5 Red Flags You're With the Wrong Person

Even though your relationship started off great, you’re beginning to realize your beliefs don’t line up. What do you do? How do spot red flags in relationships? How do you know if you’re dating the wrong person? We’re talking about it all in this message.
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Statistically Speaking… - 00:00
Be Wise - 01:07
Two Contrasting Types of People in Proverbs - 01:47
This Might Feel Extreme - 03:50
Red Flag #1 - 04:40
God Is Limiting My Options - 08:32
Having Unequal Values - 09:07
Red Flag #2 - 11:37
Counsel of a Friend - 12:59
Red Flag #3 - 14:42
Healthy vs Unhealthy Couples - 15:03
Be Quick to Listen, Slow to Speak - 18:03
Red Flag #4 - 19:00
When You Can’t Trust Them - 19:40
You Might be The Red Flag - 20:20
Red Flag #5 - 21:24
Temptation While Dating - 22:42
Encouragement to Make a Change - 27:01
Green Flags - 29:02
I Want to Honor Jesus - 31:39
Feeling Unworthy? - 34:03
#lifechurch #craiggroeschel #savethedate

[@life.church]

What do you value and appreciate in your friendships and relationships?

[@AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh]

If they don’t put God before me and themself. That is a big red flag - if they make God a priority and then put all worry and love into god, then that is the best Green Flag ever

[@melaniemartin730]

​@@AllGloryToTheOneMostHighabsolutely!🟣🟣🟣🟣

[@melaniemartin730]

A little compromise, but so many couples are lacking it!🍌🍌🍉🍉

[@marilynmusgrove2588]

Amen!!! Great message Pastor Craig God Bless you

[@slackerharrelson3559]

Trust

[@Jake-hn6yt]

1. They don’t consistently pursue Jesus. Not a committed follower of Jesus. 2. When those you love, don’t love who you’re dating. 3. When you don’t face healthy conflict. 4. When you find it difficult to trust the one you love. 5. When the person you’re dating is leading you away from Jesus.

[@melaniemartin730]

Why are they doing this?!🤷🤷🤷🤷

[@donnahampton3632]

Thank you for taking the time to write out this outline for the rest of us!

[@aaronperry9836]

I missed all the red flags , and now I regret it ….

[@billashby7858]

Pastor Craig is correct, when I was in college I dated a girl who was a lot of "fun," but my friends and parents did not care for her. I knew in the back of my head that she was not morally good for me, fortunately for me she broke up with me, and a few years later I married a woman that became my best friend!

[@life.church]

I love that story Bill Ashby, This is encouraging and gives good feelings knowing you are blessed. Thank you, for sharing -Team LC Ronnie

[@brandichampagne5748]

Quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to become angry! 🙌🏻

[@melaniemartin730]

Good point...period!⚫⚫🤯🤯

[@AllGloryToTheOneMostHigh]

Man these teachings are always seem to be exactly what I’m going through 😭

[@richardgray23]

Same Brother😅

[@misstmf]

Same here

[@sidekickster8917]

God's timing is perfect!

[@bobiah2578]

I want to be closer to Jesus in all my relationships and all things in Jesus Name!

[@jesussavesrick]

I listened to this, in order to weigh myself. To see if I was worthy of someone dating me. Great message! 🙏

[@sidekickster8917]

@jesussavesrick Great idea! Hopefully you're ready

[@Progamerjay100]

This was such a good sermon.

[@melaniemartin730]

Wow...period!🎀🎀🎀🎀

[@itzcruzii]

amen

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

Yes! I have, as long as I can remember. But I have reaffirmed my Baptism!

[@mtbiker841]

Great relationship advice! Should be taught in Jr high and high school!

[@melaniemartin730]

But how? Teens are struggling!🛀🛀🛀

[@sidekickster8917]

@@melaniemartin730 As a person that's been a youth Leader for decades, that's EXACTLY WHY it should be taught in Mid hi/ High School. I actually was thinking about how I COULD teach this to my current youth group

[@sidekickster8917]

@mtbiker841 YES TRUE! (see other comment)

[@user-lr1ut4kc7l]

I want to be closer to Jesus Help me to honor you 💖 Help me in my relationship & put Jesus 1st

[@marianlyngdoh9256]

I'm not ignoring,the signs

[@marianlyngdoh9256]

I love to be wise, And I hate stupidity

[@aliceswarts3684]

I'm so glad I found this sermon. I had to break up with someone because of the last red flag. Thank you, I needed the reminder. It's not easy to shut someone out of my life, when in the beginning, I believe it was meant to be. In the end, the Holy Spirit was telling me to get out. I hope someday the reason is revealed to me. My heart is still broken, but I believe it will be healed. All in His timing. God bless! 🙏

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

I have been drink once before. It just made me tired and out of control. So I got home safe and went tosleep by myself. Never did it again.

