5 Shocking Ways a Narcissist Takes Invisible Revenge on You

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[@taragee8]

I don't know but a smoke detector came up missing during inspection ..when the my landlord came by and was teasing and flirting with me also saying I need to put that man to work (talking about the Narcissist) that day I had a meeting to go to and left him there with our son and the landlord ...and I remember the landlord taking it off the wall to check the smoke detector to make sure it was still operative and sat it down in the kitchen.. so when the inspector came by a week later.. he said there is no detector on the wall and inspection did not pass... and a couple days later my landlord asked what happened to the detector ... I ended up leaving that day for 3 hours and just looked at the whole situation as weird even till this day!!🙄 never happen when landlord came by and I've been living at this address for 13 years Even made me missed an mri appt before even though it was communicated amongst not just him and I but a 3rd party as well 😒😒🤨

[@queenofphillyshoagiessubs8456]

These people are truly sick ! Not to mention that they are cowards, too.

[@TheJXP5]

Yes! Cowards. Althought they mimic competency. They seem bold but they're actually deeply insecure. They are underdeveloped and will struggle with deeper questioning.

[@giannamicha3122]

The hardest part isn't that they twist the reality. The hardest part is that everyone accepts their version of reality and no one believes what you tell them (reaching out for help). No one even for one second questions what they say, or tries to see through their patterns of actions.

[@suparnasaha1869]

U r right.. everyone believes them.. because narcs make very good face in public.. they show .. they are the finest human-being around.. n often play victim cards , as well

[@emmasuo272]

The abuse is for the close ones behind the doors and not with the public

[@emmasuo272]

@@suparnasaha1869 exactly like no one believes them it's because they're master actors

[@tanyaprice8592]

Also let's nor forget, what they do is nuts!. I mean it's confusing because you can't believe someone would do that but you know they did because you witnessed it. What they do is bonkers beyond belief for reasons that only make sense to them in all honesty . Don't be too hard on the sane people who can't wrap their minds around crazy , must be nice to not know it exists eh . Also be warned , some are delusional because they dont want to face the truth and some are also narcs and know but are gaslighting you to get their kicks . Stay vigilant and believe your own eyes .

[@fjalling]

Danish, please see this and maybe relate it to Cassandra syndrome?

[@Isabela2024-yr]

Danish is so right. All the above is happening to many Narcissists victims. Narcissists are very sick people.😡

[@KremenaYanakieva-tu6ud]

To me also.

[@joann5465]

One time before a family vacation my driver's license came up missing. I had to go get a new license. After the trip my old drivers license mysteriously showed up in my purse, right out in the open. I knew right then my husband had done it. It was very disturbing. I had taken that purse apart several times while looking for that license. I know for fact it was not in my purse. He just wanted me to think I was going crazy. Well, I'm not crazy, and this was one of many things he did and he is my EX husband now.

[@tiffanybluetarot]

Mine does/did stuff like this CONSTANTLY. It’s maddening.

[@sickofcrap8992]

I've lived that, too.

[@beckystrozenski5187]

Mine does this too

[@tanyaprice8592]

This video triggered the memory of my narcissistic ex stealing my bank card and putting it back when the new one turned up . He used to break my stuff on purpose as well and act dumb to wind me up. You are not alone .

[@karinfend2980]

Great story! Can relate. In my story it was the passport. 😂Have a good life now! 🤝

[@shamailaahmed7442]

Finally someone who acknowledges the sinister types of behaviour these narcs are capable of. Imagine explaining these to a normal person who's never experienced this before.. Too many will label the victim as crazy, naive and weak and vengeful

[@warriormom5843]

💯‼️‼️‼️I had favorite backyard statues that I had purchased POOF!! Disappear!! And the SMUG reaction: yes, as Danish said, MONSTROUS!!! No one would believe there are people who stealth around doing these things!!! 🤯😱😡

[@SerbiAna47]

Narcissists love to portray their victims as overly sensitive. This is just another way they deflect blame towards their victims.

[@pillaroflight88]

That is my experience. No one believes me. I am 70 and I didn't wake up to how truly evil and demonic my older sister is until she killed my Mom my younger sister and Dad in her "care" (think Kathy Bates in Misery) then stole my inheritance and turned my adult children against me, leaving me completely alone. Over the years I have attempted therapy, but without fail, the "therapist" doesn't believe me. I have been completely disowned by my entire family for 14 years now. Thank you for shining a light on these demonic people!

[@lisamorrison4708]

Yep, my x always called my stuff junk and when we moved twice he would break or damage my stuff and say it was an accident or it was already like that

[@warriormom5843]

@@lisamorrison4708 I bought a perfectly fitting piece of artwork which said “FAMILY” on it for our new home. Fit the decor and wall of the kitchen, perfectly!!! He walked in to my surprise for him (my son was only 3 at the time) and proclaimed with a sneer on his face-“WHATS THAT JUNK??” Monster is NOT EVER a strong enough word for this POS wearing a meat suit!!!!

[@primuslaidee1]

My older sister once gifted me with curry powder to use for my catering business. I tried it for one of my clients and that client and her family had terrible diarrhea that whole 24 hours after eating my meal. I later threw away the tub because I just found that the powder just “didn’t taste right”. It was literally only a year later when I realised just how evil she was and how she was trying to destroy my life that I realised that the curry powder she had “gifted” me was actually laced with laxative. I don’t have concrete proof but based on what she has done since then, I have no doubts about it. I still can’t believe it myself. It’s shocking.

