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@timjohnson21863 жыл бұрын
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@silverancient78403 жыл бұрын
I agree with every point except the self deprecation one. You usually state that making fun of yourself is a good thing. I agree that putting yourself down in a complete negative way looks bad but poking fun of yourself in general can be funny in most interactions with people.
@JohnM...3 жыл бұрын
Exactly. Engage in 'self-amusement' purely for yourself, rather than taking the piss out of yourself to hope someone else likes you.
@kamelkani40513 жыл бұрын
Maybe with someone u already know and already feeling comfortable with Not when u trying to know them specially in a date 😏
@TheTengior2 жыл бұрын
Tripp Advice is brand, symbol of high quality advices!
@spanglishasmr43283 жыл бұрын
Bro accomplishing step by step your goals and not needing someone's validation to get your shit together and do them it's just Powerful🔥🔥💯
@edb77423 жыл бұрын
I enjoy your calm and supportive demeanor. You're like a cool big brother giving advice to his younger brother.
@crystalshorter3533 жыл бұрын
Right on point Tripp! The only time I've used self depreciating humor is when I did a stand up show. George Clooney is the only one who can get away with it.
@uli7673 жыл бұрын
Congratulations, Tripp! I follow you since then. Hello from Brazil! 👊🏻
@Ol_Ben3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same turned off way, when the first thing women talk about is their ex or last whoever. It's not that I'm trying to be petty, but after a while it gets so insecure and ANNOYING both. I understand that it hurts, but it's just as insecure as any shyness.
@NickNotas3 жыл бұрын
The great thing is that if you often embrace your insecurities, people will see them as strengths or no big deal. If you're a virgin, you can say, "Yeah I've focused on my career for a while but now I'm excited to date around more." If you don't have a great job, you can tell her, "I'm loving exploring my new passions and finding out what really fulfills me."
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
Yeah right what world do you live in ?
@NickNotas3 жыл бұрын
@@scottbrown5587 The real one with 13 years of personal and coaching experience with thousands of interactions. What other choice do you have? People will always see your truth eventually so might as well find a way to express it in a more confident, attractive manner.
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
@@NickNotas that sounds like a bunch of psychobabble crap. I'm 52 years old and I've had a lot of experience with a lot of different women and if you show any kind of vulnerability she will see you as a wimp. Trust me I've seen it proven time and time again.
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
They want an alpha male who shows no vulnerability, only women should show vulnerability. A man can't get away with it. Trust me I've seen it proven time and time again she will see you as a weak.
@nobodysperfect063 жыл бұрын
Does this video talk about guys being insecure over being a virgin?
@clesser873 жыл бұрын
Great advice Tripp thanks!!!😁
@talkingpictures91073 жыл бұрын
U da man. Any insecurity turns them off. They. Can be emotinL babies we need to seem all together. Not. Bad thing. They know they got the GOODS
@laniukyevhen67143 жыл бұрын
Great channel and very good advices! Thank you!
@Haze03203 жыл бұрын
Happy 11th Anniversary Tripp, wise talk 👍
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
Why would British humor have anything to do with dating in America ?
@carljacobs29013 жыл бұрын
I highly disagree that funny self deprecation is unattractive. In fact I used it very effectively in my routines. It can make you real, vulnerable, and not a big talker.
@jkepic253 жыл бұрын
Obviously you are training hard to be self deprecating, while most people don't train that and come off as losers. that is how it is.
@crystalshorter3533 жыл бұрын
Hey Tripp, question for you...Are you saying posting an Instagram picture of the New Porsche you bought is a sign of insecurity and would turn women off? I'm single and women are hypergamous by nature so wouldn't that actually attract women? I would think it's like marketing. You can have a great lifestyle and be a high value man but nobody knows that if they don't see it.
@persianfoo3 жыл бұрын
Happy anniversary Tripp!
@anderstermansen1303 жыл бұрын
Be rich And good looking. Its what litterally All women want in men.
@titra6943 жыл бұрын
Women indeed are attracted to wealthy and good-looking guys but it's not because of the money or the appearance. They admire the man's dedication to earn his success. You only see the tip of the iceberg my dude
@anderstermansen1303 жыл бұрын
@@titra694 litterally. What. All. Women. Want. In. Men.
