5 Things Men Do When They Fall in Love (In ORDER!)

Learn some KEY WAYS to tell if a guy is falling in love (and what he experiences as he becomes emotionally invested in you) ❤️
How do men fall in love? How can I tell if he loves me? What are signs that a guy is falling for me? I get asked questions like these ALL THE TIME by clients, students and women in my life... so I created a video explaining the 5 things that men do as they climb the "emotional ladder" of love with a woman so you can tell if a guy is falling for you... or not :)
TIMELINE
1:35 - 1) He Quickly Sees Your Truth
2:34 - 2) He Courts You
3:32 - 3) He Claims You
4:27- 4) He Fixates on You a Little
6:22 - 5) He sees a Future with You Without Fear
7:33 - What You Can Do to Encourage His Love
9:21 - Recap of Important Points
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[@brendagriffin880]

My husband did exactly what you said in this video. We were married for 37 years until he died from cancer. I miss him like crazy! 👍

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@staceyg.6640]

1. Quickly sees your truth. 2. He will court you, focused intention to win your heart. 3. He claims you as his woman. 4. He fixates on you a little. 5. He sees a future with you without fear.

[@cbebop5]

Thank you!!!

[@AK03705]

Thank you 🙂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

So sweet thanks for sharing! its a great connection 😊

[@EllePlowPlow]

This new guy Im dating feels like the one. Let’s see how he checks out 😊 #1 - ✅ “He sees your truth” He saw straight to who I am from the first time we met. I always feel like I can be myself with him. #2 - ✅ “he courts you” (There were obstacles to us dating but he didnt let it get in his way and fought those obstacles for months & consistently pursued me so that we could date) #3 - “He Claims You” (We only just started dating so It’s to early to tell) #4 - “He fixates on You” (Still to early to tell) #5 - “He See’s A Future With You” (we shall see 😊)

[@EllePlowPlow]

He’s also there for me whenever I need anything. 😊

[@kathyfindlay9468]

I love my man been here. For 7 years yet its call about money he got some from someone else she thinks sheschisxqueen

[@kathyfindlay9468]

I need hers and try that I never sent him any

[@GenRN]

Well, how did it go?

[@EllePlowPlow]

@@GenRN well, sad to say but he was a narcissist butthole who love bombed me. I broke it off with him a few weeks after posting this and never looked back. Lol

[@ChilledOut]

My ex did all these things over a couple of months, and I was enjoying the ride, then booom he broke up with me because he wanted time to do his own thing… so confusing 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@janicerockwell8417]

Married young, you need time alone to grow. Don't wait too late.

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[@yellowtheresunshine]

All of these points can also apply to becoming involved with a narcissist. How to tell the difference?

[@dsmusicbird]

Hello. So with a Narcissistic Personality, the love stages will not last. It will not be consistent for very long. It turns sour slowly. You also, can feel it in time that there really is no real, meaningful connection. He'll intellectually know you, but there's always gonna be something missing, lacking and you can feel it. So take a little time with this person. Be sure you're grounded with yourself.

[@drama2u]

Watch his other video about players

[@gingygirl4638]

Because the term narcissist is way overused, and extremely rare. I would go as far as saying narcissism is made up.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing! I appreciate your opinion on this!

[@marshahargrave9932]

Thank you Mat, There is someone in my life that initiated our relationship from the start. I did nothing. I had no intention of opening this part of my heart ever again. I believed it would kill me, to have to go that level of pain again at this age & stage of my life, so I cauterized my heart & numbed it with drugs for a few years. Well, God had other plans, & decided it was time for me to feel again, & has circumcised my heart, for it’s bleeding pain again from this man who promised with every beautiful word he use, that he was different, & he would never do to me what these other men did. I still talk to him, but I don’t know what I’m doing

[@deloresmcdowell7035]

I can relate. At this stage right now.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

My pleasure! :) Don’t give up on love sister! :)

[@aleewoolley]

Eye opening. Thank you. “You deserve to be treated this way.” I don’t think my last person felt anything of these things (or I was too fixated on “where is this going?” and pushed him away). He moved on, and sounds like energetically it’s time for me to do so too. Thanks for this!

