5 Things I Learned About Money From Watching My Parents

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Holy Schmidt!

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Күн бұрын

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@crterwil
@crterwil Ай бұрын
What a great story. Your channel is my favorite when it comes to learning about money. I recognize my mistakes and you always inspire and educate without talking down to anyone. Thank you so much. Merry Christmas to you and yours!🎄
@Colbleep1
@Colbleep1 Ай бұрын
My dad had a subscription to Forbes which I started reading as a kid. I would ask him questions as a result . That started a lifetime of financial education.. A great father and a great friend. I love you still. Cherish your parents. I wish mine were still alive.
@JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up
@JoshuaTrinityWolf-dc4up Ай бұрын
Born in 1959 and I grew up in a business family that pushed for education. Magazines in the 1950's to 1980 would have put our education ahead so god bless your father. When I started dating my girlfriend and future wife in 1979 I was invited to diner at their home where i talked about our business. I could sense the tension and my mother in-law told me that she mentioned money at the diner table and she was given a slap in the face. I found out that it was rude to talk about money and so it's no surprise when I found out that my girlfriends grandparents borrowed money with big HFC loans to boost their image at the Golf Course and pay for expensive clothes and cars. It's rude to talk about money was the message.
@yuckyool
@yuckyool Ай бұрын
My uncle introduced me to Forbes. I learned how to invest, skeptically.
@Batirtze-b6x
@Batirtze-b6x Ай бұрын
Thank you for reminding me how lucky I am. ❤❤❤❤❤❤
@bllackwing
@bllackwing Ай бұрын
My dad always said, "Live below your means," and "Never spend your principal." I've followed these rules the best I can, and now I feel my retirement is now secure.
@lmr691
@lmr691 Ай бұрын
Remember the Christmas Club offered by banks? I saw my Mom do that for us. She was a frugal money manager. We were low middle income with sole income from my dad. After she passed, I found cancelled checks for my tuition. I used the money calculator to convert tuition she paid to today’s cost. Astonished to see it was as expensive then as today. She even sent me monthly cash to spend! My parents gave me the most stable future one would hope for.
@stephencullum8255
@stephencullum8255 Ай бұрын
It is a myth boomers all had it good. Yes the upper middle class to rich did. But not working class boomers. In my early twenties I made more money than most my age and was that rare bird who could live alone. Most had roommates or working spouses. It still took about a week and a half of wages for my efficiency apartment. Buying a house was not that easy either. For one thing interest rates were high. At one time close to 20%. When they had over a decade decline to about 7.5% we thought that was low. House cost close to 4 times my salary, most people more. To buy a house for most was a huge stretch. To survive I had to be frugal and smart with my money. It has never been easy for the working person.
@lmr691
@lmr691 Ай бұрын
@ So true. When we bought our modest new home, interest rate was 9%. It was a right time for us we needed to move near my work and into a safer neighborhood. With keeping a tight budget, I paid off the loan in 7 1/2 years putting every extra cent toward the principal. It was. 15 year loan. Best financial decision we made.
@MOstix13
@MOstix13 Ай бұрын
⁠@@stephencullum8255Your recollection is spot on. I recall almost the same experience. Boomers went through rocky times for sure but what young working people are going through now seems worse.
@DrSchor
@DrSchor 29 күн бұрын
@@stephencullum8255 Isn't everyone a working person?
@stephencullum8255
@stephencullum8255 29 күн бұрын
@@DrSchor Most but not all.
@greybeardbass
@greybeardbass Ай бұрын
My parents had little understanding of money and I ended up supporting my dad at the end of his life. That prompted me to become financially literate.
@pattiellen5339
@pattiellen5339 Ай бұрын
My parents bought an acre of land and built their home in 1970. My dad did as much of the work himself as he could. The total cost of land and house was $19,500. They still live in that house. I remember him saying, “It might seem small now, but it will be the perfect size when all of you kids are grown.” He worked his entire career for Eastman Kodak, we grew most of our food, and all five kids had jobs when we were old enough. The first money I remember earning was picking dew berries and selling them to neighbors. I was probably 10 years old or so. It takes a lot of work to pick a gallon of berries, and that hard work made me hang on to the money.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
great story
@kurtbilinski1723
@kurtbilinski1723 Ай бұрын
Both my parents went through the Depression as kids but were certainly impacted by it. They were always frugal, never used credit cards, and I can't count the number of times I heard "who left this light on?!"
