You'll See These Signs When God Removes a Narcissist From Your Life

[@Kris_Reece]

FREE Narcissist Survival Guide krisreece.com/narcissist-survival-guide/

[@skdais]

Thanks sooooooo much❤

[@roslyntucker590]

I needed to hear this.

[@roslyntucker590]

Wow !!! You’re right

[@godisgood9173]

Your a LYING BICCH! Stop misleadng people to make a BUCK! False Prophet!

[@lyndadoerner5341]

💛

[@Clevelandsteamer324]

Sometimes rejection is God’s protection. He hears the conversations behind our backs

[@nicholasaltieri8333]

I love that

[@beautiful_one5915]

They are definitely trying to sabotage..even worse when it's a spouse

[@rhondae8222]

@@beautiful_one5915 Agreed!

[@theresaruemenapp3563]

Exactly

[@mistythompson5356]

Amen!!

[@JESUSCHRIST91126ad]

I just wanted to say anyone that is going through this my heart truly goes out to you... Praying for you and your future, DONT GIVE UP

[@joshgen8533]

A woman can’t teach the Bible. So whatever she says in this video is not of The Most High of the scripture..

[@lulu-qw8xy]

@kevinwilson6270 Thank you ❤

[@Kellycantlose]

Thank you I needed to read that

[@Kellycantlose]

Thank you I needed to read that❤

[@eaglesview888]

Thank you 🙏🏻

[@jewels4817]

So glad to see the Christian community addressing narcissisism.

[@rynnykitty6945]

@jewels4817 unfortunately they are in the church! Be careful

[@deksper]

@@rynnykitty6945 Yes. The instituted church was never God's template for fellowship and true growth. Narc's (Devil's) favourite playground ... Thanks pastors - NOT!

[@Leannot35]

​​@@rynnykitty6945they sure are, it is shocking to me

[@immirvine2825]

Yes agree. I know now that God removes to protect me and my spirituality. The removal is not permanent. On a daily basis, he is removed for an hour at a time when he seeks other company where we live in a community. I use these times of separation to pray and heal and welcome these pockets of time. I used to resent these times, bit now I understand and welcome it. Praise God.

[@Ayala130]

​​​@@jewels4817 thank you so much lot of people doesn't understand but I came to Jesus thanks to these auwful people, and years. And I thank Jesus for that. No they were atheists really covert ones mocked God. And the other were rc. Pervert narcissist. I can tell they are crual. I try to heal with Jesus and I 'm so glad to be liberated. Thanks to God. ✝️🙏❤️🩸📖 I thank God for that. It took me some month to get rid of culprit. ❤I am the auwful one

[@Gail-j8r]

I am being discarded right now. I believe God is pulling me closer to him . I understand God wants me away from this person.

[@Liz-in8lu]

I wish I was as confident as you are. I’m going through discard and the guy leaving, but I’m second-guessing if I could’ve done something better if I listened to God better.

[@mikefigueroa4075]

I was discarded one month ago. I am pretty devastated. I do see God in this. She slowly but surely stopped all church going and seeking God with me. I see All this but I still miss her so much. Or I miss what we had so much. Just hurts.

[@LivebyFaith-q2p]

@@Gail-j8r I’ve been there and so sorry you’re going through that. Ask the Holy Spirit to lead you throughout this time. He will show you if you need to go no contact, if it’s best to be on or off social media in terms of people following you being nosey, and so much more. You don’t have to tell anyone your business unless you want to. And God will never leave you or forsake you. I prayed and asked the Holy Spirit what is it about me that people keep treating me like this…I was desperate to hear something…and the thought came to my mind lovingly but with a stern undertone…”Why do you keep saying what is it about you…What is it about them!” And he went on to put it in my heart that when people are jealous and envious at times they project onto others. So know that it’s not you and when people do cruel discards they are likely under the influence of demonic spirits. Let the Lord fight your battle.

[@whitedoveoutpouring]

God bless you! ❤

[@mikefigueroa4075]

@@Liz-in8lu same. But. That won’t bring her back. She is done. I just have to deal with it.

[@NicoleMcL-to1hy]

Was raised by 2 Narcs and broke the generational curses!!😊

[@godblessksusha]

You are so strong and great❤ God bless uuu

[@jaye3848]

Praying the same for our 2 Grandaughters ❤ To break the generational curses of their father's family🙏

[@NicoleMcL-to1hy]

@@jaye3848 praying 🙏🏻

[@julesgreen5079]

@@NicoleMcL-to1hy congratulations 🥳 it takes courage (action) to love yourself.

[@ZoeyLovesHawaii]

Congratulations ❤

[@danieb4273]

It's been said.... When the devil can't get to you, he'll send a narcissist.

[@1Immanuel8]

100%

[@Dandelion0962]

Their 1 in the same robes.

[@skdais]

@@danieb4273 I like that saying

[@楊宜強]

I was just saying to a friend I don't know why I married him. This is the reason ! Thanks for sharing 👍

[@skdais]

Looking at it that way does make it a tiny bit easier to take.

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

When narcissists couldn't find any recent mistakes,they're quick to remind us of our shameful past.❤

[@skdais]

Or they'll just make up something.

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

@@skdais 😳👍WHOA ‼️You know what? I really like your response. You're absolutely right.💐

[@dee1380]

@@skdais that part..

[@rhonnesanelms8969]

@@dee1380 🤣👍You're funny (in a cute way).

[@immirvine2825]

Yes how true

[@kelly-sg4pw]

They neglect your words and feelings and boast to you about their doings.

[@jeffjohnsonfutdoc]

So true...I experience this almost each day from a narc in my life

[@felinaoreite]

Oh yeah. He put out 2 trophies he had from our young days. So I put out all mine. 28 yrs. Done. He got a new girlfriend at work, gave me her diseases, and uses the gate at the HOA where they both work to make even getting clothing, a tortuous experience. I thought he was loyal. I knew he just sucked up my money like a hoover, but I thought he was too lazy to cheat. I wish I could go back, so bad, and never meet him.

