5 Harsh Realities of Dating a Virgo Man!

This Video discuses 5 harsh things that women must realize when dating Virgo men.
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Time Stamps:
1) Virgo Men are Very Busy: 2:58
2) Virgo Men Have Very High Standards: 6:12
3) You Need to Have Lots of Patience: 11:00
4) Lots of Women Like/Want Them: 14:55
5) Virgo Men Need Lots of Space: 19:24
*BONUS*: 23:23
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[@parisandersonbeckford7653]

You've helped me so much with this video I'm dating a handsome beautiful minded virgo. Beautiful story line... but enough about me lool.. I was going to pass by this video saw it pop up a few days, and taught I'll click on it as I have been buzzing my mind "Why the GHOST"! But after watching this it's made it all clear. Thank the guidance of the angels for bringing me to your amazing video.. Thank you so much really from the bottom of my heart. Even though this is a general information ;) ;) I felt it was ment for me. Thank you @virgowhisperer:)

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I appreciate the love and the feedback!

[@UrbanEconomist5]

My Virgo dude needed space I ended up forgetting about him 🤣

[@Thelifeofgisel]

Renee Jefferson omg same is happening with me lol

[@msdnicety1]

Dont worry about it he will pop back up like nothing happened

[@madinaali4067]

Lmao 😂

[@cawo619]

Bruh but you thinking about him coming to this video

[@MJ-ey8ng]

Lmao

[@BREASHONTELL]

I do believe they do have unrealistic expectations and they have double standards. they dish out things but when people do the same to them they can’t take it.

[@redbone8844]

abreeia banks please say it again girl you described my man to the T and the I realistic expectations LAWD this man have 1,000 things he want to finish only finished half and his expectations for me are unrealistic smh

[@nikkigiovanni7593]

I agree

[@vsisk7229]

Absolutely, Exactly what I found to be true in virgo' s

[@tnt3929]

Yep!

[@giahall9015]

Agree

[@michellewilliams8545]

All you’ve done with these videos is help me, as a Scorpio woman, is to detach and remain detached. My thought process is this: when we are together we are together and when we aren’t together we aren’t. I’ve learned not to focus on him so much. I let him reach out about me. Developing this mindset has kept me interested this long.

[@theenicolej]

From a higher perspective these men are so self focused that just by being in a relationship with them you will learn to focus more on your self and your own evolution. Being in a relationship with Virgo men is kind of like being in a relationship with yourself in a way. Not easy or the most soft and caring relationship in the world but it is one that you can experience a lot of growth in. Your drive will improve and your focus on self growth will expand. If you were codependent before you won’t be after dealing with him. Believe that

[@jemimmarahma681]

Agreed 100%

[@datnursenicky3022]

I believe you girl.

[@honeyb.6540]

Facts 😂

[@criticalthinker1521]

They aren't leaders my Virgo homie is so far from being a team player and couldn't lead a family if he got help.

[@AlkalizedEmpress72]

This is currently what I’m experiencing, I couldn’t figure it out at first.

[@pockahantiss]

Its like the saying..."When you're single, you can't get nobody...but when you've got somebody, here comes everybody!" But once a Virgo man is in love, you become their world.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

That's a pretty in depth observation!

[@pockahantiss]

Jonathan R Whitfield I've been dealing with Virgo men ALL of my life. My childhood sweetheart was a Virgo (9-11), my father (08-28), my first love (09-20), my Virgo male friends (09-04 - 09-21). I've studied them like books! I can't escape 'em, or they can't escape me-!🤔😁

[@definitelygoated8798]

pockahantiss what’s your sign ?

[@pockahantiss]

Y.T.N Music Capricorn. December 25th.

[@pockahantiss]

Pat Coco ?

[@CP601]

It's a slippery slope though, space can very easily turn into a permanent vacation

[@benji_here3174]

Y ur username be describing me😂💀

[@jessicajackson2438]

omg yes too much space isn't healthy in my opinion

[@joannapi4680]

Hey Virgos, you don't have all the time in the world..! Life is short to take your time every time... Tik Tok Tik Tok Tik Tok...

[@jola2805]

Tired of wating

[@pockahantiss]

....Famous Virgos: Michael Jackson, Mario, Slim Thug, Wiz Khalifa, Larenz Tate, Cappadonna (of Wu Tang), Nas, Ludacris, Doug E. Fresh, Big Daddy Kane, Barry White, ....just to name a few...

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

All great peoples!

[@icantthinkofcoolyoutubenam9141]

Kat Williams Beyoncé lol

[@kj5205]

Swizz Beats, Joe Budden, Chris Tucker, Keanu Reeves, just to name some more. Lol

[@msdnicety1]

pockahantiss i just realized i have a virgo attraction. I attract them like flies

[@StacyannJ]

pockahantiss Beyoncé how did you forget Beyonce

[@saintclaire1201]

4:23 Fit in his schedule - hah! I think the question is what is the Virgo man's priorities? If relationship is not their priority then dont go look for one if you can't keep it. Just look in the mirror and date yourself. Relationship is complex and it involves both ways - sacrifices and compromises.

