How Do I Find Better Women?

Ever asked, where are the quality women? Or, how do I find a better woman? We take a request on that topic in this video
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[@EntrepreneursInCars]

Thoughts on this video or any personal experiences dealing with this? Post a comment below. Channel Sponsor: You're showering anyways, so why not buy handmade soap from a sponsor that supports the creation of my content. Use code "COOPER" at checkout and Get 10% off Tactical Soap mentioned at the end of the video here: bit.ly/2jQEZbz If you want to join us at the 21 convention this fall, you can grab a ticket here: team.21university.com/78641/6171 Make a reach.me request: www.reach.me/RichardCooper Get 1 on 1 coaching with me: clarity.fm/richardcooper Join my private mens community & get perks: www.entrepreneursincars.com/community/

[@BraveFart69]

Entrepreneurs in Cars after the age of 25 its nearly impossible to find a good woman. The choices basically revolve around dealing with immaturity and growing together or complete jaded shit bags in denial. One major take away. Woman that are older have honed in their "game" of projection and can jail your mind if you're not sharp enough to deal with her bull shit. Tread lightly guys...

[@MrLinkai]

Entrepreneurs in Cars Great video yet again. But why would you be concerned about a guy "checking out"? What I got from it was that he is enjoying hobbies /selfdeveloping.

[@spacetime6342]

Entrepreneurs in Cars Nowhere

[@dontewalker6919]

I'm only 20 but I would suggest that he should retire and travel the world and he could potentially find a new business to grow in another country

[@davidmalonecaulfield722]

So glad I found this channel the advice helps alot

[@Iceman-xe7jo]

He who cares the least has the most power.

[@naleparyan]

Replace "He who" with "whomever"

[@jc918a-32]

Whomever loves the most has the less power

[@iron-farmer]

He who doesn't care at all gets to keep pounding it. Sad but true. Fn weird

[@Chesterd2]

Truth!

[@rstelzer2928]

The way I explained it to my daughter in high school: I took her to a teeter totter and asked her, if you want to in control what do you do on this teeter totter? She said you back away from him and keep HIM up in the air. Smart girl.

[@placebo5466]

Quote from my father. "You will never lose women chasing money. But, you will always lose money chasing women."

[@KelAda44]

That's the one I was trying to remember

[@wisconsinlonnie4143]

Smart Man.

[@johannesswillery5146]

I wish he had been my father.........

[@stevenjustice8258]

So true!

[@johannes7434]

I believe that is from Biggie though

[@locomoco2012]

Guys, woman are just not worth it. Focus on yourself: gym, eat healthy, dress well, travel if you can, sleep well, and meditate.

[@sabrina.h2737]

Somewhere out there, there is a woman worthy of your affection. When you feel disenchanted with people just remember that you are a good person so there must be other good people out there.

[@locomoco2012]

@@sabrina.h2737 someone out there WILL WIN THE POWERBALL. Just remember that someone will win the lottery, mega bucks.

[@sabrina.h2737]

locomoco2012 Yes they do.

[@locomoco2012]

@@sabrina.h2737 I don't understand you "yes they do"

[@sabrina.h2737]

locomoco2012 Someone always wins the lottery. I don't know you so I don't know what happened to put you off women and I don't need to know as that's your personal story. I just want you to know that not all women are bad. Not everyone wins the lottery but those who don't even try to well they are guaranteed to lose.

[@justindorsheimer4857]

I agree with everything you said in this video. He needs to find motivation outside of female validation, which is really challenging, especially if that's been the driving factor for most of his life's success. Although he understands how women operate, he still needs to reframe his mind to see excellence as improving his own life, rather than attaining the best mate.

[@thelonestarpelican9343]

Justin Dorsheimer Even for the sexually unsuccessful, it's still very true that a lot of people are brainwashed by the media, peer group, "hottest" girls (or even average girls in his area),etc. to think that "If you're not getting laid, then you aren't worth the gum that sticks to your shoes". This drives 90% of this issue, not to mention InCel (TM) frustration. A good way to find motivation outside of female validation is to hit "rewind" in his memory - recalling a time BEFORE he got interested in girls (usually pre-5th grade). Think about what his biggest hobbies and interests in, that he read or watched without worrying about whether girls (or the "cool guys") liked it. Then pursue that interest deeply and passionately! It's amazing how much bullshit that clears from your mind so quickly. Then, he can read a lot about critical thinking skills, logical fallacies, etc. It worked for me, at least.

[@caspa7]

Not trying to ruin your red pill parade here but to me this sounds like man vs nature rather than man vs woman. You can't just throw millions of years of evolution aboard just because you deluded yourself into thinking that media and peer groups "brainwashed" you the wrong way. In the end it all comes down to what truly makes you happy. And nature has made women to be the gatekeeper to happiness... simply to trick us into procreation. That is the truth pill and it needs no color.

[@thelonestarpelican9343]

caspa7 Partially nature, yes. However, the media (especially) intensifies an already-existing tendency, going so far as to judge a person's worth by how much sex they get - or more specificially judge them of low worth if they get little to no sex. As for nature, humans transcend other animals (however imperfectly) in controlling their urges. We have more free will precisely because we can contemplate / think outside the natural box about such matters. If monks and voluntary celebates can make the choice, then most other men can as well with proper information.

[@ryanwillett728]

Thelonestar Pelican If you believe that monks are celibate for life, you are the one that swallowed the pill. Do some serious reading and research and you'll find that even monks recognize the nature aspect of humanity.

[@thelonestarpelican9343]

Ryan Willett Of course a good number of monks aren't that way. Whether they got sex before their vows, broke their vows, or dropped out, that's beside the point. The point is that we have more free will to reign in our urges and concentrate on non-sexual things that make us happy (hobbies, interests, etc). To assume otherwise is to assume we have no more control over themselves than do wild animals. Throwing yourself into hobbies and interests you're passionate about definitely helps take the mind off sex.