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@@bolajiamele8200 clearly you did not read what I wrote. Please quit trolling and trying to take advantage of people.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Happy I could be of help. :)

[@Secret-sw8ih]

This is accurate. I have a long distance thing with someone but these things can be said for both of us....we both ...are moving in this direction. I'm gonna enjoy the ride.. who knows but it's nice to have this with someone who I liked initially. I definitely notice these signs, even I'm the one who might not be too scared of commitment.... hypothetically... And I think I'm the commitment phobe...the woman :)

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[@maureenfeeny3895]

Congrats whose the guy? What’s his name

[@Secret-sw8ih]

@@maureenfeeny3895 Thanks Maureen. Let's see. Only problem is he doesn't live in the same country as me, but we've been in touch virtually for a few years now! Mat - Is that a problem or has that ever worked out for someone? :/

[@lauriemiddleton6883]

Thanks Mat! I am on this journey…your course has allowed me to encounter and enjoy this love. We are in stage 5 and it is a beautiful experience. I feel love flowing from him to me and from me to him. The self love/beliefs that I have learned to create for myself have been INSTRUMENTAL in this process. ❤️Sending blessings to you! Ladies…you GET to do this work with Mat. It will change your life! I can’t wait to see you all on his live coaching calls. I will be there cheering you on, supporting you, and sending you all of my love!!!🙏❤️

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[@linagirl8817]

So happy for you! I’m hoping for the same 🥰

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you for your kind words, they truly touch my heart!

[@lauriemiddleton6883]

@@Mat_Shaffer Update: Brett and I went to Europe last month and he proposed! I was surprised and am truly happy! This work WORKS❤️ Laurie

[@monarchreject]

I think that there needs to be a follow up video of what to look for that ends up being love-bombing that can lead to abuse. I had all of this in a few months and then it turned into a nightmare…

[@Mat_Shaffer]

discernment is critically important too! totally agree with you there!

[@girl_video-Joy]

@@Mat_Shaffer hi how about if man I meet online. How will I know his sincere in his words?

[@chosenlee3223]

Everything you said is on point. I’m experiencing them from my man right now. And I am just loving it.

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Wonderful!

[@anneschu9363]

Very informative in a nicely brief way that is easily understandable for anyone. I love how the speaker/teacher gets really into it. It is obvious he is passionate in what he does and helping others in their love journey. Beautiful! Thank you Mat Shaffer! :) Keep it up!

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad it was helpful!

[@pricesunbury59]

We have #1, #2,#3,#4,#5. We have all these. ❤

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I’m so happy for you my dear!

[@pricesunbury59]

Thank you Mat

[@pattithornton64]

I'm new to dating coming out of a 36 year marriage. My question is...Is it normal for a guy to date you for a few weeks and then go completely cold and not hear from him for a few day...No text messages or phone calls.

[@zurigee6]

Be very careful they prey on newly divorced ppl who are naive to dating. Words mean nothing. Guard your heart.

[@bonniebonaduce7859]

Keep it moving, sister. He's either not really interested, or he's playing one of the many games guys play to get you to fixate on them. Sadly, it works...when you don't know any better. I was married 35 years and then had to learn all the lessons the hard way. I dated a seemingly great guy for 7 months and he did all the things Mat listed here...and then he dumped me the day before Thanksgiving (which we planned to spend at my house) and never called me again. You never truly know what is in another persons mind.

[@andreaac4499]

Oh, you met a ghost :/ those are good for nothing. It's pretty common nowadays

[@margaretmiller4718]

No it's not! Until you know what he is like no sex because men now day's don't seem to have a moral compass when it comes to that.