[@donnadallariva8377]

It is always about them & the attention they demand to get.

[@CHDRCJ]

Narcissistic mate died in his sleep. No illness total shock. Just dead. Left quite the financial mess for daughter and me. Please pray for us. ❤❤❤❤

[@ShawnStokes-fu9wp]

You are definitely in my prayers so sorry for your loss. God will provide. My late husband passed away from covid 19 in 2021. He was a narcissist, big-time 😢

[@realestatecoach8626]

Wow!

[@childoftheking2214]

I am sure the time and stress sorting out the mess he left behind will be far less damaging than the damage he would have done to you and your child had he lived. I speak from experience. God will help you get through this. Surround yourself with wise people.

[@LHarris-h8y]

My narcissist husband died one yr ago. He also left a huge financial mess for me. Not a penny in the bank and a broken down suv. And he had gone on a smear campaign, so I have several neighbors who won't even speak with me. I'm close to having the bills caught up. The suv is a whole other problem. I wish I could fix it, but I'll likely never have enough money to do so. In the months before he passed, I prayed to God to let me come home. I was at the end of what I could continue to take. Instead, my husband died. I'm on O2, and for several years, I have had breathing problems. Oftentimes, feeling like a band was wrapped tightly around my chest, crushing me. In the last year, I haven't felt that crushing in my chest. It's completely gone. I can relax and breathe.

[@redafro321]

@@LHarris-h8y It’s my thought 💭 that God removed your spouse permanently bc his presence was absolutely unhealthy for you. You couldn’t endure anymore toxicity. God’s protection is everything‼️💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝 What a breath of fresh air for you‼️💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝💝WHAT HE WON’T DO⁉️🙏🏽

[@slellis3]

Yes, God removed him…prayed daily…I saw the “demon” in his eyes…scary….Divorced him.

[@latonyaturner3729]

@@slellis3 I saw the darkness, demon, depravity in my husband eyes also.

[@ntswakireginahmakale2482]

Saw the same in my husband The coldness, hatred & cruelty. & other people don't see it I served him divorce papers last week & came thru this today

[@KM-kn6nu]

⁠So sorry you all went through that. Proud of you for leaving! 🫶🏻

[@Tammy-q3w]

Same here.. flat black eyes, and a crazy look while yelling and over what I didn't know most of the time. Was very intimidating and I literally felt it, in my spirit.. I was at war. The way it looked at me, it wanted me gone. He moved out because of my health was suffering bad and doctors told me to get a hold of the issue causing the stress.. They knew it was him. My primary the first go around said he was borderline... And I was better off without him! These kind of people are not from God, and I don't see how God blesses that marriage... Especially when it is so chaotic that after a while and you know something is really wrong that as Kris said, God is moving them out of your life for your protection!!!

[@heatherschmidt109]

I’ve seen the eyes over and over again. Same eyes, different men. All demonic, hateful, and abusive. I could tell those eyes wanted me to die a slow death.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

The narcissist has a mental stronghold that needs to be removed. It is spiritual bondage.

[@lizielita]

How? Some spiritual tool? I'd like to hear, ty.

[@russellfield5010]

​@@lizielitaDemonic strongholds can only be taken down and cast out by the power of the Holy Spirit.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@lizielita Praise all day music. Demons cannot have power in the sanctuary. Did it it worked. God began healing me of codependency and the spirit of PAIN. Deny self and we win. PlacingvHim back in His rightful place in that area. He then removed the enemy and I had PEACE. AND HE SHOWED ME THE LIE WHEN I RANDOMLY OPENED THE BIBLE...JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE PRIDEFULL AND WICKED, IT IS SIN. HE IS A GOD OF FREEWILL AND GRACE NOT BONDAGE AND JUDGMENT. NOT UNTIL THE SECOND ADVENT. THE WICKED ARE HERE TO CORRECT ( VESSELS OF WRATH) AND BRING OUT WHATS IN US. CHOOSE SUFFERING HUMILITY BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE HE IS. HE IS NOT LOOKING AT THE PRIDEFUL. HE IS ON THE CROSS IN CERTAIN AREAS OF OUR MIND, UNTIL WE LOOSE THE HOLY SPIRIT, WE DO THIS THROUGH...HUMILITY TO GOD. HE LED ME TO JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE WICKED, IT IS SIN. Itcsays too when you are healed you will tell others that God raises up the humble one. THAT IS THE MESSAGE FROM GOD. ❤️ HUMBLY SEEK AND RECEIVE THE GOODNESS OF GOD FOR IT IS CHASING AFTER YOU. ( THAT SONG CAME TO ME 4 XS IN 7 HOURS IN STRANGE WAYS. IT IS TGE TOOL TO USE AND SAYS SO IN THE LYRICS) HS GAVE ME THIS SONG TO KEEP ME IN THE PROTECTION OF GOD, TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE WITH THE WORD💥✝️❤️ PAIN IS A SPIRIT. THE WALLS OF JERICHO FELL BY PRAISE, WALLS/ MENTAL STRUCTURES IN THE MIND FALL BY PRAISE. ALOT OF PRAISE.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Praise.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Praise all day music. Demons cannot have power in the sanctuary. Did it it worked. God began healing me of codependency and the spirit of PAIN. Deny self, and we win. Placing him back in His rightful place in that area. He then removed the enemy, and I had PEACE. AND HE SHOWED ME THE LIE WHEN I RANDOMLY OPENED THE BIBLE...JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE PRIDEFULL AND WICKED. IT IS SIN. HE IS A GOD OF FREEWILL AND GRACE NOT BONDAGE AND JUDGMENT. NOT UNTIL THE SECOND ADVENT. THE WICKED ARE HERE TO CORRECT ( VESSELS OF WRATH) AND BRING OUT WHATS IN US. CHOOSE SUFFERING HUMILITY BECAUSE THAT IS WHERE HE IS. HE IS NOT LOOKING AT THE PRIDEFUL. HE IS ON THE CROSS IN CERTAIN AREAS OF OUR MIND, UNTIL WE LOOSE THE HOLY SPIRIT, WE DO THIS THROUGH...HUMILITY TO GOD. HE LED ME TO JOB 21 AND 22. DO NOT LOOK AT THE WICKED, IT IS SIN. Itcsays too when you are healed you will tell others that God raises up the humble one. THAT IS THE MESSAGE FROM GOD. ❤️ HUMBLY SEEK AND RECEIVE THE GOODNESS OF GOD FOR IT IS CHASING AFTER YOU. ( THAT SONG CAME TO ME 4 XS IN 7 HOURS IN STRANGE WAYS. IT IS TGE TOOL TO USE AND SAYS SO IN THE LYRICS) HS GAVE ME THIS SONG TO KEEP ME IN THE PROTECTION OF GOD, TAKE EVERY THOUGHT CAPTIVE WITH THE WORD💥✝️❤️ PAIN IS A SPIRIT. THE WALLS OF JERICHO FELL BY PRAISE, WALLS/ MENTAL STRUCTURES IN THE MIND FALL BY PRAISE. ALOT OF PRAISE. Also, they are vessels of correction sometimes. Unfortunately God said... He gave " them power over His children" but they went too far and will be punished for it. Breaking a person's or animal's ➡️ spirit is ...going too far.

