😀 4 ways on How to keep a Tinder conversation ALIVE 😀 - by Tinder's most 'Right-Swiped' Male.

[@daterhelp]

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[@AK-hi4hm]

video really started at 3:10

[@giovaniiiiii]

haha very helpful. thanks

[@daterhelp]

Ha, thanks! Would you prefer a shorter video next time?

[@pasasalron]

Thank you!!!

[@Totaclips]

I wish I saw this first

[@knottage]

​@@daterhelpjust get to the point faster

[@jessicam3555]

Girl here ✋, if someone ever sent their phone number with the phrase “I expect a message from you” I’d be turned off immediately. No one should expect anything of me. You can give your number, but maybe smth like “let’s get off this app” but definitely not “I expect a message from you”. And maybe it depends on the context of the conversation you just had and the woman, but overall I’d say that’s not a good idea. Just be honest, natural, and not too threatening. Maybe even a “I’d had a great time talking with you, here’s my number to talk again”

[@hugoingelhammar6163]

He also made clear you could not do it out of the blue. If you already have some vibe going the girl would probably understand the humoristic undertone of it.

[@michaellandon2105]

Its a funny line, as long as u do it when the conversation is going good then they will see the humor in it

[@daterhelp]

I never said i expect a message from you, it was giving your number going 50% and meaning the other person had to meet you the other 50% (messaging you). It's gauging someone's interest

[@Blankstareman]

No one should expect anything from me lol

[@sorrygoogle9828]

@@daterhelpno you literally said that word for word 5:40 Lmao

[@gabriellebellizzi8227]

I’m shy at first & I never know what to say at first because i feel like I’m going to say the wrong thing😭but people say just to be yourself.

[@monsterhunter445]

You can ask them a question if they got something in bio. Just showing curiosity for the other person helps.

[@Leila2023_]

take a risk

[@ngliscsaxon6128]

Good videos mate, looking forward to seeing more! Looking forward to using your enhancement service as well, but I have decided not to use Tinder until I have a bit more of my personal life settled before I start up on the app again, but keep doing your thing mate

[@daterhelp]

Hey! thanks for your kind words, I really enjoy making the videos! Hope all is well in your personal life my friend. The services I offer are for any dating-app, not just Tinder. Take care! James

[@knottage]

My brother you are 3 minutes into a 6 MINUTE video before you get into the tips! What are you thinking??

[@sofiasoto2214]

2:08 No, I'm a girl haha I don't have issues starting the conversation but I don't know how to keep them alive, specially when the person is far and we cannot meet xD

[@daterhelp]

Ah, there might be your problem! Try and chat on another app, or ask to speak over the phone :)

[@Leila2023_]

i think this is spot on... I'm a woman. i think try to get us on whatsap as soon as there's a positive interaction on the dating ap. once on whatsap you share photos and leave voice message. our biggest fear is crazy dangerous men. put our minds at rest quickly. tell us you are a gentleman etc. politeness goes a long way.

[@femmefemi]

How it is gentlemanly to share photos idk

[@daterhelp]

Thanks!

[@JuantheJohn1]

hey, realistically, if a man has the purpose of actually hooking up, should they not be clear about that in the messages?

[@guitarguy3221]

Good question. Big part of the game is her wondering if you're interested in her. Like he says in the video, speaking sexually over text is an easy way to scare someone away. Women are experts of social connotation. Your "role" as a hetero man is never to desire a hook up. That's something that just happens, all i can say When you submit blunt desire to a girl it can turn her off or threaten her. You have to be creative about how you send signals of attraction. Be persuasive, unserious, playful. Taking her out should be the short term goal. Getting off of the app so you can call each other and make plans.

[@2jz-boi]

Bro do you have any advice for someone who keeps getting matches who are out of my league? I keep getting worried they'll find me boring or something haha

[@Iammercy100]

Well I am from Nigeria 🇳🇬 mind we become friends??

[@nami4978]

Guys tend to send like to every girls without even looking at, and I'm not attractive one. Even though i got match with guys, they always disappear within first 2 messages.

[@daterhelp]

It could be what you are saying? Make sure you are being friendly to someone

[@masonpagano6687]

Watching this immediately after getting unmatched, and I didn’t even realize that the last message I sent her was inherently sexual without even realizing it was. She brought up massages, and all I said was “you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours😉” but as soon as I heard your 2nd tip, I know exactly that she thought I was referring to sex. It was probably the wink face that did it lol Just sucks how messages are so much harder to convey sarcasm and playfulness than real conversations🤷

[@daterhelp]

Yup, sometimes it's just the small comments that you think maybe I've got this wrong? "Who are you, and how did you get in my house?"