[@ninashirley432]

😢 nasty older sister! I am sorry 😞

[@maryyoung4046]

So sorry sweetheart

[@christinehall238]

You are so right about this type of abusive assault! They are very sadistic, but always in secret. I will never understand how a person can enjoy destroying someone's life.

[@MyTomwilliams]

I just threw out some cookies my separated Narcissistic wife had sent over to me, thank you!!

[@deborahrobinson6553]

Better be safe than sorry.😊

[@moochiehookie]

Ear those cookies you might black out and wake up in Instanbul

[@Blueskies445]

This happened years ago and is only 1 of the hundreds of things this woman called Mother did to me. I stopped eating anything my birth mother would give me because once I realized she was a narcissist, everything clicked. She made a meal and told me to stop by and pick it up. Of course, she went on and on how delicious it is. When I took the bag on the right, she grabbed it and said not that one, and she grabbed the one on the left. I said, "What makes the difference? She didn't respond. I threw it in the trash because I had a bad feeling. She called me that night and asked me how I felt, I said I feel fine why? Oh, I just thought I would check on you. She never ever cared if I was sick or ever called me to see if I was OK! I believe she did put something in that meal. I wish I could have had it tested. There are so many crazy stories to tell, I completely cut her off, no contact! I wish I had done it sooner! I have such peace now.

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Is she still alive?

[@Myaccounts440]

So sad to hear. Hope you can heal your all pain and makes you a happy and peaceful person❤ Don't feel alone. See yourself in the mirror. Remember, since chuldhood, one person always could make you happy is YOU

[@wittymystic7361]

She sounds terrible. I went to a therapist who told me I had issues because I refused to eat food cooked by people I didn't know and who I thought could have ulterior motives. They are out there and I wish more therapists heard your story to understand how far some people will go. Glad you didn't fall for her evil prank.

[@monongahelacats]

They are like the dementors in Harry Potter. They suck the soul right out of you.

[@sickofcrap8992]

That is VERY true!

[@annaburns2865]

Because they are demonic tormentors. Nothing in Harry Potter was new. It was just a story.

[@nordica1h1]

Yet they make you believe YOU'RE the one that's the energy sucking vampire. Eventually you become physically ill from al the stress from trying to become 'better' for them

[@christophercox1717]

It's more like the movie doctor sleep when they were going around taking innocent souls. Disgusting

[@allisonquerze7941]

You have to become better for you so that you can survive them. Then they will not be able to survive you.

[@NatalieRand-93070]

Don’t bother telling anyone your experience, nobody will believe you 💔😭

[@EnchantedWinter13]

No kidding! 😓

[@JanetMunoz]

I know

[@StarCoded]

Then the evil prevails and potential other victims are left more vulnerable.

[@maureenluksza5578]

He throws my things away and watches me look for them. He used to blame our children for his own misdeeds ( broken or missing items) and listen to me reprimand them. He loved it.

[@maureenluksza5578]

Yes he gave away my cat too

[@ThehumancatBosse]

This was my life too...😢❤..

[@summertea8609]

Oh my goodness that’s exactly one of the things mine does 😢 I just want out of this hell I’m living in.

[@yly5991]

Same here. When I was much older, some of my precious childhood toys disappeared. Much later I realized my covert malignant narc parent had thrown them away. 😢

[@missbrooke666]

@@maureenluksza5578If mine did that, I’d be in prison rn & he’d be in the ground, where he belongs 🤬

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

Yes, true. I have experienced many of those evil behaviours of the narcissist. They are demons operating in humans.

[@whyknot172]

This is underrated content right here.

[@R73949]

They're even worse then the demons.. just stay away from them, this is what I'm doing.

[@Isabela2024-yr]

So true! Jealousy is dangerous. Shame on the narcissist.

[@lemsip207]

It is so very common. A lot of people exhibit covert narcissistic behaviour to most people around them even though they only show the overt narcissistic behaviour to their unfortunate targets who are closer to them. That's how you see the red flags in them. They portray themselves as the kind friend, neighbour or volunteer who is pushing unwanted assistance onto them.

[@user-wi9hv2pb2q]

mine are at work. I can't get away.

[@dreamscape405]

Same here❤ Take care❤

[@pija9505]

Yu gotta know there mo,s to be able identify them to avoid.. study them the way they studied yu.. well much better and true.

[@missbrooke666]

My narc ex would do weird stuff like take items of clothing I wore often and hide them & enjoy me going nuts looking for them- after I threw him out, I found them all in a plastic bag buried deep under some junk in the garage 🤦🏼‍♀️ Watching this video, I actually wish I did some of these things to him 😂

[@tiffanybluetarot]

Yessss!!! What the actual f*** is that?! They are just awful…doing things you’d never even think of. It’s insane.

[@missbrooke666]

@@tiffanybluetarot I honestly don’t understand how their fcked up minds work….and kinda glad I don’t actually, it means I’m not demonic!!

[@tiffanybluetarot]

@@missbrooke666 agreed. In my case, if I can rationalize the behavior, I can then talk myself into accepting it. I make their excuses for them. So stupid. But it finally got to the point I have no more explanations to fool myself with. And I’m glad for that.

