5 Months Postpartum Vlog | body image, skincare, date night

[@hlu06]

I really love how you pointed out that no matter how your body looks, there is always going to be a voice saying that you aren’t good looking enough and to just love yourself no matter what. I needed that 🥺

[@imjennim]

Totally! So key to ignore that critical voice. Nothing will ever be enough in their standards.

[@aereid6]

Yup even when I was struggling with an eating disorder at my skinniest, I was the most insecure. Thanks for being so honest Jen 💕

[@_dearolive]

I feel like this voice was strongest when I was trying to lose so much weight. I was constantly putting myself down. There’s truly a sense of peace once you begin just loving yourself no matter what size.

[@alice9193]

I am 33w pregnant and I was comfortable with the weight gain (15kg already) but suddenly I just felt insecure about my body image and I even want to lose some weight at this point of time... I definitely need to get rid of the mindset. Thanks Jenn

[@lydiakoh813]

Yesssa 💕

[@SincerelyKimmy]

Love seeing you two prioritize dates. Jenn I've been married for almost 27 years to my best friend, and we still schedule date night every week. Our kids are grown now but it's such a strong habit we've built, we actually feel off track if we don't do it:) Another thing we did were in house dates when the kiddos were young, once they went to bed. Remember, one day your baby boy will leave the nest and you don't want to look at each other and not recognize the other because you didn't nurture your marriage. We actually just had a in house camping date (it was too cold outside) with tent and all in the living room. We had blast.

[@imjennim]

This comment is so incredibly heartwarming to read. So inspiring! x Great tip about the in house dates too!

[@SincerelyKimmy]

@@aidasa3791 Thank you. I’m actually 53 but I appreciate the compliment😊

[@JYYB]

This is so true! Our kids are still young, so most of our dates are in home movie nights. Just being together and sitting together are the best moments. We have been married for 12 years and dates and togetherness is VERY IMPORTANT for a relationship along with communication and just plan fun! Haha

[@professorpineapple2512]

Hi Kimberly!! I just want to say that you are so gorgeous lol!😄✨

[@alliebens4263]

Do you know how many people you help by showing your body and saying what you said about it? Thank you for that. I’m several years post partum and it is really nice to see someone (especially someone in the public eye) who isn’t in a hurry to get their pre-Child body back. Love what you said about your body working and functioning being the most important, because it is!

[@_dearolive]

So encouraging even for moms to be 💕

[@mandersmanders1451]

“I’m not in a rush to get rid of this.” I love how you are embracing your postpartum body! Thank you for the reminder that we should embrace and accept how our body is built; before or after. 💗

[@fashionluv66]

"Not the first time I've heard that" THE WAY I GASPED LOL. love seeing different sides of your beautiful relationship!

[@imjennim]

Hahaha his cheeky side 😂

[@the_seasons_of_summer]

Omg I had to listen again because I was like “Did he just???” 😂 too funny

[@Wanderwilderreading]

Your reflection on your changing body and acceptance of the fluctuations in your weight after childbirth was really inspiring to see. Thank you for using your platform to be so open and honest about your motherhood journey!

[@imjennim]

Thanks Madison! x

[@kcorpz]

I’m 4months postpartum and stretch marks everywhere but I’m not ashamed of my body. It’s weird because when I was a teen and early adolescent I hated my body. Now, I just accepted how it is and thankful for it because it carried my baby.

[@imjennim]

I feel you so hard on this!!

[@ivonnetham]

It’s strange how we used to mind our body so much and now we are so comfortable with it…. Knowing what it went through…

[@pinkcelery]

5 months already!??? Girl I remember when we were waiting for Lennon and it felt like forever!!! ❤️

[@imjennim]

Right!?!?!

[@lucymoon]

Also a heads up on Why We Sleep - it's considered a bit misinformative, as the writer used a lot of questionable data and poor citations when making his points! The Maintenance Phase podcast did a great episode telling the story if you're looking for more information! x

[@imjennim]

Ooo thank you for letting me know, Lucy! I'll make sure to listen to that podcast after I finish reading to clarify what points need amending!

[@00jdn]

I love the Maintenance Phase podcast, so so good!

