HOW TO HEAL YOUR FEMININE ENERGY| THE KEY TO BETTER RELATIONSHIPS

[@annborn6563]

I’m starting my ability to receive journey by receiving a man’s attention. Like just their appreciative glance. Baby steps!

[@CandaceLeAnne]

I love that you pointed out that healing is a continual, iterative process. To be alive means that we are continually regenerating that which was initially generated in us (breath of life). We don’t just eat one time, or sleep one time. We don’t bathe once, if we want others to be able to stand being around us. We don’t just take one breath a day and go about our business. These things we do constantly, at the right intervals of time to sustain life. Likewise, we perpetually self heal until such time that the Lord stops striving with us and removes His breath from our bodies. I prefer to listen to channels where continual growth is encouraged and achieved. I do this as a way to create substantive community in such uncertain times. I like hanging around people who are constantly self healing. I don’t always achieve the mindset or the progress I want but I keep cleaning my mind with the word of God and with the things I let into my ear and eye gate. I’m getting better at receiving although there isn’t much giving going on these days 😂.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Insightful you are 🌸❤️

[@marienmocka8397]

In my self love and discovery journey, you are the cherry on my cake. By this I mean that this knowledge you share is something I understand and have been practising meditation for some years, but my feminine was still suffering. Now I can work to heal it.Thank you so much. ❤

[@katherinefilippou8501]

Thank you so much for your beautiful advices. For the past 2 years, after a very traumatic and toxic relationship, I have been struggling with my femininity, as I worry that I'm more of the masculine side. I was afraid that something was wrong with me, but now I realise that it's product of my wounded femininity. I always pursue and almost never receive and this makes me feel like something is off. Again, thank you so much, you're a wonderful role model 🙏🏻❤❤❤🌌

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@kiwi5118]

Implying Chengis advice has helped me change my mindset and life. God bless you beautiful lady.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@sweetcakes2412]

you are so intelligent and it honestly feels like a pleasure watching your videos. luv u queen!!!

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@mayda2060]

Your advices are GOLD, God bless you Chengi !!

[@jamiestumps6146]

Wow, what a wonderful video, so informative, you are brilliant and so knowledgeable, it was a blessing viewing this video. Thank you Chengi’s love your glow !

[@Longlegs83]

So happy I found you and your channel! Thank you so much. ❤

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Welcome!!❤️💕

[@MathyLisikaMinsende]

Thank you Chengi. I’ve been guilty of this. Questioning my femininity.

[@iamlolokings8504]

Thanks this is very informative

[@ovayontlabati4341]

I love how encouraging this is.

[@bethp3468]

transference of energy/spirits can happen through touch and gifts so not wanting to be touched is not always a bad thing..

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Indeed

[@thedropqueenshow]

OMG.... I am so glad i found this channel. you are so point on with all of this information

[@bethathighvaluewoman]

I loved how you explained in such a great way❤️ Thank you so much ❤️ You are an amazing coach❤️

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@brittneymartin9815]

You’re so awesome. Often times I hear in the level up community that if you have to ask or “teach” then the guy just doesn’t want to or that the act of asking is masculine....I don’t think that is always the case. I should be able to communicate. I have to get your course on that 😍

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Absolutely 💕❤️

[@Rwissam1987]

One of the coaches I follow said that if there's a problem address it, if not fixed leave. Sometimes people are not even aware that they're doing something wrong, us included. Wouldn't you prefer your partner to address an issue he is having with you before deciding to leave you? It's already hard to find someone decent, if you cut people out like that you are risking staying alone...

[@janicaorden6734]

Thank you . I was feminin but after a relationship with a narcissist I stopped being feminin. He always commented about my clothes and the feminin colours. It’s hard to get back to beeing myself again.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Sorry to hear that. Please never lose yourself in an attempt to protect yourself. Just develop protocols, standards and boundaries that protect your feminine without becoming masculine.

[@remiem-iw7uk]

Your mind is priceless real estate. Give no-one squatter's rights therein!

[@fabiennepdt4898]

OMG! I have so much to do. I need to learn to RECEIVE. I must watch this video again, until it prints into my brain.