[@missbrooke666]

@@tiffanybluetarot That’s a really insightful comment! I do the same thing and my deep empathy makes it easier to rationalise and accept behaviour I shouldn’t. There’s definitely a point where you can be TOO understanding! But yeah, once you’re googling behaviour and find yourself spending most of your time questioning their behaviour, it’s time to GO!! 🏃🏼‍♀️

[@ashleysigurdson6982]

Thank you for all you do, Danish. You are a real life angel who exposes these demons

[@J.M.R.0913]

My narc husband laced my shampoo and conditioner which made my hair fallout by the handfuls. I tested this by secretly using a shampoo and conditioner that I hide now. Sure enough, my hair has started to grow back. He peed on my bar soap. He peed on my bed. I don't trust him at all. So I got my own place. Now he sends flying monkeys at night to try and terrorize me. It's not going to work on me. He has no idea that I know what and who he is. He doesn't need to know that. Why? Because his behavior is predictable and I can protect myself with ease. If I told him, he would switch up his tactics. But, I've experienced so much bs from him that I don't trust anything he says and nothing he does. Narcissists are disgusting puppets of Satan. These are yhe wicked ones in the Bible. Their demise is impending. So stay close to God and he will protect you. I know, because God has protected me when my narc husband would leave the gas on the stove and go to work while I was sleeping. Know this, you are ALWAYS a target of their sadism. Protect yourself.

[@missbrooke666]

Please for your own safety, implement an airtight no contact regime 🙏 Get security cameras everywhere, alarms on doors & windows, change your phone numbers & email addresses, deactivate social media for a few months. Check out HG Tudor’s no contact vids. Please don’t underestimate these demonic beasts 🙏

[@Jman-uv1lr]

Very true, I wish you well.❤

[@tiffanybluetarot]

💯💯💯

[@romanastrasheim5226]

😢😢😢Terrible!!! Evil ...😰

[@farzanayasmean3586]

What is flying monkeys

[@deborahlacour1938]

My sister insisted on staying in my house, and during her six month stay I had uncontrollable diarrhea every day, and drove myself to the Urgent Care at least five times. When she finally went back to her own home, the terrible stomach pain went away and never came back

[@Jman-uv1lr]

Did you ever find out what she done ?

[@salomenjuguna2294]

😂😂😂

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Hopefully, SHE never came back too!

[@Jman-uv1lr]

I mean was she doing something to the food or was it just the feeling or vibe from her that had you ill

[@meowkity1]

They are known for poisoning . Visine eye drops is often used

[@MichaelKevin-l6y]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

[@Marianna-e6w]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i was in a similar situation, my relationship of 12 years ended, but i couldnt just let him go i did all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual counselor who helped me bring him back

[@MichaelKevin-l6y]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/her?

[@Marianna-e6w]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@MichaelKevin-l6y]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@paulinegicheru8039]

Sorry... Differentiate a soul tie from true divine love. It seems you ate a lot of her filth*“" (ask God to break this soul tie!! .... Only God can break this chain... Do lots of prayer)

[@deebee4622]

A life of revenge ultimately ends in despair.

[@sonalijootun1712]

Thats is 100%true. I live with my narc father and he always destroyed my stuffs. Constantly..untill u have fear of having stuff.

[@pija9505]

Did you ever knowtice.. if theres a emegiency.. they seem to do the opposite than is needed to help solve the problem .

[@dr.muhammadamin1554]

A jealous narc mom will let a stranger harass her daughter, and then she puts all blaim on her daughter and tell everyone in family and friend circles. Narc parents are worst of the worsts. 😢

[@farfromthemaddingcroud]

I confirm the food thing, absolutely. Thank you so much for bringing this issue to the fore.

[@metoofamilycourt1]

The one that always sticks with me is when I was ill (obviously a huge inconvenience to him, how awful of me🙄), and he made this big fuss about having to make tea to 'help' me. I fell asleep on the sofa and woke up at some point in the middle of the night to see a pile of what looked like screwed up pink toilet roll on the coffee table. I was to feverish to care and he was nowhere in sight so I just went back to sleep. In the cold light of day I realised what it was, a bowl of insanely over boiled pasta which he'd covered in the juice from a jar of beetroot because 'we didn't have any pasta sauce in' as he explained when I had to ask because I was so baffled. He yelled at me for not having eaten it claiming I was ungrateful 🤷🏼‍♀️🤯 1 of many incidents, though probably the weirdest, it was usually badly burned things, or things he'd broken glass near so told me to 'chew carefully' 🧐

[@AlisonArcher-dc9wy]

That's so awful. So sorry.​@metoofamilycourt1

[@mwolfe2459]

What an enlightening video. As you spoke - past events started to come to mind and now viewed with more clarity - I feel validated in my thoughts that the numerous little "accidents", missing items and pets, humiliating cloths and questionsble food given me was just what I thought. It was all intentional. I was told I was "crazy", "selfish", "stupid", a "mistake" and would stop at nothing to tear the family apart. Love these insightful videos on my constant journey to heal. Thank you

[@Lifembracer]

I went to my sisters (narc) to pick up items i requested of my mother after her passing. As the evil sister picked up the box, the bottom fell out and all the items broke in a million pieces. You helped me see what i always suspected.. that this was deliberate by this evil person.

[@elizabethholmgren2067]

Danish, you were horribly abused. I am so sorry, but now you seem amazing. God bless you as you use the bad experience you had to help others.

[@memoryrinehart]

❤❤❤

[@VisibleTimes]

I hope and pray I can heal and help others to heal.

