5 Signs Someone in Your Life Was Sent by the Devil

Have you ever had someone in your life who completely drains your energy?
You can't put your finger on it - you hate that you feel this way, but you can't deny that this person just isn't good for you?
It's likely you're battling with those conflicting feelings - RIGHT NOW
That's why in this video, we're going to dive deep into 5 demonic giveaway signs that this person is devil sent
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[@Kris_Reece]

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[@kiranrani2817]

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[@sgttim8617]

I, I'm Guessing- Like Many Others- Have been Assuming, that MOST of the People around me, are Generally "For Me", but it Seems that Most of the people, are Out too "Stop, OR DESTROY MY : Advancing; Succeeding, OR IMPROVING... FROM NOW ON... By The Grace and Enabling, Of God's Holy Spirit -And Your Helping me too be "Wiser Than my Enemies...! ( Ps 119 !) May I -- Be. . . " AS WISE AS SERPENTS, YET INNOCENT AS DOVES ! ...". (Matthew 10:16 !)

[@Zookeeper.]

Hello@@Kris_Reece, care to elaborate why you are using words like "demon", "evil" or "hate"? My guess is this is to cater to a gullible audience and sell crap so you can benefit from it without actually understanding any of it.. ..Take your time to process this and reply if you can..

[@patoaklitefrenchtv]

@@Kris_Reece Dear aunt, thank you for the free guide. God bless you the more. It is helpful.

[@patoaklitefrenchtv]

@@Zookeeper. Hi! Well, I'm not Kris, I'm certain she's still gonna reply. However, with my experience, I'll term them living demons. Why? The thief comes to kill, steal and destroy John 10:10. The narcissists come for same. They steal your joy, your shine, your glow, your energy, they sap your prayer strength both physically and spiritually. While they're at that, they're destroying your body, image, and things God has helped you build and at the end they kill. That's what I think.

[@annbee4494]

My mother has been hell on wheels. Satan is using her nonstop to attack me. Some of our worse enemies are of our household. Sadly. 😞

[@jlcmsw]

@@annbee4494 I’m with you. I’m in the process of getting a restraining order against my mother. I didn’t want to but she’s becoming too dangerous.

[@annbee4494]

@@jlcmsw It truly is sad that you even have to do that. Praying for you. If she is a danger to you than you have no choice but to do this. My prayers go out to you and this bad situation. My mother is very mean spirited and a bully. I am working hard to walk right in my Christian faith, but she is always harassing me, pushing all my buttons, and always dragging me into fights. She is a narcissist and a very comptemptous person. It is so draining being around her. Life has enough problems in it without this nonsense. Hang in there.

[@Capt1021]

@@annbee4494 You must be my sister because I have had that same mother since day one. I’m Trying to balance honor thy mother and must not hate and harbor an unforgiving heart while she needs elder care but the sin of asking why is she still alive is pulling me backwards❤️‍🩹

[@dianadrummond146]

​@@Capt1021let her go into a nursing home then.

[@777thesse]

@@annbee4494 been there done that! Now I am doing this with my dad! My mom passed along with others family members adding to it! I had walked away from that years againbut they are creeping in the back door so to speak! Working to closing that door again! It was such freedom when I did

[@Schquirl]

1. Causes sin 2. Invalidate feelings and are deceptive by manipulation 3. Sow discord and cause division 4. Emotional vampires 5. Causes cringe, creepy and doom feelings of fear

[@CollectivelyCraig]

I only fear the lord. U see how u dont notice any of that? You dont know God. He would scare u off. Use the force on him. Out of boredom. Your light work. His first experience with the force. Command him to go in his music hole. Youll be in later to eat his face and take his breath away so he cant save your speech with just the letter its death 😂

[@carlaroden1902]

God can bring a narc into your life to teach you. It was in my case. I know who the lord is. Dont tell me this wouldn't happen if I dont know god. That's a really rigid view.

[@Schquirl]

To add to the comments here on these points of the video. Proverbs 6:12-19 NKJV [12] A worthless person, a wicked man, Walks with a perverse mouth; [13] He winks with his eyes, He shuffles his feet, He points with his fingers; [14] Perversity is in his heart, He devises evil continually, He sows discord. [15] Therefore his calamity shall come suddenly; Suddenly he shall be broken without remedy. [16] These six things the Lord hates, Yes, seven are an abomination to Him: [17] A proud look, A lying tongue, Hands that shed innocent blood, [18] A heart that devises wicked plans, Feet that are swift in running to evil, [19] A false witness who speaks lies, And one who sows discord among brethren. Proverbs 26:24-25 NKJV [24] He who hates, disguises it with his lips, And lays up deceit within himself; [25] When he speaks kindly, do not believe him, For there are seven abominations in his heart

[@CollectivelyCraig]

@@carlaroden1902 yea but God didnt bring me into your lives my friend. I was simply doing the Lord's work and when I started rapping it up tight here you all come oh and two letrters. nothing to do with me everyting to do with OH THATS OURS NOW THAnks man! FOR YOU and Islam. hbring more3 than a narc into my life . yours too. see if you can break it.

[@CollectivelyCraig]

@@carlaroden1902 I dunno if I can break it but God is always in control. right. aye broo.... imagine how deluded someone would have to be to think lying could get you thijs far or human planning and my inner voice. I really like religion. I have the most rigid view because i get forced Ibn Hajar al-Asqalani in his explanation of this Hadith said: “Pigs are killed to show that it is prohibited to be eaten. It is also an insult to the Christians who claimed that they are the followers of Prophet Jesus, but then they ruled it halal to eat swine and like it.” Fath al-Bari bi Sharh Sahih al-Bukhari, 4/414

[@nellie9352]

Ah yes: they are EVERYWHERE! Parents, spouses, siblings, bosses, politicians, cops, doctors, etc

[@elizabethy2912]

Don't forget in the church, also, parishioners and Pastors!!

[@keldealmeida5768]

I met narcissistic friends on my way.

[@dianadrummond146]

Teachers/professors,scientists, psychologists,counselors, DCF personnel,judges, attorneys/prosecutors/public defenders,marshalls,trainers, rescue people,celebrities, members of the media....

[@LittleKitty22]

Very true. And they love going into professions that guarantees them easy access to potential victims - and automatic assumed credibility (getting believed because of their position)!

[@sweetea7035]

@@nellie9352 and they look just like us !

[@monalisa2662]

This is so excellent! I was just discarded by my husband of 31 years without warning as my mother was leaving this world. Any observant person would see his timing was no accident..... But she and I got to spend her last 3 weeks on this Earth in peace. There is peace in Christ. I just buried my beloved mother a few days ago. My heart is aching. I am trying to find the spiritual treasures amid the ruins of my marriage and life without my dear mother. There is a literal spiritual war going on all around us ... I pray those who have aching hearts will find peace and healing with God's loving help.

[@bettycarmella1127]

🙏🏽

[@Moshe-f7h]

When you remember the good times you had with your mother, thank the Lord for your time with her. It relieves the pain until it is gone.

