5 Straight Men vs 1 Secret Gay Man : Find The Hidden Gay

[@soobinlover03]

I would’ve been so anxious if I was surrounded by straight people hearing them say what they truly think of gay people, I applaud changyu for holding it up

[@jayxr_]

i would have punch the guy no 3 if i were him tbh 😂

[@soobinlover03]

@@jayxr_ no cause seriously, I would’ve been like “I’m the gay one, also, number 3, wussup bitch?” 🤬

[@-aeshe-4951]

​@@jayxr_number 3 expressed a valid concern, no culture is monolithic, there's a lot of gay people who just like guys but having negative experiences would be understandable by people who aren't appreciating their interests boundaries molesters or harassers of any gender n sexuality n is something people will need to work on, that's good 2 was the one who was a bit weird - u don't like it cuz u don't have information? Maybe you don't have an opinion, n it's lost in translation, but if you don't have information then it should be neutral impression , what's don't like ?

[@blueside2721]

@@-aeshe-4951 the thing is there are harassers everywhere. straight people can be harassers too, i've only been sexualy harassed by straight men in my life. this doesn't mean i think every straight guy is a harasser. he sounds like he thinks badly of every gay man. he needs to understand that his experiences are not universal and he cant (and shouldnt) misjudge a whole minority because of his personal experiences. this only brings more prejudice and violence.

[@-aeshe-4951]

@@blueside2721 Yes i agree. 👍🏽

[@cartr4236]

I can imagine how uncomfortable the gay guy must've felt at some of the guy's answers to the questions, honestly even watching it through a screen I also felt awkward! But number 1 seemed really thoughtful, which was nice to see.

[@reymartrinidad195]

Yes i really feel his anxiousness hahha

[@devika4446]

EXACTLY

[@jinhub2175]

I like that no. 1 guy

[@soaa_stay9932]

Yeah, I also really didn’t like what some of the guys said and felt kinda uncomfortable, but no 1 seemed to be nice and considerate :)

[@pingz84]

So true! I wish theres a moderator to like say some final words like “not every gays are like that” or “generalizing is not the way”

[@camambar8610]

Please DO “gay guys finding the straight guy” will be so fun

[@sakurakou2009]

I think that would be so easy 😂

[@atelierxara]

plot twist: all of them are straight

[@Skullquee]

@@atelierxarathat plot twist is literally this video…

[@eliasmatsoso6822]

@@Skullqueenot really

[@Skullquee]

@@eliasmatsoso6822 what do you mean by why not really? There’s 5 Straight men and one gay men How is that not really the plot twist

[@presh.]

changyu having to pretend to be slightly homophobic was lowkey a serve lmao

[@XxCørpsegirlXx]

Homophobe isn't a word

[@Ravininha]

@@XxCørpsegirlXx it is

[@bbchittanyaa1611]

🥲

[@lovelickyx]

​@@XxCørpsegirlXx imagine clicking on a video about lgbt and then making several comments complaining...I miss when people had jobs.

[@lovelickyx]

​@@XxCørpsegirlXxlike I hope you know several members of BTS aren't the straightest either since youre an army.

[@solkinit]

1, 4 & 6 thank yall for being kind n considerate. knowing there was a gay man in the room the others still said some harsh things while 1,4,6 stayed respectful. it costs nothing to be kind

[@kayros5194]

finally someone mention no 4 being kind too. a lot compliments no 1 and 6, but for me no 4 is just kind and considerate too. plus he is very honest huhu

[@ThuyTruong-u3b]

No 3 def gay..he got a bigger chin bag meaning he done some bj lol

[@jinhub2175]

Same. I really really liked no. 1, 4 & 6 🩷

[@soniaminic8904]

No.4 was really considerate and kind.

[@xisnothappy]

I actually think 1 & 6 seem the straightest. They have that confidence to dress cool and not care much if they seem gay

[@anaismg8729]

Yes! I love the men like this! 🙌👏

[@polinhere]

I personally think that last guy can be also attracted to men, based on the next video

[@medeea8078]

Exactly ❤

[@XX-pe4sj]

​@@polinhereif he says he's straight he's straight simple as that we can't assume that

[@sparkyboomboomboi7051]

@@polinherewhat next video?

[@silvermoon2281]

6:54 Obviously it’s not okay for anyone to touch someone without consent, but it’s frustrating that straight men feel like they can write off all gay men for those individual experiences, while women get blasted by straight men for making generalizations after being groped, abused, catcalled, followed… The point is that every group has good and bad representatives.

[@samgar4216]

Fr cause when women say "men are this or that" they will always say "not all men" but when they talk about women or gays they always generalize 😊

[@pinklantern]

Not an excuse but people like to think simply. Using generalizations is how something can be "understood" without having to think too much about it. The only time people don't generalize is when they found a reason disagree with the generalization through some form of personal experience, understanding or aversion.@@samgar4216

[@DaughterofMother1]

Exactly!glad you pointed that out

[@junjiscomb7909]

so true

[@aloneinthenight]

MAN FR MY THOUGHTS THE ENTIRE TIME number 3 was so annoying

[@xiaotian.y]

What Changyu said was actually true. He was actually harassed by an old man on a bus. It was a really scary experience for him

[@BJItman]

this 😔

[@tangerinu_u]

i hope his ok now. i have gone through the same experience and it gave me stress to ride buses after that.