[@theresaelizabethelijah117]

I visited my narcissist mother and I usually put my products on the bathroom, one day I wanted to take a shower 🚿 then I was looking for my face towel but I couldn't find it. After the shower I saw it next to the toilet and it was wet, I was so shocked 😲 that I couldn't digest that she actually did that 😮😢 I didn't want to believe but it was obvious that was the first time I began to see behind the narcissistic mask and it was ugly and evil 😈 These individuals are sick to the core, they are demonic and silent killers, stay away from these monsters!

[@MrDevkumar13]

OMG how far can they go .. worse than demons for sure .. how can a normal person live with them ..thanks for this video Danish bhai

[@sergioalcantar3290]

I confirm the toothbrush thing, sadly, if you can get away stay the hell far away.

[@amitad1390]

Yes, nothing is safe with them.

[@bevkaveri3916]

I'm so sorry for your terrible experiences, but thank you for speaking your truth & for helping us all.

[@carihislop161]

I'm glad I watched this. It never occurred to me that any narc I knew would treat me like that, but with hindsight, I think they have. The last time I stayed at one narc's house, I became really sick and went to the doctor, fearing strep throat. I wouldn't be surprised if they'd sloshed my toothbrush in the toilet. It took me a long time to figure out why I could never understand them (they're a covert narcissist). I've since been sentenced to the 'silent treatment'. May it continue till I die.

[@VisibleTimes]

This video is very helpful and confirmed a lot of things that I experienced. They are always scheming to see what kind of evil depraved things they can get away with.

[@Theantinarc]

I truly think he was putting something in my food/drinks to make me sick. I started getting migraines, then severe rashes and food allergies, then diarrhea then I started not being able to get out of bed or remember common words or use my phone this lasted over a year and once he abandoned me I started to get better. 2 months later almost all my symptoms are gone.

[@wendyapfeldorf2120]

When married to the narcissist, I baked at least one apple pie every fall from scratch. I bought an inexpensive clear plastic kitchen ruler to measure pie crusts. Once, after making a pie, I was cleaning up and couldn’t find the ruler. The narcissist admitted that he “accidentally” must have thrown it away. A narcissist will serve you a meal that has gotten cold. When you say that it is cold, the narcissist will act offended and gaslight you that it was steaming hot when served.

[@ali-jean]

Whenever I made the mistake of allowing my mother to know what I treasured it would disappear......then deny deny deny....

[@MarleyLeMar]

This is also a way of shaming you, if you internalize this passive-aggressive devaluation of you. I'm glad to see so many people here saying they recognized it and didn't put up with it.

[@newtigom9460]

Other narcs at work did so many hateful things to me.I complained to my supervisor and I was seen as the bad person. Yes, I said what I thought about it but it ended up making me look bad.

[@andreabill7719]

Wow. So many of these things have happened to me: controlling food, violence, throwing away possessions, and sabotage. I choose forgiveness and self-respect to create a beautiful life.

[@Dknow7812]

Food is sacred. It being a fundamental part of existence and sustenance, many will use food and feeding as part of their game. It looks like caring, but it’s part of the deception.

[@lemsip207]

That's why people working in restaurants shouldn't do that to customers' food no matter how demanding the customers are.

[@denise6416]

Or they do a freak out always accusing you of poisoning them. That's what my creep ex narc did constantly to me. Drove me crazy trying to defend myself that I didn't. It's crazy shit.

[@lemsip207]

@@denise6416 They control people they eat with in different ways. The most common way is to keep people sitting around the meal table for hours so they get bored and uncomfortable. Even if the others are very tired as it's late in the evening they get told by the narc that it's rude to leave the table before they are excused. Or if it's lunch at the weekend and they need to leave to do other things they are still expected to sit there. Eventually when I was having dinner while on work trips a group of us would get up and leave at 10 pm to return to the hotel and I would join them even if that meant missing dessert. It was late, we were feeling tired and we were full. Narcs would say that was rude but since we were in a group the narc who stayed behind in the restaurant couldn't touch us. Besides I don't see dinner as the sole evening's entertainment. We should be able to eat earlier in the evening and only spend an hour in the restaurant. Then if no other entertainment is laid on in the evening then be free to separate to go for a walk, chat with the others in the hotel bar or foyer or watch TV in our hotel rooms. When the narc has targeted someone they do those other things.

[@rocktower7412]

So true. He poisoned my drink, I got sick, he denied everything. I went on antibiotics for a while: still recovering from that traumatic experience especially bkz no one can believe me about it. He appears perfectly kind and gentle 😢

[@PaulaSmith-c3r]

This has happened to me quite a few times. I was throwing up until NOTHING WAS LEFT! TRIED TO KILL ME MANY TIMES!

[@tiffanybluetarot]

They are more evil & will do worse things than people can even imagine. There are no limits.

[@laurasainz4836]

The truth WILL come out. The Bible says truth stands the test of time and lies are soon exposed. Your narc may be dumb enough to brag about what he did to someone else and that person will come tell you. The truth WILL come out.

