What Really Happens At Swingers Clubs? | The Truth About Swingers Clubs

[@caregiverinitaly]

To all plus size nervous about going to a club, go. Both my husband and I are big and everyone was so respectful. There are people out there that prefer someone with some extra meat on their bones.

[@johnlemma401]

Ewww

[@KV-mz8ro]

How big?

[@outdoor_adventures_1015]

@@KV-mz8ro my previous partner was size 22 uk. No problems at all x

[@outdoor_adventures_1015]

@@KV-mz8ro I've seen bigger ladies and blokes in a few clubs and it's never an issue, not with me or my lass 😋

[@stevenhughesjr3207]

Thank you for that you just boost my confidence as being an big guy I was Skepta bowl about going even though I paid to go On how would I be treated and would I be Accepted in this type of club

[@bertram46]

I used to live in Cleveland and was a part of that scene for a while with my girlfriend and we thoroughly enjoyed it everybody was kind and respectable no complaints at all and so fun

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

So true! Really great people!

[@makaylahargrove2537]

I live close to the area any club recommendation

[@diptanudey9175]

How much it costs??

[@bertram46]

@@diptanudey9175 it's not very expensive go on the websites

[@dhice69]

My community needs a club for swingers and singles. ❤️❤️❤️😍

[@rodneyjaynes2485]

I have a membership and it's still going to cost me $60 to get in? A night? What's the point of having a membership?

[@stevecarter2876]

So they still can make money if you choose not to attend

[@AB-mp5qe]

The point is exactly this. To make people rethink whether or not its worth it. And when they do come in, they are more likely to behave rather than risk losing that money. Its an insurance system. Everyone pays in and the high price keeps the riff raff out. Tried and true method. And if it still sounds like its too much money or a scam to you.......that's the system working.

[@krhawkins91]

My experience with swingers clubs it can be a hit and miss overrally is fun as hell.

[@Rose_19911]

hi how can it sometimes be a miss?

[@vampoftrance]

I went with a man who is a swinger, for five years. As a female I was free, single men paid over 100, and the couples were 10-25 dollars. I brought my men friends too, we liked to use the pool or tanning a natural like nudists. I like to watch or just talk to the couples very nice people.

[@KFrink100]

Where are these clubs located?

[@Bill-j2g]

Voyeur here. Glad you mentioned that. Now I don't feel weird

[@solarguy1702]

Haha! My next door neighbors owned a club and invited me all the time. So, the night I retired, I finally went. He was in shock but glad to see me. No charge. Technically, I was a single male cuz my wife was in the Philippines with whom I joined 15 days later. As a 54 year old single male, nothing was happening for me but fortunately I ran into a couple I knew. Stayed a while and then headed home. Nice place with lots to do. Be a whole lot better had my wife been with me.

[@twiinz711]

Where?

[@solarguy1702]

@@twiinz711 Portland Oregon, 39th & Powell

[@jayteesgear]

You guys seem way nice. Lifestyle is so much different than most expect. I miss it but as a single guy now i dont even try to go to these. Im sure i’ll meet a lifestyle woman again and start up in the scene again but theres no respect for single guys. Totally respect your bravery. Many professionals are scared to death to have their faces shown publicly. Lifestyle should be more accepted. ❤️.

[@gueto70]

The clubs around here have a meet and greet brunch once a month. Purely platonic event. Great way to feel out the group and make social connection. Decided to go to the party to just see what it was like. Met a single girl at the party. been married 18 years now. You won't catch sea bass fishing in a river.

[@houmatthew]

I went to a swinger's club several years ago. It was a nightclub setup.....as in, there were no "intimacy" areas or rooms. It was just a night club with some sexy dancing. I was with a girl and we were sat with 4 married couples. My girl was quite attractive and the girls at our table would not leave her alone....touching her in every different way. It seemed to me from just this one experience that these clubs are for bisexual women who have husbands/boyfriends. Is that a common theme in most swinger's clubs???

[@brucesvlogspace9651]

Where is it ?

