5 Buddhist Ways Of Dealing With Difficult People (Buddhism)

[@PhilosophiesforLife]

Buddha says ‘‘Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace”. We hope that you enjoyed this video and for more videos to help you find success and happiness using beautiful philosophical wisdom, don’t forget to subscribe. Thanks so much for watching.’

[@Espanol-Spanish]

This is religious thinking. God will forgive them. And I can be in peace without them that are evil I don’t need to forgive them when they did it knowingly to hurt someone. It’s nice to say I forgive but nobody can and nobody will for real only the Divine

[@Espanol-Spanish]

I say I don’t forgive until they realise their mistake. I have peace of mind like this. Believe it or not. I am my own master. I know myself and I don’t follow what is not logic.

[@TrietLyCuocSongGSH]

good and very meaningful

[@4KBluePlanet.06]

Stoicism helps me embrace challenges instead of fearing them. Such a practical philosophy! 🌱

[@Gayatri-w1r]

Staying balance without getting angry,when toxic people affect you. Keeping calm for own good 😊😊😊. Beautiful thoughts

[@charissasmith]

Indeed. These methods helped me deal with an impatient co-worker.

[@Rocco27274]

Buddha ❤❤❤

[@mirian593]

I receive and thank you ❤.

[@Mgh-r]

Thank you so much ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@barberbroski]

thank you very much for this video.. I needed this.

[@AudioTruyenLangQue]

Excellent motivational moral story for today's generation where life is full of twists & turns which not only boosts our confidence but also makes us stronger to face challenges in all our lives

[@unknownnumber6083]

excellent content keep it up

[@anthonymedina583]

❤❤ Gracias!

[@Davlavi]

So true.

[@punkrock666]

I feel that people find it easier to label others "difficult" or "toxic" rather than reflecting on how they approach others. Yes, people will make mistakes and will treat you unfairly occasionally. The book The chimp paradox illustrates brilliantly how our brain works.

[@Espanol-Spanish]

Mistakes are not done on purpose others love hurting u because their spirit is far from The Divine goodness. They know what they do and they have to do it because is who they are.

[@angiheninger730]

Isn't it possible their spirit is only far from their divine good, because of pain and experiences that differ from ours? When we see that and love that, they feel divine love and might recognize it. If we withhold i, we again just spread the negative.That doesn't mean we can't have boundaries. But boundaries held with love and understanding stay up pretty much by themselves. And labeling with those unkind words, almost holds them there. Not allowing them to change and grow as a person. They might never change, but there's a better chance than when we pile on judgment.

[@sokhan-pb7df]

I always watch your videos. Keep going, your channel is great.❤

[@gohamorgohome]

I have been tested in my life, by people who want to cause me hurt, I know life is suffering, and it has been difficult to find a balance between accepting toxic people and trying to help and better them, sometimes it just can't be done, you have to accept that with time and still wish nothing but the best for them in this life, we can't judge other peoples mindsets, everyone is who they are, love should be unconditional, but stay true to yourself and keep your own peace of mind, over everything 🙏

[@Ikaros23]

Realise the truth. That you have zero power over toxic people. That is you don’t have 100% control. Let them go. They are not your responsibility 🙏

[@How_to_Peaceoffical]

‘‘Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace”. -Buddha- This was the quote that helped me calm my mind when someone hurt me. Just let them go

[@MythicxSaga]

Top amazing

[@TrietLyCuocSongGSH]

good and very meaningful

[@cocinayalgomas5109]

Good video thanks for sharing ❤

[@rs86]

What is the best way to deal with someone that is passive aggressive or the "silent treatment" type?

[@yuzan3607]

For passive aggressive attitude, see their behavior as it is meant to be "aggressive" and confront them with it. Even when they deny it keep confronting them with it, that usually shakes them and makes them rethink what they did/said. I find that passive aggressive behavior usually comes from people who are ignorant of their own feelings about a situation. They may not even realise they're being passive aggressive and so you keeping confronting them with it makes them aware. They're then free to either be more aggressive about it or try to change. It's not your problem, it's theirs. With silent treatment behaviour, just keep silent. Again, it's not your problem. They're the one's ignoring facing their own feelings by being silent, it's not your fault. Face silence with silence until they decide to talk.