@DavidEVogel
@DavidEVogel Ай бұрын
So true. Many children watched their parents stand ion the bread line during the Great Depression. They learned to be frugal.
@annhysell6064
@annhysell6064 Ай бұрын
Exactly. Still can't help but turn on/off when entering/leaving a room..passed that on to my 19 yr old son. (and he drives my 250,000m Kia Soul). Be well.
@20thcenturyrelic
@20thcenturyrelic Ай бұрын
My dad was born in 1933 and was a kid during the Depression. But the funny thing was, as a teenager, I was the one who went around turning off lights (my mom's training.) One time, he caught me scraping out a margarine container with a spatula and got upset. He told me never to do it again, and I never did in front of him. I think it must have triggered him and reminded him of his Depression childhood. (He didn't punish me or anything. But he was genuinely upset.)
@cropduster8798
@cropduster8798 Ай бұрын
@@annhysell6064 Passed it onto our kids too. Whilst all the neighbours are driving fleeces and flying overseas four times a year we paid off a house that we built in 18 yrs. Still the neihbours are spending like no tomorrow and we are squirreling. Teach your kids to be frugal. It's not something shameful but a valuable skill.
@KR-xv3ko
@KR-xv3ko 26 күн бұрын
My dad was also born in 1933. He was triggered if we didn’t eat every bit of our food, and I mean ALL of it. He would eat an apple down to the seeds, and he ate every tiny bit of chicken until the bones were picked totally clean and then saved them for stock. And every once in a while he get a whole raw russet potato and bite into it like an apple. I asked him when he leaned to eat raw potatoes that way and he said when he was in elementary school that was what most of the kids ate for lunch. I was shocked and he laughed and said that at time he felt lucky because his school provided if for free. He grew up in Pasadena, CA.
@timsilva1944
@timsilva1944 Ай бұрын
How nice of that lady to let you in to see the house! I concur. My parents had a completely different outlook than people today. Both born in 1927. Mom is still of sound mind and laments of where we are today, despite all of the advancements.
@amyyates8273
@amyyates8273 23 күн бұрын
I’m younger than you are but still so lucky that my folks imparted this wisdom. And part of it wasn’t through “boring” lectures but by example. Trying to do the same for my kids.
@user-yj3ob9kd3l
@user-yj3ob9kd3l Ай бұрын
One of the most important pieces of advice from my mom was to pay off the credit card every month. I use my cc for everything to get the bonuses. I've never paid a penny in interest. P.S. I won't pay an annual fee, either. Nope!
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Sound advice
@13thBeatleJr
@13thBeatleJr Ай бұрын
That’s what I’ve always done
@lynnanderson8062
@lynnanderson8062 Ай бұрын
You got it right.
@chiaraperry472
@chiaraperry472 Ай бұрын
Good plan, I put mine on autopay!
@simonthebroken9691
@simonthebroken9691 Ай бұрын
Ok. Who pays for your bonuses? The bank isn't your friend. They don't pay.
@Paul-GrnHil
@Paul-GrnHil Ай бұрын
My dad had an expression regarding buying something on sale that you don’t need. He’d say to my mom” Honey, we can’t afford to save that much”. I’m 67 and still quoting my dad’s wisdom to this day.
@pattiellen5339
@pattiellen5339 Ай бұрын
😂 I love that
@rhondaregister8081
@rhondaregister8081 Ай бұрын
I'm going to use that! Love it.
@Paul-GrnHil
@Paul-GrnHil Ай бұрын
My dad would be proud. Enjoy
@JP-Au-Schulz
@JP-Au-Schulz Ай бұрын
I had an aunt in the banking industry, she taught me everything. She was good, really good with money and investments. I had an early interest in money and investing, she taught me to take a risk or two, something my father would never do, and I did jumped at opportunities, so glad I did. She passed several years and I miss her, her advice and her finical "wit." Your video hit on much of what she said and did. Thank You for sharing. I would not be where I am today without my Aunt Besty.
@woodworker5413
@woodworker5413 Ай бұрын
My father was a frugal child of the Depression. My mother was a spendthrift. My lesson: marry a good manager.