[@DC-8-8-8-]

💯💯💯💯

[@criticalthinker1521]

lies. Cause when they don't give a shit they aren't worth shit my Virgo helper on my truck has been my helper for 2 years he still don't know shit and his muscle memory turns off, not even doing the same thing for 2 years becomes just second nature but not him they shut down repition memory when they don't care can't work with someone like that. I don't love my job but I know how to do it without loving. They are dumb

[@naemack1441]

In my experience with the Virgo men I have been with or been around they suffer from low self-esteem. The wanting people's approval, as well as always feeling they have to have a specific image is a is huge sign of this. They need this approval in order for them to feel good about themselves and to feel validated.

[@quathetruth8314]

N.L Macklin wow u are on point!!

[@quathetruth8314]

They are also major projectors of their own negative feelings about themselves

[@samie7025]

Virgo is mutable and ruled by mercury. So, it's possible that they can be pulled in different directions easily and get taken advantage of. They learn as they get older though.

[@BREASHONTELL]

yes and they are secretly insecure

[@benji_here3174]

Actually....my low self esteem is why I don't care about what people think....all I really care is that I get acceptance from those that matter🤷🏾‍♂️

[@vtaylor110]

Can you do a Scorpio and Virgo compatibility please

[@shainadfarrington]

This is actually really helpful. It'll help reduce a lot of my stress dealing with my Virgo 😭.

[@YamaraLoves]

Just throw the whole virgo man away...Virgo men drives us ♏'s crazy🤦‍♀️.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

lol, noooo, we love Scorpios

[@AnubisFenrir]

😚😚😘 we love you scorpio

[@YamaraLoves]

@@AnubisFenrir love you back

[@jazzyjohn14]

Omg yes!!!!!! Tf they do I’m talking to one now 😩

[@gabrielleparker9874]

Virgo Men drive Leo Women Crazy.....

[@LAmourDeViva]

I am so proud of you my young brother! Keep up the good work!

[@sarahparker8014]

“Lots of women like them.” I know this and so does my Virgo men. He know he handsome. In terms of relationship it’s what he says or do’s back that matter. But yes women can be insecure because there’s some women out there that really don’t give a crap if you in a relationship and will do anything to talk to your man. I’m a protective and territorial Pisces. My intuition is always spot on. Lol

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

These are facts!

[@rosemarie8580]

Yes yes yes im a cancer with a virgo 4 years

[@FulieJoos]

How do u ladies deal with it? Do you just take a step back and let your virgo man deal with the ladies?

[@sarahparker8014]

Jewels first I know my Virgo man wouldn’t talk to them back and second I wouldn’t let a women talk to him. Lol simple.

[@FulieJoos]

sarah parker good for you thats right! Lol.

[@momoworld4869]

As always J Whitfield you inspire.. great content. I will keep this in mind when dealing with my Virgo man 😉

[@reneengouan]

Everything you said is true ...thank you

[@ms.morris8714]

Thanks for adding the time stamps

[@vs.thtics]

Very helpful video! Love your content 💯🙏🏼♍️

[@melanier.bellatrix2442]

Great vid!!! I believe you're "Complex" not "Complicated". Complex is depth vs. Complicated has a negative connotation. Complexity is a great trait. Thanks as always!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I rocks with that!

[@criticalthinker1521]

Just slow not complex

[@shellyshopes]

PRAYING 4 U, YOUR A GREAT MAN, SO MATURE ABOUT LIFE, THANK YOU

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thank you, I need it!

[@carmenhayes8680]

You have explained the Virgo man to a tee!!! A Virgo man is hard to leave. Good Luck! Leaving will only work if He leaves You. The Taurus and Virgo. Perfect match if he is feeling you. The yen to my yang. I just wish he knew it.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

show him this vid!

[@itsDjjayy]

Nah

[@christinarodriguez640]

Your such a character! In the best of way. I love your videos! Haha. 😊🌻😄

[@QuiietHeart]

Hmm.... ya’ll don’t scare me. 😆 -pisces

[@sweetjojoba]

YESS MARCH 15TH, BITCHES ♓♓♓♓

[@nikkigiovanni7593]

Right me niether, March 12th Pisces gang ,gang . virgos our oppisite too we are so compatable

[@xXPedoPanda42Xx]

My best friend is a pisces and we are like soul twins ngl. She gives me the intuition I need and I bring her down to earth with my logical and analytical thinking. Love ya pisces, ur da best ngl

[@phyllisbrown-perkins8743]

Aquarius. They definitely don't scare me either.

[@benji_here3174]

Virgo here.....my sibling is a Pisces

[@dylenadavis270]

Nice speach Jonathan...as always

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thank you!

[@guiovanacazares1882]

Awesome information! 👍 Thank you! 🙏

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

yes, yes!

[@R.P.B1982]

Virgo Rising here again...you are definitely a virgo expert.

[@secretthegreat]

He needs to fit MY system and compliment ME. LOL.

[@whatyalldoing7012]

Go fuck yourself

[@darrenhawkins9040]

What's up JRW, my Virgo brother everything is on point people just don't understand us for more of the story we just take our time and if we continue to do so everything will be analyzed properly hear see and feel that's why we don't have to take any pills for unnecessary spills in life.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Yes, that's real! We in here!