[@faye_bulous]

The reason why I’m no longer comfortable receiving from man is because when I did, soon after he’d make a move and wants something in return. 🙄 how to deal with that? Thank you X

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Why do you feel compelled to give it? When you figure out why you feel receiving from a man entitles him to what’s sacred you will know what to do ❤️

[@faye_bulous]

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy I tend not to give in but seeing the person’s demeanour changing towards me or completely ghosting does put pressure. Thank you my beautiful Chengi 😘

[@chavelahutchinson2657]

@@faye_bulous When someone acts like a ghost....respect the dead and let it die.

[@MathyLisikaMinsende]

BTW if you haven’t registered to Chengis master class here’s the link. You’re welcome.😋 chengisworld.co.uk/shop/mastering-attraction/?fbclid=IwAR1vbYaGbIg3sIKCp-SBlN95szlrYqE9DwZySJ2KtFO2udzeEnUoJLU1WOE

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Thank you Mathy x

[@iamlolokings8504]

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[@lornaelizabeth6290]

I love this x

[@Mirandajanewyatt]

You're Amazing

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@Leahj55]

Love love the advice ❤️

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@Wooddweller]

I am 💔

[@nia_khepera]

So when it comes to receiving…. Should a man step up and pay bills we are unable to pay? If we are in a relationship with them?

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Try to keep money out of your needs from a man. It will not bode well for you. If you are single and if working age you should have your finances on lock, be responsible and if he wishes to help you out financially that’s good! There are things that men have like strength, ideas etc that you can lean on him

[@nia_khepera]

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy i love that! Its a great balance!!! Thank you for taking the time to respond

[@RizaMukherjee]

I have a question. If I start going out with a man and he gives me a material gift, does it mean that I too will have to give him a material gift back to him as soon as possible? I've felt pressurised to give an expensive gift back to him in a situation like this and I had this question.

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

No, don’t do it. Your time and attention is enough. Just thank him.

[@sophia6955]

What if no one ever offers you any of those things? I do think at this point that I wouldnt be so easily inclined to receive any of these things but I also realized in my trying to deduce which ones were me that I couldn't actually think of any time that men have tried to give me a gift or offer me their time or touch me not in a stranger just groping me on the sidewalk kind of way. I feel like the only energy I get from men and women too even is just they want to talk about themselves and have me be impressed and validate them and make them feel like they have their whole story straight of their little persona performance spiel. I also have experience with men asking if they could take me to dinner and then they will just show up and assume we can hang out at my house and that the dinner thing will be some other day when I am expecting it to be the time we just arranged to meet up after he just asked me...which anyone would assume so it's always really confusing when they want to treat me like either a homie or some chick they are meeting with in secret but either way they are like...bluffing knowing that I want to feel important and like a lady and knowing that's what they have to bait me with to get the yes but the part I dont get is why when I accept and say yes do they show up in a t shirt and Jean's and I'm all ready to go out somewhere and then it's just so embarrassing and I feel like such an idiot because the vibe is like "oh you thought you were going to get some high class treatment? That's funny you would assume that I would go to that length for you even though I literally asked you if you wanted to and it was my idea but it was just to see if I could get you all excited for my next appearance in your life since i clearly think it was lucky for you that I even showed up because my presence is a gift even when I lie in order to have a reason to come around"

[@MultiGats]

The thing is right from the get go you have say No the problem here is when you say Yes to their selfish plans it kind of gives them that hint of lack of self love in you and then they start taking you for a ride. When somebody is offering you things you have to understand their intentions behind doing so like ask them questions to know the thought behind it and then you'll know where you stand with them, but be mindful manipulative people are all talk no action so discern wisely

[@sophia6955]

@@MultiGats I do say no and then they act like they are the one offended

[@remiem-iw7uk]

I generally ask what type of dress code the restaurant has. That way, it's less of a surprise.