@mikewatson4644
@mikewatson4644 Ай бұрын
Thank you for the videos that you do. My parents were young adults during the depression. Mom was very tight with $$. Dad was excellent at fixing things. I learned a lot of habits from them that have served me well
@Firefighter53
@Firefighter53 Ай бұрын
I also was a teen karate instructor in the 80's. After finishing college with a social science degree, I realized that I may not have a lot of money to work with, so I'd better be smart with the money that I earn. I found a book titled, "The Wealthy Barber" by David Chilton. That book started a change in my life for the better, and I read a few books every year (during the winter weather months). I'm trying to pass on all that I can to our son so that he can prosper as well.
@SuburbanBBQ
@SuburbanBBQ Ай бұрын
This is easily my favorite video of yours. I absolutely loved hearing about your trip back to your old house. Your Mom did a killer job on the woodwork. That was a ton of work and it paid off.
@jennysroad
@jennysroad Ай бұрын
That dining room is stunning.
@Jsfrog
@Jsfrog Ай бұрын
Five things I learned from my parents about money: 1. Live beyond your means. 2. Save nothing. Zero. 3. Buy a huge house. Don't maintain it. Let it fall to pieces over the years. Then get divorced and have TWO houses. 4. Do not plan about money or retirement. Have zero clue about what you will do when you're too old to work. 5. When you do come across a large sum of money (~$1 million), spend it like crazy on stupid stuff so it disappears. My wife and I are fine, but I wish schools taught basic finance and money planning to everyone!
@splitliving
@splitliving Ай бұрын
Schools do! However, it’s an optional (elective) class. Should be mandatory. Maybe in place of one of those useless algebra classes.
@jbalconi9903
@jbalconi9903 Ай бұрын
My two cents: Most of the kids who take the class on real-life math (how interest rates work, taxes, etc.) don't retain it. Kids with part-time jobs or young adults who are financing cars use the skills right away.
@LadyCaroline123
@LadyCaroline123 Ай бұрын
There’s a reason they don’t teach basic money management in school.
@GrannyLinn
@GrannyLinn Ай бұрын
Take the Dave Ramsey course. It’ll undo all that for you!
@jjwintrs
@jjwintrs Ай бұрын
Ouch...sorry to hear! 😮
@timmountford8610
@timmountford8610 Ай бұрын
I wasn't taught about finances growing up. I had to learn on my own. It took me years to learn. So if your a parent please teach your children about finances.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Thanks Tim
@timmountford8610
@timmountford8610 Ай бұрын
@HolySchmidt Your welcome!
@quit2quilt525
@quit2quilt525 Ай бұрын
Often time the parents don’t know. That’s why the cycle of financial irresponsibility goes on. Need to be taught in school instead of teaching children about gender identity.. smh
@staceyford6733
@staceyford6733 Ай бұрын
I wasn't taught either. Like you, I had to learn on my own.
@JohnJohn-wr1jo
@JohnJohn-wr1jo Ай бұрын
​@quit2quilt525 In my opinion it starts much earlier than school age. Kids that are given things early in life without understanding the value or having to earn it are generally being set up for financial issues down the road. It starts as a toddler in the store being granted a toy or treat every time they go in a store. Instant gratification... I've seen it for generations within my own circle of family and friends. It usually becomes a precursor to a lifetime of financial issues
@nunyabidness-y2r
@nunyabidness-y2r Ай бұрын
Going down to the mall, wearing your favorite 501 jeans and your Ralph Lauren polo t-shirt. I feel so called out right now😅
@aytendincel8533
@aytendincel8533 Ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Me too. 😂😂😂
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
I did it too!
@williamfrench3796
@williamfrench3796 Ай бұрын
Hi Geoffrey, I enjoy your videos, expertise, and insights. I learned what not to do from my parents when it comes to saving and investing (i.e., gambling, divorce, poor money management, etc.). A self taught Boglehead who has achieved financial freedom. I also studied/trained in the martial arts - which instilled key life values that promoted personal growth, focus, self-discipline, and positive social behaviors. Keep up the good work!
@salthead3
@salthead3 Ай бұрын
Love the coffered ceiling and the wainscoting. It would cost a fortune to recreate that today, and yet features were common during that era.
