48 hours in my life: mum life, pregnancy body image, living situation chat

[@Cate38737]

I would look at suburbs of Boston & Connecticut (these may sound random if you aren't from the U.S), but the countryside there is similar to the UK and it's close to the ocean - you can also take the train into NYC, Boston, D.C, etc. which is fun. & they have great schools and beautiful towns. It's also easy to fly back to the UK to visit, as it would be a shorter, direct flight. ❣

[@DebbieH5731]

Oh yes what a fabulous suggestion. I had a holiday touring the East coast of America a few years ago and it was beautiful. We drove through Maine all the way down to Boston in the early Autumn and the countryside was stunning. It definitely had a UK vibe about it. The colours of the changing leaves were spectacular. The high point for me was Cape Cod and Martha's Vineyard ❤. The beaches were amongst the best I've seen, although I was frightened by the warning signs about great white sharks and didnt dare swim in the sea 😂. I'd live in that part of the US in a heartbeat if I could 😍. I bet Halloween around Salem is an experience. I remember seeing Stephen King's house and it was very spooky 👻

[@cindys1641]

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[@hauntedmoon1191]

Yes, I'm obsessed with Marblehead, I think it's just the most beautiful place

[@tarabromleymua]

My parents lived in Boston for 10 years before moving home to have us but they said it was beautiful

[@karenmesser6152]

New England is beautiful and has a lot to offer but boy is it expensive!

[@Daisy-bn7zc]

Elle you look absolutely stunning the hair glow up is INSANE. That colour suits you so much- I really hope you feel good in yourself because you look amazing xx

[@leahgeorgia97]

As a British girly waiting on my visa approval to move to Colorado, I cannot recommend it enough! You get true all 4 seasons, which we miss out on in the UK, and being able to see the mountains pretty much wherever you drive is stunning. Nowhere seems to be too far away from nature so you will always have places to walk and explore!

[@kirsty8798]

Saint is such a clever polite little man ❤ I just adore him. To wake up to sunshine and warmth everyday must be amazing 🤩

[@megrop8132]

WOW, your hair transformation is amazing. Also love your natural tones coming through!

[@mrs_t]

Elle this is the most beautiful I have ever seen you, your girl is giving you the triple preggy glow. Actually stunning

[@hayleyl1166]

I just can’t describe how much I love you two! Watching you both brings me so much joy. ❤❤❤

[@claire-ht4bq]

Omg your hair does look amazing!! It was the first thing I noticed!

[@hauntedmoon1191]

I completely understand your need of nature, it really does give you the sense of inner peace. I think you would love Massachusetts, it has it all. x

[@BiaMadeIn]

I swear Elle, like I’ve said before you just keep on glowing each and every video and I’m loving it for you. ❤❤❤

[@nicola7609]

There's alot to be said to be living near nature, woods, lakes, beaches. Just by the water ❤ totally agree with you

[@colleenmonfross4283]

That's the best I have ever seen your hair, FABULOUS! Elle, I'm a California girl, I live part of the year in my beloved California and part of it in Texas. I completely understand your point of view about Houston. First of all, the weather sucks in the Summer and there is not much in terms of natural beauty. It's ranked as the 4th largest city in the US, so you get all the big city amenities, which are great, but if you love nature, not so good. I lived in Texas for 17 years and finally decided I needed natural beauty and moderate weather so moved to Seattle (gorgeous) and then finally back to California. So many great places to live in the US, you just have to find your place. Colorado has many wonderful small towns you would love but no beach access, of course. You will have a great time exploring! Don't stock up on Christmas decor until you go the the Christmas Expo you mentioned, you will be blown away by it! Please vlog that experience, I want to go with you! Last, I wanted to say that your body has been through a hell of a lot in a short period of time this year! You have been VERY active, just not in the way of going to a gym, but being on the go constantly certainly helps burn calories and keeps muscles working. Be kind to yourself. I always look forward to your videos.