[@lizh1970]

Listen to this dude , are very important people , it's not all about one person's needs !

[@beverlygreene18]

A Virgo man hurt me really bad then turned around and block me.

[@empresssdrea5497]

Two years later .. the accuracy of my virgo and your expertise is immaculate. 👏🏽

[@Amoomaboo]

From my experience virgos are great teachers. Love you Virgo tribe.

[@thechristiansocialite1222]

Yeah, virgo men are charming. Cool peoples. A friend of mine I use to work with had all the women on the job after him. SMH. You're on point about virgo men. Females would try at me because they thought we were dating or something. We had a good rapport. He would always come to my office to talk. Go to lunch... We love joking with each other (Love/hate banter) Like Max and Kyle on Living Single. He was comical. Lol! All in love. I was always comfortable with him. A gentlemen. Respectful. He made my work day enjoyable. I really enjoy our comradery. My mom was sick and he always made my day when I was feeling low in spirits. I miss him. I know he's doing well. I'm a virgo too. Females carry themselves the same way. I'm a Caregiver, a work full-time, I socialize...I'm always going somewhere. I like my alone time. I have to decompress... rest my mind. I need to think from thinking. I always tell folks while your talking or I'm talking I'm thinking. Multi tasking in my head. But I can listen and give you good advice/encourage you. I'm always writing. I have to get my thoughts out. Too many journals. SMDH I don't like drama. I will get rid of a man if he's not up to my standard. 3 strikes and it was nice knowing you. I let them go gently. I'm a lady. Lol! I don't fall into relationships too fast. I think with my head and not my heart. Always observant. I love me. I'm confident in God and not self. So my confidence shines. The good book say "Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven." Lol! Good vid. Now I gotta go cook dinner for my Seniors. Just came home from work. Lol! Virgo woma hear me roar! Lol!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Realness right there!

[@TheKenzie54321]

That’s true when you talk about how to get a Virgo man to understand. If you are yelling at me about whatever I’ll perceive that as negative energy that I want no parts of. Not because I don’t care but I have other things on my mind that I’m trying to tend too. You if sit me down one on one and express your concern calmly but stern and look me in the eye. I’ll know you mean business. I’ll do every in my power to fix it.

[@bebito.876]

Great video

[@ms.frazier5765]

Great insight. 6 months in w/my Virgo and I need a straight jacket.🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️ Love him I do but this is tough! How much time does he neeedd? Open up already...sheesh!

[@Uniquaization]

girl when I tell you Im TIIIIEEEEDDDDD

[@nehalmohsen6272]

All the best on your trip to Africa, Jonathan! Please let us know if you could come to Egypt so we could organise a sightseeing trip for you :D

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Dopeness, anything is possible!

[@blackmagic7843]

I love your shirt

[@thefd619]

Thanks for the incredible insight Jonathan. "When you get us to begin thinking then our thoughts trickle down to our heart" (para phrasing) .... I know this to be true. Virgo men respond wonderfully to reason/logic and I really respect Virgos for this. If you "make it make sense" then he will (eventually) submit to the truth, admit his faults and give you the credit you deserve. In addition, if you respond in a mature way he will really begin to admire you, think about you heavily and the mental bond between the two of you will deepen. It gets tricky tho bc they do play with our emotions and will mind f us if we're not on our toes (i.e. mentally sharp), a Virgo will play you like a harp. Their mental gymnastics/acuteness can break alot of women in the best or worst way. This is why Virgos can be players and lokey be & make the best pimps, alongside Capricorns and Libra's lol. You're giving away alot of free game Jonathan ✌🏾 haha. "Man down" in my Kat William's voice (he's a Virgo too) lol jkjk you're giving much needed sound advice bc we need more healthy male-female relationships & it all starts with understanding. Like the saying "you get to a Man's heart through his stomach", with a Virgo you get to his heart through his mind. 👑

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I wish I could've added this to the video!

[@thefd619]

@@JonathanRWhitfield your video was on point. 👌🏾😉

[@alyssaallen4948]

I realized that my Virgo and I are simply different. His love language is actions. Mines are words. It’s easier if we accept our differences while being open to flexibility. He told me the stuff he questions I balance him out. He’s told me he loves me more than the people in my own family lol. I’m so in love with him. I wanna know what ways can I let him be a man or feel more manly? A leader? We haven’t came out exclusively because we’re still working on us. We have kinks and knots lol. I’m trying to have patience. And he really does help elevate me. He says he can only go off actions. And I love my words lol. How can I show him I can be a piece of mind. How can I support him daily. He also has this bad habit of blocking me when he throws a fit. I hate it. I never know if he just needs time to cool off or if it’s our last time. It’s really scares me. I wanna know some ways to capture this mans heart for good. Thx pls be nice 😬

[@criticalthinker1521]

Submitting to the truth for Virgos takes way to long that's not being deep its just being mentally slow, fake perfectionists

[@criticalthinker1521]

@@alyssaallen4948 virgos aren't typically leaders, leaders need to make decisions in a moments notice at times they over analyze simple shit and take 2 weeks to get back to you, a true leader can't make decisions the way virgos go about it you have to be sure in your decisions right or wrong out come and still manage it, virgos lack this trait. They spend more time thinking by the time they figure it out everyone already went home. They are slow trying to disguise it as deep thinking, tricksters false depth

[@epouxdemoname4444]

OMG! why didn't I see that video before breaking up with him? Man you're right about every points, that's crazy.