@annhysell6064
@annhysell6064 Ай бұрын
Exactly how my parents taught me..I'm still frugal and have invested well since my late 20's. (Born 1967). Friends wonder how I am retired now. My father has passed, he left mom all set following a long career working for Cleveland Electric Illuminating. I'm mom's caregiver, and we still scrutinize every expense. Love your channel and recommend to everyone. Thank you. Happy Holidays.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Thanks for the kind words and comment
@wilsontaylor234
@wilsontaylor234 Ай бұрын
My parents were born during the 30's, so they were greatly affected by the depression. I can still remember my mom telling me to save for a rainy day, because rainy days will come. I grew up on a farm and started working for a neighbor on his farm during the summers when I was 7. I always saved what I made, so that I would have spending money until I work again the next summer. The other thing that I learned was that I didn't want to farm for the rest of my life. I wanted a job that I could use my brain instead of my back to make a living.
@cheryldunaway9177
@cheryldunaway9177 Ай бұрын
I accidentally fell into a programming career before I knew what computers were about. I lived as my parents taught me, beneath my means. 40 years later, I’m retiring - not wealthy but comfortably. (Which is wealthy to me). 😊
@EJJ-EvArms
@EJJ-EvArms Ай бұрын
You've aced it. For a long time. Congratulations.
@SusanVornov
@SusanVornov Ай бұрын
I've sent this video to my son since you recap many of the things we've told him through the years. We didn't live through the depression, but we remember the Carter years stagflation all too well.
@RC-eb5hq
@RC-eb5hq Ай бұрын
My parents lived through the Depression, AND I was a teenager during stagflation. First time my parents became involved in local political meetings..they realized they couldn't afford to leave the same people in power who created the problem!! 🤔
@LTVoyager
@LTVoyager Ай бұрын
Speaking of things learned long ago that still apply today is one thing I learned in high school writing and speech classes that seems to be completely absent on social media today and this video is a great example of that loss. What is I am talking about is the mantra my English teacher had that went something like this “Tell them what you plan to tell them, then tell them, then tell them what you told them.” Videos like this just cry out for an introduction that says “I am going to discuss five things I learned from my parents” and then list those five things. Then go through the five as the video does, but then at the end summarize all five again. This greatly increases retention of information, but I see virtually nobody on KZbin who does this.
@EJJ-EvArms
@EJJ-EvArms Ай бұрын
Excellent advice and I remember this well from my own writing classes.
@tammy9964
@tammy9964 Ай бұрын
In 1971, my mother and I visited Oakland, CA. I got to see Jack London Square. It was very exciting time. We visited my cousin who lived in Walnut Creek, CA. Love the home you grew up in. It looks like it is a Craftsman. Thank you for today’s video. Merry Christmas 🎄🎁
@joeysocks5718
@joeysocks5718 Ай бұрын
Really enjoyed hearing about you and your past . Thanks for sharing
@auntiesam8489
@auntiesam8489 Ай бұрын
I enjoy every video of yours that I can watch. This one is my favorite so far. Thank you. MERRY CHRISTMAS 🎉❤
@take5th
@take5th Ай бұрын
I have tried to keep my parents’ money ideas intact and pass along to my kids. It has been a great help. The depression was a clarifying event for them.
@sharonjones6622
@sharonjones6622 Ай бұрын
Great to know you are from Oakland, growing up in Qakland gives you character and allows you to move in the world fearlessly!
@HeatherCampbell-kc7fx
@HeatherCampbell-kc7fx Ай бұрын
My parents didn't teach me anything about money. Learned it myself from books at the library.
@arthurbishop3173
@arthurbishop3173 Ай бұрын
Same here. My parents were hippie musicians who ignored money and treated it like it was bad.
@Sasa-pm7jc
@Sasa-pm7jc Ай бұрын
Yup!! I lived in that era too. Be Unfortunately that was ME!!!​@@arthurbishop3173
@Mimi-ry4dt
@Mimi-ry4dt Ай бұрын
Thanks for the video & sharing childhood stories. Beautiful home you lived in with your parents years ago.
@gregmccarter3243
@gregmccarter3243 Ай бұрын
What a wonderfull story ...thanks for sharing.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
You are welcome Greg
@Qrail
@Qrail 2 күн бұрын
My parents, born in the 1930’s, didn’t really give me financial information. My Dad bought a new car every 8 years, and in 1962, he bought a fixer-upper house for $28,000 on 2 acres in the Bay Area. In 1972, a house in Alviso new was $137,000. Now both of those houses are $3.5 mil, and $650k. My friend Al has always rented an apartment for the last 40 years. Is he smart? His longevity has allowed him to be paying about 1/2 the cost of the current rent. Finally, sticking with a career, or a company has rewards. 4 of us got together for breakfast recently. We are all retired, now, but we have 119 years between us at a place that was inaugurated in 1973. Thank you for your video content. Keep teaching, and we the viewers will keep trying to learn.