[@emmasuo272]

So is he that shy covert and humble introverted type like in public or that overt one

[@rocktower7412]

@@emmasuo272 in public he hides his shyness by overdoing people pleasing stuffs, making them laugh etc… you cannot really tell anything wrong as soon as they are outside from their household

[@emmasuo272]

I've never felt such amount of pain and undescribed crying or sadness like whatever I do I don't feel that amount of happiness or joy after I've loved that covert narcissist so deeply from the bottom of my heart like he played with me and used me it's been three years and idk who I am I've been through very toughest time like deaths of closed ones but this heartbreak with him it just I'm bleeding internally and my soul has many bruises and my chest has heaviness unexplained loving a narcissist turned out to be the living death of myself

[@alionamarina7061]

We do have a choice to live OUR life, with dignity, peace and joy. Restoration will come if you give yourself time to meditate, to find and understand yourself. God help you recover and smile again. Blessings

[@itchysheets1222]

My ex would break things my mother had given me….whenever I would go to see her, while I was gone to visit her is when he’d do it and say it was an accident. Omg it always bothered me but I’m noticing the pattern….he always called my stuff junk and worthless. I never eat anything he gives me. He brought some groceries for our kids last night and brought a 2 liter of sprite. But the bottle is squishy like as if air had been let out while being open. And the lid is abnormally tight, I think it has been opened. I have dumped coffee out after noticing the label on the cup said “1 of 1” meaning…he didn’t go to Starbucks to enjoy something, he only got coffee for me, a small one, he never did favors for me. That was the first time I realized he was trying to do me in. Demons.

[@NatalieRand-93070]

I will never be near anyone ever again

[@itzkmarie87]

The narc I dealt with tampered with my toothbrush. When we stayed together but denied it. I'm so grateful to God I have a stay away order on him. Regardless of the senator things they do it's reaping and sowing season. God sees/seen EVERYTHING that's a guarantee!

[@lidiagogowska6692]

Dear Danish, I embrace you with love and empathy! May the Lord bless you and prepare the best place for you in heaven! Amen! ♥️😘😘

[@User414xz]

Evil games I couldn't believe people were able to do. Thank you for educating. Keep your good spirit and shine bright.

[@lorettajoy7275]

This video is so true, exposing the secret abuses of a narcissist. I can identify with many of these things having been done to me by covert nex, and feel there are others in this video that apply although i haven't been able to face them yet. How good it feels to be away from all that and this is a reminder NEVER to become entangled with anyone similar again.

[@lorettajoy7275]

Thank you, Danish, for bravely speaking out on these very real abuses perpetrated against survivors of such things.

[@kw25627]

Some of these behaviors (use of body fluids) are also seen in the occult. How ironic and very telling. Another more subtle tactic my sister used was the attempt to corrupt the innocence of my children. She hates the fact that they are homeschooled. Outside of my presence, she would talk to them about things highly inappropriate for their age. When I discussed boundaries with her, she said that it is life and they need to know about and experience those things. Well... life will teach them in due time and we (their parents) will discuss those things with them. YOU are NOT their parent and YOU don't even have a relationship with them to be able to speak into their life. We have cut off all contact with her.

[@kingsdaughter9849]

Yes witchcraft is built on control and manipulation. Never let them into your personal spaces...they will take hair from your brush and dirty tampons out of the garbage and use them for spells!

[@sandyberger-r9j]

That‘s why, after I left him, he never saw the family dog again- I was too scared that he’d do something to her since he had almost killed her by „accident“ before.

[@keisharobinson8007]

Yes!! They are tormented and tormenting souls spreading their destruction. May God keep me covered over every evil deed and schemes of my enemies!

[@CORINNATORRES-ut4ug]

I've been through this!

[@EdenMashiah]

Everything u said is accurate seems like they all operate the same

[@dreamscape405]

My mother used to brag that she gave me dog biscuits as baby/toddler. It was one of the main topics she liked to pubicly shame me with. Along with MANY destructive, disgusting behaviors.

[@rockerdad2]

that may be a chargeable offence. dog foods are made to a different standard than human food in the plants that make them.

[@l.t.3857]

Oh no… I had a dream last night that my narc mother was trying to give me a piece of chicken that was chewed on by a dog, then this video showed up this morning. Unbelievable.

[@anoopmail123]

Very true. 1. I have been having food daily from restaurants for the last 5 years just because I feel the food is condemned many times. 2. My partners parental figure used to urinate on dishes. 3. My car keys disappeeared an hour before my daughters birthday function. 4. My documents and clothes magically disappeared two years back. 5. My narc parent took my pet dog and left in wild when I was not at home at the age of 15. I am living a life my father, mother, brother and wife all narcc. Absolute hell.

[@HlobHlobHlob]

Yes, when the narcissistic came back. All of a sudden everything so randomly broke and went missing.

[@tiffanybluetarot]

💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯

[@sofiawulf2083]

Same here and of u Point out that its importante to u,Even faster

[@tiffanybluetarot]

@@sofiawulf2083 💯🎯

[@IYouLikeCheeseI]

​@@tiffanybluetarot Watch cutlery, I promise you they just throw it in the bin.

[@PriscillaMalama-l8g]

Danish is very right, my x gave away my belongings behind my back even when he knew l treasured them so much.

[@VisibleTimes]

My dad did the same to me and flew into narc rage when I confronted him about it. He knew I was trying to rebuild after surviving a tornado but lied about and laughed at my upset. Now (or shall I say recently) he advises me not to buy myself anything new when I used to go to the store with him.