[@umbreenzahoor3557]

On point 🙂👌🤔🤷 it's amazing to watch and understand. Cuz being an INFJ personality I have same situation, with Virgo. I'm shy, reserve, lost in my space ♨ and They get back after getting free. But I'm too focused on my goals, this guy says sorry too if I ghost him out, but on two cusps colliding another Virgo says on mature note that I gotta focus on the world. So I like my 🔥 peace, space! 😅😊

[@Robert_11911]

Virgo here. You are speaking the truth about us Jonathan. Have a great day and hope you get to visit Africa soon. 😀

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Facts, fam! and I appreciate that!

[@whatyalldoing7012]

Lies

[@whatyalldoing7012]

All virgo men are not like this

[@HennySoSpiritual]

When you say lots of women love this man . My cancer eye started twitching 😂😂 . Heavy on the AINT nobody loving my man but meeee But I understand what you mean I asked him why he only have mostly female friends " all men wanna do is sit in the corner not doing nun , most females got things going " But I'm still like bro no . But when his friends around he tries to make sure I feel comfortable. Kinda like he reassuring me . Ppl like my bf Bc he's really friendly Nd nice

[@Queen-pd1no]

I’m a Taurus dating a Virgo man and I love him we have a great bond but we argue a lot to , but our arguments don’t last long and we don’t go to long without talking to each other we been together for 3years

[@ThePsmith1985]

Same, I’m a Gemini we argue you a lot but defo never lasts long. And we can’t stay away from each other lol. He can be a hard man to love.

[@kweenellis3408]

#Taurusgang! Same here. Me and my Virgo man can have the craziest arguments then go back to talking like nothing ever happened. 😂

[@princessb3884]

I’m a Taurus as well and I recently started talking to a Virgo and this my 1st time talking to one and I’m a little confused. He ask me to take his number which I was hesitant & finally take his #. We hung out once everything was wonderful, communication was there but when we are apart I don’t hear from him for a few dys, so I decide to reach out & call to see how’s things were going. We spoke for a few mins & he said he would call back because he was in the middle of doing something but he didn’t call me back. So I decided to delete his # 🤷🏽‍♀️ because I was minding my business before he came and approach me and now that I’m giving him a chance, he barely initiate communication

[@jola2805]

Yup, not a man of their word. Never initiates things. All I did was wait, wait and wait.. too slow to deal with stuff. I wasted so much time waiting

[@Talkwithdulci]

So interesting….he literally told me he wanted to learn me. You’re hitting every single point.

[@richgirlro]

Thank you!👍🏾

[@ksmetalchick6546]

I've had bad experience with the September born Virgo men.. just do your Google search about the dark side of them cause it's usually right on point..

[@sugarmama6491]

Me too! Wow!

[@glendanesmith]

Sugar Mama true

[@kenyotarobinson5629]

Girl me too the virgo man in September do too much some of them

[@naemack1441]

I've had negative experiences with August Virgos

[@taniablassingame2919]

Kenyota Robinson do to much in what way?

[@chidimaokereke8372]

But as a Pisces ♓️ giving me space is not the best mehn we tend to get use to it and over do it lol 😂

[@daisyreefilicano663]

My the LORD GOD bless you with so much more because You enlighten me up so much. I humbly saying thank you. '(elke goeie man agter 'n goeie vrou) I believe in this.

[@lL-js2hg]

You speak dutch or afrikaans?

[@elithegreat7865]

I believe it's black people nature to create and that cause us to go in depression when we can't identify our passion to create.

[@ilsewenzel9424]

He says: noone, I repeat noone can take your space

[@selenacervantes3676]

I just Donated $20 muahz !!!

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

🥰 thank you so much! We gonna make it happen!

[@kendrabrock9870]

26 years of experience My virgo expected me to give everything while he barely even gave me time 😒 Full of ideas, no implementation ever

[@isysslove5712]

Thank you 😊

[@theyclosechannelsthatspeak428]

It's also about being with your tribe. I really hit it off with European travellerravellers. Im a Virgo woman and not all are Virgos, but they like adventure and moving around like I do. I like spending time with them because they are independent but like being with peeps too.

[@Preeti-ed1ne]

Cool shirt

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thank you!

[@allywilliams9993]

I came across your videos bcuz I met a Virgo who struck me so much like I had to have him. He's also only the 2nd guy I "went after" . I have great relationships with Virgo men but this one is different. So I'm trying to understand him a little more

[@cleyonce]

I’m a Capricorn and my Virgo friend is definitely teaching me patience... hell i do if he even likes me more than friends🤷🏽‍♀️

[@mimimi5140]

Can you make a video about Virgo and Pisces? Honestly there’s an instant magnetic connection between those signs

[@caramelkimmiekim8272]

Yes it is we're a perfect match my dude a ♍ Virgo #Pisces

[@glamgodess9643]

I've met three handsome, successful Pieces men who wanted to be with me with everything. I am a Virgo sun, Pieces moon but honestly I never felt any attraction to Pieces men

[@criticalthinker1521]

My stepdaughter is a Pisces and her dad a Virgo straight lier and loser she calls me dad, he just chase pussy at 52 lol they say I'm just friend and giving advice same shit my Virgo helper says about the girls he talks he just trying to fuck. And got the nerve to tell me this bullshit like I'm not a man clowns and liers.

