5 Secrets Women Don't Want Men To Know

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

I'm a mens performance coach, if you need help with current or past relationships, book a one on one call with me here: clarity.fm/richardcooper Thanks for watching, if there is something I missed, or you have some feedback to help others from your own experience, leave a comment below. Access our private Patreon community: bit.ly/2B0aVRp

[@jonathanj5728]

Entrepreneurs in Cars " Sperm Wars" is a mind blowing book it's pretty much the reason why I don't settle and when I have a kid I'm gonna get a DNA test no Matter what. "Sperm Wars" is an eye opener.

[@edwinmendezforlife]

Good job

[@ChristianDavisOtnDon]

You cant really use that to determine this as true it really all depends

[@misterawesome1743]

good video but you aren't in a car...

[@tallbosstvstewy4569]

how could i reach you on whatsapp

[@montushah8856]

Guy cheats: He's such a jerk Girl cheats: He must have been a jerk to her

[@Tag6488]

Montu shah damn this is simple and 100% accurate

[@twentyone666]

Truth sir

[@TT35109]

I actually always thought the opposite from that. When a guy cheats I think that he had a good reason since the woman seems to want to make such a big deal of him cheating. But when a woman cheats she acts like she doesn’t care and is justified to cheat and it makes me feel like she only did it because she could.

[@unholydanger]

screw the unfair world

[@Achase4u]

Absofreakinlutely.

[@phillipprior71]

I was married for 9.5 years, that's when my wife decided to confess to me she had a boyfriend for over a year, I was shocked that she hid it so well. I divorced her because of it, and I've been happy ever after. I've had girlfriends and friends with benefits, But I've never gotten to the point where I wanted to remarry. I'm older now and time has taken it's toll, So now I can sit back and watch and see how they work. It's interesting to see how they work men against men, for a prize not worth keeping. Thank god I'm older, single, and wiser. I love being single, can go and do whatever and whenever. Good luck to the young bucks out there, maybe they should watch this video?

[@charliefrazier5746]

Same

[@vsagar]

My best sexual experiences with women was when I took charge and assumed the Alpha role... since by nature I'm Beta it was a I opening experience. I don't agree everything in this video but take what you can use and discard the rest... thanks for some great free content

[@KidCity1985]

I'm a woman and I feel the same.

[@Nastyfinger1444]

You are a very wise man.

[@joesoap8125]

Not all people are meant to mate for life. Some are. If that's what you want then that's what you have to find.

[@kuunami]

I learned last year the hard way that there is no relationship equity for men. What you did during the relationship has no value to a woman. Only how she feels at that particular moment matters to her. Your effort during the relationship means nothing to her. In fact more often than not they resent you for being good to them because when they end the relationship for selfish reasons they are inconvenienced by the microscopic amount of guilt they feel for screwing you over. They get over that guilt VERY quickly though.

[@rryphill4408]

kuunami ..Yeah that's why it's best to look for balance or not put in too much work.Whateva just as long as the man didn't spend too much money,let her ass find her own way it gets their attention real quick and never will be forgotten by them even if they find a simp weak wuusy.

[@arisn32]

kuunami I completely agree, don’t do anything for women, if it is something, make is small, and not often, very rarely.

[@matthewh630]

kuunami yea man learned the same way bro.

[@zedzedski7382]

+kuunami it depends on the woman. Usually the slutty ones are as you described. Don't look for sluts! Look for woman that cares for family!

[@angelinahuitron4262]

ZedZedski I’m a woman and I agree with you 100% 🙁 Sorry to read all these comments from all you guys, don’t date mean insecure women specially the “10s” they are usually the worst kind of women.

[@johnsprince3924]

I'm sick of so many alpha seeking, beta training, validation loving, personal gratification motivated women who want the power of a man, the privileges of being female, and the responsibilities of neither.

[@TheCrazyBarn]

Nailed it here.

[@mcprotwin7927]

Exactly!

[@CarolinHauser]

What about being two halves that together make a whole and make the world better?

[@emm3889]

@@CarolinHauser what a load of rubbish only old woman think like that, only very few I mean such a small percentage of young woman even do what you are suggesting they are called real wife's, not these fake imitation we have running around trying to play house.

[@bennorris5028]

Here here

[@JoePedo]

To this day I can't comprehend how easily they can just ghost from a long term relationship like it was never anything. They really don't care about us at all. All they care about is themselves. Never forget that guys.

[@user-qr7eb1sf3l]

Sam H most women prioritise their children.

[@salamandiusbraveheart4183]

This... and what other women think about them

[@PhillySortsFan46]

A 1 they think they do. Then when they can’t, they ask daddy to help

[@sjmiller6012]

I have seen the ghosting multiple times. It is the default action. Believe it.

[@warriorsp1]

She had a boyfriend for 4 years, and a month after break up she came too me. I never knew I was her rebound till I heard it from word of mouth. The whole time I was with her, she literally showed no remorse.

[@trinac53]

I'm a hairstylist and mostly everything you said is true.

[@HamzaShams_]

Thank you for being honest

[@Wmc342]

Thank you for your honesty

[@Coyote-wm5op]

Lol I’m sure you hear it all

[@fredg8199]

^ Dated a hairdresser for many years, they hear everything.

[@RandomUser25122]

Thank you. Do you know why this is like this and why do modern women differ from their mothers and grandmothers?

[@45ounce]

After being married for 17 years and in 2 relationships in the last year I’ve learnt that society has changed and everyone is selfish. There is no good old fashioned love anymore. If it’s out there then it’s very very rare..I’m just gonna concentrate on loving myself from now on cause I’m done with relationships. Period!

[@grahamszewczyk695]

45ounce Never again.....they are all sluts

[@Lumpia_In_Texas]

Date women from other countries

[@radaka]

It still exists and it is rare when it's truly real. But believe its still out there and real. And if you have the qualities that you look for in someone else I believe that you'll have it. But we can't expect to find qualities in others that we don't possess ourselves. You'll be more likely to find it. And don't ever take it for granted or take advantage of it when and if you do.

[@djairfire8925]

Me too

[@erichk1674]

You are correct . Time wasters and money spenders . I do a good enough job of that on my own let alone with someone else’s help.

[@mrdogfight1]

They fart. Another secret they don't want you to know.

[@TheWorldisaLIE2]

and usually have messier smellier shits too

[@BoysVideoo]

Good One -- Funny

[@agotapongor2069]

Yes, we have monthly period, you guys do not, be be!!!

[@janbadinski7126]

We even save it up for night time and cut loose under the blankets as a warning sign.

[@janbadinski7126]

lol

[@gordocojones]

The golden rule: the only thing women are capable of being loyal to are her children. Period.

[@pacha777]

not even in many cases...

[@draco1523]

Sadly the second one is only sometimes

[@Zelielz1]

The majority of children assasinations are made by women, so not even that.

[@thatsracist4654]

They will be loyal to their cats after the wall rapes them.

[@joesoap8125]

Not all of them. I'ma single Dad. I wouldnt call it a lack of loyalty - just a lack of empathy.

[@johnnywayne3443]

It took me decades to realize there is no such thing as relationship equity with a woman. A woman's reciprocal input ends as soon as the benefit has been given to her. It's Briffault's law...

[@rvh77]

Very good insight. Another thing is that women initiate much more physical violence than you think. Two reasons:1. Most guys won't hit back. 2. Most guys won't say anything.

[@BrandonViani]

Legalize Freedom my wife used to hit me all the time and I never understood it

[@shuouma3327]

@@BrandonViani You should've smacked the hell outta that rude being.

[@raydeal5777]

I finally got enough of that BS and I hit back knocked her right on her ass, something I never thought I do but enough is enough you can punch me in the face over and over out of scratch my eyes out you're going to get your ass kicked. I don't care who you are. And all she wanted after 21 years is the ability to get a restraining order and everything that we put together in that time frame. And give a damn about anything else. It's worth getting knocked on her ass

[@NeoZeta]

@@raydeal5777 You do the right thing, my friend. You should smack back. Never understood this "never hit a woman, ever!". BS! If a rude child, fruit of bad-parenting, was to slap me on the face or start punching me for absolutely no reason, or just out of unjustified anger, I'd show that child how to respect an adult. Obviously, with the appropriate force for a child. I do the same to women. I hit them back in the same proportion they hit me. I'm no punching bag. GTFO here. If I don't accept such behaviour from a child, that usually knows no better, I will do it from an adult woman? If I'll educate children, I will educate women. Women are over-grown children, anyway.

[@thevegastan]

Agreed. You forgot emotional violence. That shit can begin from Minute #1 she failed the door lock test. Or any other test!

