Thankful to Lord Jesus for you, Blessings and Love❤❤
@sgttim86172 ай бұрын
I, I'm Guessing- Like Many Others- Have been Assuming, that MOST of the People around me, are Generally "For Me", but it Seems that Most of the people, are Out too "Stop, OR DESTROY MY : Advancing; Succeeding, OR IMPROVING... FROM NOW ON... By The Grace and Enabling, Of God's Holy Spirit -And Your Helping me too be "Wiser Than my Enemies...! ( Ps 119 !) May I -- Be. . . " AS WISE AS SERPENTS, YET INNOCENT AS DOVES ! ...". (Matthew 10:16 !)
@Zookeeper.2 ай бұрын
Hello@@Kris_Reece, care to elaborate why you are using words like "demon", "evil" or "hate"? My guess is this is to cater to a gullible audience and sell crap so you can benefit from it without actually understanding any of it.. ..Take your time to process this and reply if you can..
@patoaklitefrenchtv2 ай бұрын
@@Kris_Reece Dear aunt, thank you for the free guide. God bless you the more. It is helpful.
@patoaklitefrenchtv2 ай бұрын
@@Zookeeper. Hi! Well, I'm not Kris, I'm certain she's still gonna reply. However, with my experience, I'll term them living demons. Why? The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy John 10:10. The narcissists come for same. They steal your joy, your shine, your glow, your energy, they sap your prayer strength both physically and spiritually. While they're at that, they're destroying your body, image, and things God has helped you build and at the end they kill. That's what I think.
@CHDean2 ай бұрын
1:53 “If the devil can’t get to you directly, he will send to you a narcissist.” #AmenSister
@CollectivelyCraig2 ай бұрын
Lol. Right . Why? Hes busy trying to steal the unseeable version of his power tooool. I really need it 🤡 . Its the living word. Living constitution... a3we man th3y robbed me for tje constitution. So they could have virgin births. New beginnings 😂
@marciachristina95132 ай бұрын
This is very true
@patoaklitefrenchtv2 ай бұрын
@@CHDean Absolutely correct. However, by the knowledge of the word of God, one can choose better. And the best to do is not to stay with them and die (spiritually, mentally, relationally, financially and afterwards, physically). Why die for a narcissist after Jesus Christ already died for them?
@loulane7262 ай бұрын
🐟 🐟🐟🐟🐟🐟 🐟🐟🐟 😃
@A_Person-21122 ай бұрын
@patoaklitefrenchtv Hmmm , sometimes this is true ~ there exists some very dark, very covert narcs who are also present in churches and synagogues alike... unfortunately, I speak from experience.
@annbee44942 ай бұрын
My mother has been hell on wheels. Satan is using her nonstop to attack me. Some of our worse enemies are of our household. Sadly. 😞
@jlcmsw2 ай бұрын
@@annbee4494 I’m with you. I’m in the process of getting a restraining order against my mother. I didn’t want to but she’s becoming too dangerous.
@annbee44942 ай бұрын
@@jlcmsw It truly is sad that you even have to do that. Praying for you. If she is a danger to you than you have no choice but to do this. My prayers go out to you and this bad situation. My mother is very mean spirited and a bully. I am working hard to walk right in my Christian faith, but she is always harassing me, pushing all my buttons, and always dragging me into fights. She is a narcissist and a very comptemptous person. It is so draining being around her. Life has enough problems in it without this nonsense. Hang in there.
@Capt10212 ай бұрын
@@annbee4494 You must be my sister because I have had that same mother since day one. I’m Trying to balance honor thy mother and must not hate and harbor an unforgiving heart while she needs elder care but the sin of asking why is she still alive is pulling me backwards❤️🩹
@dianadrummond1462 ай бұрын
@@Capt1021let her go into a nursing home then.
@777thesse2 ай бұрын
@@annbee4494 been there done that! Now I am doing this with my dad! My mom passed along with others family members adding to it! I had walked away from that years againbut they are creeping in the back door so to speak! Working to closing that door again! It was such freedom when I did
@dawndonnelly97032 ай бұрын
I am not drained anymore, not anxious. No more stomach problems. No stress. They definitely take a toll on you.Thank God im free.❤ 🙏
@yamisomad34862 ай бұрын
You are blessed. ❤
@annamassek90642 ай бұрын
I want all narcissists to stay away from me
@amaryllisvanommen94282 ай бұрын
@@dawndonnelly9703 How did you get there I mean healed? I'm still everything you mentioned. Anxious, stomach ake, ecerything. I hope God help me soon!
@janinesmith3692 ай бұрын
Yes they do 😢 Yes thank God you are free ❤
@GMJBlood2 ай бұрын
I'm so glad you're free, and that you're thriving! It took me years and cost almost everything to get away, and it's so hard starting over at near 70. But God IS good, especially in the trenches!
@Schquirl2 ай бұрын
1. Causes sin 2. Invalidate feelings and are deceptive by manipulation 3. Sow discord and cause division 4. Emotional vampires 5. Causes cringe, creepy and doom feelings of fear
@CollectivelyCraig2 ай бұрын
I only fear the lord. U see how u dont notice any of that? You dont know God. He would scare u off. Use the force on him. Out of boredom. Your light work. His first experience with the force. Command him to go in his music hole. Youll be in later to eat his face and take his breath away so he cant save your speech with just the letter its death 😂
@carlaroden19022 ай бұрын
God can bring a narc into your life to teach you. It was in my case. I know who the lord is. Dont tell me this wouldn't happen if I dont know god. That's a really rigid view.
@Schquirl2 ай бұрын
To add to the comments here on these points of the video. Proverbs 6:12-19 NKJV [12] A worthless person, a wicked man, Walks with a perverse mouth; [13] He winks with his eyes, He shuffles his feet, He points with his fingers; [14] Perversity is in his heart, He devises evil continually, He sows discord. [15] Therefore his calamity shall come suddenly; Suddenly he shall be broken without remedy. [16] These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him: [17] A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, [18] A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, [19] A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethren. Proverbs 26:24-25 NKJV [24] He who hates, disguises it with his lips, And lays up deceit within himself; [25] When he speaks kindly, do not believe him, For there are seven abominations in his heart
@CollectivelyCraig2 ай бұрын
@@carlaroden1902 yea but God didnt bring me into your lives my friend. I was simply doing the Lord's work and when I started rapping it up tight here you all come oh and two letrters. nothing to do with me everyting to do with OH THATS OURS NOW THAnks man! FOR YOU and Islam. hbring more3 than a narc into my life . yours too. see if you can break it.