[@jilross4892]

That is horrible, never thought about this

[@IsraelXOX-gh9mr]

Sexlessness. Sharing a bed with someone who doesn’t acknowledge you are a sexual being hurts so much. I was in a sexless marriage for years. Being a woman with a high libido, I felt inadequate. Worst I feel invisible. The man who was “supposed” to want me, just didn’t. We talked about it many times, more than I can recall now. It was always me. I wanted too much - once a week was too much for him. I didn’t initiate - he was always complaining of headaches, stomaches, always stressed, always tired. I was too sexual - when being subtle doesn’t work, what is next? Explicitly saying I wanted sex. Oh but then it was not appropriate. Conversations would end up with him saying he didn’t feel desired or I made him feel emasculated because he didn’t want sex as much as I did. Yeah, it was always me. I could never win. While we were dating we would have a decent amount of sex, it was good. The first huge red flag was not having sex in our honeymoon - which I ignored. It rapidly decrease to once a week, then every other week. Years gone by it was months in between, by the time we divorced it was over a year with no sex. I cried myself to sleep more times that I can count. I didn’t understand what was wrong with me. Was I that undesirable? Was I repulsive? After those conversations, I just stopped trying, initiating, mentioning sex. We were still loving - holding hands, hugging, kissing - but sex was off the table. He then cheated on me. Swore he had sex only 4 times in a year (or more) long affair. It didn’t matter. For years my self worth was damaged by him, years of low self esteem, years of feeling less of a woman, the marriage that was more than over, waiting in hospice, really ended. Funny how things are, I asked him for a divorce, he manipulated me into staying, next day his infidelity came to light. I was out as soon as I could. Best thing of my life. Additionally, That feeling when your partner cheated and you don't have the courage to leave him / her so you just death with the pain and live everyday asking questions about your worth. This pain is different from the cheating one_living and seeing him everywhere anticipating when he or she do it again. The best thing is to hire a private investigator digitalinvestigate@gmail. com to help you spy on their cellphone remotely just like he did for me...

[@memoryrinehart]

Actually, the best thing is to separate. That spying bondage is hell. So sorry for what you went through which makes no sense at all. I found an analogy for the treatment: it's like those end screens on a movie where the picture gets smaller and smaller until it's just a dot and then disappears...Or like glaucoma, where you can't readily feel the loss as it's happening cause it's insidious. This is what they would have happen to you and this brings them fulfillment?

[@michaelgarrow3239]

So many women do the same thing to men.

[@cassiebennet4262]

I dealt with basically the same thing. It's extremely painful. After much examination of the situation and pathologically narcissistic behavior I came to understand the truth behind this phenomenon. It had nothing to do with you. Everything a narcissist does, as far as interactions with others, has to do with getting a hit of of validation. They do not want a meaningful relationship with anyone. They want a dopamine rush that comes with someone validating the mask they wear. If you've already seen them for who they are you're now invisible to them .They need someone to believe that all their mimicry and performances are the real them. It's a difficult concept to grasp, but people don't actually exist to them. People are literal props they use to regulate their emotions and nothing more. One video that really hit for me recently is Narcissists Are Boring by The Little Shaman. It seemingly focuses on one aspect of pathologically narcissism, but I think it encompasses so much more.

[@SometimesitRains578]

I’m so sorry you experienced that. I went through the same thing. As I was reading your post it was as if I was writing it myself. After 20yrs I’m separated but the echoes and memories are still there…and hard 😢

[@manawah.o.p.e.]

Dear Danish, all the things you desribe have happened to me over years and I didn't know about narcissism then what I do now....I'm deeply traumatized but not broken and very aware now...I feel the best when I'm alone...as I believe in myself ❤

[@SuperChristine000]

I've experienced destruction of property - hair straighteners, self-retracting hose, self-propelling lawn mower - these things clearly irked him. I have published a book on amazon kindle of my experiences of narcissism in my childhood and marriage called Curb Your Narcissism. No one has read it yet.

[@kaycampbell8532]

I'm sickened after watching this because I wonder if my narc sister tampered with my personal property. I know for a fact she snooped through my belongings when I wasn't home. She had no respect for privacy.

[@user-of9bx1uk3u]

This is why I let no one in my home.🏡

[@FATALDIVA]

My husband would run a shopping cart into the back of my ankles if we went shopping together, then act like he was playing around, and I was being too sensitive.

[@csc8697]

Do it back. That's painful.

[@gabrielleaumont3971]

Do the same to HIM! shop alone, take a friend! Walk behind him!

[@newtigom9460]

@@gabrielleaumont3971 I know for a fact that I'd end up looking like the bad guy.It's so frustrating.

[@EvelynSchuppert]

What an asshole. I hope you dumped him.

[@2014moon]

@@newtigom9460so what do it that’s mean af

[@annchege-hq4fy]

He used my tableclothes to dust his vehicles.He grazed his cows on my kitchen garden.They are demons indeed

[@raindrop1215]

There was a girl that I was friends with when we were preteens. She got into drugs when we were teenagers and she and I grew apart. But, she grew close to my mom. I guess it's because they both experienced physically abusive childhoods. The friend died from gangrene in her arm when we were 21. Her boyfriend had been shooting her up wrong. Shortly before the friend died, my mom had gifted her a white bath towel that had a precious moments girl standing face to face with a goose. My mom also gave me the same towel. One day, my narc dad was canning peaches. He used my white towel to clean up the mess and stained it all up. I was LIVID. He wasn't at all sorry. And, he played stupid to try to make me look like the bad guy. The man was in his late forties at the time. He was plenty old enough to know better 😡😡😡😡😡.

[@AlineDreams]

My mother once "carelessly" broke a cute mug I really liked because I told her to wait a bit before I could help her carry the rack said mug was on. Thanks to this and my drunken brother throwing breakable things to mine, hers and my sister's direction in fits of anger, I am now entirely traumatized at things falling on the floor and breaking. Those people are the worst.