[@gigilou]

So excited to watch this!! Less than a minute in & you look absolutely gorgeous angel. Totally glowing ✨ Making a cuppa so I can sit & watch and get cosy! 🤎🤎🤎 xxxxx

[@sierramarie]

American here ❤ You HAVE to check out the Carolina’s! We moved from Kansas City to North Carolina and it is filled with SO much nature!! I love that it still gets the 4 seasons!! You have the option to live in a more city like area and be able to still enjoy the nature in somewhere like Raleigh. Or you even have the option to go to the beach, which is just two hours away from Raleigh or the mountains, which are just three hours away from Raleigh! Highly highly highly recommend

[@Panic_at_the_grocery]

I second this! North Carolinean here. The best of both worlds with weather. And the most beautiful nature around.

[@breannasmith-sneed1297]

I agree 100%.North Carolina is absolutely the best of both worlds!

[@at.rabiah3625]

Watching you live your best life in America with your family and your baby girl on the way , what an absolute blessing ❤❤❤ Love your vlogs also love saints activity book such a good idea!

[@sarahkeil7710]

American girl here who’s been around since before the boys and the wedding!!! I have lived most of my life in Middle or East TN and love how you can go from the city to the country pretty quickly. I would also recommend other parts of the south like North or South Carolina or parts of Georgia too. I visited Colorado this year and absolutely LOVED it. I also have always loved the Pacific Northwest (Washington, Oregon) but cost of living there is much higher. New England and areas around there may also be pretty similar to vibes you’re wanting/missing☺️

[@Jessiesworld17]

elle omg thank you for the codeeee i have just order the dry and damaged hair set thank you thank you!

[@christinecrobinson1109]

Colorado, you will have all 4 seasons and the nature is amazing

[@fionawilson8211]

i actually love your videos.

[@ashleydaze]

Even in your pjs Elle your pregnancy styling and cool gal vibes goals from what we see! When you finish OTH you should totally give LOST a go, so many seasons and it brings the drama and suspense also such a good nod to 2000's vibes

[@Botanicalbandit]

I looooveeee watching you be a mom. So sweet!!!!!

[@molly5635]

35:07 con dancing in the background im dead🤣🤣

[@AinslieJohnstone]

Literally thought he was vibing with a store worker or something 🤣

[@carolinekelly8481]

Love the movie recommendations Ellie’s vlogs are great ❤they cover everything

[@lauraautry6992]

Good morning Elle, always enjoy the vlogs 😁🤗. I love Saint and listening to his conversations are so much fun. Love to you all and God bless ❤️

[@mattieimms9428]

As a girly who has grown up in California, the most perfect (and affordable) place here is Monterey! I’m moving there next year and it’s just honestly the most perfect safe little place. So many fun things to do but also you have the ocean/beaches, so much nature, walking trails etc. Just take a look at Monterey/Pacific Grove/Carmel❤

[@sashabargery]

0:27 this colour looks SO good on you !! Obsessed 🙌🏽

[@daniellew2941]

PLEASE look into Tennessee!! Beautiful state, not crazy hot and not crazy snow to deal with but you can get some depending on where you live! You can drive to the beach for the weekend. More affordable depending on the area!

[@rosemariewelch1525]

Regarding Connors impending trip . December babies have a habit of coming early, not sure why, probably because of xmas etc., my first baby was two weeks early and was due on the 30th. Nearly all my ante natal class were a bit early. My other 4 kids were between a week and 15 days late. So just be aware as it would be awful to miss the birth.

[@PrincessPebbles0_0]

My niece was a Christmas baby and she came late Loll… we joked around that she just wanted to have her Thanksgiving and Christmas dinners before coming out

[@kirstyevans5482]

My grandson was due on the 9th Dec and didn't arrive til the 21st

[@amberd1430]

Due 17th with my son and he didn’t arrive until 26th, there is no telling whatsoever

[@AnneRI04]

Ten months ago I moved from California to Tennessee.. I have never been so happy! It’s gorgeous! Love your videos!

[@valentinasadak]

Where in Tennessee did you move? I’m researching where to move to US, too 😊

[@NatBail]

In the USA they tend to have sales before the event has occurred I found when we lived in Florida x

[@leahgayton5738]

Elle I think you and your family would love Salt Lake City! It is SO family friendly and the access to nature is unbelievable. Truly the most amazing city in my option ❤

[@eviefilms1969]

Connor doing wall balls was hilarious😂 Also loved this vlog as always☺️✨

[@courtneypuckett7037]

Louisiana girl here and I’ve been tuned in since you were pregnant with sweet Saint 😊 Colorado is amazing. If I moved anywhere, it would be there on a beautiful mountain lake ❤

[@mikaylayoung1270]

Hey Elle! As an American myself, I highly suggest Virginia. VA gets all four seasons, it has the beach, the city life, and you are close to major cities like DC, Richmond, etc. Also, it has mountain life and beautiful rural areas if that is more your vibe. VA is honestly very diverse, with different areas to choose from.