@CollectivelyCraig2 ай бұрын
@@carlaroden1902 I dunno if I can break it but God is always in control. right. aye broo.... imagine how deluded someone would have to be to think lying could get you thijs far or human planning and my inner voice. I really like religion. I have the most rigid view because i get forced Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani in his explanation of this Hadith said: “Pigs are killed to show that it is prohibited to be eaten. It is also an insult to the Christians who claimed that they are the followers of Prophet Jesus, but then they ruled it halal to eat swine and like it.” Fath al-Bari bi Sharh Sahih al-Bukhari, 4/414
@donnasloane9031Ай бұрын
I was discarded 25 years ago....when I got ovarian cancer......was cured......healed mentally and emotionally....living my best life. Praise be to the LORD.
@JSmith-ou3skАй бұрын
@donnasloane9031 In sickness and in health.
@MajorIllustration28 күн бұрын
Praise Jesus! A miracle!
@4everjesusbride9 күн бұрын
Praise be to Jehovah and Father I AM! ❤
@monalisa26622 ай бұрын
This is so excellent! I was just discarded by my husband of 31 years without warning as my mother was leaving this world. Any observant person would see his timing was no accident..... But she and I got to spend her last 3 weeks on this Earth in peace. There is peace in Christ. I just buried my beloved mother a few days ago. My heart is aching. I am trying to find the spiritual treasures amid the ruins of my marriage and life without my dear mother. There is a literal spiritual war going on all around us ... I pray those who have aching hearts will find peace and healing with God's loving help.
@bettycarmella11272 ай бұрын
🙏🏽
@LouisOosthuizen-f7h2 ай бұрын
When you remember the good times you had with your mother, thank the Lord for your time with her. It relieves the pain until it is gone.
@lynnm.20192 ай бұрын
Sharing in your sorrow dear sister. I know this kind of grief as do so many. But we also share in the real hope of the joy that is ahead. And that one day soon to be in your mothers embrace and our saviors, never ever to be parted again. 🫂✝️The afflictions of the righteous are many, but the Lord He delivers him out of them all.” ❤️Psalm 34:19
@adventurouspanda91102 ай бұрын
Praying for you @monalisa2662 … 💕may The Lord continue to saturate you with His peace. May supportive people be present in your life, as the hands and feet of Jesus, to help bear your burdens. We are earthen vessels made to declare His glory.
@denisemarsack66042 ай бұрын
Praying for you ❤✝️
@cynthiahewitt99452 ай бұрын
The most insidious part is narcissists are most often someone we love or should be able to love, but betrayal and abuse precludes it.
@sarahdouglas58512 ай бұрын
So true...and often they view you as competition, even though you are not competing with them. A wonderful counselor once said that where there is competition, there can never be nurturing.
@sherrydickie84592 ай бұрын
You are so right...my own daughter 😢
@NF403752 ай бұрын
Why do you think detectives investigate your spouse/partner/ex, children, parents, relatives, and work their way outward to neighbors, coworkers etc It’s always someone closest to you If they are Godless not God fearing and not acting God like I’d sleep with one eye open Energy never lies or dies You can feel the energy/vibe, stay grounded with clarity, pray for sharp discernment and never ignore your intuition These are our gifts
@paulam4082 ай бұрын
Was hung up on a guy for many, many years & eventually figured out he was a selfish narcissist who is incapable of a normal relationship with a woman.
@sylanski12 ай бұрын
I think the most insidious thing about narcissists is how they always end up looking like the victim in the end & they get away with the incomprehensible evil things that they do to the real victim
@stefaniadiamond26 күн бұрын
They'll always go on & on about how much they love you but have no action to back it up
@loulane7262 ай бұрын
Also notice how you feel physically; do you feel nauseous, queasy, low energy, tight chest, short on breath, break out in hives / itchy skin. In the presence of good people you should feel relaxed, calm, & happy.
@Angelitaasmr2 ай бұрын
@@loulane726 I feel this all the time. Since I met him my health went down.
@Lethisha72 ай бұрын
@loulane726 omggg the hivesss. I'll never forget Cuba. We went away together and after a fight where he just did everything to get under my skin. I had such a visceral reaction and broke out in hives all over my body. I thought the bed had bed bugs but he wasn't "bitten." The devil is a liar and I am free in Christ Amen!. I've blocked him everywhere. He will NEVER have access to me. Not in the spiritual realm or physical realm. Thank you, Jesus. Thank you for sharing your testimony. It served to remind and strengthen others to break free.
@sweetea70352 ай бұрын
@loulane726 EXACTLY!! I could not understand why I had such a physical reaction to my now stepchild at our very first meeting. I had always loved children, and I'm a calm, loving, very sensitive person. I am also a Christian. When I first laid eyes on this child, I felt like I should run. It was like an absolute repulsion. I had never experienced anything like this. 44 years later, I can't even describe what this miserable entity has caused me. The only thing that helps is distance. Read the book of Jude....it'll all click. I could write a book, but even typing this makes me cringe.
@Pinkythepainter7772 ай бұрын
Oh wow! I had an argument with someone I considered a friend last night, and woke up with the worst hives I've ever had! I cut her off for 3 years, to recently let her back in. Big mistake. She is worse than she was 3 years ago. Even her family stays away. I thought GOD wanted me to guide her, and help her with her anger issues, but I prayed for her today, and I he told me not to waste my time. She will never change. The weird thing is, she told me she found Jesus, but proceeded to say G damnit constantly. I think she tricked me. There's no fruit of the spirit. 😢
@sweetea70352 ай бұрын
@MegaMisfit138 when I would try to pray for that person, it felt strange, like it wouldn't make any difference. It felt almost wrong.
@G47R2 ай бұрын
"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." - James 4:7 KJ
@charlesforte64732 ай бұрын
AMEN !!! 🙏🙏🙏
@deborahgtucker9 күн бұрын
And, yes he did, straight to his next victim. Collaborated with her and began to follow and shadow me. 3 years of this petty, self absorbed behavior I do not react. Still biding my time…….
