5 Habits I Quit To Simplify Life | Design A Simple Life

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A Slow Simple Life

A Slow Simple Life

Күн бұрын

We all want a less complicated life.
By eliminating these 5 habits to simplify life, it's a little lighter and less stressful.
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Chapters:
00:00 we want a less complicated life
00:29 societal timelines
02:07 reacting quickly
03:45 living by default
05:30 pleasing others
06:46 adding instead of subtracting
Simplify Life
We all want a less complicated life. But it doesn't always work that way. At least not for me.
There have been circumstances in the past when my decisions ended up complicating instead of simplifying things.
My life isn't perfect and some days are tougher than others.
But by eliminating these 5 habits to simplify life, it's a little lighter and less stressful.
following societal timelines
Society, along with our own mental projections, tend to create deadlines for certain life milestones without logical reason.
Oftentimes, these timelines are based on what the majority is doing. A college degree, a high paying job, home ownership, marriage, kids, retirement - all in that precise order.
When we use other people's achievements to gauge our own adequacy, this gives us a false sense of inferiority or superiority. It makes us anxiously rush from one timeline to another and even question our decision if we find ourselves deviating from the norm.
But there is no single path in life. Our story will always look different from others and that's perfectly fine.
We get one life. It's meant to be lived in our best and not what's according to social conditioning.
So the next time we feel behind in life, it's good to check in and ask ourselves whose timeline we are trying to keep up with - ours or theirs.
reacting quickly
We have all heard of the phrase, "Think before you speak". But it's something I have struggled applying in my life as it's much easier to react quickly sometimes.
I could remember several situations in the past when I said something I later on wished I didn't. Our words have power and can either negatively or positively impact ourselves and others.
The poet Rumi talked about letting our thoughts pass through three gates to discern whether something's worth saying out loud or not.
At the first gate, we ask ourselves, ‘Is it true?’ At the second ask, ‘Is it necessary?’ At the third gate ask, ‘Is it kind?”
Because what others say about us is a reflection of their perception and insecurities. But our reaction, on the other hand, is a reflection of who we are.
living by default and not by design
I used to tell myself I could never simplify my life because the complications were outside of my control. I saw myself as a victim of my busy schedule, my endless responsibilities, and my lack of free time. In fact, I blamed everything else but me.
But looking deeply, these complications were consequences of my decisions.
I didn't set boundaries at work and in my personal life, which caused me to be busy, distracted and exhausted most of the time.
Simplifying may mean questioning our tendencies and challenging the status quo to choose a less complicated path.
We don't have to wait for a perfect timing or to have all the perfect conditions to align first before we could simplify and slow down our lives. We can do it at any time we want.
Because we either make our choices deliberately or allow other people’s agendas to control our lives. It's all up to us.
buying things to please others
Much of the complexities in my life were from wanting a lot of things. But the more I think about it, many of my purchases from the past were made on the basis of two beliefs:
One, if I had newer and more stuff, my life would be better.
And two, if I buy these things, others will value me more.
Yet the more I acquired, the more discontent I became. My choices made my day to day more complicated, my lifestyle more expensive and my free time less and less.
adding instead of subtracting
We live in the age of multitasking and we may know of friends, family members and even strangers who seem to get everything done and don't get exhausted (or at least that's what we assume).
There's subtle pressure to do it all - work, keep up with chores, have hobbies, exercise, maintain a social life, etc. I was guilty of placing so many expectations on myself. And it was overwhelming.
We can simplify our lives, but we have to put in the work. It's not about simplifying or choosing to have less just for the sake of having less. Or to make our lives look a certain way from the outside looking in.
But it's all about simplifying to create a life that supports us, our goals and our values

