5 Reasons Why Women Should NEVER Pursue A Man (Male Psychology Insights)

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[@Ahbhswrzq9221]

Thank you for the video! Very well put and articulated. I’m wondering if this also applies to dating sites? Eg if a woman likes a mama profile first is that considered chasing?

[@Portia620]

I looked like I’d chase him but I’m done after doing that in a marriage. I have too many options in mid age to deal with bs lies. If a man promises me something and doesn’t do it then I’m out! No more cheating, lying, ect! Now if that was an emergency or something came up then I’d understand with telling me he would do something and it didn’t happen. That’s life! No more bs from these men! They all talk the talk! Few honorable men can walk the walk!

[@Portia620]

Yikes! I pursued my husband when the realionship went south and did this recently which was a bad bad idea! He stopped texting and seems to be mad when sending him things

[@Portia620]

Yikes! I pursued my husband when the realionship went south and did this recently which was a bad bad idea! He stopped texting and seems to be mad when sending him things

[@Portia620]

The cougar took you on car rides?😂. Why would you even allow yourself to be used!?🤢🤢

[@zeljkovlahovic5582]

I believe that true love is not about chasing or playing games. Some souls simply find each other, but that is rare. Such love is on a higher spiritual level.

[@SpiritualGoddess69]

I believe the same ♥️♥️♥️

[@lijieqiao9955]

@@SpiritualGoddess69 杂萨咯啦

[@livt.7102]

I agree. So true

[@beautifulsunshine3505]

So true..

[@MrJanrag]

Well said

[@NghtMonster]

I've never chased a man my entire life! If they are attracted to you, value you, your time, your ambitions, your mental well being, they will be there and you never have to wonder if they are into you or not. I don't trust my feelings but effort for me is everything! Also, do you, always, prioritize you.

[@spark300c]

things have changed. a lot men feel it too risky. So men hate it.

[@kristenmoonrise]

@@spark300c evolution shows those men who were afraid of risk died off

[@spark300c]

@@kristenmoonrise It also majority men who design all things technical. Men will take risk in what they are good at. They will avoid thing they bad at. For most civilized history marriages where arranged. The romance era is short period of human history that has failed in the western world.

[@loriolson1143]

I totally disagree

[@mroscoe]

Willing to bet you're still single.

[@daughteroflight8624]

1. It trains you to be masculine 2. It gives you the illusion of security and control 3. It trains him to be passive and not invest 4. How a relationship starts is generally how it will continue 5. It destroys the long-term polarity and attraction

[@anabellec.8919]

This advice is very true ..and also biblical. Proverbs 18:22, "He who finds a wife ,finds a good thing,and obtains favor from the Lord."--

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@tamarbatyah7]

And this one: "I warn you daughters of Jerusalem, not to awaken or stir love until it wants to arise" ✒️

[@LaLa-if3sr]

You are right. In my experience, it never worked when I pursued a man. He would get very lazy in the relationship, but when a man pursued me, the relationship was much better. I appreciated him and he appreciated me.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@nikolinajakic9037]

So true cuz they get lazy. And that passion then is gone. Invest in yourself.

[@anabautista8071]

I AM READY! 5. Because it destroys long-term polarity and attraction; 4. How a relationship starts is generally how it will continue; 3. It trains him to be passive and not to invest; 2. It gives you the illusion of security and control; 1. It trains YOU to be masculine.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@findingdori6219]

I don’t care about “the modern day of dating.” I’m sticking to my old fashion ways. 💜

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@isahiliasu7301]

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[@judybaker5280]

I’m a 68 yr old woman who is enjoying this program! Many of my generation never learned and understood men! Love hearing a man’s perspective!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@ishikamehra9709]

Hey

[@oneitalia2312]

Men want younger women.

[@peod777]

@@oneitalia2312 you're missing the point.

[@Ayyeliki]

@@oneitalia2312 And the sun is hot. What’s your point? 🤔

[@suetrollope6245]

I initiated my relationship with my husband.If it works it works.We moved in together after 3 months.Married a year to the day we met.And it lasted 26 years till his death.One helluva one night stand!!!!!

[@Kamil-po3cc]

Wow! I feel really sad to hear that, my deepest condolences to u....i guess pursuing a guy can work sometimes it just depends kn how he feels about u

[@nobodysperfect06]

You made the first move or asked him out first?

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

Sometimes it works bcoz if the male is introvert n prefer women to do the pursuing to make him feel great.

