5 Signs Your Arab Muslim Man is Playing You

[@Cherryblossom-fg1pl]

Ladies look at his finances first because if he cannot financially afford to marry you and take care of you then it could be doomed. Save yourself for a man that can protect and provide for you.

[@geesixremain2481]

Thank you for this advice

[@lilia_2023]

1. he's still a kid in heart (not ready mentally, financially etc even if he says he is, use ur father, big brother to vet him) 2. haram invitations (kiss, hug, s*x, using u) 3. putting off marriage (he wanna be with u but cant marry u now) 4. not protecting your modesty (not jaleous & protective) 5. keeping it secret from ur both families there are 2 categories of muslim men: 1. those who are ready to marry. always better choice for women, secure & peaceful 2. those are not ready who at best waste ur time at worst they'll use u. group of men who'll only give u headache & heartache

[@Fuadtalks]

Thank you very much!

[@kky.x]

How do you test if he’s jealous and protective?

[@wandah9468]

Excellent post, and a woman is a fool if she doesn't follow it! Thanks!❤

[@BigG1691]

Awesome advice

[@Aliina_Yas]

​@@kky.x I didnt even think of testing it, i didnt have to! He doesnt want me to talk with any other man 😊 I dont know How you can test him. Just wait. God has a plan for you❤❤

[@MutyaBass]

I’ve been watching your vlogs. This vlog is informative based from your own perspective. I’m a Christian, but I’m fascinated with different cultures and religions.

[@juicyradiant]

Speaking from my observation of Arab countries so far (Morocco, Palestine, Egypt)... It seems like Arab men have more responsibility and protective qualities than western men on the surface, at first. The issue is the majority of Arab men coming from religious backgrounds are given dominion over women because of their gender rather than their actions and behavior. In other words, they earn that "protector, provider" role because of religion not necessarily because they are fit to be provider or protector. However, sometimes that religious background and social norms in his society will help prepare him better to be a protector, responsible, and honorable man that can be in a serious committed relationship. Look longer and observe his accountability, his hunger for personal growth, his emotional availability for marriage and intimacy, his follow-through, his keeping of his word, and willingness to hear and express feedback with grace. Good luck

[@Fuadtalks]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

[@Fuadtalks]

I think some Western men are better than others; some of them are in some sense family-oriented as well, but based on my observations, many of them are fed up with some of the mentality that comes with some Western women these days and the outrage culture they are promoting. And I kinda empathize with them, you know? Many shows and podcasts speak about the confusion that is happening in the West, from evolving concepts of gender, what each gender (he/she/they/ze, etc.) is and is not, to the confusion of what each gender can and cannot do. You know the struggle is real when you see the widespread impact of these shows and talks and how massive they have become. This tells you that men in the West deeply resonate with the challenges highlighted in these shows. So, if Western men who fit the definition of 'protector and provider' loose hope, they are either going to never take women seriously, give up the idea of getting with women entirely, or they will look outside of their culture for women who are still normal in their head. Of course, I hope this won't happen. It would be a disaster. As for us, Arabs, we aren't automatically providers and protectors; we grow into those roles, as mentioned in the video. If he's still a kid, then don't take him seriously. It means he isn't inherently ready to take on the responsibilities of a husband. So, you're not wrong; the teachings of Islam do guide us to become more honorable, reasonable, and responsible towards our families, but ONLY if we follow the religion's teachings. Thanks again

[@user-tg5vs1xz5x]

Some Arab guys are on the DL.. As a gay guy I have met a few then found out he had girl friend .. Another muslim guy was married . I feel so bad for their female partners ..

[@kevindiaz3035]

Very common

[@wandah9468]

The man could get killed, honey. It's illegal to be gay, very much so. That includes all middle eastern and African countries, southeast Asia, and on a whole different level, Russia! Don't chance it people, very very conservative. But I sure love middle eastern fashion!

[@edturner3615]

This is rampant in Saudi Arabia

[@Adelina24244]

Damn how can you tell though!!? What if he has lotta guy friends?

[@BigG1691]

😱😱😱😱😱😱😥

[@GinaMCalinog]

When he is not ready he will put you on temporary place till you broken apart.

[@victoriaxox0]

I love how protective and affectionate Arab men are 🥰♥️

[@iris2147]

Me too girl ❤

[@Altair-El-Haddad]

On God. We built different

[@farihamohamedhilmy4700]

Thank you for giving me advice. At least now I can make the decision whether to stay with my Saudi Arabian boyfriend or not

[@shanaz3]

The fact that he is Saudi and your boyfriend says it all sister. Don’t be blind to the reality of what is going on. If he loves you trust me he will not risk one day without you as his wife.