[@rellconnects4695]

Facts 99.9

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

yes suh!

[@nataliadouglas4236]

I’m a cancer and I’m currently dealing with a Virgo man and women be at him daily and I really don’t think I can handle it he says he only dealing with me I’m very jealous I’m not Insecure I’m just not used to it 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@reginasimmons5477]

💯💯💯

[@nataliejoseph5503]

Hi I am a libra he a virgo and instantly he saw me and fell in love with me. So he says he's not easy to read. we are together a few months now so far so good

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I love it!

[@Truecolors777]

I'm a leo...and my virgo told me he loved me on our first night out together ❤💕

[@michellelopez2149]

Hahaahahhaah oh my thank you for this video. I now understand my virgo bf who is very very busy . I just thought he doesnt love me. Im a pisces and at first i got mad at him cause im feeling that he doesnt wanna see me in person agaib.but we text everyday ..

[@elarisa10]

Why would you stay with someone that is toooo busy to care about you? Good luck!

[@ksmetalchick6546]

It's good to be proud of your race and heritage..I'm a white girl but it doesn't matter about race when it comes to someone's star sign because I know white and black Virgo men with the same dark personality traits and no offense but they were narcissistic and two of them didn't have a job.

[@samie7025]

I'm surrounded by virgos in my family. They like things a certain way. I don't find them outwardly narcissistic, just focused on themselves a lot but the bad ones are bad. 😂 I notice that if they have capricorn or libra placements in their chart, they can be what you said though.

[@itsDjjayy]

Depends how they were raised

[@UrbanEconomist5]

Virgo women here and I love Virgo man but I’ll prolly never dated another... we mirror each other and it cause so much confusion lol . I’m still confused 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@HoneyBruja69]

Same thing here We but heads so much

[@Pr.nce_youngg]

I don't know i guess being a male virgo is a curse and it happens to be underwhelming and exhausting sooo yeah lmao i hate being a virgo sooo much!!!!!

[@honeyb.6540]

😂

[@missanamarie]

Thank you. I'm dealing with a Virgo right now. I don't mind taking my time, but I feel like he moves even slower than me...and how is that possible?! 😂

[@jola2805]

Yup, not a man of their word. Never initiates things. All I did was wait, wait and wait.. too slow to deal with stuff. I wasted so much time waiting. I did not want to hurt him because I’m very straightforward as a Taurus woman, so I joked that he’s like a turtle-- but he just laughed and admitted he’s slow. I’m bored.

[@angelinafomina9986]

ahah this is just about all my virgins, I do not know how it happens, but all my relationships were with virgins, as well as with my best friend))I am a Taurus girl, I adore these mysterious people ❤

[@anaalmeida9485]

It sounds like they want the world to revolve around him!

[@jh1966jh7]

My virgo man is mean he has no compassion for me or how i feel he does things to add to my untrusting of him he hangs up on me always knowing ive asked him to not do that he seems not to care...that hurts me .... Hes extremely harsh 🥶 hearted I and ive known him tocheat in our past!

[@mariemarlene7658]

Lol! It's true women ALWAYS like a Virgo Man. I met my Virgo when he was a manager at a furniture store years ago and Women would come in the store non stop trying to get his attention with me sitting right there!!! Then when they realized I was with him they would try to befriend me.🤷‍♀️ Also, The reason Virgo Men understand Women so much is because your the only sign in the Zodiac that it's symbol is a female along with being a feminine sign.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Indeed, indeed!

[@genesantos8795]

Why would a married virgo man like me, inviting me to lunch and treating me nicely? I shut him down and he wish me luck and tell me i have high standards.

[@cingizkrimov8434]

If a man says "I dont have any love feeling to you,but I enjoy when I talk to you" Do I have to give him time for loving me or it is useless? We speak each other every day.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Don't get involved romantically, be friends but move on

[@cingizkrimov8434]

@@JonathanRWhitfield Thanks .I hope it will work )))

[@arnzgel]

Any update how are you & him now ?

[@marfe8814]

Thank God i dont really care(not really in negative way) about this virgo man. i am just goin with the flow. If he doesnt communicate, I also dont. Just doin my own thing and whenever he do something that hurts me I tell him directly and explain what he did wrong cause i dont wanna tolerate. Ah that's why he said he likes it cause i was being logical about the situation than being driven wholely by emotion.😂

[@shadowpuppet7715]

Summary, virgo needs a libra or capricorn woman.