@rachaelnuchols764
@rachaelnuchols764 Ай бұрын
What a great experience to have and a special photo❤. Thank you for sharing 😊
@buyerclub2
@buyerclub2 Ай бұрын
Hey, I have watched your videos for quite a while but I think this is my first comment. There wre two things I really loved about this one. That picture of the hands and feet for mutigenrations and that story about yhou going back to the home that you grew up at. So glad it continued to be taken well care of. Have a good holiday. I too use Boldin, and do beleive it is of good vaue for the $. Thanks for sharing
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
My pleasure. Thanks for the comment
@waterbug1135
@waterbug1135 Ай бұрын
As a little kid I was with my Dad buying a new car. In the office negotiating the price the dealer was kept talking about floor mats and undercoating and my kind of screamed "I don't care about the price. Just tell me how much per month!" If as a little kid I knew about interest cost. Mom and Dad were always buying on credit. I never bought a car on credit and have never paid interest on a credit card. Home mortgage is the only credit I've ever used. Thanks Dad.
@billimbriale
@billimbriale 27 күн бұрын
Mr. Schmidt, one topic that I have not seen addressed anywhere is how to assess what shape your retirement is in when you are in it. For example, you are married and both are retired. You are 72 years old and have a retirement account and income from Social Security or Annuities. How can they assess their position? There are tons of videos and other sources to help those about to retire, but what about when you are further along? Thanks for the great work you do on this channel.
@donbain5375
@donbain5375 Ай бұрын
Beautiful video. Well done. Thank you, Geoff.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Thanks Don
@DavidEVogel
@DavidEVogel Ай бұрын
I watched my parents do cash envelope stuffing. $20/payday for car maintenance, $10/payday for house maintenance, $5/payday for property taxes. There never was a money emergency. The needed cash was always in the envelopes.
@commonsense6967
@commonsense6967 Ай бұрын
The Dave Ramsey method, lol.
@jjwintrs
@jjwintrs Ай бұрын
@@DavidEVogel I did that when I was first on my own and cashed a paycheck each week.
@BrndshTV
@BrndshTV Ай бұрын
I have the "spend on what you need only" and save all of the rest.
@maaxt
@maaxt Ай бұрын
Geoff, this video should be shown in high schools. Excellent points. I did not mind the brief commercial in exchange for the invaluable advice over the years
@reneb6702
@reneb6702 Ай бұрын
Sweet story with a nice lesson wrapped in there...thank you ❤
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
My pleasure
@henrycarlson7514
@henrycarlson7514 Ай бұрын
So Wise , Thank You .
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
You're very welcome
@richb1576
@richb1576 Ай бұрын
My dad taught me how to fix things. He would never buy anything twice. Buy once, fix when needed was his motto
@robedmund9948
@robedmund9948 Ай бұрын
Nice! My dad taught me to buy the tools to fix whatever it was yourself. That way you new the quality of the work AND you got new tools!!
@richb1576
@richb1576 Ай бұрын
@@robedmund9948Getting new tools is always good.
@rhondaregister8081
@rhondaregister8081 Ай бұрын
My father retired while I was in high school, he was 11 years older than my mother. I had my heart set on a new VW Bug convertible in the showroom at our local dealer - I just had to have it. I asked my dad to lend me the money (a little over $3,000 at that time) - (I was working and would pay him back). He said no. Thought I could wear him down so badgered him for several days - he still said no. Years later I asked him why he didn't lend me the money. He said he knew I would always drive with the top down and if I got into an accident and the car rolled, I would have been killed.
@martyb3783
@martyb3783 Ай бұрын
Great video with great information. I learned allot from my parents, unfortunately it was learning from their mistakes. I am lucky in that regard as I am quite comfortable financially. As a former Coastie myself, tell your dad I said "Semper Paratus!"
@fredesch5133
@fredesch5133 Ай бұрын
I never wanted to follow my parent's financial plans. They believed in always buying the biggest house you could afford. I got good financial information from taking a college course - Personal Finance offered by the business school for non-business majors. One of the five most useful college courses I took.
@user-yx3zl4kh8h
@user-yx3zl4kh8h Ай бұрын
Stability was a full pantry, DIY repairs, and not being wasteful.
