5 Signs That She Might Be Flirting With You

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In this video we’ll go through the 5 female body language cues of attraction. These are what you should be on the lookout for to see if a woman is intrigued, interested or attracted to you.
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0:00 - Intro
0:12 - #1: Look for the Marilyn
0:53 - #2: She crosses into your intimate zone
2:10 - #3: The direction her toes are pointed
2:52 - #4: Look for a "touch-me"
4:03 - #5: Look for a savor smile
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[@thomi9846]

I can now tell with 85% certainty that my wife is attracted to me. Thank you

[@davecullins1606]

Could be that she's just Canadian and is married to you out of politeness 😂

[@amirnuriev9092]

be careful tho, you can never be sure

[@johnyp03]

I'm 85% certain my wife is not attracted to me 😂

[@amit687]

🤣

[@robertlee8519]

I'm 99.9% certain my wife hates me.

[@torachan23]

Despite what's said in this video, still proceed with caution. Don't let these tips get you locked up on harassment charges.

[@christophermatthews3977]

Idkr lol

[@Deadpool-mw6bw]

😂😂

[@crypt0sFX]

Wonder why men don't approach women much anymore. A lot of men get those charges just by talking to a woman.

[@sandgrunge]

That's only if you're really ugly, or super awkward.

[@johnnystorm1714]

"But officer, she pointed her toes at me"

[@ansafm.t.3601]

*as a person who have never talked or made an eye contact with a women, I approve this video*

[@beyazzenci1800]

Same

[@Shefothestreets]

Telll your boyfriend first

[@garboonatonzosnowman1700]

Heyy. I am a woman. You have now talked to a woman

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Make eye contact with your heart brother.

[@boym8123]

Wait.... what???

[@13loodLust]

Thanks for this video, as it confirms my long time suspicion. No one has ever been even remotely attracted to me ever.

[@aaronhymes123]

😂

[@Mystery_Box-]

real MVP comment right there - give it likes

[@khloe38]

😂😂🤣🤣😂😂

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Attract yourself and live a badass life

[@jirkazalabak1514]

I get that thought every single time I watch one of these types of videos, so I just stopped watching them. These days, I just go through the comments for the jokes and leave it at that. No need to ruin my self-perception by watching pop-science videos.

[@thilinaperera1757]

If she tilts her head and exposes her neck that means she’s into twilight, she thinks you are a vampire and she wants you to drink her blood and turn her. Good luck boys!

[@SamuelWhitwood]

...I feel like you want someone to go to prison lol 😂

[@filhanislamictv8712]

@She Knows i know this look i laugh and rejoice silently when i do.

[@dracula7328]

I approve this🤤

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

I shall dine on the blood of my enemies

[@ghardy2922]

Please help me I need a lawyer asap

[@Lazydino59]

Sign number 6 is that you’re dreaming . Easiest way to tell when a woman is attracted to you

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

I dream of myself

[@kulik03]

Lmao

[@Biryani2op]

lmao

[@Det.DrCowboyNinjaCyborgSamurai]

If she flares her nostrils, glares at you, screams “this is Sparta” and then kicks you in the chest, better go buy a ring because that girl is ready for a solid commitment.

[@andrewschort724]

Or, ya might wanna buy a shield, 'cause I think she's gonna try to kill ya.

[@pidgey3734]

sounds like speed

[@green_beard]

sold +1

[@dr.davidwho4053]

😆

[@halfrave]

Solid advice, thanks!

[@ifer9172]

When a woman laughs while tilting her head sideways, crosses your intimate zone, points her toes towards you, ask you to touch her, makes a savory smile, it could also mean she's just trying to be nice.