[@claireward5865]

You two crack me up. I want to go ans have a good time buuuuuut think about your pregnant wife. Totally relateable. I stumbled across your channel a couple of months ago and so glad i did ❤

[@NatalH859]

You’re looking great ! ❤

[@lorrainemortimer6106]

Hi Elle - I must say you are glowing - your hair looks so good!!!!! you are just beaming - I have followed your channel since before you had the boys & think that I have never seen you look so happy & beautiful (inside & out) - Amercia is def for you & your wonderful family - I have a real soft spot for Saint he is just sooo adoreable & gentle & very bright for his age he will go far!!!!!! -

[@6stringsGirly]

USA girl here! We live outside of Knoxville, TN and own 8 acres of land. It’s such a great place to raise a family and it’s so beautiful! There is opportunity to buy land, hike, take the boat on the lake, etc. Knoxville (East TN) is a pretty diverse area, with things going on all the time and I enjoy living outside of the city because when I want the “city vibe” I can always visit. For you guys I’d recommend Colorado (mountains/lakes), Charleston SC (beach vibe without cali prices) Wilmington NC (also beach vibe minus Cali prices), and of course East TN (I’m biased lol). Those are just a few that come to mind! There’s so much more I could share with you!

[@6stringsGirly]

Just wanted to add that you need to narrow down what kind of weather you want (4 seasons or 3? Lol), economy in the area/ budget, family environment/community wants and needs, price of land if you want to be in the country, and if that area aligns with your hobbies. I’m a mountain girly and we chose a place that offered that instead of a beach. There are SOOOO many more places where you can get the California landscape without the insane prices and a much better family lifestyle! Don’t put yourself in a box because each state offers something different and unique

[@sarahkeil7710]

Fellow Knoxville area girl here☺️

[@mag6337]

While I've been a TX girl my whole life and would never live anywhere else, I also realize it's brutally hot during the summer and that makes it unsuitable for lots of people. That being said, there are tons of places in Texas that offer more of the "nature vibe" you are craving. Austin sort of offers the best of both worlds in that there are plenty of social activities, but also lots of hiking/nature/swimming/parks/bike riding. The traffic is a nightmare, so there's that. Hope you find somewhere that makes all of you very happy ❤

[@denisephillips1988]

You would love Tennessee!! Really good video,Thanks for sharing!❤

[@LanaMarieHanlon]

loving all the vlogs Elle, so excited for baby girl to be here ❤ xxx

[@paulathompson9402]

You are glowing Elle you hair looks amazing love it natural and down gorgeous girl x

[@maddiemeyers6281]

Connor with the Himalayan salt comment in Home Goods. So real😂😂😂

[@Mikayla21]

I just found your channel and I love it!

[@jessrobertson8788]

It’s funny because I find you SO relatable as a 24 year old who is very family oriented, been with my now husband for 9 years and have two lil bubs and feel the exact same with friends like not relatable or have nothing to connect over. But we will keep evolving and finding our people. So excited for you, Tom and baby boy 🩵

[@shannondine7031]

Who’s Tom and baby boy?

[@lauraharter6877]

I lived in Northern Colorado for almond 18-years it is incredible, and I would highly recommend it. We currently live in Minnesota (twin cities), and it is hands down my favorite place I've ever loved. The Pacific NW is supposed to be wonderful as well. You really can't go wrong.

[@rachellee9403]

Used your code! I have been meaning to buy these products for a while, thank you babe ❤

[@elleswift]

enjoy girlie!! xxxx

[@sophielee2900]

My family live in New Hampshire but we visit there, Connecticut, Salem and Boston etc. They get the true seasons, nice summer, typical autumn and a snowy winter and it’s only a 7/8 hour flight to the UK.

