5 Powerful Ways To Make Him Worry He's Losing You

[@ElliotScottDating]

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[@CorporateQueen]

Don't need to make him worry. He has lost me.

[@91pinklipstick]

Comments lile this make me roll my eyes hard. Like how is it true youre out here commenting under a dating video lol obviously he still has a hold on u mentally

[@Blueivy2345]

Maybe just wants to understand what's happening ​@@91pinklipstick

[@juliamichelle6212]

For visuals learners ~ 1. Be a highly sought after, high value woman. (Even if you don’t believe you are, act like one). Don’t rush into meeting up and delay your responses. You’re busy and will respond/ fit him into your schedule at your earliest availability. 2. Behave as if he doesn’t have you/ you’ve moved on. Ignore ignore ignore. Bask in the receiving side as opposed to the sending side of those double and triple texts. Reverse the power dynamic and make him think you’re not coming back. Men are typically under the assumption that though they are not in direct communication with you at the moment, they can have you back anytime they want. Shatter that reality for him. 3. You must follow through. Don’t listen to arbitrary no contact deadlines and soften after they come back. You have to be an actress and fulfill the role completely, not back out when you start to see signs of them coming around. The role does not go away upon re-contact - that is truly the beginning, more work to come. 4. Keep him on social media. Don’t show him that it’s bothering you or that he’s emotionally affecting you. Let him see you’re unphased living life as usual and then delete him when he would least expect it. Blocking and deleting out of spite or bitterness is unattractive and immature. 5. Renegotiate the contract. Since you are in the position of power now you can impose your standards and make sure everyone is on the same page in regards to the relationship dynamics. Stand your ground and tell them your expectations. Embrace that power once you get it back and don’t just give it away so soon. Relish in it and hold onto it as long as you can, you waited long enough and can now bask in the fruits of your efforts. As always, thank you Elliot you are a gem

[@pappico]

thank you for properly typing the important points!

[@juliamichelle6212]

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[@Lucky12818]

Thank you a lot! Excellent job.

[@rileysmiley9585]

Great…this is why we can also chase our dreams and make them a reality.

[@CeciledeLuire]

thank you : )

[@wickedwanderlust1602]

Elliot Scott changed my life. I found an amazing guy when I stopped lowering my values for other men

[@ElliotScottDating]

Yay that's awesome

[@rileysmiley9585]

Me too.

[@eniolashoroye870]

How is he not on 1M subscribers already. I’ve been watching u for 5yrs now. Nigeria 🇳🇬 ❤

[@meeksmiinkboutique1681]

Exact same thing I said!!

[@dallastexas6341]

He doesn’t put effort like Hussey to look good or professional

[@Vm16002]

@@dallastexas6341why does his looks matter? His words is the point of the video

[@lisaottomann2396]

Yeah, he’s my favorite!

[@MissLeosTarot]

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[@KayciazWorld]

Guys unfortunately, 99% of the time, respect women who are wanted by lots of men. Because it ques their egos to compete for something they may not be able to have. Anyone else, they'll mistreat or use for their own personal satisfaction. That's the bottom line. I've experienced it with my exes and it wasn't until I started focusing more on my goals, that guys started giving more respect. It honestly pisses me off because guys don't like it when women are that way towards them but they're constantly being vain assholes if a woman isn't "good enough" for them in some capacity. Dating really is doomed smh.

[@sansadrake4133]

They don't wife ones who are wanted by lots of men though. They go for average women to for marriage

[@cherrylane79]

@@sansadrake4133 It's not the woman's fault if the men want her. But I have always wondered why they go for an average woman when serious, really weird in my opinion.

[@sansadrake4133]

@@cherrylane79 apparently it's due to insecurity. Because they know not many men will want her so they'll feel more secure in the relationship. Deep down a lot of men fear rejection

[@TheCc064]

When a man “wifes” up a “plain Jane” he’s only using her as a placeholder. Men will do that. They don’t have true feelings of love or respect for women beyond what they can use them for

[@liabw05]

@@cherrylane79because of the investment cost (not just financial). Men are logical so they are not going to invest in something with risky returns. They also don’t want to always feel in competition. It’s an ego thing.

