5 Reasons She's Not having Orgasms (And what to do about it 😉)

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Caitlin V

Caitlin V

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01:00 What is the orgasm gap?
02:20 Reason #1
05:40 Reason #2
07:45 Reason #3
09:10 Reason #4
11:35 Reason #5
15:00 If she's experiencing pain during sex..
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@sunhead-x
@sunhead-x Жыл бұрын
Just realized how good the video production became over time. The choice of the soundtrack, the volume leveling etc...high quality content, thx for that!!
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV Жыл бұрын
Glad you enjoyed it! Thank you!
@keithpratt1849
@keithpratt1849 Ай бұрын
1 minute into this video and I so thankful you did it. I just posted on my Facebook page that women are given so many challenges in life. Here you go.
@Phobicsleaguechannel333
@Phobicsleaguechannel333 Жыл бұрын
The goddess herself Has dropped the vid whenever i needed...
@brucethornton4044
@brucethornton4044 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your no holds barred, honest, plain language explanations, for both men and women, about what is actually happening during sex. With your honest in depth style we could all understand and the path to more enjoyable sex with much less confusion and frustration. If I had the knowledge you have shared my life would have been much different and certainly more enjoyable. You are a rare gem! Bruce
@colinm1325
@colinm1325 Жыл бұрын
Awesome vid Caitlin. When l get another partner, her and l will be watching this b4 we do that. I love taking my time and getting to that stage where she just wants it, and right now.....❤
@ElijahThiessen
@ElijahThiessen Жыл бұрын
You saved my marriage 😀 keep up the good work Caitlin!
@SunniDae333
@SunniDae333 11 ай бұрын
aww that's so awesome
@widgeonslayer
@widgeonslayer Жыл бұрын
Something a lot of people miss or don’t understand. If you take the time to do things right. It is more satisfying for you and will often be reciprocated.
@eso6094
@eso6094 6 ай бұрын
Your channel is so great and safe
@jordanschwartzberg
@jordanschwartzberg 6 ай бұрын
Caitlin, you are awesome! Love your positive energy and your empathy for your viewers/ followers! You are a true inspiration. Thanks for sharing your knowledge, experiences, advice, tips & tricks! I’m asolutely grateful!
@Hector34562
@Hector34562 Жыл бұрын
Nice video Caitlin
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV Жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@toapyandfriends
@toapyandfriends Жыл бұрын
You are amazing!
@christopherreck2839
@christopherreck2839 Жыл бұрын
Thank you again. You are awesome!
@3mikeb
@3mikeb Жыл бұрын
I’m glad you brought up the pain for women during sex part. You need to do a video with more in depth info on that. Because one misconception that I think a lot of men have, including myself, is that the more pain you give a woman during sex, the more pleasurable it is for her. I’m not sure where that misconception first all started. If it came from porn or movies or whatever. But it’s something that lot of men were taught.
@JohnBrown-ig5nc
@JohnBrown-ig5nc Жыл бұрын
It depends too on what kind of pain she wants as it may be a kink she has. It's something to have a long in-depth talk about with a woman
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
In fairness there is a spectrum of pain. Some pain is good. How much pain is good. What is the threshold where it becomes simple straight pain and NOT fun? And so on. It’s not an easily observable boundary for us as men to push up to the limit and deliver maximum pleasure. That is where some questions like I posted above might make it clearer. I did used to make it a point with my ex to always pause now and again and ask her if she is was okay or having fun. The whole damn point of it all, is to have fun. When the fun stops, there’s no point to it.
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
@@voncrowne6603 why did she get pissed at you? (Not material to my comment but your situation intrigues my curiosity) Sometimes instinctively you know they want it but are posturing as if they don’t. The submission/submissive element really gets some women going. The rough passionate dominant nature of the man strokes their fire. Always a tough call to make for the guy because it comes down to how well you read them and know them/their personality. For a lot of women, no means no.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
​@@bizzlemunroe2963what if you err in the side of caution and don't provoke any pain, just in case?