@victoriousjane69637 күн бұрын
There is a person in my life who was sent by the devil but refuses to leave and keeps stalking and harassing me. Please pray for me that he leaves forever.
@HumilityisaVirtueАй бұрын
I have very few friends.... and this includes siblings. I simply got to the point where I'd rather "shake the dust from my sandals, leave them behind, and not look back." I pray for them, but all I need is God. Yes, Proverbs 6. Doesn't that pretty much sum it up? Thank you Kris.
@athygiannopoulos26342 ай бұрын
You can tell they're toxic if they grieve your spirit
@hutdweller74302 ай бұрын
Yes, but we are not perfect; we all grieve other people; Look deeper.
@lm55422 ай бұрын
So true❤ Thank you
@patoaklitefrenchtv2 ай бұрын
@@hutdweller7430 You're correct that we grieve people as well. However, ours, we do unintentionally and that's what makes the difference, in my opinion.
@johnmorgan79472 ай бұрын
U never knew a NARC"!@hutdweller7430
@tcouger12 ай бұрын
I don’t understand…. What does this mean if they grieve your spirit?
@keiraariel73822 ай бұрын
My husband of 17 years, (together for 24), Everything was my fault. I was the problem, I needed help, I needed therapy. Every time I suggest, couples counseling with our church. He would say he doesn't need it, I'm the problem. Gaslighting, manipulating, emotionally abusive, verbally abusive, threatened to leave I was the only one trying to improve our marriage. I know God didn't design marriage to be how my husband treated me. Please 🙏 keep me in prayer for favor in the court to get my girls.
@robertstrayhall73862 ай бұрын
Kris gave me the works u name it she did it away now 8 months I feel so much better physically, emotionally and mentally
@robertstrayhall73862 ай бұрын
Parasite
@dawnpratt46082 ай бұрын
Sending love light asking God jesus and angel michel xx
@deec4112 ай бұрын
Sending love and light 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
@mwebb30142 ай бұрын
@@keiraariel7382 Praying for you. I completely understand your experience. 🙏🏻💕
@nellie93522 ай бұрын
Ah yes: they are EVERYWHERE! Parents, spouses, siblings, bosses, politicians, cops, doctors, etc
@elizabethy29122 ай бұрын
Don't forget in the church, also, parishioners and Pastors!!
@keldealmeida57682 ай бұрын
I met narcissistic friends on my way.
@dianadrummond1462 ай бұрын
Teachers/professors,scientists, psychologists,counselors, DCF personnel,judges, attorneys/prosecutors/public defenders,marshalls,trainers, rescue people,celebrities, members of the media....
@LittleKitty222 ай бұрын
Very true. And they love going into professions that guarantees them easy access to potential victims - and automatic assumed credibility (getting believed because of their position)!
@sweetea70352 ай бұрын
@@nellie9352 and they look just like us !
@SuperMichelleDJ2 ай бұрын
If I want to be protected from people who are sent by the devil, I would literally have nobody in my life at all. I'm truthfully not embellishing myself when I say that either. as much as I like socialising with people, I feel better about living in solitude with the way this world is going.
@hutdweller74302 ай бұрын
Guess what Jesus told me...that the only friends I would have (during End Times) would be Him and His Mother! And it's turning out that way, even w family! The devil destroys everything good that I have. But he can't destroy Jesus' Love for us❤
@gracebe2352 ай бұрын
@@ThomasWells-k2i…….There are times and situations, that can require some to be in solitude for a while. Solitude from people, can increase your closeness with Heavenly Father…..especially when the solitude was imposed on you, and not a choice that the individual made.
@BruceSlater-yi5wj2 ай бұрын
GOD Bless you Me too ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊
@patoaklitefrenchtv2 ай бұрын
How about socializing with fellow children of God? Those who are genuinely living the life of God are still truly around.
@renarich49422 ай бұрын
@@hutdweller7430u mean Mary she died and is in the grave . She knows nothing
@gaetanemcgraw556725 күн бұрын
I am so tired. I am so tired. He drains me of all my energy. I wrote this comment before you even mentionned it. All that you have said applies to me and my relationship with him. He is a trickster. Very manipulative.
@paul54712 ай бұрын
After 32 years with a narcissist, I finally left my wife the pain and relief is undescribable, nearly 2 years later I finally am able to find myself and my love for God in my life. The road ahead feels like an adventure. So hang in there!!!
@candacejones3352Ай бұрын
One of the many bonuses of getting older and relying on the intuition that God has given us, is toxic people are easier to spot. It becomes easier as you get older to call them out and not allowing them in to your space or more importantly your mind. I find God gives me the strength to stand up to them and the humbleness to pray for them.
@raeofsunshine5556 күн бұрын
wisdom 💛 a blessing
@spmoran47032 ай бұрын
Thanks be to God for this woman . Her message from God is like medicine for the Spirit .
@janinesmith3692 ай бұрын
Amen. Definitely ✝️🙏
@robynheckendorf96862 ай бұрын
Thank uvery much
@CeltKnightАй бұрын
Once a Narcissist gets you, it's like it leaves a mark that other narcissists see and they will flock to you. The danger then is thinking you got away from one and got the right someone but alas, it may well be the same person with another face.
@janiceteasley7322 ай бұрын
narcissist feels like you’re with the devil!
@tathe37862 ай бұрын
Exactly! They call you a fool or full blown crazy
@mrs.messenger2 ай бұрын
They project their insecurities, sins and issues on to us, because they feel so much shame if they're accountable or focus on themselves. So they often blame you.
@JeffreyChewnimg-ex7sy2 ай бұрын
@@janiceteasley732 she was the 😈
@NF403752 ай бұрын
It feels like it because it is it ☝🏾
@freyaaruc2002 ай бұрын
@@janiceteasley732 This is projection. They project onto you what they are as a way of getting us off our feet. Everything they accuse others of is exactly what they do.
@susan6390Ай бұрын
I have a man in my life exactly like this. It has been definitely been doing negative consequences in my life when I was just getting strong with God and getting good results. It has been years and I want it to stop and my blessings to return.