[@lynnm.2019]

Sharing in your sorrow dear sister. I know this kind of grief as do so many. But we also share in the real hope of the joy that is ahead. And that one day soon to be in your mothers embrace and our saviors, never ever to be parted again. 🫂✝️The afflictions of the righteous are many, but the Lord He delivers him out of them all.” ❤️Psalm 34:19

[@adventurouspanda9110]

Praying for you @monalisa2662 … 💕may The Lord continue to saturate you with His peace. May supportive people be present in your life, as the hands and feet of Jesus, to help bear your burdens. We are earthen vessels made to declare His glory.

[@denisemarsack6604]

Praying for you ❤✝️

[@CHDean]

1:53 “If the devil can’t get to you directly, he will send to you a narcissist.” #AmenSister

[@CollectivelyCraig]

Lol. Right . Why? Hes busy trying to steal the unseeable version of his power tooool. I really need it 🤡 . Its the living word. Living constitution... a3we man th3y robbed me for tje constitution. So they could have virgin births. New beginnings 😂

[@marciachristina9513]

This is very true

[@patoaklitefrenchtv]

@@CHDean Absolutely correct. However, by the knowledge of the word of God, one can choose better. And the best to do is not to stay with them and die (spiritually, mentally, relationally, financially and afterwards, physically). Why die for a narcissist after Jesus Christ already died for them?

[@loulane726]

🐟 🐟🐟🐟🐟🐟 🐟🐟🐟 😃

[@A_Person-2112]

@patoaklitefrenchtv Hmmm , sometimes this is true ~ there exists some very dark, very covert narcs who are also present in churches and synagogues alike... unfortunately, I speak from experience.

[@donnasloane9031]

I was discarded 25 years ago....when I got ovarian cancer......was cured......healed mentally and emotionally....living my best life. Praise be to the LORD.

[@JSmith-ou3sk]

@donnasloane9031 In sickness and in health.

[@MajorIllustration]

Praise Jesus! A miracle!

[@4everjesusbride]

Praise be to Jehovah and Father I AM! ❤

[@kiaora12]

God Bless you ❤

[@athygiannopoulos2634]

You can tell they're toxic if they grieve your spirit

[@hutdweller7430]

Yes, but we are not perfect; we all grieve other people; Look deeper.

[@lm5542]

So true❤ Thank you

[@patoaklitefrenchtv]

@@hutdweller7430 You're correct that we grieve people as well. However, ours, we do unintentionally and that's what makes the difference, in my opinion.

[@johnmorgan7947]

U never knew a NARC"!​@hutdweller7430

[@tcouger1]

I don’t understand…. What does this mean if they grieve your spirit?

[@dawndonnelly9703]

I am not drained anymore, not anxious. No more stomach problems. No stress. They definitely take a toll on you.Thank God im free.❤ 🙏

[@yamisomad3486]

You are blessed. ❤

[@annamassek9064]

I want all narcissists to stay away from me

[@amaryllisvanommen9428]

@@dawndonnelly9703 How did you get there I mean healed? I'm still everything you mentioned. Anxious, stomach ake, ecerything. I hope God help me soon!

[@janinesmith369]

Yes they do 😢 Yes thank God you are free ❤

[@GMJBlood]

I'm so glad you're free, and that you're thriving! It took me years and cost almost everything to get away, and it's so hard starting over at near 70. But God IS good, especially in the trenches!

[@loulane726]

Also notice how you feel physically; do you feel nauseous, queasy, low energy, tight chest, short on breath, break out in hives / itchy skin. In the presence of good people you should feel relaxed, calm, & happy.

[@Angelitaasmr]

@@loulane726 I feel this all the time. Since I met him my health went down.

[@Lethisha7]

@loulane726 omggg the hivesss. I'll never forget Cuba. We went away together and after a fight where he just did everything to get under my skin. I had such a visceral reaction and broke out in hives all over my body. I thought the bed had bed bugs but he wasn't "bitten." The devil is a liar and I am free in Christ Amen!. I've blocked him everywhere. He will NEVER have access to me. Not in the spiritual realm or physical realm. Thank you, Jesus. Thank you for sharing your testimony. It served to remind and strengthen others to break free.

[@sweetea7035]

@loulane726 EXACTLY!! I could not understand why I had such a physical reaction to my now stepchild at our very first meeting. I had always loved children, and I'm a calm, loving, very sensitive person. I am also a Christian. When I first laid eyes on this child, I felt like I should run. It was like an absolute repulsion. I had never experienced anything like this. 44 years later, I can't even describe what this miserable entity has caused me. The only thing that helps is distance. Read the book of Jude....it'll all click. I could write a book, but even typing this makes me cringe.

[@Pinkythepainter777]

Oh wow! I had an argument with someone I considered a friend last night, and woke up with the worst hives I've ever had! I cut her off for 3 years, to recently let her back in. Big mistake. She is worse than she was 3 years ago. Even her family stays away. I thought GOD wanted me to guide her, and help her with her anger issues, but I prayed for her today, and I he told me not to waste my time. She will never change. The weird thing is, she told me she found Jesus, but proceeded to say G damnit constantly. I think she tricked me. There's no fruit of the spirit. 😢

[@sweetea7035]

@MegaMisfit138 when I would try to pray for that person, it felt strange, like it wouldn't make any difference. It felt almost wrong.

[@cynthiahewitt9945]

The most insidious part is narcissists are most often someone we love or should be able to love, but betrayal and abuse precludes it.

[@sarahdouglas5851]

So true...and often they view you as competition, even though you are not competing with them. A wonderful counselor once said that where there is competition, there can never be nurturing.

[@sherrydickie8459]

You are so right...my own daughter 😢

[@NF40375]

Why do you think detectives investigate your spouse/partner/ex, children, parents, relatives, and work their way outward to neighbors, coworkers etc It’s always someone closest to you If they are Godless not God fearing and not acting God like I’d sleep with one eye open Energy never lies or dies You can feel the energy/vibe, stay grounded with clarity, pray for sharp discernment and never ignore your intuition These are our gifts

[@paulam408]

Was hung up on a guy for many, many years & eventually figured out he was a selfish narcissist who is incapable of a normal relationship with a woman.

[@sylanski1]

I think the most insidious thing about narcissists is how they always end up looking like the victim in the end & they get away with the incomprehensible evil things that they do to the real victim

[@SuperMichelleDJ]

If I want to be protected from people who are sent by the devil, I would literally have nobody in my life at all. I'm truthfully not embellishing myself when I say that either. as much as I like socialising with people, I feel better about living in solitude with the way this world is going.

[@hutdweller7430]

Guess what Jesus told me...that the only friends I would have (during End Times) would be Him and His Mother! And it's turning out that way, even w family! The devil destroys everything good that I have. But he can't destroy Jesus' Love for us❤

[@gracebe235]

@@ThomasWells-k2i…….There are times and situations, that can require some to be in solitude for a while. Solitude from people, can increase your closeness with Heavenly Father…..especially when the solitude was imposed on you, and not a choice that the individual made.

[@BruceSlater-yi5wj]

GOD Bless you Me too ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊

[@patoaklitefrenchtv]

How about socializing with fellow children of God? Those who are genuinely living the life of God are still truly around.

[@renarich4942]

@@hutdweller7430u mean Mary she died and is in the grave . She knows nothing

[@victoriousjane6963]

There is a person in my life who was sent by the devil but refuses to leave and keeps stalking and harassing me. Please pray for me that he leaves forever.