[@bennymountain1]

Yeah, I've literally seen women do all of these at once while saying "That's great! I gotta go, though, see ya (never)"

[@kalebmsfn2297]

If u know a girl like that, I'm glad to inform you that she belongs the streets

[@danbo4263]

Pain

[@michaelgr.6008]

yeah, these signs are not certain

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Find your true NORTH, where men are men again

[@thecandace2500]

I think Conan O'Brien would really get a kick out of the fact you kept using his videos as demonstration for what it looks like when women are NOT showing attraction 😂

[@Kaztoozs]

Women and people in general have different cues and signs. Some like the attention from this kind of body language but mean nothing by it. Touching hair or other aspects may be signs of being uncomfortable. Don't take these for granted.

[@en2336]

YES! I'm really disappointed this channel made this video; it reeks of those alpha male channels that give generic advice for dudes who aren't okay with themselves and want a perfect formula when there is none. The best thing to do for both men and women to avoid excess hurt is to just TELL them you have romantic feelings or ask them out as soon as you realize and let go if they say no. Most people will be polite about it; if they're not then it's a reflection of them and not you.

[@anotheryoutubeaccount5259]

@@en2336

[@baxtita]

But don't forget that emotional cues are universal though , you know when a dude is angry even if he lives in the other side of the world.

[@dariiagaycheva2853]

I think it is meant to be useful when these signs are all in a cluster, not just one of them. I actually check this video (as a woman) to see if I fit into this description and … I do hahhahahahah, it is scarily acuirate

[@SoonYoungKim_94]

Open communication is KEY. You want to avoid misunderstandings. If you feel there’s something between you two first ask if she likes you. If yes, then great. If not, then leave it at that. Apologize for the misunderstanding and move on. AND don’t harass them for not reciprocating. There’s no need for unnecessary drama.

[@danispaghetti]

this.

[@ToaTakila1]

Incredibly well said!

[@WanderTheNomad]

I'm glad this is one of the top comments on this video

[@truenorthaffirmations7049]

Say what you mean men!! Stay strong

[@shotgunbfflOMG]

terrible take. women love unnecessary drama. they do NOT communicate openly, that is the entire point of this video and the entire channel.

[@Montanakid1988]

Never seen any of these signs from a woman. That’s a big confidence booster

[@dankl0rdzzz649]

I’m currently not seeking anyone but I like watching these videos and then seeing them in action with other people or even myself because it’s fascinating how the human body does things without us even realizing it

[@davidwebb913]

Only #2 seems legit. If they constantly get physically close to you, but not the others, they obviously like you. Don't think a lot of people will miss that cue. The problem is telling if they really like you as a friend, or like like you.

[@sirbughunter]

@She Knows You seemingly know... 😂

[@agavegrove]

True. I just made a comment about this. My BF is a married woman. But she's comfortable around me, just not attracted to me.

[@that_one_bob]

I like how Conan is used more than once as the example of someone that no one is attracted to.

[@AnuJ-vu5xn]

fun fact : Even you know you will forget to notice anything of this so called signs when your crush is around you ...

[@AntoanetaStancu]

True ;))

[@jnah4593]

That my friend is a fair point

[@rubin-healmysocialanxiety702]

“Wherever you are, and whatever you do, be in love.” -Rumi

[@pjohososanta]

number one sounds farfetched, i mean, that's how alot of people always laugh

[@peterpwn9558]

Ah yes, the high five--the most intimate of gestures. If her toes are pointed towards you during the high five, might as well propose on the spot.

[@bjulalula9537]

True right. I thought a high five is a "Keep you at a distance" gesture

[@ZopcsakFeri]

If she she sweeps her hair out of her eyes, it's not because it's been irritating her for 10 minutes now, but because she's totally into you...

[@Calikid331]

Although these are signs, as a man just because a woman shows signs of attraction definitely doesn't mean she's actually interested. There's been times when women dropped crazy hints, did everything mentioned in the video and more, and yet still reject me whenever I try to take things further. Then there are women who show absolutely no signs of attraction, drop zero hints, only to find out later that they actually wanted me to make a move. I've come to the conclusion that women are just impossible to understand.

[@Tony-ib2vm]

Ignore their words, observe their actions. Get her to move with you. If she follows your lead, you can start to escalate the interaction.