[@loveyourlifeyouhaveonlyone]

The world is crazy out there 😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨 😢 yesterday i was going to work, and the bus was so full when I entered . After I was there, it got more full, and I was almost crushed in a guy for more than 5 minutes . I think he stopped breathing for a while 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. We were so close that I could feel his breath . But nothing happened. I entered panic, though, when I was to get out but couldn't move, and I was in the middle between the doors. But then someone asked me if i wanted to go out, and I nodded, so someone pushed the red button, and they all got out from the buss, and I escaped successfully 😂😂😂😂😂. I don't know the world outside, but my city is having amazing people. Usually I'm not using busses or anything like that in the morning because if someone touches my hair by mistake ,I'm dead 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. For the last 13 years, if my hair has been touched, I'll freeze, and my body will hurt like hell. Don't ask me why 😅,I don't know ,I was just going to cut my hair and when the girl touched my hair I was like freezing and my body started to hurt terribly. I couldn't even talk ,so I just started crying, and she stopped in shock 😂😂😂😂😂😂. Whatever, I never met evil people in my life (well, just one, but he died a long time ago ) . So I'm sorry for this one . He must be shocked 😢😢.

[@lost_girl1999]

Number 1 is the most respective guy. Number 4 and Number 6 is respective too. But number 2 and 😊Number 3 is literally rude and disrespectful ....

[@eugenic12]

oh come on, it is not scary for a guy. I was harassed multiple times, and it was not scary. gays still have male temperament and strength, just their sexual preferences are different.

[@jixsungiee]

Nr. 1& 6 seem definitely comfortable in their own sexuality and aren’t afraid to dress cool and be comfortable in themselves how they are, it’s nice to see that they are really nice and also gentlemen’s, good job changyu for keeping that up

[@Eboe89]

I love #1. He talked about gay people very respectfully and didn’t let other people demean them several times. He also seems the most confident and secure in himself which is not a coincidence!

[@XxCørpsegirlXx]

Lgbt needs to leave children alone stop encouraging thar behavior

[@newbabies923]

The most masculine guy who is comfortable with his own sexuality (number 1) is the least homophobic amongs them, and yet those who seems more fruity and kinda insecure about his own sexuality are the most homophobic one AS ALWAYS

[@tle8137]

YAS!! He seems like such a good person who would be a good person to whomever. The dude in the purple shirt should learn from him.

[@soobinlove4417]

No one was homophobic yall always do this, everyone accepted he was gay no one was disgusted

[@frankaseehagen9348]

@@soobinlove4417 No 3 literally said that he had bad experiences with getting touched but his conclusion was that all gay men sexually harrass others. What is that if not homophobic? He didn't mean harm but he still generalized a whole group of people and just because you don't mean it in a bad way doesn't mean you don't hurt people. And of course they would officially accept him afterwards - afterwards no one would show their homophobia openly in a video like this.

[@金獨子]

@@soobinlove4417 what the person below you said

[@quinnhell6875]

He didn't say that all gay man are like that ¿?¿¿? he just has that apprehensive perspective now because of his experiences l.l @@frankaseehagen9348

[@unmyeongz]

number 1 is not only very respectful but also naturally funny😂 “i don’t think number 6 is gay” /proceeds to vote for number 6 and PUSHED him while saying sorry/ *”TO ALL GUYS WHO LIKED ACCESSORIES IN KOREA-“* /made it to the finals/ “are we voting again??” I CANT WITH HIM LMAOOO

[@lukesusilo2112]

also talking about the screen time

[@hurryhurryhurryhurry]

Didn't he also generalize gays by saying they don't like sports....

[@unmyeongz]

@@hurryhurryhurryhurry time stamp?

[@hurryhurryhurryhurry]

@@unmyeongz it's just before the last elimination

[@unmyeongz]

@@hurryhurryhurryhurry13:30?? that’s not generalizing nor stereotyping, he was speaking from personal experience with his actual gay friends. stereotyping is like what number 2 said on 12:40.

[@nikitachauhan8567]

Changyu was so adorable by the end. He looks so gentle, not feminine since I didn't suspect him at first. But the more you look at him, the more it makes sense.

[@pluto-kl5od]

I guessed him as soon as soon as he started talking. Everyone else seemed more confident but he had this shy vibe that illuminated around him.

[@iiluvsophie]

um not every gay guy is fem..

[@nikitachauhan8567]

@@iiluvsophie I didn't think he looked feminine in any sort of way and I didn't want to have a very stereotypical approach. I was suspecting contestants 1, 2, and 4 for some reason. I was trying to say that having feminine features has nothing to do with being gay but I think it came out wrong.

[@iiluvsophie]

@@nikitachauhan8567 ohh okk im sorry for being so straight forward than

[@nikitachauhan8567]

@@iiluvsophie No, it's fine. Even I kinda saw it coming when I was writing it. I wanted to say that he didn't look feminine and he was the one who's gay so guessing someone's sexuality based on their looks doesn't make sense. That's what I wanted to say.😅

[@jeffreymorales6233]

Chankyu literally the cutest among of them. He's the perfect definition of a masculine and feminine man at the same time. He's the most attractive man among of them to be honest.

[@kitty_cherry5076]

Femenine where?

[@jujusitam]

@@kitty_cherry5076 he is kinda femenine, like if you don't know him you will probably think he is masculine just by how he looks, but when he talks and moves you'll notice his femenine and cute vibe.