[@Anipen1]

@victoriousjane6963 I just experienced this. I prayed, and asked The Most High to make a way to have him leave peacefully, while still praying that he would come to know Yeshua if it is HIS will. My prayer was answered! Get on your knees, pray and fast

[@notabot2928]

Conceal and carry. Got to be more crazy than him. He’ll get the message

[@Anipen1]

@notabot2928 💜

[@katiejohnston380]

@victoriousjane6963 in the mighty name of Jesus, I pray that that this demonic person leaves your life for good. May you be safe and blessed! Ask for Jesus to pray for you whenever you pray as well. It will help!

[@stefaniadiamond]

They'll always go on & on about how much they love you but have no action to back it up

[@Seren-Dipity-xyz]

and how betrayed we feel when we realize there has never been love...

[@NathanMiller-p3o]

True story

[@michaelduarte7896]

@@Seren-Dipity-xyz a one way relationship

[@G47R]

"Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you." - James 4:7 KJ

[@charlesforte6473]

AMEN !!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@deborahgtucker]

And, yes he did, straight to his next victim. Collaborated with her and began to follow and shadow me. 3 years of this petty, self absorbed behavior I do not react. Still biding my time…….

[@dwlsn93]

Very good reminder ❤

[@kitten0331]

"If the Devil can't get to you directly, he'll send a narcissist". So true!!! It's crazy because they even have evil looking features in their face. Either in their eyes and/or in their smile

[@SpiritedSandra]

Yes. I have dealt with many narcissists, but what throws me off, is my adult daughter and my ex-fiance of many years ((narcissist)), using my grandchildren against me, making my Life extremely difficult to shake, and only live minutes away. If I'm not my daughters puppet, I don't get to see my grandchildren, etc.-not to mention hearing many hurtful/deceiving lies being told about me. I rise up on my good days, but fall again...missing my sweet loving grandchildren, and knowing that they are ((and have been reported about the abuse/neglect at home)). I've healed much from the past, but not what my adult daughter is doing. How to rise above this one asks?-Looking for answers, soon counselling. It sounds like my daughter could lose her 3 children due to addictions/partying?! I'm so torn up about all of this. All of this started when my ex and I split up, and daughter demanding me to go back to him, etc.~

[@Maksie0]

You're an insane person.

[@donnashaw7315]

Your story sounds exactly like mine, except it's my youngest daughter. I don't even recognize her anymore.

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

We can be agents of God It works both ways

[@deborahlopez3603]

@@SpiritedSandraI don’t know if this applies in your state or not, but you need to get a consultation with a lawyer to find out. But Grandparents have rights for seeing their grandchildren. So if they are taken away from her by the state, you can file with the court to legally get grandparent visitation with the kids. If you want, and qualify, you can even petition the court to be their foster home until she completes a rehab program & the court finds her acceptable again. Check it out. I hope I’m not wrong.

[@keiraariel7382]

My husband of 17 years, (together for 24), Everything was my fault. I was the problem, I needed help, I needed therapy. Every time I suggest, couples counseling with our church. He would say he doesn't need it, I'm the problem. Gaslighting, manipulating, emotionally abusive, verbally abusive, threatened to leave I was the only one trying to improve our marriage. I know God didn't design marriage to be how my husband treated me. Please 🙏 keep me in prayer for favor in the court to get my girls.

[@robertstrayhall7386]

Kris gave me the works u name it she did it away now 8 months I feel so much better physically, emotionally and mentally

[@robertstrayhall7386]

Parasite

[@dawnpratt4608]

Sending love light asking God jesus and angel michel xx

[@deec411]

Sending love and light 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@mwebb3014]

@@keiraariel7382 Praying for you. I completely understand your experience. 🙏🏻💕

[@happynature73]

narcissist feels like you’re with the devil!

[@tathe3786]

Exactly! They call you a fool or full blown crazy

[@mrs.messenger]

They project their insecurities, sins and issues on to us, because they feel so much shame if they're accountable or focus on themselves. So they often blame you.

[@JeffreyChewning]

@@happynature73 she was the 😈

[@NF40375]

It feels like it because it is it ☝🏾

[@NêmesisAruc]

@@happynature73 This is projection. They project onto you what they are as a way of getting us off our feet. Everything they accuse others of is exactly what they do.

[@paul5471]

After 32 years with a narcissist, I finally left my wife the pain and relief is undescribable, nearly 2 years later I finally am able to find myself and my love for God in my life. The road ahead feels like an adventure. So hang in there!!!

[@CeltKnight]

Once a Narcissist gets you, it's like it leaves a mark that other narcissists see and they will flock to you. The danger then is thinking you got away from one and got the right someone but alas, it may well be the same person with another face.

[@nickygreene4276]

yep, i’m surrounded by them…so exhausting and mentally draining…

[@LittleKitty22]

It's the same spirit. I have experienced that many times. They are so similar it's like it's the same person - because it is, it's the same evil spirit.

[@Katrn30]

How does one get away from these demons?

[@LittleKitty22]

@@Katrn30 You can't if they are your boss/landlord/anyone else who has power over you, or your parents when you are under age. Don't let anyone tell you "just move away/just get a new job" because you will end up a drifter, homeless, unemployed and no one will help you - and the person who said "just leave" will laugh at you! However, if it's a friend or spouse - don't just leave, make extremely sure the person can never find you because these creatures will - and recognize the early signs so you never get into a friendship or relationship with someone like that ever again! Once you can see the early red flags - get out! I've just done it again - saw the red flags - dude got blocked on my emails before he could say boo to a goose. With him I don't need to do more as he was only an online contact. With my "parents" I had to change countries and even with that, I have reason to believe they found me because I've had far too many people getting me arrested and trying to get me into prison with false allegations as that this could all just be a coincidence.

[@PD-sw8px]

Good Question

[@Katarina4567]

That's what happened to me. ...after marriage he stopped talking to me. ( ,before he was soooo nice) He told me he will not love me ....or support me ! I was shocked and started getting sick. He did not help me when I was sick but left me to fend for myself. It happened more than once. No compassion .So much more ...... much to tell. THE LORD helps me and I separated myself from him 13 years ago. The LORD provided for me financially so I ask him for nothing. Had it not been for JESUS, I would have died.

[@Jim-Jam69]

I don’t want to leave the house I feel like a magnet to toxic people I can’t stand it anymore

[@judyhalsell9510]

@@Jim-Jam69 me too. Seems like everyone I meet tells me how broke they are. I quit being everyone’s bank. Had a nephew tell me “ come off of some of that money”. That is what they are all about . Using people.

[@TruthBeTold0914]

This is one of the realist statements I've heard. I thought it was just me and often feels like God is punishing me or turned his back on me. Thank you for helping me to not feel so alone.

[@elizabethqueen8784]

People of God...if people only want money off you. Say No.

[@allsouls5997]

And they think truth is hate.

[@candacejones3352]

One of the many bonuses of getting older and relying on the intuition that God has given us, is toxic people are easier to spot. It becomes easier as you get older to call them out and not allowing them in to your space or more importantly your mind. I find God gives me the strength to stand up to them and the humbleness to pray for them.

[@jackiepowell7513]

Humility not humbleness

[@Ippyleng]

God, please hear my prayers. I'm tired! I need your intervention. Please rewrite my story and show who you truly are so that these narcissists may not under-estimate you! Fight this battle for me Lord only you can win it! I'm leaving this comment here so that 2 months from today, i can come back and testify about God's power and mercy

[@TboneWTF]

"God, please hear my prayers" has god answered your prayers yet?

