5 Things I Changed My Mind About Since Minimalism

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Minimalism and living a minimalist lifestyle have changed my life in many different ways. Not just with regards to my decluttering my stuff and organizing my home, but also to my mindset and lifestyle. Today, I wanted to share with you 5 things I changed my mind about since minimalist living.
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[@SimpleHappyZen]

What have you changed your mind about? 👇😊 (P.S. Stick around for a really cool announcement at the end of the video!)

[@ronnie-lynn]

Clothing trends. Used to have FOMO about not having the latest trend in style. It brings me the JOMO now! I’m happy with all my staple pieces that are more on the timeless end of fashion! ❤️

[@SimpleHappyZen]

@Ronnie-Lynn Yes, great example! :)

[@irene2958]

I've changed my mind about decoration and in-case-you-need-it stuff. I used to think that a lot of decoration is cool and that the second one makes you more prepared. Now I decorate just the things that make me happy and I keep objects that I know I'll need soon.😃😃💜

[@bumblebee_mrs]

I have a question for your next Q&A video, if you will : "What made you, as an HSP, start making videos on KZbin? And how did you get over the nerves of talking to a camera? Cheers"

[@gwenj5419]

My main change is not shopping for entertainment. I used to shop at thrift stores all the time. It was less expensive, but I was still buying things I didn't need.

[@strongasagirl4434]

Same here. 😭

[@PartlySunny74]

I used to think that having lots of stuff meant security, however since working towards minimalism I’ve come to see mobility as a better source of security. Next time I need to move I hope to have less “baggage” than the 2 moving trucks it took to relocate me here. Every time I donate or recycle I feel the weight lifting off me! 😻

[@lizzabbott]

I love that ! YES ! Being more mobile is where it’s at imo. That is true freedom ! I am pretty sure I will move again sometime. And when I do, I want to have less things than I do now to move. I’ve moved lots of xs and always do a big purge when I move ( AND between moves) , but this simplifying endeavor continues ! It’s great ! More freeing to get rid of stuff than to SHOP ! 😀

[@os_1126]

I just learned the term POMO - Peace of Missing Out, and I found this even more suitable/helpful for me than JOMO. ☺️

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Hahaha so cool! POMO is a funny word to me somehow hihihi. But yes, it definitely brings about a sense of peace

[@patyeaman]

Congratulations to you! It has taken me almost all of my 75 years to feel as comfident and secure in my own skin as you seem to have learned to be at such a young age.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Hey Pat, thank you so much for your kind words. ❤ It also took me a while and I still have ups and downs to when it comes to this. Hope you're having a nice day. 🤗

[@deborahroper3694]

Hi Vera, I did a “no-buy” for about 3 months. That’s a first for me because I have always had minimum wage jobs and I was always very poor and broke a few days after I got paid. Now I’m disabled and I get only minimal funds because I always had minimal income. Often women earn less income for doing the same job a man does. Since we earn less when we’re working, we get less when we retire or when we become disabled. Once I started spending again (because a family member needed help) I felt silently very afraid that I would never get my “minimalism-mojo” back. I’m going to try to save a little each month no matter how small. Since I have been watching your videos for about 3 years or so, I don’t feel the need to buy everything that I see and I think I need or want that. Instead, I thought back to the happiest time in my life and it was when I owned the least amount of items. Being poor made me a minimalist and I was happier then. My apartment was easier to clean and I had more time to spend enjoying myself. So now I’m older and in a lot pain and I need to own less so I can do less and have less pain. Plus, I miss the days my apartment was always clean and neat and tidy. I saw one video on “Swedish Death Cleaning”. Would you give us your take on it and how can I get back on track to saving? I want to get my “minimalist-mojo” back . Also you look beautiful and you just keep getting more beautiful as time passes. I love to see you in pink. I would like to know about your skincare . And lastly I would love too see you do a video on each of those delicious meals you have already shown us in your previous videos. Thank you for your time and patience with this long conversation.