[@yishihara55527]

@@brucesvlogspace9651 EXACTLY!!! LOL

[@kristieric3893]

The women approach the other women at these parties as to not put their men in awkward positions to be turned down. If a woman was coming on to your woman, that probably meant that she and her man were each of you as a couple. The women are the aggressors & usually flirt & play together for a minute, but then they’ll each turn to the other woman’s male partner and proceed with swapping. Not saying we do this, but we have lots of swinger friends & have been to many many parties. Even as a spectator, you will have fun watching & will probably have a fantastic night following (from lots of sexy visuals you’ll see at the party) Also, they’re correct in the fact that all body types/shapes/appearances/genders are great, b/c there are lots of people there with different tastes, preferences& kinks. They’re usually very open to questions upon first meeting them so just ask what they’re into. Tell them what you’re into. They’ll prob introduce you to another couple who has similar interests in the bedroom. Trust me, you can go & have a blast just enjoying the atmosphere. You’re eyes will not get bored, I promise. Also, only secure couples should do this, but know that everyone there is happily coupled together & they’re not trying to steal your lover. Everyone knows that playtime is only for tonight. The girls can exchange numbers or the guys can exchange numbers to remain friends or to play in future. Been married for over 20 years & my husband can not say he’s bored with our sex life. That’s for sure! Lol 😂 FUN times ahead! 🔥🔥

[@brucesvlogspace9651]

@@kristieric3893 Thank you for reply. Hard to find a safe and confidential way to make it happen. But still trying.

[@outdoor_adventures_1015]

@@kristieric3893 awesome, me and my girl are nervous for our first time!

[@gabezepeda5010]

where ya get the chains bro? they're so dope. awesome vid!

[@sanintantonio]

What club do you guys recommend in NYC?

[@michellefreeman4775]

Have you ever been to the Scarlet Ranch in Colorado? I have never been to a swingers club before and I’m newly divorced and have always wanted to go. Any suggestions?

[@lady_of_the_funk]

I looked this up as a joke and for laughs. However, after watching the video and reading the comments, I must say that I now respect this culture and lifestyle. I would not want to try it though. That said, I’ll no longer look at this as a joke, as there is nothing wrong with sexually confident people expressing themselves sexually. Thanks for the video. I learned something useful.

[@xomelxo1435]

My husband and I have gone a bunch of times - it’s not what’s expected at all. We aren’t in the LS, but it’s not an uncomfortable setting like you’d think it would be. The people who go are so freaking respectful too. You’d never think they would be, but they are. I’ve been far more uncomfortable in regular club / bar settings than at any swinger club. It’s wild.

[@Punkin120]

My husband is about watching me with someone but I’m am not ok with sharing him. Is that a normal in these clubs because he wants us to go

[@lettuceboy2382]

There are a surprising number of men in couples that just want to watch. Communication is key

[@andreculler5398]

Ive never been to a swingers club-but the way yall described the dance floor sounds like all the house parties ive been to in the 90s. I plan to visit soon

[@outdoor_adventures_1015]

The dancefloor can be tricky in these clubs 😉🤣

[@THATMIAMIDOLPHIN]

Great stuff, my wife and I have been talking about trying a club out. It's great to have some idea of how they are run and a general sense the atmosphere. Hopefully we will be trying one out soon.

[@kbanghart]

Have you tried it yet?

[@THATMIAMIDOLPHIN]

@kbanghart no, not yet. Not because we don't want to, life has been way too serious lately. Unfortunately, it requires far too much of our attention. Things are starting to look up, though .

[@kbanghart]

@@THATMIAMIDOLPHIN us too. Busy. Next weekend, we're going away without kids and so that should be fun

[@Jay-vr9ir]

I have been checking into AMTRAK Swingers Vacations .The rooms are a great set up for swingers , plenty of privacy and private restrooms and showers. The overnight tours are great , the people with rooms get breakfast and dinner included , people riding in coach are not allowed in the room coaches .

[@bigpoppa800]

do you have to pay, to do into these rooms??? or, once you pay the entrance fee, you get all access???

[@MrTech226]

I have not been to a swinger club for a while due to Pandemic. My friend and his girlfriend usually go with me to the club. She stated that I am her boytoy or friends with benefits. She is into anything sexual. Most pleasuring that I love is watching women making out because they might want me to join them. I missed it because I have a girlfriend that I love. She informed her experiences with other women, but she informed those days were over for her. I don't want to push the idea to her because she told me that she gets jealous now. I also informed her my past experiences too. I am thinking it is up to her if she wants to

[@stevecarter2876]

Another thing to bear in mind: being a member does not guarantee you will get laid, as its not a brothel

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

100% true. Never have any expectations!

[@GeorgeMcGraw-k5d]

When I see clips of swingers online, they tend to be older people. Is this the reality of the environment in these clubs?