[@davidjthayer7417]

Be patient, God's timing is perfect !!!

[@firebrand07]

Preach the gospel to them. You’d be amazed at how they avoid YOU.

[@krissybutler1357]

@@firebrand07 that's so true,I started going to church an said I'd prey for him he's dropped away from me 💯

[@ChrystalLougoon]

@firebrand07 oh yes!!

[@dwlsn93]

I do this to my boss whenever I get the opportunity - and God ALWAYS offers the opportunity! 😊

[@tulanzuya]

Oh boy - unfortunately here in the South they are often the ones preaching the gospel the loudest, I'm afraid. They use it a shield to hide what they're really up to and to make themselves look like good righteous people, all the while brainstorming about how to best hurt or destroy someone they don't like. The truth always comes out in their actions over time, but if you only know them casually, they can fool you with this.

[@Dynamicdevices24]

I have been surrounded by narcissists all my life, my mom, my dad and his family, my exes, my so called friends. It was not until God opened my eyes and I left the last toxic relationship that I began a very long and arduous journey back to my bible, the sword, and my savior, Jesus Christ. I am now, through prayer and praise, the Word and God’s grace finding redemption, discernment and wisdom, but not without sacrifice. Sacrifice of my time, energy and the shedding of every toxic entity, in other words everything and everyone not bearing fruit in my life had to go. And now I am free to fill my life with those people and things that deserve my energy.

[@madamephoebejoimack1219]

@@Dynamicdevices24 BEAUTIFUL ❤️

[@teresagarcia7580]

Sounds like my surroundings

[@HumilityisaVirtue]

I have very few friends.... and this includes siblings. I simply got to the point where I'd rather "shake the dust from my sandals, leave them behind, and not look back." I pray for them, but all I need is God. Yes, Proverbs 6. Doesn't that pretty much sum it up? Thank you Kris.

[@ArturoBolanos-u2b]

Put on the Armor of God

[@HighMaintainence]

Take courage. Action words

[@monikaleszko5343]

I have ppl who drain me just on the phone. So I don’t pick up anymore “ I’m very busy “ and I don’t feel guilty about it 🙋🏼‍♀️

[@Patricia_Stewart337]

@@monikaleszko5343 thank you. I am following your example

[@gabriellagrace4734]

@@monikaleszko5343 yes!

[@gabriellagrace4734]

Yes

[@clarioncall8449]

I had to do that too. I’m too small to be anybody’s Savior.

[@jennytaylor3324]

It's in the unconscious things of your life, sometimes. Listen hard to the gut. It's your True North.

[@marliesvrakking2407]

My mother was a narcissist.Whe I was a child I prayed to God for a nice mother.I was raised Catholic .And yes It takes a live time to find a way to get healed.

[@marliesvrakking2407]

@Kris_Reece.4 have I said something wrong

[@JustThankinJesus]

I turned to Jesus Mom, Mary to be my mother. My own mom is a childish chaotic manipulator. I honor her and care for her when necessary. But minimize contact now. And instead ask for Mary’s help as a mother. Much more peace filled.

[@angelakeep5238]

'There is but One Mediator between man/mankind and God, and that I'd The Lord Christ / Jesus-Himself . ' THE BIBLE

[@marliesvrakking2407]

@@angelakeep5238 darling as 4 or 5 year old I did not know that. That information came to me much later

[@kck9742]

@@angelakeep5238 So you never ask anyone to pray for you, riiight? 🙄

[@nhmooytis7058]

I’ve had quite a few after me. Never understood why Satan was working so hard on little old me.

[@kathygulseth2847]

@@nhmooytis7058 Satan wants so much to attack good people...because they are good .

[@rbrtbrdshw]

@@nhmooytis7058 He'll go after 'little old anybody'.He works as hard to lose souls as Jesus does to save them.

[@rbrtbrdshw]

@@nhmooytis7058 He'll go after 'little old anyone'.He works as hard to lose souls as Jesus does to save them.

[@HighMaintainence]

It's a spiritual war and he's patrolling. Not turning anyone away. 😂 Satan will lose by at least one, me.

[@sickofcrap8992]

🙌

[@marietgagliardi]

I've eliminated all the narcissists from my life but I like to listen to you to remind me to avoid these people

[@1233-h1]

Me too. She is an excellent counselor to prevent us narc free survivors and escapees from backsliding. I listen to her and Dr. Ramani to stay grounded and aware. The devil is always looking for an opening so while we shouldn't be paranoid but think like a recovered alcoholic who hears the devil whisper just have one drink- you're fine now it's been ten years. And Kris reminds us NO!!! Don't accept that hoover. You'll be sorrrreeee!

[@hutdweller7430]

Watch out...we tend tend to attract them. Beware if you "feel" a connection. I'm seeking out new kinds of ppl, I hope it works! Perhaps you're already past all this?

[@cristenhartman5185]

Same here. Never go back. ❤

[@Iniry]

My big sister has constantly a life sucking spirit in my life. When I was jobless, she emotionally abused me and kicked me out of her house at night. I battled anxiety most of my life. Once I gained my independence, she try’s to steal my style in all aspects yet she’s older. If a guy chats me up she would try to make them see me as unattractive. The competition is unnecessary but it doesn’t stop. When I avoid her, she sends abusive messages and bad mouth me to family members. She’s determined to see me isolated but unfortunately she is the one isolated. She doesn’t have friends and her relationships have been dead ends. I find joy in small things and it’s hard for me to feel lonely. God is merciful and my protector. Amen

[@elizabethf9096]

Sounds like my sister the narc

[@DELETED-f3x]

same thing with my brother

[@Myaccount923]

@@Iniry same thing with mine. NEVER see her again! In person. It could be dangerous

[@jamesrich7349]

My first wife was sent by the devil, the second one was not.I learned.

[@spmoran4703]

Thanks be to God for this woman . Her message from God is like medicine for the Spirit .

[@janinesmith369]

Amen. Definitely ✝️🙏

[@robynheckendorf9686]

Thank uvery much

[@gaetanemcgraw5567]

I am so tired. I am so tired. He drains me of all my energy. I wrote this comment before you even mentionned it. All that you have said applies to me and my relationship with him. He is a trickster. Very manipulative.

[@mickeysammy5169]

Wow- spot on!! I wasted 45 years of my life in a marriage where my "godly-church going" husband did all of these things to me. I bought into the lie: "we're all sinners. . ." Which was an excuse for years of his bad behavior. He brutally and cruelly discarded me after 40 yr of marriage when I learned the TRUTH. I lost every one and everything- They all believe his lies- he's a very good salesman. He pretends to be humble, yet studies everyone and uses charm to manipulate them. They all buy into his fake facade. He used me to build his facade. My adult children are alienated from me, so I can not see them. However, God IS in control and will use HIS mighty hands! 🙏 Pay attention very carefully to what she is saying. Study your Bible and listen to God. 🙏🙏🙏

[@antheredhen]

Sadly these people hide the best in churches. A lot of them ARE the ministers. God be with you.