[@bingcrosby1378]

There is a second version of Monkey Branching, which i would call "Reverse Monkey Branching" it's basically when a woman tries to use you as a backup if the situation with the new man goes bad.

[@thelongtrader4642]

EX gf tried to put me in the friend zone after dumping me,i of course cut all contact, long and behold two years later, i bought a nice car, nice sport bike and make much more than when i was with her and suddenly she starts messaging me that we should go out etc. Perfect example for what you said, ive never even answered her, now whenever once in a while she sees me in town she has the face like i killed her whole family, women take rejection much more worse than majority of men i know.

[@robgoren8628]

Harper Wayne Yes, never let her hit the rewind button. Do you want to spend your life knowing you weren't her first choice?

[@bingcrosby1378]

Once i was daiting a girl for about 6 months, at some point she told me she had the desire to start living with me to support me, help me with my business etc... i answered i wasn't interest to take the frequentation at that serious level, one week later she posted some pic of her in vacation with an other man, i think she had this loser as a backup for a long time waiting to see which branch was the most solid for her to grab.

[@bingcrosby1378]

Monkey Branching is more like skipping fast from a man to another, or eventually holding on 2 branches at the same time waiting to understand which one is more suitable.

[@solomonpontes]

Man, everything you've said is so true. I find myself at the very same spot when I was dating a girl a year ago and went through some problems, but I never break the relationship for real with her (anyway, she choose to understand what she wanted to understand), but to my surprise she shows up with some new guy between one or two weeks later without a notice (she kept it in secret from me, but I figure it out). Two thoughts came in my mind, she was at least keeping conversations with the dude at the same time she was with me and kept it secret for the same reasons you listed above. I didn't know the "technical term" for this at the time, now I know... and the behavior seems pretty standard... The more reseach and test, the more I figure that womans (men too) are all about basic patterns, it's not an one size fits all (but definitelly there's a pattern).

[@j2manj2]

This guy has tremendous insight! As a 60 year old bachelor I've dated every type of woman out there.....I find myself agreeing with this guy nearly 100% of the time.

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Truth bombs hurt, especially the women that don't want men to know about their nature.

[@phuqizm1547]

Woman date up until they hit the wall. Then they become cat owners

[@TekkLuthor]

Also, a woman with 2 pets is infertile

[@redhammer92]

Its almost like they are going their own way.

[@LiobaBrueckner]

@@redhammer92 fascinating, right?!! 🙃

[@sergejcancelo]

@mecanicotop ahahahah

[@mattathiasmacabees6416]

And buy tons of lube and toys

[@nellatl]

Alot of women are real good at playing the good girl role.

[@Koeras16]

Men and women are extremely playful by nature. But in different ways.

[@jlc7300]

and they are some of the MOST sneaky ones!

[@xxcrucificioxx]

great great actors. deception behind all that makeup. never trust them

[@nellatl]

@@jlc7300 good girls are the most sneaky, not some of the most..

[@nellatl]

@@xxcrucificioxx everything about a woman is a lie.

[@thalfis]

So then I want to ask honestly, what is the point of even being in a relationship if 99% are just messed-up self-esteem draining head games, which women are better at? I don't like the prospect of living without a lady in my life, but the head games and double standards make me feel that it is the better choice, rather than losing my mind to the manipulative dance we call dating.

[@jeffreyelliott622]

Us older guys have to go after the younger Barbie Dolls under the age of 18 to even have a real good chance for TRUE love is the ONLY way I see it otherwise I give up at the age of 58 still lean strong and in great shape for my years !!!! The young Barbie Dolls haven't had they're minds distorted by BAD BOYS and haven't slept with every John, Dick and Harry in the dictionary from A to Z !!!!! Now I know trying to do this sounds perverted and wrong but in reality it is what parents WANT for they're Barbie Dolls is a real GOOD Christian MAN who will be true and loyal at all times !!!!

[@JudgeHoldenTudix]

Jeffrey Elliott go to jail sir

[@viniciusdacidadezinha3334]

You're 40 years late, buddy

[@goldeneagle3678]

@@JudgeHoldenTudix lol xD

[@bennorris5028]

There is no point. That's why most of us don't bother. Until there's a serious economic collapse or war held in America. Females will not change

[@Riguy89]

I'm 20 years old, Canadian architecture student. Was with a girl for almost 2 years and was fairly happy with her. She was a little bit "slow" but hid it very well lol. The reason I stayed with her is because she didn't show any of the traits of an interest in hypergamy and seemed to love me for me. had to end the relationship due to moving across the province for an 8 month student job with the government. A few days after we break up she invites me to her house to see her one last time before I leave. She asks me if construction workers make more $ than architects (They do according to a "friend" of hers) gives me a watch as a parting gift and asks me to leave. 1 week later I find out shes seeing another guy who just so happens to be a construction worker. She was talking to the guy 2 days after we split up. Not even mad at her. I'm pissed at myself for letting her fool me. A one man band from here on out.

[@camman6912]

Your lucky you avoided a lot of shit in the future

[@bradtherad6973]

Riley Ireland WOW she sounds stupid.

[@fatelamore]

Not so slow, eh?

[@turbo1997hsm]

Henning Kallweit Very

[@ppumpkin3282]

Every woman has several guys in the friend zone. When you leave, she picks one of them to step up.

[@macman9689]

so true about women being bored quicker in the relationship. Notice how most women say they want a man that can make them laugh? they want to be entertained.

[@robgoren8628]

#2 I learned the hard way. Never, ever, EVER think white-knighting gets you anywhere with women. I know a couple of women who secretly call white knights "fart catchers," and laugh at them behind their back. My 2 cents: Factoring out the allure of intelligence and talent common to both sexes, here is the primary difference between men and women: A man's lust is fuelled by physical beauty. A woman's lust is fuelled by physical beauty AND wealth. When a man suddenly loses his money, in the eyes of a woman, he goes from Kirstie Allie 1982 to Kirstie Allie 2017. While most men have the honour, integrity, and deep soulful love not to leave, women are not beholden to these 'male' values, and will ditch you like a used latte cup in the blink of an eye.

[@hassanalzaher3893]

There's a very true fact you mentioned. I for one have noticed that one of the biggest misconceptions we men make is assuming that women in general have the same set of ethics that we have. Sad fact, they don't and mostly never care about the crap called "ethics" They know only "I can vs. I can't " and not "It's good vs. It's bad" Finding a good women is difficult, defining what a good women is is even more difficult. ( or I may lack enough experience so far )

[@AnnikaOrne]

#notallwomen 😅

[@HarleyQuinn213]

So weird what experiences some people gather.. Though, it might depend on where you live. In any way.. I don't think this is how genereally all women in the world are. Also, the way you describe it, it almost sounds like they must be less of a human than you are. The values you spoke about aren't just "male values", those are general values that human can have or not have. It's most likely that those values can be found equally much or probably equally rarely in both genders. If you truly believe that the way you described women, is how they generally are, than maybe you should do some social experiments on that or probably better get some well approved scientists to do them for you.

[@hassanalzaher3893]

Harley Quinn No way we men think of woman as less of a human. You are making a wrong conclusion that came from you own pattern of thinking of judging of people: they're either as human or less human. Your premise is your own, no one suggested that. No, not at all, we adult men think a child is immature, sensitive, and irresponsible, fragile, and needs to be taken care of and never given full power so that he doesn't harm neither himself nor the whole family. That never resembled thinking of the child to be less of a human. Once human then a full human. Whether he was a rational human or not. Women, are wise, responsible, and full of mercy, forgiveness and understanding, only after their hormonal storm is gone i.e. after menopause or let's say in middle age. Those are among the wisest people of the whole society. Young women are non of that. Actually, women due to their emotional, and physical, ( and I may add ethical ) weakness as young growing girls and young mothers, they end up very "diplomatic", rational and fully wise, and ethical individuals as middle aged women. It's the weakness of a female, or rather her insight into her weakness, is what makes her the good individual that she ends up being. Current gen liberated girls and women just keep fighting their own weak nature by denying it, instead of getting around it and learning from it. They've never known that the greatest strength is knowing one's own weaknesses. They never self-criticize and never actually grow. They may never get to be rational responsive ladies at all, even at a late age, or they may but with a bitter taste in their mouths, which bad but better than not. I'm of course not sure that I'm right, but this is how we traditionally (and may be evolutionary-based) tend to think of women, and that may be very useful for balancing family structure that's being broken today.