[@deedsh6280]

You found this wisdom earlier in your life journey than many, and I commend you for that reflection, and sharing it with us. Great insight. Thank you.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much, have a nice day today! 🌺🍃

[@srinidhi_ks]

'Defining your own Success' is so underrated. By the way thanks for this gentle reminder Vera...Insightful video👌 loved it😃 Happy weekend💫

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much, happy you enjoyed it! :) You have a nice weekend too

[@christined2495]

Hi Vera, such a great video… I love living the life I live, I am living simply and Minimal 5 years now. I never really want things , I have downsized 70% of my personal possessions, including household items as well. I appreciate what I have so much more. I also think long and hard on something I am thinking of spending my money on.. my bank account has really grown, and it feel s so good. No credit card bills. I still browse but I just enjoy looking, I hardly ever think to buy it, unless it’s something I purposely went to buy..I like the way my home looks just as it is. The best part is home is peaceful and tranquil. My closet is spacious, and It’s a joy to get dressed, less clothes is such a wonderful part of minimalism, it has made my life so easy… Every aspect of my life has changed, a mind shift I never expected the day I decluttered my junk drawer, that was just the beginning of my journey ❤️

[@chloegould6905]

Question for q and a: how can I encourage my husband into minimalism? Also, my biggest change into minimalism is knowing the tricks of the market. I saw it in a previous video of yours. For example, they make something more desirable by picking on our weaknesses (your life will improve once you have this, etc.) 😊

[@jennyjenkins877]

Exciting announcement! I love Sarah's channel too and it's so cool that you became friends. You seem to have an organic and emotion-driven approach to minimalism while Sarah seems very practical and logical, so I can imagine you will make a very well-rounded video together. Of course, you have so many things in common as well so it will be a lot of fun too! Everyone, click the notification bell so you don't have to deal with FOMO! 😜

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Hahaha I love it, thanks Jenny!!! I think you worded our approach to minimalism really well :)

[@jeanettefrey7676]

I was somewhat “forced “ to become more of the pretty practical minimalist I always was about 11 years ago. However , for a good 8 solid years , minimalism has become a choice. It has brought a great sense of peace , security , enlightenment and confidence into my life.

[@deborahmeyers551]

I've changed my mind about doing things I do not really want to do or someone makes me feel that it actually would be a nice thing for me to do. Vera your vids are one another level thanks for sharing 💜

[@SimpleHappyZen]

🤗🌾💖

[@sofiagutierrez7995]

I just found you a week or so ago so my I’m just barely starting my journey! I have started dexluttering my garage/home. And have challenged myself to NO shopping for one month or clothes/home decor. And repurposing and changing items in my home. Half of my garage clutter will be either given/donated to goodwill or sold in yard sale…. Someone made a good point having all this stuff clothes shoes doesn’t always bring you happiness… for me shopping therapy is temporary and then I find myself looking at it with tags in my closet only to be returned! Can’t wait to see mode of your videos by the way loved FOMO I haven’t taken a vacation since the pandemic and I see everyone doing it now …. But I need to do what works for me! Thanks for sharing

[@teresasmith2161]

I love that you don’t play music during your videos. Thank you so much!

[@ksk881]

My main changes are all around buying stuff. I have my seasonal "boring" capsule wardrobe that I love. I don't need more clothes. I have learned to ask how I can fix something rather than buying new. I have two small amchairs that are so comfortable, but my dear cats scratched them all to heck. I went online and found reasonably priced velvet slip covers. It is a satisfactory solution, and my cats hate velvet. I did invest in a new loveseat, but I found some sticky tape for the edges and back of the loveseat , and the cats hate it! So, I'm learning work-arounds for my home that don't require that i buy something new. Best of all, I'm learning to relax. The last two hours of my day are now TV and Digital free. I turn on some relaxing music designed for cats. We cuddle on the loveseat, and I read to relax before bed. I find that I no longer have to be the go-getter that I've been all of my life. There are so many valuable lessons to learn from minimalism! I hope you have a wonderful time with Sarah. I love her channel, and I'm looking forward to watching you two together!