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
It's all that and the fact that they receive advice exclusively from other men, which turns into the blind leading the blind and trying to cover and mask their mistakes and lack of skills. This rarely happens between gay men or lesbians
@ArminEmadi
@ArminEmadi 3 ай бұрын
thanks for helping, I finally can finally make my pookie happy.
@johnmichaux616
@johnmichaux616 Жыл бұрын
Hang On Caitlin ! It is not men telling young girls that sex is dirty and bad !!! It's woman telling young girls that sex is bad and dirty ,,,, mothers and teachers !
@justsomeguy6133
@justsomeguy6133 7 ай бұрын
My grandmother was the worst offender. Meanwhile Grandpa was telling dirty jokes.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Men are the ones with the Madonna wh*re complex and the ones who are not satisfying the women
@keithpratt1849
@keithpratt1849 Ай бұрын
It is both. Let's not get defensive just listen. Rock on brother.
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
I’d be immensely sad if my SO wasn’t having orgasms but what would hurt and horrify me even more is if she couldn’t, wouldn’t or didn’t feel like she could openly discuss this with me as her SO. It’s important for both sides to enjoy the sex or intimacy (I hope Catlin makes videos on how intimacy doesn’t equate to sex or a physical encounter. Some of the most rewarding times are cuddling, doing activities together and so on. Non-sexual things). Being open and transparent about what you’re in, what works etc is so fundamental to the trust in a relationship. I view it as a challenge more than anything. If she’s not orgasming, what could be done differently? Maybe she already knows? Maybe she needs an exploratory session where we work out what works and what clearly doesn’t. What’s more of a blow to the ego? Burying a problem under the sand and not doing anything about it and facing it head on? Or taking a challenge (her not climaxing), facing it head on and eventually overcoming it?
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
To Caitlin: I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this. Can you read this?
@SchwarzSchwertkampfer
@SchwarzSchwertkampfer Жыл бұрын
💜💜🖖🏿🖖🏿✌🏿Thanks for Enlightening me to be a better partner💜
@kylemcarthur
@kylemcarthur Жыл бұрын
But Is it not true that women can have many O’s in the same session. My partner regularly has 3 or 4 before I have mine. Would that even the numbers out? 🤞🏼 When it is a quickie sometimes it is just me, but she says she enjoys it just as much as if she’d O’d because she gets off on the fact I was turned on enough to be fast to the finish line. I usually make sure she is first but it can’t always be the way. We have also had sessions that I have not finished and she has several times.
@banksofbarcelona3893
@banksofbarcelona3893 Жыл бұрын
As I work to be the sex mister I'm learning from you cos you are the sweetest sister and perfectly fitted cos you're committed, the educator, trainer you get with it. I'd grow and flow, as you glow and let us know that you are worth the follow with your awesome show
@whocarescrapsa
@whocarescrapsa Жыл бұрын
Caitlin, we keep hearing that communication is key. I suspect when you have a room full of women, they won't keep quiet about what they like or are not getting. I have had partners that do communicate but it is very rare. More often than not when we meet someone we really care about, tallking about intimacy is like pulling teeth, irrespective of how much time you give them. Most give you that look "you are supposed to just get it!". Something else is going on here. I have asked female friends and they think she either doesn't know her body (this is a hard pill for me to swallow because if she doesn't know her body, who does?!) or they think she has lied about her past and can't speak up. I care more about how we move forward. Having the burden of performance on our shoulders, we are also trying to establish if she is sexually compatible with us. I am curious if you asked women why they choose not to communicate with thier partner, what the reasons would be. There will be many men that will backup this experience. Once we get the impression that she is doing us a favor - we lose interest and attraction. I suspect the men that choose to stay in a relationship like this are the 30 second, roll over and go to sleep guys. Thier thinking is, if she doesn't take her satisfaction seriously, why should he? It is frustrating because the women we really want to open up with us, are not the ones that do. Would really appreciate it if you could work your magic by helping us solve this issue or understand it better. Thank you.