[@Mayfloweralways]

Steve Harvey said it best. “Men don’t do on and off. If he’s off with you, he’s on with someone else, no matter what he tells you.” Just know it takes months to really know a man”s intentions. It’s like trusting someone with your wallet. No sir. No full trust from me until you’ve shown you can be trusted

[@Dizzy_Dayzy]

This explains alot! They will come on so strong that it freaks me out but now I get it. It can be a bit too sudden though, because I need information about them and their life before trusting that being in love with them and accepting them as my own will not turn out to be a bad idea. Meeting someone and being infatuated with that person is one thing; truly knowing what type of situation awaits you in a real relationship with that person can be quite another and the only way to be sure is not to depend solely on your potential partner's words and actions towards you during courting, but to have deeper insight into their way of life, and to find out their expectations from you once you become their partner because behavior during the courting stage frequently does not always (or usually) match their behavior after the courting stage has gone into the commitment stage and you each assume the role of a dedicated partner. (That's due to their upbringing and tends to be engrained into their psyche very deeply, although it may or may not be the way they are in their committed relationships, it usually is, for each partner.)

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Wonderful! I’m so glad this helped you!

[@AlejandraGomez-wk4xz]

Thank you so much! I couldnt tell if he is interested on me or not. I saw many coaches and you just hit the nail! 👌

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you!! ❤️‍🔥

[@jinna0512]

What a truth-speaker!!! Thanks Mat! I love your sweet spirit and passion for sharing knowledge. You are a very effective teacher and your enthusiastic heart encourages me each time I see a new video… or re-watch one. Lol I didn’t know at 60 that I’d find myself adored finally, for me! Mat, the truth is and you said it, authenticity is NOT an option, it is a requirement because the right person has the special “eyes” to see us and like us because the us we are… is like no one else in existence. He said, “I like you. I like you for you.” Transforming words right there! Thanks so much for sharing this list. Hits the mark! ❤️❤️❤️

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you so much Jinn, I really appreciate hearing that from you!

[@naomia472]

1. Sees your truth 2. Courts u 3. Claim u 4. Fixate on u 5. Future without fear

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for dropping by and sharing your thoughts! So happy this hit the spot for you. 😉

[@keishalenoir9777]

Thanks Mr Mat love your speakings all five pass with 🌟 been knowing my future husband since I was 16 I'm 40 now and we're finally deciding to move forward with our life as I was living in fear and doubts but I am grown wise beautiful and intelligent & releasing all of that bad energy and starting to accept what is good for me and walk in faith and not fear Give all thanks to my heavenly father and for all the good wonderful speakers that have been speaking the gospel word and more🌟 God bless everyone without Christ I wouldn't be who I have became. Amen💖 Amen💖

[@Mat_Shaffer]

AMAZING love blossoms at all ages! Congratulations! And thank you

[@EllePlowPlow]

Ooo!! Let’s see how my new guy checks out 😊 #1 - ✅ #2 - ✅ #3 - to early to tell #4 - still to early #5 - we shall see 😊

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Wonderful! I’m so glad this helped you!

[@rilalabingbing]

Amazing. Thank you. Especially for giving me the permission to accept and enjoy being loved. Many beautiful blessings for you of love, joy, health and prosperity.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Your kind words touch my heart

[@jasonrowlin8833]

This is so true .. I have this with my girlfriend that I love so much she’s so beautiful and amazing to me.

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Hello dear let me introduce you to someone who help me restore back my relationship back

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[@stainy14]

Well done Mat for sharing this. A truly wonderful take on how a man "rises in love". Very profound. Thank you. This is going to be so great for the collective...and with the course you are smashing it.... Namaste'

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you enjoyed it! And love having you in the course!!

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[@cherylmays2063]

I am so glad I’ve found all your videos. This has helped me 1000%

[@salimbishir7455]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad to help!

[@EmilyGloeggler7984]

Inaccurate - These also are warning red flags aka bad signs from stalkers and unwanted guys you don’t want to be with. Had to learn that the hard way, and I’m glad I did.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@gyans.tomasic6134]

I am at no 2 and so far it seems too good to be true.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I'm happy this resonated with you

[@lisaboettger755]

Met my new love on a dating app and NEVER thought it could happen for me again after getting divorced after 26 years.

