Good advice. I've found women really struggle with #2. I can't count how many times I've talked to female friends or family members who've wasted time questioning whether a guy was really into them. I know for me, when I was, I'd go out of my way to talk to her, spend time with her, and talk about the idea of establishing a romantic relationship.
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Yes it's true I think #2 has been one of the most common ones. So much wasted time and energy trying to 'decode' things lol. Great that your intentional! thanks for sharing your feedback :)
@ariah50933 жыл бұрын
When I heard living to bless and not impress I subscribed
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw happy to have you as part of the fam
@__skyy3 жыл бұрын
You’re so beautiful girl, loved the video and your energy!🧡
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks so much Skyy!! ❤️ So happy you watched!
@briematthews3 жыл бұрын
hey girl! I love your channel and your passion for encouraging christian women to use their single season as a time to run to God! This is such good advice! I will have to share this link with my audience because I have a Single & Thriving series on my channel that I am doing(:
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Hi Brie! Aw thanks so much girl! I just subscribed to your channel as well ❤️!!
@jayelynsworld91152 жыл бұрын
I just got out of a situation like this where I thought things were going a certain direction but he claimed God was his number one focus and he didn’t want to pursue anything romantic, so I told him well we shouldn’t go out on dates and stuff because that’s giving mixed signals and very confusing but the stuff he would say was very contradicting. So annoying lol so now we just don’t talk I mean we’re still cool but have to keep that distance then, ya know?🤷🏽♀️
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
Oh man, I hear you. It sounds like he might have felt conflicted within himself but I am glad you made it clear that you didn't want to be in a CONFUSING situation. Good on ya girl !! I'm genuinely excited for you. #TeamClarity lol
@Amberrechelle2 жыл бұрын
Very good advice ! Especially the one about looking good . I know I that I always say you have to look good to feel good . Period
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
Thanks lovely. Yes, and that means different things to different people. I think it's feeling good in your own skin and presenting your best self but also understanding that looks aren't everythaaaang lol. I tell my little sister that if you look good on the outside but your heart ain't cute it's FALSE ADVERTISING lol.
@utya.44723 жыл бұрын
Lmao it’s the ending that really had me laughing. Loved all the points
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
LOL I'm so glad that made you laugh 😅❤️! Thanks for watching!
@DrAliciaGranholm3 жыл бұрын
"Men are not mind readers." Say it louder for the people in back! :)
@Simplyarlenealvarez3 жыл бұрын
Lol. Let me drill that in my head.
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
hahaha yes!! yes!
@strong-tower4 жыл бұрын
Love your video! I tend to take my time after rushing into too many relationships in the past. That sometimes comes off as non interest. I’m working on it so things will work out without giving negative nonverbals. Blessings!
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Thank you! I hear ya...it's wild how much we communicate non-verbally. Love that you're proactive about working on it.
@deebenjamin51852 жыл бұрын
Truly relatable as these were mistakes I have too (but working on them and myself). Thank you for sharing! 😁
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
Yes girl! You are not alone
@shantyp62743 жыл бұрын
Omg, I feel like we favor each other and have similar personalities..Are you my fam? lol But great advice, I already knew but maybe I'll start listening because of your vid lol
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
ahaha imagine? lol I honesty wouldn't be surprised. My family is so big and I feel like I'm always meeting new members lol. So glad you found my little corner of KZbin
@lovelife89683 жыл бұрын
I have a hard time with the flirting. Elohim deals with each person so differently.
@Simplyarlenealvarez3 жыл бұрын
True. With that said, I think she meant it more like giving “cues” to let the person know you are also interested and that it’s safe to proceed. Lol.
@lollymolise98153 жыл бұрын
OMG! We're so alike. Totally agree with ALL your points sis. Thank you for this!
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Ahaha yaaas ! Love meeting other like-minded sisters online. My pleasure girl!! Thanks for commenting 😘!
@onelifeonejourney19414 жыл бұрын
I love this! Thank you for sharing this Sherina!