[@deevs3973]

We own a condo at Secrets in Florida, which is a Swingers lifestyle club. We do not live in Florida, so we can only get there a few times a year. My wife and I love being there. There are so many awesome people there, and we have fit right in. Everyone is so respectful there. We came there from the kinky lifestyle, and went there because they have a dungeon. We loved it so much that we became a permanent resident by getting one of the condos there. If you are at all interested in going to one, we highly recommend it. I enjoyed the video. It was on point and good information. Great job explaining what to expect at one.

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Thanks so much for the kind words about the video! and that's awesome about secrets! We're going for the first time in October!

[@deevs3973]

@@4OURPLAYofficial Awesome! It's a fun place. Check out room 154. That's ours. Hope to meet you two sometime.

[@derekhorton3584]

Where is Secrets?

[@deevs3973]

@@derekhorton3584 In Kissimmie, FL

[@zmiller8120]

You ever go to Rooftop resort in Fort lauderdale?... we've gone a couple times throughout this past year . Great experience

[@frankyavery]

OMG thanks for the advice. Single female new to my town. There's a club here that apparently is pretty classy (guys have to wear suits) and they apparently have good food and whatnot, so I'd like to check it out.

[@clifflong7944]

I lived at a club in Denver. Being part of the lifestyle gave me access to all of the other local clubs for heavy discounts. Anything you were into was available to me for about 2 years. Hard to believe someone could ever get tired of sex but it's true.

[@firehouse6226]

Hard to believe that anyone could get tired of marijuana but its true.

[@jasonbrown7258]

Same with alcohol

[@daniellamoreno3616]

What about getting tested or safety?

[@clifflong7944]

@@daniellamoreno3616 Some had regular partners. Some only with protection. Responsibility was always highly encouraged. Most were people in positions of authority. Cops,Lawyers, Judges,Military and the like so they were pretty careful about such things.

[@rareform6747]

Not at 7 years no sex when I had it more then most !

[@aeronmarvelous3393]

Great video. So informative. Thank you.

[@stevewallace4089]

I am opening a club in Atlantic City How do I advertise it and keep it private

[@Danny-pi1xh]

Do any of these clubs test for STDs? And is there a respectful way to reject someone who is into you?

[@sanderjansen5187]

We are from the Netherlands and found out on our holiday that American clubs are way less eventful than in Europe. Clubs in Europe are more expensive but totally all inclusive. And you see a lot more happening everywhere😂😊

[@karllarsen8797]

@sandersansen5187, Would you clarify for us what you mean specifically by "American clubs are way less eventful than in Europe"? Do you mean American clubs have less participants than European clubs? Or do you mean American clubs have more people gawking and watching than people actually participating in sexual activity? If one goes to Europe, which clubs in the Netherlands would you recommend?

[@BrandonROGERS1776]

Y'all need jesus

[@ronnieterry4916]

So it's a normal thing to go to one of the places and just watch? Assuming that the areas are open and not a closed areas?

[@buttercupdabaddieutonium9257]

So how does it work for single LGBT members? I curious about joining the lifestyle as I just found a local club that’s ten minutes from my house, only thing is I’m lesbian.

[@bertram46]

From my limited experience I can tell you lesbians are very welcome as a lot of women are either curious or bi and of course the husband's love it. The odds of you getting somewhere alone with a woman or two I would say are pretty slim. I have always fantasized about wanting to be with a good-looking trans and a girl that's probably a needle in a haystack. Good luck to you. It's fun

[@byrondorsey8184]

Any luck?

[@daniellescott6701]

If you taught me what to do. I would be down. Not a pun. 😊

[@wolf3five]

What happens if you go there just to see and you and your partner just push every one away and not do anything is that ok or is there rules for people like that

[@HatersHaveOpinion1]

What’s The Names Of The Clubs For New Jersey & New York?

[@black5corpion76]

Any good recommendations for Nyc clubs

[@macmcgee5116]

I believe I heard that you guys are in Dallas. I was able, (barely) to convince my wife to try Collette a few years back. I wish I had known then that things didn't really kick off until after midnight. We got there around 9 and just sat around for a loooong time. Neither of us are really party or dance types so we got pretty bored. My wife is really introverted. I am too, but not as much as her. So we never really met anybody and by the time things started getting going she was ready to leave and the back areas were too crowded for her to feel comfortable just looking around. She refused to ever go back. Really it just wasn't her thing, so we have yet to try pursuing it again. It well just have to remain a fantasy of mine.