[@donjohn8034]

@@Tony-ib2vm "Is she follows your lead" -----this is actually a really good one. If a woman really doesn't like you she will have any reason to veer away if you try to lead.

[@MiguelAPerez]

No… Two glaring examples these signs are wrong: When we laugh, specially when it's something very funny, we all tend to expose our necks. That's not a sign she likes you. When a woman enter what they call "your personal space", there's a high chance she does like you, but a simple high five is not it. Considering this channel often has great tips, this video is not one of those.

[@jeffML3926]

Thought the same thing!! Stretching it with the cues in this vid 🧐

[@mayank64723]

Hahaha. Yes it is like asking a woman just after the highfive: at your place or mine?

[@TheArizonaRanger.]

The toe pointing one is interesting. I had a drill sergeant who explained that if you want to identify a threat to you, look for the person whose toes are pointed towards you, because although they may be trying to look at something else you are what they are interested in.

[@royrieder2113]

I love VVE and CU! Great video, thanks for hosting Vanessa CU!

[@VincentStevenStudio]

I've had women who showed all these hints but never acted on them because either they're already in a relationship or dont care to follow through. Someone may be attracted to you but it doesnt mean it will always turn into a relationship.

[@larryu1997]

From a virgin to a virgin, I approve of these tips.

[@StillnessofMind]

Charisma & confidence. That is the core .. the heart & soul of ut

[@razzaghnoori1]

I was waiting for this collab

[@elodiegrenier968]

That was a great video ! I think it would be super interesting to do a part 2 with Vanessa that talk about how to know when à men is interested ☺️

[@Henckques]

Maybe the question isn't so much whether a man is into you, but how to spot if he's solid, without fake promises and other bs, that he's worth investing your time and energy in. (My impression, as a man, is that men tend to pretend more often to impress a woman.)

[@ImDezi]

Clicked faster than interlocking with a girl that I like

[@cyberla]

Great points! You guys are amazing!!

[@laurapena8676]

Can't wait for the one for when men are friendly vs flirty. This one was amazing!!

[@torachan23]

That video will never be made, because women aren’t expected to look for cues, since women won’t approach anyway

[@laurapena8676]

@@torachan23 is not about approaching (which we do. It does happen) however sometimes men approach us and it is not clear if they are doing it in a flirty way or in a casual friendly way.

[@autismlifehacks5233]

@@laurapena8676 As an autistic person, that kind of video would be helpful. It's also like a guideline on whether we're giving the right vibes.

[@barackobama1187]

The difference is that men give more obvious hints. Sometimes all a girl does to hint is littearly look at you

[@autismlifehacks5233]

@@barackobama1187 Do you have any sources to back this up? One thing to note is that being too obvious can mean it's faked. Also, it wouldn't make sense for a man's body language to be only 0% or 100% when expressing interest, with nowhere in between. Men's version of this video makes sense because sometimes there are overlaps and sometimes there aren't. For example, a hip sway is feminine. One thing I've been studying is head tilt. The question is what it should look like in men

[@nickbrook3307]

"If that's something you're interested in seriously committing to..." - I was, still am and made the leap, I'm on Day 25 of the course and highly recommend it.

[@user-vn3nh3fj8e]

Bro she just gave you a high five! She's totally into you!

[@mindtheprivacy]

Vanessa is an icon!!!! And shes got the best video voice! I totally forgot it was her speaking!!!!!

[@XD152awesomeness]

Lol the plug in the end was smooth

[@swaggytee_]

Another great video!

[@Cationna]

For everyone in the comment confused about women who definitely 100% do all of the above and then still end up not interested... Have you considered that attraction is not the only factor in making decisions? Someone might be attracted, or feel flirty, or enjoy the conversation, and yet still choose to go their separate way afterwards, for a billion of reasons of their own... Also, like with any behaviours, it's important to know the person's baseline - some people are naturally more touchy feely, some people are super open, etc, and they can just be like that with everyone. But that's besides my main point here.