[@hutdweller7430]

I am sooo sorry that happened to you. I was ready to take the long swim to China, myself, had I not left my sort of fiance; I ripped my heart out to leave him, and now can't risk giving my heart, since I attract these types, (my mom and bro.) Just don't want to become one! I can't imagine going through that though, after 40 years, and surviving! I figure...to learn how to love all we need to do is learn to Love God. ❤ May He bless us with His 🕊️ Peace!

[@Kelly-oe8kr]

The good (or bad) news is that a narcissist always needs a scapegoat, eventually he will push someone too far with his abuse and everyone will believe them, then the scales will fall from everyone's eyes. It's hard to play victim when multiple people are saying what a nightmare he is. His argument will be that they're lying, well if it's not true then there's an awful lot of people lying about him and they're all saying the same thing. Sooner or later you will be vindicated.

[@vickievans6853]

12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 through God's word there are scriptures you can stand on to get your children back into your life, look for those promises and stand on them write them out and declare and decree them daily and give them time to heal with the Lord , I am in the same boat, one I have stood on since they were small while we were all still together is " All my children are taught of the Lord And great is the peace of my children.Keep praying God sees our hearts and knows our thoughts , He will return your children to you , I say this because I believe it, God is a God of restoration, so keep giving God the praise and honor and glory and use you solitude time to worship , praise Him( which is a weapon) and giving thanks , and realize you are truly blessed of the Lord Jesus , love you Sister.

[@mickeysammy5169]

@vickievans6853 Thank you dear sister. Your wisdom and prayers mean a lot. May the Lord bless you! 😘❤️🙏🙏🙏

[@sandyca1106]

'Friends' who steer you away from God step by step, run! Recently I had to do this. No more stress!

[@roadtrip808]

God is good!

[@mrsqueakthecat.8061]

You're not that dumb.

[@davidjthayer7417]

Amen & Amen !!

[@phyllistouchstone7136]

Every time I was at her house, I felt sick and sweated a lot. The air was so thick at their house. I saw her eyes turn the blackest black and her face morphed.

[@kandacebasso3569]

My mother. She has constantly derailed me as a child, teen and adult. Not sure why she was put in such close proximity to me. I need prayers I’m exhausted

[@shirlalivingco]

@kandacebasso3569 you are not alone. My only parent, my mother she's hurting me and dealing with a narcissist husband.

[@CamperVan-K]

I needed this. Not long walked into a 'narc coven'... they went silent as soon as i arrived. You can just tell they've been speaking about you. Individually, they all use their gaslighting tactics on me. The signs are so obvious to me now. It hurts, but i consciencely shrug it off now. They dont deserve to share my life anyway.

[@cortneybrown6812]

So hard when these people come as family- Gods removed me - Turns out I’m not an anxious mess who is a failure! Now God is showing me how to love them from far away, boundaries, and stepping into who I am in Christ. I leave all of them with the Lord, I forgive them and realize the real enemy. Kris your videos and programs have helped in my journey. Thankyou for allowing the Holy Spirit to use you in this taboo subject!

[@WortundGebet]

5:40 😮😱💯💯💯"......a few degrees off course.....and after a while, you are so far from where you started, that you cant even see how to get back!" OUCH! Lord forgive me and bring me BACK ON TRACK!

[@Katarina4567]

The LORD will help you to get back...Trust JESUS. ...I was completely lost after I got married. The abuse ....,but the LORD helps me. Lean on the LORD. GOD' BLESS You ! 🎉❤

[@WortundGebet]

@@Katarina4567 thank you! I appreciate your words a lot ☺️🙏Jesus is THE way

[@AnneJuthani]

So true

[@djmandyland]

I remember the ex narcissist I had in my life never told me I couldn't do something or see someone in my life but they would give me the silent treatment after I'd get back so it was still a punishment only a silent one and with that it trained me to not WANT to go see my loved ones anymore and he was able to say I never TOLD you you couldn't. Maddening. These demons know exactly how to puppeteer not only the narcissist but the person who practically worships the narcissist. That's the danger is you MUST put the Lord first and foremost so you'll never find yourself idolizing a demon.

[@susan6390]

I have a man in my life exactly like this. It has been definitely been doing negative consequences in my life when I was just getting strong with God and getting good results. It has been years and I want it to stop and my blessings to return.

[@catezaida8081]

At this point in time, I think I will just crawl back in bed and go to sleep.

[@jdlucky]

@@catezaida8081 Amen!!! 😂 so true!! Wicked world!!

[@RebeccaJarisch]

Yep, depression at its best. lol

[@nicolemarie7684]

Yes! 💯 The Christian Pollyanna "see the good in everyone". The Christian covert ones will use that very principle against you. That's how they keep a hold on your life. You ignore your own God given discernment telling you to put up a boundary, love them from afar, pray for them, but ultimately give them to God! And sadly this includes family. Hearing "honor thy father and mother" misused by covert narcissists is absolutely sickening.

[@chuckn8885]

And love your children and siblings and put up with their behaviour

[@CasuallyCandace]

I was discarded 5 yrs ago as I entered the psych ward for my first ever mental breakdown only to be told when I was in the hospital to pack my bags bc my husband was leaving me and I couldn’t go back to my home of 11 years. It was devastating but the day I left my house God encountered me and saved me sheltering me from everything I was exposed to. I’ve not had an experience like that since. Praise God. Took a long time to realize my ex was a covert narc and I was not 100% of the problem. I blamed myself for everything until I realized. Most painful thing I’ve ever been through.

[@incomewriter2360]

Thank you so much kriss, this video has truly spoke to me. All the signs you have spoken are what have happened to me in the last 3 years. Worry has been a tactic satan has used against me since I was a young boy. I would worry about the smallest thing and big things that I know now satan manipulated me to believe. Before I became a Christian satan had free run, I suffered mentally, it was attack, attack, attack all the time, from the moment I woke up to the moment I fell asleep. Yes as a human certain brain chemistry is at play but satan can manipulate the spirit which changes brain chemistry. I feel so blessed to have found you and your videos, this videos has answered questions I didn’t think about before. Satan could see I was Luke warm (I feel ashamed to say that) I feel most happy when I’m close to God and Jesus, my heart feels free, my heart feels home. Thank you again Kriss, this video has helped me so much.

[@dreambig911]

it's my mom 😭😭 i feel bad because she's a cute little woman but there's so many covert demonic forces at play

[@vickievans6853]

12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 12:41 keep praying for her , the demons are the ones that work through her , her true self is bound up in them, something opened the door for them to come in , either fear ( of some kind) or maybe not working in the Lord through following Him closely, but God's word will bring you to all kinds of knowledge to help you grow and bring you through to victory.You may have to remove yourself from where she is for a time, but allow that time to draw you closer to the Lord to strengthen and build you to where you can lean on Him through this, you are in my prayers as I pray.Through God All beyond our imagination is possible He is the impossible God , the one that is always working on our behalf , Father God give her your kind of faith, you speak only and it is , keep speaking God's blessings and promise , that all through out His word, God is all about restoration He will bring your mom out a nd back to you , His word is Him, The close we walk with Him ( and He never leaves us/ never ) the more we will walk in all of His truths , in His love , peace and joy, love you , and He loves you so very, very much, more than we can fathom.

[@rulaj1]

♥

[@margaretwebb389]

My Mom too!