[@kitty_cherry5076]

@@jujusitam he talks and move like a normal and common guy, you don't have to be though to be maculine

[@kitty_cherry5076]

@@jujusitam wich femenine vibes? Like, just because of he's gay you guys say that, if he was straight no one of all of you will say nothing of this bs.

[@jujusitam]

@@kitty_cherry5076 idk how to explain it but even if he's not femenine he's also not masculine at all. It´s not about looks or how he acts actually, it's just that he has this pretty guy vibe.

[@milkycloud.]

NUMBER 6 HAS TO BE A MODEL GOSH HE IS SO COOL AND HAS THIS ALLURE. NUMBER 1 WAS SO RESPECTFUL AS WELL. I LOVE HOW 1 HAS A LOT OF GAY FRIENDS SO HE WAS OPEN-MINDED AND NUMBER 6 DOESN'T HAVE ANY GAY PEOPLE AROUND HIM BUT IS STILL SO CHILL AND CONSIDERATE. THEY ARE THE TRUE MEN WHO ARE NOT INSECURE.

[@cehathiara2899]

Their perspective of not being gay is masculinity 😂 but like no.5 said, lots of gay are actually very masculine 😂😂

[@brian_Austin27]

Bisexual men too i look very masculine and i happen to be good looking and black men already get the stereotypical overly masculine attach other guys immediately run cuz they are so shocked unless i speak in a lighter tone than a deep tone😂

[@georgeoust]

I mean… it’s true. Often times gay men can be more “masculine” than straight men, especially in Asia

[@crunchnmunchsweettreats]

Yup, there are more gays who are masculine than fem in the gay community, and often only they will choose the mascs over the fems

[@ayujane401]

Yes your right 100%, and if you know dating show called "his man2". There a man The man's name is Junseong, he is tall, enigmatic and handsome. and of course very masculine

[@twinkincarnate]

Yes exactly! I'm gay and all of the guys I've seriously dated (3) you would've NEVER guessed they were gay, because they were very masculine (in a healthy way) and didn't act nor talk like a "stereotypical gay guy" lol

[@Danionme]

Applause for guy numbers 1 and 6, They are real gentlemen. but It is so ridiculous that some straight men think they are the center of the universe and have no idea what gay men actually mean. I really want to throw up. Yes, the guy number 3.

[@tangerinu_u]

i wish i had straight male ego. then nobody could stop me lol

[@spook6394]

⁠@0..._...-....._0ew 1) fujoshi 2) lesbophobic 3) internalized misogyny?? Get your act together, that’s shameful

[@KiligSubs9]

@0..._...-....._0 you're worse than these straight men

[@meekhayl]

@0..._...-....._0here comes the fujoshis..

[@woooyu]

​@0..._...-....._0wtf

[@thea9153]

5:31 this applies to people of every sexuality, lesbian women has been harrassed by straight men too and the opposite way around, the sexuality someone has is not the problem, but the person itself😀 dont judge someone based on what gender they like

[@stacy3035]

This!!!

[@amyk4257]

everyone's only talking about #1 but i feel like #4 and #6 were also really respectful and nice about it. i love how #4 would call out #3 for doing the same things that he called "gay", #3 was the most problematic tbh

[@BTSPAVEDTHEWAY.875.]

I really like how respectful no.1, 4, and 6 were. No wonder why i liked them the very first time i saw them.

[@debby2208]

SAME!!

[@honeytaroable]

LOL number 1 saying he doesn’t think number 6 is gay anymore then immediately voting for number 6

[@Smiley957]

I noticed that 😂

[@ishijaki4]

😂😂

[@ur.senpai1798]

HIS MAN FANS KNOW

[@wowodoudinchengxurouroufen6939]

Exactly !!!!!!

[@user-yy3dk8jn8j]

omg so that’s why 😭 I kept thinking he looked familiar but couldn’t remember from where

[@Jwkaghm5498]

😂yess

[@ST-qo3yl]

Real I saw his face on the thumbnail and I was like I wonder who the gay person could possibly be 🤣🤣🤣

[@luizinho_milgrau]

Na hora que eu vi thumbnail kkkkk

[@werdna88]

Being gay myself, it’s sad to hear some of the things these men said, but a lot of it has to do with stereotyping and culture, also it is South Korea so I try to understand that fact, so me being from the west, I would have assumed all of the guys were gay except the actual gay man haha. I guess for me, seeing them wear make up and dress the way they do makes me think they were gay, gays in the west also tend to have stereotypes of femininity and masculinity and none of these men would fall into the masculine stereotype from the west, please don’t be upset with my comment. Side note* I found the actual gay guy to be the cutest of them all, I liked his more natural look ❤

[@lineakp1806]

Same the gay guy was the cutest

[@josereyes-fd1qp]

It's interesting because a lot of stereotypes in other countries would consider most of these men gay. But ignorance is everywhere.

[@Ripenready]

True! The gay guy doesn’t look like the rest of the pretty boys.