@kitten033119 күн бұрын
"If the Devil can't get to you directly, he'll send a narcissist". So true!!! It's crazy because they even have evil looking features in their face. Either in their eyes and/or in their smile
@mickeysammy51692 ай бұрын
Wow- spot on!! I wasted 45 years of my life in a marriage where my "godly-church going" husband did all of these things to me. I bought into the lie: "we're all sinners. . ." Which was an excuse for years of his bad behavior. He brutally and cruelly discarded me after 40 yr of marriage when I learned the TRUTH. I lost every one and everything- They all believe his lies- he's a very good salesman. He pretends to be humble, yet studies everyone and uses charm to manipulate them. They all buy into his fake facade. He used me to build his facade. My adult children are alienated from me, so I can not see them. However, God IS in control and will use HIS mighty hands! 🙏 Pay attention very carefully to what she is saying. Study your Bible and listen to God. 🙏🙏🙏
@antheredhen2 ай бұрын
Sadly these people hide the best in churches. A lot of them ARE the ministers. God be with you.
@hutdweller74302 ай бұрын
I am sooo sorry that happened to you. I was ready to take the long swim to China, myself, had I not left my sort of fiance; I ripped my heart out to leave him, and now can't risk giving my heart, since I attract these types, (my mom and bro.) Just don't want to become one! I can't imagine going through that though, after 40 years, and surviving! I figure...to learn how to love all we need to do is learn to Love God. ❤ May He bless us with His 🕊️ Peace!
@Kelly-oe8kr2 ай бұрын
The good (or bad) news is that a narcissist always needs a scapegoat, eventually he will push someone too far with his abuse and everyone will believe them, then the scales will fall from everyone's eyes. It's hard to play victim when multiple people are saying what a nightmare he is. His argument will be that they're lying, well if it's not true then there's an awful lot of people lying about him and they're all saying the same thing. Sooner or later you will be vindicated.
@vickievans68532 ай бұрын
12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 through God's word there are scriptures you can stand on to get your children back into your life, look for those promises and stand on them write them out and declare and decree them daily and give them time to heal with the Lord , I am in the same boat, one I have stood on since they were small while we were all still together is " All my children are taught of the Lord And great is the peace of my children.Keep praying God sees our hearts and knows our thoughts , He will return your children to you , I say this because I believe it, God is a God of restoration, so keep giving God the praise and honor and glory and use you solitude time to worship , praise Him( which is a weapon) and giving thanks , and realize you are truly blessed of the Lord Jesus , love you Sister.
@mickeysammy51692 ай бұрын
@vickievans6853 Thank you dear sister. Your wisdom and prayers mean a lot. May the Lord bless you! 😘❤️🙏🙏🙏
@ArturoBolanos-u2b2 ай бұрын
Put on the Armor of God
@HighMaintainenceАй бұрын
Take courage. Action words
@CamperVan-K2 ай бұрын
I needed this. Not long walked into a 'narc coven'... they went silent as soon as i arrived. You can just tell they've been speaking about you. Individually, they all use their gaslighting tactics on me. The signs are so obvious to me now. It hurts, but i consciencely shrug it off now. They dont deserve to share my life anyway.
@deannang4552 ай бұрын
The hardest is leaving organizations run by them, losing all your friends and having to start over. Learned in spite of having disabilities I don't need them to make me whole.
@marliesvrakking24072 ай бұрын
My mother was a narcissist.Whe I was a child I prayed to God for a nice mother.I was raised Catholic .And yes It takes a live time to find a way to get healed.
@marliesvrakking24072 ай бұрын
@Kris_Reece.4 have I said something wrong
@j2muw6672 ай бұрын
I turned to Jesus Mom, Mary to be my mother. My own mom is a childish chaotic manipulator. I honor her and care for her when necessary. But minimize contact now. And instead ask for Mary’s help as a mother. Much more peace filled.
@angelakeep5238Ай бұрын
'There is but One Mediator between man/mankind and God, and that I'd The Lord Christ / Jesus-Himself . ' THE BIBLE
@marliesvrakking2407Ай бұрын
@@angelakeep5238 darling as 4 or 5 year old I did not know that. That information came to me much later
@cortneybrown68122 ай бұрын
So hard when these people come as family- Gods removed me - Turns out I’m not an anxious mess who is a failure! Now God is showing me how to love them from far away, boundaries, and stepping into who I am in Christ. I leave all of them with the Lord, I forgive them and realize the real enemy. Kris your videos and programs have helped in my journey. Thankyou for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you in this taboo subject!
@Dynamicdevices242 ай бұрын
I have been surrounded by narcissists all my life, my mom, my dad and his family, my exes, my so called friends. It was not until God opened my eyes and I left the last toxic relationship that I began a very long and arduous journey back to my bible, the sword, and my savior, Jesus Christ. I am now, through prayer and praise, the Word and God’s grace finding redemption, discernment and wisdom, but not without sacrifice. Sacrifice of my time, energy and the shedding of every toxic entity, in other words everything and everyone not bearing fruit in my life had to go. And now I am free to fill my life with those people and things that deserve my energy.
@madamephoebejoimack12192 ай бұрын
@@Dynamicdevices24 BEAUTIFUL ❤️
@teresagarcia75802 ай бұрын
Sounds like my surroundings
@marietgagliardi2 ай бұрын
I've eliminated all the narcissists from my life but I like to listen to you to remind me to avoid these people
@1233-h12 ай бұрын
Me too. She is an excellent counselor to prevent us narc free survivors and escapees from backsliding. I listen to her and Dr. Ramani to stay grounded and aware. The devil is always looking for an opening so while we shouldn't be paranoid but think like a recovered alcoholic who hears the devil whisper just have one drink- you're fine now it's been ten years. And Kris reminds us NO!!! Don't accept that hoover. You'll be sorrrreeee!
@hutdweller74302 ай бұрын
Watch out...we tend tend to attract them. Beware if you "feel" a connection. I'm seeking out new kinds of ppl, I hope it works! Perhaps you're already past all this?
@cristenhartman51852 ай бұрын
Same here. Never go back. ❤
@jennytaylor33242 ай бұрын
It's in the unconscious things of your life, sometimes. Listen hard to the gut. It's your True North.