[@oldsouloriginal]

Oh man, I followed you all the way until you started talking about the divorce and "let no man separate what God has put together" but sooo many marriages, most of the marriages, God did not put together, they were outside of God's will from the very beginning.

[@LittleKitty22]

Very true! Think of all the "marriages" that are based on dishonesty... one partner only in it for a visa/passport (immigration marriage fraud) or money or status, all the "marriages" that are only based on the man thinking with a bodypart other than his brain/heart (and soon getting bored because such relationships never last), and - the majority of marriages - where one party is loving and genuine but the other is an abusive narcissist whose only intention is to destroy his/her partner... All of the above are not marriages. They are scams. Any innocent party who got involved in that, ie the party who entered the marriage with a loving heart expecting to be married for the rest of his/her life, will have to realize that this "marriage" was a scam and that he/she therefore was never married. There was no husband or wife - there was only the devil!

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@oldsouloriginal My ex and myself were saved in two different places at the same time without knowing. Answered my prayer, recently he got.... divorced but God is using both of us to grow in truth. GOD LEADS. HE revealed to me he healed my ex, so now I wait to SEE THE MANIFESTATION. NO CHANGE NO US. SAFETY AND God's will first. Stay safe always. Adding.. The Bible states that if a man and woman no longer want to be with each other, then let them go. It is written in the OT. The NT states that divorce is forgivable. You might want to get a teacher who can take the words in the Bible back to the original language in the transcripts and LEARN WHAT THE FACTS. How bless you. No harm, churches teach doctrines of man, ideology subversion. Began after WW2. Yuri Benmenov KZbin ideology subversion is one of many sources. Oh, and for proper translation ifvthe Word of God ; SMYRNA CHURCH OF KOKOMO KZbin. IF YOU WANT additional sources, let me know. You, too, can take every word back to the original transcripts for the proper meaning using THW COMPANION BIBLE BY KREGEL AND THE STRONG'S CONCORDANCE ❤️

[@kelly-sg4pw]

THIS IS A REPLY for those who do not know what the Bible actually teaches concerning DIVORCE . Separation for sure. It is written what fellowship does light have with Satan 😳. God is using me and him to heal and restore, but we are divorced. God can separate and restore, trust His lead. AMEN 🙏 🙌 👏 ❤️ ✨️The Bible states that if a man and woman no longer want to be with each other, then let them go. It is written in the OT. The NT states that divorce is forgivable. You might want to get a teacher who can take the words in the Bible back to the original language in the transcripts and LEARN WHAT THE FACTS are. God bless you. No harm, churches teach doctrines of man, ideology subversion. Began after WW2. Yuri Benmenov KZbin ideology subversion is one of many sources. Oh, and for proper translation of the Word of God ; SMYRNA CHURCH OF KOKOMO KZbin. IF YOU WANT additional sources, let me know. You, too, can take every word back to the original transcripts for the proper meaning using THE COMPANION BIBLE BY KREGEL AND THE STRONG'S CONCORDANCE ❤️

[@LornaVaughnOfficial]

Yep. God told me not to marry my husband and I did anyway.

[@NoName-dr8wt]

​@@oldsouloriginal No. Marriage vows are sacred, regardless of consequences. The Bible says only for adultery is divorce justified. Of course, true abuse---REAL abuse, not mere "I don't like his tone of voice" bean hills---is already assumed (by Christ's holy character as well as common sense which He gave us all) to be grounds for divorce as well. Divorce, per the world's mamby-pamby logic, is repulsive to God. Unacceptable.

[@SA-ud9nf]

So right. No matter how gentle you are in your boundaries, the narxs don't care. 😮

[@diancooper7186]

I’m so blessed by your counseling. You helped me through family domestic violence from a narcissist. I stumbled on to this today and listened. Everything you stated, I lived. Confused by the narcissistic behavior and as a Christian, forgave and forgave. I’m healed and yes God removed this person for my protection. Grateful and blessed. Thank you for all you do to help us. Sending love and blessings…❤🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@rmmottu]

Thank you for shedding a whole lot of light ... you always speak directly to me. "Do not see it as rejection, but as protection" I'm that empath that has decided NO MORE, Irefuse to accept this another day! Thank you Jesus for giving me a way out. This narc husband of mine finally committed adultery. I'll pray for him, but I'm out of this 15 year marriage. God, please help me on this new journey, we need healing & guidance. So thankful to grow nearer to you. I'm trusting you Lord and I stand on your word. Amen

[@robertcarter6887]

Thankyou, realizing it’s about me and GOD, takes the desire for justice or revenge out of me. It allows more light to enter. Thankyou my friend in CHRIST

[@MissPooz]

I definitely have experienced the spiritual disconnect with my narcissist, absolutely!!! He's displayed cruelty, manipulation, and gaslighting. He's increased the frequency of his hatefulness. And he has now gone full discard of me, which, he thinks it's hurting me but in reality, I'm loving it! No longer do I hear his insults, passive-aggressive comments or ghosting. There were times when his smile seemed demonic and I sure don't miss seeing that!