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@simply.k3573
@simply.k3573 28 күн бұрын
Your 5 habits focus more on simplifying your life around others by - 1. Not following societal timelines; 2. Not reacting quickly to others; 3. Not letting other people control our agendas; 4. Not buying things to please others; 5. Not falling into peer pressure /society expectations of us. These are great advise, but there's also another important habit which I believe have helped me simplify my life immensely is maintaining good health (both physical and mental) through exercising and meditation. Poor health can quickly complicate one's life when you are not able to perform many tasks or work to support yourself/family. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
I agree with you - self care goes a long way for our well-being. Those 5 habits I mentioned in this video were the ones I quit. I always appreciate your insights. Thank you 😊
@CyprusSunLoverShe
@CyprusSunLoverShe 24 күн бұрын
Feels So good to find a soulmate, I enjoy what you say and show ❤your doing great
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 24 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! So glad my message resonated with you. Sending love🤍
@itchyfeat1111
@itchyfeat1111 29 күн бұрын
Hi guys, listening to your prose I sense your slow, simple living has manifested a great amount of wisdom and healing for you both. Wonderfully written you have tapped into what many of us feel but are unable to express 😊. The camera work is extremely artistic 👌. Thanks for sharing such peaceful content 💫✌️💫
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
I am grateful for you and your kind comment. Thank you so much ❤
@hippyelise1
@hippyelise1 29 күн бұрын
Thank you for this video. You are one of my favorites. I learn a lot, and love to see the beauty of where you live.❤️😃
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that - thank you so much! Wishing you a lovely weekend ahead ❤️
@englishflightacademy674
@englishflightacademy674 29 күн бұрын
Yes, it added value to our life. Your voice is soothing, Miss. Thank you so much!
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that. Thank you and sending love ❤️
@KobusingyeAisha
@KobusingyeAisha 29 күн бұрын
Thanks cc for the advise video ❤
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
And thank you for stopping by. I appreciate you ❤️🌸
@donnarakitzis2719
@donnarakitzis2719 28 күн бұрын
Yes, these are great tips. Thanks for sharing.
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
I appreciate your comment. Thank you for stopping by ❤
@lethuyvanbk
@lethuyvanbk 28 күн бұрын
Simple but meaningful. So cool, thank you for sharing it 5:32
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
Thank you for stopping by. ❤️
@Uloma2024
@Uloma2024 27 күн бұрын
Beautiful garden I need some of those mangoes
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 27 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤ Wish I could give you some of our mangoes 😊
@Klara_is_finding_herself
@Klara_is_finding_herself 29 күн бұрын
Such helpful content 🌼 Thank you 💛
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@InnerElegance7
@InnerElegance7 29 күн бұрын
So lovely said. 😌
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@minimalistsmanaged
@minimalistsmanaged 27 күн бұрын
Beautiful video with wonderful points 🥰 Thank you for sharing your wisdom ❤
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 27 күн бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you for stopping by 💜
@margarettownsley9500
@margarettownsley9500 29 күн бұрын
Hi Suzy thank you for such wonderful content it sure adds meaning to my life love your channel it really helps me in so many ways 🌻
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
I'm so glad and honored to hear that. Thank you, Margaret, for stopping by ❤️
@margarettownsley9500
@margarettownsley9500 28 күн бұрын
@@ASlowSimpleLife it’s like therapy for me it just helps me so much I’m so grateful Suzy thanks a million 🪴
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
​@@margarettownsley9500, I appreciate you ❤
@marissaclaridge7627
@marissaclaridge7627 26 күн бұрын
Lovely video...thank you for sharing❤