[@joeydoherty368]

@@snowgoddessmissy7781 True. Pursuing is not a problem. It’s over pursuing that gets men and women alike in trouble. If your partner, man or woman, never puts any effort into you, drop em like a hot potato. Someone worth the time to pursue will belong to you eventually.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

@@joeydoherty368 I never do the pursuing anyway.I believe in the Alpha male to b the 1st to initiate it bcoz it's the natural thing tat happen in the animal world too.Tats why man got the game power.

[@Janettyboo]

I have stopped chasing men since I started to work on myself, it is not easy as I am so used to doing the chasing and making things happen for so many years. I want to meet a man who is more in his masculine energy and does the chasing, I have yet to meet one yet but I am not going to settle for less. Your videos are helpful!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

That's great to hear Janetty! :) That is super powerful to set that standard and work on yourself until you get your standard. That's the way! I'd highly recommend applying for a 1:1 "Magnetize Your Man" 15 Min. Dating Clarity call if you haven't had one already as a gift we offer our KZbin subscribers (1 per woman). That can really help you to make sure you're drawing quality men to you that chase which you can get if spots are still available at MYMCall.com or you can also pick up our Trigger His Desire TriggerHisDesire.com which can also really help with that too. :)

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual desire is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for another.

[@sharni888]

@@ericbreaux6124 anything based on sexual does NOT last. Maybe 1 nite stands or relationships for FUN. but when uts real marriage FOREVER, it's more than serial attraction. Sexual will fade off. So what's left.....???

[@ericbreaux6124]

@@sharni888 I meant that the desire to be married to someone, which involves sexual intimacy and is the most intimate you can be with someone is the most passionate feeling one can have for another human. Marriage is exclusive because it’s that special of a relationship. I didn’t mean sexual attraction alone is more important than love for the rest of a person. I only wrote it that way because I was going to work soon and wanted to get my main points posted quickly.

[@najipnajip7735]

But masculine man always is gay. But it just my opinion. I don't know it real or not

[@kikujirofromkyoto]

😂😂😂 I don't believe I'm a masculine woman but when it comes to love relationships, I've been the one chasing for years and it never worked. Now I get why.

[@amritasmukherjee2709]

I guess I made a huge mistake by pursuing him But of late I have stopped calling and texting Let him come to me Long distance relationship Now I am focusing on myself Tired of being ignored and lied upon I'm older than him Anyway thank you so much for the advice Loads of love and prayers from India 🇮🇳❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual attraction is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for someone.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

@@ericbreaux6124 So the woman shld go down on her knee, w a ring n flowers to beg the man to marry her..🤣😂Just like a movie by Sandra Bullock.

[@ericbreaux6124]

@@snowgoddessmissy7781 Women have the option to propose marriage if they are in love with the person. They shouldn’t have to risk losing that relationship by doing nothing anymore than a man should. Both genders want to be in love and married just as much. Women needing to wait for a man to propose something that desired is an unfair standard.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

@@ericbreaux6124 So r u saying tat God is unfair to create a man w a penis too? Alpha n dominant belong to a man..why shld woman let him loose tat pride?🤣😂same in the animal kingdom..the make for fight others to get the female b conquest by him.

[@km47804]

I’m a dynamic successful woman. I’ve had to walk back my strong, aggressive traits that made me successful in every aspect of my life except relationships and let me come to me…it’s crazy. Men will pursue what they love and if they want you, they will let you know. It actually saves a lot of time.

[@Mastermind111111]

Men aren't attracted to successful women it's the #1 turnoff even worse than being fat

[@sandigalloway3871]

Thanks Brody. I am a senior woman who has been widowed for almost 10 years. Two months ago I met a nice gentleman here in Florida. It’s been over 40 years since I’ve been out on a date. All of the so called ‘new dating rules’ have left me confused. I appreciate that the ‘rules’ that I grew up with are still in place. I was a ‘take charge’ business woman before I retired. Thank you for helping me understand not to bring that into this relationship!! I love that he opens doors for me, fixes my squeaky front door (even though I could have done it, I let him do it and thanked him). Wish me luck. Praying that God will bless this relationship. Blessing for all that you do to help women.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him...

[@isahiliasu7301]

Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^..

[@josephinemorris3160]

I agree in some points, and I’ve seen this advice on other channels similar to this.. but I’ve taken initiation many times on different relationships, in different ways... and no matter how hard I’ve tried I’ve had guys that I either went out a few times or was in a relationship and I just can’t keep them away (for years). You can’t be on him all the time but you can’t be scared to push a little for things to happen if you feel is right. Don’t be needy, don’t be dramatic, don’t be clingy, don’t say too much. Always keep it interesting and you’ll be fine.