[@GreasyBaconMan]

Contorted facial expressions that you don’t see in others.

[@Kharizmah]

Total Jekyll and Hyde, where they look like someone else. Black eyes and physical violence.

[@unamigo1977]

I feel like this video was sent by god for me, thank you very much

[@WortundGebet]

same

[@georgiabray8746]

Same

[@tammymcginty123]

@@unamigo1977 God ❤️

[@julieogorman501]

Same❤

[@kimtreneman-pape6107]

They don’t change. Arguing with them is worthless. I’ve learned the hard way. I’ve mourned my relationship with him for years. Things can be going great, then boom he will blow up in my face, over and over. I’m tired..

[@VictorianTexas]

Do we ever know what sets them off? Mother, ex-husband and both daughters, all personality disordered. Now I worry for my 2 year old grandson and his daddy. My daughter rages at them. She wasn't always like this. I feel responsible. I can't protect them so I petition God to look after them. Was told I was too sensitive growing up. I think it sabotaged my ability to trust my perception of people. Maybe this happened to you. Trusting our gut could have been a safety net from what would later befall us. When I meet someone for the first time, I do a quick take. Within a few minutes I know my comfort level or lack of one. I'm tired and not living under the same roof. I wish you peace and joy. Be kind to yourself and do this often. You matter. Easy to forget that. 😇

[@freddahallford8856]

@@VictorianTexas I was frequently told “you’re too sensitive.” I’ve finally learned to love that part of who I am and no longer feel there’s something wrong with me. Divorced 35 years ago.

[@VictorianTexas]

@@freddahallford8856 Thank you!

[@lindad6351]

Rhetorical question: what do you need to do?

[@vitisbp1131]

​@@freddahallford8856 I heard that, too. It was used against me by an "elder" giving marital counseling. An "elder",... you know, those men who have "zero" training, little secular education, and who were trained "where" to put the blame during their "elder training school". What they mean is "don't feel, don't need, don't defend yourself, and don't ask for anything. Your husband is your head (in Christ) and he will tell you what to think." Christ NEVER gaslighted his bride.

[@georgiabray8746]

I truly believe that God was involved in my narcissist husband leaving. I was at the end of my rope and didn’t even want to live anymore.

[@MiriamTyler-l9i]

@georgiabray8746 same! I wasn't quite there yet, but I was pregnant with my daughter and I regretted being pregnant even after trying for a year. My pregnancy with her was soooo rough and high risk and I was so terribly depressed and sick, it was an attack from the devil because she was my strength to leave and get my sons outta there! GOD has reveled sooo much, I prayed for years to show me what was in my husband's heart and boy is he showing me! My daughter has been my anchor from falling all yje way down. So arr my boys but my daughter was just 3m when I left so I couldn't fall, she needed me!

[@lynettedebeer5312]

Please Lord let this be long term removal. I've been through enough the past 18 years of this 28 year marriage with this man and his cheating, manipulation, narcissism, heartache. I need to heal and live a happy life now 🙏🙏

[@latonyaturner3729]

God will strengthen you to not let him back in your life. When you let them back it gets worse.

[@jesmonitesingapore7779]

Im going through the same now and is dying to my self every sec. Praying for u

[@AmandaPanda83]

You can do this! You must get away, or start making the plan if you need to. I got away from mine and I’m probably only alive today because I finally left.

[@KM-kn6nu]

Break the Trauma Bond!! Seek counseling and support groups. The withdrawals will suck but trust me, freedom is Beautiful and PEACEFUL!! And when healing your wounds you will be confused what u saw in him. Praise God for his protection

[@lindad6351]

@lynettedebeer5312 Infidelity is an acceptable reason for divorce. Seek wise counsel as the N will become enraged.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

Codependency is idolatry of man and narcissism is idolatry of self. They are attracted to each other and they are tormented by each other to TURN THEM BACK TO GOD. BEEN THERE. GOD heals❤

[@Jessica_Lynn3007]

I'm using that one! I think the biggest lesson God was trying to teach me was to not put my faith in man.

[@HeSaidICouldntDoIt]

Well said

[@beatrixatthecchwclub5620]

well said

[@blaquecinderella3560]

This👌🏾👌🏾👌🏾

[@oliverhill113]

Wow! You sum it up beautifully.🙏🙂

[@tracylynn7149]

I resonate because I felt my divorce was God saying “I need you to get out of my way” because as long as I was there the blame could continue to be put on me. Now there’s only him and a mirror. And I am no longer in constant turmoil.

[@kelly-sg4pw]

@tracylynn7149 lol, good for you. Now he really has TRUTH IN PLAIN SIGHT, SELF IDOLATRY. STAY BLESSED.

[@Traciwokeup]

@tracylynn7149 that is very encouraging. I don't plan on staying in this situation! I'm saving, & planning.

[@LornaVaughnOfficial]

@@tracylynn7149 SAME!

[@AbamfoAtiemo]

It really excites me!

[@trevorphillips9576]

That is very good.

[@audreyflannery5270]

God moved me three times in two years to protect me. God is good all the time. Praise God Praise Lord Jesus Amen

[@john7263]

Thank you. You’re the best!! I never thought I would be saying this but now 4 1/2 years after my covert narcissistic wife divorced me after 29 years of marriage I am beginning to see how God allowed that to happen to get her out of my life and so that I would bring God into my life. I had become a lukewarm Christian, but now I am on fire for the Lord and involved in three different ministries. God hates divorce, but he does a lot to happen and I have to believe he allowed this one to happen to bring me back to Him!!!!!