@incomewriter23602 ай бұрын
Thank you so much kriss, this video has truly spoke to me. All the signs you have spoken are what have happened to me in the last 3 years. Worry has been a tactic satan has used against me since I was a young boy. I would worry about the smallest thing and big things that I know now satan manipulated me to believe. Before I became a Christian satan had free run, I suffered mentally, it was attack, attack, attack all the time, from the moment I woke up to the moment I fell asleep. Yes as a human certain brain chemistry is at play but satan can manipulate the spirit which changes brain chemistry. I feel so blessed to have found you and your videos, this videos has answered questions I didn’t think about before. Satan could see I was Luke warm (I feel ashamed to say that) I feel most happy when I’m close to God and Jesus, my heart feels free, my heart feels home. Thank you again Kriss, this video has helped me so much.
@Jim-Jam692 ай бұрын
I don’t want to leave the house I feel like a magnet to toxic people I can’t stand it anymore
@judyhalsell95102 ай бұрын
@@Jim-Jam69 me too. Seems like everyone I meet tells me how broke they are. I quit being everyone’s bank. Had a nephew tell me “ come off of some of that money”. That is what they are all about . Using people.
@TruthBeTold0914Ай бұрын
This is one of the realist statements I've heard. I thought it was just me and often feels like God is punishing me or turned his back on me. Thank you for helping me to not feel so alone.
@elizabethqueen8784Ай бұрын
People of God...if people only want money off you. Say No.
@Vgaf992 ай бұрын
5:40 😮😱💯💯💯"......a few degrees off course.....and after a while, you are so far from where you started, that you cant even see how to get back!" OUCH! Lord forgive me and bring me BACK ON TRACK!
@Shofargirl12 ай бұрын
The LORD will help you to get back...Trust JESUS. ...I was completely lost after I got married. The abuse ....,but the LORD helps me. Lean on the LORD. GOD' BLESS You ! 🎉❤
@Vgaf992 ай бұрын
@@Shofargirl1 thank you! I appreciate your words a lot ☺️🙏Jesus is THE way
@AnneJuthani2 ай бұрын
So true
@Shofargirl12 ай бұрын
That's what happened to me. ...after marriage he stopped talking to me. ( ,before he was soooo nice) He told me he will not love me ....or support me ! I was shocked and started getting sick. He did not help me when I was sick but left me to fend for myself. It happened more than once. No compassion .So much more ...... much to tell. THE LORD helps me and I separated myself from him 13 years ago. The LORD provided for me financially so I ask him for nothing. Had it not been for JESUS, I would have died.
@virginiaboone95032 ай бұрын
This is excellent. I often ask myself why the devil tempted me with this person. I have no answer to this
@jamesrich73492 ай бұрын
My first wife was sent by the devil, the second one was not.I learned.
@roadtrip8082 ай бұрын
God is good!
@mrsqueakthecat.80612 ай бұрын
You're not that dumb.
@davidjthayer7417Ай бұрын
Amen & Amen !!
@Ippyleng2 ай бұрын
God, please hear my prayers. I'm tired! I need your intervention. Please rewrite my story and show who you truly are so that these narcissists may not under-estimate you! Fight this battle for me Lord only you can win it! I'm leaving this comment here so that 2 months from today, i can come back and testify about God's power and mercy
@TboneWTF2 ай бұрын
"God, please hear my prayers" has god answered your prayers yet?
@davidjthayer7417Ай бұрын
Be patient, God's timing is perfect !!!
@nhmooytis70582 ай бұрын
I’ve had quite a few after me. Never understood why Satan was working so hard on little old me.
@kathygulseth28472 ай бұрын
@@nhmooytis7058 Satan wants so much to attack good people...because they are good .
@rbrtbrdshw2 ай бұрын
@@nhmooytis7058 He'll go after 'little old anybody'.He works as hard to lose souls as Jesus does to save them.
@rbrtbrdshw2 ай бұрын
@@nhmooytis7058 He'll go after 'little old anyone'.He works as hard to lose souls as Jesus does to save them.
@HighMaintainenceАй бұрын
It's a spiritual war and he's patrolling. Not turning anyone away. 😂 Satan will lose by at least one, me.
@sickofcrap89929 күн бұрын
🙌
@patriciarose23422 ай бұрын
My problem is "friends and family" who start conflicts and then blame me or accuse me of doing the very things that they are doing. Heartbreaking bc just when I think I can trust someone or someone is changing, I am betrayed and disappointed again. I wish I could just live my life all alone in this world until I'm gone.
@sandyca1106Ай бұрын
'Friends' who steer you away from God step by step, run! Recently I had to do this. No more stress!
@sar_e_bear2 ай бұрын
You are so right. My ex-fiance was a sociopathic narcissist. 14 years after I ended the relationship, I am still dealing with the scars that he left.
@MeadeFatLoss2 ай бұрын
Forgive
@firebrand072 ай бұрын
Preach the gospel to them. You’d be amazed at how they avoid YOU.
@krissybutler13578 күн бұрын
@@firebrand07 that's so true,I started going to church an said I'd prey for him he's dropped away from me 💯
@markg22282 ай бұрын
They celebrate when you do something wrong they celebrate and they see you falling apart when they see you losing yourself and losing God in your belief and faith and love in your heart I watch this happens to me
@ladyb73272 ай бұрын
Yes. I finally realized that I I projected good things onto them. But that was ONLY a projection. It goes both ways...
@bethpage6696Ай бұрын
I'm so glad you touched on the fact that it's not always obvious. ❤
@TRUTH2409 күн бұрын
Thank You Lord Jesus.
@NevaleeLaidler2 ай бұрын
This so resonates with me! My life is full of them!
@Ursaminor3126 күн бұрын
I was born of one and Was able to overcame it, no contact and a purified life
@Sarahyoutubeaddict2 ай бұрын
We need more people like you to speak out about the obvious that SO many are trying to cover up & some are too afraid to acknowledge ,BRAVO
@LM1-f3d2 ай бұрын
it's been hard to walk away from the narcissist when it's my own adult daughter, and now I'm being kept from my grandchild, well, the pain is beyond words, but I'm done with the game and just not engaging with her anymore. It took me 15 years to figure out what I've been dealing with. One day the truth will be known, until then I'm leaving it in the Lord's hands, and praying for a hedge of protection around my grandchild. Really glad I found your channel Kris, thanks
@audreyvisco132124 күн бұрын
@@LM1-f3d this is your child you’re talking about. It’s your fault. Nobody is born evil they are programmed by their parents
@MacTwain2 ай бұрын
Exactly. My wife. Yes, I married a narcissist. My wife appears to be in the discard stage. She often says she doesn't need me. OH but, how she takes my money! I know. I need to get away from this super stress bag.