[@raes2771]

We need to talk about how to have this effect AFTER a woman is in a relationship… esp when it’s been a few years and the person takes you for granted.

[@apoenaabreu257]

Absolutely. I have no money for coaching so I'm trying to learn from videos such as this, but most of this content is targeting people in early stages of dating or very long relationships. I'm somewhere in the middle, so is hard to scrape what helps

[@whateverhappenshappens.7137]

Came to this video with a different intention but then realised that I am not up to play these mind games with anybody. If he wants me he'll step up and do the things right but if he doesn't I am striking him out of my life, clean.

[@A-G-23]

I almost spat out the water I was drinking with the "there is no writing letters" 😂😂😂

[@wandayarbrough]

After nearly 3 years I am sure he's not missing me. I am not missing the stranger he is now. I miss our music connection but that's it . I don't have that with another man

[@TishnaSwaby-ut5dd]

After 3 yrs he been moved on

[@Scheherazad100]

They've been known to come back 20-50 yrs.later.

[@kimt8162]

He's right. It goes again to long-term relationship (5 years). I think we're moving forward, but because I didn't have the "relationship"talk; the guy was truly clueless. I needed to "frame it". I wish I would have heard this 5 years ago.

[@J3nnycat]

I’m dealing with a man who throws tantrums to get his way. We’ve been together 5 years, and I’ve kept letting him back in. I think if he saw me with another guy he’d just become more angry & spiteful, and try to hurt me some other way.

[@verarobinson6759]

I had that I dumped him not good for your mental health

[@LK-fn1nk]

He ghosted me for two weeks. Before that, he had apparently met personal problems. I wrote him one message the first week saying that although i liked him, if he would not respond anymore (i did not know what was going on), i have no other chance than turning the page. The other week (2 weeks after of silence), i wrote his name, because i did not know if he was in hospital maybe, also i neeeded to position myself. He then responded by saying "i am sorry for making you live that shit, because you don't deserve it, and you are incredible and adorable. However, i will call you very soon for eating diner with you after your work. Just, remind something that i still love you". I did not respond because i wanna see if he is going to follow through what he said. And i did not want to act emotionally, so i let a little time to pass out. It is not my job to fight for it...

[@apoenaabreu257]

Did he followed through?

[@strawberryshortcake8382]

Soooo what happened?

[@Relaxinwealth]

This is what I’m going through! Thank you for making this video ❤😊

[@MoneyMichelle777]

I've been following your steps and they work!!!

[@rileysmiley9585]

😊

[@EE_Lopez]

I love all of your videos. However, that snap w/ sas was funny. Thank you for the laugh. On a serious note, I appreciate you and your no bullshit content.

[@91pinklipstick]

Ladies dont listen to him: never do anything radical never burn a birdge u didnt mean to burn. Be nonchalant keep him around as an option like he does that to you. Learn from the fckboy himself

[@northernlights8769]

...thank you for enlightening my mind...

[@gloriarobinson6820]

I did that for 4 months he reached out but nothing different we haven't been friends on fb since 2016

[@lunashootingstar15]

First!!! Have loved your videos over the years ma dude!!!😍😍 keep it up woot woot!

[@kfner23]

When you don't delete but he got to the delete button first. Trust me, if its a done thing or he shows you he dont gaf, delete him first but you have to follow through. Don't be deleting then re adding, that's where you lose.

[@movingthroughlifewithdusti6895]

I don’t think you have any dude friends if so you probably sneek in with his girl when they break up. I hate it for you

[@kfner23]

@@movingthroughlifewithdusti6895 What does this have to do with anything I said?

[@Sunkissednoe]

This video is hella funny and insightful too!