[@royabicher4318]

Wow. I heard of someone who was pet sitting and gave away the dog. It's so strange, you have no idea how they could think that way, it's ridiculous. Then you find out it's because they have bad intentions

[@janicemurphy4373]

Not just Bad Intention they are just plain evil!!!!!!!!😈 and won’t change!!!!!!!

[@caryn9561]

It tends to run in families my mother in law her daughter and her daughters my husband was abusive man.

[@juless7807]

Narcissistic ex's narcissistic daughter messed with my toiletries while accusing me of doing the same to her. How these people keep fitting into the same boxes continues to blow my mind.

[@bonnieisaac5811]

Yes. They are vile. So vile I cannot even speak of it.

[@carlaplotner]

Called my family heirlooms CRAP and destroyed all of it... devastating, I am still mourning those items and photo albums too! Memories only in my mind now, no tangible things to share with future generations... it's eviscerating!

[@tiffanybluetarot]

You are not alone. Sending you love & healing.

[@AnnaMartins-dt5we]

It happened to me as well!! Old paintings, ornaments and much more… he threw everything away claiming that my memories weren’t worth keeping!!

[@mariagorettij2308]

​@@AnnaMartins-dt5wehope you are healing...

[@kmitch5932]

Oh no! I'm so sorry, that was such a cruel thing to do!

[@tiffanybluetarot]

@@AnnaMartins-dt5we ooh, I felt that. I’m sorry your cherished items were thrown away with such disregard. I always wondered if there is anything they hold sacred. ((I don’t believe there really is…))

[@aloksrivastava7938]

Sad part is, in many movies, TV shows and media, these things done by narcissists are depicted as a comedy.

[@SamSpray-jg9hz]

Ive noticed that too, narcissistic low life filth is all over in film industry

[@IYouLikeCheeseI]

​@@SamSpray-jg9hz I believe narcisism is way more common than what it appears.

[@sarahodom7091]

Yup, the worst things are glorified in the media!!! I hate it. One summer I was laid up with Lyme, and so sick, and watched Brittish comedy, and Catherine Tate. UK humor is different from American humor, very different. Our "humor" is mean.

[@MercedesGaston-g4o]

Thank you. You're helping so many. Each podcast covers aspects of narcissistic behavior many experts don't.

[@ericacecchini3998]

God bless you Danish! You ate an amazing man. I can relate as I was debilitated by a narcissist for almost 10 years. I’m still struggling with pain from the toxic narcissistic abuse. Thank you for all you do.

[@MsRapture10]

My partner has emptied skin care bottles, “disappeared” my curling iron, my blow dryer, rubbed my toothbrush with perfume, broken sunglass arms, unpacked items I had packed for trips, moved my laundry into his clothes, hide a bath suit top I used to wear frequently then put it back once summer was over, took my SIM card out of my phone, put pin holes in a new handbag, scratches and dents my car, has carved scratches in my treadmill, taken debris out of the trash I’ve swept and sprinkled it back on the floor right before company coming, etc etc etc. it’s endless. I truly don’t know how these people look themselves in the mirror every day

[@lucyt-c8092]

Leave ! Carefully …

[@MsRapture10]

@ working on it

[@perrywambui8954]

Jeez😢..... That's a demon, it cannot be a human!!

[@debkay9533]

I'm going through this TOO-It seams there's millions going through this--narccasist are everywhere😅

[@oyster4545]

Thanks for further clarification I might have ended up with these issues if i have not left the narcissist at initial stage of psychological torture.

[@victoryamartin9773]

Thank you for the warning. I had a roomate who did things like these. Now I have squatters who openly abuse me with raging demands and threats of financial and legal punishment if I don't do what they want. After listening to you, I am going to be more hypervigilant about what they might do to my food, etc. This makes me think my life is in danger. They would love to see me die so they can completely take over my house.

[@missbrooke666]

Omfg! Is there nothing the police or if not a group of threatening muscly guy friends can do?!?

[@sweethoney9292]

Oh baby please get help from someone so you can keep your peace and home ❤️ keep us updated

[@victoryamartin9773]

@@missbrooke666 The police won't help because CA law protects squatters over homeowners, and muscle guys have offered, but I don't want to see them arrested for my sake.

[@victoryamartin9773]

@@sweethoney9292 I am documenting evidence so I can take them to court someday, hopefully before I lose all capacity.

[@victoryamartin9773]

@@missbrooke666 Ya, nothing legal.

[@CcCc-yl8yg]

My Marc cut up all 10 of my $70 victoria secret bras and told me I was delusional to think he did it. He also put something in my food and laughed while I ate. My face went numb from what he placed in my food. I had no idea why he was randomly laughing while I ate. I figured it out that he put something in my food after my face went numb and remembered his laughing. These narcs are dangerous

[@Melva-Tjong]

This is the highs they get, that they can get away with murders after doing terrible things to others invisibly. I wish the world now is aware of their cunning acts.

[@belindakaylani5054]

My precious items were destroyed, broken as a child, bad, old food brought to my house later, broken toys, used ugly clothes brought to my home… discounted me constantly. Dead & out of my life.

[@marka.8535]

My ex narc wife threatened to poison both myself and my dog ; also tried to buy life insurance on me. Looking back on it I was having difficulty swallowing my food .