[@paulcolin-fj9ns]

This is why we men should wait for it to be verbalised to make life easier for ourselves

[@Sleeame]

I have been waiting for this collab for 3 solid years. Finally! Vanessa on CU!!!! Even till the ad at the end she still delivered! PS: these 2 platforms taught me life lessons and fast forward my career, personal life in ways i could have never imagined!! Hopefully more of this collab

[@Tess_Durberville]

Always assume she's not flirting to avoid harming her and yourself.

[@solankijai8484]

Thats not the Real world works madam😂😂👍🏻👍🏻intensity and clarity of the hints that female shows decides the intensity and clarity of our next moves❤️❤️✌🏻✌🏻⚡⚡⚡

[@torachan23]

Unless a woman outwardly says she is interested in you romantically, and you can get that recorded, don't proceed with flirting yourself as a man. Too risky.

[@tskhomelidze]

You want us to be single forever?

[@MonarchPoolPlaster]

It would be perfectly good advice if women weren't so passive.

[@ndlsumr]

I've reached a point where if a woman is sitting naked on my lap, caressing my face, and sticking her tongue half way down my throat, I'm still still not convinced she's really into me.

[@hyperdragonv2400]

This is irrelevant to me because no woman has ever been attracted to me

[@chin2178]

It's ok dude

[@hugoflores8090]

I like your sense of defeat

[@albailey2346]

😂

[@KAL-589]

Why is that?

[@ansafm.t.3601]

same mate

[@gmahiuddin2232]

Never have I ever click a notification so fast after seeing the title

[@t.j.5574]

Excellent video.

[@epistimonkapetanios]

I remember when on middle chool, a girl was in love with me, and I had no idea, and only now I have realized it. And by treating her as a friend, I accidentally friendzoned her. And when I asked her to be my girlfriend, she was too shy to say yes, but I just thought she wanted to remain a friend. And then I went out with one of my female friends, and only now I realise why she was not happy about it: she thought we were dating.

[@irw4350]

you need to stay off of those magic mushrooms

[@epistimonkapetanios]

@@irw4350 What do you mean?

[@bryant7046]

Very good video

[@NumeroUnoYo]

Thats great you used a clip from the big labowski 💖

[@sherwin4ever]

I've been watching several videos when a girl is attracted to you. Most of them are just repeating the same stuffs. But this one is different, it's also very easy to understand because of the example. Nice video, keep it up!! 😊😉👍❤❤❤

[@dennisgreene2544]

Thanks

[@user-ok7gr2lw2j]

For five years I have been waiting for you to collaborate with Vanessa Van Edwards and I got excited when you mentioned her name. :,)

[@kushalraj4001]

4:01 Biting the nails is NOT a sign of nervousness for your kind information. And the rest information in this video is great and really helpful.

[@markh975]

Holy hell... they understand chemistry in movies... well done!

[@mikehawk9099]

Would like more of these

[@naughtyprincipal4174]

So next time when I will meet or talk any girl, i will observe the 5 sings shown in the video, great content for people like me who are single since years.

[@WanderTheNomad]

Casually Explained made a good video about this topic

[@anonymousgara8415]

Thank you and God bless...

[@sentinel_2551]

Thank you

[@kimberlym4289]

I love this video and love your guest! Could you link where we can find her?

[@the1337fleet]

Vanessa is awesome! I'm in her course, People School. Please include her website and socials in the description :)

[@theultimatenoor]

I am a woman and i can guarantee that none of these points are a benchmark to know someone's sincerity ,, in fact there is no way of knowing it, she can be the one without throwing such signs...

[@victor7143]

Yes exactly thanks to notice that. All of these examples are from TV show or movie's scenes, that didn't reflect the reality because they over play a role.

[@ZopcsakFeri]

The neck bend ("the Marilyn") felt like total bollocks, and although I have read tons of books on body language, somehow the "touch myself" gestures don't really convince me either, and I'm even a bit skeptical about the toe directions...