[@sterling1386]

Off the charts chemistry is great to have as well. If he can't resist you...ha.

[@paatucassettebylakshmi3515]

Agree. It's important to strike the right balance interms of not chasing but communicating without giving the needy energy. There's always a give and take and the roles shift depending on the personalities we are. The relationship we have with ourselves is important to not be needy. And yes, as a woman we tend to want to take action when we see things slowing down. Awareness is the key. It's a journey of learning and evolving

[@lak1294]

The way you "take action" is to lean back and see if he will step up to the plate to do what you are implicitly asking for. If he doesn't, you have your answer. Don't force anything, even a little bit. If they want to do it, eventually they will. If they don't, you got the answer. Either way, you get on with your life to something better.

[@cm9859]

I'm ready and this is true. Book "The Rules" same premise. Old fashioned values and rules. Allow a man to pursue you.

[@tatan4939]

To be fair i don’t like men who chases me either. İm a really an independent woman and i think i exude masculine alpha energy most of the time (tho i look girly and cute). İ believe couple should meet halfway. İ don’t chase men either, but if there is a good chemistry i will make some effort.

[@NovaDoll]

I was always the one who gives 1000% with every relationship. I noticed that when I was broken up with my exes always told me I was the best girlfriend they'd ever had. It really messed with me. I always helped when they had no one and I was the one always there when they needed their best friend/family the most. They'd always leave me for a girl that wasn't there type (lazy or very needy) or the crazy girl... Very confusing.

[@MsAtieno]

Me too girl with that i came to realise that's just me i give it 1000% in a relationship and if one looses me and never wants to do anything with me no more, it hurts most times sooo bad but they always end up coming back and saying i was the best thing that happened to them but I'm always like you don't know what you have till it's gone

[@t.s.5206]

@@MsAtieno yep, never ever give 1000% much less giving 100%. Men want to convince you to love them, and fight off the other men who are pursuing you. If you as a woman are giving, you're messing up. Women are to receive. Channel the mood and attitude of your cat in relationship with a potential love interest. Literally, study cat behavior. Men ('the dogs in this story') are intrigued and captivated by the cat.

[@MariaNI-yf1bz]

Sounds familair

[@tinydancer36]

Oh Honey...have more respect for yourself. I used to be the same type of woman and I was a magnet for needy men. Take care if yourself first..

[@NovaDoll]

@@tinydancer36 I wasn’t aware even my family used me. My mom always told me I was the perfect child. Why? Because I’d jump off a bridge for her… see where I am going? I was heavily teased in school for being “different” and voted in my year book the most sensitive. I really care about people. But now at 30 I am learning this type of behavior from people is abuse. I am learning to set boundaries (very hard) and not talk to people who are trying to use me.

[@Minarhenaye]

I had a guy who refused to chase and talked about how he didn’t believe in traditional roles and didn’t want to lose me… but then I did all the work and he clearly lost interest. Literally couldnt win with him :( unnecessary heartbreak

[@Ana-rb7ws]

Insecure or uninterested men generally say this. He may have been having issues with his own masculinity. Masculine men like to chase.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

The guy literally is playing time w u n enjoy all the fun of being woo..n treated as important than u.

[@charlottebonin2000]

If he’s not chasing you he’s not interested. A man that won’t pursue is not the one.

[@hollywoodhounds7788]

Some men just like needy women because it makes them feel “needed” makes them feel more like a man a provider or in charge. Most men are very intimidated by a women who has, let’s just say “has her shit together “ just my thoughts on past experiences

[@ciggytwiggy]

it feels soooo disempowering to chase a man. My boyfriend was the pursuer throughout even though I didn't realise this until I started to have feelings for him. It feels so natural and free to be pursued respectfully by a good man

[@deepdiver849]

You missed a point here. A man will not loose attraction if he pays for the air fare ! I once met a guy online and he flew me from one continent to the other. He was totally into me. We stayed together for over 6 months but I broke it off as I couldn’t see myself married to him.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

That's true, I consider that still him "chasing" :)

[@katjay3125]

Sugar daddy

[@238gshivamnair7]

Those who are lucky to find their matching counterparts find true love and none of those said above affect them. There are no such rules. Either you're lucky to find your match or not. But it is sure there is someone out there in this vast universe who matches you fully ..irrespective of any such rules or conditions. Whether we are lucky to find it ..that is the only determining thing. --Preethi