[@christopherderrick2923]

So i can go to these clubs to make friends. That is nice I'm new to my state and well I'm very nervous when meeting new people. Never been to one but it has always seemed interesting and wanted the experience.

[@CoastalBachelor2009]

No. You’re trying to pretend you’re not trying to get laid.

[@s0urp0wer5]

Let's be real. The swingers life is all about women. Don't even try to break in as a single man. Its impossible

[@AB-mp5qe]

I work at a club. It is not impossible. Most men are just unable to stop being dicks. And unlike a bar, most clubs actually don't need your money. 90% of their income is from couples looking for other couples. If every club you visit seems unwelcoming to you.....its you.

[@darnelljefferson8617]

Swinger clubs are for couples and single women (no single men B.S.)🤷🏾‍♂️

[@stevecarter2876]

Not so, but fees for single guys are higher

[@yurayesse2281]

Any information on swingers club in North Carolina?

[@hectordepuertorico]

Where do I find a club for a couple?

[@tiywithlady]

So does everyone get tested? Like can you not get in if you have a non curable STI? That’s my main question really.. not sure why this wasn’t like the first thing mentioned lol

[@AlexRodriguez-rx7fu]

Hey beautiful I’m a 24y bull out in Cali socal area I’m looking to swing I’m very new at this and would love to pay for your sti test if would like to collab

[@tiywithlady]

Adding to my comment: I be super paranoid & there are people out there who will know they have something & just wont tell you.. I get that you're provided protection (condoms) but even that could go wrong lol. Did you guys have to show test results?

[@AlexRodriguez-rx7fu]

@@tiywithlady personally I like to start off with a date so that way we can get to know each other first you feel me I don’t like to just jump into sex bc I am too paranoid of catching something I wouldn’t even mind going to get tested together or independently but I feel more at ease when sharing that we both tested negative and seeing that result on paper but not everyone is like that everyone has their boundaries and what not but their is shady people out there that do try to hid that fact they have something if you don’t want to get tested that’s fine but at the end of the day I’m going to protecting myself and potentially others by simply getting tested some people get offended or sometimes people get a little worried bc of the cost of tests but there are some good affordable testing kits and even planned parenthood as an option plus getting tested allows you be raw with your partners if that doesn’t cross their boundaries

[@AlexRodriguez-rx7fu]

@@tiywithlady adding to my comment I wouldn’t mind paying for such a beautiful woman like yourself whether you would like to buy a testing kit over the counter or if you would like to go to a place like planned parenthood I would pay for you if you wouldn’t mind getting to know each other you if you live in Cali socal

[@nathanwilliams9338]

​@@tiywithladyhmu you can join me n my girl we can show tests

[@sdfiske64]

There is a swingers nudist club west of Ft Worth TX. Very nice people. I'd recommend it.

[@zancooper3876]

Pls share club name if you don’t mind. thanks

[@robertorey3767]

My wife and I are considering going to a club. We are not into sharing, more like voyeur and just to spice it up. Is that cool in clubs? Good video!

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Yes, for sure! Everyone has their own rules and boundaries! As long as you’re not being disrespectful to anyone then you are good to have whatever boundaries you like! And thanks for the support on the video!

[@bertram46]

Yes just to reiterate that is totally cool we did that a lot it's better than porn believe me

[@stevecarter2876]

Totally cool, but if others are naked then you and your partner will need to be the same ( even when you're only watching )

[@robertorey3767]

@@stevecarter2876 really? Ok good to know. Thanks.

[@bertram46]

@@stevecarter2876 actually we did it both ways. However for mutual comfort and just getting used to things all off :)

[@anthonyreforzo6969]

how do i find our where my local clubs are at??

[@highounty4041]

Swinging on Valentine’s Day wtfff 💀

[@venkatChekuri-pi1se]

How many Indian couples do you typically see in a swingers club ? We are an Indian couple and exploring this lifestyle. Please respond

[@StrikerStorm-c5e]

Hey Venkat! We are Indian couple and want to swap couples and participate in swingers. Can we connect and see where it goes?

[@nairbikes1227]

Based in 🇺🇸? We are a couple experimenting the lifestyle and are based in 🇬🇧

[@Oscarmartinez-lz4fb]

I'm here for you

[@NikTribal]

Do we need to use global protection? Is necessary. To have this if we meet couple in private?