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
This is so on the money tbh. This nonsensical idea of telepathy for men to have in what the woman wants, is simply ridiculous and has gone too far. It was already at the stage that a majority of women expect to signal to men they want to be pursued but won’t actually bother to pursue the guy themselves, now this as well. And in the end who cops the criticism? The men! It’s a two way road unhappiness is. There’s fundamental limitations to how perceptive we as beings can be. I wish more women were aware of this and put on their big girl pants, held their breath and went for it. I hate the stereotype that all men will run for the skies. That’s simply not true. Some of us will adopt a “challenge accepted” attitude to any and all issues. We just can’t be the only ones doing all the work whilst someone occasionally stands and sits impatiently on the side criticising our efforts.
@tonytransit2247
@tonytransit2247 Жыл бұрын
Yes please ask the question. I Build up the courage and check in what her needs are , why do most women find it hard to discuss. Every topic I can think of is discussed except what their needs are .
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
@@tonytransit2247Women are naturally more agreeable than men which is fine but then I don’t like it when the criticism comes afterwards. Good communication works both ways and one can be perceptive but they’re still not going to be a mind reader.
@judithanderson5842
@judithanderson5842 Жыл бұрын
Even in 2023, many women still find it difficult to talk about this, because they have been brought up to think it's not acceptable to do so. And, if they don't know they'll be safe with a man, they might not want to be seen as difficult or demanding.
@whocarescrapsa
@whocarescrapsa Жыл бұрын
@Judith Anderson I was actually talking about this today and got an answer I have not heard before. It doesn't make sense to me, but I will try to quote her words verbatim in the hope it makes to others. She said that she intentionally doesn't communicate what she likes early on in the relationship because that would be letting her guard down, and if she orgasmed and he left, that would put her in a vulnerable position. I tried to put it in my own words to make sure I understood what she was saying. While the guy is trying to satisfy you (to assess whether you are sexually compatible) , you are consciously working against him (to show him that you are not compatible) to minimize your hurt in the event that he walks away. This exact behavior is most likely causing men to walk away. Men and women are completely missing each other. If our partners are not communicating with us, hopefully, we can learn something here. Thank you for your input.
@C.Wilson-ci9dd
@C.Wilson-ci9dd Жыл бұрын
You my dear...are a 💎 among stones 😘!!!
@Nowhere888
@Nowhere888 Жыл бұрын
I was very patient with a now ex-girlfriend and helped her achieve orgasms when she was in her mid-20s. She was so freaked out that she was having orgasms that she broke up with me even though she had masturbated regularly for years. I found out later she was mentally unstable and I was lucky to get out of the relationship. If a woman is not mature enough to be comfortable with her body then you need to walk away because she has a lot of psychological work to do before being in a long term adult relationship. There are a lot of immature women out there so just walk away. FYI: A red flag of immaturity is an obsession with all things Disney. The Disney thing is not a phase; it is a warning.
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
Agree with everything but the Disney part. Not been there with anyone but I get the feeling it could be true. I had the same with an ex who was seriously tapped in the head. She’d make excuses and break up with me over the most irrational of reasons. No communication or chance to discuss things, just break up. Then come back to me a few weeks later. Eventually her self esteem and Daddy issues would come up again and her inferiority complex with me and she’d do a runner again. The final straw was when she blamed me for her problems and claimed I put her on a pedestal. I didn’t realise being good natured, considerate, caring, loving, supportive and believing in someone was putting them on a pedestal but at that point I’d had enough and needed to walk away for my own sanity and knowing my own worth in what I brought to the table.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Right, because the main victim of a person struggling with her sexuality and mental health is you, the selfish guy who has guaranteed his O
@shrillvision8254
@shrillvision8254 Жыл бұрын
Thumbnail 😁👌👌
@JoseRamosPizzon
@JoseRamosPizzon Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@tonyg2766
@tonyg2766 Жыл бұрын
Thanks
@krissolson7043
@krissolson7043 Жыл бұрын
I'm a man and believe that most guys simply don't know how to do it right. Your porn info is 💯 on point.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@christinenovack6048
@christinenovack6048 Жыл бұрын
I'm currently with a guy that's been married twice & didn't know a thing about bringing a woman to orgasm. I can't believe his other women never taught him how.