[@sakurakou2009]

Those kind questions can't be asked with out some stereotypes being thrown in, if they had bad intentions I don't think they would agree to make that kinda video

[@benbeausergent]

but honestly though, a lot of men in the west think and say the same things that these men said. For many cases I think it’s genuinely not out of hate it’s just because of lack of education and exposure (and not wanting to be exposed because of unfamiliarity) to gay people and the lgbtq+ community

[@너귀엽다]

3번 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ “너무 고픈 나머지”는 대체 무슨 발언이냐? 저 말 할 때 찬규 표정이 딱 내 표정이었다; 그리고 성추행 성희롱 성폭행은 이성애자 남자들이 더 많이 하는데 그럼 세상 모든 여자들이 이성애자 남자에 대해 안 좋게 봄? 저건 게이고 이성애자고의 문제가 아니라 그냥 그런 사람도 있고 아닌 사람도 있는 거지

[@히히-c1f]

ㄹㅇㅋㅋ 개깝침 ㅋㅋ

[@islandork]

1, 4, 5, and 6 were all super chill, the other two i got weird vibes from but overall seemed generally respectful so that was nice. never quite sure how we are viewed by the average citizens around the world (as opposed to overall cultural markers kinda thing, bc then its just reductive and typically a more conservative take than the average person) and this really didnt go too bad lol

[@Yoma876]

I was so nervous for Gyu the whole time cause you could tell he was anxious but I'm glad he made it through the first two rounds. You could see him relax after the first elimination then got nervous again. he's such a cutie and so gentle and respectful. Overall great video and a good watch. Also I have so much respect for #6 whoever he is

[@notrealanymoretbh]

Please do a lesbian version 🙏 I would love to see how women react!!!

[@fairykore]

THIS^^^^ omg

[@JolieGirl2002]

if they bring in a femme girl I'm a 100% sure they're not gonna get it right 😭

[@Jiu_zule]

We need another gay version

[@hiidk6859]

YESSSS PLEASEEEE ^^^^^

[@GoodGood-vb8gm]

Only gay movies, BL dramas, BL actor couples, Gay reality shows, etc. have a very large profitable market. You can find a lot Chinese good-looking boys producing BL TikToks. Most of them are not gay but they know BL topic is popular among girls.

[@Cojiro00]

I'm gay and I felt offended at some points in this video. Many opinions were stereotypical and made gay people some kind of "exotic creature". Number 3 even spoke as if all gay people in the world were harassers. That was bad.

[@vernacular2328]

definitely

[@kentr1p]

yea its really disappointing. not to minimize his bad experience, but then I would ask, "so you'd be okay if a girl was sexually harassing you?" At the end of the day, every single person in the world is capable of being a pervert. Its just so silly.

[@amyk4257]

i feel like all of them were fine except for no 2 & 3 letting their homophobia show 😭

[@robopecha]

its korea. they are really a few steps behind socially. its not their fault, they need to learn things and catch up! interactions between straight people are weird there too. one reason i cannot watch korean tv shows without getting angry, so i dont.

[@robopecha]

@@amyk4257 i dont think they are homophobic, they just have no clue. talking about gays publicly is still very new to them and i dont think people can come out without losing their jobs.

[@nhh3399]

너무 고픈 나머지라니ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅠ 3번은 전체적으로 말들이 좀 그렇다 저중에 있다는 사실을 알고 있는데도 배려 하나 없이 말하네.. 나도 예전에 게이에 대해 좋지 않은 인식이 있었지만 그때였어도 저런 식으로 예의없게는 말 안 나올 거 같은데 현장에서 바로 들었을 때 마음 아프셨을 거 같다..

[@jeysi3299]

As soon as I see the way he stands I knew it was him. And he's so cute! His facial expressions are so cuteeee😍.

[@nyamoureuse]

"I wish they did not force it or sexual harass." Dude, I’m a WOMAN do you get to meet as much gay guys as I get to meet guys ? Welcome in my world 😘

[@avatarthelastairbenderlove4092]

SAY IT LOUDER

[@tekla_]

For real, how dare do they generalize gay men when straight men are the ones doing it the most and the worst.

[@_editsleo_]

RIGHT???

[@nickeni3050]

Two wrongs don't make a right but people do need to teach their sons and daughters better because I see more girls sexually harass guys more than I see guys do such these days. Either way it sucks to touch people without consent, even with how free I am with my sister there are some times I still ask for consent to touch, hold or hug her cause she's not always comfortable with it and needs to prepare her mind to accept another person's hug

[@_editsleo_]

more girsl harrasing? help- which world r u living? because what is more common is guys harassing girls and even r4ping them@@nickeni3050

[@michaelherrera2124]

Guy with the purple shirt described an average day for women around the world. He doesn't want to be harassed, well that's what all women want when they are just simply trying to go over their day.

[@tamakibread1411]

YOU SAID MY EXACT THOUGHTS WHILE I WAS WATCHING THAT PART

[@jean-lucleblanc5825]

I am gay, and at first, I was certain it was number 5 because he seemed a bit uncomfortable/vulnerable (not much, but enough to be noticeable by someone within the community like me). Then, I noticed his facial tics, so I thought perhaps I was wrong and he might just be a bit anxious. Turns out, I was right after all, lol. Also he is super cute. 😊

[@BambooPanda-bl3bm]

I was certain it was number 5 too because I'm a girl who's attracted to feminine, cute guys who most times turn out to be gay. I mean, who would resist such a cutie like him? His curly hair, his smile... his EVERYTHING. I like his curly hair A LOT. It's a bummer that's he's gay. Well, it's not like we could've dated anyway, lol.

