40 Xyoo Mam Paub Koj. 5/23/2020

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Many of us wore the same shoes you wore. Sizes or colors may be different, but the pain is similar or worse. I’m glad you didn’t follow your birth parents foot steps and found a husband who loves you. I, myself never knew who my father is, not even his name. Came to know the story later in life, too. People asked if I ever wanted to find him, they know where he is. I never have desire to. My perspective is, he who chose to leave me when I needed him most, won’t make a difference when i have lived and no longer needed him. I found God to stand as my father. A heavenly Father, who will not leave will not forsake me. My beginning, I couldn’t choose, but my todays and future, i can shape it. Choose better shoes to walk on. Love those who loves us. Let alone those who don’t.

[@mailee-xiong706]

Love and go to bond with your blood father. It was due to life circumstances that your real father couldn't be with you. He wants you in his life. Enjoy the time before it's too late. Love your step father as you can, but you're not obligated, because he really didn't love you. He was just there in person, because he was married to your mom. You don't owe him anything!!! Please go to see your blood father and make amends.

[@art2hlub]

Wow, what a life. I can't imagine myself in your shoes. But its not your fault. Thank goodness you now you see brighter days. I hope you live to the fullest for pay back times. Always SMILE for now on.

[@kcy805]

Tus vivncaus, txoj kev hlub thiab kev tu txawv nawb mog. Yog hais tias koj tsis paub qhov tseeb thiab koj txiv yug koj yeej ib txwm siab phem tsis xav yuav koj niam neb no mas tsim nyog koj tsis k txog koj txiv yug koj tabsis tamsim no koj twb laus paub qab haus, paub qhov tseeb lawm tias vim yog tej laus xwb twb tsis vim koj niam los koj txiv no ces kavtsij hlub ob leeg sib luag sib npaug nawb mog. Koj muab xam tias koj txiv tshiab tsis hlub koj es koj twb tu2 saib ne, lub txim txhob muab nog rau koj txiv yug koj ib leeg es kavtsij mus hlub nws ua ntej neb txojkev txiv tub ploj mus. Ntawm koj txiv tsiab ces ua nws tsaug qhov ua nws tu koj loj hlob thiab yog tias nws ua ib leej txiv ncaj nruab nrab ntug es koj txawm tsis yog nws roj nws ntshav los nws yeej ib txwm hlub2 koj no ces yeej tsim nyog koj mloog nws lus ov tabsis nws twb tsis hlub koj li ib leej txiv tiag na ces hlub ib txhia los tseg ib txhia thiab. Faib koj txoj kev hlub rau tus uas hlub koj thiab mog.

[@knlxiong5970]

Your 2nd best story in my book May. Thank you for sharing.

[@ALEEYABA]

Zoo hv o

[@lilylee7395]

Tus viv ncaus koj yeej muaj cai hlub 2 leeg. Ib tug yog tus tu ib tug yog tus yug koj vim tej laus siab tsis zoo thiaj txiav koj niam nkauj txoj kev sib hlub tsis txhob tu siab koj niam yog tus tu siab dua koj

[@caaspasvang7427]

Zaj no mas tu siab kawg os sister😭😭

[@pajthao4813]

Txoj niag kev lwj siab uas raug rau peb cov poj niam mas tu siab tshaj plaws li os yog vim tib qho peb cov poj niam qaug hlub tau rau tus neeg tsis hlub yus tiag2 thiaj txom nyem siab ntsws ib sim neej

[@tweetiebird100]

Karma! Your step dad's own kids failed life miserably thats why he's jealous of your life with everything! Thx to your mom n your step dad n move on. 4get your step dad. Just love n care for your mom.

[@Loves_GodSR]

Awwww... I'm so glad your real father still loves and seek for you.

[@pajzoo2254]

It’s sad because like she said, maybe he only seek for her because she has a good life now.

[@bhawj08]

If I am in your shoe what I care is my mom and myself. Neither your stepfather or your biological father I would not care.

[@missysmart8620]

Mes vivncaus aw yus tsis yog luag roj luag ntshav ces txawm yus uas zoo npaum cas los luag yeej tsis pom yus qhov zoo os mog cem kav liam os naw! Hlub tus yus hlub yus xwb os tus mes vivncaus aw! Tus siab kawg os.