[@phaidros52]

Wake up, guy your dreaming

[@mr.sherlockholmes6130]

So true we live in a different world today . There is no loyalty anymore. Woman are so different today . We have to read books and have dating coach's . What the hell happened to our society in the old days men where men and a woman was a lady and treated a man like a man . Now We live in a superficial world . Thanks for the great advice . Very true .

[@salamandiusbraveheart4183]

Feminism happened boi

[@Bosby7]

Scott Dickens USMC turn your eyes on Jesus that’s all you need

[@gregcampbelle3696]

@Elle D Why would any man want to please a disloyal harpy like you? Why would a man want to buy your affection, your loyalty, when he has no guarantees in return? When there was a semblance of a binding contract, you might have gotten away with this selfish screed, but you idiots have destroyed your own agency. You learned from the historic well poisoners (the mother's and daughters of your whole civilization destroying ideology), but you failed to learn the most important lesson, that even the most based of them know; you don't poison your own well. You poison the enemy wells. No man want's to pay to sleep with someone who has set themselves up as the enemy.

[@user-ot2nh8qb7d]

The explosion of social media, the internet, and technology happened

[@jessecastillo9000]

Sin, created all this my Brother

[@guinthehouse]

I really wish I had a dad like you. It would have saved so much drama/headaches/confusion, but at least I am redpilled now and still soaking up vast amount of knowledge everyday. And I have no babies, still in early 20s, so I can build up my future. Thanks so much. Cheers.

[@robgoren8628]

B Also watch 'Mgtow is Freedom,' another legendary bombardier of truth.

[@miguelmejia4656]

DADA

[@guinthehouse]

@Nathanb B I didn't call him dad necessarily, I just said it would have been amazing if I had a father figure like him. I grew up without my dad. I don't think he is just another dude who is older than me, he is one of the biggest red pill youtube channels out there right now that I can resonate, if you really think his advices are not that great, why are you on his channel? Maybe you had your dad when you were growing up, but I never had a strong father figure growing up? Thanks for your consideration, but stay in your lane please.

[@guinthehouse]

@Robgoren. Thanks man.

[@rustyshackefordmgtow4067]

Nathanb B stop shaming like a woman. Thats what they do on the feminist.

[@redwolf8135]

No matter how solid or stable you think your relationship is, she will always have a man on deck.

[@jasonasdecker]

Plan B or even plan C,D,E,or F.

[@redshark9537]

Two things I have said for years: (1)Women always have a Plan B. (2) Women never jump until they have picked out a landing spot.

[@goranhrastovik5364]

nope.it's bad to generalize.been with a lot of girls and always knew them pretty well..i had those pussy on lock..if you know what i mean..they never NEEDED to have a man on deck cause i satisfied them in that department plus others..having fun and all that..no boring times....the reason for breaks were always women and their sudden mood changes and their need to change me...hell no..sorry that you had those experience BUT speak for yourself man..don't generalize like it's like that for all..learn from your mistakes man..cheers

[@thewhiterabbit3537]

Goran Hrastovik shes always ready to jump just flash the greenback and the booze and show where the parties at and she’s flat on her back showing you her crack!

[@redshark9537]

@@goranhrastovik5364 Just because you just never knew about Plan B doesn't mean it wasn't there. Those sudden mood changes occurred when she was ready to execute Plan B. You were in the dark.

[@HeedAndSucceed]

i still love women but i have my guards up

[@yamkwanleung2969]

HeedAndSucceed I

[@KevsUploads]

As always

[@captnhuffy]

The only power a male has in a relationship is the ability to LEAVE, dump her, WALK OUT. Therefore it is VITAL that males NEVER form any financial entanglements w women unless they ALWAYS benefits from them. But don't fool yourself: Hypergamy is a BITCH, there is no tricking it, no reasoning w it, you have to just lay it out there, up front, at the beginning. So, good fuk'ing luck in the dating pool, because there is no chlorine to cure the outrageous shittiness of 99.99999999997% of women.

[@kargs5krun]

".....and 'jacket' on."

[@bza069]

you mean after the first date ?

[@Sisterlisk]

Not surprised about the ovulating thing. But ladies...just because you find someone attractive, and he's interested and willing, doesn't mean you should sleep with him.. control your urges. Or, break up with your current guy. He deserves someone who wants only him.

[@brianmoore4344]

Rachel T. I wish that more females would be as honest like you that should've been the most like and the highlighted comment.

[@lepsu0176]

love your answer...

[@jimmyhunt9081]

Rachel T. Damn it girl....... Same goes for the guys out there....

[@west1366]

Wish more women was like that

[@douglynn5906]

Thank you!

[@mutatedfetus66]

What I find most insane in my 27 years of living is that back when I was a player and cheating on girls I found girls respecting and chasing me more, but as I grew older and saw the damage I did and hearts I have broken and finally deciding to put my best foot forward and be a loving, loyal, and respectful guy I find I have been attracting girls with very narcissistic characteristics. It’s sad to admit but I felt I lived a happier life being a disrespectful cheating asshole to girls than I am now being loving, caring, and loyal...

[@BieluChukwu9]

Those girls you are attracting now, love them with your heart. Be gentle to them. That's what they want. Give them the attention they want. All the time when together with them.

[@BieluChukwu9]

The game is reversed now

[@breakingthemasks]

@@BieluChukwu9 .. what? Hell no. Give a narcissist attention? no way is that a good idea. OP... Maybe change where you are picking up girls. If you could pick up young girls for hookups... That place is not where you find girls that are ready to settle down with loving good men.

[@zasvedogovore]

This is my story too

[@sednasix6608]

Maybe you should say NO to those narcs you’re attracting. You are signing up for your own torture if you’re dating them.

[@rolandpeltier6794]

Recently experienced about 80% of these behaviour patterns in a long term (14 month) relationship. She was plate spinning and talked about an open relationship, but then she went on a date with another guy (I knew she was doing this, and I had laid out my boundaries on paper; mistake one). She told me that the date was casual and that he would be just a friend. I asked if she told him about her relationship with me and she said “no, it didn’t come up” I called her on this, and she simply set me up to do the breaking up. I was so heartbroken but when we talked two weeks later she said she was in another relationship with him. So I did my best to move through the feelings of heartache, and one month later she texts and wants to be friends. This is the same exact scenario that she was in when I met her. It’s a test to see if her new boyfriend can handle it and pass the jealousy test. I called her on this and she would not address it but only would tell me that she didn’t feel like she did anything wrong. The new guy makes more money than I currently do And I see where she was simply monkey branching to a more affluent opportunity. Definitely going to keep my eyes open to these red flags in the future.

[@m.night_schlongislong]

Roland Peltier You're her fall back guy. Cut ties with her indefinitely. She's not a trooper.

[@jessikapiche6097]

yes, totally understand you body. I was there once and it is horrible. You just cannot see the bad cold person she really is. The best you could do is write a letter to the other guy telling him 'he is next on the list'... that could help you get even...

[@mikelkiparski638]

just use her wats the problem want to get married

[@jessikapiche6097]

Anyone wanting an open relationship is not serious about you, so if it is a serious relationship you want, get the hell away ! Don't even think twice, run!

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

Open relationship? You still want to bang the fat woman around the corner.

[@albertgunter640]

I'm a 65 y/o man...you are dead on...men need to learn to build their own lives and choose which woman they will share that life with.

[@toddjago3265]

Sadly, it's not about finding someone to share it with, it's more like which one do you want to sponsor... since i'm not an AA member, i'm not doing it.

[@brianbeltzner9879]

Don't share anything

[@mdm5216]

Every woman I've ever been with has had more partners than me and I've had my fair share.

[@mdm5216]

SteelerCell2K8 Agreed.

[@MatthewMaranell]

MD M ....you're actually not supposed to get into relationships with ladies of the night ....it's really hard to compete against professionals;) (Fun fact: the brothel in Deadwood SD was active and open until the early 1980s. It was technically illegal, but local authorities turned a blind eye. I'm in Deadwood as I right this, so it just kinda popped into my head. There's only gambling nowadays:(

[@theresamischeski71]

MD M Damm really?

[@user-sf6pi6my2b]

haha stop banging hookers bro

[@sylvia6474]

MD M so???

[@tims4694]

I am over 60, beyond dating age, but I will stress to you younger guys: watch this video over and over. Richard is exactly right about women.

[@MGTOWRising]

Women don't want men to know about MGTOW.

[@BoostedPastime]

MGTOW Rising Anytime I've mentioned it they don't bother me once they know what it is

[@XYZ-km9kg]

Too late. Cats out of the bag and there will be an anti-feminist revolution soon.