@paulsvdeogratis82682 ай бұрын
See video "divorcing a narasist"
@kandacebasso3569Ай бұрын
My mother. She has constantly derailed me as a child, teen and adult. Not sure why she was put in such close proximity to me. I need prayers I’m exhausted
@shirlalivingco18 күн бұрын
@kandacebasso3569 you are not alone. My only parent, my mother she's hurting me and dealing with a narcissist husband.
@Benniecat9722 ай бұрын
This was so good. I had an experience 14 years ago that still causes me to shudder. I made the mistake of letting my feelings guide my actions and it almost cost me my faith, my marriage and my self esteem. I found out later that this person was heavily involved with tarots cards. Although I can’t completely rid her in my life (she is my husbands sister), I do not allow her in my home. These kind of people are extremely skilled with their demonic influences.
@gregoryward38152 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for the confirmation. I needed to hear this. Thank you. Please pray for me
@djmandyland2 ай бұрын
I remember the ex narcissist I had in my life never told me I couldn't do something or see someone in my life but they would give me the silent treatment after I'd get back so it was still a punishment only a silent one and with that it trained me to not WANT to go see my loved ones anymore and he was able to say I never TOLD you you couldn't. Maddening. These demons know exactly how to puppeteer not only the narcissist but the person who practically worships the narcissist. That's the danger is you MUST put the Lord first and foremost so you'll never find yourself idolizing a demon.
@TAnderson-s1i2 ай бұрын
If the devil cant get to you he will send a narcissist...... priceless ty ❤❤❤
@sharonjenkins7202 ай бұрын
I know somebody like this. This is because these people are codependent, have had people take advantage of them, have not stood up for themselves, and expect you to therefore not stand up for yourself.
@princesshall82292 ай бұрын
I met this man 3years ago he sucked the life out of me he tried me but I'm to strong for him God bless women ❤️ 🙏🏼 ♥️
@Emily_Paris2 ай бұрын
Yes Kris. I had someone who would drain my energy and literally make me physically sick. I’m free from that relationship. Praying to God, asking the Holy Spirit to hug me, listening to you and therapists helped me heal. Freedom is good.
@ayezee333Ай бұрын
The moment you said narcissist, my heart sunk. I luckily escaped mine in January (after 3 years on and off) and it’s been quite a year of trying to heal. It’s been really tough as I am in financial struggle due to the narc, was forced to isolated so my friends aren’t around anymore and the way it’s required my brain is scary. God has been the only thing keeping me going. I’m so blessed I stumbled upon this video 🙏🏼💕✨
@Iniry2 ай бұрын
My big sister has constantly a life sucking spirit in my life. When I was jobless, she emotionally abused me and kicked me out of her house at night. I battled anxiety most of my life. Once I gained my independence, she try’s to steal my style in all aspects yet she’s older. If a guy chats me up she would try to make them see me as unattractive. The competition is unnecessary but it doesn’t stop. When I avoid her, she sends abusive messages and bad mouth me to family members. She’s determined to see me isolated but unfortunately she is the one isolated. She doesn’t have friends and her relationships have been dead ends. I find joy in small things and it’s hard for me to feel lonely. God is merciful and my protector. Amen
@elizabethf90962 ай бұрын
Sounds like my sister the narc
@AHLDNАй бұрын
same thing with my brother
@Myaccount92326 күн бұрын
@@Iniry same thing with mine. NEVER see her again! In person. It could be dangerous
@nikkijohnson73322 ай бұрын
Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for calling us to keep ourselves in check, too. That's what brothers and sisters should do.
@Megan67722 ай бұрын
My dad is undet her demonic spell and she's stolen him from me, even brainwashed him into treating me poorly 😢 I miss him and feel so powerless
@marywatson92462 ай бұрын
Pray to Jesus only, for help + protection. Especially when you are near either of them! I will also pray for you. JESUS BLESS YOU 🛐
@bovinebeautymoo28842 ай бұрын
Unfortunately he has fell into the throws of a ‘Succubus’ I saw this with a Brother. I think because he has been in a difficult and not a very passionate and stressful Marriage for over 20yrs he was able to be manipulated, quite easily as she wasnt a master succubus, by her attention to him. He became a different person. He went from a logical and rational person who asked me for advice and I him, as we had a very close relationship. To not only me, but his friends warning and telling him how she was manipulating him. And he had dropped all his friends and family, his children, to go and play house with her and her 2 kids. The last time I mentioned to him and was warning him, he blew up at me. I told him 5.. I give it no more than 5yrs and he will realize what not only me but his family and friends tried to tell him. I dont know who asked for the Divorce, as we were estranged at the time and still are, but it was right about 5yrs.
@erkinsonmagee30202 ай бұрын
Love you sister God is using you to inspire many who don't know how to free themselves from entrapment the Spirit of knowledge is a criteria keep up the good work
@GrayRealities2 ай бұрын
Sounds like a close family member. In fact a sibling she’s impossible to get along with she has severe victim mentality among many narcissistic traits, all I can do is pray for her 🤷♂️
@bettyboothe25232 ай бұрын
@@GrayRealities mine too. It's a constant rollercoaster with her. I want peace in my life
@GrayRealities2 ай бұрын
@@bettyboothe2523 neutralize your emotions never compete or try to one up your sibling. It seems frustrating because you do want to teach a lesson, but it’s best to just ignore otherwise your peace is gone It’s the only way you’ll find peace always leave things in Gods hands. There’s no way we could ever control anybody but ourselves and that’s awful hard to do at times. let’s keep our emotions to ourselves when it comes to dealing with narcissistic behavior from others we can’t do anything for them but pray for them. God bless. Have a wonderful day.❤🙏🏻👍
@TheeOne4.442 ай бұрын
Be grateful it's not a parent
@phyllistouchstone71362 ай бұрын
Every time I was at her house, I felt sick and sweated a lot. The air was so thick at their house. I saw her eyes turn the blackest black and her face morphed.