[@engineerepixlele2845]

Matthew Waller acknowledged the flaws and is going to update his book sometime in the coming years

[@evajmd]

Came here to say something similar - while there are MANY theories on why/how we sleep, there is not consensus on specifics. I'd caution taking in any information as definitive! :) That said, existing sleep theories and data to support them are fascinating. I think taking in said information while acknowledging nuance/uncertainty can be amazingly helpful nonetheless to contextualize sleep habits and patterns that work well for us

[@Tayuyasoundnin]

I was going to comment the same thing!

[@ashleyjadejupiter]

The way you talk about your relationship with your body is something everyone needs to hear. We put so much pressure on ourselves to look a certain way and it's so refreshing to hear someone talk about body image in such an appreciative, positive and real way. Our bodies are truly incredible.

[@MissyHobbes]

I've been watching you since I was like 15 from your thrifting videos with Sarah and now I'm 22 :0 you've been like an unni to me from giving life advice, book reccs, influencing my fashion, and being my Korean-American role model. It's amazing to have seen your journey from a college student to a mother! I love watching your videos and I'm so happy to have you guide me through life through your videos and vlogs

[@imjennim]

Aww this makes me so happy! Thank you for your loyalty! T__T

[@dumblucid1563]

You're so much loyal, i've Been watching Jenn since i'm 18 and now 20🤞🏻

[@fionnualaoconnor1147]

Hi Jenn, You’re philosophical thoughts about your postpartum body are just perfect. This way of thinking will make you a brilliant mom to your son. You’re doing great!

[@iamkateo]

Jenn, you look AMAZING for 5 months postpartum. Taking a look at myself one year postpartum - I still have my pooch, I still have a hint of a linea nigra. And you know what? I am ok with it. My baby makes it all worth it 💗

[@imjennim]

Thanks Kate! I have the same feelings as you! n_n

[@nataliesoutlet]

What an iconic intro haha 👏🏽😜 Feeling the 5 month mommy power! 💃🏽💃🏽 Always such a pleasure to watch and relax to your videos Jenn 🙂💓

[@imjennim]

Ahh ty Natalie!

[@carolynchen317]

Jenn- your honesty and healthy mindset about your body is so incredibly helpful for us young women navigating the horrors of capitalist body pressures so thank you❤️

[@imjennim]

I'm glad I could help by sharing my experience! x

[@rebekahmckinnon-eastman9674]

I am loving the realness of your content! I think you’re at your most powerful and inspiring point yet. Matrescence stripping back the layers and showing us just how strong and beautiful you truly are x

[@milalovesmae]

Hey Jenn, hair loss is super normal while breastfeeding. I'm a hairstylist and i see so many clients going through the same stuff. I always put my clients onto Kevin Murphy's plumping range and it honestly helps so so much with the hair loss. Taking vitamins too is such a good move 💕

[@xTenshiAi]

i love seeing you grow throughout the years. i also love how you and ben both make quality time for each other which is really important in marriage life

[@nastiakurochkin9405]

I want to tell you that I really appreciate your sharing from the moment you found out about pregnancy until now, it helps women feel more confident in this complex journey, and makes us feel much more comfortable with our body, and all the complex feelings that come during this journey, thank you very much!

[@evamainguet7724]

ben discretly walking in the background at 5:52 was so funny !!

[@thats_me_here]

Jenn you are such an inspiration for me. Love how you are so consistent and organized

[@ninatorres2994]

Jen I been watching since you first started clothesencounters and I’ve loved to see every stage of your life. And I must say you as a mom is my favorite! You have such a glow to you that makes me happy and smile. This baby has brought out a wonderful side of you and I wish you nothing but blessings for your little family💕

[@imjennim]

Ahh! Thank you, Nina! x

[@de6519]

No, it's never too late to start taking photos of whatever month your baby is at because you can start capturing those little moments now! My mom always told me when I have a kid take a lot of pictures of them when they're young because in a blink of an eye they're growing up too fast.

[@ricahhh_9052]

Lennon is so cute 😭♥️ love it when he smiles! So cuteeee

[@trishaines2813]

Thank you for always sharing your journey! ❤️ love you! Love seeing you as a mama!

[@spec0h632]

I just want to say, your channel is really, really inspiring especially for girls and women. Thank you for sharing those thoughts with us!