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 25 күн бұрын
Thank you so much ❤
@minimalmomgreece
@minimalmomgreece 22 күн бұрын
Such a precious video !
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 21 күн бұрын
Thank you so much! ❤️
@marksims9223
@marksims9223 29 күн бұрын
I love your videos...thank you
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@mhopi9744
@mhopi9744 27 күн бұрын
Awesome video n well received 👏👏 yr country is gorgeous 😍 i die for those priceless views ❤❤
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 27 күн бұрын
The beauty of nature is ❤
@Savour_the_Moments
@Savour_the_Moments 27 күн бұрын
Great video. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. Have subscribed.
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 27 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤️
@bambiehernandez8299
@bambiehernandez8299 28 күн бұрын
Your place is so peacefull. May i know where your plce is. I want to move on and live peacefully.
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
Thank you. I live in Chiang Mai, in Northern Thailand. Sending love and wishing you the fulfilment of your heart's desire. ❤
@colleenwestbrook8848
@colleenwestbrook8848 22 күн бұрын
I saw a jar on your counter with cut up lemons in it. Can you tell me what you use that for? Love your videos as always ❤
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 22 күн бұрын
Hello Colleen - it's so wonderful to hear from you! 😊 I soak lemon peels in white vinegar and use the mixture to clean my sink and glass door and windows (since I find plain vinegar smell a bit too strong). Wishing you well my friend 🧡🤍
@colleenwestbrook8848
@colleenwestbrook8848 22 күн бұрын
@@ASlowSimpleLife oh thank you so much. I’m going to try that. Thank you for always responding. I love having the connection. You are such a sweet person. Can’t wait for your next video. 🤩
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 22 күн бұрын
@colleenwestbrook8848 thank you and likewise. Have a lovely day 🤍
@myhealing1004
@myhealing1004 28 күн бұрын
삶을 단순화는 바쁘게 살아가는 현대인에게 꼭 필요한것 같아요.
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 28 күн бұрын
네, 정말 그렇습니다. 제 영상을 시청해주셔서 감사합니다. 좋은 주말 보내세요!
@jen_321
@jen_321 29 күн бұрын
Salam kenal saya dari Indonesia menyapa😊
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
Halo dan terima kasih sudah menonton. ❤
@bitavalipour
@bitavalipour 24 күн бұрын
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 24 күн бұрын
🤍🩷
@marcius7308
@marcius7308 26 күн бұрын
👋🙂
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 26 күн бұрын
Thank you ❤
@marcius7308
@marcius7308 26 күн бұрын
@@ASlowSimpleLife Kamusta aking matalik na kaibigan! ✨️Pumunta muli ako sa iyo at nanood ng iyong kawili-wili, magandang pelikula! Sa kasamaang palad, hindi ako nagsasalita ng mga wika, tanging ang aking sariling wika, Hungarian, narito ako sa iyo sa paningin lamang, nagustuhan ko ang aking nakita. Masaya akong nakasama kayo dito, guys! Maraming salamat sa pagpapakita sa akin at pagpapasok sa iyong tahanan! Ang sarap gumugol ng oras kasama ka! Nais kong mas magtagumpay ka sa iyong channel sa KZbin at sa iyong personal na buhay! Malugod kong tinatanggap ka at ang iyong pamilya mula sa Hungary, Paul 👋🙂🌷Hi my dear friend! ✨️I came to you again and watched your interesting, beautiful film! Unfortunately, I don't speak languages, only my mother tongue, Hungarian, I'm here with you only visually. I liked what I saw, though! I was happy to be here with you, guys! Thank you very much for showing me and letting me into your home! It was nice spending time with you! I wish you more success on your KZbin channel and in your personal life! I warmly welcome you and your family from Hungary, Paul 👋🙂🌷
@iamcris1991
@iamcris1991 26 күн бұрын
Are you from Philippines? ☺️
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 25 күн бұрын
Yes ma'am 😊
@iamcris1991
@iamcris1991 23 күн бұрын
@@ASlowSimpleLife wow! ☺️ Nice videos. I thought your from Malaysia or other Asian countries 👌👏
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 23 күн бұрын
@@iamcris1991 , thank you so much ❤️🌸
@Dianapumpkinhead113
@Dianapumpkinhead113 29 күн бұрын
🌳🪻🌸🌷♥️
@ASlowSimpleLife
@ASlowSimpleLife 29 күн бұрын
❤️🌸🙏
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