[@thaik56]

I'm glad I already know and understood this very quickly: Becoming a better version of yourself is for no one else but you. Otherwise, it's defeats the purpose since the whole goal is to pull back all the attention and energy you give to the world and refocus all of it on yourself so you can come back out with bang!

[@taoeml]

Side note, all the successful men, and wealthy men I have dated, were usually too stressed out and treated me more like an object & were not emotionally available as I required. Success doesn't result in love, at least not in my experiences.

[@josecunsako31]

A woman that likes you for your money doesn’t matter but to a girl money is everything. Success is good for both male and female but the mutual feeling have to be on both ends or not won’t work

[@VivvyAsmr]

R.R.R. I believe she was trying to make a point that the “prestigious” men she’s been with were too invested in themselves to pay any attention to her. Everyone wants love an attention and that’s part of a relationship. Woman can be satisfied. Woman can be pleased. It’s possible. Maybe you just haven’t learned how.

[@cwb2992]

Maybe try some men not as successful or wealthy, beautiful younger women are a dime a dozen for them. Your probably mainly attracted to them due to their wealth or success and that's OK. Remember unless they inherited the money or success they are very focused on creating success and money, working long hours investing much of themselves to achieve those goals and may have little left for anything else other than flings or playthings.

[@TampaSupastar22]

@AwakenFinland right

[@renatika]

@@r.r.r.4844 I see you are choosing dates that will validate your higher intelligence over women ... maybe think about selecting women who will overpass it instead of feeding your ego by purposeful choice of particular women...then maybe you start talking instead of just nodding...

[@KnicksNYanks84]

Libraries, coffeeshops, malls, the gym, spiritual retreats, the beach, through friends/family, on vacation, your office building, expos, workshops, any type of class, etc.

[@raulrse]

And thats the right answer. They are everywhere outside your room.

[@jayjetty7848]

"Motivation is often the result of action, not the cause of it" I've been where this guy is on many occasions. This is the time where your daily routine kicks in and you just do what needs to be done. Then we see the results of our efforts and motivation returns. If you dont have a daily routine, make one. If you've strayed from it, return to it. The motivation is there waiting for you to catch up.

[@josephmadera9689]

Where to find nicer venomous snakes.

[@greydotjaguar]

Buy it online

[@LIVdaBrand]

🤣🤣💯👀

[@hanlam6993]

Joseph Madera in snake milking laboratory...when They are milked :)

[@josephmadera9689]

@@hanlam6993 great idea if the snakes are being milked then they will be happy and not want to bite me.

[@beloglavisup2]

Balkan countries

[@raularmas317]

I think I am beginning to understand why it is that most men would prefer to date relatively young, "green broke" women in their mid- to late twenties. It's much easier to help shape and mold younger wife's character and to teach her how to avoid making many of the youthful mistakes we made when we were younger men. Teaching her everything I learned about the way things really work rather than how we are told they work ensures both her safety and the safety of the family I/you(?) help to create and support to adulthood. And security is a major concern for most women so(if I were you) I wouldn't underestimate the power of ensuring her security in all/as many areas as you can.

[@Kirolovebiro]

Thank you Richard for the amazing content you make. You are a red pill guru.

[@yelloworangered]

That thumbnail of the bikini-clad, tongue-dangling woman is an ideal of the "quality woman?" LOL.

[@rebellucy5610]

That is like finding a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow with a little Leprechaun standing there during a solar eclipse on New Years Eve.

[@goldmine3007]

Put God first in your life. Everything else will unfold naturally in your life. ENJOY LIFE BROTHERS

[@natestathes]

Facts

[@rstelzer2928]

Most relationships are for learning. Very few are for the long term good of both people.

[@leeboriack8054]

My heart goes out to men and women. Marketing and social media has everyone chasing rainbows and detached from what matters most.

[@InTheWrongTimeline]

Accept that, if he wants to find a lady, he just needs to go after younger women. Quality women are taken by the time they hit 28. Hell, I think I'd say that they're taken by the time they're 25. If he just wants to stick with ladies closer to his age, then he's probably going to have to turn them into what he wants.... which never works out well. And yes... there is no "ONE". Find someone that is looking to create a quality life, then he needs to build a LIFE, not just find someone to come along for the ride. Too many people find someone and expect them to be what they want with no work. That's as stupid as thinking that you're going to be the perfect person for someone else without any work on the relationship and building a life with them.

[@happygreenclean]

I agree he needs to build an amazing life first. As you said, "Too many people find someone and expect them to be what they want with no work." This resonates with me with exes and others, it is not my job to be entertainment, cleaner, and motivational speaker. If you have no motivation, sit on butt, get high, watch tv, and put in 10% effort you don't just automatically deserve another person. (I think some women do it too) Critical self-reflection is important. Younger people have less life so they can change more. Your speaking some truths!

[@JoBlakeLisbon]

I think a lot off the really decent women are more or less off the market aged 21. They're instantly snapped up and tend to invest for a long-term relationship with a good quality guy instead of putting it about.

[@superchuck3259]

Just like there is flawed thinking that the Rich got that way by stealing. Or the Rich just got lucky. Or you have a good job, because you are Lucky! Come on, too many weak and jealous people.

[@seekingthemiddleway4048]

Same goes for the men. Why isn't he taken?

[@Josecito777]

Except for the first paragraph I agree 100%

[@stewartmckay2979]

Do not Chase women let them chase you. Put yourself in proximity 2 high quality women wine bars nice restaurants etc and then ignore them. Your life will turn in to a bang fest

[@thirtymiles6851]

@Stewart McKay What an advice😂😂😂 and did you get your women by positioning yourself in a bar or restaurant then ignoring people around ?!

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Yes absolutely , they are gathering there in Jewish wine bar , for a high value Chinese man

[@NarekGevorgyan]

This guy spoke out of my heart, brilliant video and the message.