[@meriidah]

So powerful words about your body! ❤ Love how you are always real and authentic

[@mchun21]

As a mom of three in my early 30s (and also in the post partum period), I SO appreciate your authenticity about your experience. ❤️

[@mchun21]

Also, that photo tip from Ben 👌🏼

[@OdaMaria]

I love really almost everything always about your videos and I just have to say that how you do the makeup part with the products on the side of the screen is just YES, I love it. So clean and cool and informative. Been watching your channel since long before you changed from clothesencounters and there's probably no other youtuber that I have been following so consistantly for so long, I like that! All the love, Jenn!

[@pinkgurl3533]

Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing your postpartum body and talking about self image. I remember when I was at my most fit, skinny self, I still would look at photos and feel like it wasn't "enough." That's when I realized that it's not about "those 5 lbs." It's really a mental game and I think motherhood really changes things and puts things in perspective.

[@superwomae]

I love how you are embracing who you are right now. Your body is so stunning, and it gave birth to a beautiful baby! How amazing is that? You look soo strong and soo healthy! Thank you for setting such a great example, and that is to accept yourself at every stage of life. Love you, Jenn! Oh, also love you, Ben and Lennon! ❤️

[@giovannarodriguesribeiro2788]

Jenn! I’m so happy to see you in such a good mood! Life’s about finding bliss in the simple things and that’s what you’ve been teaching me. 🥰

[@cleokiu]

hahaha i love the little phrases Ben uses like "sippy wippy" LOL im gonna have to start saying that

[@imjennim]

He has so many little catch phrases! x

[@sarakj2468]

Oh i just love watching Jens videos 🥰 I'm not even thinking about kids (i'm 23) but i found the whole pregnancy journey so interesting and heartwarming to watch!

[@nellel2554]

"Realizing I had nothing to say" loll Happy to see your makeup application. So pretty!

[@imjennim]

LOLOL! Sometimes you just gotta let the music play~

[@withlovevicky]

My favorite moments: - that ciao sweater omg can i have?? - jenn's postpartum body is GLAM - also ben just shuffling by lmao

[@whatisabiyahdoing]

Love that you and Ben are intentional about creating time to spend together!!! Your relationship always inspires me😌💗

[@arlevsanico8582]

It’s been a habit for me to enjoy your video and head on over to Ben’s to watch his videos. Really glad to see you both prioritize date nights, and so inspiring to see you embrace your body post-partum. 💕 thanks for always being so honest and eloquent about how you feel.

[@xXItstrayceceXx]

Thank you for sharing these moments, Jen. You're an inspiration and role model to me.

[@via.brenda8882]

i love y’all’s relationship 😩💕 hope i can have a relationship like that one day 🥰

[@Jessicacarrielee]

Aww first ❤️ Love watching your growth over the past 6-7 years, I feel like we’ve really come along in your journey + grown too!

[@haseena1001]

Hey Jenn - Happy 5 Months to Lennon! Time flies! Watching your vlogs always makes my day regardless of what topics you talk about because it always resonates and hits home. Lovely to see you and Ben making time for just the two of you and incorpating this into everyday life. Have a great weekend xxx Stay safe and well xxx

[@imjennim]

Ahh! 5 months has gone so quickly! I hope you had a great weekend too! xx

[@afoodiefeasts]

Commenting a second time because I cannot tell you how much your videos make me happy. I just caught myself smiling at my computer watching. I love seeing your life journey and all the lessons you learn along the way. Thank you for sharing a part of it with us for so many years!

[@victoriaksinger]

I’m so happy to have found your channel. I want to continue to grow as a person and I feel like you have such wisdom. Thank you especially for talking about our bodies and how we should view them. I struggle with my body image sometimes, so it was refreshing to get this perspective. Thank you 💜

[@imjennim]

Aww thank you for this message, Victoria!

[@catthecritic]

Ugh, just what I needed after a particularly hard week. Love your videos as always, Jenn!!

[@veronicaz13]

30 seconds in and I’m already loving this video’s vibes

[@imjennim]

Yaaay!

[@jasminegabriellerose9963]

I love how you laughed so heartily and Ben's little cous cous dad joke!

[@viviendell842]

I noticed the perfumes on the shelf in your closet and I would love if you did a video on your favorite fragrances, if you haven’t already :)

[@NatalieFowler]

It’s been so amazing to watch you grow over the past years and enter this new chapter of your life! Your authenticity is so inspiring and I love seeing your videos pop up in my feed!🥰

[@kaatjekh]

Danny Gonzalez always has the best video's to just casually laugh and vibe with while getting ready :D

[@imjennim]

Literally the best!! x

[@lorainek.2225]

My hair fell out like crazy post partum! I had bald spots, I swear I could've made a wig. But after, I kept taking my supplements and it grew longer and stronger than ever in my whole life! There's hope 💕✨

[@imjennim]

Ahhh! This gives me so much hope!