[@Debs53151]

You are glowing Elli looking beautiful 😍 xx

[@JulieSpencer-z3c]

fab video Elle loved it as always my those Christmas decor are something else. you look amazing. love to you all xxx

[@eviealder3975]

Silent follower for a long time! I grew up in England and my family moved to USA when I was about 10 and we have been here ever since (now 26)! I suggest looking at Northwest Georgia! You get to experience all of the seasons, there’s A LOT of trees and nature but enough community that there are things to do with kids!

[@Jackie-j8p]

Absolutely lovve you guys.such a lovely family.❤

[@danielamaterna7348]

Hair looks stunning!!!!!!❤❤❤

[@nicola7609]

Absolutely vlog the Christmas Market 🎄 😀!!

[@sarahcooper6815]

Elle! You and Connor should look at places around Upstate North or South Carolina, I live in Upstate SC we get all 4 seasons, close to the mountains, the trees are beautiful in the fall with the leaves changing colors. Also you're only a few hours from the beach! Greenville SC is where I'm from! I've watched you for years and it's so cool to see you living out your American Dream with a growing family, you are glowing!

[@homeatnumberninetyfive]

Elle you should be the mum from home alone! ❤

[@meagans1191]

Colorado native here. You will get a good blend of city, nature, seasons, and community.

[@Louise-k9m]

Hi Ellie your hair looks fab now, the colour suits you, sometimes we just have to leave it to nature. xxxx

[@ellie3690]

Hey elle! Vermont has been ranked the safest place in America to live ! 🥰 it looks amazing

[@bethanpatterson4754]

Please do a full Christmas home decor shop ❤️

[@davisnanette]

Suggestions of places to look into given what you like: Oregon, Seattle or Washington state, Colorado, Northern California (not the San Francisco Bay area) -- places like near Yosemite, San Luis Obispo, Napa Valley, Mendocino. For the East Coast: North Carolina, Vermont, New Hampshire, Maine.

[@ChristinaValeriano]

I grew up in a military family and we lived all over the US before my dad retired in Texas. Some of the places I loved the most were Colorado, Idaho, Utah, and New England areas (Connecticut, Massachusetts, Maine, New Hampshire etc)

[@vanessapryce2698]

Hey Ellie and Connor, the Christmas decs have been out in the UK since the beginning of September. It's not officially autumn yet however, it's a challenge to find autumn decor right now. Halloween things were available during the summer holidays. Everything is happening very early. It's been nice though, I'm super prepared for once 😮 Lots of love from London

[@mwahha6965]

It’s really interesting to hear Texas nature isn’t as easily accessible(or Houston ) as in England. I would never have guessed, but the travel time between these places is shocking! Look forward to seeing where you go next!

[@Panic_at_the_grocery]

You would love North Carolina. You get 4 seasons and beautiful nature no matter where you live. I live in Raleigh which is equidistant to the beach and the mountains. The best thing is that you get all 4 seasons but the spring and fall are a much longer and the winter is pretty short. I honestly think it would be perfect for your family!

[@denisewilkerson6183]

I live in Salt Lake City, Utah and it’s beautiful. We have so many different landscapes in here. There is the beautiful mountains that we live right up against and then amazing red rocks down south. We are a quick drive to many national and state parks. We have two kids and one on the way so it’s important to us to be near lots of fun things for the kids and because of the cultural aspect of Utah there is so many parks and children places near by that we never get bored. There is also many different and nice gyms around and we have an international airport so you could fly straight home with no layovers. I have been a viewer for so long and would die if you lived in my state. 😁💕

[@Deano87]

Such a sweet gorgeous family ❤ saint is so sweet and his little giggle when you went to get the costume! Oh my heart . Me & my husband have 5 months twin girl ❤❤.. so we are right in the thick of it ( thank got they are sleeping through now ) but we both brought home our babies after our amazing surrogate handed them to us and was like what do we do now 😂 wouldn’t change it for the world

[@victoriafletcher195]

Come to the Hudson Valley in NY, it’s huge, so many places to live 🙃gorgeous nature/mountains/the river and a bunch of like pockets of suburban areas - I wonder how you guys would feel about Mamaroneck, Irvington and Bedford Hills/Mount Kisco. I grew up next to the bear mountain

[@victoriafletcher195]

3 or 4 major airports and great schools - a bunch of Montessori locations if that’s up your alley