[@Frankybroadcast]

Bro. Just pay for a professional when you get any urges, and the rest of your time, enjoy your freedom. It's cheaper financially, and emotionally.

[@thearbiter8153]

This can get you on the registered sex offender list in Canada.

[@gabo1841997]

If you're a HV guy, join a church group in the wealthiest part of town. TRUST ME. You'll meet cute young women with good heart and values and a level of emotional intelligence and self awareness that is not common, she might be smart too. It's uncommon in the general public, not uncommon here. I've had a great experience at a catholic group, even starting to reconsider marriage, some of these girls are so attentive and so religious/conservative, divorce and disloyalty are not in their vocabulary. I've been dating one for about 10 months now and not once has she given me a reason to doubt her, misstreated me, shown redflags outside regular woman-crazy. She wants to be of service and she really looks up to me. Its extraordinary, like a housewife from 1945.

[@jovanreid7558]

If you are a successful man, undestand that you are a rarity....and looking for any woman to match you will require you finding that same level of rarity in a woman...just like it's not a lot of us, there's not a lot of them, so it'll be a while before you find that 'match'...patience

[@ericseif5578]

I hear "focus on building wealth and good women will find you" a lot. I am an overthinker and I try to plan my future. I just worry about that unknown factor and not knowing

[@virajkadam1684]

Talk to more women. Approach women in restaurants who might be there ghosted by their bfs. Just look for more places where women might go to hangout.

[@benjaminodinakaHOODKIZK]

It’s funny how we all go thru the same route when it comes to be red pilled 😂😂

[@roboticdeathfactory7062]

Thanks for relating.

[@highpeaks3598]

If I was this dude, I would move to Chiang Mai, Thailand, and live like a king.

[@pascoett]

Maybe that man’s SMV is not as great as he thinks. Maybe he is well off, but not well enough to drive around in an 150k car wearing a Jaeger Le Coultre. Maybe his home isn’t that great either. Some men are well built but not well groomed. Others have something else offputting high quality women which they haven’t realized yet. Difficult to guess without further information or images. At the moment my own „game” is slighty improving because of me doing better in the gym, eating healthier and having a stylist giving me tips and hints how to improve. Every tweak helps every effort is one step ahead. There is no top model knocking at my door (although they let me take photos of them- photography being my hobby), but I feel better everyday. A man may give up on women but no man should so easily give up on himself.

[@roboticdeathfactory7062]

Fair point. I don't want to give details here, but I'd be interested in discovering if anything is off putting and hurting my SMV.

[@SuhaibZafar]

That's strange. He might not be at the top, but certainly upper-middle maybe? I don't know; not everyone is in the league of JLC + Porsche. Doesn't work that way.

[@ichoosemysanity6467]

Idgaf about a SMV I do me and if they like me then we will meet and may even have some relations but its a side on my plate not the whole meal.

[@dancing_reaper2046]

really good assessment , really appreciate hearing Rich's view.

[@badass1g]

Wow that guy I can totally relate too! My desire for success has gone down the drain as well. I’m doing fine financially with minimal work. I feel like I’ve seen it all and done it all. However I do have a 10 year younger live in awesome gf that pays some bills at our house. It’s VERY hard to find a high quality girl these days. I find almost alwaaays these women that are good looking have mostly just looks to offer. Financially they always seem to be in horrible positions. This is my experience anyway.

[@brandoncaspersz1520]

This is the best channel I have come across. Thank you KZbin Algorithm and thank you Richard.

[@joshuacollins7398]

Date females from another countries . My girlfriend is Filipina. We respect each other and it works for me.

[@heathermimiwahlquist5587]

This is simple: -The women he’s attracted to, aren’t attracted to him. -The women he’s attracted to, aren’t attracted to the 30+ year old dating student. They want the instructor. ;) -The corvette must go. ...Drive it off a cliff to ensure its not recirculated. (And, if you cld, encourage other weirdos who own one to do the same.) ...Replace it with a ...beat-up pinto or the like. Drive it around, windows down, because you are a man of elegance. Ie.: you wear your stately timepiece with your favorite Nikes, an heirloom piece of jewelry, the sophisticated reading glasses, you’re fresh looking and cleanly scented...And, you valet at the best restaurants. Plug-in your own take. That is the hottest kinda man, because not giving a f’ comes from stability, which appears as opposite and disjointed -but, only to the untrained eye. But, it baits the attractive few who understand. The girls who love a .. Juxtapose creates a mystery and mystery’s can only be solved by the curious ones, the high value people -man or woman. The curious won’t be able to resist answering the who, why, what, of someone who is unfigurable and will probably approach. On the flip side: The dreadful slobs you speak so truthfully of won’t see past the pinto because they cant even see up-close -not even themselves. The gold-diggers have no imagination because they never had to. Dreams aren’t needed to pay for their catalog looks. They buy+go by the books.

[@beganitdidnt6535]

if you need to ask yourself this has it even begun

[@jayson_inthe_5oh]

I love the maverick soap. All of it. I bought the deodorant too. smells awesome.

[@jeremylundeen9798]

Great stuff Rich. Every time.