[@Guitana88]

Anything with Saudi on it..leave it alone. I'm speaking from experience...Best of luck

[@BigG1691]

He's your boyfriend and you are his girl toy.. sorry to say it..

[@nicolec1280]

I wish i seen this post months ago💯! I'm an American white woman that met a Jordanian man who is here on American work visa. We were intimate, went on vacation, and had a lot of fun. He told me everything i wanted to hear. Confessed his love for me.. blah blah blah... Wanted to marry me.. until i told him we have to go to the court house for marriage license, after that we be began to tell me he can't talk to me anymore and that he has a wife(14 yrs of marriage) and 2 sons and a daughter. As you can imagine my heart was shattered. I can't believe someone that worships God the way Muslims do what ever use someone and play with your heart, cheat, lie and just be a horrible human being.

[@selinapeterson9257]

I am going to put this out simply. Islamic men don't date, that's number one. Number two when they do it's out in public places and they are looking for marriage not for green card or anything else but a long term commitment and that's marriage. Number 3 the introduce you to other family members especially his parents and so on. They'll also expect you to marry them in their religion. Now you may be Christian or so on but don't expect you to get married islamically I know I Manhattan to get married in a mosque Islamic ceremony and that's just the way it is. They also expect you to dress modest and that means exactly that. He'll teach you his culture and language. You'll know he loves you and hopefully you will respect him and his beliefs. And this is for all ladies, women alike. Never ever have sexual contact with an Arab man especially those who are strictly Muslim because you lost him before you even got him. Most Muslim men want a virgin for marriage, they don't want to pay for a large wedding for a non virgin lady it's the pride. There are those probably do and have married non virgin and it lasted but most that is majority wants virgins. Arab men do not like to be demanded, there's are ways to to get your way but acting like you're going to control him or being the the dominant one will make him angry. Erdman also do not like women who act like men, figure of speech. You'll see women should I say females are you outside they are loud, if a man wants a dude than he wouldn't be with a female. I think this would go with most men, they want somebody that can cook. Does it always have to be Middle Eastern no not necessary, but make other food because of way to a man is his stomach. Men want to eat, they don't want take outs most of the time, Baymont home cooked food. They want a woman that can maintain a home and teach his children. They want a female that will listen to what he saying and hear what he is saying. Arab men do not like gold diggers and I am pretty sure that goes with most men. They don't want to come home and their wife is throwing their money out the window. Be creative at home make things. If you don't have small children yet do something and compromise. But I cannot say this no more than once, do not sleep with an Arab man unless you were married to him, because you lost him before it even got started. I have a granddaughter who is 15 years old, she is Taurus Islamic culture and I do not interfere with that because I feel at least she won't be doing something wrong. When she goes to school we take her, when she comes home we pick her up, and all of her friends are Muslim. She knows the rules, and I have a grandson who will be 24 years old he has that mortality of thinking. He wants to marry a virgin and he wants to pay for everything. He wants new furniture everything for new wife so why would I expect him to pay for a wedding, and purchase everything for a home that's brand new for young lady who has been with someone else already what others. If he maintained his virginity until marriage then the girls should also do the same. He didn't make a whole bunch of females for just one guy, and I'm speaking of God, heated tell a girl to go out and have a whole bunch of guys he said be married and that's what I expect on my grandkids. So if you want a Muslim man then you know what you're up against. Because if you go to club with him, and you had sex with him before marriage don't expect a strong commitment because he really is not going to give it. And if he does marry then he's married for a different reason and that's for green card or something else.

[@Karateblueberry]

Same

[@UmmMahdi-nu4on]

I'm sorry to hear that, but why are you blaming the Muslims? He's married and committing adultery. In our religion, that's punishable by death. It seems like he's not a good example of a Muslim. So I think it's cheeky to say that Muslims are treacherous and dishonest. Women shouldn't just sleep with any man and sell themselves so cheaply. As long as there are women who let that happen to them, there will be men who take advantage of that.

[@user-pg1km2hi4r]

He probably wanted you to be his second wife in secret because most Muslim men can’t let their kids go and most won’t. In western countries second marriage is illegal and kids mostly go to mother. Most Muslim men can’t give up on his kids.

[@Anonymous-he3pi]

Waoo.. And what about his wife and children? I feel extremely sorry for his wife.. He is enjoying in the USA and there she is taking care of their children.. These kind of Arabs are shame!!

[@Adelina24244]

He acted like he was serious I was just an ego boost showing me off to his friends 😣😣it’s all my fault three months of my life wasted and keeping tabs on me I even have to block him everywhere he’s 35yo just likes playing games. Three months of my life I’ll never get back. Never again. Just loves controlling and too much jealous doesn’t even let me do the things he’s doing but it’s ok for him to do? Then he blindsided me and lied and said he’s moving away forever only for him to come back 1-2 month later and says he’s back in our town when he NEVER even moved away anyway. Then continue to play head games never again ugh tuff alayk😢

[@dZeNa.]