[@marylynnhuggins9832]

After almost 20 years of a long-distance friendship, the man I'm currently seeing reached out when he recently became single again. He has always been the one to make initial contact of texts and phone calls over the years. When he came to visit, he professed that he has always loved me and that he isn't going to let geography get in his way anymore. Without realizing what I was doing, my fear of him finding someone else again due to distance that still exists triggered the masculine side of me and suddenly even though he wants to be with me, he began pulling back. Thankfully, he cares enough to have the hard conversation with me that helped me realize that my actions of trying to be closer to him, to control the timing of our times together so he didn't have the opportunity to meet anyone else, was actually taking the chase away from him. Thank you for your insights ... because of this program I've been able to identify the areas where I need to adjust and let him lead. Understanding the importance of allowing this man to take the lead has already produced a change in attitude and increased the number of text messages and phone calls from him.

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

love that

[@camdelg1]

My experience is that I deeply dislike when men chase me. I cherish mutual connection and decision making. I didn't end up well the times they tried to convince me into a relationship.

[@thelmathomas8414]

Your stuck in your masculine

[@kdphotos4691]

@@thelmathomas8414 - Not necessarily. If you are what the world considers an extremely attractive woman, you will have a LOT of creeps chasing you, and most will be worthless. If I'm not attracted to a man, it is annoying to have them chase me. It is easy to chase a woman who men consider a trophy. It isn't a compliment when the men you want don't chase you.

[@MrCjchamp]

@@thelmathomas8414 you have feminine energy and masculine energy mixed up. Feminine energy is about opening up to receive love, bonding , connecting etc. Masculine energy is about purpose, drive , mission , breaking down barriers, succeeding. Men take the lead and pursue in the beginning then when the woman feels safe and comfortable she begins chasing. A man never asks a woman to be his gf until she brings it up.

[@charlottebonin2000]

If you have to be convinced he’s not for you. When you’re in control you’re out of control. You win nothing.

[@charlottebonin2000]

@@MrCjchamp not correct

[@makaylasanai]

Wonderful video! Everything you said was so correct. My ex boyfriend asked me out however he expected me to do a lot for him because I was in my masculine energy most of the time. I pushed for him to meet my parents too soon and eventually our relationship fell apart. After being single for 4 years & cultivating my feminine energy, my dating experience has improved so much! Men have been pouring into me so easily! A strange man behind me in Starbucks paid for my coffee a few months ago just by me being in my feminine receiving energy. This is so true ladies. If you want a quality relationship, listen to his advice :)

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@isahiliasu7301]

Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

[@yinlee678]

I agree with what you said... Never chasing the man no matter in what case...

[@joanellebracht5311]

Rude awakening ...stabbed me in my heart, as I've done all the things you spoke about.

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual attraction is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for someone.

[@oober5150]

I agree with this in my experience its always better for the guy to pursue, so much more fun for me, i feel in control and relaxed😊 its natural and idk why some people think its wrong or it should be changed, women have so much "power " in their femininity

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@noemistephanie93]

This is the first time on your channel and I like it. I always have believed that a man should be the one to pursue not only cause of how I was raised but it’s more romantic. It’s not the same when you do all the work

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@thilannguyen9217]

It’s hard in relationship. You knew that your love for him is real, but it’s hard to know if his love for you is real? Or fake! Being a woman, we don’t need to pursue the man for loving. It’s best for man to pursue you.

[@pipzelchico5805]

I loved listening your ideas...at 37 I've never chase a guy... I want the men to chase women coz that's the reason why GOD gave them strength to protect and not to hurt us.

[@theresachiorazzi4571]

My age old advise to couples is just this true love never dies but people do keep unto each other if it is genuine never cheat on your partner remember the grass is not greener on the other side just harder to mow. Find your true love and be happy life is short Ask anyone that lost something or someone that they can never have again

[@cocolee2390]

I followed your advice and not chasing men. I’m very feminine and men acknowledged that trait. However, Asome guys started the chasing but when they didn’t get the sex… say within 3 dates, they vanished. Some staying a little longer like a month, seeing that I don’t chase them with none stop texting and checking on where they are, they left and said they don’t think I am interested or we don’t have chemistry because I’m not eager to take off my clothes. By the way, I’m not talking about young men, I’m in my 50th and these men are in late 50s or earlier 60s. Are men losing that Masculine chasing drive when they get old? It’s very frustrating and disappointing.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Hi Coco, yes that can be frustrating. A big part of that is making sure you're building their desires for you in other ways besides sex and applying many of the rules we cover in Trigger His Desire TriggerHisDesire.com if you have that already (highly recommended). A big part of it is combining the feminine energy with also the raising of the standards and boundary setting that we talk about there. Hope that helps! :)