[@AaronAlbertson-l8d]

Amen brother! The same thing happened to me after eighteen years. Was on fire when I met her and she supposedly was converted, as I did feel the holy spirit come upon her and I believe that was the sign that god wanted me to be with her for so long. Though I kept having feelings of needing to get out of there, and eventually he brought someone else in her life to give me the out. Praise god as I am on fire, big time!

[@kariroderick1507]

I was discarded in early January. Years ago the Holy Spirit told me he wasn’t going to be around long . It came out of the blue and I am happier now and I now see God’s plan for my life .

[@WortundGebet]

i can relate to your expierience

[@godisgood9173]

carry your cross and deny yourself. Go read your bible and apply it to your life. Christianity is NOT a feeling its a commitment to obey GOD over YOUR WILL till the end of your life.

[@Liz-kr4pr]

?What if their hardened heart has made mine hardened? I tried, but the well has run dry. I am fighting to come back. I have hated and can't pray for them. I just can't yet. May God change me. I prayed. I distanced on God even. Horrible thoughts. You have enlightened me. But not there yet . Pray for me.?

[@grisselday905]

Thank you! I was recently discarded, and it's such a difficult journey, but thank you for reminding me that there is a life after this pain.

[@tah4397]

Did he die?

[@moto3463]

I got discarded on my birthday. God heard what I didn’t and saved me. He’s always a step ahead. Amen.

[@Pilgrim06]

Very wise observation at the fourth minute! It happened to me recently. When my narcissist stopped growing in Grace, the eyes and ears of his soul stopped picking up God’s messages. Yes, the fruits of Grace are the signifiers of a God- fearing person. Their dark oppressive character was affecting my relationship with Christ. So I prayed and the Lord answered my prayer in a flash! I am free to love Jesus with all my strength and all my love.

[@TheAlfredcamacho]

Humble in tears, with a grateful heart. I believe and always. Thank you, Yeshua, and for Kris Reece.

[@Joanisblessed-focused]

The narcissist behaving people(some family members)brings a disruptive spirit to someone’s spirit who is healthy…. So I have learned to distance myself from disrespect… prayerfully always but let them go their way with their lies and I’ll go my way with truth👏🏼

[@WasemeSaangz]

This was absolutely helpful. I’m at peace leaving my entire immediate family including my narcissistic mother where they are. Over a decade of being pulled down by them all led me here. I see Gods hand on me through it all and I’m moving on and upward. Thank God I’m free

[@JourneySmith-t2b]

You described my husband of 22 years to a T, TRUTH! God help me. He has cheated MOST of our marriage. The only time he is intimate is for control. He has 3 characteristics: Offense, Control and Anger. He doesn't talk of Anything that is SUBSTANTIAL. I have felt the growing underlying hatred whilst he lovebombs me with words and promises he never keeps. All the while I am passionate about my relationship with the Lord and seek to serve Him More.

[@KM-kn6nu]

I’m so sorry he’s betrayed you. That’s biblical grounds for divorce.

[@lindad6351]

Get out. Infidelity is grounds for divorce. Seek wise legal advise and have an exit plan.

[@Jessica_Lynn3007]

I saw this on a comment section somewhere. "Codependency is idolatry of man. Narcissism is idolatry of self. They are attracted to each other and tormented by each other TO TURN THEM BACK TO GOD. BEEN THERE. GOD heals ♥️"

[@Watchingonthewall24]

Everything you said is spot on and is helping me answer some tough questions. My Ex did display these characteristics and no fruit. I was in despair and felt so far from God although I was pressing in with every ounce of my being. God brought it to an end in a way that only he could and he delivered me. Now I'm healing and on the other side with a court ordered no contact for a year. This was a 36 yr abusive marriage that ended with financial devastation. Im 62 disabled and living without a home or any kind of provision for my future. It's scary but I trust God to make a way for me where there seems to be no way. 🙏

[@lavishg7234]

@@Watchingonthewall24 God bless you❤️❤️❤️

[@ronaldus1011]

Thanks! A great joy to discover a truly Christian counselor who knows her Bible. A gifted person.

[@nancywethington270]

Amen yes we need a person that is saved and trust and believe on Jesus Christ our Lord and Saviour

[@ConfidentNotConceited]

Not only was there spiritual disconnect, we were spiritually unequally yoked. We even tried Godly marriage counseling where he blew up on the counselor out of anger to the point the minister asked if I was being abused at home. I was told I was the narcissist and even still question if I am. The emotional & psychological abuse is so damaging. Secular and Godly therapy was so helpful. To whomever is reading this, you WILL get through this. You WILL overcome. You WILL find joy again. This video is so comforting, thank you Kris Reece🤟🏾

[@rynnykitty6945]

You know them by their fruit! Acts like a Christian, knows the word but not walking in it! He pointed out others faults but not his own! God told me to "end it now"! Thats what I did!

[@2mckeans]

This is my narc to a tee.

[@OliveWeitzel]

Not every Christian, we don't get along with, is a narcissist! There are still different backgrounds, different education and different mindset... Do I have to tolerate every stupid talk because the person claims to be a christian?

[@rynnykitty6945]

@OliveWeitzel the person I'm speaking of is a narcissist! Now I know why the Lord told me "to end it now"!

[@dee1380]

the self-righteous pharisees..

[@MiriamTyler-l9i]

Yes! When he asked for me back, I prayed with so much pain, and God told me in bold letters HE WILL NEVER TELL THE TRUTH. That's all the confirmation I needed... it was the lies that were killing me, I knew the truth and he knew I knew it but still played mind games 😢

[@priscillacarrington362]

This EXCITES me!! Thank you, Lord!!!

[@robertchristensen5425]

Finding this program was a God thing for sure. Ive never heard of Narcissistic people,how I wish I didn't identify so much. I'm at a loss for words. God bless you for what your doing. Robert

[@kennethmassie860]

I wish the church had taught on this 20 yrs. Ago. But,I'm thankful 🙏 that many Christians are learning now and teaching this because it is rampant in the world.