[@justint7190]

My problem: when things are going well, I get in my head, get fearful, say something stupid. Solution? : put my f**king phone down, and go for a walk in nature to clear my head?

[@chasep86]

What I have to do. If Im home I go outside, just get the fuck away from it. If I send one bad message, I might be finished.

[@adjabengbernice6731]

Cool

[@daterhelp]

Hi, sadly your own mind can be your worst enemy. However, think of the worst possible situation... you say something wrong and she deletes your number, or you're sat opposite her in a bar and she throws your drink and you and walks out. Did you die? Did you lose a family member? Did you get fired from your job? Did you lose all the money in your bank? No! Don't let the fear of messing up ruin your chances of something amazing happening. Treat these negative thoughts as exactly that, negative thoughts. James

[@Iammercy100]

Hello am from Nigeria 🇳🇬 looking to meet amazing people.. mind we get to be friends?

[@needler117]

I do literally all of this and they almost never talk. Or of they do it takes 3 to 5 business days to reply with a one word response followed by nothing.

[@Mukund.Agarwal.]

2:07 that one there out was a violation xd

[@mercytalia8190]

When should I share my phone number? Is it okay giving out my phone number just after matching if a man ask for it the same day of matching?

[@daterhelp]

To be honest, if someone finds you attractive, they’ll be happy with your number at any point, go out of your comfort zone and just give it :)

[@wiliamzzz0231]

I hope your account on KZbin blows up one day :))

[@wiliamzzz0231]

In a positive way of course

[@daterhelp]

Ah that's really great to hear! Thanks :)

[@exploration-pioneer]

Omg I suck at the online dating!! I need savings

[@blackguy4us224]

Doing a lot of talk and he's not saying s***

[@tobiasthederp]

There’s no magic answer… sorry guys.

[@daterhelp]

You’re correct, there isn’t! ☺️ However, there are ways to optimise your experience to gain better results!

[@xenosone3890]

First, women don't message first except on bumble and they barely do that 70% of the time.Even when they do make the first move, it's 'hi' or something lame. Women have no game. Two, profile tip is good. Sexual thing, for sure women are bombarded with that so, boring. If you make it innuendo and stay a good boy that's good because it's a brain turner.

[@pasasalron]

Tip #6 be sure to be good looking... Ahahshs

[@daterhelp]

It can help you, but it's not everything!

[@--itsmark--2690]

This Was simply just mind blowing and useful thank you man, u just made me figure out something about this modern dating and flirting

[@daterhelp]

Glad I could help :) James

[@khutch29]

Oh my god!!! I just asked one question 🙄🙄🙄

[@anniefowlers6545]

Lol I’m a girl I’m struggling

[@BrutalToucan]

This helps a lot man, thank you

[@daterhelp]

You're welcome, Jared! James

[@khutch29]

And it's why I'm single

[@daterhelp]

We can help!

[@roc33porti85]

I am a lesbian girl

[@daterhelp]

Lovely stuff

[@iezekiel_]

Congratulations 🎉!!!!!

[@ChikaJihyo]

Aye I’m in that 3% girls but I’m lesbian so LOL

[@oscarkelly88]

Really helpful video 👍

[@adjabengbernice6731]

Exactly 💯

[@daterhelp]

Thanks Oscar :)

[@Dushhh]

why am i here bruh

[@daterhelp]

Loneliness and cheeseburgers are a dangerous mix

[@Dushhh]

@@daterhelp Trying is the first step towards failure

[@daterhelp]

@@Dushhh But doesn't the bible also say don't let moochers into thy.....hut

[@edgarnajera5318]

I wish I matched with you 😅

[@jupjup7845]

1: have a face for it

[@daterhelp]

2. have a billion $

[@edgarnajera5318]

I am a gay guy

[@realfan91]

Bro just show some of your convos, this video is pretty much useless

[@WinnebagoBrewingCo]

Wait, why would we want to listen to the most swiped guy? If you were good at using the app, you wouldn't be on it to be swiped.

[@daterhelp]

So you'd prefer to speak to someone who has never been on the app?

[@TC-se2kx]

This might be one of the worst videos ever made on this topic😅

[@daterhelp]

Thanks! when will yours be live?