[@oxfordlocalsclassifiedads-6969]

did a wife swapping party once, it was pretty cool, got a decent HI FI system for her

[@willsmith39]

😂😂😂

[@mr.logicpants2835]

@4OurPlay, Are you married and if so do you play with others meaning are you not monogamous?

[@oraciomoreno9106]

Thanks for the insight. Really enjoy the podcast

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Thanks so much for the support! Glad the video helped!

[@ravikumartembhare9539]

How to join this clubs

[@kenr4709]

That was a very good explanation of what happens at swingers clubs, could you talk about courtesies, how you approach other people to play?

[@NSResponder]

I've met countless idiots who learned the hard way that life is not a Heinlein novel. If you're not capable of being faithful to your spouse, your marriage is a sick joke.

[@bertram46]

That's why you don't cheat only cowards cheat

[@stevecarter2876]

This is a world away from cheating, the couple's are being totally honest with each other

[@bertram46]

@@stevecarter2876 agreed. ABSOLUTELY. I remember talking to a close friend of mine who continually cheated on his wife. I told him why don't you do the lifestyle. He went bolistic on me lol said it's disgusting. Go figure

[@Applejuice9694]

Here’s the bottom line. If you’re gonna cheat or have multiple partners, don’t get married. While I admire Swingers for their candidness and openness, but at the end of the day. If you look at the sex lives of our current youth, threesomes and multiple partners are and have rapidly become the norm. They realize they can fulfill all their fantasies without feeling the need to marry. Values have changed.

[@nativeamerican3292]

eden club oklahoma do you work there how much is it

[@samcotten2416]

Where do I find one of these places?

[@sw5824]

When i was a teenager in nyc we had Plateaus Retreat. I attended with an older lady. Many years later i attended as a guest at a club party at a rented suite in Atlantic city with her niece and i attended as a quest 2x with her niece private club party in PA. My advice be extremely opened minded and respectful the better the experience. If youre not into something kindly politely let the seeker know. Example 2 couples are vibing seeking light convo lite touching. Hubby getting oral from another mans wife as other hubby looks on other hubby later asks the hubby who has fed on his wife can he finish him off? Be kind if youre not ready for that. Women having all girl sex for the 1st time when they didnt think they would and achieve release is the best turn on to watch.

[@stevecarter2876]

Google

[@The420dude6]

Went to a swinger club once got there no one talked to me at all after five minutes I left haven't been to one since way to boring

[@bfitnessjoe]

lol no body wants a sausage party. Bring your wife or stay out.

[@angurisloud]

Love your Podcast! You guys are great!

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Thank you so much!

[@nadiekim8336]

Great episode, really like your podcast! are you on audea?

[@Karou878]

It's amazing

[@angurisloud]

Love that you enjoy Kara & Nates channel! Love your podcast!

[@davidbetteridge5956]

Would like to find the club around in this area

[@gabriellaheringer373]

What is a swinger house?

[@alejandrav1146]

This my frist time going what club do your guys recommend en Ohio ?😅

[@thomaswashington4447]

Eros is in Ohio. Very nice club.

[@bornahyard1]

Dare I ask if picture taking or videoing allowed? (consensual of course)

[@stevecarter2876]

I used to attend my local club. I was given some great advice : the more social you are with other members,the more chance there is of you getting laid

[@davida7559]

Lame 😒

[@stevecarter2876]

@@davida7559 What's lame about that?

[@markusshelby3436]

Sounds good but you didn't say whether or not you got any.. I usually have them pull me into a room and find me while they're guys licking some fat woman's toes....

[@novadon4729]

@Steve Carter I guess he's not a really social person. So he's mad he might not be getting laid if he goes lol

[@Strawberrypocky911]

I’d be a Unicorn though, would the same rule apply to me?? or are Unicorns equally expected to make the first move?

[@cd2888]

I use to work security at a lifestyle club. I would have to break up fights every night I worked.

[@koilover7740]

Do you have a list of clubs in Las Vegas 👍

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Our blog, listed in the description, has a list of every club by state!

[@woodslife]

"Like walking through the airport." More like walking through Walmart.

[@williamclayton9566]

Or the DMV

[@nuttyjunior]

How common is bdsm in the swinger lifestyle?

[@ryanmetrostateriveravmpd]

glad to subscibe to your channel and support you this video educated me alot thank you :)

[@mondayrenteria2941]

Can sw work at any of these clubs?