[@Texas-Idahoan]

AMEN to all, Kris! Ex of 6 years after a 34 year abusive marriage would like to be restored but there has been no heart change. I’m thankful for the growth God has worked in me.

[@saracheca3791]

You just confirmed what the Lord has been showing me . Thank you! Shalom!

[@arizonan1]

"If they only knew" lol! You can NEVER explain and help enough for a narcissist see and understand. It does not work! They are totally messed up! Thanks Kris, couldn't have said or explained it better!

[@ElizabethPykosz]

I've definitely felt the spiritual draining, and my relationship with GOD was slipping. We're in the " ghosting phase" I'm confused and had enough. GOD WILL be my #1. Am in so much pain, yet feel more peaceful. I never know what's going on with my daughter.

[@beverlyfox1688]

Wow, God bless you Kris. I didn't even know what a narcissist was, but I was married to two! The last one was passive aggressive, said he was a Christian but in 16 years there was never any fruit, everything you said was spot on! God removed him and protected me, because I promised to stay.

[@missjennygutierrez4691]

Wow I thought for many years that there would be answers for my separation and later divorce. I struggled a lot because I believe in the unity of the family. But Until this year after 9 years since he left us God talked to me during a prayer time and wispered into my heart ... I made him to leave you! and looking back I understood why... It has been a challenge every day to deal with all responsabilities as a single mother of two teen boys. l have done a lots of mistakes and asking God to lead my family to transform my children's hearts and guide them to salvation. Looking at him as a father nowadays as a role model... there is no way!! I am trying to do my best to rase my children to become good men and good christians, lots of tears every night, a lot of praying every day... Please pray for me and for all single christian mothers is not easy at all. But God has the power, the glory and the magesty to transform our situations and give us strenght, peace, and hope to overcome them.

[@janicetelfer6211]

God removed so many so quickly for me. I haven't looked back. I had a spiritual awakening and it was loud and clear. I have very few around me now. But I have room now for the right ones to come in. 😊😊

[@ashleighasempire]

You shared my entire testimony in how God removed my spouse from my life. You gave me language and confirmation. Thankyou!

[@audreyflannery5270]

God is my defender in battle. God is my provider and my provision. God is Love. Praise Almighty God. Praise Lord Jesus. Thankyou Holy Spirit. Thankyou Guardian Angels Thankyou Devine helpers Thankyou Universe Amen

[@andrezinhogamer7208]

"They are filled with pride...They are easy prey... They're in the hands of the evel one.The enemy wants to use their pride to trigger you... to get into you..." uau.. I have felt this...once I had this insight, because sometimes felt like I was feelling his emotions..I still feel like this sometimes...and I feel like the evil one is trying to get to me...I feel down and I pray to God to protect and restore my heart.😢

[@WhiteytheLab]

God protected me. After knowing him (the ex) and being married for 17 years, he told me a story about the cops asking him about a murdered woman. I never put it together back then, but God did certainly see and know things I didn't. I once suggested that we confess our sins and pray for each other that we may heal. He turned into a vicious animal at the idea that he confess anything - now I know why.

[@cathierobbins445]

Glad you were under God's care and protection.

[@WhiteytheLab]

@@cathierobbins445 Thank you... 🥰

[@ResourcefulYem]

I stopped praying for restoration 2 months ago and started praying for God’s will to prevail using Proverbs 19:21. Then, God removed him effortlessly by their own doing.

[@mekalavaseekaran9102]

Yes it excites me that God is working in our lives for my sake, he has seen my struggles.

[@sophiemillington8864]

Yes there definately was a spiritual disconnect. I called out to God and said I can't take this anymore. The Lord immediately stepped in and the truth was exposed. It was miraculous in watching how God unfolded everything and how much the Lord gave me peace through such traumatic time.

[@rachybooo]

This hit home for me in every way. I already knew God removed me from the situation, but this just really confirms it for me. Even though it is such an unbearable pain, I am trying to trust God completely in this. Thank you so much, Kris. 💜

[@elaineburke2005]

I've been cut off and I know God is protecting me. The one was my SIL, and now I've lost 3 grands and my daughter.... I've been around narcs my whole life, and just now learning what they really are....In a Biblical way, they are self worshipers. I love this term, but it still dosent make the loss easier. Thank you for what you're doing, Kris. I will be looking to Jesus for this latest situation, just like He has helped me through the others...

[@faithwhite3175]

@@elaineburke2005 I lost my daughter, and her kids because now she won't have anything to do with me. My mom and ex husband were narcs too Twenty five years of living with ex but continues I In with my daughter who said she disowned me

[@milliesecond102]

@faithwhite3175 I'm so sorry! I, too, grew up around and was the victim of an adult malignant narcissist. I ended up only dating narcissists and was married to one for 25 years. He turned my only child/son against me, and I pray daily for God to break the strongholds of narcissistic deception off my son, he is all I had in this world after my mother died. I have to work on forgiveness and letting God take care of this situation daily.

[@painawayart]

So true, I am going throuht it now. So tired of it. I am drained already...

[@sashmax2189]

Every bit of this speaks to me! The Lord separated me from my mother 3.5 yrs ago. He has taught me soooo much. I pray for her daily, but her heart is so hardened. I do not miss any of what she brought to my life. Father has given me hope and a new life in Him.

[@ashleyluna1735]

God did this for me. Earlier in spring

[@beverlyfox1688]

I begged God for years to help me respond correctly, but I got so broken in the end I said "please give me strength to keep handling this, or else remove him". And he left!

[@Puppylove82-gv3gm]

@beverlyfox1688 me in a nutshell. I was always a reactor to their b.s. and have been deemed a horrible person for standing up for myself and my son and husband. No contact really is the best way to go, but it's soo hard when it's your parents and inlaws .