@robertdalton68213 жыл бұрын
@@titra694 So if a guy inherits money she don't like him? They don't care how he got his money, just the fact that he has it to spend on her is all that matters
@By.daniieel3 жыл бұрын
Fr, that's a honest signal of how good your genes are
@billihawk3682 жыл бұрын
Be a chill real guy.
@csch81523 жыл бұрын
In all Videos like this one, i hear, women are insecure so you have to be confident. And men have to be emotionally strong, because women aint. Also i hear, dont doubt yourself , dont depricate yourself, dont be unsatisfied with your job or life, dont complain, dont cry , she doesnt like that and by the way, earn more money than your girl, because she doesnt want to provide. The Man has to. Just be strong and never weak, girls dont like that. What do women expect men to be. A robot? And what do the women do?
@silviopalumbo98783 жыл бұрын
Tripp, can you do a video with the opposites? What turns her on according to our "securities"?
@georgekurgansky59863 жыл бұрын
That 10 minutes went by fast!
@JonathanBaltzly3 жыл бұрын
Happy anniversary!
@trakamtv53983 жыл бұрын
Self-deprecation is what makes British humour so funny. It's a different humour than in America.
@oqlapsldim3 жыл бұрын
not when your on a date
@Rich.30153 жыл бұрын
@@oqlapsldim depends on the delivery. All humour does.
@abz75093 жыл бұрын
Was thinking the same. It’s built in our culture and be a force of habit .
@trakamtv53983 жыл бұрын
@@Rich.3015 Boris self-deprecates a lot whereas Trump would never do that, embodies the difference between UK and US.
@patnafs3 жыл бұрын
damn it, i wish i was more cognizant before i fucked things up with that one :-/
I was gaming a girl in daygame and she was laughing and interested. Then i asked her "do i have a chance with you?" Bc she was vague. Then she looked at me surprisingly turned on and intense. For a tenth of a second i blinked but kept looking at her chill. She said "for now im good" F*ck lol i knew it was bc of the eye contact
@dougackerman41823 жыл бұрын
Tripp what’s going on
@PAOLA-v5z2 жыл бұрын
N.1 not true, I like when a guy shows his insecurities, I like sweet and sensitive guys beacause I Think that he will treat me right. I don't like when a man is too confifent expecially if he tries to discard me. 2. Self deprecation is british humour, that is different from american humour and I find it funny 3. Agree 4. Totally agree I hate men who only can talk about their money their car and everything they got If I have to be in a relationship with a man he has to be a good guy, not an asshole. I don't care if he is an alpha or not
@monchichipower63343 жыл бұрын
Self deprecating humour is sign you don’t care
@oqlapsldim3 жыл бұрын
and it also shows that you don't take yourself seriously, so you think she will?
@Rich.30153 жыл бұрын
@@oqlapsldim women are emotional. If it's funny and you're being natural/unexpected it's a win. If you're doing it all the time it's being submissive. It all depends on your charm really in the moment.
@jkepic253 жыл бұрын
there is no humour in "I can be really stupid sometimes".
@monchichipower63343 жыл бұрын
@@jkepic25 laughing at your faults and owning it Lot can’t do it as they got ego attached to outcome
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
Certified really ? Why because you say so ?
@DatBoyBebo3 жыл бұрын
Im made you didnt post this last week
@infinitesunlight99733 жыл бұрын
joehoee
@scottbrown55873 жыл бұрын
Matter of fact I'm just going to come out and say it, if you want a life coach try turning to Jesus !!!! Little book called The Bible does anybody remember it ?
@merttuzun97543 жыл бұрын
Everyone to themselves 🤷♂️
@H92-v6w3 жыл бұрын
i dont agree with selfdeprecating humor being unattractive
@josesantana7703 жыл бұрын
That means it is attractive in woman in what way?
@stephen8113 жыл бұрын
Sarcasm might work ok but negging yourself is bad form
@HunterVaughanMusic3 жыл бұрын
My girlfriend tells me all the time she prefers to be smothered with attention & attention.