[@EdelweisSusie]

ELIOT: Would you do a video please on how to be a high-value independent woman who "doesn't need a guy to fulfil her" (as you said in this video) WHILST making the guy feel wanted? My cousin and I always come unstuck on this part because men feel that we 'have everything' - so what do we need them for? Hope that makes sense. Help needed!!! Thank you very much.

[@seniasaynomore4238]

No it doesn't because him telling you ,is pretty much what you'd follow his word for word. Look in the mirror and love yourself a little.mors and you'll get your ANSWERS 😊

[@Lainypop]

You’re awesome!!

[@ejemheniyayi4283]

Thanks very helpful

[@Shannon-ul2dh]

Love this guy! 🎉

[@ElliotScottDating]

I love you too

[@MoneyMichelle777]

Elliot you are the best 👌

[@tarabonner341]

Love this! Great and one of my fave for content!

[@kimmichaud7741]

How can.i.ignore him if he's ignoring me

[@kiruxu]

If you’re framing it as though he’s genuinely lost you and you’re doing a really believable job of it, is that actually going to make him chase you and want you back? Or is it going to make him think “damn… really did lose her… time for me to move on”?

[@lavenderbudtree]

Elliot, what if you’re not Facebook friends? Nothing to post 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@vernegunda]

I recently fell for a guy that I found annoying the first time I met him. Then he invited me over after we had some drinks and I agreed to have s3x with him… I never been able to do it with sth I never had a nice conversation before or some kind of spark or connection. He started kinda ignoring me after. Still hurt and I am still shocked that it hooked me so strongly. I have no idea how to get him out of my head, I have all logical reasons why I do not like him, he treats me bad, do not prioritise my time or anything, doing things I never allow other men. I do not know what is wrong with me -.-

[@keiwa-yourdreamvacationstl6537]

You got bonded to him with oxytocin which is what women release during seggs… it’s very addictive . You might need to bond with other people non sexual to get oxytocin to match what you experienced with him … so your brain stops associating him to such a strong good feeling …learnt this from Adam lane smith on you tube … check out his work on attachment

[@amberhoehn7320]

I wish you could do all this but with people who are in a relationship already. I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years. He has been pulling some BS.

[@BabyFaceRach]

Yes omg

[@GilliMarieMoody]

1.) Respectfully, I don’t think Hussey is into no contact. I know any previous efforts I’ve made haven’t worked. It’s when I’ve decided I never, ever, EVer want to see them again that they come back. Then, what’s the use of that? 2.) Social media? I AVOID doing this with someone for at least three months. Why? Because, for years, now, the dating rarely gets past one month. Then, we’re on social media together? Gawd no. That usually adds to an excruciating end. 3.) Just get super-busy in your life. Possibly, BLOCK his number. Do NOT listen to love songs. Work out DAILY. Work out, work out, work OUT. Cheers.

[@verarobinson6759]

U are my favorite dating coach

[@karenperez2107]

I would like to know how could we apply the 6+ dates if it is a long distance thing. Great video btw ❤ as always!!

[@paolanamuncura8879]

Hey how's the relationship

[@JanetMacCallum]

Good advice here

[@dum9696]

Wait, i can t text him , like how are you text? what? why should him text first always?

[@blackcarriebradshaw]

Absolutely not! Do not text him. He needs to think that he lost you.

[@808nuna_ishere]

"If you're turning a little -- a little FUCKING boat" 😂

[@MeliTakesSeoul]

I watch these videos and everytime they mention "5-6 dates" I remember I have BPD and these things happen after 1 date + a month or two of of texting and fighting.

[@sia1019]

What if you’re already in a relationship?

[@AlletaPhillips]

Thanks

[@TheKruelka]

I wanted my ex to double text me, but he deleted the first text before I read it, then he demanded, basically threatening me that if I don't delete our last photo on fb, he will "take care" of it. I asked if everything is ok and he said that yes, and that I could keep the photo if we were talking. I said we are not talking cause I have bad conotations with his past behaviour. He said he was scared how cold I am, but wished me well. I wished him too. I wonder is this over.

[@Scheherazad100]

Only time will tell.