[@lizpedano1542]

Maybe some men but majority of me will always be the Hunter ... it’s in their DNA 🧬

[@NghtMonster]

I tell them I'm celibate and watch how they react. It's even on my IG. Surprisingly, I do manage to get them to still stay around and get to know me

[@rayc9899]

When you're not ready for an intimate friendship never force it, there is a reason at the end.

[@Maria-mb4oh]

So, so true... They turn their backs on you and go away looking for an easier catch.

[@TheSunshinefee]

This is so frustrating. The only men who chase me are old, married, have little to offer. That's why I chase the men I really liked because they didn't chase me. I wanted them to know me. How can i get those men to chase me

[@ayotfreda5536]

Me too

[@milenadanyo3637]

I’m so happy to hear this point of view because during my younger years women were doing the pursuing which never felt natural for me. Therefore I had less relationships. I think it’s nice for a woman to be in her feminine and let the man take the lead. Thank you.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@ericbreaux6124]

There is no reason women should wait for a man to confess his attraction to her first if she wants a partner to eventually be married to. Women shouldn’t need to wait for a man to propose marriage. Women don’t need to risk losing the fulfillment of that desire more than men. Desire for that relationship is equally wanted by both genders. One gender should passionately want to pursue the other mutually or marital intimacy that sexual desire is made for will be difficult. Sexual attraction is the most passionate feeling anyone can have for someone.

[@milenadanyo3637]

EB your point is well taken, but when a man has set the standard of a platonic relationship I believe it’s up to him to take it to the next level. Otherwise she could risk losing the whole friendship.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

@@milenadanyo3637 As in the animal kingdom, God had created the male as the dominant sexual conqueror not the subject of a lesser being.Tats why the man got a dick.

[@lak1294]

Eric has posted the same response on multiple posts and he clearly doesn't get it. He's not the target audience for this community and his same comment over and over isn't advice. It's his own projection of how he thinks it should work when he obviously has never tried for real himself and doesn't know the first thing about it. He clearly is not listening to any of these videos and understanding. He's projecting his own idea and not listening or learning. He should be on a coaching site for men, not women, if he actually wants to learn what men should do.

[@loriolson1143]

I do not agree at all. If I only went with men who pursued me I'd be stuck with a loser. It's empowering to see what you want and pursue it. That's how I married my husband. Shows confidence

[@tofasten888]

Thank you. I'm a 75 year old woman. I chased my neighbor he's 47. I still love him very much.

[@jellymedina]

Needed to hear this. Yes it sucks being single but I want a man to pursue me, not the other way around. I have friends going after these men so bad. Men get what they want and on to the next. And my friends are left wondering what happened. Yes these men got bored of them.

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@isahiliasu7301]

Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

[@luckygirl1111]

As a woman I don't like any man to control the date or show up out of no where or plan my life or anything in my life, I like to chase too, I'll go to see him according to my own schedule, so if he chase me then I'll lose interest too.

[@kristenmoonrise]

I really appreciate when you and Antia give personal and client examples to drive in the point!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@robabpourjahangir7235]

I love the way you talk. American Author speaker are number one in the world. A man who make a women to chase him is not a man. Is a woman. Real Man would be honest and direct what they want a woman not playing game. A person who play a game fear being rejected. Psychological game or manipulation is 100 percent effective only on a woman who do not have knowledge about it. Women who like being played or think is cool. Think again game playing only serve player. You can watch fifty shade of grey. He brought woman to complete submission. If a woman enjoy being played. They are unhappy inside so seek trill of being played.

[@Soothingyou45]

I love that you give examples so light bulb moments happen. There are examples that I wasn't aware that is chasing too. And now I know. 👍

[@Chahlie]

I had a business acquaintance tell me I should take him out for dinner.... honestly. I clarified (it was by text) and he blatantly confirmed it. Unbelievable. I am working on becoming more 'selfish'. Funny story- years ago I 'met' a guy online and I paid for the flight to meet him and at his house he happily informed me he 'wouldn't charge me for soap and towels'. Insanity. It's okay to make mistakes as long as we learn from them.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Hi Heather, yes totally. The easiest way to fix a past mistake is to start doing the "right" thing now. :)

[@chanthana7694]

I can't understand why he wouldn't just take you out to dinner. I'm sorry, but that just a turn off for me.