[@MatthewMaranell]

INTJ Jen ...agreed. ..Some of us fuck boys have a pretty good sense of humor about all this gender ridiculousness. Better to laugh than cry.

[@MatthewMaranell]

INTJ Jen ...I was referring to mgtow 101. He calls all his watchers "fuck boys"...it's kinda funny; )

[@MichaelBrown-re2hz]

MGTOW Rising Mgtow?

[@10223220]

In my 52 years I know more women that have cheated on men than men cheated on women.

[@agotapongor2069]

You really want that I believe this???

[@duderanch18237]

I've had four serious relationships (I'm 32)... three of my girlfriends cheated on me. Got red pilled at 30 (too late if you ask me, but better late than never). My current girlfriend wouldn't dare cheat on me... and if she does, oh well, piece of trash I didn't try much with anyways lol.

[@nofybn7794]

BS, then it is RARE. OR SHE CHEATING BECAUSE HE IS!!

[@nofybn7794]

@@duderanch18237 Sexist awful guy you are.

[@rickytan3483]

10223220 Did you bother to find how why?

[@Woolyshark]

5 reasons and truths experienced by myself, currently going through a divorce...

[@camman6912]

Woolyshark I to just finished a bad divorce Boy did she turn on me

[@FeonaLeeJones]

Coming from a women’s perspective, I can vouch for everything you’ve said. Not proud of these things either. Thank you tor speaking elephant 👏

[@FeonaLeeJones]

@Alpha Lion Its like women are incentivized to feel entitled with men to get what they want. Unless a woman has really examined herself (shadow aspects), I can vouch that this traits are very common with women. Most women are trying to see what they can get and how they can benefit by being with a man. I think it is a recent thing that women began to marry for love instead of it being a financial/support thing.

[@Victhemighty]

@@FeonaLeeJones women have never married for love ever, i don't think they're even capable of that since what they love is resources

[@FBi_.]

Ive been knowing this most woman i talk always end up telling me some dark personal things honestly i dont take it personal i always try to get to know the mom more cause how the mother is the daughter is

[@MegaAbgt]

You all disgusting

[@kristina4395]

​​@@Victhemighty i have 20 times more resources then him .. why would i need someones resource 😅 some women marry men that simply deserve them🦋

[@rvz77]

My father always told me this tip when I started dating. Don't marry a beautiful woman bc then you'll be miserable all your life. Marry a slightly 'less attractive' woman and you'll have a happy marriage. He always spoke in these parables. It means if you if you marry an attractive woman, you'll always be worrying if she's cheating, and trying hard to "keep her" attention. Asia premise, have the girl chase you and you'll have a happy marriage. I of course married a gorgeous woman and she divorced me after 5 years. Never once did she care to apologize or be sorry, took 90% of vacations with her gfs, no compassion etc. I now understand.

[@marklap1224]

@Skyly it's true with social media a 5 thinks she's a 8.

[@JoePedo]

Your father was right. Never marry a beautiful woman. There's just too many swinging dicks out there. You may be better than all of them some of the time, or some of them all of the time. But you'll never be better than all of them all of the time. Its only a matter of time before she sees one she likes better than you. Then you're doomed. She'll find a reason to divorce to you. She'll fabricate one if she has to, but it will happen.

[@joesoap8125]

I tend to agree with this and practice, but - better is good for a reason, because it's better. And if you don't challenge yourself constantly you are not doing the fundamental thing that makes you male and makes you more attractive - COMPETING! Being human is a constant process of curiosity, discovery, and survival - if we stop learning we cease to live and only exist. Rise to the challenge of living - just remember to never be afraid because there are always plenty more where she came from - and if you feel that way she will sense it - women just know when they have a guy who doesnt need her quite as much as she needs him.

[@MrHav1k]

@Skyly Exactly. Even the fatties get loads of attention from above average men. There's no easy way out of this.

[@-Gous-]

@Skyly because they can, and guys fuck everything they see, and that's why it has to stop finaly. Be a man and get your drives under control, it's about time.

[@markusorth5450]

All this stuff should be taught to our young men. I wish I knew any of this before age 49!

[@Kadaf1]

Take the term “I wish” out of your mindset , the fact is you know now . We all learn , adapt and grow over time.

[@aderkc4883]

Most of them don't listen to us , older experienced, men. They don't learn until it hits them really hard

[@VoiceOfThe]

Should be part of the school curriculum!

[@drapered7762]

I’m married for 20 years to an amazing lady. But before meeting her, I had my share of emotionally debilitating heartbreaks. Realizing that the quality of women are getting worse by the day, I am here for my son. And I am teaching him these things.

[@berkaydemirbas3841]

I am a Turkish Canadian who lives in Canada since the end of 2013. Now I am 25. My friends from both high school a d college would find this guy "sexist" This is how weak my generation is. Completely pusified

[@thatswhatuhad5098]

Completely right on point. They are always looking for the next upgrade, even if they Dont know it. Can't trust any woman. Its not your woman.... Its just your turn!! That's what I tell myself.

[@philrain6103]

Speed Racer factz

[@kingmaker1306]

Thats what U had cold facts

[@facelessandnameless]

True.

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

All of you listen up to this old fart. I was married for 51 years. She never cheated and yes up until she got sick we had sex. Take your time and look beyond her bust line. How does she keep herself, her place, and does she treat people well? Is she kind and generous. Is she honest and does she managed things well. Is she lovable.

[@ahcs2001]

@@harrymcnicholas9468 Thanks for a glimmer of hope in the comments... Are you/she religious?

[@BenDover-tb8ek]

Fathers undo the fairy tales our mothers told us. You owe it to your sons.

[@Brandflakes965]

If she's using you as a piggy bank, RUN. I can't stress this enough, a relationship should not be focused around material objects and money. Don't let yourself get played.

[@facebookmarket4209]

Firstly, as a nurse and I must say your veins are every nurses dream lol Another great video though and I completely agree with your 5 secrets! With respect to women losing interest in the men after X period of time, I very much believe that to be true, simply because it happened to me often. With age and with knowing my own behaviour and being willing to recognise reoccurring patterns,I decided to take ownership for my emotions and acknowledge that sometimes it is you and not them. When I feel as though I am heading down that sloop I swiftly make attempts to re-interest and re-orientate myself back to my parter, I believe that's what makes a successful relationship, a willingness to be VERY honest and upfront about your emotions and then find solutions either in solitude or in the confinement of your partner. Most women, and I can speak on behalf of my female friends, reach the downward slope phase and just slide the hell on out and onto the next Mr Grass is Greener. There are 2 type of people in life, those willing to work for something or someone and those always seeking the greener side :)

[@chrisn2125]

Those people who are looking for the greener grass will never find it. True happiness comes from within. It’s an extremely simple concept but it’s 100% accurate. That’s the problem and that’s what these people (men and women) don’t acknowledge. There will always be new and different problems around the corner. If you never stop to acknowledge them and do what’s right to fix them then you’re bound to continue making those same mistakes again and again and thus always chasing your happiness. Or thinking that someone else is supposed to provide you with the magic pill...it’s not up to that person, it’s your own responsibility. Take ownership, have integrity and treat others how you want to be treated.

[@partylee007]

“Or”, she is just bat shit crazy, so it’s time to go😀

[@jadanbolton4522]

Take away vibrators and chicks would hump anything.

[@KingKhan-123]

Your tricks are not working here.

[@jasonasdecker]

I have told people multiple times that love is about commitment, you have to decide to make it work. Unfortunately both sides have to believe and do this (Not lie about being committed).

[@Nastyfinger1444]

Most men need to be aware that they generally become more attractive as they age and the reverse is true for women. As for my first ex-wife, my mother and her friends all told me up front that I was too attractive for my fiancé and that they were shocked that I would lower my standards for beauty with a woman. Of course my comments were that I loved her. Of course, after my ex-wife tried to emasculate me over time this also came to my mind as to why I had so lowered my standards. After my divorce, and having watched my ex age over a period of over ten years, she is just butt ugly. I at this point often have women hitting on me and telling me how handsome and regal I am. Go figure.

[@whitneyw.7919]

Haha men don’t become more attractive as they age... at least past 35. That’s a fairytale men like to believe

[@whitneyw.7919]

@Lee van cleef [citation needed]

[@Nastyfinger1444]

Women age fast and poorly. That is why they use so much makeup. Men are naturally better looking as they age in general. Just a fact.