[@rasheedkilani7253]

You look my best

[@MIMIDSH]

It's the other women that are going to ruin it for me. They throw themselves at him, and physically get their hands on him. I can't tell if he's enjoying the attention, or just trying to be friendly by somewhat allowing it, or he's not into it and that's an awkward smile on his face. I've seen him physically have to detach these women from him. I can also clearly see they aren't his type-- sloppy dressers, physically not very attractive or healthy looking, or dressed in a non-classy way (ho). We aren't "official" (moving slowly) but he's assured me he's not dating or looking to date anyone (else) and certainly not intimate with anyone (else). I just don't know if they're giving him their numbers-- and if so, what happens after that? I don't ask because I don't want to be the woman showing jealousy, or insecurity. I remind myself that I'm pretty perfect for his Virgo self and he's invested a lot of himself in me, and is finally starting to open up -- can't imagine he'd want to play around and have to start over with someone else, after the time it's taken to open up to me.

[@nowaynoway915]

My love and my baby boy are Virgos. Two men who think they are my boss. It’s a circus in my house 💀😂. Damn know it alls but I love them to pieces. I’m a Capricorn lol

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

oh wow! lol

[@rosemarie8580]

But guess what u are the boss !!!!

[@benji_here3174]

My momma a Capricorn too!!💯❤

[@kittykat135]

You keep saying brothers, my man is a puerto rican virgo.!!!!

[@violeta.kinlock3825]

Jonathan thank you so very much for explaining your perspective on the harsh realities of a Virgo man seeing that my Sweetheart Terrence is a Virgo and I am a scorpio woman. To be very honest it was very challenging at first but as time went on I began to understand that My sweetie Terrence really does take his time. And not to mention that he's very meticulous about what he does seeing that he's in the military (Navy). So when you explained it, it really makes sense. So I don't get upset at him when he doesn't call me or respond back to me right away because he is so busy! And yes I'm trying to be more patient with him! In which is not really one of my strong suits but I am more than willing to be more patient with my Sweetheart Terrence simply because I love him dearly. And yes you are right Jonathan I fell in love with my Sweetheart Terrence a whole lot faster than he did with me. But Jonathan I'm going to give you a heads up. If you ever decide to date a scorpio woman. Do me Jesus and everybody up in Heaven a favor just a favor. Please don't ever say to a scorpio woman that she is infatuated with a man. And the reason why I am saying that is because to us scorpios and especially scorpio women that's like a insult to us because what you're saying is our feelings are not real but it's fake or it's a figment of our imagination. When it's not true. Trust me on this one Jonathan it'll save you a whole lot of headaches and arguments in the future. That's if you ever decide to date a scorpio woman in the future! I'm just saying y'all! That's a little tip of advice for you and in general. Thank you so much for your insight on the Virgo man. Now I understand my Sweetheart Terrence a whole lot better now than I did when I was with him before. Please keep those topics coming. Thank you and God bless you as you endeavor to do His sweet and blessed will. VK. 😇.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

Thanks, show him this vid and see how much he agrees with it.

[@violeta.kinlock3825]

Jonathan I did and he does agree. So thanks again. VK. 😇.

[@christinarodriguez640]

Dude, I'm a scorpio also and my boyfriend is a virgo. It's very true they need their time. I just wish sometimes it was the other way around, but sadly not. I know scorpio women love their "me" time so it's not hard to give virgo men their space, but it's just a moment where you stop and think about them. You miss them, but then you move on with the things your doing.

[@Unmasked-Mind]

I am chatting with a virgo man (12. sept) for a week now and I am confused. After 3days, he told me that he likes me a lot and wants to get to know me better even if though I am 6y. older than he is. 5days later he was spitting his sexual fantasies without me asking. I am an aries and we really get eachother and stuff buuut.. I feel like this dude is trying to play me lol. he is saying stuff like "It would be nice to have you here.... Is that the quarantine loneliness speaking out of him? Virgo Arent that quick right? I asked him what/why he likes me coz we dont know eachother that well. he be like: your personality…

[@arsemeta]

This is what’s happening to me!!!! Omg and I’m an Aries

[@Unmasked-Mind]

@@arsemeta nooo for real? I am an aries toooo🤣 how is it going now? I am about to block that negus. He wants me to be his girlfriend and we didnt even meet eachother... like, shorty is tripping lol this is not like a virgo should be acting. He is surely playing shady games -.-

[@arsemeta]

YAHUSHA is alive! Text me!!!

[@Unmasked-Mind]

@UC4IzixF0PX6GA9ECHCcXngA omg! Sweety, where u from? Dont be exposing your number like that. Stalkers are watching lol FB or IG is just fine :)

[@arsemeta]

YAHUSHA is alive! My IG is arsemabes!! Lol yes i just deleted it 😭 I’m from Eritrea originally but I’m in the US

[@criticalthinker1521]

I'm a Leo and Virgo men are delusional about how they see themselves

[@nellynell3109]

Tell me does Virgo hate a woman who have standards? I told mine I couldn’t wait to spend time with him to hold him but I needed time since we had just met. So here comes 1st date he asked to come to my house I said no that takes time, he blocked me 😢

[@benji_here3174]

Nah....he was jus a fella up to no good...don't blame us for it

[@itsDjjayy]

@@benji_here3174 exactly

[@tansyvee3679]

Lol 🤣 exactly 💯

[@patiencekrayee9101]

My virgo don't give but always taking and asking for shit and got too many women im so over this shit

[@parishall114]

I won’t talk to a female in 2 months but when we meet back up I’ll cook u dinner and act like your husband like I haven’t even left

[@loveli_anne]

This is a stupid question. What does it mean when a Virgo man cries over you, but we’re not together, nor would it ever work because of his culture and tradition???