[@saradarwish8418]

I like to take pictures of stuff I find it nice when I go out . its a way to own the thing but without buying it in real life . The same goes to Art ,plants,cute animals and everything that reminders me of those happy moments in my life

[@stevenponte6655]

I used to get really bad FOMO, but strangely lockdowns changed my mind about it. I really began to enjoy staying home on a sat night either learning something new, reading, or just watching a really good movie. Then when things started to open up i became really selective about where I went and who i went out with.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Ah yes, that's such a great point! 😊

[@sandipeterson3242]

Oh WOW!!! I am so excited to hear that Sarah and Jake will be visiting you!!!! Sarah I have been watching for many years and I have taken a couple of her courses! Love her and her channel💙 I can not wait to see you two together😁

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Ah so cool!! 😄💕

[@AbundantlyMinimal]

There are already so many great questions here! I can't believe I get to finally meet you in person so soon! It will be the best time!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

😍

[@irene2958]

Wow! I'm so happy that you're bringing guests to your channel. My question is: How to be more patient doing something that you don't really enjoy, but is necessary (and patient generally)? ♥️♥️

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much for that interesting question Irene!! :) Have a nice day today!

[@bumblebee_mrs]

Going back to minimalism helped me balance all the parts of my life that were out of wack.

[@feliciag6075]

I'd put 2 thumbs up if i could ! To me these things you talk about really are the essence of intentional living. By the way thank you for your videos and your work. Have a good day (mine started well thanks to youi).

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw thank you so much!!! Happy you enjoyed the video and hope you'll have a nice rest of your day as well :)

[@PartlySunny74]

Simple, tasty and different vegan foods are fun to learn about. Touring your town from afar would be fun too. Even grocery shopping is fun in a different city or country. I hope you and your guests have a wonderful time together!

[@kiki-oh7hi]

GREAT vid, Vera. Thank you! YES to practicality and no one thing will change everything.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks Kiki, glad you enjoyed it! :) Have a great weekend!

[@bethjloveswax]

I love that saying of “joy of missing out.” I just finished a 6 month no buy and there were tons of products and things I was tempted to buy that I had JOMO about. There is a joy that comes with feeling like you have control of your finances and your choices. Thanks for sharing 🤗💚

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Wonderful!!! Thanks for sharing Beth

[@coco85949]

So nice to hear, that you and Sarah are going to meet each other after two and a half years, what a nice event and probably very exciting 🎉 Enjoy your time together ☀️👭

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much Corina!!! 😄🌾 Yes I'm so excited haha

[@unplannedjourneys4066]

I think no 5 is a big shift. Great video

[@joanmayer304]

Your channel is very relaxing to me. I think it is the best channel on minimalism on You tube. It is because of your lovely personality. Thank you for sharing with us. ❤️ from 🇨🇦

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw thank you so much, that's a wonderful compliment 💖🌾🤗

[@TraceB]

Oh I’m so glad that you will get to meet Sarah! You both seem like such sweethearts.

[@pepsicolla123]

Thanks for this video! This inspires me to minimize my belongings as well. This evening I will go through my stuff and I already know what I will decluter 😊

[@SimpleHappyZen]

So cool!! Enjoy the decluttering!

[@rosemarywilliams9969]

Your veidos always bring me back to reality. I'm still trying to find my version of success BUT I have given up on getting more promotions.

[@debfaloon]

I love her also. So glad you are meeting. I love the people I have met from KZbin.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much! Yes it's so special to meet others through here :)

[@lizzabbott]