[@lisaboettger755]

Happened in this order and now we are engaged ❤️

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Thanks for sharing

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Good video..love ur Teachings..love u lots ❤

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Ready to learn from different perspectives.

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Question i have a couple

[@trickyzenmom]

I had this with my last ex...it was 3 years in bliss!!! But no long term commitments for him as in living together or marriage. Was really tough to move on 😪 Back wading thru the jerk pool now.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@Thenoobestgirl]

He's already told me he loves me (apparently the 36 questions to create love work lol), but practically he's so far done 2/5 from this list.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Good.

[@Thenoobestgirl]

@@Mat_Shaffer I don't remember when exactly I posted this, but we broke up about 4 months in because he wasn't giving as much as he was taking, so.... 😂🤷🏻‍♀️

[@diannahall7727]

Very interesting. I do have someone that seems like they are falling for me, but they seem to constantly mess up on the 2nd one. They never plan things, it's like they expect me to do all the planning.

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He doesn't like you that much.. then u think

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@brynndockstader6549]

Mat: Another outstanding video. The collective will benefit greatly from your experience. Keep them coming!!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

so glad you enjoyed it! :)

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

I so appreciate you saying that - that was so sweet of you!

[@mrs8792]

I can’t stand being texted by men. If you care anything about me, take the time to call me.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@lisam6907]

Great content! I’ve learned a lot through this video

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So glad my content supports you😊

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Thank You for offering Master of Connection free, I am SOOO THANKFUL, THANK YOU GOD!! Not all of us have an income, so I am extremely GRATEFUL, again THANK YOU!!!!!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

You are so welcome

[@amazingfunfacts723]

Thanks Mat. You understand psychology really well. Great video.

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My pleasure! I appreciate that🙂

[@lisataylor8688]

Hey Mat! QUESTION? Are these men around at age 55+?

[@destinixshakur]

This the one . It’s definitely not young men

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Hi! Yes, many men are still around and active at 55+. By the way, if you're interested, I’ll be part of a FREE live coaching love + relationship course starting next month. It’s a great opportunity to join the beta launch! You can learn more and sign up here: masteryofconnection.com/

[@sibanda8042]

Should l consider myself a lucky woman or misconceptions..... falling in love 😍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Amazing!

[@azsuehayes]

It made me sad. Never had that for 40 years. See you ATTACHED IN 5.😉

[@Mat_Shaffer]

its out there for you I PROMISE !

[@azsuehayes]

@@Mat_Shaffer Thank you Mat.❤

[@Chamber1baby]

Thank you Matt! Love your videos. I have a question about "enjoying the Journey of love" and not fixate on a timeline. But what do you do when your boyfriend says he is going to start doing things to progress the relationship (he is the one that brought it up) but then doesn't do them? I don't what to be pushy but I'm left wondering if he still wants what I want is to eventually move in together.

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Great suggestion! :)

[@blairjohnson7830]

I have never in my life been loved then. All I’ve ever had is narcissistic love bombing and all sorts thrn subltle abuse leading to really bad abuse and I always stay and stay giving benefit of the doubt til one day a few yrs down the track I have to walk away from all that. I’m sick of getting abused I am a freaking good lady keep my home n kids and myslef all put together etc and I can never ever have anyone that wants me for me or loves me truly and wants to be with me without abusing me I am so freakin sick of it!!!!! Grrrrrr I’m 30 and how come this had never happened for me before!?

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@firechic1970]

He only meets 1 and 2. About number 4, after 4 months he still hasn’t told family or friends about me. We live 2 1/2 hours apart, only been on 3 dates, we talk every day, have been intimate only once. I’m taking the lead from him. He keeps telling me that I’m ‘unexpected’. What does that mean??