@jjwintrs
@jjwintrs Ай бұрын
Hello from Oakland! Lived 30 years near Oakland High & had to sell the family's apartment building in the last year. Thanks for sharing your personal story. 😊
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
my pleasure. Great to see a comment from Oakland!
@Honestandtruth007
@Honestandtruth007 Ай бұрын
It's nice to know You are from the 80's.........and ..... me too graduated 87 😅❤😅 I just love those days songs
@rachelr9272
@rachelr9272 26 күн бұрын
Class of 1987!!!
@msmiller57
@msmiller57 Ай бұрын
4 channels Geoff - don't forget PBS...🙂
@michaelswami
@michaelswami Ай бұрын
Before it went totally woke.
@daniellecomeau2996
@daniellecomeau2996 Ай бұрын
We had 6....PBS, ABC, NBC, cbs, 38 and 56
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi Ай бұрын
My family was poor and we only had three channels and yes, they were only black and white😂😂😂😂😂
@timsilva1944
@timsilva1944 Ай бұрын
Yep. As a child, YOU were the remote control.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Ha! Of course!
@martyi398
@martyi398 Ай бұрын
I learned more from my grandparents that lived through the Great Depression, my parents were good people although they lived beyond their means & paycheck to paycheck, it was feast or famine in our house my mother was only able to go to the store every couple of weeks and picking up essentials eggs, milk & bread the alternate week, so we (brothers & sisters) grew up hungry a lot of the time, taught me I had to start working young to help with the essentials I needed although it was difficult watching my friends go off to college & enjoy recreation while I had to go to work!
@Five0Music
@Five0Music Ай бұрын
That these former “standards” have been forgotten are at the very base of the “retirement crisis” that exists today. I learned by watching my parents NOT follow these wise paths, and how their lives looked because of it. Through the works of financial writers like Larry Burkett, I gained financial knowledge that my grandparents called common sense. When I was foolish, I paid the price. When I was wise, I benefitted. I now remember the Foolish starts with F, like Fly. Wise starts with W, like Walk. Where I’ve Flown with Foolishness, I Failed. Where I’ve Walked with Wisdom, I’ve Won. Financial security is, indeed, a marathon… but slow and steady wins that race. If you don’t understand these 5 points, even if you manage to get rich quick, you’ll get poor just as quickly afterwards. I hope this video is shared far and wide with younger people. It is so needed today.
@chiaraperry472
@chiaraperry472 Ай бұрын
Great financial advice and support from my mom and dad… -savings account started in my name at 6 years old to save my allowance -working to get paid, chores or a job -investing advice, start early in your 401k, save consistently. -college debt free- thanks Mom and Dad, (in state tuition) -make your own money, have accounts in your name (I am a woman), I had a checking account at 13 Yrs old -don’t be married to a car payment. I have passed this along to my children.
@RC-eb5hq
@RC-eb5hq Ай бұрын
Same here. The second I could write my own name, dad trotted me down to the bank to open my own account! I understand why...he was 9 yrs old when the market crashed in 1929 and never had a full 3 meals a day after that until he entered the army at age 22.😢
@marymorris7423
@marymorris7423 Ай бұрын
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@dianediliberto1876
@dianediliberto1876 Ай бұрын
Thank you for another informative video.
@dukaka2kaka886
@dukaka2kaka886 Ай бұрын
Great story about the home in Oakland. Great advice.
@esthernoel3793
@esthernoel3793 Ай бұрын
Thanks Geoff!
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
My pleasure Esther
@TheNeighbor-s3s
@TheNeighbor-s3s Ай бұрын
I can remember taking an annual 45 minute bus ride into the city for school shopping. Grammy came along and treated us all to lunch at Stauffers where they had white linen napkins and stemware. Wow! Since the school clothes required effort to procure, we cared for them like a precious commodity.
@edl1957
@edl1957 Ай бұрын
What I learned from my parents who were immigrants and experienced the depression: 1. Live within your means. 2. Persevere. 3. Be patient.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Sound advice
@brookemiller7230
@brookemiller7230 Ай бұрын
The East Bay was a great place to grow up. I grew up there too, and still live in the Bay Area.
@idamariarosenberg8659
@idamariarosenberg8659 Ай бұрын
The house you lived in at one time looks beautiful!
@curlyb4c95
@curlyb4c95 Ай бұрын
I grew up extremely poor. Didn’t like it. Made sure I did everything to change that. Which I did. Poverty and lack are no fun. Trust me.