Oooooh yaaay ! Hi, Vera ! I haven’t been around here in a bit & I’ve been temporarily off your Patreon ( but I love it & I SHALL return .... probably in late Fall). But ... you DO remain as among like my TOP favorite 2 - 4 y’tube channels - amidst ... idk maybe like 30 - 50 channels I watch ( but not ALL of ‘em all the time!). Anyhooo ... I love Sarah’s channel, too. And I remember you commenting to me ( maybe on Patreon) that you two are good friends. I thought that was absolutely wonnnnnnnnderful ! Let’s hear it for Sarah & Abundantly Minimal ! I am thrilled for you guys that she & Jake are visiting you soon ! A dream come true ! Soul Family ! Soul Connections ! Having fun together & supporting each other , learning more about who you are via seeing your reflection in the mirror of this rich friendship. Have a lovely time ! Lots of fun adventures and treasured moments, quiet knowings & silly laughter to you ! For Q & A ... tell me how you two became friends ! I imagine one of you saw the other’s video & it resonated. But let’s hear all about it. What caught your attention, what resonated , what you learned you have in common ( & maybe what you don’t have in common but you learn from it, & it compliments your friendship / bond). How you first reached out to each other ... all that great stuff.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw thank you so much for your kind words!!! :) We did get into these questions in the videos we filmed, looking forward to sharing them with all of you so much!

[@MsDoglover02]

So excited to see you and Sarah next week! I'm not sure which one I met through the other years ago. 🙂

[@helindove2237]

At the beginning of my minimalism journey, I made a folder on my phone. I called it “Window Shopping”. This is where I keep all the photos of things I probably would have bought just to look at and appreciate them. I still like beautiful and/or practical things, but, like Vera said, you can enjoy it in the moment itself and then just let it go because you know you don't NEED it. Question for the Sarah-Vera Q&A: Have you two always had that peaceful, calm vibe? Or did minimalism helped with that? Maybe it cooled down your temperament/enthusiasm a bit at times? In other words, has minimalism changed your character? Enjoy your free time and the time you spend together. Hope you have nice weather. Doei!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much for sharing your experiences, love the window shopping folder idea! :) Also, thanks for your very interesting Q&A question :)

[@sct4040]

I too keep a wishlist photo album, and once in a while, I would go and delete something in that folder. I change my mind so often, that I just know I never needed any of it.

[@PsiologaLilyValentina]

Hi! I can relate so much to your story. I have learned that things do not make me happy and I did not like working at an international corporation -too much stress that drained me. I now live a much more happy life working on what I truly like and only buy what I need. Thank you for this video. Love your channel.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Oh I love that! Thanks so much, have a nice weekend!

[@squenneville1]

I LOVE this idea of JOMO! What a beautiful mind shift. I’m going to start using JOMO ☺️ Thank you for this great tip!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Happy to hear it! :)

[@sallysmith2937]

I just came across your videos today!! Way to go! I had to chuckle when the “really big fly” made a debut. Your voice is so soothing and loving your inspiration! Thank you! 🦋

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Haha aw thank you so much and welcome to the channel! :)

[@vanessafarias2055]

Thank you Vera. This video helped me a lot. I was considering the invitation to a new job to make more money, but I could realize that I am happy and grateful about my current job and this other could be more stressful. I will enjoy the thing that I have now!! Great video!!

[@juliereason112]

I really love your channel! You have such a natural and friendly approach, and so many good ideas that you talk about with great eloquence. Such a pleasure to watch and listen 🙂

[@sunnysideup8283]

I would love for you to tell us briefly (or even as a whole video!) about your life in a Scandinavian country, because for people like me who are from India, life is very very different. Of course I love you minimalism videos but this kind of video would be fun...I think. 😊

[@proverb31girl]

I love the irony of the video being broken up by a loud Wayfair ad yelling at me that I can't miss out on their sale 😂 definitely happy missing out!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Hahaha gotta love the timing 😄

[@Charlie10266]

Your videos are so calm and relaxing, they always bring my anxiety down a few notches. Congratulations on the upcoming collaboration! I can’t wait! 😀🎉 Do you have any tips on minimalism in the technology realm? For example, how do I keep my iPhone and computer storage from maxing out because of the digital clutter.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much, so happy to hear you're enjoying my videos and find them relaxing :) Also thanks for your Q&A question!