[@marjd.c7553]

met my virgo 2018, he wasn't looking for anything serious coz they just moved in the country. We hanged out, he was intriverted, ab bit uptight etc. We see eachother on/off then eh would ghost..I got used to it,no biggie. Then our last convo mid 2019. The he came back early this January 2020! I was surprised. He then told me he just broke up recently and that the girl broke up with him coz he wasn't giving her much attention lol Then we met up like no time passed by! No awkward moment and he was more relaxed, loosen up and chilled. He was so persistent in seeing me and he said he was leaving the country after staying 2yrs :( He spent his last night with me. Cuddling and talking, he was more relaxed and I felt he has grown as a person which is good. Wish he would take a step further and ask me to come with him or something...how to keep it? and why did he come back?

[@terrenceharris7163]

We might be sent here by God to have our space be to ourselves it's not an necessity.

[@mmljane]

Am a virgo women so I get men throwin themselves at me all time too. But I shut that shit dwn...so calm dwn lol. It goes both ways and I expect my virgo man to shut it dwn on them hoes too lol. Nowadays loyalty be a one way street, like oppps I didnt knw. But you'd know if I let the shit slide & u got upset uhh lol

[@Thelifeofgisel]

They don’t care. Period. Am I right?

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

I don't understand what you are asking.

[@xXPedoPanda42Xx]

I don't know anyone who cares more than fellow ♍. We analyse everything and care about the tiniest details. If you don't get how we function, then you could assume we don't care because we need time on our own to figure things out. We can seem to be cold, but most of the time we are overthinking the hell out of you.

[@Brizzi414]

Have you shared your birthday? It’s Virgo season!! ☺️

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

It's on the 18th!

[@Brizzi414]

Jonathan R Whitfield omg the guy I’m dating is on the 18th! 😍 I wish I could pick your brain! 😩😂 He’s been so complex! Thank you for this channel!

[@ladytlotto5372]

My Virgo man has a woman that he has been with for six years I've been with him for three he has a key to my place and expect me not to date anyone else although he has a woman he lies to her all the time right he's with me he is extremely controlling I must call home as soon as I am off work I can't do any shopping after work any without him do you like to tell me what to wear what color to dye my hair how to wear my hair he has a sex drive but is extremely he Smothers me with does not have his own Hobbies I'm a Libra and I need space because I have hobbies and things that I want to do without him not that I am cheating on him although he has a woman beware of Virgo man especially when they are being nice it's always a catch-22

[@sakeithia1]

Virgo is a mutable sign so they can adapt to people around them. He probably has hobbies but is putting them off to be with you. But at the same time he’s controlling because he has 2 girlfriends. Virgo men can dish it but cant take it. He dont want you to have any time to cheat like he does

[@arnzgel]

Im curious are you still with him now ?

[@ladytlotto5372]

@@arnzgel My Virgo was killed the day before thanksgiving. He asked me to pick him up but I wanted sometime to myself because I was just getting off work and we are always together as I stated in my original post. I felt if I would have picked him up he would still be here. Well the other he was with prepared the funeral and yes I attended the viewing and the funeral. The other girl was yelling and acting a fool at the viewing and so was his mom. Because of how she was acting I understood why he didn't want to be with her. He absolutely hates for women to act unladylike. At the funeral she was more cool I sat in the back to avoid a fight. But you would never believe that she was removing items and flowers that was place at his grave site. She a Pieces so she felt that she had the right to remove whatever because she paid for the funeral. Long story short I miss him so much I think about him every second how he showered me with love affection and attention is priceless. After a while I tried to go on a date and everytime I think about my virgo man. I would date another Virgo long as we can communicate about the things I want to do. Its like you dont miss something or appreciate until its gone. I miss him and now I see he just wanted to spend all his time with me and wanted me to look my very best.

[@ladytlotto5372]

@@sakeithia1 hi I think you are correct he made sure I wasn't cheating

[@honeyb.6540]

Honestly speaking from a sag woman married to a Virgo man. That man should have never had two girlfriends. If he liked you more he should have married you and left her alone. Never be okay accepting the #2 position EVER! He never really valued anyone and for you to judge the momma and the other female for their antics is weird because their ways are directly related to how he treated them. Expectations need to be higher sis, whether a Virgo or anything else. Life is too short and you should never have to share your heart and time in such a manner. Condolences to his mother only, unless y’all was married, move on to someone greater 💕

[@miunicorn1324]

I'm a Taurus female and I'm currently within the in-between stage of being friends and being exclusive with a Virgo male. I know that he wants to get to know me on a deeper level first, however, it seems to be harder for him to allow the levels of our relationship to run their course. He's already expressed his desire to make me his GF, but I haven't allowed us to go beyond a platonic friendship, as I want to take things very slowly and build a strong bond before going any further. I like him a lot but I'm pretty sure his feelings are much stronger than mine and I can already see his jealousy over the communication I have with other male friends/associates. I just find this interesting because it's somewhat the opposite of what you always say. Do you think my sign has any influence as to why his feelings are stronger than mine at an earlier point, as well as our chemistry and connection which is practically magnetic?