[@smores8982]

@@chanthana7694 I agree! Anyone who even “jokingly” says that to someone is a turn off. I find it to be distasteful and very impolite. Gentlemen usually ask if THEY can take you out to dinner - not the other way around.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

I laugh my eyes out... it's such a silly embarrassment he causes u.He took u none other than as a visiting guest.

[@georgialee6755]

You shouldn’t have paid for the flight to see him - by doing do you set the tone for the way he treated you. Women shouldn’t do much for a man. Too many women today acting like men

[@ghousiakhan8219]

Very impressive talk. Never heard this from any other couch. I like it, and learned a lot. Thanks 🙏

[@claudiag.5163]

I've always had a struggle with men. I guess I've been the one who pursued.

[@nandalochan8180]

My 10 year relationship began with him pursuing me. It ended with me begging him to not leave me. It ended and was devastated. Still recovering. Do t what to make this mistake again. New guy walked in my life, your videos are my guidelines now. Thx for your help 🙏

[@belindajardim3145]

Point no 4.. "as it is in the beginning so it is in the end"

[@ruthaugustine7601]

It's great for the man to make decisions , he's the king

[@ghadalinser8459]

I would like the man to take the first step, give me attention and treat me like a queen because I am sure that in return I will treat him like a king and entrust in that equation as you treat me as I treat you.😊♥️

[@beckylilly4749]

Been “CHASING” a guy for months now who disclosed he’s recently engaged & broken up…apparently. Now, he’s changed jobs internally within our company & working with me. About to get interesting!

[@MrsPetal]

I saw this with my parents, my mom was always driving in the man's lane while my dad struggled to keep driving in the man's lane. They had a very dysfunctional marriage and I'm not sure why but my mother was middle child out of 5 so I figured if she wanted anything done she had to fight to do it herself. I have learned through my own mistakes how to be in a healthy and happy relationship, been 41 years but I finally understand men are supposed to build the house so to speak and women to make the house a home.

[@TracyTranquility]

Ma'am that house analogy a beautiful picture to describe the dynamic that should be taking place between men and women... thank you so much for expressing this I hope to do it justice as I borrow it in my next video to help fellow women understand 😊

[@prefixsuffix]

Lol....u do need to enlighten the younger problematic generations. They have the dynamics all messed up even when dating. The girls are paying now or they're paying 50/50 for going out with the boys. Lol

[@justsayalhamdulillaah9720]

I chased a man, for two years, he wanted me but wouldn't come to me. He wanted me to come to him. I nearly worked two jobs trying to make it work. Two years of my youth WASTED. I'm 24. Feeling sad. But I know God has other plans

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

U r still young n don't hurry for a relationship..if u r spiritual..God wl send him when the time come.

[@dilnazgandhi2176]

I truly enjoyed listening to this video. Most I liked was the bonus point in the end which speaks a lot and all. There is 1 very important point you missed was the honesty part which is very important in any relationship. Wishing you and Aatiya a blissful life together.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@Satillite1111]

Some males are shy. It doesn't always work for a guy to make the moves. I know couples that it was the woman that pursued their guy and got married. Go figure 😜

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

Its sad but reality is the woman wl b the alpha n dominant in such relationship.

[@cenninpedr9160]

Nothing to say Brody- ? I agree with this

[@AmyElizabethBehnke]

I'm an ambassador for Christ and I'm ready😇❤

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So great to hear Amy! :)

[@patricia-clairepoulin6460]

This is so true. I am so tired of being in man's shoes. I don't know how to act the other way.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@rashmimajumder8589]

Everyone doesn’t get everything, I wanted to be loved, respected, cared truly, so persuaded men, and feelings got Hurt , the relationship didn’t work as well. So thought I wont ever persuade like stupid. But again after all this years, I have to watch this videos to calm myself. Thank you very much. 😊

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@debramcmartin905]

I chased my last two partners. The first one was an 11 year relationship. The last relationship I had ,I chased him,. I.was actually so needy etc,that I chased him away. I am working on myself and knowing I don't need to chase men anymore. If they want to get to know me,they can. I think I was also in the masculine too much. I

[@josiesollestre5051]

I have never chased a man during that time I knew I'd hurt him I wanted to tell him that I am ready and that is you my cupcake. At this moment, I am ready my love, I knew that you shared this video for me 😍 and I wanted you to know even if I don't have beautiful face during my youth many men are chasing me including bisexual ☺️

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@josephinelising7020]

What are those acts and not of pursuing a man?