[@BalletPink]

Aww, that digital art piece looks beautiful! 😊💕

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw thank you! :) I'm still learning the basics but I'm loving my new hobby so much

[@cheryl8493]

🌼Hi Vera🌺 Beautiful video! I was thinking Gratitude before I tuned in and you basically spoke of being grateful for the important things, the little, non-material things! I so appreciate bringing this mindset with me for the rest of the day! Hope you have a really great time with your friend!!Love & Blessings

[@carolbts3337]

Uhuu!!! So nice to make friends wich common interests! And minimalism, in my opinion, makes us to get to know each other in a more deep sense. Hope you all have fun! Love from Brazil!

[@alonew]

You are such a joy to listen to. Listening to you calms me down. Sometimes I pause the video n think about what you just said 😆

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw that is so nice, thank you 🤗🌷❤

[@cathylynnpietranton]

Hi Vera the answer to your question is for me be more intentionable on what I'm buying. Vera you pick the perfect name for your channel simple happy zen because that's exactly what your channel is about. My question for you when Sarah visits is how does it feel to finally meet Sarah in person after corresponding with her for a couple of years.❤

[@chrstopherblighton-sande2981]

I can really resonate with all the things you mentioned in this video and hearing them makes me so grateful that I discovered minimalism. In addition to the ones you mentioned I changed my mind about holiday decorations and activities. I used to buy lots of decorations to make my house look very festive and I would feel a real pressure to do as many holiday things as possible. But the reality is I actually enjoy the normal rhythms of ordinary day to day life far more and found that I actually was getting stressed about upcoming holidays and all the things I had to do to make them festive. Minimalism has helped me let go of all of that and now I decorate in a minimal way and each holiday (including my favourite: Halloween) is approached much more simply and therefore more enjoyably. 🙂

[@robertashaffer3950]

Wonderful video. Such a peaceful, calm vibe. Thank you for this 🙏🏻

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much! :)

[@serenitynow8021]

I hate that fly!!! Lol--totally felt your pain just then. This video is wonderful and such a good reminder for me, as I find myself mindlessly shopping online....AGAIN. Step 5 speaks to this so well.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Haha happy you enjoyed the video again Carol :) Try working with a wish list for a while. Writing down what you're thinking about buying, or taking pictures of those things in the store, and then thinking about it for a few days first, really helps with mindlessly shopping :)

[@SmileyVegan]

How great that the two of you get to meet in person! I follow her too. 🥰

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Nice!! Yes we're so excited

[@chrisoulalakkas7935]

See it in your mind until it excites and thrills you, and you will most surely hold it in your hands.

[@bollybelly]

Thank you, your videos are so helpful❤

[@teresaromero8655]

Buying only what I absolutely “ need “ it’s been what kept me MINIMALIST. Looking forward to your next video. Great video ! ! ! 🤗🤗🤗

[@shannontalbert888]

Thank you for sharing your journey with us.

[@Vanessa-hv1gy]

Thank you for your videos Vera, there are always so nice to watch ! My question for your next video is : How do you think that Vera's minimalism is different than Sara's minimalism ? Thanks !

[@SimpleHappyZen]

That's a good one, thanks Vanessa!! :) So happy to hear you're enjoying my videos. Take care and have a lovely day

[@fransirahome]

JOMO I need now for myself. Love your video for my self reminder. Thanks😊

[@SimpleHappyZen]

You're very welcome, glad it resonated with you!

[@ronda176]

I hope you and Sarah have a wonderful time together. Looking forward to your Q&A video.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much Ronda!! :)

[@christinejohnson8256]

Your sweater and makeup today are perfect for your coloring. They bring out all your prettiest features ( and you have many!!)

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Aw thanks Christine 🤗💕 Have a lovely day!

[@ginnyburley9552]

I am not a minimalist. I have lots of things around me that are of great meaning and value, and many I’ve had for many years. That being said, I find your principles very sound. I think fomo is a cruel inner master and not buying to fill internal gaps or to fulfill deeper needs is a form of self care.