Omg same storyyyyyy 😢

[@dZeNa.]

Omg sameeeeee !!

[@luluenjapon]

block him from everywhere

[@Adelina24244]

@@dZeNa. maybe it was the same guy 😬😬😢

[@oleaamme]

You saved me with this video. Thank you, brother. ❤

[@Bianca2802]

My arab neighbour was 2 years with an arab girl from syria when they both studied in Damascus. He promised her marriage. In the end he left her heartbroken because he decided to go to europe to work. They were intimate,but not fully..you know. It must have been devastating for her.😢 So your advice absolutely makes sense. He has to be ready NOW. Not in 1 ,2 or 5 years

[@ramonaneyrinck2292]

I have an arab friend who did this to a woman. He was engaged, and the wedding was within a week. He left the country to pursue school.

[@jhasena323]

thankyou so much for your advice, its very helpfull for me, may Allah bless you.

[@Fuadtalks]

May you be blessed too, my dear!

[@selinapeterson9257]

I cannot argue with you on this.

[@shanaz3]

As a Muslim woman from the west- now living in the Middle East, I can say that everything I heard here is fact. Men will absolutely approach women in spaces but women must not be fooled by them. If ladies do not hold standards believe me our societies globally will collapse. A Muslim woman who is strong will not accept a man who is going to waste her time. For non Muslim women, as a woman I urge you to really consider your choice. Fuad, you are right walla. God fearing men will never be attracted to wifing a non god fearing woman. She will be the mother of his children and hold his reputation with honour amongst society. May God grant all sincere souls a kind and loving partner. ❤ Eid Mubarak to everyone

[@Fuadtalks]

Thank you for sharing this! Eid Mubarak.

[@Bianca2802]

I am "dating" an arab man since some months. I live in southeastern country he in western country. We met over friends but saw each other only 2 times. He was very successful with his own Business when i met him and we were europhoric. But for whatever reason his Business went down and now he is not stable financially. I dont know what to do.. I dont want to leave him bec of this but i am afraid that he will say he needs time before thinking about marriage and as you said, i will just be "one cigarette " of many😢

[@Fuadtalks]

Life setbacks can happen. Not suggesting that whenever the man has an issue, you would question if it's worth being with him. You need to be patient and supportive at times. The main thing is to not become his wife before he marries you. Another point that comes to mind now is that one of the repercussions of engaging in haram relationships (fornication) is often a decline in a person's livelihood. This effect may vary in timing and intensity, but it's a well-known consequence. I'm not suggesting that this is the reason for this man's issue, but it's worth keeping in mind, especially for those who prioritize success in this life over the hereafter.

[@Bianca2802]

@@Fuadtalks thank you so much for your answer,it is much appreciated ,dear brother. I tried to make him understand some things. In a kind way. I heard of others that he was engaging in many questionable things. But this is his past. I hope. In summer we will discuss everything. I will let you know inşallah. Wish you Eid Mubarak for tomorrow for you and your family!

[@chefrabbaigoldenbergsteins5018]

What happen

[@nunung-ew3ip]

Subhanallah!!

[@ZubeidaEssa]

This makes me fall in love with islam ❤ alhamdulilah

[@doveflyer1636]

My guy is in his 40’s as am I. We live together or did until he started sleeping around with others. His family likes me and hoped he’d marry me but his mom says he doesn’t stay with one woman, has crazy habits…Joe is very possessive and does talk about how I dress. He is always questioning me but yet cheats constantly-including with my 74 year old neighbor.

[@Zorra31P]

What the heck. DUMP HIM!!! 😵

[@irene4633]

74???

[@edturner3615]

👀

[@Adelina24244]

That’s disgusting!!🤮

[@BigG1691]

This is a next level of crazy, what is she like a Madonna ? 74 and looking like 28..he's got issues . RUN

[@shubhicutie]

Thank you ❤

[@luluenjapon]

one just ask me to marry him for the visa .Is arabic and muslim as well . i always through he was my good friend because he was caring ,loving but im losing a lot because he enjoy bringing me down with his words . so if i put in a balance ⚖️ what i recieve more from him . idk i just feel he hates something about me and wanna change ,is judgmental,jealous , and being friends doesn't mean he needs to know my personal life and finances . he said is worry . If he is worry is simple make my life simple , don't judge my life because yoi dont listen when i gave you a chance . so girls becarefull . Not only arabics also others heritages . if you want a arabic friend is ok they are super funny but their behavior in general talking about man don't let them abusive you emotional , economic and stuck you . i started think he is narcissist .