[@CBRCushley]

Thats a great thumbnail

[@kelsnake]

The only thing I could possibly add to your dissection of the email is that of a vibrational nature. I speak in the language of metaphor since truth exists from the micro to the macro, patterns exist through it all. If we took a look at the Eagle, he doesn't fly straight up to the top of the clouds to gain his perspective, no, he builds his way up from the ground flying in ever widening circles. These circles in the air represent our hurdles/lessons and in the continual rise from the ground. If wise, he learns to ride the currents up and not have to flap so hard. We will make many, many circles in the sky and often the height between circles can be minimal. often feeling like we are repeating our experience. Without awareness of self and the understanding of what we are experiencing we will stay at that level until we get the lesson and change habits (reprogrammming the subconcious mind). Maintaining a healthy perspective is so important for the eagle and is why it strives to keep flying higher. Our continued growth is the only thing that allows us to fly higher to that better vantage point. The one thing they don't prepare you for is the awareness that there are fewer female eagles up there with you, the air is thinner and many can't get off the ground, men are no different. A truth is that you cannot gain the higher atmospheres with thinking and believes that served/slaved you at lower levels. Having said all this, we know that women are attracted to higher status males, its a programming re-enforced by society and so accept that your woman may be slightly less then you, but accept 'only slightly' unless you enjoying chasing birds that fly no higher then the tree tops. One last thing. We attract what we get from the place that we ourselves are in resonance (belief, knowing) with.

[@mrlazzo3354]

This is probably one of the better videos ive seen, watch out girls, men are getting better at this and pretty soon men will have no reason to be with girls at all!!!!!!

[@jaroslavmalek9571]

I like your sense of humor...

[@HaviccB]

Mr. Crazy is right...crazy

[@Bluzian74]

There are ZERO reasons to be with them now. Feminism has co-opted The West. You mean, men are supposed to want and enjoy having sex with women? How!?! When? Why? Like... if only sex could be like in the movies. If only women could be like porn stars. But that's not reality. I always reject girls. I want to be paid to have sex. That's equality. Cheers.

[@dudadam7742]

I'm glad I found your channel.... great work brother from another mother..........

[@TheDION1010]

In general men or women/ people now a days, they know the price of everything and the Value of nothing 🥺

[@Nastyfinger1444]

I live on the Gulf Coast. My wife and I frequently visit a local pier and enjoy the birds and watching people. I kid you not seeing many men over thirty with women in their 70s. Often they are arm-in-arm and making out. They all appear very happy.

[@xXyasabeXx]

I get the inquirer 100%. I believe my thing is game.

[@HyperCupcake88]

Talk about 'lazy and comfortable'... that's me. I like what you say. I know it's an excuse, but I was raised by a single Mom. I am SO FAR BEHIND... I don't even try with women now. I enjoy women from a distance while I work on myself... but it's so difficult.

[@gunhaver12]

It's way easier to date women that are a notch or two below you in SMV. The problem is that if you are not careful they tend to drag you down to their level and then split once they realize your value has lowered. This is an unconscious process on their part, they are simply acting on their emotional impulses. Specific examples would include them complaining when you are away on business, bitching about you spending time at the gym to improve yourself, and generally trying to get you in on their bad habits like simply lazing around drinking alcohol smoking weed etc. I'm not saying to avoid these women entirely but just make sure that you never compromise what's important to you, your relationships with other men, and your business goals. They may complain about you doing things that improve you financially and mentally but they will never leave you for doing those things. They will leave you for lowering your SMV.

[@bobbygrace8579]

Great insight Richard ! 👏👏

[@freemind3333]

Solid advice, my brotha.

[@markflierl1624]

7:32 I'm shocked that he said "these woman don't push me or challenge me to be better". First of all, I don't want a woman to push me or challenge me to be better. Secondly, most woman do. They see men that need fixing. I don't need a woman to fix me.

[@thedalillama]

How? Travel back in time... by visiting South America.

[@guysview]

Pop out 2.1 kids. HAHAHA I love it. 8-)

[@spencerh1813]

I’d strongly advise dating outside of the United States or Canada/West because most of those girls “want to find a rich guy to buy them shit”. There are women with real values that actually care about shit, families/husbands/have self respect, but you cannot expect them to be plentiful where the social norms are completely opposite. The biggest player in the hood is “her mama”. Also a good relationship with her father and mother is very important. You just can’t get past it unless she has really gone to therapy to deal with those issues. Most long-term issues people face are just deep seated personal issues they have buried. Yet they manifest themselves all the time.

[@Wrahns]

Ahhhh the Hope Beel thumbnail.... nice.

[@jeanettapocius2286]

Hmmm... available inventory... interesting way to put it...

[@matildamaher2650]

Start going to church, join charity organisation and volunteer for social work. You’ll find true values of life, and also build your own self esteem too. Women who are modest, good character and caring, goes to church, than she will be the idle wife.

[@timshephard]

“Click bait”. Never said where to find them. 😀

[@taoeml]

I enjoyed this video. I truly believe that you want an amazing relationship, an amazing person, you can have it all, but you will also need to learn to compromise, and let go of negative attitudes. Life may make you cynical, but let it go, and allow yourself to be a good person. The great women are out there, looking for amazing people. Age should no longer be regarded as an important factor, as we live in such a different world, with technology affecting us, and divorce on the rise. There are so many great women and men, but you have to be opening yourself to it.

[@clnhunter9137]

“A highly successful man needs a simple woman in his life”. That’s a quote from Hitler. Dude was a maniac .. but he did get one thing right.

[@headlesnorseman701]

This guy claims to be red pill aware but it still feels like he has a scarcity mindset. “This is all I’ll get” type of thinking. He needs some passion and fire. There is nothing wrong with bagging uggos. They look at you like you are the best thing they will get and they act accordingly if you have the right mindset. They can be a wonderful experience. But it’s like this guy is letting them define him.

