How We Became Swingers | Our First Swinger Experience

[@ricktuttle5393]

So many haters responding. This young couple does what works for them. Good lord. Don’t comment if you’re going to be so negative. If it doesn’t work for you that’s fine. It works for them.

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Thank you for the kind words!

[@johnmoon9146]

Well said Rick. I totally agree with you. If it's not for you. Don't knock it.

[@Biychg]

exactly 🍍gang

[@Biychg]

@@johnmoon9146 🙏❤️

[@SacredOm369]

Most people run on violence and bratty behavior and can’t handle pleasure, care, and love.

[@IDWIE]

Having a partner(s) that you can fully share your kinks with is the best. Good for you guys

[@Chanceb005]

Your story sounds exactly like my wife and I. We were together since 15 and was each other's first everything. She came to mean while I was in college and said she was into girls and wanted to explore. And I'm a firm believer in living with no regrets. We participated in the LS before we knew what the LS was. Then bam we have been in the LS for 9 years and loving it.

[@harlenethridge4709]

Been in the lifestyle for about 20 years now and I have had some of the best years of my life doing this kudos to yall!!!!

[@CanadaLifefordesi]

Ohh, that's a nice experience. I should learn from you .

[@bethanystar]

I love your story-you make everything so much sweeter and not scary! Thank you!!!

[@pm71241]

Yeah... Good for you. Every relationship should have trust and love enough to do this together. Beautiful story.

[@moxxibekk]

My husband and and I have been together since we were 16, also from a conservative upbringing and each other's first kiss. We're now in our 30s, and while we've done some spontaneous hanky panky with others, haven't done full swinging yet. We have several friends in some form of poly lifestyle so they have been very encouraging of us dipping our toes in!

[@albertosaiz580]

Good for you and your wife to keep the relationship alive

[@Heathersworld4]

Fellow Lifestyle couple here….people here criticizing about our choices yet they cheat on their spouses, we have all the great/exciting sex without the cheating/drama etc….Lifestyle couples have 10x the amount of communication and trust a normal couple has!

[@trinistar1930]

Not everyone cheats though.

[@1wayMF]

I know a couple who swings and the wife still go’s off on her own and cheats on her husband. Don’t know why but she does

[@karlbryant5706]

Yes cheating is wrong

[@Bonsai-Miata2020]

@@karlbryant5706 This is why I say stay single and casual date. If your attractive enough plenty of people will invite you to swing with them

[@markjackman4943]

@@1wayMFBecause when people are given permission to bend boundaries, it’s human nature to push until those boundaries are broken ( often completely)…. It’s the old adage “ Give em an inch and they’ll take a mile”…🤷‍♂️

[@samrichmond2940]

Oh my goodness, your description of how you felt the day after is as if I was telling the story. That was so accurate for me and my lady!!

[@ricktuttle5393]

You two seem so amazing. What great lives you must lead.

[@marlanoronha4065]

Look at his eyes. He's a sad man.

[@Margar02]

@@marlanoronha4065 you're literally judging the shape of his skull and how it makes his eyes look. I think you may be the sad one, for judging this man's physical appearance.

[@marlanoronha4065]

@@Margar02 no, I'm showing signs of someone pretending happiness when actually they are sad.

[@kbanghart]

@@marlanoronha4065 sorry, but we really doubt this unless you can prove to us that you have some kind of cool Power that proves you can tell how people are feeling based on their eyes all the time.

[@jeffr4805]

You are both a cool couple and obviously show years of maturity of what’s necessary to maintain a long term relationship. Honestly, because you love someone you don’t stop having physical desires and curiosity. Seeing the level of good communication to explore together instead of being ordinary and cheating is wonderful! Keep doing what you have, love and fun. 😊

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

thank you so much for the kind words!

[@CprtFM]

Pure honest organic conversation…..really enjoyed!!