[@lyndapeoples8127]

Where are the men who want to lead???

[@lyndapeoples8127]

@@hajergriffin5013 most of the ones there are chasing me and other women outside of Africa. They think we should be financial support to them. I'm not the one.

[@clarissamendoza8322]

You just unlocked something in my thoughts. Now, I'll just have to practice things.

[@janinesebastian3486]

I am such a chatty Cathy, but men assume I'm interested when I'm not. There is one fellow who I am interested in learning more about because he is very kind, respectful and warms my soul- haven't had that before. Besides him, men tend to say let's hang out. Honestly, I'm not willing to hang out. I want dates and courtship. I've actually been celibate for so damn long because I am so done with crappy people, and honestly the quality of men in my life has finally sky rocketed. I still have the creepers, but hopefully they will peter off. You give me hope. Thank you!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@janinesebastian3486]

@@MagnetizeYourMan thank you! I look forward to learning more.

[@rickybobby9797]

Translation: You’ve been pursuing “chad” and he’s been rejecting you while you gave away your body to him.

[@janinesebastian3486]

@@rickybobby9797 not at all :)

[@MsAppassionata]

@@rickybobby9797 Wtf? Where did you come up with that idea from the things she said? She said she has been celibate.

[@MrsPetal]

There's lots of women that are managers and CFOs of companies who also have husband's who are at par with them, and they have successfully marriages, they come home to be a wife, mother to their children, and woman to their husbands. Just because your a boss at work doesn't mean you can't be feminine with your partner and want your husband/partner to do romantic things for you. I see your point on how it can go wrong, but with some practice and training it can also go right for women. Women in today's society want to do their share but I feel they're made to think that we need to do extra and we really don't.

[@beckylilly4749]

Are there seriously NO DISLIKES!? Not surprised. This video is THE best! Thank you!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@inquisitionagent9052]

Because dislikes are disabled...

[@tronalddump2444]

This deserves a sub.

[@sophrosyne5900]

I'm done ! I'm ready ! I am open to the flow of love, I will let a man know I am open and interested but the will absolutely need to step up . 👌

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@MrsPetal]

My boyfriend really treats me like a queen and I treat him like my King, he really makes me feel safe, loved and truly happy. I had to fall down a lot, change my ways, continue understanding myself and life to be here. This video was very informative.

[@Ksundts]

I married a man who pursued me, but it was me who was not that into him but because he was a good man, everyone said ’you should take him’ and I was young, I married him. We divorced 5 years later because there was no mutual love.

[@learningsevenresearchgoals1127]

The problem is: sometimes when men lead or try to lead (I.e. do the things in this video that you advise women not to do) women are repulsed by it as being controlling or too old-fashioned. It really depends on the couple I think. It is a dance of balancing the personalities. Good advice though.

[@lindabenefield820]

I’m ready

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@stephanied.sanders7980]

This was awesome. I enjoyed this. This was a confirmation for me that I was thinking correctly.

[@annieb749]

I love your point about polarity and what women being in the masculine does to me. FWIW, I am in a marriage where I've been pushed into the masculine but my husband being too much in the feminine...doesn't work out that way either. :-) Not trying to argue but putting it out there so you can PLEASE communicate to the men you help also to avoid this...the other side of the coin. For a long time I thought the issue was with me...I just naturally lead, I have high abilities and can wear the masculine all the way...but at heart I'm quite feminine and willing to be led, and I've since noticed that I'm not in the masculine with strong leader-type men and I fought against it for years with the hubs...he just never wanted to be in his masculine. As my boss says of him, he seems to like to wear the panties. And I find the man-pants quite uncomfortable. Apologies if any of this seems flippant. I'm coming out of an emotionally abusive marriage...trying to find my way out. It's less flippant than it is my attempt to see my situation with some distance and humor. But I totally 100% agree...we need that polarity and neither should push the other against their inclinations. And while some say that reverse polarity like we have in my marriage can be ok...IMO it definitely is not right, at least not for ME. Maybe it works for some...