[@mosvaj1385]

Tu siab heev rau koj os

[@alainvang7917]

yog kawg os maiv vaj cov me nyuam ntsuag ciaj ces zoo li kod hais tiag ntxim hlub heev hos

[@nyllorchannel3165]

Zoo kawg li o

[@123RCKD]

I'm so sorry that is your life. I am the same as you as my mom left my biological father not knowing she was pregnant with me. I was raised with a different father but he had always loved me and always gave me more than my brothers and sisters he and my mom Had together. My biological father is the one insulting me from afar although I have never asked anything from him. I was very lucky and I am so sorry that you had to endure such cruelty. Love your current husband, children, and family for they will be your future and not your past.

[@fhxcrgxc6071]

Txob tu siab tsua yog kj tu txiv hlub g kj xwb ce zoo lawn

[@angielo06]

Koj txiv tu koj siab me dhau lawm xwb is. Kav tsij mus khiav koj txiv yug koj mog. Yog tias koj txiv tu muab koj tso tseg Los tsis kk mog.

[@Nomkaubljs]

tom qab mloog zaj dab neeg no tag nrog koj tu siab kawg tus me niam tsev, vim pom tias koj txiv uas tu koj yog ib tus neeg siab tsis zoo es nws thiaj tsis hlub koj, yog kuv nyob koj qhov chaw,kuv yuavpiavkoj txiv uas tu koj nws zaj dab neeg lim hiam qias neeg rov qab pub rau nws mloog, tom qab ntawd mam li sib hlub, peb yog txiv neej ib yam li koj txiv peb paub tias cov neeg phem li ntawd yog los,ntawm qhov twg los

[@pntravels7514]

Yog lawm os cov poj niam tham hluas nraug es pheej muab pim rau lawv ua ces yeej muaj teem meem ntau yam os. Yuav tsum sib yuav mam muab pim rau ua thiaj li tsis muaj teeb meem os

[@khanvang23]

This is why Hmong people don’t advance in whatever they do ... neeg me siab tseem me thiab, twb phem dab tuag los siab tseem phem lim hiam thiab. Hlub yus tej me nyuam thiab tus tsis yog los hlub ib yam nkaus thiab vim kaj ntug tag kis tsis paub tias dej yuav ntws tog twg, zoov yuav ntsuab tog twg. Cia txoj kev cia siab rau txhua tus es xyaum hlub txhua leej txhua tus ma Hmoob aw.

[@annalor9771]

Sad story sister 😭😭😭💔💔💔

[@tongyang6314]

Ua lub neej nyob tsis txhob ua lub neej ntsia ntsoov txoj kev tusiab os nawb. Txoj kev no tsis yog ib txoj kev zoo. Nco ntsoov tias txhua leej txhua tus muaj kev tusiab no nawb. Lus qabsib cawm tsis tau txoj sia li mov plab no nawb. Those who don't have to feed you don't know what is like to raise you. Love him but should not be more than the one that raise you. Txhob ntsia kev tus siab lub neej thiaj li kaj siab nawb. Look forward, not backward. I know some people who look backward....it is not a good thing.

[@maiyang84]

May koj lub tso Haib kawg

[@alenalor1432]

Ib leej txiv limhiam li ntawd tsimnyog npaj siab coj nws mus nyob tsev nram nkuaj xwb twb tsis tsim nyog hu ua txiv..

[@jefferythao4243]

Sad story

[@beaxiong5260]

Why dont u speak up the truth to your step dad for what he did to u....why afraid to stand up against your step dad ? Once u speak up the truth of what he did to u then he will shut up.

[@npislauj9243]

Nej tau ib tug txiv neej hmoob siab phem kawg li os tus muam aw....lem tiam txhob los ua hmoob lawm os.... txiv neej hmoob thawj coj siab tsis ncaj rau poj niam os...

[@kevinyang3400]

Cas koj tseem ntsais koj txiv tsiab thiab ho me ntxhais haws tsi muaj ib leej twg yuav hlub yus li ys txiv yus tus ho

[@jesusloves7369]

Hi

[@koulee2099]

Txawj yees duab zoo nkauj ua luaj li os

[@toojsua6993]

pab hlub koj kawg li os tus me niam tsev aw koj twb nrhiav tau koj txiv lawm os

[@gaosayvu5611]

Luag hlub yus li cas ces yus hlub luag li ntawv xwb mas mog

[@tinalee1657]

Niam Ntsuab Teev, kuv nyiam koj tso koj cov duab li no zoo dua koj tso video.