[@doug1863]

I have been in the lifestyle yrs ago. My wife , no. She is from Ecuador and she loves Italian men. So when she said she wanted to go to Italy (next yr) I immediately said yes. Hoping to have an Italian gentleman take her in Positano. Everyone cross your fingers. And yes she is receptive with nervousness

[@fu29999]

That's cool so you like watching your woman with another man to each is own i think its great you can ve so honest and free it helps me do what i need to do thank you

[@fu29999]

Whoops how the hell do i keep finding you ugh and no im not looking to be honest im just i don't no time to close this also fick

[@ashleygrisham8739]

Thank you so much for being so honest and sharing your story.

[@johnemerson8833]

Yall look good together! Happy for yall being able to be some open with each other.

[@coupleinarizona8900]

So all these negative comments from people who probably either think about other people, wish they were with other people, or strait cheated on their spouses and now want to play the holy part. I get it, some don’t do this, but let everyone be their own. If it ends bad or good it’s none of your business. And question. If you are so against this lifestyle, why you watching the videos. Oh, I know. You want too as well.

[@Biychg]

Couple video chat ?

[@MikeB-kq9hv]

I just scanned the comments and they looked all positive

[@bobbywunder9543]

Exactly how we were. High school sweethearts to now 25 years later we were the only thing we knew and the lifestyle has been amazing

[@donnafree266]

My husband and I are new to the LS and we are both bi. We met in daycare. We became a couple in 7th grade and well we have been married going on 13 years. And we think it’s so cute that we have similar stories ❤

[@aloeup2121]

My biggest takeaway from this video is that I realize that some people say "whenEVER I was 22..." and other people say "When I was 22". I'm from San Diego and didn't realize that a lot of people say "whenever" instead of "when". Curious where you're from if you say "whenever"

[@kellypringle-d9y]

I really enjoyed you “story” it’s stupefied special congratulations on making it work!

[@jasonvazquez2563]

I don’t think it’s for me but I think it’s great you guys can find happiness living your life like you do, good for you, much respect

[@doaimanariroll5121]

Just had my first swing with my partner of 10 years. Was with a good friend couple of ours, it kind of just happened, we did a full 4some and it is honestly the best experience of my life. I feel so much more open, like weight was lifted of my shoulders, i rekindled the lust for my wife and few so much more emotionally connected to myself.. My wife had mentioned curiosity about doing it and I was either here nore there, but now Ready to be in the swing. I never really was a super sexual guy, I enjoyed it but never really got super horny like others I know. But after that experience sort of understand what sex is capable of achieving in more of the “spiritually, emotionally, empathetic human connection kind of way” Everyone sharing themselves for everyone else’s pleasure, everyone caring for everyones feeling taking vibe check, communicating. It was honestly profound.

[@lonewulfmo9128]

thanks for sharing. I'm happy you are happy. i wish i could be secure and not jealous as you. I'd prefer to not know my wife doing it or did it and i'd prefer to be bored for eternity and not do it than do it and then my wife does it. has it every bothered you the knowledge that your wife pleasured sexually intensely maybe even more than you? I couldn't handle it. But i'm happy you happy bro.

[@albertosaiz580]

Good for you, I have never done a swinger thing with my wife and another couple before but I have had thoughts of watching my wife with someone else that she wanted to be with but had not happen yet

[@doaimanariroll5121]

@@albertosaiz580 personally I don’t think I could just watch and not be part of it. But yeah nothing wrong with that, live your life man. Your not gonna live for ever and your going to want to look back and know you’ve experimented with all the experiences you’ve been curious about. Live your best life.

[@PolyDiaries]

Thanks for sharing your stories, keep it up!

[@magicalfrijoles6766]

Did you stay in contact with the other couple?

[@jervonijames927]

Good job 👏🏽 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 My wife & I support you guys,

[@waquarsiddiqui3005]

Is stag entry is allowed in swinger clubs?

[@idonthavemonkey]

For guys, if you're a verified bull then maybe but probably not. For women, yes.

[@QuancelG]

She’s in control of this entire situation 😂 that’s all ima say

[@blairmcbride5437]

That's because he's a weak pathetic excuse for a man who can't sexually satisfy his wife and he's obviously the beta provider.