[@user-vg6fw5qr6e]

He unfollowed me and blocked me on IG after 1 week of ghosting, but not on what's up. I did nothing, Didn't text, didn't like, I was never pushy, needy. Last time we met, he seemed cold and distant. I felt that this will happen, so I did not text. He went far away from me to speak with "his family", when I don't even understand Arabic, why would he not speak when I am there. He was also bragging to someone he was talking to about his "popularity" , how he is lucky in love, making me think he had lots of gf-s, when I was next to him. He was much more silent than usually, awkward silence between discussions. I felt really uncomfortable. I felt something in the air.

[@dianedraveski6485]

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[@Amish900]

Jazakallah

[@suzannemichelle2619]

A friend of mine has been in an online relationship with a Muslim man from another country. They text and do video calls for the past 2 years. She is divorced and he is married with 2 kids. His first wife knows about it, the 2 women often text each other, he asked my friend to be his second wife. In our country polygyny isnt legal. Also, financially, he has a hard time, as do many in his country. They havent been able to meet in person yet because of finances. Hes experiencing hardships in his country due to economic and political situations there. Would a Muslim man continue this relationship as it is? Isnt it Haram?

[@soso3386]

Advice for women with daddy issues please InshaAllah

[@fatimazahragueye3995]

thank you

[@Fuadtalks]

You're welcome

[@mariac2144]

Great channel ❤ Please I need to know what is your nationality? 🥺

[@dZeNa.]

We fell in love with each other six years ago but I had to move on because of my job.last year we randomly saw each other in a big city and fell in love again.a great beautiful compassionate romance started for about eight months and then he came up with he’s going back home to Iraq forever. He’s Kurdish. I got to know his mum via video call dad because his whole family is in Iraq and he’s the only one here that and so the chaos of the last 4 1/2 months started he has financially security family and is afraid if we marry that he wants to go back and I would say no and we would have children then.his mother likes me but his father is kind of:marry your cousin! He says he needs time to think about whether he’s going back or not, but I am on a rollercoaster with hot and cold behaviour and I’m not available for him Yesterday, I told him you are training me and I’m not happy. I have deserve better. Silent for now from his side I guess I will never see him again or?

[@Fuadtalks]

Maybe you will, but don't put your life on hold. Live your life fully and don't wait around expecting him to reach out. It's better to be pleasantly surprised if he does, than constantly sad and waiting because he hasn't.

[@monikabennett]

What a weird take

[@shamsmacaya6519]

Thank you much you give me more meaning of life and not to look this type of Red Flag person ❤

[@jakubantala5666]

Good Vlog, but just you look like a having a lipstick :D

[@franciaperiabras1037]

😂😂😂

[@Fuadtalks]

Bad color grading, I hope it wasn't overly distracting.

[@juliamachowska3394]

he basically literally in other words said that arab wife is a slave

[@Fuadtalks]

Did I?

[@Akbar-jz7dt]

Wait for getting ready Keep secret

[@luluwachedjari3299]

Muslims must marry their own first the women from their countries, as a Muslim your duty is to protect society, let’s stop being gaga for western women, we all have sisters, cousins etc just like you wish for them to get married then you must be sincere and marry women from your country, the marriage rate between Muslims with the same nationality is dangerously lowering, these mixed marriages often end in disaster specially for the children also

[@dianedraveski6485]

We live in 2024, a melting pot of cultures. My Western muslim friends have married out of the culture and its been 30 years now. The children are raised muslim and Strict. Biases exist dont let " Western " values influence. We are strict too. We are not temporary we are decent moral people there are cigarettes in every culture. Nobody is perfect except Allah. My parents were strict at age 40 no dating. There is nobody I know who is loosey goosie except what the the Media portrays. Plus it depends on what Arab country your were raised : Lebanon vs Saudi certainly different or Shia vs Sunni.. We ALL stand in front of God and are judged at the end. I will not be cast aside for being Western. Im not nor anyone I know for hundreds of miles act like haram. And I work for a charity as aid worker we are all mixed up helping people All different muslims and christians the important thing is to hold the crying, feed the hungry , ease the suffering. Grab a plate of the others food mix it up, ask, learn , educate be WISE. We learn alot talking, eating , helping. God willing someday man will embrace one another as one. We all come from the lands of the bible. And yes I pack meals to go to Gaza.

[@Adelina24244]

Let people marry whoever Allah gave us that choice

[@Akbar-jz7dt]

Yes, that's true

[@hassentrh2118]

if you're only seeing non-muslims in your daily life you're gonna fall for a western girl, why miss on the chance if she likes you? they are living in the west after all they don't have many options

[@indiamoreno4859]

💋💯💯❤🥰🥰🥰

[@dianedraveski6485]

Sunni vs Shia. Stupid autocorrect

[@Adelina24244]

What does this have anything to do with Shia and sunni