[@ArikaStack]

So I first want to say I only have my own experience to go on, and I've had an extremely humbling life. Overall I think you're correct in the advice here, but I want to help this dude. Finding a good woman is kinda like finding a good job. You either have to work really hard, get really lucky, or know some really good people, or a mix of all 3. From my perspective, I have alot of options, very serious ones, and good ones. They're great dudes with great character, wealth too, who I wish I could help out more because they seem to get walked on. I bring up wealth because, well, I think displaying it attracts the wrong type of women. The best people I have found hid all of their success and have spent years, waiting, for the right person, or simply did not have the success to begin with, only potential. I've also lived with a couple who was in the most toxic relationship, and witnessed exactly how both perspectives viewed things. Unfortunately, there are many women out there who will 'latch' onto someone not because they love them, but because they want an easier life. It's a fact of life, and well covered here so I'll leave it be. I will only add that the amount of women like that is *staggering*. I know very few successful women who don't need that, and they're all, like me, a little fucked in the head (perhaps in a different way, but still), due to the praise they get and the pedestal they are put on. There are very few women out there, or people in general, who actively try to hide their assets. I don't even think I fit this category, because I need at least some sort of higher sense of self worth to justify my content creation and ability to run my own life, as they say. The best thing you can do to find the right woman is very realistically, not to value women. Just keep your no bullshit side polished and waste as little time as possible on stupid people of both genders. The sad truth is, alot of women, myself included, can get away with being a stupid fuck because some asshole with a decent paying job could support me if I just offered my body in exchange for a temporary ride through life, emphasis on temporary. There needs to be less people tolerant of that bullshit, because not every woman is a stubborn twat with too much pride to thotify their life.

[@edwardmiller2249]

NO HYMEN NO DIAMOND 💎 THAT'S GOD DAMN RIGHT!!!!

[@reginasemenenko148]

Good luck.

[@DanielReadIV]

Love the content

[@dereksimenac8844]

get a country girl, they are not feminists, they know how to outwork all Citiots (men included) and have common sense. City life and paid endoctrination ruins men, couples and women.

[@Connor4x4]

I live rural and most of the "country girls" are MASSIVELY obese and have meth or other drug addictions. Most are alcoholics too

[@nickx4475]

Summary of the answer 15:40

[@bigmac7596]

You right the available inventory

[@DriveupLife22]

The author of this "question" should get to the point. This guy wrote a novel and is pontificating, complaining and wallowing in it. He's a chump. Get a life and do things you like.

[@roboticdeathfactory7062]

It's not that simple. If you only do things you like, you will never get ahead. Delayed gratification is the most important trait in successful people. The question is how to motivate yourself internally (rather than externally) to work long hours again for the business, and make a dent in the universe. Or is it best to retire and focus on hobbies? Sounds like you support the latter. I wouldn't be in a position to retire today without sacrificing the things I liked for the last 10 years.

[@pamotorsports763]

Pacha was a great club in NYC. Those were the days

[@LordyBeevill]

Hi from Oz Richard ...i enjoy your videos mate , makes a refreshing change from most of the bullshit we hear ! ... as for quality women , don't rush ! Build up like 'a portfolio ' then the right one will become obvious... ....

[@TGP109]

IOW's, "all the good ones are taken''. Welcome to the world, it happens to all of us, regardless of sex. He's reached the stage of ''satiation'' in life and can't find a reason to go further. He ''settling'' for the status quo.

[@jamsuns19]

Love the maverick soap. Good product.

[@johnpace2285]

Rich said this guy was fishing for whales! When I was a kid my dad always called attention to the “curvier” ladies by telling my brother and I to “MAN THE HARPOONS, ME MATEYS!”

[@RioCrypto55]

Brazil. This is where you find them. Brazil.

[@airraidband]

I’ve found a similar pattern in my own life. I’ll spend 2 or 3 months really focused on personal development through reading and watching content such as this, but the next month I’m completely content in relaxing and enjoying life. Is this a common thing?

[@PsychokoreUndergroundRap]

We are men.. we are simple and easy to please. See it as a gift

[@MijoShrek]

Your enjoying life you said, that's okay to allow yourself to just enjoy the now. it's not a constant state of happy and or going going on to accomplish to accomplish but don't know why but the must accomplish to feel value and fulfilled is consumerist capitalism on steroids embedded in us

[@markpong5435]

To look for the right woman is ok unless you make it priority. The best way to meet one is through people you know. Relax and make sure you know what you want in your partner. The best way is to make a list of what you expect. I made one after my graduation when I understood that I am on my way to become a value asset for any woman I choose. 1. She must be attractive to me, but being in love isn't important. 2. She should be in love with me. 3. No sexual past, a virgin. 4. Intelligent. 5. Family orientated. 6. Kind. 7. Comes from a stable family. 8. Father's girl. 9. 18-21 years old. I promised myself never to compromise. I wasn't tall (5,11) but fit and better looking than average. By 30 I was well educated, had a job with lifetime security and daily income equal to average monthly income of the country. It has been growing ever since. At 35 I was introduced to a 19 years old girl by her distant relative. The girl had all qualities on my list. 3 months later we were engaged and 3 months after engagement married. No regrets. 5 good children and best time when we together. I am number one for her, even before children. The only regret I have is that I was a workaholic. I regret not spending more time with my family. Now I am catching up. My advice: relax. As men we have plenty of time. Make your list and never compromise. There are good girls, not many, but you need only one. If you don't find her, it isn't a tragedy. Being a bachelor can be very satisfying. As time goes our need for a partner becomes less and less important.

[@Graham-Christian]

Wow. Are guys today just low on the EI scale?? Because from the comment feed and this video, it's like guys are in hook up culture somehow expecting to find gold in a sewer . . . I mean, this is ridiculous. Anyways - bars, bumble, and your local gym won't find you a good partner. I would recommend instead volunteering at a local non profit or ministry. I've heard shelters for dogs is great place too. Go to places where intrinsic love for people is necessary to the job. Promise there will be some gold there.

[@grit7733]

Exactly. Part of why I started going to church again haha.

[@benus6867]

That would just be too sensible now wouldn’t it? Haha these guys hate the game but the beta dudes looking for some ‘secret’ to attracting women are the ones that created the game to try to cheat the system and get something amazing without even trying

[@shinypear326]

Thank you for offering some sense to these people.