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
So happy to hear that ! My pleasure lovely xx
@monaedawson45233 жыл бұрын
This message was so real ❤....and if you've got a cousin, a cute uncle 🤭😄priceless but, so sincere 👏👏👏🙏
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
ahaha aw thank you lovely ❤️!!
@rebeccac55543 жыл бұрын
Merci pour ta vidéo. J'ai aussi expérimenté quelques unes de ces situations et ce que tu as dit est trop vrai !
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
De rien! Merci d'avoir commenté et partagé ❤️
@kamilleh40623 жыл бұрын
New subscriber! I had to subscribe after watching this video! Thanks for being real about what you’ve learned! I’m definitely taking notes. God bless you and your channel 🙏🏾
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Kamille!! Glad you're here girl ❤️
@jlacour2696 Жыл бұрын
So good!
@gracedradrio10433 жыл бұрын
I straight up loved you from like the second point and I had just randomly clicked on the video
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aww thanks Grace!! So glad you found my little corner of youtube
@HelloItsJasmineO3 жыл бұрын
Points were made points were MADE!! 📝
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Haha yes girl ! Feel free to let me know which one resonated with you the most 😁
@HelloItsJasmineO3 жыл бұрын
@@SherinaShantelle always being in a group of other women 😩🤦🏾♀️ that’s me I’m always in a group I can be there alone but I’ll find a group 😂😂
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
@@HelloItsJasmineO Haha same!! I always imagine that if someone was interested they'll just interrupt all 10 of us and introduce himself to me 😂
@HelloItsJasmineO3 жыл бұрын
@@SherinaShantelle right!! 😂😂
@jostuart54533 жыл бұрын
Love your content and personality!!! ❤️ New subscriber!
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you! Welcome 😁!!!
@takiamustafa41614 жыл бұрын
I really loved this video, I could relate with everything you talked about lol. That story about the girl telling you that the guy only saw you as friends was crazy!! I’m So glad I found your channel, love the quality of your videos! New subscriber!💓✨
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Aww Takia ! This comment made my day. I'm glad you found it too. Thanks for subscribing lovely
@takiamustafa41614 жыл бұрын
Sherina Shantelle you’re welcome!!!
@katelynbillie52083 жыл бұрын
I was meeting guys online and I know I can wait
@jesusiskingofmyheart3 жыл бұрын
Wonderful advice, thank you my sister in Christ for this helpful video. 🙏🏼😍❤️
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
My absolute pleasure!
@antoniomablesjr48243 жыл бұрын
This was awesome content and wisdom! I was engaged the entire time.🙌🏽💪🏽
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
Amazing! Thanks for the feedback Antonio! Really appreciate it.
@christanishimwe14693 жыл бұрын
Love love this content❤️
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Christa! So happy to hear that 🤗
@nicolavasarhelyi70974 жыл бұрын
You're so wise, love you girl!
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Awww thanks Nicky!! Love you too girl
@Joel_Tadesse4 жыл бұрын
LOL that ending killed me! Great video!
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
ahaha thanks! :D
@essenceofchar62013 жыл бұрын
Love this!! You're so funny sis 🥰
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks Sis...haha I definitely showed more of my goofy side in this one 😅
@ariah50933 жыл бұрын
You might be the most beautiful person I’ve ever seen ever
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
😭 😭That's so sweet. Thank You lovely!
@annikaminina76703 жыл бұрын
This is so relevant 💖
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Thanks girl! I appreciate your comments and feedback ❤️
@ariah50933 жыл бұрын
You are so beautiful and wow your teeth and smile are gorgeous!!!
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw thank you Ariah! You are so sweet!
@kerry66893 жыл бұрын
Do you find that you tend to be a magnet for unavailable men? Story of my life!
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Hi lovely! Glad you're here. what do you mean by unavailable? like emotional unavailable? or like they're already in a relationship?