[@shirlalivingco]

My mom n husband 😢

[@tristancarver734]

I've another angle on this. I've known Christian people who gossip , talk down to others as if they're better than everyone. I know it's logical that no matter how often people read the bible etc etc, that there's always going to people that aren't honourable. In fact, which, there's no doubt, there's lots of others who have seen this hubris behaviour. They are some of the biggest hypocrites l've ever known. Some of them actually belittled disabled people, which l find to be the some of the cruellest and cowardly of their ways.

[@prettypuppy6752]

Wherever God builds a Church…Satan plants a chapel. A very wise and faithful Minister gave me that warning many years ago.

[@jimihendrixx11]

Yeah but its like you are not just reading when it comes to the bible you have to study it closely and try to get what it means spiritually. You need his spirit to properly understand it

[@Riowestie]

This is precisely why I won't call myself a Christian. I am a child of God.

[@goodenoughgirl8102]

For sure. I’ve had both kinds in my life. The extra holy and the unholy rogues. Narcs aren’t always “heathens” and you can’t trust ANY labels or as some do….”holy by association” which they are not. I had a lot to learn and I was very naive, but it was always right there. “Not all who say Lord Lord know God.” (Paraphrased). The Pharisee types will bind you up in chains and oppress you with all of their myriad of “touch not, taste not, handle not” rules and the heathens will lead you astray. In either case tho, what to look out for is people who incite false fear, obligation or guilt and shame. Bottom line is that all of it is coercive and nobody can be free under it.

[@LittleBlueFish87]

We just cut off a 35 year friendship with someone because of his wife. She portrayed herself as a “good Christian.” She literally checked every box in this video. My husband had been grieving the loss of his friend but understands the necessity of it. All we can do is pray for them and insulate ourselves from the problem and attacks.

[@allaboutmycats454]

As long as we go around blaming others, we will never get well. Some people are evil, why are you still with them? Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. There is always a trade-off in relationships. Forgiveness is not because others deserve it…it is because you do. Now being the wiser person, pick yourself up, dust yourselves off and move on, being wary of wolves.

[@LM1-f3d]

it's been hard to walk away from the narcissist when it's my own adult daughter, and now I'm being kept from my grandchild, well, the pain is beyond words, but I'm done with the game and just not engaging with her anymore. It took me 15 years to figure out what I've been dealing with. One day the truth will be known, until then I'm leaving it in the Lord's hands, and praying for a hedge of protection around my grandchild. Really glad I found your channel Kris, thanks

[@audreyvisco1321]

@@LM1-f3d this is your child you’re talking about. It’s your fault. Nobody is born evil they are programmed by their parents

[@patriciarose2342]

My problem is "friends and family" who start conflicts and then blame me or accuse me of doing the very things that they are doing. Heartbreaking bc just when I think I can trust someone or someone is changing, I am betrayed and disappointed again. I wish I could just live my life all alone in this world until I'm gone.

[@peacebewithyou81]

🙏 ❤

[@princesshall8229]

I met this man 3years ago he sucked the life out of me he tried me but I'm to strong for him God bless women ❤️ 🙏🏼 ♥️

[@virginiaboone9503]

This is excellent. I often ask myself why the devil tempted me with this person. I have no answer to this

[@sar_e_bear]

You are so right. My ex-fiance was a sociopathic narcissist. 14 years after I ended the relationship, I am still dealing with the scars that he left.

[@MeadeFatLoss]

Forgive

[@Benniecat972]

This was so good. I had an experience 14 years ago that still causes me to shudder. I made the mistake of letting my feelings guide my actions and it almost cost me my faith, my marriage and my self esteem. I found out later that this person was heavily involved with tarots cards. Although I can’t completely rid her in my life (she is my husbands sister), I do not allow her in my home. These kind of people are extremely skilled with their demonic influences.

[@DEEJOJOHNSON]

I was with my narcissistic wife for 11 years, married for the last 2. Thank you, Jesus, for getting me away from those demons.

[@Sarahyoutubeaddict]

We need more people like you to speak out about the obvious that SO many are trying to cover up & some are too afraid to acknowledge ,BRAVO

[@MacTwain]

Exactly. My wife. Yes, I married a narcissist. My wife appears to be in the discard stage. She often says she doesn't need me. OH but, how she takes my money! I know. I need to get away from this super stress bag.

[@paulsvdeogratis8268]

See video "divorcing a narasist"

[@deannang455]

The hardest is leaving organizations run by them, losing all your friends and having to start over. Learned in spite of having disabilities I don't need them to make me whole.

[@peacebewithyou81]

@@deannang455 🙏

[@barbararoberts7082]

I just escaped a relationship with a very narcissistic woman in my church. I felt so much better after ending it.

[@MegaDede25]

It hurts much more sometimes, when its family causing all 5 signs.

[@aprilmorrison9627]

WOW! Did this video come to me at the RIGHT time.....I just ended a long friendship yesterday, and she ticked every single box. I have felt nothing but torment and angst in this relationship....But, I didn't see all the signs because it was a christian friend. Slowly, over the past 2-3 years I've come to see the absolute truth. I was dealing with ANOTHER Narcissist, but because it was a friend and a woman...I didn't see it sooner. Gosh, it has been devastating. I had already left a 5 year romantic relationship 7 years prior and was doing so much better. Then, My old friend re-entered my life... The enemy really knows our weak spots. I am in such grief over my friend now. I'm trying to come to terms that she was not at ALL who she presents herself as to the world. It's such a feeling of loss. I would appreciate any prayers right now. I HAVE been praying so much that God would help me have WISDOM in balance...exactly as you mentioned. To create FIRM boundaries, and hear only His voice.

[@GrayRealities]

Sounds like a close family member. In fact a sibling she’s impossible to get along with she has severe victim mentality among many narcissistic traits, all I can do is pray for her 🤷‍♂️

[@bettyboothe2523]

@@GrayRealities mine too. It's a constant rollercoaster with her. I want peace in my life

[@GrayRealities]

@@bettyboothe2523 neutralize your emotions never compete or try to one up your sibling. It seems frustrating because you do want to teach a lesson, but it’s best to just ignore otherwise your peace is gone It’s the only way you’ll find peace always leave things in Gods hands. There’s no way we could ever control anybody but ourselves and that’s awful hard to do at times. let’s keep our emotions to ourselves when it comes to dealing with narcissistic behavior from others we can’t do anything for them but pray for them. God bless. Have a wonderful day.❤🙏🏻👍

[@TheeOne4.44]

Be grateful it's not a parent

[@rachellincoln3078]

My ex best friend was a spiritual bully. For 12 years, she used scripture verses against me, told me I wasn't walking with the Lord, and I had to keep her around to be spiritually safe. I was always wrong even when it was really her in the wrong. She was perpetually late, and when I finally confronted her about it, she turned it on me like I was the problem, and made me feel just terrible. I finally cut her off a year ago when she used her claws to hurt me deeper than she ever had before, by saying she couldn't count on me to be there for her. I have been nothing BUT there for her. It has taken lots of therapy and time to heal from this. Now I'm struggling to let go of the anger and bitterness. I used to love her as a sister. But now I'm struggling not to hate her. I love the Lord. And He is using this to build my relationship with Him. It has drawn me closer to the Lord as I give my pain to Him, and trust Him with my heart.