[@kathrynnewton8721]

I’m ready!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@BravoMentorianaAmerica]

Im not interested later ...cause I have had meeting guys that are put themselves like a moms child even on taking to a romantic dinner or doing something simple like that. They probably dont feel empowered and I feel Im a mom. There is a huge confusion about woman financial independent and romantic conquer chasing. Relationship should not be like a business or friendship but to do pleasant things to make each other feel great as a woman and man

[@ThokoTwala]

I agree with all of this. This is what I believe in.

[@katusb2805]

I have pursued a man I thought we have a starting relationship, but it was only online and it turned out that I have been used. He after all asked for financial help. So I ended that relationship.

[@snowgoddessmissy7781]

Obviously a scammer

[@blan514]

Wow I'm so glad I see that video. I m always the one initiate somehow. I'm not texting ever now unless I get a call 😅

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@jeannetet3762]

Very interesting inputs. Thank you!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@debbieedwards8223]

I'm ready to feel VALUE ABLE

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@maceyr.6583]

Heck yeahh!! I'm ready!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@vkrgfan]

Many men turning away from marriage and relationship today, they choose to pursue their own interests outside of infatuation with women. So, don’t expect to be chased.

[@staywellandstrong4199]

This is why I wanted to see this video - to ascertain what the illusions are, from both genders' perspectives. Please provide more of this. The difference between appreciation and pursuing is a fine line - I appreciate your highlighting this important relational aspect.

[@luciaorozco6454]

When I persued it was unsatisfying. Disappointing.

[@MrsPetal]

Thanks for the video, and congratulations on your happy marriage, many blessings for your future together.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Thank you!! So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@lmusima3275]

My mum told me never to chase a man. The one who wants me will pursue me. I’d been in situations where I did chase guys down for going silent. It never worked. The ones who did pursue, it felt great 👍 I heard about a woman who pursued a man through social media. They got married and have children. Now she’s exhausted and frustrated as she’s come to realise he never chose her. She’s spent the entire marriage chasing him, trying to get him to realise she’s there.

[@elizetemariavarela9464]

I'm ready.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@christianebourdon3054]

It is absolutely amazing as you actually verbalized what I was feeling inside...thank you!

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@isahiliasu7301]

Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

[@Lauren-7777]

In my case men usually chase me but not for letting them be the one in control mostly is caused by my fears, I'm afraid to be heartbroken so I show interest in the beginning and then I pull away, that's when the serious chase starts from men I guess I'm feminine by default.

[@jpbart1390]

granted women pursued me (wife included), but i never compromised my masculinity!

[@jpbart1390]

@Sarah that's your problem, not mine. i hate all of my exes with a passion, so why would i want to leave my wife & go back to any of those fuckwits?!

[@AngelaWeaver-v1z]

I’m READY!😁

[@nancyhenson218]

Why would a man want his woman to be more aggressive? I am a passive person and i like it when the man makes the first move. The man i am interested in told me he likes his women to be more aggressive than what i am. Does this mean there is no hope for this relationship or what can i do so we are both comfortable and happy?

[@julienobles189]

I’m Ready

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

Great to hear! 😊

[@gavhlev2853]

Wait for the right person…. But be Miss Right at the same time

[@margarethnyamushonongora7207]

As women we simply can't chase man, we are not made that way. If we do they are consequences. Face them.

[@karengarr8370]

I agree 200%! Thank you so much for this info! 🙂😌

[@doonyfam8431]

What if I'm already established in my career, have my own house, financial security etc, how would you advice a woman like me to have a man who would "look after her"? I'm all for the masculine/feminine energies but don't know how this would translate to the modern woman who is economically secure.

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

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[@MuseSunflower]

You still have needs for emotional connection, romance, wanting to feel desired and beautiful by your guy. You may not need him financially however you can receive and be appreciative of the gifts he is offering to you.. which will let him feel like he is providing something and you feeling taken care of in some way.

[@doonyfam8431]

@@MuseSunflower thank you for this, that's a great way to look at it

[@sonnytotanes829]

Watching From Manilla Philippines Your Sooooohhhh Amazing in your advices and ideas

[@MagnetizeYourMan]

So glad you liked the video and great to have you as part of our community! 😊

[@isahiliasu7301]

Dr Kelly Love Spells can make your ex come back to you begging you for a second chance. He helped me restored my broken relationship of 6 years by bringing back my ex Also Dr Kelly always keep up with his words I strongly advise you to seek help from him.

[@isahiliasu7301]

Whats@app him now^_^^_^^_^

[@biblestudieswithdomlaf3310]

I’ve stopped pursuing my husband cuz it was destroying my self confidence!! I regained my self confidence…