[@leekastor1362]

Mirror their behavior back to them but then as soon as they run back for your attention, treat them kindly, then walk away.

[@ladybonezz8017]

I agree with the basic concepts but life is not suffering and saying it is will put more energy behind that thought and bring more suffering. Life is living. Creating, being, existing. Enjoying what we have and learning lessons through the times that we do suffer. But life itself is not purely "suffering." Unless you make it so.

[@iandubbya8495]

Buddha didn't say life is only suffering but suffering is an inevitable part of human existence.

[@don2.0-7]

Before watching this.. I had already started doing this

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[@Espanol-Spanish]

Forgive them? Depends some people if u do they will do it again forever

[@marka2188]

If someone steal from you then complain to police. But forgive them for your own peace. You may have to listen again 🙏

[@SMASH_REVIEWS]

Buddha used to always talk about the Human Psyche, He always meant to forgive anything and everything for your own Inner Peace, Reporting them is also necessary for the Peace in a Society.

[@martinahavelkova9828]

They mentioned it in video twice. Its not about actively forgiving them or letting them free card to abuse you again. Its about getting the piece of your mind and letting it go. Dont dwell on it forever. You acknowledge why they did it and accept it already happen and cannot be changed. It doesnt mean its ok.

[@yuzan3607]

Forgiving them doesn't mean allowing them to hurt you again. For example: of one of your good friends lied to you. Forgiving them doesn't mean ignoring the fact that they lied. It means you acknowledge that this person lied to you for whatever reason, do they still deserve to be your friend? if yes then you forgave them and give them another chance, if the lie was to a point that you can't accept, then you forgive them and let them go because you can't be their friend anymore. Forgiving them means you're not actively angry and holding grudges every time you see this person, but you accept that they lied to you and you don't want to be their friend anymore but you let go of the anger you feel towards them.

[@Espanol-Spanish]

@@yuzan3607 I don’t understand your point. If I don’t forgive them doesn’t mean I am angry with them or hold grudges. So why I should forgive them? I’m fine I feel fine and I don’t hate them or anything else. I think religions think that you need to feel good and think you are better and you should think you forgive them. Well there’s no difference if you don’t forgive them. Who is evil can’t be forgiven if doesn’t change. Evil means lover or evil not a mistake.

[@MuhammadAamir-dj9lg]

Take time and seek your mother's perspective

[@Espanol-Spanish]

No. The way is go far from them. Ignoring them. No matter who they are they HAVE to respect you or walk away. They may learn like my daughter did. Only positive people need to be near you. Meditation means not doing and it’s impossible to empty your mind. Self proximity is liberation (ancient Buddhism, and the name was not the same)

[@marka2188]

You are contradicting yourself. You say that you cannot empty the mind, but then you say must go far away and ignore. Great advice provided you empty of them from your mind which you confirm that you can not.

[@gardenlover9663]

Thank you for sharing with me. Have a beautiful day!

[@Espanol-Spanish]

@@marka2188 ignoring someone is emoting your mind? Ignoring someone is leaving and never contact them. How you don’t understand? Simple Your mind it’s always thinking even when you sleep

[@djflipg]

Meditation isn’t about emptying the mind, that’s why it’s called mindfulness cos the mind is full

[@jimmcd5660]

You sound full of resentment and conte 20:39 mpt, and seem to be quite high of you own negative opinions and speak them as fact. Maybe keep a more open mind? Or you could keep watching positive videos and making comments that state the opposite of the message preached and argue with people in the comments section. That rigid mindset is going to keep you angry, and prevent any growth or understanding, be careful with that mindset, your ego seems to be pretty set in its ways.

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[@123lowp]

This video is not an accurate representation of Buddhism. The core Buddhist teaching is non-self. When thoughts are recognized as thoughts, then thoughts are not recognized as self. When thoughts are not recognized as self, thoughts do not hold as much influence over moods and the train of thought that follows. There is no need to think yourself into peace by thinking about strategies on how to deal with toxic people. Notice the thoughts as thoughts and then turn the spotlight of attention on itself. Meditate practice is required for most people to understand.