[@Sheila-q4g]

Yup,that's me as well,except I'm still waiting for God to remove this covert narc away from me,I don't know,maybe I'm too damaged now for it to make a differrence,I'm a christian but because of the toxic abuse I swear more than ever and have a very bad attitude,kinda pessimistic,a broken vessel no doubt,but your comment is what I've always said,really nobody has the strength to endure the continuous assault from a monster,who knows what will transpire in my life,only God knows right?😇

[@Indy__isnt_it]

Ahhhh, maybe I'll try that tacticaler approach!!! We're divorced, but we've both been in and out of the hospital a few times EACH this year of 2024. The election was exciting with a positive result for us and the people around uss. Between hurricanes 3 good ones that kept us in the National news. Ian, 2018 got me the worse, 30" water made it's way under my travel trailer, in it also! They love to soak up the sun.

[@jhobson6901]

I love how you hold us accountable for not establishing boundaries.

[@laprechespeterson4297]

It’s all about me… The work God wants to do through me.. I’m excited

[@karlready7610]

I was married for 34 years and when the covert narcissist was in the discarding stage by filing for a divorce. She did it without any discussion. She started screaming about nevergoing to church again. Screams come flying out of her mouth when l suggested to her that she read the Bible tonight. Her eyes seemed to have a black eye that seemed to have a lena that covered her eyes with all black for a couple seconds and I did a double take and shook my head, "did I really see that?" She is not the same person I married, nothing like it. She told me as she was getting ready to leave to go have fun roller skating, she said, "you aren't good enough," I need someone who has more so I can have fun and go places and do stuff I never got to do. She would destroy the marriage for her narcissistic pleasure. I a listening to your videos and a few others. Thank you so much for being here. I didn't even know what was happening until she said, "I need some space." I was sure the Lord was telling me that this was the end of the line. I tried to hold on, but things just got worse and worse. I a out of the marriage for 3 months now and I am doing so much better. I can plan and live now. I didn't have a clue, but I did almost everything she needed me to do. You think you are helping them and they could care less about you and you don't even know they don't like anyone but themselves in a twisted sick way. Thanks again, God bless you.

[@Hawaiiansky11]

That is why I say that narcissists are not 'possessed' by demons - they are instead, aligned with and in partnership with them. They also all seem to despise the Bible. Like my mother, they can go to church every day of the week, become leaders, teachers, get on council, etc. But mention the Bible, they screech like...well, demons.

[@wendybarton5565]

She sounds like a total nightmare and a Jezebel. I am so sorry she said those awlful words to you. Why are nice people like us drawn to these evil people? All we are is their supply then they drain us and move on.

[@tekajohnson3514]

I seen the black eyes myself. Yes it’s really real. There are demons living in them.

[@tsimmons794]

This really spoke to me. I have an estranged daughter whose husband won’t allow her to have anything to do with her family. Thank you for your ministry.

[@gracesanchezrealtyteam]

YOU ARE 100% CORRECT! WOW YES I lived this and don’t even know where to start. God will protect you if you are truly asking him to let him handle and truly let go and let God handle because it doesn’t always turn out how you think it will, but when you look back, you understand, you are closer to Lord. I did keep praying and asking for him to remove people that were keeping me from him and you have no idea what happened, but she is exactly right. There is always going to be people that Understand so they will criticize You for spreading your story and listening to the Lord

[@ILovemydogEcho]

Thank You my Abba 🤍 In the mighty name of Jesus Thank You Holy Spirit 🕊️ God bless you Kris In Jesus name Amen

[@mannyburgos8936]

Thank you so very much I was going crazy in a relationship with a narcissist asking god for a sign 🙏

[@rhondagraves5983]

I was definitely spiritually being drained

[@keriboneschans5197]

No accountability or round about accountability by blaming me for making him do it.

[@Heidi-xm6li]

I’m not a narc but I have had my heart hardened and it’s not a pleasant way to live. However, over the past few months, I have started to choose to heal and grow closer to God.

[@ninanegronGodsWarrior]

Thank you so much Heavenly Father work in me, I surrender to you and your will❤ Amen

[@steenzthatsall3215]

LOVE THIS! It’s not rejection it’s protection!🥰

[@vixenwatsonaki1044]

You just described most of my family. It's heart breaking, but un avoidable.

[@Angel-lq6rc]

Everything you have said up to this point is 100% who and what my husband has become over the past three years. He says it’s my fault we don’t go to church together. Then we’ll go to church and he’ll find an excuse to stop going. I have been feeling over the last several years God is showing me things and allowing things to get worse to grant me a separation.

[@Tea-Flowers]

Kris, I just adore you. I love how you are so real and natural and unscripted. Thank you for your knowledge, and experience to help us. Holy Spirit keep falling upon Kris so she can keep helping us.

[@JasonDuperron-p9w]

I feel some relief from this wonderful and knowledgable video. Keep up the great work

[@heartmommy8824]

God was really talking through you today! I really felt like you were talking to me around sign #2. im so glad i found you channel. its very therapeutic. Thank You and God Bless ❤

[@Freedom-dx7kq]

My story ❤ I’m glad God intervened. I’m doing a lot of praying. Let go and let God. 🙏

[@artgirlmermaid]

I don't want to reconcile with the 2 "christian friends" anymore. They destroyed my heart.. and there is no going back without contrition and demonstrated change... and that hasn't happened.. and probably won't. Proverbs 4:23: Above all else, guard your hearts, for everything you do flows from it.

[@faithmindbodysoul2001]

Wow I needed to hear this! Thank you Jesus! ❤

[@amy44499]

Thank you so much for the biblical perspective and sharing scriptures in your teaching. I have gained knowledge and am so grateful to you for sharing your wisdom. ❤

[@eschmigu]

Oh wow! Right on! You nailed it. Thank you so so so much. I'm convicted that God really means and protects ME, while having a spouse with a more and more hardened heart😢. I even sometimes don't know how/what to pray for him.... God is using you big time in my life's situation! Thank you, dear Kris!❤

[@delializarraga9638]

I completely understand how you feel. I was so exhausted and frustrated with the state of my marriage and his behavior that I didn't know what to pray for anymore. But I finally got to that point. I realized I had to lay it at the feet of my Lord & Savior Jesus. In that moment, I said God, your will be done because I don't know what else to do or ask for. From then on God began to deal with him in a very, very, very fierce way. When you truly let go, and let God handle it, He will! It's called true surrender. My best wishes to you in getting to that place. It brings a ton of peace to you, "a peace beyond all understanding" as the book teaches us.