[@caiohenriquepereira6392]

Para mim não teve graça, eu sabia desde o início... Acompanho o Changyu (n5) desde que ele saiu do reality de namoro que ele participou. Foi aguniante ver ele no meio de tantos héteros 😅

[@gyu_11.12]

But I was so happy to talk with other people

[@caiohenriquepereira6392]

​@@gyu_11.12Eu adorei o vídeo, só quis dizer que eu não me surpreendi e sobre o desconforto é que eu me coloquei um pouco no seu lugar e acho que me sentiria um pouco desconfortável, mas fico feliz em saber que você gostou da experiência 😊

[@pluto-kl5od]

@@gyu_11.12 did not expect you to be in the comments

[@skz811]

changgyu’s facial ticks are so adorable ❤

[@dia30deoutubro]

Yeah, he's so cute and his tics make him even cuter.

[@louxlhc]

ChanKyu is very brave ! i couldn't have stand there hearing straight people speaking about what they really feel about gay people, i'd be so anxious! i applaud ChanKyu!

[@Hi-ii4qo]

It’s crazy the gay guy Changyu actually looked the most masculine in western standards then the others who were boasting bout the “unattractive” femininity

[@lovelymill]

because there are different perspectives, you see only surface level like face/make up/clothes, and they see some small details because it's THEIR culture

[@liansppang]

which one is changyu??😭

[@lovelymill]

@@liansppang in jean costume

[@AZ-ph4fs]

I was born and raised in Australia and Changyu definitely seemed gay to me cause I also have lots of gay friends around me.

[@spectral__]

It's ironic to me that #3 was so harsh when the reason he probably gets approached a lot is the way he dresses and the colored lenses. He judges so harshly yet is upset others mistake him as gay because his style is more genderfluid. Most straight men don't style that way unless they're an ulzzang. He should learn to accept himself and stop being rude. 1 and 6 were so sweet. It was annoying that others assumed 6 was gay just because he was being defensive when they said mean things.

[@kaee4k]

nah i feel like you shouldnt just assume someone is gay especially if you're trying to approach them because you really never know. With that being said, number 3 definitely couldve worded the way he said things better. I feel like his bad experiences with the gay community has caused him to be a bit bitter towards them and in turn makes him come off as homophobic. I would be a bit miffed if a guy tried to grope me just because I dressed a bit more genderfluid as well though. So i understand both sides, number 3 just came off more ugly about it. Which leads me to believe its happened to him often and/or rubbed him the wrong way so hes not as kind about it. EDIT: Also who knows, maybe he is gay or struggling with his sexuality/identity and guys approaching him just makes dealing with it worse and makes him more confused. I would understand that as well. People deal with things differently, hes still young...hoepfully he experiences things better from now on and becomes more confident in his own skin.

[@spook6394]

⁠​⁠@@kaee4ki’m not really sure how you think we can approach a dude as a dude without assuming they could be gay. Groping is never an acceptable approach, no matter genders. What he said was wrong because he assumed all gay men are sexual harassers, which is an awful thing to assume about a minority group (or any group, for that matter. Think about how straight guys get this same shit from women) No matter what he’s dealing with, if anything at all, and no matter how “young” he is (though I’d guess 25, so not young enough to have pity) what he’s expressing here isn’t cool. Personally, wouldn’t be friends with him.

[@sparkyboomboomboi7051]

Yes honestly it gave me hope to see those Korean men stand by their beliefs and actively try to fight against bad stereotypes even tho it would’ve painted a target at them

[@liyourjoy844]

I think that number 6 was mistaken for gay not because he defended himself from rude things, he just looked as good as number 5, he is handsome and confident.

[@TheLoonu]

Him being harrassed has nothing to do with how he dresses? Kinda giving victim blaming. His experience seems bad and that's sad. Of course its not right to make his assumptions based on his own experience, generalising all gay people. But his experiences being harassed should not be questioned and how he dresses is irrelevant.

[@damnalice8809]

5:38 my problem with what he said is it's literally straight men that commit 99% of this "forcing", on girls. Girls have to deal with this daily and you're giving a 1 in a million situation as an argument against gay people? It's like saying "pizza is disguasting because one restaurant ive been to couldnt make it". Also I know how this "forcing" looks in men's head- a gay man comes up to them, flirts a bit to find out if theyre interested and they take full ofense in it, because "someone dared to ASSUME they might be gay"- which is even crazier because that isnt even an assumption, gay people have to find a partner somehow, they are allowed to interact with outside world without people calling them offensive for simply trying to exist like everybody else.

[@damnalice8809]

I know it's probably cultral diferences but I would argue with MANY things they've stated here.

[@emmuzboosh]

Males will dismiss women saying that they are harassed but as soon as a gay man comes up they are the most offended. Very hypocritical.

[@뷰아멜]

1번 완전 알파 메일 아니냐.. 보자마자 느꼈는데 말할수록 더 느낌 그냥 사람 자체가 멋있어서 여자고 남자고 반할 수밖에 없어 보임 ㅋㅋ

[@잿빛여우]

4번이 3번 계속 서클렌즈 쳐다보면서 애가 게이가 아니라고?? 이런 표정으로 쳐다보는거 딱 내표정 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ 써클렌즈.. 제발 ...

[@hikaru1412]

“Ah, there are gay people around us.” 😂 his last brain cell really worked hard to come to this conclusion.

[@Armyliving]

😂😂😂 like where do they live not on earth

[@TeeTop_]

Some people are like "Well I've never met a gay person in my life." Like, where do you live? Cuz it's extremely likely you have and just didn't know.