@UnknownSender11112 ай бұрын
Thank you so much my beautiful sister. There’s so many people that aren’t aware of the enemy’s sneaky tactics. I’m born again and I’ve dealt with all kinds of demonic attacks, at times the warfare seems too much yet I must stay near Christ and persevere. I’ve removed almost all from my past because of the reasons you have described. I was an easy target as you stated. As I grow in Christ I stay away and test every spirit. We much stay prayed up.
@The-Real-L3X2 ай бұрын
Thank you Kris. Very helpful clip. Well done. God bless you and everyone who reads this.
@tristancarver7342 ай бұрын
I've another angle on this. I've known Christian people who gossip , talk down to others as if they're better than everyone. I know it's logical that no matter how often people read the bible etc etc, that there's always going to people that aren't honourable. In fact, which, there's no doubt, there's lots of others who have seen this hubris behaviour. They are some of the biggest hypocrites l've ever known. Some of them actually belittled disabled people, which l find to be the some of the cruellest and cowardly of their ways.
@prettypuppy67522 ай бұрын
Wherever God builds a Church…Satan plants a chapel. A very wise and faithful Minister gave me that warning many years ago.
@jimihendrixx112 ай бұрын
Yeah but its like you are not just reading when it comes to the bible you have to study it closely and try to get what it means spiritually. You need his spirit to properly understand it
@Riowestie2 ай бұрын
This is precisely why I won't call myself a Christian. I am a child of God.
@goodenoughgirl81022 ай бұрын
For sure. I’ve had both kinds in my life. The extra holy and the unholy rogues. Narcs aren’t always “heathens” and you can’t trust ANY labels or as some do….”holy by association” which they are not. I had a lot to learn and I was very naive, but it was always right there. “Not all who say Lord Lord know God.” (Paraphrased). The Pharisee types will bind you up in chains and oppress you with all of their myriad of “touch not, taste not, handle not” rules and the heathens will lead you astray. In either case tho, what to look out for is people who incite false fear, obligation or guilt and shame. Bottom line is that all of it is coercive and nobody can be free under it.
@LittleBlueFish872 ай бұрын
We just cut off a 35 year friendship with someone because of his wife. She portrayed herself as a “good Christian.” She literally checked every box in this video. My husband had been grieving the loss of his friend but understands the necessity of it. All we can do is pray for them and insulate ourselves from the problem and attacks.
@judithwendt80182 ай бұрын
I truly needed to see this video. I have been with narcissistic for 4 years, and I kept thinking he was killing my soul. I made a huge mistake when I started to date him I told him everything about my life. And every time we were together he would always use my past against me and would not let me leave my mistake behind me. So glad I seek help and my therapist told me after talking to her if I new what a narcissistic was. I told her not really and she said it's the man you just talked to me about. So happy I am away from him and living a life for God. Amen
@GodsMouthpieceJoeRob2 ай бұрын
Thank you Minister Reece God bless you ♥️🙏🏾😇
@allsouls59972 ай бұрын
And they think truth is hate.
@johnclarke63342 ай бұрын
Lol, you`re a diamond in the rough, a true gem Kris. Good insights on the heart of the matter.
@A.VarsakelisАй бұрын
This video was a God send. Not even in the subject I was looking for, but more helpful than what I thought I needed. $ of these signs were from my now ex-wife. I'm not sure I would say devil sent. She got me back in church, and in therapy I did not know I needed, but she was a narcissist. 2 - 5 sumed our short marriage up. I am now a subscriber and want to say that this was an excellent video and I look forward to watching more of them. Thank you so much.
@MegaDede252 ай бұрын
It hurts much more sometimes, when its family causing all 5 signs.
@scleo19592 ай бұрын
Such wonderful insight. Thank you for helping others entrapped with their own personal “Satan.”
@sgttim86172 ай бұрын
I Saw Three of these Situations. VERY LIKELY HAPPENING - In My Life, Right Now... Thank You !
@CleopatrasNemesis26 күн бұрын
fantastic content! THANK YOU 🙏
@dreambig9112 ай бұрын
it's my mom 😭😭 i feel bad because she's a cute little woman but there's so many covert demonic forces at play
@vickievans68532 ай бұрын
12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 keep praying for her , the demons are the ones that work through her , her true self is bound up in them, something opened the door for them to come in , either fear ( of some kind) or maybe not working in the Lord through following Him closely, but God's word will bring you to all kinds of knowledge to help you grow and bring you through to victory.You may have to remove yourself from where she is for a time, but allow that time to draw you closer to the Lord to strengthen and build you to where you can lean on Him through this, you are in my prayers as I pray.Through God All beyond our imagination is possible He is the impossible God , the one that is always working on our behalf , Father God give her your kind of faith, you speak only and it is , keep speaking God's blessings and promise , that all through out His word, God is all about restoration He will bring your mom out a nd back to you , His word is Him, The close we walk with Him ( and He never leaves us/ never ) the more we will walk in all of His truths , in His love , peace and joy, love you , and He loves you so very, very much, more than we can fathom.
@rulaj12 ай бұрын
♥
@margaretwebb3892 ай бұрын
My Mom too!
@shirlalivingco18 күн бұрын
My mom n husband 😢
@leteshalove2 ай бұрын
What's sad is I think most people don't even know when they are being used as the devil. But because they are unbelievers and they don't have The Holy Spirit in them, they are easily deceived by the voice of the devil. It's sad. We ALL NEED JESUS!!!
@PoeticVirgoАй бұрын
You are so on point and everything you said in the very beginning is so true, it’s happened all through my life I’m still watching the video to listen to the rest
@mathematics_genius942 ай бұрын
I left a job earlier this year which was perfectly described in this video. I thought this was a gift but turned into the greatest trouble of my life. " if the devil can't get to you, he'll send a narcissist". Truer words never been said and yes, "pollyanna see the good.." if this doesn't wake you up to modern age then I don't know. Great video as always.
@idoido752 ай бұрын
What if the toxic person is your mother? How do we reconcile "honoring our father and mother" with staying away from a mother who is a malignant narcissist?