[@rociocartes]

I’ve had friends date unbelievers who come to Jesus BECAUSE of them. So, there are upsides, and the Bible does mention marriages with unbelievers. - I understand that is a harder path, but is possible if your partner is open to it. And it’s so beautiful to see them come to God. (An example of someone well known is Lee Strobel, who was an atheist and his wife was a Christian). Obviously this is something you have to pray about, and really listen to what God wants for you. I definitely think red flag 5 is the most important one to look out for, so I agree that if someone pulls you away from God then you need to break up with them.

[@life.church]

Yes it does happen, but as Christians we are called to be equally yoke so we avoid the hardships that can come with dating an unbeliever. The Bible says in Amos, "How can two walk in one accord if they do not agree." Waiting on what God has for you is so key. God Bless you! Myriam - LC Social Media Team

[@user-lr1ut4kc7l]

Thank you for forgiving me & my sinful ness

[@kati_katracha7070]

Yes, Lord! Take me! I want you and NEED you to take my life in your hands! Guide me, in Jesus'name! AMEN!!

[@user-lr1ut4kc7l]

I'm Soo glad draws near to me Thank you Jesus

[@user-lr1ut4kc7l]

Quick to speak & slow to anger

[@achengracejane558]

I neglected the red flag, 20 yrs later my life is full of regret, however, I have separated from the abusive marriage and totally found complete peace in the Lord God almighty, thank you Pastor

[@life.church]

Amen! 🙌🙏

[@Dxnwashere]

This is a great message, thanks Pastor Craig!

[@ahl8229]

Amen!! So good❤️‍🔥🙌🏻

[@elizabethssandor]

Amazing sermon! Thank you! 🙏🏻

[@heidirobinson3352]

Thank you for this video.

[@marilynmusgrove2588]

Goodmorning Pastor Craig and the entire life Church Family watching from Bahamas, Blessings 🙏❤

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

I always seek you first.

[@brooksouth3975]

Sheeewwww time to sober up…..hit me to my core….hallelujah

[@lonlonlove]

I'm giving my life to Jesus

[@servantofthelord8147]

This is raising my standard. Wow.

[@IfiokBassey-wz2fs]

Pastor you're massages brings people closer to God. Keep it up God bless you.

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

I want to always be more closer to Jesus more. Every Day and include God also.

[@vladislavvolkov4537]

So good

[@maryidoko2492]

This sermon gave me clarity that I had been looking for. I advise you to listen with an open mind. Especially if you're in a relationship or about to be in one

[@megossavino4190]

IM GIVING MY LIFE TO JESUS

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, megos Savino! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@cyruscembrano3550]

Quick to listen

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

Yes!

[@clouwho7675]

Yes Pay VERY CLOSE attention to those RED FLAGS!!! OR SUFFER THE CONSEQUENCE.😢

[@sarahwheatley1734]

amen to that I love this message about relationships

[@destiniharrington3973]

Thank you for this message.

[@life.church]

💛

[@richardgray23]

Definitely not what everyone wants to hear but definitely what we need to hear, wish I would of known this before my first marriage, this is definitely the biggest eye opener I've seen in the last couple months🙏🙏🙏 God Bless thank you Life Church❤️

[@life.church]

❤️😊

[@dkl1562]

Great advice

[@life.church]

Hello DKL, glad you got something from this message- Team LC Ronnie

[@Yankee4ever2]

This is absolutely amazin advice, thanks you Craig, God bless you

[@life.church]

🙏🏼❤️

[@valerieescabi6104]

Shalom 🙏🏻💖 peace

[@izmaryia]

I want to be closer to Jesus in all areas of my life. Ready me for all that you have waiting for me. In your mighty name Amen.