@antoinelyons5323
@antoinelyons5323 Жыл бұрын
Christine sorry about that you gonna have show him and tell him
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
​@@antoinelyons5323and what are the odds she's going to succeed where two other women at the very least failed
@Foever378
@Foever378 Жыл бұрын
Nice.
@CaitlinV
@CaitlinV Жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@C.Wilson-ci9dd
@C.Wilson-ci9dd Жыл бұрын
Always emphasize to your audience that... It's ALL about the journey to the destination...
@MadModels-dh7gn
@MadModels-dh7gn Жыл бұрын
Hi Caitlin I have a question I've been watching sex/life on Netflix and i was wondering what is the CAT position and how its done. can you help
@reneeturcottecicigoi9435
@reneeturcottecicigoi9435 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for making this video. I am currently going through menopause and it’s been a real struggle for me to get used to this “new body“. It’s so frustrating when what used to be so easy (getting wet) is now so hard and has led to lowered self-esteem and my problems are now doubled. I’ve been really trying to communicate all of this with my boyfriend and he’s been really great but he still doesn’t get the fact that I need more foreplay. Also, he is not into giving oral sex and I miss it so much. I’ve tried having a conversation with him about this and he just gets uncomfortable and changes the subject. So I have no clue what his aversion is to giving me oral sex. Any suggestions on how to communicate with him about this subject? I am literally at the point where I just want to yell at him or shake him and tell him, “I need this. What is your problem?” 😢
@markknivila8383
@markknivila8383 Жыл бұрын
Dear lady, you may have to do just that, with your boyfriend!
@bizzlemunroe2963
@bizzlemunroe2963 Жыл бұрын
I think a short and simple statement like I need/want more oral sex and foreplay please. I like to think my SO wouldn’t need to ask me this as I love giving oral. If he asks why out of curiosity, then expand into your menopause, how it’s affecting you and making you feel blue😢. Most supportive partners then get it and will be happy to accommodate the needs.
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
To Caitlin: I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this. Can you read this?
@colinm1325
@colinm1325 Жыл бұрын
Tell him what you want, or need Renee.
@Phobicsleaguechannel333
@Phobicsleaguechannel333 Жыл бұрын
Tell Him to get his shit together, and tell HIM youre not ganna give him oral if he doesnt Bcuz he needs to give it 100 and you give it 100, smh id Legit drown in my gf rn XDDDD...
@ryanm776
@ryanm776 Жыл бұрын
We live in a world where we don't speak for ourselves, we speak in generalizations! So our actions, say; because I'm a "Woman/Man" I can speak for the rest of my gender. When what's accurate, is we can only speak for ourselves!
@patrickwilliams997
@patrickwilliams997 Жыл бұрын
Empower your woman, comfort her, love her, emotionally, physically and always listen. Bathe in the erotic stories she likes, share yours, create new ones together. Communication is always the key.
@henrykujawa4427
@henrykujawa4427 8 ай бұрын
"time" There's an episode of "Unhappily Ever After" where Jack Malloy looks at his watch and says to himself, "Twenty minutes before the game starts. Think I'll go upstairs and give the wife a thrill." NOT good! 🤣
@londonmediawhore
@londonmediawhore Жыл бұрын
Love love love this. Right on.