[@Lena_822]

FR living in a capital city and not meeting someone gay is virtually impossible unless your circle is very small and limited. I sometimes think gaydar is just non-existent in Korea lol@@TeeTop_

[@Jiu_zule]

@@Armylivingliterally the biggest district of Seoul Itaewon is dominated by gay clubs. Doesn't he live in Seoul ?

[@herewego02]

LMAOOO

[@mysteriousplayer248]

Next do "Gay guys find the straight guy" 😂

[@abhalichade]

That's going to be chaotic

[@mysteriousplayer248]

@@abhalichade the exact reason I want to see it 😂

[@carat_teamot9_igot7ahgase_30]

the straight guy will just surrender and call hinself out 😂

[@jjqwzss]

Lmao

[@mememe473]

He will not keep up. He will be found in the first round😂

[@maysarchivess]

Very entertaining and educational. I thought Korean men would be more open minded about gay ppl now but it’s sad to see still so many ignorant ppl generalizing gay ppl

[@hxghsk]

you're literally generalizing straight korean men with your comment, calling them ignorant

[@maysarchivess]

@@hxghsk no I didn’t say all Korean men I said “so many” which is fact. Not a a generalization. Get outta here delulu

[@finnrogue9435]

@@hxghsk they said "so many ignorant ppl" not that ALL korean men are this way, the 3rd gay was indeed generalizing about gay men based on his bad experiences tho

[@hiidk6859]

⁠@@hxghsktheyre not generalizing Korean men as ignorant, they’re saying it’s disappointing how there is still so many ignorant PEOPLE they never just said Korean men.

[@tekla_]

@@hxghskyou flopped

[@쿵야-s3d]

1번이 자기가 게이한테 인기많은거같다고 할때 5번이 ‘엥..?뭔소리노’ 이런 표정이였는데 5번이 찐게이라서 그랬구낰ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@너귀엽다]

아 진짜 이거 나만 느낀 거 아니었네 ㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@kyu3502]

If they do gay guys finding straight guys but the twist is they are all straight. Just imagine the chaos of every guy pretending to be gay, the content and just how funny it will be.

[@Kotatsu143]

As soon as I saw #6 walk up I knew he was most likely a model and he’d get suspected the most 😭😭😭

[@sevyeun]

I still don't get it why did the y think he was gay

[@an-rafieampaso5114]

@@sevyeun because of appearance, i'm also gay but when I saw chankyu walk i know it HAHAHAH btw i can felt it if the person is gay or not HAHAHA kidding

[@sofia-ju8pj]

@@sevyeun too pretty to be a man

[@lwexx.c]

@@sofia-ju8pjtf

[@dkdkdkdkdkdk22]

@@sevyeun the way he speaks is kinda gay if you know korean. idk it's hard to explain

[@liltsu9412]

This was so good, i was so nervous for Changyu!! I remember him from the TV program “his man”, so I was rooting for him from the start :) please do more content like this, it’s such a good tool for awareness!

[@Tanlawless]

any good this tv series/s

[@liltsu9412]

@@Tanlawless yes I recommend! Especially His Man 2 is even more fun but both seasons are cool

[@galaxyxdeath4117]

Number 3 holding a grudge on number 5 is just hilarious

[@moonwolf6687]

It is already represented in the comments, but from a woman's point of view it is always a bad feeling when straight men generalize about gays and say they find it repulsive or rude to simply be touched or approached by gays. But we women have to live with it every day, with cheap come-ons, unwanted touching or lecherous looks. I don't know many gay men personally, but the ones I do know are very reserved and first check whether the person they are interested in is interested in them as well. Just like everyone should do, regardless of sexual orientation! Btw Gyu is so cute and funny. I could watch his content all day long! And who is number 6? He is so handsome 🥰 and apparently for once a man I find attractive who is not gay 🤭🫣😀

[@seungberry448]

I really applaud Changyu for being able to stay calm throughout this👏

[@abby.l.c]

it's crazy how open some of these men are with their bigotry. especially when knowing that there was a gay person among them

[@felixgaiastral9001]

As a gay man myself, my gaydar told me that no.5 is cute. This isn't the first time I am attracted to gays 😂

[@twinkincarnate]

my gaydar is so broken, i thought it was no.3! i never guess correctly on these types of video :( i'm a flop gay

[@charlottechristenson8531]

No 5 is soo attractive

[@g.aloysie8439]

this was so much fun to watch, they were all very funny but I feel like number 2 and number 3 were rude sometimes, the gay guy is so cute, when he said he works in the hair industry I immediately started to suspect him

[@georgeoust]

Yeah they were the actually homophobic ones. It actually a pleasant surprise only 2 out of 6 were homophobic, for Korean standards

[@michelrodrigues5686]

Stereotyping much...

[@g.aloysie8439]

@@michelrodrigues5686there's a reason why stereotypes exist

[@paultrumble8110]

The gay one is absolutely adorable

[@Xinh_ngoan_yeu]

why number 6 is very attractive he's my idea type of bf and number 5 is too adorable

[@anajiesdlvx]

It was so nice to see chankyu again! He's such a nice and gentle man! I felt kinda bad for him hearing all these stereotypes about gay men, but I'm glad he's not scared to show himself :)♥

[@saraholman0618]

All His Man fans already knew, but it was fun to watch. I wish i could see Changyu in more videos, he was my favorite from Season 1

[@blank2541]

Great video. I hope gay culture continues to become more accepted in Korea

[@zrqdz4411]

Yeah. I don’t see why not tbh.