[@1018Stacey]

Wow, this is a very helpful topic and very comical too! 😮 - This really made me think about my failed marriage to Dave that's leading to dreadful divorce!

[@Peterbehera91]

I give my life to you Jesus ❤

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Peter! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika

[@SECURITY21]

Be closer to Jesus

[@Ivylove7]

having a marriage with the wrong person IS very painful to go through, especially when kids are involved. This message is very good and important for everyone. I found this message useful for friendships as well.

[@life.church]

💯 Amen!

[@malcolm24568]

This message will help alot of dating people out there.

[@melaniemartin730]

But how🧏🧏💆

[@malcolm24568]

@@melaniemartin730 help them to identify red flags within their relationships or what to look out for when they start to date.

[@user-qp3op9fx2r]

Amen

[@Marcie-dd2ul]

I give my life to jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Brushstroke and beyond! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - Laura

[@ivanhartanto2222]

i'm giving my life to JESUS.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Ivan Hartanto! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Matthew Team LC

[@wilfredmotosue2615]

Some people have common sense and others don't have common sense. You don't have to ask if he's a Christian, you will see by what says and by his actions.

[@life.church]

I've met Christians who are doing God's work, but still have not a lick of common sense. God can still use them and loves them the same ❤️ -Kat

[@luzdelacruz5081]

❤ Amén!

[@navsidhu7294]

I’m giving my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

Praise the Lord! Would you like next steps?

[@user-bm7ur8jw8f]

I surrender my life to Jesus ❤

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Григорий Булатов! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Mika

[@melaniemartin730]

Same here, I'm giving my life!💜💙💚💛💜💜💙

[@ieshad.6201]

I want a God honoring Relationships! Family, friends, my spouse, career, life

[@dd-ph9fv]

Words to live by. Thats how i fell in love with my wife. All she spoke about was jesus. I knew right then she was the one!!

[@life.church]

❤️🙌

[@kenji2342]

Please pray for me and my girlfriend, I think we got 2-3 red flags. She's not a genuine christian, though she is interested in it. Please pray for her salvation, even if we won't work out; please pray that she will love Jesus.

[@life.church]

Lord, We know the paths You have for us are amazing and so much better than our own. Please guide and strengthen Kenji for his faith in You and help his girlfriend to see Your love through Kenji so she can see You and committee to following You whether it is with Kenji or not. Allow Your Spirit to work in both of them and let them be able to grow in You in Jesus' name Amen. Laura

[@blossomyusuf9935]

I want to be closer to Jesus

[@life.church]

Father, we lift up this guest. We pray that they will experience Your presence in a new way today. Help set their heart upon You and Your Word! May You guide their path towards You, Lord, while deepening their relationship with You. Fill their mind with Your thoughts and ways, and provide community that strengthens their resolve towards You. Renew their mind and fill them with the Holy Spirit for wisdom and discernment to grant understanding of Your nature and character. In Jesus’ name, Amen

[@nataliefunk4895]

I think I'm the problem, but I'm not sure if it's 100 percent.

[@diverseten8392]

I am currently learning how to not be a red flag

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

I have been drink before. Then I fall asleep. I had TBI so I can't drink. I didn't like it . I didn't like feeling out of control.

[@americantojo3367]

I am quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry.

[@malcolm24568]

PRAISE YHWY, PRAISE HIS HOLY NAME, AMEN 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@melaniemartin730]

Meanwhile at the movies, we saw snippets from "father stu." (It's because of copyright laws!) 🎁🎀🎁🎀🎁🎀

[@aceliu5997]

I wish I watched this long time ago.

[@annmburu1063]

This just came at the right time. I went on a date two days ago and after that I had this clarity that this is not the person I would see myself getting married to or being in a committed relationship with. The date went okay but unfortunately most of my friends are not godly so they thought I am really choosy when I said the date was okay butI didn't have that sense of peace deep down and I can't date someone whose heart doesn't belong to Christ. I feel like this message was particularly meant for me. May God see me through as I continue seeking God's kingdom

[@kenji2342]

God bless you. Cheers to u for your strength and wisdom

[@life.church]

❤️

[@annmburu1063]

@@kenji2342 Thankyou and amen 🙏

[@life.church]

❤️

[@Yankee4ever2]

Giving my life to Jesus baby !