@rockyroll8
@rockyroll8 Жыл бұрын
Are u naughty Suzanne lol
@Habersearle
@Habersearle Жыл бұрын
You are so smart an so sweet, baby! I adore you. 🥰🥰🥰
@toapyandfriends
@toapyandfriends Жыл бұрын
3:20 Yeah baby...eat that apple! 🤣
@carybaney2548
@carybaney2548 3 ай бұрын
Smart, beautiful, and informative. And full of energy! That someone could make a video with a toy around their neck shows unfathomable moxie.
@dave2160666
@dave2160666 5 ай бұрын
You should go on dr drew after dark
@LaydeeHijabee
@LaydeeHijabee 10 ай бұрын
I don’t want to perform anymore. I want to play 🥳
@ArminEmadi
@ArminEmadi 3 ай бұрын
can you make one of these but for a man
@arezakkhoshmilan5793
@arezakkhoshmilan5793 Жыл бұрын
🎉🎉🎉
@charlessmarr7107
@charlessmarr7107 Жыл бұрын
Yes men must do their part. Know when to stop filling a broken vessel.
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
A broken vessel that guarantees to give you what you want but you can't
@Go_Show95
@Go_Show95 Жыл бұрын
😎👌🏻
@DeETex0308
@DeETex0308 Жыл бұрын
First I have to say I respect all that is Miss V but this is a ton of pressure for men.I believe this lesson would best be a lesson for the ladies first. And us men set quality listen and learn. There is not a readily available real life sex ed. for young people. Thank you Miss V!
@DeETex0308
@DeETex0308 Жыл бұрын
I sould have said CoEd lesson for sure!
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
When you have the O guaranteed but not your partner, I guess it's men who have to learn, don't you think?
@3DJapan
@3DJapan 5 ай бұрын
The problem with sex ed is that t they're teaching teens. If you tell teens something is really fun they're going to run out and do it ASAP.
@johnslack3064
@johnslack3064 Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you focus on man and women sex
@linelltillman9709
@linelltillman9709 Жыл бұрын
I think you should make a second part of this and add one more. Everything you said I believe is very accurate but one thing was left out..😅 toys desensitize especially how strong they are these days
@martinllamas8541
@martinllamas8541 Жыл бұрын
😅
@aelfredrex8354
@aelfredrex8354 Жыл бұрын
I think it should be a matter of pride for a man. The satisfaction of a job well done.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
It's a matter of pride if he succeeds the way their bros approve, not the woman he supposedly wants or loves
@VonneDe
@VonneDe Жыл бұрын
What's the link to the wearable vibrator?
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this.
@anoskov7820
@anoskov7820 Жыл бұрын
After this video I started thinking that self-satisfaction is way more efficient and preferable. Women became too complicated for a such primitive natural action.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Lesbians have no trouble at all, so maybe you should not tie your pride to something that you could benefit from long term
@famousarmystudio
@famousarmystudio Жыл бұрын
I agree these are good guides, but you keep making comments like "if this were men" then claiming somehow we would get all this special treatment. Men hear jokes and snarky comments about them all day on all content platforms. We constantly hear open jokes from women on TV shaming men for not lasting long, or having a small penis, or not making enough money, not looking like a shirtless male model, or we are toxic simply by being a male. Watch any talk show dominated by females and you will hear at least one of them crack a joke about how their partner only lasts a few minutes, or has a small unit, then all the other women cackle in unison. Tell me the last time you heard on recent national TV a man crack a joke about how his female partner breasts are too small and her vagina is loose and she is terrible at sex and then all the audience and guys all start laughing. You wouldn't because they would be attacked by the twitter mob and fired instantly. The pressure is real on both sides.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Are jokes comparable to pain and the threat of violence during a*x?
@famousarmystudio
@famousarmystudio Ай бұрын
@@MatildeVallespinCasas I think you watched a different video and then read my comment. Your reply is not relevant.