@sidmontgomery91462 ай бұрын
honoring them has more to do with your works than that of theirs. in fact, I would argue that the further away from God they are that it becomes your duty even more. honoring them is the act of doing right by them if even in spite of them. you honor them by making the best of the life given to you. I is not about them it is about you and what you cant do that is good and fruitful with your time on this earth. what also needs consideration is times have changed meanings have changed what is socially acceptable has changed. so our views must as well. as we hold here on earth so it is in heaven. to an extent. but thats another conversation for another time. the only way to break these generational curses is through out works. that is how you honor them. them being your family lineage itself and no specific individual. honoring mother and father was a passing of the torch the responsibility keeping the family alive. marriage bearing fruit, children. over the years family members stray from God, we are human and by default mistakes will be made that separate us from God and only we as individuals can do right by our family and bring that relationship back and or continue to keep it moving forward. Just my two cents on how i see it. you are welcome to find your own meaning. have a blessed day.
@TheREALLibertyOrDeath2 ай бұрын
Keep reading the rest of the verse. It isn’t a license to abuse/divide your children
@ooomsweis2 ай бұрын
"fathers do not frustrate your sons". also a verse in the bible.
@DEEJOJOHNSONАй бұрын
I was with my narcissistic wife for 11 years, married for the last 2. Thank you, Jesus, for getting me away from those demons.
@ButchBrown72 ай бұрын
This is most definitely True to the core I recognize them families are something to pay attention to. You have to read people's motives
@Ursaminor3126 күн бұрын
Your articulations are your superpower, thank you for how you communicate and help so many
@CasuallyCandaceАй бұрын
I was discarded 5 yrs ago as I entered the psych ward for my first ever mental breakdown only to be told when I was in the hospital to pack my bags bc my husband was leaving me and I couldn’t go back to my home of 11 years. It was devastating but the day I left my house God encountered me and saved me sheltering me from everything I was exposed to. I’ve not had an experience like that since. Praise God. Took a long time to realize my ex was a covert narc and I was not 100% of the problem. I blamed myself for everything until I realized. Most painful thing I’ve ever been through.
@JM-fs8dm2 ай бұрын
😢😢😢😢 this is overwhelming... Thank you Kris.🙏💛 I got my answers here...
@god-driven-designs2 ай бұрын
I want you to rebuke all of those things, those toxic demons, the toxic thoughts they’re trying to put in, the demonic staged setups and attacks. These are going to be very alarming times for God’s people. Be very mindful of that. Be very aware so that they know, keep singing to God. Oh, God’s help is coming in.
@peace56472 ай бұрын
This happened to me for 17 years of marriage. However, 17 is the number of Victory! Remember that! God gave ME the Victory. If something costs you your Peace, then the cost is too high.
@shelleygebhardt36092 ай бұрын
I have been so refreshed by this teaching and your live from yesterday on narcissistic patterns...I have been traveling for 4 years and I am so happy to be home. I took a very positive job and am around good people and eveything is not perfect yet I feel so much peace...Testimony to your lessons. Thank you for sharing your gifts.
@vijaydeepborde79082 ай бұрын
I love your sessions, I love the clarity you give. Praise The Lord for you are a teacher to me from His side❤
@kylaren63372 ай бұрын
We should never worry on these people because Luke 10:19. Put up good boundaries and stand strong. We should never fear them.
@KRzzzzzzzz2 ай бұрын
Yes my son and my husband and my husband’s entire family
@robertstrayhall73862 ай бұрын
She took all of my money I found she is as buying friends if hers clothes,food , furniture you Name it and always around check time each month she would be nice too me and after no,I believe also she has some relationship going on with her gf who lived with us ,and others I was sick alot when I lived there ,she must have found another source of supply, somebody with money is my Guess, she did filed for divorce or discard ,so I actually found a nice apartment cuz she asked me too get out as god would have it I found an apt at a rent controlled senior apt bldg only thing was it had a 3 too Six month waiting list but praise God he came through and I got picked by management or the Lord's favor I now live there alone,but the Lord Put a new woman in front of me she has her own home,I'm happy again from that demonic nonsense that was happening too me also I believe my wife was was being influenced by A Jezebel Spirit I saw it manifest on her it was ugly and disgusting Looking yes I know what saw thanks for your time and this blog I learned a lot from you on narcissistic behavior the lord bless u
@vickievans68532 ай бұрын
Turn them over to the Lord, claim your son to be saved by the Lord Allmy children are taught of the Lord, stand on the word of God and declare and decree every day , God is into restoration and will return your son to you sister , you can count on the Lord, let your son have a time to heal his self and keep praying for him and leave the rest to the Lord your God , He will come through for you Love you sister .
@cortneybrown68122 ай бұрын
Your not alone!!! I pray the Blood of Jesus over both my sons daily and have turned them to the Lord. Their father has done extreme damage and lied and add my narc family ontop of it. God has shown me I need to choose him first and leave them with him. I will no longer defend myself - All we can do is live in who we are in Christ- They will know us by our fruit- Just as we know who they are by their lack of it- Until the scales are removed from their eyes, until they drop the mask and see their pride and deny their flesh and ask for Jesus to really save them,,,, until then they are dancing with the devil. God will eventually seperate you out if you haven’t already - I’m praying for your heart and pain- I know it’s so so painful😢
@robertstrayhall73862 ай бұрын
@@cortneybrown6812 yes god did separate us now I'm at Peace Amen thank you lord
@aprilmorrison96272 ай бұрын
WOW! Did this video come to me at the RIGHT time.....I just ended a long friendship yesterday, and she ticked every single box. I have felt nothing but torment and angst in this relationship....But, I didn't see all the signs because it was a christian friend. Slowly, over the past 2-3 years I've come to see the absolute truth. I was dealing with ANOTHER Narcissist, but because it was a friend and a woman...I didn't see it sooner. Gosh, it has been devastating. I had already left a 5 year romantic relationship 7 years prior and was doing so much better. Then, My old friend re-entered my life... The enemy really knows our weak spots. I am in such grief over my friend now. I'm trying to come to terms that she was not at ALL who she presents herself as to the world. It's such a feeling of loss. I would appreciate any prayers right now. I HAVE been praying so much that God would help me have WISDOM in balance...exactly as you mentioned. To create FIRM boundaries, and hear only His voice.