[@mikemondano3624]

It is already "accepted" in Korea and Asia in its own way. These ancient cultures have made a place for it all along. What you want is for Koreans to think like you, and that is just colonialism all over again. Hoping that your children are not marginalized and discriminated against is not intolerance toward the culture.

[@tisser-k9d]

Hell nah. Please don't bring that western gay culture to us.

[@b.1756]

​@@mikemondano3624you people can't be real. Touch some grass

[@lanaking7905]

@@mikemondano3624 what are you actually talking about you sound insane

[@celestialkids5638]

Why is my gaydar detecting more than 1 gay in this group 😄🧐

[@pearlskis9741]

Overthinking gaydar

[@Ramayanfanpage786]

There may be chances of someone being bi! Sexuality can be explored at any point of life

[@littlettn2586]

jokes on u mine guessed the correct one

[@kanchanrajput8656]

i already knew that number 5 is gay even before the time they had started their conversation

[@notforstrangers]

fr , i was like , i bet it's him!! 🫣

[@Felix-wt7rq]

he was so nervous, if you look closely he can not stop moving and having ticks, i'm so sorry for him feeling so uncomfortable and anxious ☹️

[@Bro_seok24]

Hello, I'm number 2. It was such a fun game Thank you for watching ☺️

[@bangchanwhydidyoubrokefeli7245]

We love ya... protect that guy at all cost he's a gem.. thank you for not judging him

[@camambar8610]

This game totally served! 💯

[@라떼-l9h7w]

i hoped that you are gay. because of too handsome 😋

[@chxrryedxts]

Your welcome I absolutely loved hearing everyone's thoughts on the topic ❤ fun to watch

[@airochifuairociv]

🥺omg😊HI!

[@burnoutgirlie]

I was cheering hard for Gyu, it was fun to see him passing the first round and confusing the the other men 🥰 He was very brave to put himself in that position, especially with some of prejudiced things that were said about gay guys, baby deserves the world 💕

[@carlosdcovers8425]

number 4 is underrated tho. he looks so kind and thoughtful

[@SecurityWasHereRBLX]

before the video even started, i could already tell it was number 5, a special power us gay people have telling straight people and gay people apart

[@keita4]

No.1 and no.5 looks handsome but no.6 is cute 🥰 his thoughts is really good

[@hobi_water_0t7]

I already knew taht it was number 5 because he was standing to awkwardly trying his hard to not to do any gay thing he's so cute😂😂

[@hodyamorjohnnydepp9443]

I will keep on rooting for Changgyu❤ he's so precious and pure~

[@dia30deoutubro]

Yeah, he is adorable. He seems like a great person to be around.

[@aren6986]

i’m gay, and watching this video was torture…because most of them are so attractive? when the one whos gay revealed himself i actually caught myself blushing…

[@NojusEmperor]

The cutest of them all turned out to be the imposter lol

[@gyaruoprince]

changyu's skintone is so pretty omg!!!

[@noelcatanzaro3405]

With Korean culture, grooming, makeup, fashion, and just having a feminine vibe about most Korean men. This was difficult, but I watched it for the challenge ! Good video

[@ancaab]

The amount of stereotypes some of these guys use to talk about gay people is concerning, but I kinda understand since they are from South Korea.

[@Smiley957]

It’s concerning that one can’t talk about gay people without others getting their feelings hurt..

[@arya.5]

​@@Smiley957ikr!! I have stereotypes too and It's totally fine imo

[@Smiley957]

@@arya.5 Yeah, and the funny thing is people like this are not even gay themselves. Ask an actual gay and they are probably fine with it.

[@l2727]

uh the jubilee version had way more stereotypes and no one got their feelings hurt over it

[@tmtmtm520]

Huh? This isn't limited to SK, these are gay stereotypes we all know about. I don't see the harm. The Jubilee one was way worse

[@시간은그래도간다]

제일 잘생겼다 생각했는데....그림의 떡이구나...

[@안녕하세오-j7x]

5번님 진짜 개귀엽다..ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ남자가 부럽다..

[@ishijaki4]

It's streotype to think particular characteristics of gay men 😂 like if they see yoonghee and jungseong, changmin they can never guess 😂

[@Jiu_zule]

Gay guys can be feminine and very masculine also but if the man is feminine he's 90% gay. Straight men are always masculine (at least they don't radiate expressed fem energy, looks)

[@BJItman]

Fr esp those three are so tall tall 😭😂😂

[@address22]

제일 잘 생긴 사람이 게이였네요. 세상의 밸런스를 맞추기 위해서 하늘이 노력하고 있다는 것을 절실히 느낍니다.

[@너귀엽다]

개웃기다 이 댓글ㅋㅋㅋ

[@hey__you]

하... 바이는 안될까? ㅜㅠ

[@냠냠-q2l3t]

​@@hey__youㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋㅋ

[@바른말만하는짱아]

6번이 젤 잘생겼는디 ㅎㅎ

[@후니-f8n]

@@바른말만하는짱아 개인차라지만... 아무리그래도 잘생긴 얼굴보다는 매력있는 얼굴인거 같아여...

[@alwo9732]

I want number 1 in my life, honestly he was so respectful and he was the only one who was speaking facts without prejudice. Because of that I thought he was the gay man, but it turns out that he is just a thoughtful and reliable allay💗

[@miii7342]

changkyu is the sweetest boy ever

[@redcrest5]

It’s interesting how much more accepting and genuinely respectful/comfortable straight guys are with gay guys in these types of videos done with men from western countries. Seems like South Korea is getting more progressive than they used to be but are not at the same level as the west yet. But the fact they could even have a video like this is good progress.