[@DylanJo123]

Damn, never thought of that. Ill keep that in mind

[@CeliaCavalli]

I do dating coaching and I often talk about this. Both men and women are broken by society and fast moving culture (dating apps, social media) to have more than just superficial things in common (sex) then do things you’re naturally interested in and passion projects. Ministry is great, so is volunteer work and small groups. Love is all over. Good women should not be treated like garbage and good men should be valued too. This men against women and women against men is simply misunderstanding or fishing in the wrong pools.

[@CommonSensePhilosophy]

"They call the American Dream, because you have to be asleep to believe it."

[@CommonSensePhilosophy]

Seek enlightenment

[@jco2727]

George Carlin, gone too soon.

[@fernandosanchez8542]

nope

[@superchuck3259]

Thanks George!

[@CozomWoW]

front seat at the freakshow is america? na george, try sweden

[@legoenforcer7734]

"The indoctrination we call schools" never were a more true statement ever said. Love you Rich keep up the good fight brotha.

[@spindalis79]

What about the worst indoctrination of them all.....organized religion?

[@facelessandnameless]

spindalis79 But these days that’s not even the worst issue. Schools, universities, and the media are worse because of the impact they’re having on society.

[@lancasterspades6558]

THEY DOOPED ME ON HISTORY THSE IGNORANT F***S!!! I'm still mad about that one...

[@rokyericksonroks]

@@spindalis79 We’re presently dealing with one crisis at a time, but you make a good point.

[@Justinsox39]

@@spindalis79 thats not a problem anymore. The schools are the worst

[@jlewsd]

Hotter the girl, the crazier they are

[@warrior70hhs]

Look up hot-crazy matrix, makes soooo much sense

[@The_Kirk_Lazarus]

You're right. Just got to find one that has way more plusses than the big minus from the crazy.

[@MrJuxton99]

Mad in the head? ...mad in the bed😜

[@gentlebabarian]

not true. average insecure girls can be just as crazy. if not more.

[@bigdata9605]

@@gentlebabarian and the ugly chicks can be psycho... I mean murder psycho😂😂😂

[@matthewbaumann630]

I recently met a woman that instantly gave me the creepy gold digging vibes. I found her to be rather annoying and when she asked me why I've never been married I told her I never met a woman that was loyal.

[@chrysichrysi7889]

Right. You never MET one. So what does that Tell you about yourself and the kind of women you attract and commit to? 🤔 Perhaps some internal work on your part necessairy here.😁👌

[@jezusmongool6999]

What did she reply?

[@SoapAcademy]

Matthew Baumann 😂

[@shooklizard9039]

Never found a man that was loyal so it goes both ways lol

[@jellyrabbits375]

@@shooklizard9039 But that doesn't matter as marriage has little to no risk while having high reward to women, the opposite is true for men.

[@alexandergrace5350]

Loved his layout. Loved your calm demeanor and rational advice. Good video.

[@gandalfthehairy207]

Nice to see you are

[@unchained576]

I hope he watches your videos Mr.Grace, I would like him to give sincere and constructive feed back on your videos too.

[@ToxicAfricanKing]

I love the content you create and how you lay it out too.

[@Christian-yk8gk]

gay.

[@gabrielr4329]

Look for modesty dressed attractive women, without too much makeup, jewelry, etc. Not a sure bet, but a good indicator. I can relate to this story. It’s not your fault that most women are subpar.

[@ms-vv2gg]

I've got one of these. Wondering if the other shoe will ever drop. Not yet.

[@danskiiz35]

Basically a women thats not trapped in the Matrix by the social engineer's. Although you still need to keep your guard. Women are masters at appearing what they're not.

[@superchuck3259]

Bryan Charles But woman can get attached with kids and family. If the man is strong and holds up to testing, it will be okay. Not great, but okay. Relationships are hard!

[@joshipp761]

Gabriel R., Great advice

[@gabrielr4329]

It’s almost as if the religious people were right all along and we’re just rediscovering it. It’s not a coincidence, it’s exactly what’s happening.

[@arthurnasso7623]

Richard I'm 55 and never married. I always thought women would get a healthy dose of reality at this age. They seem more delusional now than when I was younger. I pump iron do hot yoga and dance salsa as my hobbies. All I seem to run I to are women who are looking for a safe place to land after a lifetime of bad decisions. Not looking to get married but sometimes companionship would be nice. Any suggestions

[@ruralsquirrel5158]

Move to SE Asia and get a 30-35 year old who isn't damaged. Live there with her, treat her well, and enjoy your life.

[@danskiiz35]

I'm pretty certain my grandfather was subconsciously happier when my grandmother past away. She never let him go overseas back to our country with nor without her. Ever since her passing he's been every year for 3 months at a time....

[@FrankCastle-tq9bz]

If it's companionship you want, get a dog.

[@keithwisdom1663]

55 also-divorced- I would keep dancing and look for a young woman

[@3goats1coat]

Advice? Pump and dump. For companionship better keep a pet rock.

[@TomTobin67]

Don't find women, be great at important stuff and let them find you BUT be careful because you might not get what you see. Hypergamy

[@blurglide]

That doesn't work for everyone. I consider myself an upper 5% guy, but I encounter close to zero women at all, much less attractive, available ones, in my career and hobbies. Therefore, I HAVE to make women a priority in their own right if I don't want to be some kind of incel.

[@dc1397]

blurglide if you consider yourself a 5%...i am guessing you consider yourself wealthy and good looking...i am wondering why you would want to prioritize women? I am just throwing this out there...why not just make them a hobby? I am saying not make them out to be more than they are...i don't mean that in a negative way either.

[@themechanic7732]

Not true at all women will never just come to your life just because you are succesfull you still need to put in the effort.

[@jamie49868]

I have found that since I have become fairly successful, that women find me. I don't know how, but they do. It's kind of like when you are in a relationship, chicks come out to the woodwork in pursuit of you, but if you're a single guy, they run. Again, I don't know why, but they have a sense or a network, or maybe it's just a calm and inner peace a successful man exudes.