[@joedavis2377]

They would never let us take money from them😂

[@MrSiah007]

My wife and I just joined the Princeton club in Columbus Ohio and are super nervous 😬

[@Earths_Hero]

Do the clubs require std tests before entering?

[@AB-mp5qe]

Does Tinder require an STD test before downloading? About 70% of tinder meetups end in sex. About 1/3 of a club on any given night even goes back into the playroom. Most socialize and feel the vibe. You're in charge of having safe sex. If you don't need a bathroom attendant to help you piss when you go to the restroom, you don't need a club to tell you to have safe sex.

[@blandchicken5353]

​@@AB-mp5qeWhere are you getting the 70% stat? The only relevant Tinder stat I can find says that only 1 in 5(20%) of people on Tinder have ever had sex with someone they met on the app.

[@tomnohmy1273]

These two are a couple and swing. Interesting. Anything is possible. Love it.

[@jamieleroy4243]

😂😂😂😂 I see you brother

[@Crytoboxer35]

They didn’t let me in ,, I wore overalls and a trucker hat. I was trying to get sum.

[@johnnyjujitzu]

Wish we had a club near St Louis, all we have are strip clubs that do couples nights but they are not the best places.

[@royburns6490]

I’ve always wanted to be able to swing with my wife bud she won’t so I dream of what I desire but never get it m. How?

[@frankwhite1288]

My gf and I have been kind of curious about this, but we can’t even find any information on local clubs.

[@stevecarter2876]

Google is always the best bet, most clubs will have websites

[@juicyyqueen9543]

Which swinger club did you both go to ?❤😊

[@dazzlemejay7268]

What’s it like as a single female going. I’ve been invited to one but have never been before and at present have my v card still

[@buellfuel2001]

What a great explanation and very common to what I have experienced going to five clubs that I've been to

[@FM-tx5es]

Great vid and even better comments. Are there implied age limitations? I’m older but in good shape. Is there an implied age cutoff or are seniors welcome? Honestly!

[@vincentolmos2263]

Hmm 🤔

[@ShereeseSR]

Hey this is Sherry I tried to look up clubs like this in my area in Kentucky I couldn’t find any. I know years ago we had many clubs like this around but not sure now! I’m wondering would it be under a different name other than Swingers club??

[@sophiaskeens6417]

Apparently there is one in Louisville called Tempted. I plan on checking it out soon.

[@1Whitetail]

There's a few in KY, Lexington and Louisville has them, good luck.

[@wassimjacob9485]

No cover for stinky boxes

[@adamjohnson3779]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@psychoticgeniusproductions83]

I worked at that club lol it was fun to work and I gave a few shows

[@kirkwilson5905]

Great video. Thanks for putting it together.

[@lonnhoffman6865]

And just how many single men have you as a couple or your club rejected? Talk about your bias towards single men! Wow, again sexual bias against men. You two are so against men it’s not funny

[@seanmiklo8870]

I found your KZbin channel by accident.. but i found it very interesting.. great video. 👍

[@martinaguiler3976]

Where some people doing the Na sty and public can take peek.. and whetev😊

[@samuelcohen2362]

Most swingers clubs in my area don't allow single men in at all. Only couples who pay a door fee and single women who get in for free. I've never been to one, I only know this because Patrice O'neal would joke about it all the time. Probably why this video was in my recommended feed, since I always watch Patrice vids 😂 He loved these clubs. RIP 🙏

[@stanspb763]