[@Nadiasalen]

Hi @Simple Happy Zen 🙋🏻 I just came across to your channel by KZbin algorithms . I'm loving to watch your videos and all the great content and perspective you bring to me ... Thank you 😘

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yay, so happy to hear it!! :) Thanks Nadia

[@Robert-qm1ld]

Good morning (afternoon)! After some small amount of thought I have no questions, having acknowledged (to myself) long ago why I participate in this journey of yours. We are (I am) here for your adventure. 😀

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much Robert, I appreciate your support!! 🤗☕

[@joank5585]

I really like the idea of “Jomo”, especially choosing not to do things we really don’t want to do anyway! I never feel good after I’ve done something I was doing just to please others or because I wanted to force myself to be included and not missing out. This is a great way of thinking about “fomo”!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yes! I can definitely relate to that feeling. Something I'm happy to miss out on now 😄

[@fredrikolofsson1972]

I just want to say thank you... you have changed my mind in a positive way :D

[@ELCinWYO]

FOMO is just a modern spin on Keeping up with the Joneses. Both lead to a lot of horrible feelings. We need to learn to be happy with ourselves, or what you called JOMO.

[@Jlm7908]

i really enjoyed this video! thanks for the tips :)

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much Scott :)

[@stephanienoble2926]

I love Sarah, can’t wait for that video! I’ve never heard of Jomo I like that!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yay!! Thanks for looking forward to the video 🤗🌷

[@amyhoover9]

I'd like to think that one's definition of success can change over time... I know that that has been the case for me when it comes to any career goals I have in mind, so I think it'd be interesting to know where you see yourself in 5 or 10 years. Do you think that KZbin will remain a permanent thing for you, or are there other opportunities or projects you'd like to explore in the future beyond KZbin?

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yes, it can totally change over time! Great point :) I've never really been able to answer that question myself, haha. 5 or 10 years from now.... that's a good one :)

[@bodhi9464]

Love this one Vera 🙏🏼🇦🇺🦘🦘💓☀️

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much! :)

[@therealjenniferrr]

Yay awesome you guys are going to get to meet! I follow both of you! Hope yall have a blast!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much Jennifer, we're really having a blast!

[@ivanpadilla4479]

For the Q&A: tips to be less socially awkward since I don’t know much about material things after diving deeper into minimalism.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much for your question Ivan!

[@Fluffcat65]

This Video speaks to me on man's levels. Thank you very much for your beautiful content!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yay, so happy to hear it! :)

[@gillianm9367]

Hi Vera, thank you for your consistently excellent content as once again I find each of your observations resonate so well with my own! I l love your concept of JOMO and also your decision not to buy souvenirs when travelling. I've just finished packing for a short trip and have vowed not to buy any as nothing more stressful than being unable to fit things in your luggage when returning home ! I haven't travelled for 4 years and this is just a few days by train with an itinerary which I'm very excited about as covers my interests of art, nature and history. Looking forward to the next Q & A with your special guest- how lovely it will be for you to meet in person and explore your home town together- enjoy 🌷🌞

[@SimpleHappyZen]

That's awesome Gillian, so excited for you with your trip!! Enjoy :)

[@casebeth]

I really like the JOMO concept for buying things. How does this interface with the geodekoop aspect of Dutch culture?

[@monikaswierk1179]

I love your videos, as always that was great also :-)

[@JaneDoeDoeDeeOhDoe]

They don't sell happiness in stores ... true, true words.

[@lax2469]

Thanks as always

[@sumpitmalay6999]

Can’t wait for you and sarah both in one video 😊

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Me too! 😄

[@ailyn181999]

I really enjoy your videos. I would love more advice on how to finally stop shopping. I have tried to start a low buy but I definitely struggle with online shopping. I think sometimes I shop out of a place of anxiety or boredom and I get tempted with the “sales”. I would love to learn more tips on what really worked for you and if it took you some time to finally break the habit.

[@yangpangan4895]

One of the best youtube videos I watched.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Wow thank you so much!

[@eliwilliamson7849]

I’m so excited for you and Sarah to meet and hang out. Looking forward to your interview.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thanks so much Eli!!! :)

[@mehrinoznurmatova383]

Your videos are always so awesome and so helpful for me 🤗💜💜💜💜💜

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yay, so happy to hear it, thank you!