[@claudiacalderon5683]

Scammer alert - impersonating Kris in all comment replies

[@cotr6]

@@rachellincoln3078 I had a similar interaction with my “best friend.” I started praying for truth two years ago and was convicted that my codependency was idolatry. I started making it my goal to live with integrity and live out my values. My attempts to deescalate arguments, not show favoritism, and not allow her negative perception of others to influence my perception caused her to turn against me full force and rewrite history to paint me as a villain who had never supported her. The triangulation. The blame shifting. The projection. And the outright lies. And I still was not strong enough to cut ties. Thank God, He pulled me out of it. It has been the hardest six months of my life. But I have also been able to come off of anxiety medication and finish my therapy journey since the relationship with her has ended. And in a last ditch effort, she and her husband accused me of stirring up dissension within the body of Christ because I shared about some of the things that happened (without naming her) and asked trusted friends for prayer. That was what removed the scales from my eyes. This person who had spent the last 3-4 years speaking lies about other sisters-in-Christ, about her family, about her former church, about anyone who challenged her….she accused me of creating dissension. I knew then that it was all lies from the devil. He is the author of lies and confusion. There are certainly things that God was trying to teach me and aspects of my character that I am working on. But I will no longer take responsibility for the sins she projects onto me.

[@bettycarmella1127]

❤️

[@kittenpaw5276]

I can totally sympathize with what you're going through. My mom is the narc though and steals from me when she can while manipulating me into just letting her have xyz because (fill in the sad excuses) like she has nothing anymore (because she's given half her stuff to my brother when he moved out while I got NOTHING). It's really really hard not to be angry and bitter but one thing that has really helped me is that God, as our father, loves his children so much, and because he's the God of justice, he WILL get justice for us. It's not a maybe... it's a *fact* . Letting go of my anger and bitterness and giving her to God to deal with has really helped let go. I pray it helps you too.

[@yamisomad3486]

Amen 🙏🙏🙏❤️

[@ladyb7327]

Yes. I finally realized that I I projected good things onto them. But that was ONLY a projection. It goes both ways...

[@Emily_Paris]

Yes Kris. I had someone who would drain my energy and literally make me physically sick. I’m free from that relationship. Praying to God, asking the Holy Spirit to hug me, listening to you and therapists helped me heal. Freedom is good.

[@peace5647]

This happened to me for 17 years of marriage. However, 17 is the number of Victory! Remember that! God gave ME the Victory. If something costs you your Peace, then the cost is too high.

[@sassybo_bassy227]

interesting, I just had 17 in my dream last night

[@TruthWillprevail13]

I will keep faith no matter what. As a single mother. I’m struggling to make ends meet. My husband passed years ago. I have no one to turn to but you Lord JESUS. Both of my sons are special needs and require so much from me. Lord I’m afraid. Every month I struggle trying to provide for my children struggling to pay rent and to buy groceries. Lord help me and hear my prayers. Amen.💕❤️

[@lynnm.2019]

Sister, I am sorry to hear that you are still struggling after all these years. I do know that people have reached out to you and helped you over these many years, so I am glad of that. And that your faith is still strong!😉

[@kimparke6653]

Sending strength and love.

[@888hereandnow]

This person is in almost all the christian videos comments

[@lynnm.2019]

@@888hereandnow Yes, it’s been going on for years now and obviously a scam, but we will pray for them together OK? 🙏🏼 I once tried to reach out to them years ago, and it led me personally to that conclusion.😉✝️🎺⏳Maranatha!!

[@tinahendry4488]

God will bless you and your sons and look after you all .God bless 🙏🙏Xx

[@UnknownSender1111]

Thank you so much my beautiful sister. There’s so many people that aren’t aware of the enemy’s sneaky tactics. I’m born again and I’ve dealt with all kinds of demonic attacks, at times the warfare seems too much yet I must stay near Christ and persevere. I’ve removed almost all from my past because of the reasons you have described. I was an easy target as you stated. As I grow in Christ I stay away and test every spirit. We much stay prayed up.

[@judithwendt8018]

I truly needed to see this video. I have been with narcissistic for 4 years, and I kept thinking he was killing my soul. I made a huge mistake when I started to date him I told him everything about my life. And every time we were together he would always use my past against me and would not let me leave my mistake behind me. So glad I seek help and my therapist told me after talking to her if I new what a narcissistic was. I told her not really and she said it's the man you just talked to me about. So happy I am away from him and living a life for God. Amen

[@idoido75]

What if the toxic person is your mother? How do we reconcile "honoring our father and mother" with staying away from a mother who is a malignant narcissist?

[@Demized_Fate]

honoring them has more to do with your works than that of theirs. in fact, I would argue that the further away from God they are that it becomes your duty even more. honoring them is the act of doing right by them if even in spite of them. you honor them by making the best of the life given to you. I is not about them it is about you and what you cant do that is good and fruitful with your time on this earth. what also needs consideration is times have changed meanings have changed what is socially acceptable has changed. so our views must as well. as we hold here on earth so it is in heaven. to an extent. but thats another conversation for another time. the only way to break these generational curses is through out works. that is how you honor them. them being your family lineage itself and no specific individual. honoring mother and father was a passing of the torch the responsibility keeping the family alive. marriage bearing fruit, children. over the years family members stray from God, we are human and by default mistakes will be made that separate us from God and only we as individuals can do right by our family and bring that relationship back and or continue to keep it moving forward. Just my two cents on how i see it. you are welcome to find your own meaning. have a blessed day.

[@TheREALLibertyOrDeath]

Keep reading the rest of the verse. It isn’t a license to abuse/divide your children

[@ooomsweis]

"fathers do not frustrate your sons". also a verse in the bible.

[@NevaleeLaidler]

This so resonates with me! My life is full of them!

[@MissChinandler]

I left a job earlier this year which was perfectly described in this video. I thought this was a gift but turned into the greatest trouble of my life. " if the devil can't get to you, he'll send a narcissist". Truer words never been said and yes, "pollyanna see the good.." if this doesn't wake you up to modern age then I don't know. Great video as always.

[@ayezee333]

The moment you said narcissist, my heart sunk. I luckily escaped mine in January (after 3 years on and off) and it’s been quite a year of trying to heal. It’s been really tough as I am in financial struggle due to the narc, was forced to isolated so my friends aren’t around anymore and the way it’s required my brain is scary. God has been the only thing keeping me going. I’m so blessed I stumbled upon this video 🙏🏼💕✨

[@dylannaenzo9737]

My two older narcissist sisters always said "You know I just want "the best" for you" while doing absolutely nothing to help me. Also, "I was so worried about you" (after the fact)...... while never telling me at the time. They said they wanted to "help" with my wedding task list. When they reviewed the list, they marked off the things "I didn't really need to do". I did them myself. The older died in 2021. I had not spoken to her for six years. She ghosted me decades ago. It was the kindest thing she ever did for me.

[@nikkijohnson7332]

Exactly what I needed to hear today. Thank you for calling us to keep ourselves in check, too. That's what brothers and sisters should do.

[@Jesselopez76543]

*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $89k biweekly and a good daughter full of love..

[@Jesselopez76543]

It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

[@Jesselopez76543]

$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....

[@zinkkayoto]

Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!