@jhonnysport7908
@jhonnysport7908 Жыл бұрын
Me realizing Caitlin had a vibrater around her neck in her videos this whole time : 👁️👄👁️
@paulkyle4637
@paulkyle4637 Жыл бұрын
Any information or points on having sex with a bigger women and or eating her kitty? Thanks in advance!
@americanpaisareturns9051
@americanpaisareturns9051 Жыл бұрын
Ooh no… A trigger warning 😂😂😂
@Ryan-rh8rn
@Ryan-rh8rn Жыл бұрын
*HELP PLEASE* Okay so I have a legit concern and question that I want to ask because I can't really find an answer for it online. Anybody that might know anything about this please feel free to respond. So here's the thing. When I have sex with my girlfriend I can feel something hard inside of her vagina and feels like maybe some kind of a hard protrusion or flap or something and it causes pain for me obviously when I hit it and it causes pain and discomfort for her too and we have to find the right angle to avoid it. I'm very average size length so I'm not too big and I'm not small and I've had enough sexual partners to say that I've never experienced this before and she seems kind of surprised by it too. Does anybody know what the heck I am feeling inside of her when we are having intercourse? Could it be like her pubic bone or something to do with the cervix Maybe?
@KS-ng6zg
@KS-ng6zg 11 ай бұрын
It's likely her cervix, yes. You'd might be surprised the variation in its placement from woman to woman; and it also changes placement depending on where they are in their menstrual cycle for every woman. After menstruation but before ovulation and after ovulation but before menstruation are when it's lowest and hardest. And it hurts for her when its hit too, trust me! A discussion regarding what else you two can do to feel intimate that doesn't hurt for either of you those parts of the month could help. But either way - I sincerely doubt it's anything to worry about.
@Ryan-rh8rn
@Ryan-rh8rn 11 ай бұрын
@@KS-ng6zg interesting update - apparently it shifted over time and we haven't had any more issues. So, I guess it all worked out. Idk how to explain it, but it just did. Weird.
@markb4459
@markb4459 Жыл бұрын
75% of women " I need a big pickle", I like to be choked and I like it rough." also 75% of women, "I'm experiencing pain during sex".
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this.
@icecreamman1
@icecreamman1 Жыл бұрын
You’re clueless
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
75% of women featuring in porn and sources oriented to men. You would profit talking to lesbians and lurking into female only spaces
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
75% of women featuring in porn and make oriented spaces. Try talking to lesbians or listen to women oriented spaces.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Are 75% of women p*rn stars or OF? Or in male oriented spaces?
@tehaurapa
@tehaurapa Ай бұрын
im up to 2 mins and its way to long to get to the point...
@timbaker1374
@timbaker1374 Жыл бұрын
And you are blaming men?
@viralscooter
@viralscooter Жыл бұрын
Carlin, Invite me on as a guest. (virtual) Experience to validate and add to… ur so dead-on. Let’s talk. Scooter
@geralt_rivia1974
@geralt_rivia1974 Жыл бұрын
thanks it will help a lot of selfish men in bed 😂😅
@davidjohncox7333
@davidjohncox7333 Жыл бұрын
It’s not the destination, it’s the journey. Unfortunately, my wonderful, beautiful wife has never experienced an orgasm with me in our 20 years together. It sucks for both of us (and not in a good way). ADD, combined with antidepressants, post-menopausal, results in no arousal. We’ve tried everything: bioidentical hormones, sex therapists, different meds, toys, salves. It’s a sad state of affairs in our bedroom. 😢
@kayeszymanski6945
@kayeszymanski6945 Жыл бұрын
David Johncox Has she had her testosterone levels tested? Mine was bordering on deficient. Got me some T cream via prescription. 😮 off the charts!!
@davidjohncox7333
@davidjohncox7333 Жыл бұрын
@@kayeszymanski6945 yes, she had all hormone levels checked. ☹️
@kayeszymanski6945
@kayeszymanski6945 Жыл бұрын
@@davidjohncox7333 I’m very sorry for both of you.