[@ShutnikActual]

exactly bro looks so depressed

[@dtrvdebunkingtherightvideo3898]

​@@ShutnikActualokay😂😂😂😂

[@emilylitchko9414]

I think he’s a little more interested in bringing men into the relationship…..no way that dude is straight

[@johnhendrickson300]

Nice! Me and my lady are possibly going to go to a swinger club for the first time here soon and feel out what we feel comfortable with. It’s one thing fantasizing about it in the bedroom vs actually having it available. I am a bit nervous tbh and hope I don’t chicken out!

[@harlenethridge4709]

Go for it and have a blast!!!

[@matthowell8985]

Talk about it quite a bit before you go. Make sure you're on the same page on boundaries. Transversely also talk about it quite a bit afterwards.

[@albertosaiz580]

You are both an awesome couple, your words and explanations definitely open my eyes to a real couple and what lead them to it, I have never thought about doing a swing with another couple before but I have had many thoughts for years for always having the fantasy of watching the women I love be with the man of her choice while I watch

[@ninakim7282]

What kinds of EMOTIONS pop up in a full swap?

[@ayafornehemia5062]

Swinging is just lustful desire being expressed in physical encounter....but i fear for sti ..how do one prevent all sort of sti in this multiple random sexual behavior.. please i want to learn more on how to prevent possible infections

[@bornahyard1]

How do you coupe with the 'haters', 'judgement people'?

[@Gmgcertified]

I can’t find you guys podcast

[@sonyacurti]

I ❤ YOU TWO! Why do you think it makes you closer? I so badly want to try swinging.

[@sonyacurti]

I don't see the podcast listed but really Want to listen 😢

[@ahmahlamedu5626]

Love This and will be joining the LifeStyle soon!

[@michaeldickerson9562]

How many years ago was your first experience back in Vegas and whatever happened to that other couple did you ever keep in touch somehow ???

[@paulrath7764]

Do you exchange Christmas cards now?

[@simonreverb]

Cool, that you talk about your experiences. 👍👍

[@tofty21]

Bella is gorgeous!

[@AnonymousDave]

Thanks for sharing your story so I took a chance and I went with my wife to a lifestyle club and our marriage has been reignited. Our sex. Life is better we didn’t swap. We just basically had fun in public and watched other people the idea of swapping my wife someone else does scare me as how it might turn eight otherwise good relationship into something negative. What are your thoughts on that?

[@kidlat1968]

It would be nice if you guys will share your swinger experiences like telling a story how it went, i think more people would be more interested with that

[@Margar02]

I think they do on their podcast. I don't think youtube would like it if they were too explicit

[@kidlat1968]

@@Margar02 oh I did not know they have a podcast, do you have a link to it? or have you seen one by any chance? thank you in advance

[@andrewrobinson2565]

We started dating at 15 too. 40 year wedding anniversary in 2024 🎉😊❤️. We played from 18 to 58. Marvellous 👍.

[@groove269]

What happens if you or your partner is interested in one of the other couple but you or your partner is not? Does the one not interested take one for the team so their spouse can enjoy? I can’t imagine you can be interested physically with most couples

[@Lukey2481]

Not usually. My wife and I have our own hand signals. If something is amiss we flash a signal and go talk quickly. If it's no good for one of us we excuse ourselves and leave.

[@walkingmiracles9706]

guys favorite place to travel to to discreetly swing?

[@jeffblake4324]

hey its innocence its life with all its raw feelings and emotions!!

[@TheVoyceman]

Thanks for all you sharing. It is appreciated

[@ThePiperBlushExperiment]

Thank you for the story.

[@dearred2923]

You guys are living my dream life. ✨️ 👍😁❤️😜

[@andrewrozhen513]

Who is stopping you from living this dream yourself?

[@vamsi8669]

11:47 podcast

[@TashiTV813E]

I think anything can work if you constantly work on your self esteem, self acceptance, and communication. Most in society wear a mask instead of being open and at least talk about these things. It may not be for you and better to put that on the table and not waste both parties' time! I've talked to a few women that I potentially would have had a relationship with and they tried to make me feel guilt about something that I desire which told me a lot! When I do get with someone I trust its gonna be some time till we try, but until then I'm fine with just dating!