[@whitneyw.7919]

@@Nastyfinger1444 Citation please since it's a "fact"

[@whitneyw.7919]

@Lee van cleef The majority of men do as well. That's just as much of a "fact"

[@namonroe]

One thing that is driving me crazy: Since I hit forty years old I meet more and more women that are between 35 and 45 who are interested in something on the side. They are married and for some reason want to cheat. Crazy. At first I thought this was cool but I did not know these women are married. Now I do research. Some of these women are not what you would think as a cheater, they appear normal. I think their uterus is going end of life and they are looking for a last child by someone ...else. Sick. not sure what to do. I just make sure they are not married. One woman shared texts with their husband and passed him off as an a-hole. I read the texts and he was concerned about her distance and was wondering what was going on. Seemed like a good guy in my book. She ranted about what a pussy he was and he pissed her off. Made no sense. I ran from this harpy. Fuck that. Just sharing. I hope my experiences is not the norm. But it seems hell will be stacked high with women.

[@katherineelaine1500]

Nick Monroe It's both genders. I get asked out a lot from married men, some even lie and say they're separated or divorced. They just want to have their cake and eat it too.

[@MatthewMaranell]

Nick Monroe ... there's many more women doing this because if they do get caught it's no real loss for them. They will still most likely get the kids and half the assets, so there's no fear of loss, or fear of being shamed for their unethical behavior. Was hanging out with a girl a couple weeks ago who's fiancé called worried about her after he got home to there 2 little kids at 3am after working his night shift. She tried to paint him as an asshole for trying to tell her what to do. I said "yeah, he works all night while you party it up all night with random guys, the nerve of that guy being concerned about you, what a dick"....she sensed my sarcasm. Where there is no accountability, there is no responsibility. Modern women have no accountability for their shitty behavior, because sadly there's enough thirsty guys constantly pandering to them that they truly feel they're entitled to continue behaving like entitled little shits. Part of me wonders if maybe hate fucking them and then verbally assaulting them after for being such ungrateful, disloyal, slutty whores would possibly make them appreciate their husbands more, but sadly it'd probably just make them come back and want more;) Bitches be crazy!!

[@katherineelaine1500]

Matthew Maranell Well, maybe the scales are finally even. Men have been playing around on their wives for heck of a long time and still do. I get asked out a lot by married men at work. It really pisses me off. I even had to go to HR to get these little shits away from me. So even though the men have consequences they don't seem to give a damn.

[@katherineelaine1500]

Matthew Maranell If I'm ever in Minneapolis we will meet up. You're one of the good guys. You've just been bumping into the wrong people. Also, you're part Italian like me. You get extra points for that one. :)

[@edwinoseruvwoja9268]

Nick Monroe IA

[@karlbuttler]

Number Four; Baby making machines, you gotta have some pretty fancy plumage to keep a girl around, & i just don't have the energy for it any more, it seems all the ladies iv'e met in the past few years, anything sets them off; screw it, i'm learning how to be happy with my self..

[@1keykneedeep]

Karl Buttler #1 - Always protect your heart and never give them 100% of urself. #2 - Get everything you can from them sexually, financially, and emotionally. #3- Decipher when the relationship is no longer useful or becoming too much work and know its time to move on. Leave all the emotional baggage at the door and start as a new man.

[@adamrichards2072]

1keykneedeep sounds healthy lol.

[@kuunami]

1keykneedeep I made the mistake of giving my heart to a woman and a year after the breakup I'm still struggling to get over it. I won't make that mistake ever again. Always have one foot out the door when it comes to women. The second you go "all in" with them, you're fucked.

[@jlc7300]

A while back I started a new job and my work partner was a young pretty mixed race girl, she had kids but said she was single and needed this job and didn't want to mess with any of the guys there. So I talked polite with her and didn't flirt. 3 weeks later she went to a different shift and one of my friends from that shift calls me from her house, I said what are you doing there, he said what do you think! So much for not messin with any of the guys.

[@MidNightFreakOZ]

Dude that what they all do. I hawe a bestie for some 5 years and last summer she split up whit her bf for cheating on him! I was at sea working 6 months away and after she split up i got an chance to go ashore for 3 days wanted to meet her and mabey hawe some fun whit her, she was also down whit that, we had agreed to meet first thing Im home. Guess what happened when I got home on the first night. I meet her dressed like a slut whit some random dude she knew for like 3 days and acting like am bareley ewen there next to her ofcourse she fckd him that night and left me hanging! Then she hit the wall cuz the guy just forgot about her after walking outta door and after like always she comes crawling back to me telling me how it hurts and she feels bad, but after that I didnt feel nor view her like I did before so that kinda ended it all cuz I just didnt give a shit anymore :) Newer take it hard bro or think your at fault its just them not ewer using their heads and when they get some connection finally its "already too late." Say that next time this happens to you and head up high walk away fuck it!!!

[@Bella-Mae0422]

@@MidNightFreakOZ yeah I've seen alot of women act like assholes like this. They love you as long as they can use you, but once they think they can do better they start treating you like you never really mattered. They'll tell you enough to keep you around, they still want to be "friends" in case they need a 'back up' later. In case their other relationship fails. My friend was dating his gf for almost 3 years, she cheated on him twice and he forgave her bc she "admitted" to them. But then one day randomly breaks up with him saying she wasn't happy anymore. She said she needed to "work on herself" and they remained FwB since she was the only vagina he was getting and she promised him they were gonna work on their relationship to find out later she'd been monkey branching and sleeping with a bunch of other dudes, whenever he confronted her for it she always had an excuse for her actions and lies. Plus whenever we were around her she'd always eyeball my fiance, making him uncomfortable. Making it so obvious, just being disrespectful. So young, yet so stupid. She wanted to apparently get back together with him but he couldn't trust her anymore and she failed to meet her expectations so she started dating a new dude she tried to pull the whole "but.. I still wanna be friends" card. He told her no and blocked her and kept her blocked ever since. It's been about 8 months now since she's been with this dude and she's always positng how much she loves him and wants to be with him forever yet still tries to text my friend at random #'s asking him to unblock her, and that she still loves him and wants to smoke and chill with him again. He asked me what it meant and I told him "her boyfriend isn't making her happy obviously so she wants you as her back up". He agreed and still isn't talking to her. I'm ashamed what my gender has let themselves become. It's manipulative, and sad.

[@DREDDWORLD]

This is so true then when they think they have upgraded and realized it was a joke, they want to be your friend again.

[@Bella-Mae0422]

They make you think they want to be your friend, but really they just tell you what you want to hear so they can get what they want out of you. They realize the grass actually wasn't greener after all and now need YOU as their crutch. And when the guy caves in they'll give him enough bait to keep him around until they find "better" again then they'll break his heart AGAIN and expect him to understand. I was already with my boyfriend for 4 years at the time and his ex gf randomly hits him up after not talking since we've been together thinking he's gonna drop me for her or cheat on me with her just bc she wasn't happy with her boyfriend anymore who she was living with at the time, and thought her ex who is now my man thinking he's gonna be her back up. He blocked her. And shortly after he blocked her she met another dude after she left her boyfriend and got knocked up. I swear girls waste no time. I can't monkey branch like that. I don't get it. I wouldn't be surprised now that we're in our late 20's and she isn't as pretty as she use to be and started running out of options I wouldn't be surprised if she was attempting to trap my boyfriend that way he could never leave her completely again considering how shortly she got pregnant afterwards and with a dude who was also in the pic while she was living with her boyfriend. They always have back ups whether he's just a friend or apart of the family. They never leave the relationship empty handed, they always have guys lined up so they don't have to face their break up alone. Selfish bitches.

[@Control-Max]

Relationships are so complicated, why even bother anymore? People get in relationships to fit in society standards anyway. All those problems make you wonder if humans are made to be in a relationship.

[@jasonromes1619]

Control Room Wow this comment really made me think. Thank you

[@edwinmannaandthelearningch4450]

Control Room they not complicated bitches aint shit

[@rudyquezada7088]

Good , on basic percentages, makes sense.. Im 49 n been married 3 times. Get bored really quick , i only date women in there 20's , im not rich or nothing , i dont even own a vehicle.. I just do the best i can, if not then oh well..at 40 you can sense if a female is into you .. Time spent, sexually, financially, meeting friends/family..

[@Guard385]

Very well spoken! I think that humans are meant to be in relationships, however in this day and age of unrestrained entitlement it seems that humans simply refuse to grow up

[@Ayryvyl]

Control Room Generalization is pretty dangerous. Relationships aren't complicated for everyone and neither does everyone have a relationship because they want to fit in.

