attracts?
@blackswanrelationshipacademy3 жыл бұрын
She develops her flower energy and adds it to the mix x
@thalitatasy95843 жыл бұрын
For sure you are that seductrice and elegant energy. For me I'm soft and delicate.
@KatieAJ2 жыл бұрын
I think I might be a mix of motherly and the soft. Aww man. No wonder guys dont like me.