[@Erzela3103]

The statements that they used to suspect each other was so stereotypical 💀 but I’m not surprised considering its south korea. Number 2 and 3 were so rude at times. It got so annoying. Like no need to get so butthurt that fast🙄 number 1,6 were respectful and understanding. They said what they thought without stereotyping which I appreciated,number 4 as well at most times. Number 5(I already know him)was so adorable. I was really praying that he won’t get hurt by their words and that they won’t be too disrespectful. Glad that they didn’t specifically targeted him and say anything rude.

[@leannsalamieater]

find the hidden gay is literally all of us inside. we’re struggling all the time 😭

[@scrapswag3616]

Sexuality is not something that comes to you during life. Especially male homosexuality, it's mostly inborn thing that can't change

[@anonymousamateurph]

I like the first guy. He is so respectful and he speaks really well. When they lined up for the first time, my first vote is for #3 just because of what he's wearing plus the hand on the hip. Then when they started to speak, my vote switched to #5. Good that my gaydar is still on lol. Honestly, it's hard, I feel like I don't belong in any group. I can't relate to the gays here in my country because they are obsessed with sex and bodies or fashion/beauty contests etc. (this is based on my experience) and I also can't relate to the straight guys who talk about girls, sports, gaming.

[@tangerinu_u]

i feel the same. i feel like an alien to them.

[@lovelymill]

bisexuals enter the chat

[@julienm.4306]

Don't worry, you'll eventually find your own place/group. Doesn't necessarily need to be gay too, some of my closer friends are fully straight people, as long as you share common interest and that they're nice it's enough

[@cataalfonzo7812]

I liked 6 and 1 , they're very respectful ❤

[@jonah8124]

I knew within the first 3 mins because of how he was laughing to himself in response to the straight guys stories lol

[@wonhoforever5994]

If they think masculine guys can't be gay then Changmin will be the last man standing in this game 😂

[@luzrayrulov3443]

I already know Changyu so I felt disappointed at first coz I don't have to guess anymore 🤣 He's my pick from His Man 1 tho lol. With their reasoning, If it was TKBoy Yeonghee from His Man 2, I doubt they're gonna be able to guess him lol. And No. 3 probably thought it was wrong decision to wear purple and colored lens for the shooting lmao, but good for him for being a confident man!! No. 6 is so tall and handsome!!! Funny how No. 2 was targeting No. 5 right from the start lol.

[@hottestahgastayonce3850]

omg i actually need yoonghee on this now, or maybe even junseong

[@shainyjana9534]

Me too😅

[@bangchanwhydidyoubrokefeli7245]

​@@hottestahgastayonce3850yes junseong

[@saraholman0618]

I was about to say, they wouldn't even think Junseong was gay based on their thinking.

[@makatoshinkai]

😂 yessssss

[@jessicab14397]

I already knew it was Gyu but it was still fun to watch! I hope this was a fun and enjoyable experience for him and the other men ^^ Hope to see him in more series one day as well~!

[@rainbowsubs2]

Number 6 looks so perfect omg

[@myairin5411]

#6 is so attractive, dude must be a model

[@Valentinachannn2]

Hell yes!

[@aysegulcavdar6808]

aww changyu !!! hisman audience already knew ahah and they all really cool but 6,woww

[@myaar7358]

i knew i recognized him and it didnt click when i first heard his name, but when he said "his man" i was like wait.... OMG CHANGYU HOW DID I FORGET that was my baby i was rooting for him😭

[@Catastrophicat.]

12:21 ''but he is very masculine, so number 1 wasn't on my list'' who's gonna tell him that you can be gay AND masculine 😮‍💨

[@Catastrophicat.]

i continued watching the vid and thank god number 4 did tell him

[@coraliep5808]

II appreciate that they are all trying to be respectful but sometimes they just aren‘t, even though they put it in formal words… but still, better than I expected from a country who was not open to queer people a single bit just a few years ago. I hope that things are going to change rapidly in Korea in this terms of lgbtq+ acceptance

[@genshinF2Play]

LMFAO I KNEW IT WAS 5 before even watching the whole video. he's the most stylish and he looks so pampered 💖💖💖💖 the way he is standing and his mannerism like his hands is a dead giveaway too

[@Leviwosc]

I knew it right away. His eyes and his demeanour gave it to me right away. My gaydar works fine I think.

[@LuNaryXeno]

He's the most handsome guy in this round. 🤗 Chankyu is such a cutie pie 😊

[@swag6103]

It is sad to hear so many stereotypes about gay people. If it is true, the way each person thinks is respected. Not all gay people walk or dress or talk in a certain way. It would be good if these stereotypes ended because we should be more empathetic and put ourselves in the other person's shoes, I respect the culture and everything, but even I would feel uncomfortable by the way they generalize gay people. :/

[@soaa_stay9932]

Same! I was so frustrated when they talked about the stereotypes, especially the walk. I’ve never met a gay guy walking like that lol

[@nara-htike2237]

All men are fine, our Gyu is more fine ❤

[@7RainyDaysthjk]

Number 3 seems to give off "internalized homophobia" energy

[@nessamae3349]

Chankyu is so cute, he was so brave for doing this, too