[@heatherstjohn3115]

I wish I'd come across this site years ago....my mate was brought to the brink of suicide with his wife of 20years which nearly broke him. Your common sense and truthfulness is spot on and I hope it reaches the men that need you

[@RTFLDGR]

" desire tanks in women right after marriage" That was my experience. I dated my first wife for 6 years during the college days and shortly thereafter. She chased me hard and hung on tight, mostly because I was going to be a doctor. Within two years after we got married, she had her first affair. She got pregnant and didn't know who the father was. She kept that secret from me. I demanded a paternity test for our first child to determine who the father really was. Her pregnancy was stressful and difficult for her. Now I know why.

[@philhelm1318]

Damn. Were you the father?

[@page.crow.chiron]

@@philhelm1318 yes

[@supers0nic77]

​@@philhelm1318No

[@BulldogMindsetArchive]

Good video Richard. Agree with these. Nothing to be bitter about, but important knowledge to have.

[@danielvibez4000]

"Nothing" right? Itsjust natural eh

[@calebncontreras-117]

I'm bitter as fuck.

[@BrooklynboyO2]

Caleb Contreras every man who gets red-pilled is gonna have a bitter phase. It’ll pass

[@thamsanqajamella8022]

John, what are you doing here? 😂😂😂😂

[@jleezy259]

Why does your logo look like a pentagram ? Coincidence?

[@raghuveer4552]

My gf of 4 years who I was gonna put a ring on this year dumped me for a guy she met just a few weeks ago. She said it wasn't bout other guys, but went and banged him the very day she dropped me and told me he was much better than I am at everything Never in my wildest dreams did I see that coming. I did everything in my power to keep her happy. She always insisted on marriage. And out of no where she turned around and said she was seeing other guy and can't marry me And the worst part of it is, she gave me herpes Now I feel too tired and too old to get back into the dating game

[@breakingthemasks]

Holy fuck dude. 👀👀 That's rough! I mean,... Damn.

[@robyngraham7130]

Good old Stanley

[@chad5617]

Don't worry about the Herp, its not a big deal. It is a skin virus from the same family as chicken pox. 8 out of 10 people who have it don't even know they have it. I have HSV1 for about 6 or 7 years before I realized it. As for her, she did you a favor. Its better to be the guy getting monkey branched from then the guy getting monkey branched to. How would you feel if you started dating a girl and she cold heartedly dropped the last guy for absolutely no reason other than the fact she was bored? If she does it once, she will do it again.

[@FührerEagle-ok5px]

That is why you shouldn't ever give a chance to promiscuous people. They have highest potential of leaving you for someone and leave with an ugly painful scar of STD or HIV AIDS.

[@robgoren8628]

A woman would rather die alone surrounded by cats than die with a poor mate at her bedside. That's the stain of a failed woman. Let that one sink in.

[@beetleything1864]

Bridget Bardot.

[@robgoren8628]

Beetleything I believe it was Lana Turner. "A successful man is one who makes more money than his wife can spend. A successful woman is one who can find and hold onto this man." But I'm sure Bridget Bardot agreed.

[@MojiMikato]

Soul searching with Stina you are really trying hard to enslave our minds, sex object. We are awake now. And in the future you will be nothing more than sex objects and food preparers for men. Fuck your existence.

[@A100Aic]

Robgoren why would you want someone you dont? Women are independent. And some are content with ones own company

[@harrymcnicholas9468]

Why would a yone want some useless lardbutt hanging around?

[@katherinekelly6432]

It really depends on the woman.Women do not need sex as much as men but the woman that NEEDS sex will approach sex more like a man. She will have a sexual hunger as intense as any mans sexual lust and she will not be satisfied by any one man.A woman will fear the man that can make her sexually dependent on him because he is able to give her sexually and emotionally that which other men have not been able to. A woman that uses her body/beauty to pull a man into here sphere of influence (uses her body like a tool) will be calculating and often predatory with lose morals. Understanding a woman's relationship to her own body is critical in understanding how she relates to men and sex. A woman that can not tolerate "not being in a relationship" will have a relationship in place before she leaves the other one.A woman that sees men as walking wallets will have a relationship with his wallet and will not see him as anything beyond this.A woman who feels safe in a mans arms will look for the man that makes her feel safe.Most women feel inadequate to men and this is why they often are combative, argumentative and stubborn for irrational reasons. The constant feeling of feeling "less than" makes them competitive and conceited. They act like they are everything because they feel like nothing on the inside. This is particularly true for attractive women who believe their only value is from their appearance. The inverse is the obese woman who acts like every man wants her. They do but only because she is easy and she knows it is only the easy sex and not really her that they want. The more she allows men to use her the more worthless she feels and the more superior she acts.Women act cold and superior when they are afraid. Western women have been indoctrinated into believing men are dangerous to a degree far in excess of the reality. They are so afraid of being used that they are sexually aggressive to control who uses who. They fuck men over before men can fuck them over. Dating/sex is war for these women. Most of what women do that appears irrational is a defense mechanism to protect her fragile ego. They are reacting to deep feelings of worthlessness.Western women have been taught that to be crude and rude proves how liberated (cool/hip) they are. Most women are simply echoes of the current culture. They swallow it (absorb it) and than vomit it back out (act out/mirror). They are obsessed with appearing as individuals but are to afraid to leave the herd to truly become an individual. Only the woman who is a true loner becomes a fully self actualized human being. These women tend to have a masculine energy.Feminism and women's liberation has taken from women her true power leaving her feeling like a constant failure and she blames everything except feminism and women's liberation for it, particularly men. Todays woman is trying to be equal to men by becoming like men and they hate men when they are not able to be his equal because they have been taught men are to blame for this. Women refuse to accept the limits that come with being a woman and this is causing self hate projected as hate (blame) onto menSmart women completely reject current western cultures values. Some men call them red pill women but they are simply women who see what the last seventy years have cost women and they want no part of its corrupting influences.

[@VaIIark]

Every time I read your comments I think about things that I haven't thought about before. Thank you for your point of view.

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

I would say that TRUE western women are the best. But the women you describe are not of true western value.

[@katherinekelly6432]

The intelligentsia have created what women currently are. Women are a product of social engineering because they are more likely to embrace whatever cultural values they are born into. The intelligentsia use women to disseminate their message because biologically women are natural Marxists, socialist, communists. Women are very attracted to collectivist structures because they see these structures as giving them protection. The TRUE western women found this protection through the men they aligned themselves with but increasingly they are replacing men with the state. Women have adopted the values of the ghetto because of the state. The state has corrupted women because women are easily corruptible by their natural inclination to mirror whatever values the current culture embraces. Women are being blamed for what they have become but the true blame falls onto the intelligentsia. Women are natural followers because they are hyper sensitive to their own survival as individuals who find safety in the collective (herd) Women are risk adverse to a degree far in excess of men. Risk adverse people want the guarantees of socialism. The true enemy of men is not women but the states influence on women as the political culture created by the intelligentsia. Feminism was created by the intelligentsia to serve them, not women but sold to women as "Equality" and "Civil Rights" Look at what the state " as civil rights" has done to the black family to understand the devastating effects socialism has on peoples morals. The state using the products of the intelligentsia have corrupted western civilization in general but women in particular. Trickle down theory but with ideas instead of money. Make people think they are victims and than offer to rescue (protect/ fight for) them is how socialism sells its ideology. This morally weakens them and cements their dependence on the state. Socialism creates infantilized adults who remain egocentric, neurotic and suffering from the existential nihilism that their anxiety keeps them trapped in. The child is trapped in all the fears and traumas of childhood as "Victim" This is why so many men increasingly experience women as overgrown self absorbed children. Feminism feeds the ego of women as both victim and powerful, creating cognitive dissonance that results in hate of men and dependence on outside power structures.

[@tremblay236]

Katherine is a man. Just kidding. I like the way you think. :)

[@sydneemikumuren9812]

+Katherine Kelly Wow, your comment was really interesting to read. hands down best comment. Really well thought out and brings up a lot of important things to acknowledge as well. I have such a hard time trying to figure out exactly why women are currently acting the way they do. As a female, I'd think I'd be able to see their point of to SOME extent but I just can't wrap my head around the most common behavior at all. And yet you summed it up just about perfectly.

[@jonbishop5726]

I ended a LTR relationship, thanks to my knowledge and gut instinct. She asked if i have another women in my life. I said no I'd rather be alone. She mentioned she went to talk to a counselor that very week. Her dad passed away in June and was going through grief. In that regard I show my sympathy. But if she's using grief as clout to jerk me around, monkey branching etc then sayonara

[@YouShookItThreeTimes]

same it's strange if a guy does it why is it shocking when women do it all the time??? I don't have someone else , I just wanted out

[@jeffmoss118]

Why would any man want to be in an LTR after coming to this realization?