[@reidszukala8058]

You guys seem really cool and are lucky to have each other 😊

[@MrCashmoneymula]

I love this for you guys!

[@hartonfam2488]

So my wife and I are new and the life style and are trying to figure.

[@sonyacurti]

Found the podcast!!!! Yay!!!

[@AG-ok7no]

I always wondered, are some people just born without a jealousy bone? Is jealousy nature or nurture? Just can't imagine watching the woman I love doing things with another man.

[@richardjohnson4052]

I have a lot of questions about this. Some youtube will banish me for even trying to ask them. g-rated: did it bother you to watch another man with your wife? Were you afraid that she would prefer him to you? Did you have rules like 'only when all are together' or if she runs off to be with him alone is that cheating? etc.... I am asking this because you two are real people.

[@clarkness77]

Not answering for them but people do love to watch sex. With your loved one might be kinda hot

[@anniekisuarez7909]

One word this is love ❤

[@jeriqosantos]

me and my wife discussed about having a 3some with another female as she is also attracted to other females. Im heavily against the idea of another male having sex with her. does that qualify as a swinger? does my idea work at a swinger cruise?

[@aminatritar4096]

Love you guys & your relationship ❤️

[@lonnieholbert8898]

Good video. We tried to get in for 3 years and our expierance wasnt nearly as good. Those who love it cant imagine life any other way, those who are not its not. Must learn and follow the rules.

[@ericfreshcorn3590]

What About A Threesome I ant Involved

[@chrisstephenson3695]

What a beautiful story ! I so wish me and my wife would have had that!

[@editingandtutorials]

Believe me you will regret stay with your wife.

[@chrisstephenson3695]

@@editingandtutorials thank you but we aren't together anymore instead of of doing that together she decided to cheat I left her

[@editingandtutorials]

@@chrisstephenson3695 oh sry man.

[@kbanghart]

@@chrisstephenson3695 sorry about that. Usually, people will cheat no matter what kind of relationship it is, monogamy or not. But don't let that affect other relationships if you can help it. My wife and I would never have done it, but we have been married almost 25 years now and we're both intimate with other people and loved it.

[@RM-bj7no]

I wish I can experience this but my wife's not into it.

[@stupidlog9795]

Your wife conservative I think

[@johnmoon9146]

You and I, my wife not into it as well. She does like to watch me with others.

[@kbanghart]

@@johnmoon9146 wow lucky man!!

[@kbanghart]

@@stupidlog9795 my wife isn't conservative as far as politics, but she is more of a prude in the bedroom

[@JefferyMoore-g6o]

The hard part is finding a partner, one you can sinc with. To many people can't handle the situation.

[@emeryszabo8173]

Hi from Canada i think you guys are AMAZING!!!!!!!!!! i wish i would have had that in my life!!!!!!!!!!! all the best and KEEP on SWINGING!!!!!!

[@burkey548]

omg the vid is beyond brilliant i got my wife to play with one of my best friends they have done it now six or seven times i would dream to bring my wife on one of these cruises i would love to see if we both could play with some one different i know she would love to go on one

[@gavinballin2323]

I agree I bet it’s all about the first experience

[@Last_Chance.]

Y'all are the minority. This hardly ever works out for highschool sweethearts. I love it!! Y'all are awesome

[@aloeup2121]

I'd go further and call them "anomalies". And if I could get money down on them not "being together forever," I'd happily bet the house.

[@jamesg2609]

Great video.. have fun enjoy the LS

[@chrisbaco2835]

I wouldn’t do this but if it works for them it works for them

[@ricardosanvicente1236]

Do you guys happen to have an only fans account somewhere to check you guys out a huge fan?

[@beckyumphrey2626]

Destroyed my marriage.

[@levinolan636]

It's perverted.

[@editingandtutorials]

I'm happy with the same person for the rest of my life. Really not into swapping and swinging life.

[@wvblank42]

It’s not for everyone, but that’s good for you

[@kbanghart]

And that's good for you, you really didn't have to comment on this video but thank you for not being rude about it.