[@dee1380]

Thank u ma'm.. This needs to b preached in our Christian community alot. Especially in church. We only hear forgive, forgive, forgive!!! And yes, I agree, we should forgive, but alot of us(including myself) get forgiveness confused with tolerance of mistreatment. In my life, satan has used narcissistic family members to prey on my vulnerability & my exercising forgiveness towards them, especially my parents & elders in my family, whom I have to honor & respect. Each time, I would go back to them thinkin if I didn't run back to them at their request & submit to their control, then I didn't truly forgive them, only to get ate up all over again. This cycle never ends, mainly between my father who is an alcoholic narcissist who is also a freemason, & a mother who defends his actions who is a Christian, as well as an Aunt who is also narcissistic.. I only wanna do the will of the father, still honor my parents without bein controlled by them. It's a challenge, my mother condemns me with the Word of God, if I don't do what she wants, majority of the time it stems back to fear of my father.. I praise God for u ma'm.. And I really appreciate u Blessins on u woman of God..

[@joyhayes7299]

Thank you for this video. I NEEDED THIS

[@keniapollara7285]

Yes, I am very excited about what God has for me! Everything you are saying, it looks like you are telling my Stories.🙏

[@madelinebigio7565]

Yessss I have suffered tremendously with a narcissist and a girl friend with a daughter !! So true I pray 🙏 for them ! A few other narcissists in my family too! ❤❤❤

[@meceu2]

The beginning of the summer, I began, holding myself more accountable for my own actions, both in thoughts and deeds. I realized that I needed to dive deeper into my own personal relationship with God. Through this personal spiritual journey, I realized that my own sister and mother were treating me in a way that was not in love. I also started to watch and read about unhealthy relationships, and to my surprise both of them fell into that pattern. I also was to blame as I had allowed it over the years. I did not want to go no contact although it seemed the only route for me. Due to a situation, I did not have to make that decision as they chose to have no contact with me. Although my heart is troubled and I grieve, and I’m reeling from this rejection, there is also a peace. God is blessed me with friends coming out of the woodwork to support me.

[@Hawaiiansky11]

They 'reject' you the way a prison cell 'rejects' you. Perhaps that was the Lord working in them somehow, to give you back your peace and freedom.

[@Victory2ME2024]

Thank you, you are talking to me ….excited, nervous, and God is showing me me…. Lord thank you…its all about me🎉

[@TrueSelfWalkAway]

Kim. This has made me think. Yes I was protected by God and my will took me into danger & I stayed. Out now. So grateful. ❤

[@PatriotPaige]

THIS!! Amazing video. My son-in-law gaslit me then a few weeks later my daughter did.. and continues to whenever they get a chance. They have shut me and my husband out and won’t let us see our grandkids. It’s gone on 18 months now. All the things you’ve described fits this situation perfectly. Thank you for doing this video! I am excited to soak in Jesus and find out what He is doing in me. I’ll be able to stop asking all those impossible questions now, yay! Blessings to you.

[@cyntrez1]

There’s nothing we can do once their heart is hardened. “It’s all up to God” Thk u for shedding more light for me…I’m at the beginning stages of my journey, and couldn’t be happier that ur video popped up in my feed We are all truly blessed to hear your wisdom 🙏🏾

[@kathykujawski7279]

It is so important to learn how to deal with a narcissist in a Christian manner. Thank you Kris! 🙏❤️

[@marysias7964]

49:17 49:19 49:25 49:26 Since you have been speaking the truth, I begin to weep, so I God is helping of the dependency spirit I 'm standing in the authority of christ , God you for your obedience, There was so confirmation through that I praise with tears streaming face, praying the word and over small battles but realize so until Holy Spirit would revealed to me I depressed and oppression, but stood on the word of God I 'm more than conqueror thur Christ Jesus. 3 months ago I heard you speak God praise . Amen! Amen !Amen!

[@Traciwokeup]

This does excite me! I was just saying today, Lord im so tired of not knowing what to do, 'why won't you talk to me?' And, I certainly feel like God is speaking to me through you Kris. I was just saying I don't feel like I am good enough to love... Thank you This Narcissistic stuff is really new to me, like within the last months. The behaviors weren't new, I just didn't know that the weird things I was seeing & hearing were a "Thing". I always thought a narc was a 'oh look at me how handsome or wonderful I am". I had no idea of this stuff. Dimentia runs in his family, & when I would hear him say things that just made absolutely no sense, I honestly thought he was showing signs of it!! 😂

[@TinaSellsLasVegas]

I am grateful for my life and my children and that they have found God and peace through him ❤

[@Lil-l8k]

The entire video is very helpful! I especially related to the topics of hardened heart, pride, tactics of narcissist, and Jesus may be protecting me and is certainly improving my character and leading me to do good work in me

[@hawasherman3213]

Powerful teaching,I almost cave in,and then I came across this video,God bless you.

[@gloriabort2879]

Amen! Through experience this is all so so true! Everything you said. Thank you so much Mrs. Reece. It has made me stronger, less stressed, happy and at peace… dealing with a narcissist in a Christian manner. It’s hard to find good friends who really can give good genuine advice. One can find out who are real friends especially when one is in need. God bless!

[@cwmamakin1]

No temporary psychopath . The work is within us and to heal from the Healer Lord Jesus! So glad to be on this journey out of that trauma bonding with the “Christian narcissist “

[@BahunR]

Dear God I pray that you will protect my children from narcissist abusive and disastrous marriage relationship and protect them from evil men and women Amen