[@Kingiron88]

To have a good time with a woman. Imagine you hadnt found those videos and had a relationship with a woman.

[@mrk19901]

Only for my son i would LTR a women otgerwise no fucking way haha

[@Solomonsochill]

Roc Marci profile pic....Nice!!!!

[@janchovanec8624]

What's LTR?

[@PalashaGabarra]

Trigger Warning The minimum age should be raised to 25 in my opinion, only men who own property, if they served in the military they don't have to own property, and there should be some simple tests to make sure they at least have a basic understanding of what is going on, what each candidate stands for, shit like that, to weed out low information and/or single issue voters. That would be ideal for me. No women though, at all. They also wouldn't be allowed to serve in the military in my perfect society.

[@robgoren8628]

A woman had the courtesy of doing a video response to this video. Regarding #2 (hypergamy doesn't care about relationship equity), she said that "women do not even know that this bank account exists." This is very, very important for all men to understand. Again, it is #2 that completely baffles men, because it's so antithetical to male nature.

[@jab7168]

Because they have no honor.

[@eurograterol1824]

I highly believe all of this! I think the solution to this problem is 1- self improvement why? Because when you are better off in all areas chances are you will be happy no matter who is around you, 2- self improvement 3 self improvement 4- Learn and accept life cycles on everything learn that everything has a beginning a development and an end 5- on every relationship enter it with purpose, wether to have children, companionship, or fulfillment but always always maintain your identity in all ways and maintain your sanity and your freedom which means dont get attached to nobody, love , serve, forgive, learn but never get into the game of attachment always maintain your mind knowing where you were before and came from and where you are going, because when time comes and it ends, the pain will be a lot less

[@SouthSideChiTown]

"Why don't men want to commit anymore?" I should send them the link to this video..... It does nothing but waste time and resources for a man to get involved with a woman and her to do list nowadays.

[@YourUpstairsNeighbor]

Best advice on women: -Constantly improve yourself (nobody wants to date a loser) -Don't be naive or think they are perfect

[@Harpazo24]

I’ve gone with the following: - Don’t date anybody that is below me I’ll be single the rest of my life and I’m fine with it.

[@richw8186]

Great vid, learned about these lessons in my 30s and now in my 50s I am happy healthy and life is grand!

[@veeoby3364]

Rich w And lonely... sucks but you're in denial

[@mariovillegas9920]

My man you are a GENIUS. I'm 34 and i was married for 11 years with three beautiful kids and everything you've been saying is soooo true. I can understand why some people get emotional over these topics. But people like me who KNOW what relationships are like can relate so mich with everything you say. I ended my marriage and started dating a gorgeous woman and the boredom like you said started QUICKLY. She loved me a lot but I could clearly see there was no future and had to end it also. Now I gotta move on to the next best thing😅

[@Bossix84]

I get bored after 2-3 weeks of relationship no matter what woman I had. I just need to move on and it works well ;)

[@bluetickfreddy101]

Smart dude nice to hear someone validate my life’s experiences. Very entertaining.

[@ava-if8xc]

I am a woman and I have seen so many my girl friends yhey cheat their partnres and still yhey blame their bf and also so many guys do the same thing.......better to remain single and happy😂😂😂😂 Sorry for my english

[@leeproffitt69]

you did fine

[@captainsnarky6949]

As the owner/operator of a one-man business (trucking) I personally get tons of value from what you offer on your channel. In addition, the value I get from your material on intersexual dynamics and a healthy mental approach to money is absolutely invaluable and serves me well. Thanks for what you do. Cheers!

[@chelsatabithavalley6685]

I really like you. You are the only person I know at this moment who has address the women and men as equals in our behavior. You have earned my attention and respect!

[@PointWithin]

I’m reading your book and it’s definitely filled with the uncomfortable truths that I’ve needed to face and accept. That’s how I know it’s true. Thanks so much for what you do. It matters.

[@MrSimbah]

I just found this guy. Better late than never I guess. What's the name of the book?

[@davishlamburnt3734]

When I was 24 I was in a relationship with a gorgeous blonde and we had sex 4 to 5 times a day for over a year but I grew tired of it. When I went to end it the girl just fell apart and of all things she said "I never cheated on you!". I blamed myself for that for years but it always sounded strange.

[@drexler2031]

That was a good one brother 😂

[@Bugumir]

Hmm... it's easier to get over not having success with the ladies when you read and hear about the tragedies that befall those who do...

[@JEFFMAN90]

Bugumir Yup I agree. I admit I suck with women but after watching videos like this, I don't feel so bad anymore. I have a lot of female friends and most of them like to use guys for money and lead them on thinking that they're gonna end up in a relationship.

[@ShizSmitty]

Women don't need men for anything and we don't need them for anything. Once you come to terms with that you can try to enjoy what you can have together. Just don't get used for money and don't settle.

[@lordescanor8232]

@@ShizSmitty You forgot pussy

[@JohnSmith-so6to]

An older man told me once that if you put a bean in a jar every time you have sex the first year of marriage, and then take one out every time after that, you will never empty the jar.

[@wardluth4106]

In my 22yrs of marriage I've found you have to keep the "uncertainty" level up. You know when everything is all calm & serine, that's when you got to go into a little rage, declare "fudge it, we're doing.." get a little cave man, don't be abusive. But women love the whiff of danger, it's my wife that start's the play fight, just like the girl hitting you in the school yard. They get an endorphin rush when they know their mates are upset.

[@ryanhousley3157]

Can you elaborate more on this. This seems very interesting.

[@breakingthemasks]

Makes sense based on other videos. Makes me think of the pua "push pull" techniques. Women like intense emotional feelings. Like roller coasters. So the emotion could be joy or fear... But any intense emotion will make them focus on you. So one minute yours lovey dovet and sweet... And they you grab your wife by the hair, pull her head back, kiss her neck... And whisper in her ear that you are going to have your way with her tonight .. etc. That kind of emotional seesawing tends to create arousal and attraction. And it taps into the very common domination themes in the female mind. At least... That's how I read it.

[@jambajoby32]

@@breakingthemasks crazy bitches lol Just be cool for a little bit

[@downwithtrudeau]

this sounds like good reason for mgtow

[@MyAirsofter]

I think this is related to point #1, but one time I was on a date with this gal from tinder, and her friend was there who was supposed to have a guy meet her at the place we were at- so a double date. He cancelled and within 45 minutes a different dude met her there. He introduced himself to all of us, including the friend that invited him. I almost laughed out loud! Only took her a few minutes to wrangle up a date lol!

[@karrielynn4355]

Tony J. You sound envious ?

[@MyAirsofter]

Only a little bit hahaha!

[@michaell8957]

Tony J. They all sneaky💢💯

[@peterstrom9618]

I have a female friend who told me that for years, when she was in her 20’s, whenever she was ovulating, would go out on the town looking for men to sleep with. Not sure if she would do this when she was in a relationship, but it just proves that women are definitely more promiscuous around when they are ovulating.

[@kriskirby1387]

gave up on women 12 yrs ago, after two long term whatevers. never again, never happier. thanks for reassurance.

[@ZRayTheBosS]

I had to go MGTOW

[@10223220]

From my experience I know more women that cheat than men cheat👍

[@carolinelynch2823]

I would never cheat. Only average looking woman. No man would want any average looking girl

[@BrotherReubens]

@Caroline-No sane man would ever believe that a woman would never cheat. We might pretend we believe you but just playing along

[@carolinelynch2823]

@@BrotherReubens I would never do such a thing. Definitely not me.

[@felix64able]

LOL!! the last one about ovulating reminded me of an incedent at work about 7 years ago, a female co-worker who was in a relationship with another guy told me out of the blues, she's walking by me and blurts out with a smile "I'm ovulating" never gonna forget that!!

[@gatomanchas6816]

gato felix hi cousin

[@felix64able]

Hi cuz!

[@zakcooper08]

I listened to a podcast called self made man with you as a guest. Having recently divorced, I was looking for answers and found them with that podcast. It seriously changed my life.. I was in that relationship for 8 yrs and all of a sudden I’m single and didn’t know what the hell to do. I started alpha and was absolutely beta at the end. I was doing all the housework, taking care of the kid and it was a fucking joke. She wasn’t happy with my efforts so I moved out immediately. Thank you for being such a great advocate for men like me. I will absolutely continue to learn from you and others like you. I’m learning how to be an alpha again and it feels great. Thanks again. Keep up the good work!