@davidjohncox7333
@davidjohncox7333 Жыл бұрын
@@kayeszymanski6945 thanks, Kaye. Very nice of you, and thanks for your suggestion.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
​@@kayeszymanski6945testosterone plays no role in women and in men not so much as previously thought. An advice that not always work in men is not going to work on women
@AK-hi4hm
@AK-hi4hm Жыл бұрын
wearing a vibrator as jewelry is crazy lmao
@wsthankyou
@wsthankyou Жыл бұрын
You always talk about HER... What about HIM...
@ShawkBait-im7dh
@ShawkBait-im7dh Жыл бұрын
Considering she is a woman trying to help men with a female prospective that might be why she is talking about HER. and the name of the video should be a dead give away why she is talking about HER. lmao.
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Because it's her chanel and she is talking about a problem women have much more than men. Go to manosphere BS or simply anywhere where Viagra advertising comes up
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
It's her chanel and she is talking about a problem women have
@danielwomer
@danielwomer Жыл бұрын
With all respect, this is what I took away from this video: For women to have optimal sex with a man, they need a one-way street, where they share their stress, insecurities, emotions, vulnerability etc., and the man purposefully does NOT share his stress, insecurities, emotions,vulnerability etc. Because... when a woman shares herself that way, it helps HER feel safe and ready for sex. But when the man shares himself that same way, it causes HER to feel unsafe, weighed down, or sympathetically stressed out. If the man feels sympathetically stressed out by her sharing herself, then it's HIS responsibility to manage that stress and not let it rattle him. If he is rattled by it, then he is deemed "not an attractive or capable or safe lover." But if the woman feels sympathetically stressed out him sharing himself, then THE MAN is deemed "not an attractive or capable or safe lover." I truly struggle with this paradigm.
@robertcimino8588
@robertcimino8588 Жыл бұрын
As men we are the foundations of which women should be able to crash their emotions and troubles on and we should be able to be strong and unyielding for them. There's a wonderful video on KZbin about this regarding attraction. Let me find and link it
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Enjoyment for women is associated with her state of mind and stress levels. If it is so difficult from you, there are plastic products and other women who have no problem doing the job. You can delegate them the task and turn to OF or escorts, who don't care for your lack of skills and empathy as long as you pay
@MatildeVallespinCasas
@MatildeVallespinCasas Ай бұрын
Women need relax and feeling comfortable with men to enjoy sex. If it is too much to ask, go to men or use your right hand
@kylecollins3755
@kylecollins3755 Жыл бұрын
I’ve been disappointing women since 1983. Nothing new here
@clsayles357
@clsayles357 Жыл бұрын
But isn’t it easier to just talk about all this??
@JohnBrown-ig5nc
@JohnBrown-ig5nc Жыл бұрын
It is
@dwaynejohnson7908
@dwaynejohnson7908 Жыл бұрын
What you did not say also is when a woman is on top she feels safer. The safer and more in control she feels the more like she will achieve orgasm. At least that is my expierence on the matter.
@donalddrake7133
@donalddrake7133 Ай бұрын
I like you in your voice, but why is it always? The man's fault still. She's not having orgasm because she's not feeling safe with her husband of ten years? All of this is a little ridiculous and it makes me just say forget it. I'm not gonna worry about women because it's always gonna be my fault and it's too much trouble. She's gonna have to have some responsibility in this eventually.
@yamirito2317
@yamirito2317 Жыл бұрын
i'm waiting for this one
@taylorfusher2997
@taylorfusher2997 Жыл бұрын
I would like to see a man use his bare tongue to lick a woman’s bare hands. I would like to see a man use his bare mouth to suck on woman’s bare hands. Also the young woman must be topless and oily as this is happening. The young woman must have natural breasts, she must a have natural face, and she must have a natural body. I would like the man to be topless. I like hand worship fetish porn like this. Can Goldie Blair do porn fetish like this.
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