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Yankee4ever2! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@allysonhill4195]

this video describes EXACTLY what I'm going through!!! My soon-to-be ex-husband is extremely abusive and narcissistic, he had severe anger issues and neglected me. he also emotionally and verbally abused me. I didn't want to believe the warning signs and ignored it, Pastor Craig is right!!!! I'm going to write a book about my experiences about surviving domestic violence and how I'm learning to say no and stand up for myself. Jesus rescued me

[@life.church]

❤️Thank you for sharing your story @Allyson! May God continue to give you strength and hope as you move forward from this situation. What the enemy meant for evil, God will use for good! 2 Cor 1:4 -- Jenni

[@melaniemartin730]

Oh no!🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@quinoasongs2507]

I hope you do. I also was in that kind of relationship, and he even presented as a godly man in the beginning. Ironically enough he introduced me to this channel. But watching this video, I was gonna have him watch it with me, but the opportunity didn't come, as we already were becoming more distant because I insisted on our time together being productive, and not falling into the trap of the "Netflix and chill" equivalent.(I don't have Netflix) I shudder that I could've fallen for the concept that we "need" to get married soon based on 1 Corinthians 7:9. We can all keep learning, and helping each other to live productive lives and avoid such relationships and so on. Be blessed today

[@allysonhill4195]

@@quinoasongs2507 thank you for sharing your story! your not alone ❤

[@blossomyusuf9935]

I surrender to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, @blossomyusuf9935! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -Kat

[@dreamlist3610]

I want to be closer to Jesus.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

[@slingingshot15]

Nice sermon. Do you have any sermons similar to this that are aimed at singles who want to have a relationship?

[@life.church]

God’s here for you, and so are we. If you’re interested in wisdom or encouragement on how you can grow closer to God and find meaningful relationships while single, this is a great place to start: finds.life.church/tag/single/ -Team LC Ronnie

[@life.church]

Yes! We have numerous messages. Here are a couple: www.life.church/media/save-the-date/3-qualities-you-need-before-marriage/ and www.life.church/media/save-the-date/5-signs-youre-dating-the-wrong-person/ both from a series of messages last year. You can also search here: www.life.church/media/messages/ Thanks for reaching out! -- Jenni

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

Quick to listen, show to anger

[@hiyabkebede9147]

Be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry

[@EjirogheneRoze]

I GIVE MY LIFE TO JESUS.

[@cyruscembrano3550]

Im giving my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Cyrus Cembrano! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life.Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church - jenni

[@holyenforcer8200]

I want to be closer to you Jesus Amen

[@MonkeyNamedJay]

The hiding under the bed from Amy was a solid joke😂

[@bforcenorth6393]

Just started listening from NJ but I suspect I am guilty of not paying attention to the warning signs. Going through a divorce right now after 15 years of marriage .

[@calistadecoster6274]

Praying for you and her during this difficult time!! 🙏🏻✝️

[@calistadecoster6274]

God bless you!!

[@melaniemartin730]

​@@calistadecoster6274sorry that your Marriage is sadly ending!😭😭😭

[@skyeabad3347]

I give my life to Jesus

[@life.church]

We’re so excited for you, Skye Abad! Choosing to follow Jesus is the best decision you will ever make. Let us know about your decision here by going to go2.lc/youtubesalvation We want to celebrate this decision with you as well as answer questions you may have about your next steps as you begin your relationship with God. We’d also love to invite you to Life. Church Online! 90+ services are available throughout the week, so you’ll always be able to find a time that fits your schedule. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. We hope to see you there! live.life.church -TeamLC Ronnie

[@LaurenMonique93]

Hi

[@jennifergrimaldo904]

What if one’s family doesn’t have a good spiritual foundation? But they have their opinions

[@melaniemartin730]

Even though I'm not dating, i feel bad for those who are dating the wrong people. What can i do?!😓😓😓

[@life.church]

Hello Melanie! I believe we can always pray for other people who are dating the wrong people. We can also pray for God to speak through us, and to have the courage to reach out to them and to guide them on their next steps! -Mika

[@viralhabesha4151]

❤❤one day I will teach on this stage amen 🙏

[@melaniemartin730]

What were the scriptures?🉑♨️🉑♨️🉑♨️

[@graciesalomon9744]

I am slow to become angry

[@cindyloguirato8435]

I want serve and be closer to Jesus my Lord and Savior!!