[@maiseeyang9907]

Niam hluas koj twb mus muaj neej khov lawm cas tseem ntshai koj txiv tshiab koj ua luaj mas ua kom tsu niam meb txawm nws tu yus loj lis tiam neej no nws twb tsis hlub kom ncaj kon mus saib, mus pab mus hlub koj txiv muab txoj sia rau koj xwb yeej tsis txhaum ntshe koj thiaj tsis mus koj txiv xwb yog kuv ces kuv yeej mus hlub kuv txiv muab txoj sia rau kuv nawb

[@mayvue8178]

Lawv aw cas Es nej zaj neej neeg no yuav mus raws li kuv zaj thiab os. Lub neej no cas yus tsis muaj txiv yug Es luag niam tsis Xav hlub yus li thiab yus yuav ib yam ab tsi los txiv niam hais tias koj Ua kheej leej twg no mas yus tsis paub li. Tu siab kawg nawb peb cov me viv ncaus ntsuag nos mas tu siab kawg nawb tsis Pom qab yuav hais li cas rau leej twg li os

[@pvp503]

So sad,,

[@Gazalle12]

tim cov laus xwb, kav liam os. yog yuav xav txog lub neej dhau los ces yuav tu siab heev. tso plhuav lub neej dhau los lawm tseg xwb thiaj tsis tusiab.

[@nraughmoobxeemvwj1112]

Laus luas lawm mus sib pom xwb yeej sib deev g taus lawm os kom koj txiv mov ua siab loj ma yog yus khib kuj txhob yuav xwb yuav lawm ces txhob khib hos tus ntxhais mus saib xwb los yuav txwv g yog lawm ov

[@Susan79pojhmoob]

These kind of stories are sad.

[@art2hlub]

That's part of life for some body out there...

[@panenglor8294]

Tus tsis Tau tu koj pub koj noj es cas niam yuav muaj nqi UA lauj Nas. Don't bite the fingers that feed you

[@nraughmoobxeemvwj1112]

Mus saib tau kawg koj txiv roj ntshav lawm yeej meem mus xyuas ov hos tus txiv pub mov rau yus noj los txog hnub nws ncaim yus yeej mus saib ib yam vim muaj ob leeg txiv lawm tim cov laus thaum ub xwb ne

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

How come these orphan parents don't know how to love kids that are not theirs?!!! SMH

[@npislauj9243]

Tsis paub ua cas peb hmoob coob es muaj tej cov txiv neej siab phem phem tsis hlub tej menyuam ntsuag los tej tsis yog yus yug rau pojniam menyuam li tiag lawv!!! Tab sis thaum lawv laus mas lawv ho xav kom tej meyuam hlub lawv no tiag..

[@gaosayvu5611]

Xyov yuav pab koj zoo siab los tsis zoo, you twb muaj neej thiab muaj hnub nyoog tag lawm ces mam ho sib hlub raws qhov tshiab xwb mas

[@txoojtvang9947]

Kuv hais rau koj kom koj nkag siab hais tias koj niam tsis muaj kev hlub zoo dabtsi los ntawm koj txiv yug koj es thov koj txhob qhuas tias koj niam nkawd muaj kev hlub zoo nws tsis yog lawm koj txiv yug koj tsuas siv koj niam xwb nws yeej ib txwm tsis hlub koj niam thiaj xum muab nyiaj kho xwb nyob los tsuas teb ses yeej tsis muaj leej twg muaj nyiaj kho li tab sis yuav tsis taus lawm tiag2 es thiaj xum kho xwb yeej tsis nyiam yeej tsis hlub tsuas siv xwb ntseeg tau tias yog koj niam ntsib koj txiv yug koj hnub twg ces yeej yuav muab paum rau ua xwb2 1005 nawb ok koj txiv tshiab tsis kam nkawd sib ntsib los yeej yog lawm tsis tas li koj txiv yug koj los yeej tsis tau hlub koj thiab vim cas nws yuav muab $1,000.00 cas tseem yuav kom neb coj ib tus kwv tij nrog neb mus nqa mas kuv yog koj kuv yeej tsis nqa nas yog nws hlub koj nws cia li muab rau koj thiab koj tus txiv neb tshe twb tsis pub leej twg paub naws kuv muab nyiaj rau kuv tej ntxhais vauv kuv yeej tsis paub leej twg paub as

[@rhiathao]

Tus viv ncaus aw, koj txiv tu tsis hlub koj os. Yog nws hlub koj mas nws yeej tsis coj li ntawv rau koj. Yog nws hlub koj ces leej twg hlub koj ces nws tsuas muaj zoo siab xwb. Kav tsij mus ntoj mus thuv thaum tseem ciaj thiaj li muaj nuj nqis.