When I still lived in the US I had a GF who was very sexual, more than me but we had a good relationship. When she seduced the 19 year old just married girl next door, I was not happy about that despite them inviting me to join. I really did not like interfering with a marriage and especially such a young girl, who was a tall slim beauty, and very shy. So I suggested my GF find a club she felt comfortable in as a healthier outlet for her sexual appetite. She was 26 and I was 35 at the time. She found a club that was couple or single girls only located in a nearby town far enough away we would not likely see anyone we knew. She would not have cared but I was someone of a public figure and it would cause problems. I did not know what to expect but we got there early to get a tour and talk to the staff. It was set up like a nightclub with a large dance floor, which suited me fine since I enjoy dancing and it seemed normal but a little older clientele than most dance clubs I went to, ages late 20s to up to about 50. Mostly the people were rather attractive, and later found out it was unusual for clubs in the area, so by chance, we selected one that was more exclusive and expensive. My advice for any person in a couple who wants to explore is don't cheat, go together and to private home parties or clubs. Talk about it before and what the limits are and anything that would make each of you uncomfortable. She was in heaven getting the attention of most of the guys and almost all the women. Even the women who were not into sex with other women were very flirty and teasing with my girl. We agreed not to have her get with another man the first trip unless it felt ok for both of us. We met one couple who were a little older where the girls played and the guy and I mostly just watched in a private room. Gradually the excitement just overcame the plan and we joined in and played with both women and then focused on his wife and he got with my girl, right next to each other. Seeing another man going down on my girl was a gigantic rush, and soon all 4 of us were in some concurrent sex act. After showers and returning to the dance room the other couple and we had drinks and talked about what happened and how normal it felt. The biggest surprise of the evening was how close we said we felt as a couple, sharing a wild experience and her being with 5 women that night. Other than the 19-year-old she never mentioned being with girls before, but it was obviously important to her. I have come to understand that most women are omnisexual, and in the right conditions will make out with other women and sometimes more. If a woman does have that desire but is unfulfilled because of marriage or thinks it is cheating, a swing club is a safe fun way to let her explore her attraction to women. Sometimes she went by herself with the agreement that she would only play with women if I was not present due to work or other reasons I could not go. Our communications on all topics just got better when that threshold of trust was reached. I now am 73, and my current long-time GF is a very attractive 43-year-old ex-model (with a master's degree in Library Sciences) with a killer body. She is very playful and likes dressing sexy but is rather shy. We have been together 16 years and never played with others. When we go to clubs every guy, even teens hit on her and she flirts with girls but never showed any interest in more than fondling or kissing girls. I am thinking about inviting one of the girls she makes connections with when out dancing, to come home with us, just to have a late-night drink to see is she would be comfortable. I have asked her about her attraction to girls since she seems interested in kissing them. She is too shy to talk about sex generally. So, I was surprised the swing club scene, at least the one we went to that was higher-end, was so comfortable and social. I lot of marriages would be saved from cheating if couples indulged as a couple, and were in the same room when playing with others.

[@cathyandresiak1975]

Oh Boy, people just cannot be happy with one partner anymore I guess. I think it is unnatural to share the person you love with someone else sexually. Just my opinion obviously.

[@jalynharrison1947]

I’m glad that worked out for you and your lady. Unfortunately, the lifestyle is not for everyone. I’m personally interested and I’m glad to see couples work out after doing it.

[@jalynharrison1947]

@@cathyandresiak1975 some people can and some can’t. The traditional lifestyle isn’t for everyone just like the lifestyle of a swinger isn’t for everyone. It doesn’t make either wrong. Just different.

[@Detman329]

What I find interesting is most of these clubs are not that open to single men yet they need single men to come and spend money lol, all clubs say we don’t judge ! They kinda do.. but at the right club and the right time it can be fun.

[@4OURPLAYofficial]

Most clubs do allow single men, but it's on select days! But totally understand where you're coming from!

[@marcushennings9513]

From my experience in many cities they usually have designed non advertised run of the mill bars or night clubs that couples looking for singles visit/meet. Those clubs dont expect you to byob your own adult beverage bottle then charge to serve it back to you.

[@rodneyjaynes2485]

If they allowed unlimited access to single males, that's all they would have is single males. Fighting over every female that happened to walk in, accompanied or not. Not a healthy business plan.

[@bertram46]

It's all about ratios they don't want a bunch of creepy men hanging around two women it's no different than the bars when they have ladies night you never hear them having men's night do you

[@stevecarter2876]

Most clubs encourage couples so that there are equal numbers for swapping

[@scottswisher4840]

Love your Channel

[@barrybranch5658]

I loved it when me and wife went to a swingers club..at the end of the night she was with 23 guys.lets just say..she was worn out and sticky.she couldn't walk afterwards

[@gabicruz2776]

Club joi in LA only ask for a membership.

[@AlexRodriguez-rx7fu]

Hey gabi would love to swing with you sometime I’m very new at this and looking for friends wouldn’t mind paying for sti testing and whatever I’m a 24y male living in Cali Socal area would be down to link up and take you out to dinner

[@stevenjones9041]

I always thought it was illegal to bring your own booze to clubs. And I just went to a club with a partner with being faithful to one and not to share.

[@brucesvlogspace9651]

Thank you for the information

[@D-Almighty]

How do you find swinger clubs?

[@bushrod6258]

google it

[@anthonyknox9154]

Thx for that information 👍

[@remarkable224]

Remarkable.