[@christineschollar1317]

I love your videos and look forward to each one. I am a much older lady (64) and retired but I enjoy all your content. I am not a big shopper, my one weakness is books and I also use my local library regularly. However I often visit friend’s houses and one in particular buys a lot of pretty quirky things, small items not expensive, but I find when I get home I google these items as they are so lovely, often asking where they come from. I have not bought any of it yet, but have come pretty close. How do I avoid this feeling, other than not going to my friend’s house, which isn’t an option as she is my best friend and I love visiting her. xx

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Hi Christine! Thank you so much for your lovely comment! About your question, I would definitely say not to avoid going over to your friend's house haha :) No worries. If you do end up buying something you saw there that you like, I think that's fine. Minimalism isn't about deprivation. It's about finding what adds value for you, and getting rid of what's in the way of that. So maybe you enjoy all of them, but there are 1 or 2 things that seem extra special to you. I would say go for it :) If you would enjoy them, that's perfectly fine.

[@mukundjere9230]

Hi Vera. Hope you are fine. Very simple and firmly answers what questions are in our mind. Enjoy interacting with your new friend. Enjoy moments 🎉🎉

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Thank you so much, have a lovely day!

[@ms.schnapp7415]

Thanks for this video! I've colored my hair twice this year, for a change and I've realized spending $$$ on my hair just feels wrong. My natural hair color looks fine. Because my hair doesn't take color well, I shouldn't try to copy what i see in pictures. Can't wait for your collab with Sarah! How did you two find one another and how did the friendship start? Do you have major different views from one another on minimalism?

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Totally get what you mean :) Als, thanks for the great questions!

[@cinqueterre4060]

I love it. I'm going to experience JOMO on catholosism. I was being told that catholosism is funner than christianity because they have so many celebrations. But I'm sticking to christianity and I love solitude anyway and was feeling stress about becoming catholic because all of the parties I would need to attend.

[@feylights166]

That is so cool that you and Sarah are going to meet! I watch her channel, and here is a question for you both: what are some differences between you two in your approach to minimalism?

[@heidilopez-felix8105]

How exciting I love you both 🥰

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Yay! :)

[@jirihozpodebrad23]

The comment on the big fly got me x-D

[@SimpleHappyZen]

😅😂

[@lindatendron5293]

Hi Vera !Thanks for Charing this video , it’s interesting! All your video are a sense! I would like trying Skill-share !! You are so beautiful person Vera !!!😍🙏

[@jwfehringer]

Regarding #5: I think miniature horses are cute, but it doesn't mean I want one! 😂

[@ProHairMaster]

I think your hair looks really nice today. Can you share what hair care products you are using now?

[@nancycerreta5629]

Looking forward to your video with Sarah.

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Me too!! 😄

[@amandaneale5180]

Will look forward to seeing you and Sarah I also watch Sarah xx

[@davedeal9152]

こんにちは Vera, thanks for another awesome video packed with wonderful reminders. My question for your next video. "How do you find your culture affects your minimalist experience: local/national expectations, mindset, norms etc. (In ways that are perhaps not an issue for minimalists from different nations/cultures.)" Thanks!

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Great question, very interesting! Thanks Dave! 😄

[@bhsprinkle]

Important. I feel left out often. Whether that's activities or things I'd like. I don't feel like I have a very high opinion of my life and probably have depression on top of my anxiety. If you have any advice on how I can do something fun without money, need it.

[@katiemynette4285]

Heart of Kentucky. Hi VERA. Hello there. Could you show what non toxic cleaners we can use in our homes? Thank you. Katie.

[@joank5585]

I forgot to ask how you & Sarah met or got in touch and why? Do you share or bounce ideas off each other. Will you continue to do some videos together on different topics from time to time, which I think would be really cool! 😎

[@SimpleHappyZen]

Great questions, thank you Joan!!! 🤗🌷 Have a nice week