[@life.church]

Hello Cindy! We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/ If you’re interested in encouraging and caring for others on our social media platform. We would love to invite you to join our volunteer team! If you’re interested, you can get connected here: go2.lc/lcsm God bless you my friend. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

[@americantojo3367]

I want to be closer to jesus.

[@life.church]

We’re so excited you’re looking for ways to grow in your faith! Check out Finds.Life for all kinds of support and resources that will help you grow spiritually. You can start your search here: finds.life.church/tag/spiritual-growth/

[@Joy-ei2jr]

What about the red flags that funny show up till after you get married.

[@melaniemartin730]

What do we mean by red flags?♨️♨️♨️♨️

[@life.church]

Melanie Martin Red flags are meant to be warning signs to prevent you from making a bad decision. In other words, you do not really know your choice for a spouse until after the wedding. TeamLC Ronnie

[@AdrianPuiu]

Hi Life Church team. I applied to be part of 4 life groups so far and I sent emails to all of them, but I did not received any answer from anybody. I hope someone is seeing this comment. Thanks

[@life.church]

Hi Adrian! Some groups may be on vacation or away for personal reasons. You can put for other Life Groups, or wait for them to answer. -Kat

[@lukenycz7967]

My father was not a Christian before he met my mom and now he is a much better Christian and role model. Also for point #1 what if the person we like just grew up in a non Christian family or taught wrongly about Christians and needs led to God? I have met many people who don't like Christians because they think they are all religious and Bible thumpers thus avoids them. Then we also have Hosea who God had married an adulteress women.

[@life.church]

Luke, Praying for those who don't believe is a good start. Plus, you can ask God to show you ways to show them the love of Jesus. 🙏❤️ Laura

[@olivenwankwo4875]

It feels like stories like this were more common decades ago. These days people choose to be who they want to be and it's very difficult to get them to be who you think they should be.

[@jdgfsullivan]

What if you’re already married?

[@life.church]

Jessica you are not alone... God, I lift up this marriage. I ask that you help them both have the heart and eyes to see each other through your eyes. I pray that you work in them both, giving them a willingness to forgive and seek reconciliation. God, I ask for patience as they navigate how you will work in this marriage and choose to put you first. Protect both of them from ungodly influences that strain their marriage and their trust. Work in and through them to bless each other in this difficult time. In your name, Amen. -- jenni

[@victoriagelencser2463]

What if you have been with this person 7 years, and leaving them would make you homeless? Idk what to do anymore and need somebody to help me.

[@life.church]

Victoria, we're here for you if you'd like to talk about what you're going through. Just head to Life.Church Online at live.life.church. During services, we have live Host Team Leaders who can answer questions, pray for you, and chat one-on-one. - LK

[@Korijean11]

What about Christian and Catholic, I can’t seem to convert to Catholicism for my bf and it has hindered our relationship. I can’t see a future because our beliefs are so different

[@life.church]

Hi KJM! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/meetwithus - Jas

[@jeanniewalker3398]

Question: what if a lot of the red flags are prominent n very much are issues in mine n my husbands marriage? We are currently separated, should I go ahead then with filling for divorce if these things are very much been problematic n true for us through at least the last 9 years! It’s caused so much more trauma n sickness to take place in my n my children’s bodies. I need clarification from the Lord that it’s okay to divorce bc I don’t have peace as of yet to start that process… sister in Christ, Jeannie

[@life.church]

Hi Jeannie Walker! We would love to get you connected with one of our pastors to talk with you about this! If you are interested, please let us know by filling out this form -- go2.lc/careform We’re praying for your family my friend. God bless you. Tamala-Psalms 37:3 Trust God & Do Good

[@JustFacts85042]

You made a vow to your husband and to God to stay together for better or worse until death, why would you think breaking that vow, the most ultimate value can make to another person in life as acceptable? As a wife you should be respecting your husband as the leader of the relationship, the captain of the ship and follow his lead. If you can't do that you have failed as a wife

[@luikssmart7751]

Hmmm…. 🤨🤨🤨🤨🤨

[@user-mb6mh5yy6l]

Quick to listen and slow to speak.

[@brads1282]

I question the first red flag. Being a committed Christian doesn't mean you have to talk about your faith every second or minute.

[@dmwehrer7094]

What if I'm dating an Asian? I'm living in Southeast Asia.