[@teddylewis1860]

Just when I thought I couldn't love her even more, she shows us her gorgeous post Lennon body aaannd shows us her face cleanser with closed eyes. You are everything, Jenn! Thank you so much for this video! Sending lots of love from Germany! ♥

[@CherryWearBabyClothes]

Jenn - you have everything important in the right place. Loving your body and acknowledging your inner voice then overcoming that with nurturing words is such a gift. Looked like you both enjoyed your date x

[@CookieFridays]

Thanks for sharing your body, I love what you said about that critical voice we all seem to have! It’s so true, isn’t it. I’m so glad you have a healthy body image, I need to get to that point also. Loved seeing Lennon and seeing your date night with Ben. So many lovely moments. You looked so pretty in all the outfits and looks too!

[@nadanalia3000]

You look sooooo happy Jenn!! Loving it

[@tUiDo4]

me and my husband don't even have a baby yet and we already structure our life LOL. So don't feel bad for scheduling your times together. At least you guys are making time for each other. There is couples out there who fail to spend time together causing them to drift apart from each other. So what your doing is awesome! ^-^

[@radostkudinova1017]

I've never met you but I admire you so much. All the life advice that you give about your mental health, body image and your life with Ben are so useful for me. You aren't just showing us vlogs but quality content too. Thank you, wish you all the best! And Lennon is so cute with those big cheeks 😊🥰

[@regina88490]

What you said about accepting your current body no matter what really resonated with me! If we don’t think like that, will always find something to not love no matter what

[@imjennim]

Mmmhmmm! x

[@emilyhutson4566]

I actually love the fact that you thought you would be the parents who took month-by-month baby photos for the first year and that so far you haven't been! That and the"bloopers" you left in (like realizing you had nothing to say or the discussion about whether to film in the car or not) help your videos feel relatable even for those of us who are in a different place financially or in terms of family stage of life.

[@amandawilson5356]

Omg I have major post COVID hair loss so keep us updated on what works the best ❤️❤️

[@erandre626]

The quality of the videos you create is amazing! I love the attention to detail in the editing.

[@blurvhee]

i love how ben just walks pass so quietly and then seeing him on the reflection of your wardrobe 😂

[@fL0BaL]

Thanks Jenn for showing the true side of our body, especially post-partum! We definitely have the tendency to be harsh on ourselves, and I'm also trying to be more positive with my body image :)

[@jasminesmriti8142]

Hi Jenn, thank you for existing and for creating all the videos with so much love. These are a few of what keep me sane and happy❤️

[@kellyguo6555]

Just want to say love your vlogging so much! It’s alway full of positivity and inspiration! Thank you!

[@DuckieM]

Happy 5 months Lennon! He's growing up so fast!!! Great to see and hear that you are feeling yourself again at 5 months postpartum. lol thank you for letting us be the 3rd wheel on your date night! You guys are so cute! Lol Ben when you were in your wardrobe, prob wondered who you were talking to. I love your points on being content on your body in its current state. We def put a lot of pressue in getting on ourselves in wanting an ideal body, esp for women after pregnancy with pressure to 'bounce back', but forgetting like what you said "health is wealth." If you aren't healthy, the look of your body will not make it better. Don't be too hard on yourself. Treat yourself with kindness and positive vibes and spend more time with your loved ones.

[@PaxDTess]

Kudos for the body talk... there is so much truth in that part. We always find things we dont like about our body. I dont think changing is the solution but will rather shift the focus on something new. Exceptance is the healthiest and most positiv way

[@soslangos1261]

i love your videos man 🤩 they light up my day & help me so much with self-growth & -improvement

[@rees3spuffs]

ur such a big inspiration for me!! i just love watching your videos its almost as relaxing as meditating ^^

[@GiNA-mv8cn]

Jenn looking beautiful as ever 💗 love seeing her so excited about going on a date 🤣

[@tanjapalutke754]

Half way through your video and I'm thinking OH MY GOSH this is such a lovely vid. You, Ben & Lennon are such beautiful people 😍 Enjoy your date night out lovely's. And by the way... You look stunning 5 month postpartum ♥️

[@imjennim]

Aww thank you, Tanja!