[@karendyba5213]

Great vlog when you were in the Christmas shop and Conor was throwing that big ball ball up in the air couldn’t stop laughing lol they had some lovely things their . Can’t wait to see your house decorated xxx

[@Vrcccc]

Where is the brown dress from its soooo pretty❤❤

[@xxwillowpinkxx9901]

Hi Elle i've been watching you from Gran Canaria whilst on my holiday, i'm usually in England. Even while i'm away i still need my Elle fix. I know you've said you're not always glam which is so understandable but to me you are beautiful in and out you are the most positive vlogger i watch. Watching you always makes me smile i love your honesty and positivity 🥰

[@caitoconner]

I’m so curious about if you’d like Minnesota or Wisconsin! The Twin Cities in Minnesota and their suburbs have tons of things to do with lots of nature in the city and right outside it. Wisconsin has some gorgeous seasonal landscapes as well!

[@PrincessPebbles0_0]

Omg those places are awful… people are leaving in droves bc of the Governors there

[@mariannahughes2742]

PLEASE GO SEE ALPHARETTA, GEORGIA!! It’s hilly, all new infrastructure, live play areas, the Smokey mountains are 3 hours away, Charleston and Savannah are 3.5 hours away! Destin and 30A are 5.5 hours away! Disney is a 6 hour drive! Atlanta airport is a huge hub!

[@caitoconner]

I’m so curious about if you’d like Minnesota or Wisconsin! The Twin Cities in Minnesota and their suburbs have tons of things to do with lots of nature in the city and right outside it. Wisconsin has some gorgeous seasonal landscapes as well! I’ve also heard wonderful things about Michigan scenery, but I can’t speak to it.

[@danablackburn1902]

US girly here who's been living in the UK the last 5 years, but I have lived in every area of the US and traveled to 46/50 states... A few suggestions for you to consider: **Best place for young families:** Salt Lake City, UT area (anywhere in the Wasatch Front really, from Payson in the south to Kaysville in the north)... or if you want to be IN the mountains, places like Park City or Heber City... loads of nature opportunities nearby while being close to a bigger city with a more suburban feel. Loads of kid/family activities all year long bc so many people there have big families. Just a good, wholesome community. The mountains are stunning, and you do get all 4 seasons there. Con--the housing market there has been pretty expensive the last couple years. **Best place for Small Town America experience:** New England, but specifically in areas like Vermont, northern CT, New Hampshire... Brattleboro, VT is one of my faves. I spent two summers there and it is a gorgeous place where things like kayaking down the river or hiking through the woods is commonplace there and easily accessible. Harsher winters and very hot, humid summers without the benefit of AC in a lot of homes. But architecture, history, small town vibes all feel more quintessentially American than other places I have lived. Taxes and cost of living is higher here than some parts of the country, but housing can be cheaper depending on how far in the country you want to be. **Best place for nature-lovers who aren't skiers:** Pacific North-West, places like Portland, OR. where coast (more rocky beaches) and mountains are both accessible and the climate is more temperate so winters aren't quite as harsh as New England (more like the UK) if you don't live IN the mountains. The cost of living here is usually lower than California, but probably much higher than TX. Portland is a pretty diverse city but the rest of Oregon not as much. **Best overall place to raise a family:** Midwest, such as northern suburbs of Indianapolis. Carmel and Fishers, IN have both won the #1 place to live in the USA over the past several years, largely due to a combination of educational and extracurricular opportunities for kids of all ages, a moderate cost of living & housing compared to many other parts of the country, tons of family-friendly activities year round, job opportunities, etc. Good, wholesome communities with more of a small town America feel than UT and more affordable housing. However not as many obvious outdoor activities as places like CO, UT, or OR. Still plenty of beautiful neighborhoods with trails for walking and biking, and several state and city parks in the area where camping, hiking, even boating are possible. It might not be #1 for nature lovers, but the country side is beautiful and nearby like it is in the UK, and you get definite 4 seasons here. When my husband finally gets his US visa and we move to the US with our toddler, this is definitely one of the places on our list to consider because there is a whole lot to recommend it.