[@blurglide]

Because if I just wait to encounter them, it'll be a loooonnnnggg wait and mostly lower quality women. I like getting laid at a minimum, and hope to find one who adds a lot of value to my life, so I make finding women a priority.

[@AnjumulHaque]

One of my friends who was a notorious serious dater used to go to bookstores to find right women. They are young, takes care of themselves and are intelligent. Then he would use her interests in particular categories of books to make conversations and they would lead to make emotional and intellectual connection to make them comfortable enough to discuss these on dates.

[@nickmitsialis]

Well, at least book stores worked better for your friend. One day my wife and I were at a Barnes and Noble looking at a shelf full of new releases. She was standing next to me, so I reached over to pat her on the butt, in an affectionate way. Little did I know that my wife had moved down the row a ways, and ANOTHER woman had just stepped into my wife's place. I noticed it just in mid 'reach', but I was so startled I jumped back in surprise.

[@mclcorp18]

@@nickmitsialis Lol. I was at Barnes and Noble with my wife. We were in different aisles. As a joke, I snuck-up on her and grabbed her ass. She didn't have much of a reaction. She just turned, looked at me and said, "You scared me because I thought it was a stranger that grabbed me". I thought she was going to slap me or have a shocked look or something, but my wife is the mild-mannered type, so I guess that's why she reacted that way.......lol!

[@nickmitsialis]

@@mclcorp18 Great! I nearly threw out my back, I jumped back so forcefully.

[@dinob8736]

The question any man should ask themselves, “Where do I find myself?” Never, “Where do I find a woman?”

[@KnicksNYanks84]

Don't give up on love. There are women who are worth it. All you need is one. I found mine and I want you guys to be as happy as I am because you fucking deserve it.

[@residentevilfreakk55]

Any update?

[@williamdieffenbach3264]

My thought exactly ​@residentevilfreakk55

[@ChiqueIndustries]

@@residentevilfreakk55a lot can happen in 5 years. I’ll be waiting for his update.

[@LeeEverett1]

​@@residentevilfreakk55 It's been 5 years, I'd bet my left nut she's left him by now

[@kudrah]

Most of western women nowadays do not know how to choose good men

[@xys007]

They don't have to, they have government support.

[@shooklizard9039]

Loool any man who calls himself good is usually the opposite your actions should support your words

[@bodhisattva2348]

@@shooklizard9039 never realized how true that was

[@karsbamir6890]

they just choose the same rich hot alphas that 1272671 other women also have chosen

[@flashpan26]

I was the same way, I started a business and grew it until I had more than enough to retire at 35 so I did. I am worth over 7 figures with over a 6 figure income. I met my wife right out of high school. She was a virgin with no tattoos and no debt so we hit it off and got married. We are still married to this day 40 years later. Looking back now at 61 I wish I wouldn't have retired so young. I still have more than enough coming in to live on and prosper but there is only so much hunting, fishing, sking, backpacking, white water rafting, golf and camping I could do. After a few years I got very board with everything. Even fun things became like a job. Now I wish I had just slowed down but kept moving up the ladder but still take time to enjoy myself and do things. I am planning on buying a 5th wheel and touring the country for a year or 2 while I still can, because I don't think I will be able to do it much longer seeing the state of the USA is in right now. Now I wish I hadn't put all my eggs in the USA basket and would have bought passive income in other country's like Canada and Israel. My advice is slow down but keep moving,. Take the time to savor what you have but don't loose the drive completely. If I were single at 35 I would have looked in a church or for very nerdy collage freshmen who was a a hidden gem. My wife was a nerdy girl back in the day, they love to experiment and love to please you. Our honey moon lasted 25 years lol. We still had troubles and problems but we worked threw them.

[@connormcchicken5915]

@RS1 reading his perspective makes me question being financially free. seems like there's no longer a challenge once you've got way too much money stacked up.

[@connormcchicken5915]

@Ricardo Gonzalez well we'll never know unless we experience it

[@JasonLayton]

This was an inspiring post. Thank you. I've been working hard for 17 years, with the plan of retiring young; I'm close, but I've realized I love my work and want to keep going. Slow down, but keep moving, that really clicks with me right now. Thank you.

[@bobinthewest8559]

@@connormcchicken5915... There are always challenges available for anyone who craves them. The OP's statement that retiring too early turned into a regret, encapsulates a fallacy. There is literally nothing in this world that prohibits you from changing your mind about retiring. At whatever point the OP began to feel that way, he could have started a new business... and, since he was already financially secure, he could have done so COMPLETELY on his own terms, and with whatever "purpose" he desired. He could have mentored others who he believed "have what it takes", helping them to create successful businesses of their own... for whatever level of "return" was agreeable, etc. He could have turned some of his hobbies into businesses, just for the joy of "creating", and seeing them grow. The truth is... Only boring people get bored, lol.

[@DK-ym8jr]

Sounds like you need to start something new that you aren't used to. Join club sports, start dancing, learn magic tricks. Something where you are at the complete bottom. That outta put some joy back into ya

[@Yesboiii99]

Before watching, in my experience, focus on yourself and building yourself up(financially/emotionally/physically). It's usually when you aren't looking you find someone

[@missmygamergirl445]

he wants to hate them. He worries that if he finds one he really likes he will be vulnerable to falling for them and getting screwed. That's how I feel right now anyhoe..

[@ScarfaceFranckRibery]

Same

[@lovepeacebliss]

Treat yourself and others with respect and youl attract the same. Problem solved.

[@lupus1159]

Could not be said better

[@RahulUpadhyay-xj2cw]

lovepeacebliss please go and interact with women... you ll understand

[@flesheffigy875]

Not true, sorry. Being delusional is not healthy optimism.

[@ozzycortes]

That does not always solve the problem.

[@deadcell1]

It'll nice if it was true all the time but some people just don't care about anyone but themselves.