[@rico5393]

Nobody gives AF

[@michaellee5399]

So there is cry babies complaining about someone stating they don’t like this lifestyle? D’awwww

[@Deuceblank]

Oh it makes sense now❤😂 seen yall at colette a few times. Yall have bring that youthful first love energy to the club. Live laugh love

[@Giggidygiggidy12]

Whats Colette?

[@richardwales58]

Don’t see nothing wrong with it as long as you don’t catch anything

[@wendychiverton2779]

U r both such a lovely couple but Bella u r beautiful, if I ever went to a swingers club I believe I'd be a Unicorn which I understand r hard to find. Thanks for sharing Ur first time it's very interesting

[@chrisquintana3877]

This never last ....ever .

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

We’re celebrating our 17th anniversary this year 💗

[@michjesto2038]

Omg Bella 😮❤

[@eddiejamesmagic4207]

They seem happy and he seems so happy id almost have another term for it like super happy or whats that other term you could call an overly happy man??? Its right there on the tip of my tongue oh well great show

[@davidfrancis4218]

This dude married wayyyyyy above his head. She’s gorgeous! They were not ready to marry.

[@stevanbones3861]

If it works for you it does good luck to you life is for living.

[@chrisstephenson3695]

Jase you lucky dog!

[@harshpalkhera2471]

well i m single,but do love the idea of full swap,it turns me on,hopefully i can a partner as understanding as u guys,lots of love nd dream to see u guys💘❤

[@garyrunnalls7714]

Very cool

[@Joe-zt7ef]

I am a cuck but absolutely love watching my wife, I have never been so in love with her, Its been 20 years and the love grows stronger every time :)

[@Oldworldlove]

That's weird. No offense i just don't get it. You like watching her with other men?

[@benjaminharris8359]

I love this story! Block out the haters! That means you're doing something Great! Getting closer after a great experience and understanding that most people can't enjoy that high level of pleasure! I love seeing my GF enjoy herself. Yes, Sometimes I need help. =) Also I love people and getting to know someone new, even for a little bit is refreshing and exciting. Lastly, I love talking and explaining what just happen is so Hot, warm, and Loving. It's not for everyone but when things line up.... It's just simply orgasmic that last longer than a couple of seconds. You can relive the experience in your head over and over again! Sex should be fun too, right?

[@vishnuraj3045]

Nice

[@growinmoflower3391]

Sounds fun!✌

[@scrambler69-xk3kv]

Lucky guy, she is smoken, Wish they were Adult industry stars.

[@stefanomillionairemarketin8975]

You’re a wonderful couple, wish you well from me and my Gf

[@tonyscott6039]

Dude looks like a 50's prisoner. All good do you buddy !!!!!!

[@WollisWorld]

I have to say sheesh u have a strong heart lol I couldn’t fathom seeing some other men conquering my woman no disrespect to you

[@kbanghart]

And that's okay, it doesn't have to be for you but it's cool for the rest of us

[@ElectricShinn]

It has nothing to do with a strong heart. Neither are making a sacrifice, they are communicating of what they like. Communication is key. I would argue swingers have better communication then most monogamous couples

[@moxxibekk]

While you are absolutely ok with not wanting to cross that line, please don't use the phrase "conquer my woman" she isn't a piece of land.

[@jasonk2947]

⁠@@moxxibekkmaybe he doesn’t believe in wide open borders 😂

[@BabyGirl-hq5cr]

😍💞waaa

[@c99bbu]

Hey guys swinging is loads of fun, Bella I like a girl with your looks, I’d like to meet you for fun.

[@Bluescorpio75]

❤❤❤

[@bridgettc90bc]

🤦‍♀️

[@MrsCIA-th7yu]

What games do u2 play?? Pizza guy flirt?

[@elnino2410]

Liberated is overrated

[@skyblue_2426]

I call 🧢 these two the most squared couple on yt definitely not no swingers anything for a these views

[@S.J.1.9.9.1]

Eeek...I have no idea how to have this conversation with my other half....