[@ashserj7906]

I'm glad you put up this video. So refreshing 😍 I'm 3 months postpartum and feeling a bit better about myself and my current body. Stay blessed ✨

[@kimssimplelife467]

Why we sleep is an amazing book!! it really changed the way I think about sleep ❤️

[@jesusiskingofmyheart]

Jenn, you just have this NEW GLOW about you ever since you became a mommy 😍❤️✨ It’s so beautiful to watch your journey throughout motherhood 🙌🏼

[@juliayk]

I was just smiling the whole time watching this vlog. You are just so cute and lovely 😭😭

[@LitziaBeltran]

what a nice vlog, your baby looks so big :D and that talk about the body was priceless, im glad you feel that way and shared with everyone.

[@katrinlausch3078]

You are so beautiful inside and outside ❤️ Mental and physical health is utterly important even more while taking care of a new-born. Thank you for sharing your life with us and that you do not show fake unhealthy pictures of women getting in shape again. Take good care, regards from Germany ✨🥰

[@meriellefrivaldo7368]

I have been struggling with how my body looks and such after giving birth, I found that only Baby Blues vitamins worked for me and really brought the energy and my weight back. I've felt so much happier looking into the mirror and seeing myself go back

[@melodygreene2481]

I love love love the lavender dreams song you put in this video omg! It was such a vibe for this video. Also just love your vlogs in general :)

[@BlackBerryTrees]

The “and it smells like cucumbers” and “drats” just made this vlog for me hahaha so cute and really feels like I’m there while we’re on a sleepover getting ready for bed hahaha

[@nommmmmames]

The way Jenn has been my inspo/comfort youtuber since I was a teenager

[@marccolomayt82094]

Wow! Happy 5 months Jenn!!! 💖💖💖💖💖

[@claire_yang]

8:48 "not the first time i've heard that" HAHAHA 🤣 💀 loved this vlog like always 🥰💕

[@kelseydreyer3563]

Loved loved LOVED your comments re body acceptance. So refreshing and unfortunately rare to hear. Thank you ❤️❤️

[@MikiSings]

I love your editing style and all the transitions and how honest and fun your videos are ❤️

[@sokhnadia4776]

I loved that intro and that video felt soo good to watch jenn

[@4321Silence]

Love this new style of editing! Did you get a new editor? Also, love how you're showing different sides of being a mum ❤️❤️

[@solitarydiaries7273]

I love how you both compliment the food you eat everytime and the reaction tho. Seems it's really delicious.

[@aimiey4512]

Please dun change u guys.. this kind of relationship n mentality.. kinda rare nowadays.. really like this kind of video.. really made my day..

[@anamamin3628]

I had the worst postpartum hair loss black seed oil really helped both consuming it and applying it on my head.

[@pauliendenis3768]

Ughhhh such wholesome content!!! Thank you :)

[@ricahhh_9052]

Love the skincare part. Thanks for walking us through!

[@anma0637]

Your skin is like… WOOOW. Also, why we sleep is such an interesting book!! Sleeping also helps us retain information.

[@aileenborruel2461]

Love love your vids! Married my high school sweet heart and got 4 little ones... date nights are a must! Thanks for the reminder again and for another amazing video☺️💖

[@soph1175]

Hahahaha! Ben passing through in his towel while listening to serious body image talk had me laughing hysterically! Enjoyed this catch-up on parenthood and marriage video 😍

[@nancydee6106]

I’m obsessed with your channel!!!!!!!

[@nena9846]

You guys really have such a sweet vibe

[@usagimoon.x.o6256]

Hey Jen! 👋 so glad to catch your videos!!

[@alexd5023]

I think people forget what it takes to carry and GIVE BIRTH! Your body did that! All on its own. You didn’t “gain weight” you brought life into this world!! And your body being EXACTLY the way it is, enabled that. It’s incredible. I think people forget what women are capable of. Seriously.

[@zoeh.2361]

You’re literally the ONLY vlogger I watch. I usually can’t sit through others, but yours I seek out! So well edited, honest, love ur humor and ur perspective. YOU INSPIRE THE HELL OUT OF ME. Thank u💕💕