@SanctifiedSista1173 жыл бұрын
Just because they are attracted to you, doesn’t mean you have to entertain them. :)
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
@@SanctifiedSista117 YES Britani!! Say it again ❤️. Such an important thing to remember.
@SanctifiedSista1173 жыл бұрын
@@SherinaShantelle chhiiillee! I got so much to say about all things singleness and dating as a Christian!! 😂
@beatrice899233 жыл бұрын
Hey ! Thank you your content is really relevant !
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Thank you Bassinah!! ❤️
@fluffylowe96524 жыл бұрын
thank you sooooo much sherry it really spoke to me
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Aw yay! SO glad it spoke to you.
@tishataray3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for keeping it 💯
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Aw thanks girl! I try my best to ❤️.
@Jguill36five2473 жыл бұрын
That laugh at the end tho 🤣🤣😍
@SherinaShantelle2 жыл бұрын
🙈aha
@MissModernprincess3 жыл бұрын
Are you really good without a man though? Or is it something you have decided to tell yourself to get to that point, because deep inside you really want a spouse? Asking, for me. Hehe
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Hey Joanna, so I don't believe in denial lol. It's more of the idea of knowing that I really do have all that I need in Christ but at the same time being honest with a desire to have a life partner. I remind myself of the truth but acknowledge my desires as well ❤️
@kenyacudjoe80833 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this.
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
My pleasure Kenya! Thanks for watching and commenting ! I love seeing the faces of those watching my videos.
@tishataray3 жыл бұрын
The ending,😂😂my uncle may not be cute
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 I hope your uncle doesn't see this comment of yours 👀
@RobBKowalski4 жыл бұрын
Nice video. Wisdom
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@joshuaokoli42364 жыл бұрын
Great advice 👍
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Thank you Joshua!
@rogerdsmith3 жыл бұрын
I’m a 65 year old man. The majority of my life I have been a single man. Whenever someone would ask why I wasn’t with someone, they only answer I ever had was that, somebody has to say yes when I ask them out. I’m convinced that if it is truly a good man who is approaching you, you just want to be friends. You don’t really want good…… you want hot. Forget about me, you’re destroying you own best opportunities.
@SanctifiedSista1173 жыл бұрын
Hi Roger. I don’t know what it’s like to be a man and have to pursue and ask women out, but not receive a yes. I’m sorry that has been your experience. I can only imagine how hard rejection is for good men. But just because a man is good, it doesn’t necessarily mean he is good for us. Yes mutual physical attraction must be there and is what draws us, but everything else is what keeps us. It’s not always a matter of destroying opportunities or wanting someone “hot” as it is wanting to be with someone who is on the same page with their faith, kingdom mission, vision, life goals, and values; is suitable for us spiritually, physically, emotionally, mentally, character, personality, and some interests. I pray God will bring you a wonderful, godly woman who you can love, serve, and grow with in His timing. :)
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Britani! I love this so much. I couldn't have said it any better. This is so spot on. Thanks for sharing and adding value in the comments ❤️❤️! Appreciate you!!! xx
@CherylThomasSpeaks3 жыл бұрын
Love 💕 these lessons learned! I have similar content on my KZbin channel and would love 💕 to connect!
@yourcakeandeatittoo4 жыл бұрын
Great video
@SherinaShantelle4 жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Jessica!
@mohamedaboalkasem35223 жыл бұрын
Sweet , lovely
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Thanks 😊
@vickglampshousvicky3 жыл бұрын
New sub!
@SherinaShantelle3 жыл бұрын
Yay! WELCOME GIRL ❤️
@davidalfonso30423 жыл бұрын
I love Christian women looking for true love
@godnyx1173 жыл бұрын
Good luck finding one, lol!
@davidalfonso30423 жыл бұрын
Thank you who are you
@godnyx1173 жыл бұрын
Girls waiting for Mr. right suddenly realizes less and less guys like her. Still won't settle down and still waits for her prince to come! Good luck honey