[@rachelthespiritskeeper8730]

I’m realizing that your first option or rule doesn’t work for me as I am married to this man and we live together.

[@queenie547]

Hi Elliot..in online dating how can a woman show her high-value towards a guy..had an experience with a guy where he was willing to meet me and fly to my country but somehow expects to have physical intimacy..while I told him I wanted to wait..he then said the balance is not good when a man has more value putting in than the woman...

[@annemarie7203]

I had a similar situation but hold your values and if he was the right guy, he would respect you enough to wait

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Your not going to achieve much with online dating. It's just for men looking for hook ups in general. Yes you can find a unicorn or a needle in a haystack but I tend to go with the mean..

[@annemarie7203]

@@jessicahitchens6926 although there’s been some who had successful long term relationships with online dating, same with my experience that they don’t last because they only want to get you to bed. There are tons of guys out there who have the wrong intentions but appear/say as the complete opposite!!!

[@annemarie7203]

@@jessicahitchens6926 That's my experience with online dating too for the most part they only try to get you to bed. But there are some people who have been lucky and they've been able to find someone genuine in there. Know that there are tons of guys out there who have the wrong intentions but appear as the complete opposite!!!

[@lavenderbudtree]

Elliot, hey not all guys have social media. Please do a video for those over 50 and those men that have no Facebook etc. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@annado3885]

And what if he doesn't follow you or have him on social media

[@Itiswellwithmysou]

Would this work (a man fighting for you) if your in a relationship torn between the two ?

[@Ana-h6j5m]

It shouldnt be this fucking hard

[@EdelweisSusie]

ELIOT - can you get some non-reflective glasses? That ring light is much too bright ..... x

[@taniawilliams14]

High value woman who is sought after. Frame it in a way he doesn’t have you. You must follow through. Keep him online, then delete him. Renegotiate the contract.

[@user-zc1rs9pm6b]

how do i convince him?

[@nashia0]

he unfollowed me right away. what do I do?

[@SabrinaDacosta]

The more I watch these videos the more I wanna stay single for your the rest of my life. Thank you! And I mean it!

[@stacietapia3166]

Should I delete our photos together?. I haven’t yet found a video on that.

[@fernfunk]

i wouldn't- u might regret it. put them on a usb stick and put that in some drawer so they are totally out of sight

[@Ace7of7Cups]

put them in a box or on disk somewhere out of sight if you are not together.

[@sunnytsn6073]

“A little fucking boat” 😂😂😂

[@rileysmiley9585]

This is true…it really works. PLEASE BELIEVE ME.🍀

[@afrintayeba2981]

Really???always???reach out for self check or something serious???

[@terroristeoverdoz]

What if he never use social media?

[@sheriwl]

oooooh! 6.20 diss on hussey lol!!!

[@aries7176]

do you think that these theories would work with a man over who is over 50 years old ?

[@tammyd5720]

It's so sad to even admit this but it's like a big game you have to play a game and hopefully you win and that's sad but it's a fact

[@blissessentials524]

What happens if i already dumped him? Lol

[@janet2u100]

If u gotta do all that then you’re already fucked. Ain’t nobody got time for all that shit. Love the advice tho it does work 😊😊

[@sandialyn]

Look , stop making me laugh excessively. This is AF!!! We coming for them.

[@Angeliccooke]

seriously I dont have the time and energy to play such games to win a man. YUK>>>>>Just walk away....

[@LaraineFox]

Please eliminate raunchy words! Otherwise, good point in realizing one!s worth. Extreneky valuable in Jesus!s sight.

[@LaraineFox]

Extremely *

[@Missy-d9q]

Elliot literly know my whole story

[@justinagen7960]

delete and BLOCK.

[@clover84htx]

14:23 🤗

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Ha Ha! Writing letters( Matthew Hussey)..🤡

[@AmandaMarieHarris]

So basically, women can't just be themselves.

[@maryrowery80]

Frames, variables, evidence, context. I am missing a mathematical equation. Man, you are talking to women. Make it understandable