[@rrb2895]

Virgo men are possessive acting just like us Taurus girls. But his possessive attitude and really liking you does not mean that you are the only lady he "talking" to. Even if he tells you that you are the only one, it's not true. That's usually men in general. Men in general, especially handsome men, got women after them. A handsome Virgo man is going to have women more interested in him as a person other than just physical because they are sweet and mysterious. We women like that. But Virgo men are so charming that you want him all to yourself. Not going to happen. Lol. Men want their cake. Your cake. And everybody cake. As a Taurus lady, you must stick to your infinitum and womanly gut with a Virgo man. Be kind but be careful because he may like you now and tomorrow not like you. you are on the right track to be cautious and taking it slow.

[@thechristiansocialite1222]

Yup! My coworker was like that with me. We weren't together but he became jealous when he saw me talking to this dude. All the females were attracted to him. Since he appeared to be with me all the time, females thought we were together. They would try at me. I would ignore them because I knew what we had. I didn't chase him and I let him have his space. I was a listening ear. Honest with him. Virgos love honesty. Even if they are liars. Lol! My coworker was a good liar. But I knew how to deal with him. I could see right through his lies and personality. I'm a female virgo and at times I get that way "jealous" "possessive" when my closest friends are with other people of equal friendship. Just a little. I stop myself and realize I'm not their only good friend . I have to share. Lol! "Just calm down" We're possessive in a good way. If we like you, we keep you in our circle. Your "FAM" You're in a position with us. If you mess up, I won't dismiss you out of my life because I learned to understand you and have patience with you. I analyzed your good, bad and ugly. I'm in vested in the friendship. My coworker was a womanizer. He was charming. Cool guy. Made you feel special. I agree with @Teach...I'm not sure if your virgo man is a womanizer or not...to him your his woman and don't wanna share you with someone else eventhough he may have several someone else his with. "People don't like when other people play with their toys" He likes you. He likes being with you . But you may not be the only one his with. You just have to be different. Set apart from the rest. If you have a connection and good chemistry...and "different", you'll have his attention. Challenge is the name of the game. My coworker may have been interested in me more than associates on the job but he had to retire his womanizing ways before we could go down that road. He was enjoyable. I miss him. He was cool peoples. Just take it slow. Friendship is good. It's even better than being his woman. You become vested quicker than someone trying to be his girlfriend. We love good friendships. Once you create a honest bond with him and things go to another level, he will be smitten with you. He'll pull back to figure out his feelings but don't trip. Be patient. Be wise with him when you communicate because he's very sensitive. Lol! Though he may not act that way. The wrong words or directness will send him running. Lol! Follow your intuition. Think with your head and not your heart. Trust me your virgo is doing so. It's not his heart...It's his head you have to win over. The heart will follow in due time. Timing is everything.

[@miunicorn1324]

@@rrb2895 I appreciate your reply but it doesn't clarify anything for me. My curiosity lays in whether or not me being a Taurus(Scorpio moon, Aries Rising) has anything to do with our chemistry and the fact that his feelings are a lot stronger than mine. Also, despite Virgos being a very complex sign, I'm pretty certain that I'm an even harder puzzle to solve then he is and my family is FULL of Virgos, not all of them good. So there's nothing new under the sun when it comes to his negative and positive behavior, it's like I already know him to a degree. As far as caution goes, there's not much need for it as we are Just Friends right now. Everything comes to light sooner or later and I'm quite patient.

[@rrb2895]

@@miunicorn1324 yes.. The chemistry is naturally really strong. 😀. With Taurus i think we have guards up, so yes, initially his feelings as Virgo man will be shown easier than yours but when you open up and you two communicate as you are, as friends. It's a good thing. Just stay in your feminine mode with him because they are always enjoying that attention from the women. Which can begin to bring out that little "attitude" in a Taurus woman.

[@LL-ip5mm]

A'Marrie my bfs a Virgo 8th September he’s soo sweet he’s the best guy I’ve ever spoken too like wow ❤️

[@verenidamoore51]

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[@Ohhello_itskat]

The Virgo I'm interested in only has one job, and plays video games the rest of the time....

[@sallyscott7555]

Why would a married virgo man constantly try to text me? I don't respond but he continues. We dated for three months. Things never got sexual. After that he got married, got a child and tried coming back with me. Why? He's 40 years old.

[@JonathanRWhitfield]

sounds like he's not happy where he is or want something extra, don't do it.

[@sallyscott7555]

@@JonathanRWhitfield Of course not. Just asking out of curiosity. Thank you for your reply.

[@ksmetalchick6546]

Be careful because some of them become very possessive and will stalk you.. at least from my experience

[@kenyotarobinson5629]

@@ksmetalchick6546 girlll sooo true

[@sallyscott7555]

@@ksmetalchick6546 Really? Would you tell me more about it?I got a wibe he is a bit stalkerish. He would watch every instagram story of mine without saying a word.

[@shessoche]

Run away from Virgo’s 😢

[@rasheedkilani7253]

Friend ej