[@evaaitken1201]

I a man who has a female soul was born in the wrong body I trying to find a proper balance so I can be at peace and need to find a woman who understands my life what can this do

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

You are loved ❤️

[@sophia6955]

...if you can even call that a vibe lol I was really reaching....its such a mind fuck and clearly more convoluted than something you could have a quick phrase to sum it up with

[@coffeecreamer7125]

Hi, at 12:50 you said your son puts his head on your shoulders and wants to hold your hand. My red flags went up, because I think that is feminine trait. Do you think you are raising a feminine man, and that you are nurturing him too much? Lots of single mothers uncontiously give sons everything so the son doesn’t know how to get and provide for themselves and their girlfriend/wife later on. Do you think you need to let your son go, and cleave to his gf/wife later when he finds is wife? I think you should train him to be a masculine man in which he needs to be disciplined and do stuff. You should get him a male mentor. :) And I find a lot of single mothers spoil their sons like how a girl should be spoiled. So they expect that kind of treatment in the future from their wife. Please raise a provider, ambitious masculine man .

[@faith1075]

❤

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

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[@jovajewlz8570]

Hey, I’m new to your channel , do you have clubhouse?

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Not yet x

[@denetriawright9100]

Why will he not Go to where he feels or see he’s ‘receiving and/or getting all that openness, desperation and easiness’ of those type of females through social media, then?🤔…

[@ivia_ol8356]

Why do you perceive openness as desperation or easiness?

[@zzzo4509]

My darling I have to disagree on this one, I and so many men are tired of girls that don’t go after what they want, or don’t show love first. We love a girl with balls just like you like a guy with balls and not afraid. We love a women who gives and is generous simply because she’s a good person

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

That’s because you and many guys are high feminine energy and are not educated in the nature of women. You want women to behave as men because feminism made that a thing. The kind of men HIGH VALUE WOMEN want is one that has balls and is comfortable in his masculinity because she knows what she brings to the table is the respect and honour he deserves for being a champion amongst men. Take or leave it but that’s that 🙏🏾

[@zzzo4509]

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy to be frank I don’t think there’s anything wrong with a women who has masculine energy, it makes women better in so many ways

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

Ofcourse not. You a feminine energy so you can only be attracted to masculine energy women who cherish you but don’t respect you.

[@adabekeethefirst8705]

Lmao! Why would a lady want to have ‘balls’? If you want balls, a better place to search would be between the thighs of a man don’t you think?

[@zzzo4509]

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy I think you jumped to a conclusion there I am a strong mix of both and that makes me very powerful, I do a job that is very dangerous and risk my life every day and I do it to protect people so I think your interpretation is wrong

[@zzzo4509]

I see why women can’t keep a good men, you as women seem to feel entitled to us. Like you said in this video your women rights? Women are not entitled to anything or have a right to us we are our own free spirit, it is not your right for us to give you gifts, protection, time etc our time is more valuable than to spend it on you that’s why you can’t keep a good man because females feel entitled we are on our mission trying to make the world a better place whilst you sit cosy in your couch. Real men never respect these kind of women. We respect a women who can protect herself or do her best, provide for herself, to also be making the world a better place. That’s the women we go crazy for. Not what’s said in this video, women like that we use you for a bit then dump you because we don’t respect women who see us as there provider only fools do that. We men are opening our eyes many men are sick of this bullshit. Trust me, chances are though your women and you will carry on doing the same expecting different, the biggest mistake is you acting like you do all these things just so we will love you, don’t do that we see through that shit just be a good person to be a good person expect nothing or want nothing in return and you will be surprised what could happen

[@blackswanrelationshipacademy]

You’re a feminine energy man and with this mindset you will only attract masculine energy women who will NOT respect you. You need to reevaluate your position by educating yourself on masculinity 🙏🏾

[@justice4all352]

@@blackswanrelationshipacademy yeap he is a matriarch reared feminine beta male. You know what I am a masculine energy man who can switch polarities for example I love getting dirty on the job and going work around the house and getting callouses on my hand but I am being nurturing my appearance away from the job I love protecting women ,guide them I don't believe in 50/50 I wanna be the bread winner never date a woman who is a breadwinner nor would I date a woman who don't believe in submission nor talk in a condescending way about feminine women who do submit