[@whitneyangelie3682]

@@ZopcsakFeri I kinda agree except for the “touching yourself” thing. Watching this I realized that when I like a guy I tend to touch my face, hair, body much more often, but the biggest tell, is that I especially touch my throat-the very middle part where my throat meets my collar bone. I lightly rub that area or hold my fingers there. I realized I only do that movement (totally unconsciously in the moment) when I have a crush on a guy. Not sure why, but it’s definitely a thing. Also, I can feel myself giving a different *kind* of eye contact. I don’t necessarily give more or less eye contact, but when I *do* meet his eyes, my gaze is very specific. I feel myself slightly widening my eyes and looking up a bit from under my lashes and my gaze is extremely focused, like I’m focused intently on his eyes&face. I don’t look at anyone else that way except for guys I like.

[@alexanderSnilsson]

She smiles at me, she laughs at me, she touches me, she initiates conversations - she makes me wonder if it's her or me that's crazy 😅

[@abccba4198]

you have to take into consideration that these are actors as well. they tend to naturally act or draw attention naturally so though this video isn't wrong you may not be seeing the most genuine reactions.

[@ZachPincince]

Vanessa is amazing - love this collaboration! 🙌

[@ScienceOfPeople]

Thank you! =)

[@estefanisanchez127]

Interesting 🤔 maybe this is why people think I am flirting when I am just trying to be nice

[@sergeantschlumpf6368]

Glorious 🤗

[@ClassicalLiberalWarrior]

Pretty good.

[@eyrie.8624]

Gonna watch this to know the signs i give out to my crush 🧐

[@4Leka]

None of these signs differentiate genuine flirt from friendliness at all though. Even most of your examples are of situations where the woman is definitely not genuinely interested in the man.

[@Itisheylel]

Thank’s I’ll stop doing this now!

[@muhammedshamil2443]

Now that the Boys S3 is finished, can we get a breakdown on any Giancarlo Esposito character? This channel has really helpful and practical advice, and Giancarlo's characters always speak while enunciating well while being extremely badass and confident at the same time, which may be something not covered on this channel as of yet. I have this problem of speaking too fast, and something to fix my tone and cadence of speech would be really helpful. You guys are the best, thabks

[@HeavyMetal-jy4vj]

I don't know about literally his Boys character its a little weird to me. I would love a Giancarlo speaking and body language video about how he's such a commanding presence.

[@Vivi_9]

They wasted him tbh

[@TheB10hazard]

OMG this is actually epic guys

[@27hiddenintheleaves]

2:52 FELICITYYY!!!

[@HeathenwoodOfficial]

I remember Vanessa in my special ed therapy from 8th grade. I'm autistic so this was interesting for me to watch

[@LowJackAP]

I feel like this is a good topic to bring up. I've noticed ALOT that people now adays like to stand directly in your personal space might as well be hugging on you their so close. and this is just in regular conversations mostly guys. this video would call that your "intimate zone" wtf are they doing and how do you avoid it?

[@FlorianCalmer]

I love that there's tons of clips from the Craig Ferguson's interviews ha ha! They were all under his spell.

[@MDUBE5999]

Thank you. Interesting! Although also could it be that we could love ourselves in a balanced & reciprocal way; to have it expressed out to be returned etc.; as this might go deeper than what seems to be; see? Hmm......

[@FilosSofo]

Even if body language was not pseudo science. Choosing actors to exemplify it is a bad idea, since faking these things is their job description.

[@googlebanmetoomuch2601]

Bravo👏

[@slowbro-]

I think my issue is that i dont create any sexual tension. Its just a good time hanging out with me. If i ever looked to dating someone, i always got the reply "Thanks, but im not interested that way." Ive already tried to fake that behavior and found it better to 'be myself'. I'm honestly tired of waiting patiently for better catches in the future. I'm 30 and I dont want to believe in this any more. I'd like to just stop getting interested in anyone.