@hilarytorres5361
@hilarytorres5361 Ай бұрын
Thanks!
@glennlarson9343
@glennlarson9343 Ай бұрын
Beautiful home. Similar to ours in NE. Bungalow
@digitalcanvas4444
@digitalcanvas4444 Ай бұрын
Excellent video. Thank you.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@C2yourself
@C2yourself Ай бұрын
My dad grew up in Oakland/Piedmont, parents worked very hard and owned a meat market, had a decent hike like the one you grew up in. Later as an adult my dad owned a couple old houses and fixed them up. They all had a strong work ethic, invested in real estate and lived a nice lifestyle
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Very nice!
@lovethomassowell
@lovethomassowell Ай бұрын
Thank you for another well-crafted video. Excellent point about the forced-savings benefits with buying a home. My parents unfortunately taught us what not to do. Triple mortgages on a giant house they couldn't afford even with one mortgage. Later, my siblings and I heard at the last minute that the house was up for a sheriff's sale due to unpaid debt. It almost bankrupted us kids trying to help them save the house. It made us kids very frugal in life and thankfully we are all retired now and financially independent. My kids know about the importance of financial planning and have a positive and growing net worth.
@gregoryholliday6017
@gregoryholliday6017 Ай бұрын
501's. Gotta Luv them.
@garyharper2943
@garyharper2943 Ай бұрын
The only thing I learned from my parents about money is they didn’t have any and I knew I wanted some.
@nellie...
@nellie... Ай бұрын
Interesting thanks for sharing.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
You bet
@markp4967
@markp4967 Ай бұрын
Love your content Holy Schmidt. KZbin makes your vids almost unwatchable with all the forced promotions and advertisements. Damn shame...
@Lion_McLionhead
@Lion_McLionhead Ай бұрын
Their gig was passive income from high yield bonds. Suspect the passive income from high interest rates has joined pension plans in valhalla.
@tsteur
@tsteur Ай бұрын
I was never taught any financial literacy and learned what not to do to prepare for retirement
@canileaveitblank1476
@canileaveitblank1476 Ай бұрын
My parents advice: *I’ll give you something to cry about!* *If it weren’t for you damn kids!*
@aliciasteele1278
@aliciasteele1278 Ай бұрын
Great Video Geoff! Best advice.."best kind of debt is no debt". Merry Christmas, 'All The Best in 2025!
@mitchburk5112
@mitchburk5112 Ай бұрын
My depression era raised parents were tremendous savers but completely refused to invest, putting everything in cd's. They had a comfortable life but could have had so much more by taking on some moderate amount of risk.
@jasonmalstrom1043
@jasonmalstrom1043 Ай бұрын
I thik the biggest difference between my silent generation parents and I have been that they were very risk adverse in investing throughout their lives, while I've been comfortable investing a large perecentage into index funds. Right now for me renting makes more sense for my lifestyle, and I do invest the different between rent and total home ownership costs in order to avoid lifestyle inflation and to help mitigate the financial damage of not having property.
@mikepiper6077
@mikepiper6077 Ай бұрын
There is a phenomenon where great grandparents create wealth by the time it gets to grandchildren the wealth has been squandered. The 4th generation starts from scratch. I seen this personally. Luckily with Devine help was able to.implememt course corrections. Still made mistakes but learned along the way
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Thanks for the comment Mike
@glennet9613
@glennet9613 Ай бұрын
An old expression is “rags to rags in three generations”
@michelem226
@michelem226 Ай бұрын
I'm in my 40s and have never owned a home, because I move a lot. And, yes, I invest quite a bit of excess. I probably won't own until I retire. I'm hoping to pay cash at that time.
@NatesRandomVideo
@NatesRandomVideo Ай бұрын
“You might remember tulip mania from 1636…” Can’t say as I can. Tad too far back. 😂
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Admittedly, I might have worded that differently.
@NodrogMacphee
@NodrogMacphee Ай бұрын
The trouble with sticking with one career these days is if the world goes sideways and leaves all your skills redundant . IT guys have found this to their cost
@jackie0604oxon
@jackie0604oxon Ай бұрын
That's a very interesting video, thank you. My parents lived through wartime rationing in the UK, mum was very frugal with the household budget. She made a lot of our clothes and mended them, also knitted for us too. She taught me how to sew and knit, I still do a lot of knitting, also mending by hand and with my sewing machine. She also cooked almost everything from scratch, something that I do as well.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Great story- thanks for posting!