[@mandylao4496]

Tus viv ncaus koj tso ntau dhau lawv cov publicité xeeb txob dhau thov txhob tso ntau 2

[@sengvang05]

You should tell the truth to your real dad

[@pajhuablauj8063]

Sister es hlub tus nyob zes yus thiab hlub yus niam xwb txhob tshaw hlub tus neeg uas tsis hlub yus niam tiag mog. Yeej yog tim koj txiv uas muaj koj xwb nws tsis koj niam thiab koj tiag

[@thomasveu8365]

Hmoob ib txhia ua cas yuav ruam ua luaj, tshuav qhov tsis tau noj quav xwb

[@letslearntogether6193]

Ua cas hauv tube no es tsuas pom neb ob txiv no nyob rau hauv no xwb es tsis muaj hauj lwm ua li los cas niam ntsuab deev

[@lisavail5712]

So sorry that you had a hard childhood. Your step father were heartless bastard you not his child but you are your mom so I could never understand why she’s not protecting you from her ugly hearted husband there’s no excuse for any mother not to protected a child or children from a heartless bastard of a husband. Your step father should’ve been a shamed of himself for not loving step child as equally as his own children. Really sickening hearing all of stories about evil hearted step father and mother abusing step children.😡

[@koslis6833]

I think your step-dad it not good moral person for you and his family. Your step dad jealous about you have better life than his kids. But he should love you as his kids. He should think later life you will be part of his kids to take care you. He is not looking 20-30 yrs down the road.

[@maryly09]

Your stepdad is too mean. He may have raised you, but he never loved you.

[@7stars2love]

Koj niam mas ua txhaum loj tshaj qhov uas tsis qhia koj qhov tseeb thaum uas koj twb loj paub tab lawm na.

[@npislauj9243]

Kuv tsis paub ua cas peb hmoob es txog peb cov menyuam ntsuag twg lub neej los txom nyem vim tej laus nrog nyob thiab cov kwv tij niam hlob txiv ntxawm lawv nrog nyob tsis hlub lawv linnas hmoob!!! Tej laus mas xav xav kom tej menyuam hlub lawv tab sis lawv twb tsis hlub tej menyuam li ne?!!!

[@carneyave]

Koj Txiv tu koj lim hiam tshaj plaws, and abusive. Tsi tsim nyog koj hlub nws lawm. He knew the circumstances before he married your mom. That is his fault. All men who need to be/feel in control, have the most insecurities. He took out his anger and resentment on you and your mom. He married for selfish reasons. He doesn’t deserve your love. As for your mom, she should’ve protected you from all harm. We women are not powerless, yet we choose to be subordinate. I believe that your dad is just as miserable himself, as the way he treated you. Shame on him. Misery loves company. So don’t give him any. Go see your real dad. Your 40 now. Don’t let other people’s deficiencies and ignorances control your life. Do what you want.

[@godness7770]

You should had connected and have a daughter and father relationship with him since your step never loves you.

[@maithao1434]

Koj Txiv tshiab twb yog tub ntsuag thiab cas siab phem ua luaj li os. Tub ntsuag tsis yog siab zoo txhua tus

[@m468hue5]

Txhob tusiab koj txiv tshiab yog dev yug xwb paub UA li cas nws yuav phem ua luaj txawm hais tias koj txiv yug koj nug koj moo los nws yuav tsum zoosiab hais tias koj muaj 2 leeg txiv hlub no paub tsov tom dev laus ntawv yuav phem phem tsis muaj dabtsi phem li lawm nas koj txiv tshiab twb tsis txhawb koj ne nws tsuas khib thiab xav kom kojblub neej txhob zoo tshaj nws cov menyuam nws yug kiag xwb mas

[@maylovang1880]

Koj txiv yog ib niag neeg ntsuag siab phem tshaj plaws li os me ntxhais aw. Koj leej txiv tu koj ntawd ma siab phem tshaj li os. Me ntxhais ua cas koj pheej yuav ntshai koj txiv ntawm koj ua dab tsi os yus twb mus ua yus neej lawm ne

[@pavu1265]

? What □☆☆☆☆☆■

[@letslearntogether6193]

Ua cas hauv tube no es tsuas pom neb ob txiv no nyob rau hauv no xwb es tsis muaj hauj lwm ua li los cas niam ntsuab deev