[@maxp918]

Bro, may I suggest having a look at David Deida's book "The Way of the Superior Man" - it might give you more substantial directions. People find it either too abstract, or really applicable and pragmatic - it's up to you. :)

[@rebelwilderofficial1396]

Do you have a video on signs that indicate a man is attracted/interested in you? I appreciate this video and can confirm I do ALL of these subconsciously when I'm attracted to someone. I however, am slightly on the spectrum and struggle to clearly read non-verbal social language. I would appreciate a video that paints a similarly clear picture of male body language.

[@irw4350]

if he has a pistol in his pocket, he likes you 😆😆😆

[@im.jintan]

Vanessa van Edwards is amazing!!! Check out her 60 body language cues online :) Thanks for this video and what you do!

[@jessmith7324]

Interesting they brought ina female perspective on their attraction tips

[@Tony-ib2vm]

When's the last time you asked a fish the best way to catch fish?

[@waldens863]

1 and 2 only are interesting

[@KAL-589]

What about the women that treat you mean to keep you keen? How does that work?

[@blanchespinkblossom]

My dogs and cats do all these signs to me. 😸🐶

[@richardfewer9348]

Always avoid the intimate zone unless your committed to follow through

[@Orthas1]

4:11 nuff' said

[@djtdawg87]

Hey guys can y'all please, please do a video on James Spader's character of Raymond “Red” Reddington from The Blacklist, i mean not only is he a total badass but he's also super smart and confident and doesn't care what others think of him at all, he would be great to do a video on i think.

[@socialpsychologymantras]

“One word frees us of all the weight and pain of life: that word is love.” - Sophocles

[@peterdixon7734]

Thank you for explaining the Yes song "Time and a Word" to me". Well, well, Jon Anderson, we have you at last. (If you could explain "Awaken" while you are here, mate, I would be very much obliged.) Now, Leonard Cohen...

[@ShreyTyagi]

Thanks for confirming that no woman has ever showed interest in me. 😊

[@AliRaza-lr2oj]

I have a friend who completely fits this check list and more but I am still not sure what should I do

[@theclockmax]

Can you guys make a charisma video on snoop dog. This man is the most charismatic person i’ve seen in my life

[@JTL1776]

Video suggestions. Signs someone is intimated by you. I'm a very large man. Muscular arms chest shoulders large feet hands waisted. Between strongman competitors and Henry civilly witcher. Everyone I know is mostly skinny and 6 inches shorter. So sometimes it's hard to tell if co workers are being friendly or feel intimidated into talking. Becuase of my HUMOR and sarcasm attitude. Can you help me figure out if people are friendly or pressured into interaction.

[@xXNekou]

I'm a girl but was curious about what you're gonna say in this video

[@manugibert7355]

Nice info. Could you make a video about Oscar Isaac?

[@omarlors]

How did you guys get Vanessa to do this video with you? I'm impressed

[@SchuViews]

I was as well. She did copy their video style a few times. I thought at first they pulled her voice from her audio book to respond in kind. Then surprise she sold the courses.

[@anthonyr.1568]

Audience-wise, I dare say it's a great win for her. I'm glad about it though, I hope she gains some traction out of it.

[@scninja07]

The entering the intimate zone one tends to be the interesting one. Like, ok, you're in my personal space now, this is different! lol

[@anthonyr.1568]

So happy to see Vanessa Van Edwards featured on this channel. I've learnt a lot thanks to her videos.

[@REDRAGON12345]

What movie is that at 3:25? Thanks!

[@bendover4773]

"So now you still have no idea what is going on and are doomed to die alone."

[@thatRyzzle]

I check the toes regularly, and more often than not end up coming off as a pervert. I mean, yes, I do have a foot fetish …

[@god9687]

Then it dawns on you: “Of course, I’m woman. I am consciousness. I am imagining myself. I am whatever I conceive myself to be because there is nothing outside my endless Mind.”