[@zinkkayoto]

I know that woman (Maria Angelina Alexander) If you were born and raised in new York you'd know too, she's my family's Broker for 3yrs till now and a very good one if you asked me. No doubt she is the one that helped you get where you are!!!!

[@Alvarezdavid-z7e]

A CNBC news host spoke highly big about this woman and her loss preventing strategies. Been trying to reach her since. Thanks y'all for the info.

[@god-driven-designs]

I want you to rebuke all of those things, those toxic demons, the toxic thoughts they’re trying to put in, the demonic staged setups and attacks. These are going to be very alarming times for God’s people. Be very mindful of that. Be very aware so that they know, keep singing to God. Oh, God’s help is coming in.

[@emsieklopper7813]

I am free 4+ years 🙌 Thank God for saving me from a Narc, psychopath.

[@gregoryritchie7852]

My Mathew Henry commentary mentions it can take 40 years for our brains to BEGIN to thaw to see this wolf in sheep's clothing clearly - that's how frozen in sin our brains actually are. Interestingly, it has literally taken me that long after the narcissist left. I have literally spent about 3-4 hours a day, 7 days a week over last 25 years and am still uncovering more of his subtleties in how he has affected me.

[@manuelag2128]

The bible IS the truth and IT says.nothing IS Impossible for GOD. Even in an instant.a commentary often IS in a bible, but IT IS Not the bible, Just an opinion of another Person. Please keep that in mind.we have a great GOD, expect great things. My brain Had Trauma Most of my life, the Last 8 years i was able to heal very much , iam a pretty new Person. You can have IT ,too. The Word of GOD still heals today🙌🏼✝️✨📖✨✝️🙌🏼🙏🏼📖🤲🏼

[@bethpage6696]

I'm so glad you touched on the fact that it's not always obvious. ❤

[@VergonaSucia]

Thats why I stay to myself and pray to the Lord daily. Keep everyone at arms length. I come across people all about Jesus that do nothing but cause problems. Eyes n ears open folks

[@leteshalove]

What's sad is I think most people don't even know when they are being used as the devil. But because they are unbelievers and they don't have The Holy Spirit in them, they are easily deceived by the voice of the devil. It's sad. We ALL NEED JESUS!!!

[@RepentImmediately]

Many Christians have no understanding of how The Devil works.

[@gregoryward3815]

Thank you so much for the confirmation. I needed to hear this. Thank you. Please pray for me

[@kimsherlock8969]

Wolves are not human and have a moral responsibility to their pack to eat not slaughtering everything for self gain . Animals are much better than humans as they can truly show love ❤ 😍 💖 ❣ 💕

[@tarrylove6519]

@@kimsherlock8969 wolves mate for life and case for the elderly and disabled. They are’s way better than humans.

[@kylaren6337]

We should never worry on these people because Luke 10:19. Put up good boundaries and stand strong. We should never fear them.

[@The-Real-L3X]

Thank you Kris. Very helpful clip. Well done. God bless you and everyone who reads this.

[@mildredechevarria8527]

❤ Amen very draining. Trojan hourse, Very Nacissistic. Decive you into thinking it's ok to do evil. Twisted motives.

[@erkinsonmagee3020]

Love you sister God is using you to inspire many who don't know how to free themselves from entrapment the Spirit of knowledge is a criteria keep up the good work

[@Ursaminor31]

I was born of one and Was able to overcame it, no contact and a purified life

[@Minstrel_ofthe_Dawn]

I was just talking yesterday with another woman who constantly ends up in abusive relationships. We both realised that we always like to see the good in people and give them the benefit of the doubt. We're both now single and a lot happier!

[@sgttim8617]

I Saw Three of these Situations. VERY LIKELY HAPPENING - In My Life, Right Now... Thank You !

[@Non-Artificial-Intelligence]

Kris, I hope you know how much of a wonderful blessing you are to the many who are being so heavily targeted by Satan's human minions. This tactical operational modality of Satan is completely counterintuitive to the average person, let alone Christians! It seems that now, as we draw closer to the very end and lawlessness is indeed abounding as prophesied, these people are becoming much more bold in their ways to bring down God's people. I am amazed - and I was just talking with God again about this very topic - that so many true and "professing" Christians are not only among the worst of these people, but a high number of them are close family members and even spouses of ours! Indeed, God has brought you to us as a pointed, clear and timely resource for such a time as this. Myself, and all of those who have been led to you thank God greatly for your knowledge and wisdom, and that you work tirelessly to share your expertise with us!

[@joyskye790]

Was married (not even legally) to someone who called himself: Missionary, pastor, teacher....He talks in such a calm manner, preaches the gospel on the streets yet is deceiving everyone. People listen to him and hang onto his lips! He discarded of me in less than a year. Within 2 weeks he was back on a Christian dating site! He is telling everyone he left the USA because God wants him to preach the gospel in SA. He got married to a woman in Malawi He has a laughable story about the fact that they are not together anymore. I wonder how many other women he is married to....the one does not know about the other. Kris, you are describing this man!! Wolf in sheep's clothing. It is sad how many christian women this man is deceiving. I feel sorry for the ex wife and children he left behind in the USA. Then he dared call her: a narcissist. Shame on him!! He is the one that is blind, poor...like the Bible speaks about . How do these people sleep at night....!!!???

[@TamiE1978]

To all of that, I say a big AMEN

[@KRzzzzzzzz]

Yes my son and my husband and my husband’s entire family

[@robertstrayhall7386]

She took all of my money I found she is as buying friends if hers clothes,food , furniture you Name it and always around check time each month she would be nice too me and after no,I believe also she has some relationship going on with her gf who lived with us ,and others I was sick alot when I lived there ,she must have found another source of supply, somebody with money is my Guess, she did filed for divorce or discard ,so I actually found a nice apartment cuz she asked me too get out as god would have it I found an apt at a rent controlled senior apt bldg only thing was it had a 3 too Six month waiting list but praise God he came through and I got picked by management or the Lord's favor I now live there alone,but the Lord Put a new woman in front of me she has her own home,I'm happy again from that demonic nonsense that was happening too me also I believe my wife was was being influenced by A Jezebel Spirit I saw it manifest on her it was ugly and disgusting Looking yes I know what saw thanks for your time and this blog I learned a lot from you on narcissistic behavior the lord bless u

[@vickievans6853]

Turn them over to the Lord, claim your son to be saved by the Lord Allmy children are taught of the Lord, stand on the word of God and declare and decree every day , God is into restoration and will return your son to you sister , you can count on the Lord, let your son have a time to heal his self and keep praying for him and leave the rest to the Lord your God , He will come through for you Love you sister .

[@cortneybrown6812]

Your not alone!!! I pray the Blood of Jesus over both my sons daily and have turned them to the Lord. Their father has done extreme damage and lied and add my narc family ontop of it. God has shown me I need to choose him first and leave them with him. I will no longer defend myself - All we can do is live in who we are in Christ- They will know us by our fruit- Just as we know who they are by their lack of it- Until the scales are removed from their eyes, until they drop the mask and see their pride and deny their flesh and ask for Jesus to really save them,,,, until then they are dancing with the devil. God will eventually seperate you out if you haven’t already - I’m praying for your heart and pain- I know it’s so so painful😢

[@robertstrayhall7386]

@@cortneybrown6812 yes god did separate us now I'm at Peace Amen thank you lord