5 Reasons Why INTJs Rarely Share Their Thoughts

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[@azarpiano]

I am an INTJ. My wife is an INFJ. She was raised in the Philippines. I was raised in the US. We have a great marriage.

[@Hawkenshmire]

Its not that we dont share our thoughts but that most ppl dont talk about things we are interested in. Arent we also known for saying things bluntly.

[@mjpottertx]

Putting it simply, other personality types are so intellectually inferior to us that they can’t comprehend our thoughts.😊

[@menanasser771]

but I'm an intj and my sister esfp She understands me well, but sometimes she tells me that she does not take my words seriously because if she did, she would be heartbroken.

[@NayutaKanikou]

I don't know if this applies to all INTJ, but being criticize isn't a bad thing for me as an INTJ, opposite to what the video stated, because being criticize will help you see other perspective and improve your ideas more efficiently and effectively. In addition, you may get valuable information that you probably haven't noticed at the time you're analyzing things. Whenever someone criticize my intelligence, I'll just laugh it off (genuine laugh) rather than getting it under my skin, simply because they aren't aware of what they were talking about.

[@Hawkenshmire]

Yep wanting to be your best self means working on weakness and for that you need to be critizied.

[@Bennett-wj9vg]

I think it meant that a few people feel like they are getting over analysed by others for a brief independent thought, and that can grate on people's nerves. Different circumstances, different people, and different opinions, I suppose.

[@manuelemilio5193]

are u istj maybe?

[@anonygent]

Depends on the kind of criticism, I suppose. I don't share because all I will get is abuse.

[@NayutaKanikou]

@@manuelemilio5193 I already stated in my comment that I'm an INTJ. I understand why you think of me as an ISTJ as both personality have lots in common, but the truth is, I can't see myself being one.

[@BlackHatTy]

Because people think im weird, and get all standoffish and then it gets awkward.

[@aygwm]

My aims are beyond your understanding.

[@Neo-Midgar]

I dont share my thoughts because i have little faith they'll be taken seriously or valued by others. They're precious to me, and I've had them stomped on and disregarded, so I've become reticent to share. If it was up to me, I'd share with everyone and vice versa, but people can be cruel and dismissive, and also use said knowledge against you.

[@U2.Tw0]

My Dad is 100% INTJ but he shares his thoughts when he’s comfortable (like with me and my brother for example). He talks a LOT and rambles on. He seems to have a very strong Te. Kinda annoying tbh, and that’s something coming from an ENTP lmao

[@barbarabuttler7647]

I'm an ENTP and my husband is an INTJ. You're comment made me laugh out loud!

[@PsychologyRefresh]

Thanks for sharing!

[@jjrollins313]

That sounds like me around people I'm acquainted with (INTJ here)

[@U2.Tw0]

@@jjrollins313 makes a lot of sense! It seems that INTJs can be open with people they trust :))

[@U2.Tw0]

@@PsychologyRefresh thanks for replying! I love your videos. :)

[@McD-j5r]

INTJs only don’t talk about their thoughts with the mainstream people - which they avoid.

[@McD-j5r]

I am an INTJ and I know some of them. All of them share their thoughts. Their second function (auxiliary) is EXTROVERT THINKING. They talk loud to even understand their thoughts. They share all their insights. They also talk to express their first function: INTROVERT INTUITION.

[@tinamitchell7496]

How to say that every INTJ needs an INFJ in their life, without saying it...

[@AL-HALEM]

Let's boost my ego...

[@redbitch3362]

​@@Noone-pw4tuhe's clearly trying to be funny

[@U2.Tw0]

@@Noone-pw4tu who told you that you know every single persons personality based off one comment

[@U2.Tw0]

@@Noone-pw4tu dumbass* and context clues kinda told me that you were trying to tell the they weren’t an INTJ when it’s really not your business lol.

[@Hawkenshmire]

This isnt that type of vid, its more analytical as opposed to a vid titled why intj's are so rare.

[@abstract-thoughts]

Got my ego boost🎉

[@funtimenotalongtime6122]

This whole video read me to filth😭💀

[@PsychologyRefresh]

Good to hear!

[@el2747]

you ask my thoughts? are you sure? because its too far from your understanding, you normal human.

[@scoobed792]

Guys I'm getting confused if am an INTJ or INTP, i can relate to both of them, not completely though.

[@Hawkenshmire]

Intp is more focused on things you can see and Intj on abstract things. The P and J aren't that opposite of each each each other like the others. The P sees things for what they are and J sees with a bias is best way I can put it.

[@littleclara6188]

@@Hawkenshmireno offence but your explanation is a bit off. Anyways you should look at cognitive functions, for example search up “differences between intj and intp cognitive functions” where you’ll find out they both have very different thinking processes even though they appear similar aha.

[@farfaraway4285]

Someone said that INTJ approach is contracting (exclude what’s not needed) and INTP is expanding (include everything that might be needed). Channel LoveWho has good INTP/INTJ comparison video, check it out. He’s got a lot of good INTJ videos as he is one himself. Other types as well. Worth checking.

[@edennis8578]

Look up how INTJS and INTPs manifest visually. For example, INTJs prefer minimalist/simplified suuroundings, but INTPs like colorful rooms that remind me of a circus wagon. Same way with their wardrobe; INTJs tend to dress in a classy, minimalist style, whereas INTPs tend to be, well, slobs. I come very close to INTP on tests with a slight edge to INTJ, but there's no question when I found out about the minimalist vs. gypsy-caravan comparison. So, what do you prefer? For example, does your home look like a riot of colors? Is your usual outfit an old t-shirt and well-worn jeans? Or Is your home and wardrobe fairly monochromatic and carefully chosen? The two personality types are polar opposites visually.

[@mjpottertx]

You could be an INTX.

[@pankajkumarpriyadarshi7811]

I want to ask just one question that Mbti or 16 personality are scientific proven or not

[@PsychologyRefresh]

What do you think?

[@shiprasingh1122]

Yes it is widely regarded as pseudoscience by the scientific community.

[@pankajkumarpriyadarshi7811]

​@@PsychologyRefresh I think it is not scientific because science comunity also says that mbti is a pseudosciene

[@edennis8578]

​@@shiprasingh1122It works if you take the test honestly, which most people probably don't. Most people answer the questions how they think they should and not realistically. I thought I was autistic until I found out that I'm just an INTJ. It turns out that I fit the INTJ traits completely and it explained everything.

[@dinathseyara325]

@@edennis8578 Yeah what you are saying is right i did the test multiple times showing different results.But this time i did it honestly and found out i am an intj just like you .I really thought i was the weird one in the family Not displaying emotions despising incompetency need for some time alone Arrogance(i thought i was arrogant but now i understand the arrogancy comes from to make something more efficent and to do it correctly)

[@zaloskog]

Maybe because they sound insane?