[@missbrooke666]

Omfg!!! Please tell me you sought legal help? If my ex narc so much as LOOKED at my cat wrong, he’d be in the ground today 🤬

[@sweethoney9292]

Glad you and your pup 🐶 are ok love ❤️

[@raindrop1215]

Ewwwwe! My narc sis and, BIL and their narc friends all got life insurance policies from this shady place. They gave the guy my number without even asking me or giving me a heads up. And, the creep of a life insurance agent called me up, assumed I wanted a policy without even asking me and dove right into demanding my personal information. I had to really lay it into the ba****d to get him to leave me alone. The agent then informed my sister and her husband of this interaction (like it's their stinking business 🙄) and I was labeled forever after as the "crazy" one in this situation. At the time, they probably would have been the ones most likely to have been put down as a beneficiary. Their extreme disappointment at my refusal makes me feel a little wary especially since I am years younger than both of them. ICK!

[@sweethoney9292]

@@raindrop1215 girl get outta there 😭🙏❤️

[@rebeccafrank7445]

He's doing it from jail

[@andrawilson3705]

My little dog was kicked to death, the table I inherited from my grandmother was given away, my entire 40 year old portfolio of art was thrown away because there were cobwebs, my library of magazines was burned, my only doll from my grandmother was given to a second hand store, and more. I’m glad I understand finally.

[@memoryrinehart]

I'm suffering similar things. I can't find my art portfolio yet. I dropped my things off from storage thinking they'd be safe. They were gone through and they did what they wanted with them.

[@pirateheart21]

I'm learned after a few years in that I could never let him know things that I honestly liked because he would set to destroy them.. When we were divorcing a bit before he was going to move out he painted the kitchen the color I couldn't stand... Knowing that the kid's new mom loved her red kitchen so he painted it an ugly blue while I was at work..

[@lehacarpenter7773]

Also: killing your plants; sliming your food prep surfaces; swapping their old food for your new food (like eggs); taking your cash; sliming your pillow; throwing away your mail... and the list goes on.

[@StuartCochrane-y1f]

This has brought back memories but has explained a lot😢

[@corifee1164]

I've known a narcissists victim - tortured by parents and later by husband - who, in return to him cheating, cooked soup with toilet water for him, let cats lick the food, or trample over the meal before serving...and I think well done. Probably she learned at parents house.

[@pamelacave5515]

I see Danish loved this. Me too😅

[@barbpaq]

Ugh. To me that's like joining the enemy. No matter how low you stoop, they'll go lower.

[@corifee1164]

​. Toilet soup is funny though 😂

[@Marlene-qm7qc]

These horrible narcissists take without asking. 😢

[@WindmillsOfTheMind]

I actually thought I was going mad. I was trying to convince myself that no one would really do this. So this is true?

[@bonnieisaac5811]

Absolutely disgusting. Demonic.

[@donnahill758]

My family of narcissists were more subtle. Things like they were just kidding, hide financial resources, demeaned my educational and financial resources. They did give away my pet and my possessions. I am glad that they didn’t learn about the other evil misdeeds that you have revealed here. Fortunately only one sister is still living and we are not in contact.

[@bonitasmith8880]

This just makes me literally sick to my stomach. The last THREE men I've been involved with, of which one I'm still with, have done EVERYTHING you've said, to me. I've been tased in my sleep, I've had seman put in my lotion, pee in my shoes and the list goes on. Why oh why do I keep getting involved with these mean people? I just want somebody to love, who loves me back. Maybe I'm the problem. I don't know. 😭😭😭

[@karansinghrocky30]

100% true.The narc has destroyed and stolen many of my belongings and she has even destroyed my driving license.

[@R73949]

@@karansinghrocky30 their main motive is to destroy other people life

[@jesswhycamarz]

That is terrifying. Adults cannot do much without identification. That was well thought out malice. I’m sorry you went through that.

[@karansinghrocky30]

@@jesswhycamarz Thanks for your kind feelings

[@ElisaVecchio]

The ex narc , one day got a hair tint brush and tried to apply a musk on my face. I was so disgusted, so I really let him have it. Soon after I left the disgusting beast. Thanks to Danish that opened my eyes. The look on his face the day I left him was priceless

[@sjwillis1137]

Reading some of the comments has me wondering . I recall that a bag of framed photos of me and my other half in loving poses just disappeared. I took some of them off the mantel piece to make more room . But planned to put them elsewhere . They meant so much to me . There were five or six of them . They just disappeared . I searched high and low . No joy . I now wonder if he threw them out .This was years ago but it perplexed me . Also more recently all my personal documents and an envelope containing childhood photos have done the same disappearing act . There were other documents and letters too . I kept them in the bottom drawer of a chest of drawers .Gone ! I asked him about this and he said I must have put them somewhere. No . I've riffled and searched to no avail . A couple of pairs my boots disappeared a few weeks ago . I looked in my cupboards for them . Asked him if he'd seen them . He said no . I was getting into a tizz .I then found them in the cloakroom cupboard . In a bag .With another bag and a pillow on top and my rolled up yoga mat on top of that . Like he'd hidden them . I just tell myself I'm being paranoid . And maybe I am . When I confronted him about this he screamed at me . Calling me a stupid crazy bitch and other things 🙊😟.

[@EvelynSchuppert]

Omg every time I see one of your videos, it gives me flashbacks from my narcissistic father!! It’s crazy how much I hate him for things he did!! I just remembered he used to spit on food he didn’t want to share and then laughed as if it was only a joke… inside I was furious.

[@daisynadal6909]

My narc aunt related to my narc mother, used to force me to eat hot dogs with mayonnaise and other condiments I didn't like...

[@NixCastles]

Also constantly going to the restroom at home (#1 and #2) with the bathroom door wide open.