[@LexaWinter-vj5ef]

Massive homealone household, cons idea is perfect don’t forget home alone 3 had a dog (Leonberger) so can involve herbs and hecky haha also highly recommend buying the LEGO home alone house and light kit great build for of Easter eggs but looks brilliant on display all lite up in its casing x

[@debbieellis1862]

I was born in Nottingham but growup In Colorado it's great to live in castle rock or parker out of the city but you aren't far from Denver you should check it out love you and the family ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊

[@mellony5401]

You should definitely check out Boston its beautiful.

[@elisestarday6372]

Have you thought about Temecula or like Rancho Cucamonga etc places in California?

[@sarahjanemiddleton2077]

Ok - I feel you. I’m from Liverpool, moved to Norway and now I live in Texas. The middle of the boonies… Countryside isn’t the same. I recently travelled to Arizona (flagstaff) or Colorado (steamboat) I am still am trying to settle in here and not being by earth is making it difficult. You’ve been to some nice country in the hills. I’m excited to visit. You all need to go the riverwalk during Christmas since You’re close. It’s honestly My favorite place around Christmas :)

[@chloegorton8001]

Where are your earrings from, the hoops? ❤

[@elleswift]

revolve babe! x

[@JoBegg]

Where’s your lovely tennis bracelet from Elle? It’s so pretty xx

[@elleswift]

ring concierge my love xxx

[@JoBegg]

@@elleswift thank you xxx

[@emilyhunter7062]

Omg in that home goods store you MUST both do the ‘I’ll buy it if it’s less than…’ challenge that people are doing on tiktok😂🤞🏼

[@taylorsoanes3001]

Just used your code thank you!! Have always loved hair burst 🥰💗xxx

[@LisamarieandSaint]

Omg here at 2 mins ago 🎉 literally love your vlogs and your family xx

[@nickyratcliffe3812]

Lovely video love how you get out and about and omg CHRISTMAS shop yeeeees👍 Beautiful little family ❤️

[@tb9411]

I bet you would loveeee Tennessee!

[@jackiecox3196]

Your hair looks gorgeous Ellie ❤ loved this vlog 😊Saint is so clever xx my Grandson Archie was due on the 14th December but came late on the 28th December 🎉❤

[@Eliseee1995]

I’d love to know what your baby essentials are as you are now a pro !! Haha we’re having our first baby in March and I have no idea where to begin! X

[@Amanda.Slaton]

Elle!!! Come to Tennessee!! ALL. THE. THINGS. And no income tax! 🥳

[@ritalaus4357]

Hi Elle n conner o wow the Christmas decorations in the USA are just Amazing worth flying out there just to buy some 😊 loved the big baubles with the letters on. You look Amazing ella baby girl suits you.. have a great day xxxx❤

[@Thehennies]

I’m so intrigued to where you’ll move - I’d love to see the New England area 😂❤

[@Kez0264]

Lovely family ❤ Make my day ❤

[@chloeandkhane]

I’m from the UK and moved to Houston 3 years ago. We are looking to move to North Carolina or south carolina next year as we are in the same boat. We definitely crave more nature.

[@lynwilliams5262]

Ellie, absolutely love the baubles with letters on 😍 feel you at least need the 😆 and as Connor is going to be leaving you with two children at 38 weeks preggars, he needs to buy you the nutcracker 😂 xx

[@naomimacfarlane7769]

I think con should go with a guilty conscious 😂😂 make sure you emergency childcare at the ready!

[@DiannaKing-hh9te]

The Berkshires in Massachusetts is beautiful in the fall. Very woodsy.

[@ivyc7336]

Hi Elle! Oh if I could be 28 again there would be so many things I would do differently. I love that you're living your best life and at a young age hon. You are doing amazing! I'm a northern Cali girl now living in the DFW the past 7 years. Totally understand you on the extreme heat here in Texas and your need for nature. In our area everything is flat. No hills or mountains & no ocean. It was really hard for us to adjust in the beginning, but we've gotten used to it now. I do agree with other comments that y'all should check the suburbs of the upper East coast states. They get all 4 seasons and it's close to UK if you need to go back home for any reason. I'll really miss sharing a state with you guys if do leave Texas, but wish you all the best no matter where you go. ❤

[@bridiewright1519]

Morning hope you're well ♥️

[@BellaFerreira-kv2iy]

Wow Elle you look so fresh and Beautiful! 🌸 You are rocking it Girl🩵