[@SermonsSubtitled]

I'm confused. He expected to be loved because he earns a lot of money. That's like a woman who expects to be loved because she's very beautiful. Both are then very surprised to attract a lot of people who "love" them but only for shallow reasons. Women try to exploit him financially and to show off ("Look at me, what a great mate I have! I'm so much more valuable now! Please society, give me validation!"). Men try to exploit her sexually and to show off ("Look at me, what a great armpiece I have! I'm so much more valuable now! Please society, give me validation!"). Truth is, being very beautiful or super rich doesn't guarantee you TRUE love, someone who loves you for YOU! Wealth and beauty only increase the amount of people who "love" you for THAT. But those who love you for you will be there BEFORE you attain those things. Get yourself a woman who's willing to build with you, SUCH a woman is worth to keep once you've attained riches! If, however, you want a certain woman for her looks, and you know she only wants you if you have lots of money, you can't blame her for being shallow when you are shallow yourself.

[@SermonsSubtitled]

@Army of Gog LOL, you need a hug?

[@megasalexandros2397]

@Army of Gog dude I live in Morocco . Western women are batter then Morocco

[@jimnicosia5934]

@Army of Gog women are the same all over. The show that they put on is just different.

[@HuesoAmarilloAfricana]

Facts.

[@verronica2]

awesome

[@kiasophia6869]

you find better women when you find a woman who respects and loves her FATHER!

[@mixumup1]

Better as in obedience

[@ToquzOghuzKhaganatekhan]

Thats why some girls are like sneaks , because they dont have fathers . They dont respect a respectful man . Leave them alone .

[@AJHart-eg1ys]

"Skiing with friends, eating good food, lifting weights ... driving my Corvette with the top off, spending time at the cottage ..." Am I alone or did anyone else start thinking this sounds less like reality, and more like what a 16-year-old kid thinks successful men in their 30s do? I was actually a little surprised that he didn't include something about riding a vintage motorcycle that he restored himself, or wintering in the Canary Islands.

[@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2]

This is my life and I'm 46 + no problems + everything is easy when womens tag along and are NOT the center of the attention. So, your probably alone or in love with problems. Btw ..... if you don't like cars, what are yo doing here? It's called entrepreneurs IN CARS lol :P Have a nice one. P.S.: He his taking care of his daughter too.

[@whitetrashgarage8110]

I'm in my 30s, have a house, go dirt biking and mountain biking with my friends, take the boat to the beach, cruise around in my classic modified trans am, enjoy my job... 16 year old me had the right dreams! Not sure why it doesnt sound like a legit possibility.

[@AJHart-eg1ys]

@@ThereIsAlwaysaWay2 You seem to have a tendency to fabricate things. Did I write anything about not liking cars?

[@rasputinson1739]

I egree.Sounds like a clishee

[@saptab1344]

i mean all this is possible during the weekends lol

[@dacawone]

Short answer...you can't, because there aren't any.

[@Connor4x4]

"Plenty of whales" has me dying. Lmao

[@tommcfadden5232]

Better women...Like the lost city of Atlantis.

[@jbad1710]

I haven't dated in 9 years and I'm now 32 . I was young got engaged my fiance got pregnant and shit went down hill.. She was cheating etc. After being stripped of everything including being a victim of identity fraud I lost everything. Lay off after lay off and my cars motor killing itself I have been struggling. Plus the child support is crushing my earnings. I got laid off again 2 weeks before Xmas. Here where I live jobs aren't plentiful and they range from 9 to 11 dollars an hour it's all bullshit. Anyways I'm broke and trust me with no money and 9 years of struggling women don't fuck with me now. When I met my ex I had my own place 2 sports cars etc. I was bodybuilding at the time weighing in at 240lbs. Now I'm broke and 141lbs due to no money and depression. Moral of the short story It's all about the money.. with no money your dog food.

[@areafortyone]

Forget about marriage...

[@pedroSilesia]

Look for Asian girls or eastern european. Usually good mothers and wives.

[@paulwarrington1966]

What a strange world we live in when finding a partner is reduced to acronyms and pheromone gels.

[@altprop826]

Female entitlement: Bear in mind the role of the advertising industry. The operators behind this industry have spent decades grooming women to believe that they deserve more. One advertisement became famous for telling women bluntly, '..because you deserve it...' This industry started its early work experimenting with the theories of Freud and psychotherapy. They quickly concluded that vanity is an advertisers dream because vain people spend more. So if the degree of spending is a measure of the vanity, then women are at least 4 times more self absorbed and entitled than men.

[@789irvin]

Down to a science.

[@twilighttortoise]

Is that the L'Oreal ad? We have that annoying TV advert in the UK and it always makes my skin crawl. I'm not male though. You can almost see many females who absorb the advert will have canary feathers hanging out of their mouths. "Because you're worth it..." what a blanket statement to broadcast.

[@jonsalt3241]

Yep, you got it. How many Women's shampoo hair commercials have you seen. Its like being Brainwashed.

[@twilighttortoise]

Yep, way too many.. along with all the other female products. You hardly ever see the equivalent ads for men though but men need the same things too, like soap, shampoo etc. The expensive perfume ads at Xmas are too much as well. I don't know, I've never been swayed by ads really.

[@altprop826]

twilight tortoise ...It's not a thoughtless catch phrase though. It was dreamed up as a direct response to the need for justification. This need seems obscure now. But in the post war era money and jobs were scarce. So convincing women that it was ok to spend hard earned money on personal indulgences became a priority of the advertising industry. At first the links were tenuous. Such as with the maker of an instant cake mix who was advised by psychologists to include instructions on the packet to add an egg to the mix so that the 'house-wife' of those times could say that she 'baked' a cake. Later it became possible to tell women that it was ok to buy beauty products used by celebrities because 'they deserved it.' Advertisers used the same techniques on men, but they were less effective.