@paliacho9
@paliacho9 Ай бұрын
Love the vids. Thank you for them. I'm 60 and dont want to be here in the northeast. If i plan to leave within 3 years, wouldn't you agree that i should rent an apartment and not buy at these high prices? Ive gone over the rent vs buy scenarios and sometimes i can convince myself to buy, a day later to rent. Im in a cheap room and really need something more comfortable just for mental and physical reasons alone. Anybody have any advice?
@thomasmoshier3920
@thomasmoshier3920 Ай бұрын
Some months after the purchase of our home. My wife found a hidden lingerie box and inside was a leather corset. Immediately she accused me of all manner of impropriety. My impassioned pleas of innocence to no avail. Upon further inspection of the box however, I found a note that stated this was purchased by the previous owner as a Valentine’s Day gift to his wife. And no, I never received an apology…..
@kurtbilinski1723
@kurtbilinski1723 Ай бұрын
You expected an apology... I'm sorry... that you expected one :)
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi
@Scotty2hotty-xc6gi Ай бұрын
I think the reason a lot of parents didn’t teach their children about money in the 50s and 60s and 70s was because those parents never had much money⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️⁉️
@donhebel1011
@donhebel1011 Ай бұрын
We sure never had much extra at any given time, especially while raising kids through recessions and layoffs.
@theresavasek4780
@theresavasek4780 Ай бұрын
Child of 50s and 60s, adult in the 70s onwards... Maybe my parents didn't have alot of money, every cent was squeezed for all it was worth. 9 kids. Grew up in a nice home, in a nice part of town. All us kids learned financial lessons that have served us well through our adult years.
@Flownthecoup23
@Flownthecoup23 Ай бұрын
Sadly, I received no financial education from my parents. I grew up forfeiting my financial future always being in debt. I no longer live that way…better late than never 😊
@lynnanderson8062
@lynnanderson8062 Ай бұрын
I learned about money by asking questions...many questions,
@Ripplesinthewaters
@Ripplesinthewaters Ай бұрын
Your parents got a Victorian in Oakland for $70,000????? Geez!!! My parents bought a much smaller house near LA in 1987 for $142K. Oakland is not a nice place to live anymore. What a beautiful house!!!! I love the wood. We used to own a Craftsman house in Ontario that had woodwork just like that. Curious: where do you live now? Do you own an old house? Have a great new year!
@kimwieczorek1879
@kimwieczorek1879 Ай бұрын
So you're a black belt?! Thats cool😅❤
@dolfinwriter5389
@dolfinwriter5389 Ай бұрын
I wish I could have afforded 501 jeans and Ralph Lauren shirts when I was in HS. As for lessons learned, we haven't YET learned after almost 100 years since the 1929 crash, to BAN margin!
@stevenweiss2148
@stevenweiss2148 Ай бұрын
My friend moved to Oakland California..he was having a hard time finding a job...3 months later he called and said he got a job...as a tailgunner on a Oakland school bus
@MAMAGGray
@MAMAGGray Ай бұрын
I am from Texas Louisiana Arkansas and Mississippi
@splitliving
@splitliving Ай бұрын
Use it up, wear it out, do without. And pay cash.
@kellykersten8828
@kellykersten8828 Ай бұрын
My mom taught me, I taught my kids, they're teaching their kids. Money; spend some save some give some away
@markbernier8434
@markbernier8434 Ай бұрын
I was very lucky to be instructed in how the stock market worked when I was about 10 or 12 by a family member. Those lessons have served well from then past my retirement age.
@marilynm5024
@marilynm5024 Ай бұрын
Live below your means. Be content with what you have. Don't try to keep up with other people. Save for a rainy day. Prepare for the what ifs. A used car bought with cash is so much better than a new car bought with a bank loan.
@HolySchmidt
@HolySchmidt Ай бұрын
Well said
@July.4.1776
@July.4.1776 Ай бұрын
Dad always said ….. “It’s not how much you make it’s how much you don’t spend” ….. RIP
@beaversstumpgrinding3352
@beaversstumpgrinding3352 29 күн бұрын
If in 1880 you owned 20 silver dollars or a single 20 dollar gold coin the trade was equal, but now a tube of 20 silver eagles cost about $680ish, where that 20 dollar gold coin is $2800ish.
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