[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Thx

[@StoneCrow189]

I would like to know if you have dated any millennial women, and if you have, how they compare with baby boomer and gen x women. Provide details of your experiences!

[@NaturalBeautyGlow]

Alvar Harkonen yes!!

millennial women? isn't that the generation that takes women's studies seriously? and in that case, how can you take a woman like that seriously?

[@jwigley3835]

AWALT

[@MatthewMaranell]

Alvar Harkonen ...I was seeing a younger woman who I didn't know came from money. She was fun, yet a little OCD & moody at times. Quite nieve as well (most young people are though). I sometimes think rich kids grow up in this entitled bubble that keeps them from properly learning how to empathize with others. Have also learned that vegan chicks can be extremely difficult people to be around for long periods of time...haven't met a sane one yet, but I'm keeping my fingers crossed! (especially if she knew how to cook...I would have no problem being vegan/flexitarian if I found a modern vegan women that actually knew how to cook) There's really no use in trying to describe an entire generations qualities though, because everyone is different and has been raised differently. I do however think a lot of the younger generations have gotten a little spoiled when it comes to life, mostly from the modern luxuries that previous generations never had... but that goes for both genders. Best advice is to try and find people who you share similar interests with, and to grow from there. Age really isn't all that important if/when you connect with someone, especially if you share multiple interests.

[@the80386]

^ Doctor Detroit - same, all the same

[@gunofapreacherman1340]

In my experience, women feather their second nest before leaving the first. The juice is not worth the squeeze.

[@user-FM1]

So true !

[@gunofapreacherman1340]

FM I’m sorry that you’ve experienced this too. It’s an extremely bitter pill to take.

[@TheQuarterbackX]

Wow, women initiate 70-80 of the divorces. I never really though much of it. Just only a bit. I guess marriage is like dating a guy. They seem to do 99% of the break up and moving on with the next. All the while trying to make us feel as if we are the bad guy all the time .

[@Kwan4132]

Quarterback x There's no personal accountability and responsibility at any level.

[@TheQuarterbackX]

Well how can there be accountability when blind fools see it but still want to feel girls are the victim while they are victimizing others?

[@Kwan4132]

Quarterback x I'm saying women never take accountability and responsibility for anything that goes wrong.

[@workingshlub8861]

woman are always saying men cannot commit right? that is just them projecting on men cause they file 80% of divorces...all bullshit

[@agotapongor2069]

Did you ever get marry? You have no idea how the marriage looks like.

[@teo1995ify]

hi dude.. I was with a girl for a year or so (broke up with her two years ago) i saw a message on her phone from a guy who was saved as (Name) college and she kept saying it was college stuff but the message was a wee bit too personal and when i confronted her about it the first thing she said was " I didn't't cheat on you" so yes she was spinning multiple plates

[@Resabuka]

I'm a young lady(21) and I've recently started learning about all this and you make a lot sense. I do think unicorn exist( very few). Thanks for the video. Yeah the whole "protecting themselves" thing hit home🙈

[@whata86]

I too can attest to dating a woman and spending time with her and her phone is constantly going off with notifications . I’ve found most women who are single will generally talk to a large amount of men. Much more then men who talk to women. Especially today’s younger generation with tinder and other dating apps.

[@stevenswan4686]

It's all very depressingly true. If you can remove attachment then you remove their power.

[@schmocki22]

married almost 13 years. i was the faithful one. i was the one keeping it together even though she swears she was the one. she's the one that cheated. i was the one that didn't leave after she cheated, her verbally abusive language towards me and even my kids, and her wild spending that I'm still digging myself out of... until, one day i woke up and said i had enough. i started changing physically and emotionally. i started moving away from the beta blue pill little by little and she it only made her hate me more. resentment! she had tested her sexual market value many times and she wasn't finding the man above me to leave me for. I see that now today. after a while i was basically forced to leave, making her the victim, and me the asshole. I'm a happy dude these days!

[@Sun-for-man]

I tell all my married friends the easiest why to sleep with a married women is to not be the guy married to her!!!! When your out looking for a one nightstand it's easier to find the one with the ring and without the man!!!

[@jezz2k]

I'm going to assume that you meant "easiest way" instead of "easiest why". Women is the plural of woman. You can't say "a married women".

[@halbertgonzalez1593]

yes sir, true that !!

[@jezz2k]

In the UK, Jez is short for Jeremy. I'm a dude.

[@Crambull]

That's kinda fucked up if you were to actual engage in that.

[@raven2114]

Yes !!! ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT !!!

[@carolinem.7543]

i think a big problem between men and women understanding each other in dating/ relationships is that we have those (rather subconscious ) images of an all-time horny man whose mind spins around sex, best with multiple women, who doesnt want or need a close emotional relationship, and a woman that doesnt sleep around and look for her one prince and falls for him completely. Both assumptions are very wrong and they lead to those "secrets" you talked about and also to specific behaviour of men and women due to those opinions about the other. at least thats what i learned so far, thats the impression i get

[@nerychristian]

Actually old poetry and old Hollywood movies are correct. A man truly wants to be the hero, the protector, admired and respected by a beautiful woman. But that is becoming increasingly difficult, as women are becoming more picky and materialistic. But then again, I think women have always been that way. It's just that literature and poetry places women on a pedestal.

[@nateconnelly]

5 secrets about women men don't much care to even learn about anymore. 😂

[@trumetalheadonmauiey9715]

The number of guys they been with, her medical status, I,e, stds, pregnancies, abortions if any.Her job status/net worth, her Instagram and Facebook posts.And any guys in another part of town she goes to see.Anything else?

[@jessikapiche6097]

lol, that's what i call 'trust'. lol

[@huberfloover]

It's funny...when he mentioned women "marrying up", I immediately thought of Britney Spears, Jennifer Lopez, and a few other megastar celebrity women who went so far as to marry their backup dancers...lol! Then I thought of the type 2's who "married up', and after a sex scandal stood on the podium next to the cheating husband while he gave a press conference and apologized for whatever happened. Then there's the type drawn to the criminal element, and the type drawn to the abusive element. And that's for starters.....

[@mmhthree]

Back in the old days, women were pregnant constantly, I wonder what happens to women when that is not the case... I've done some genealogy, and some of my great grandmothers had 10-15 kids, and were busy as hell raising them afterwards. I bet that has changed things tremendously in this new age of 1-2 kids.

[@fajarsutrisno834]

I was married for 12 years. And divorced. This video is one of the reason I will never going to marry again. Can anybody change my mind, maybe? or am I'm on the right track?

[@bobbobo6405]

Friend zone a girl before she does me... Lady's like to go against a guy's decision and they don't like that once you chose they don't get to.

[@Marc_Masters]

Unicorns do not exist.

[@zackknoll1615]

How do you know?

[@jezz2k]

Zero proof. Until proof exists, unicorns will remain the mythical creatures they are.

[@salsaqueen4911]

Mark Masters I am a unicorn on my own for 12 yrs oh yea my dad didn't want me to get married and taught me to get my own and have my own without depending on a man. By the way I never received neither spousal nor child support ever. Not fair to the children but their's a God.

[@salsaqueen4911]

You sir do not know me, listen to the speaker closely.

[@hennieferreira4223]

Unicorn in the bible is actually rhino go read carefully

[@royadair1402]

Today's Society and Technology have changed the way men and women think. Both Men and Women are influenced by magazines, media , television and the internet. Im thinking and wondering if we didnt have these things that Society as a whole , Commitments and relationships may be different? 🤔 We should not just address the problem but look for a Solution.

[@alkirk1865]

or just let society crash and burn,and then work on building a better one from the ruins.i choose option b.

[@ahmedhashmi3584]

Al Kirk option b is better, or else we’ll see stupid endless talking points from women that “men want to control women with an outdated book of law from a god”, and that it’s “ my body, my choice” bs...

[@vivek36100]

the dislikes adds to how accurate these 5 rules are

[@thediddler]

A chick once told me. A woman that asks for nothing DESERVES everything

[@jwigley3835]

haha

[@dennisadler9299]

Hi! Did think i was red pill until my girlfriend dumped me. 6 days before my birthday, 30 years ;) Never saw that one coming.. But I didn't die, as I thought. It just opened my eyes to that the red pill is in everything.. I am happy for it and no hate to woman, just need to open my eyes. This is a problem in Sweden. Feminism and shit. Need your advice on how to man up in this word

[@VideoDreamer]

Swedish women have a new problem to occupy themselves with now that large numbers of 'conservative' guests have arrived in your country. Their days of rampant toxic feminism might very well be coming to an end. Pity.