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@cleonemusician217]

Llllovvvve this. Huge thanks, Matt, for the pro guidance.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Fantastic! Thanks so much!

[@julietnoenoe6808]

I finally found the one! 😭💘💘 thankyouuu this is accurate

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Wow! I’m so happy for you my dear!

[@idamyrevik]

Matt your so amazing. Thank you so much. You're truly an awesome humna and spirit 💜🙏

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@thecatisoutofthebag83]

@idamyrevik5355 Agree💯 percent!

[@Supremeintrospection]

Great tips, however this game girls and guys play are outdated and set in fear. Some delay so much when it comes to commitment and then you’re gone. Just like that it’s all over and ones standing pretty alone and witty with just the self again.

[@tammyn2856]

Truth

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@sherryharvey699]

Truly enjoyed this video

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@sadianazmi821]

Wonderful thanks

[@Mat_Shaffer]

So welcome!

[@spiritualgangstergodess5015]

Very helpful! Thank You

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad it was helpful!

[@cynthiaholmes4400]

Thank you so much, Mat. Great clarification!!!

[@tammycartwright7248]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Happy to help!

[@Songs-ls2pr]

You are an amazing man !! Your vids r so very helpful !! And I love your vibe too. Blessings!

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@susiered66]

Love this! Thanks Matt. How do u know if he brings you up in conversation with friends/family?

[@michaljoe5884]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Good question!

[@sonja897]

I’m not sure about the part of him claiming me. It’s not creepy to me but it sounds possessive and controlling.

[@andreaac4499]

Why? Of course he will want to be exclusive if he loves you

[@sonja897]

@@andreaac4499 respectfully asking to be mutually exclusive feels like different energy then claiming me. I’m not a piece of property.

[@FaceOfTheCity.StPete]

I think claiming is probably more like proclaiming

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality.

[@zensvlognotapro]

Hi !! I remember you mentioned about Rise in Love in one of your videos ...suggestions how about doing a video on how to Rise in love instead of fall in love 🤗. Because I believe that we need to change on how to love some1. I wanna share about chivalry..somebody open door for me I feel something , I feel I.Am lady, a woman when he does that . Be well and stay inspired , stay enthusiastic ✋🏻💪🏻🙌🏻

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Great suggestion!

[@JosofineXtine]

8:07 Yea... i definitely receive without guilt 😌 openly and willingly 😁😁😁😁 ... which brings us back to seeing our truth; mine? Really crass humor 😅 I'm just a yappy braud tho...

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much for your feedback!

[@zoedixon5274]

Hard to receive the whole courting thing when you aren’t feeling him. It also feels a bit manipulative.. like a downward payment for a future demand/expectation/obligation.. feels very transactional (when you aren’t interested) Otherwise, it’s great when you like him.

[@bolajiamele8200]

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[@zoedixon5274]

@@bolajiamele8200 this isn’t restoring something that was once broken. This is just some guy trying to win a girl. And no thanks for spells but thanks.

[@bolajiamele8200]

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[@saathiyavo]

Hey Mat, i have a question: what does it mean when they say: men want to conquer a woman? Does it mean i shouldn't say yes for the first date or should i wait several months till we are a couple?

[@mustafamusa4922]

I pray the universe grant your heart 💌 desires I know who can help you out: tell him your problems he can solve it out. He also do readings or get ex back..

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@emp9413]

Aw. So far so good! Ty!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

So glad you enjoyed it! :)

[@patriciavandervliet6087]

Ahhh that's why... I can put a check mark on everything you said

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thank you!

[@sand07228]

That #2 and #3 #4 🤔

[@Mat_Shaffer]

I hope it helps:)

[@tanyaklawitter877]

Thank you Mat. Your email and now this has made me go cloudy eyed You made a bunch of great memories come flooding back. Just wish I had that time machine and stepped into my masculine and refused to let him go maybe my diamond would be here still and well alot would be different.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@tanyaklawitter877]

@@Mat_Shaffer would you ever do a Instagram live because I no longer have Facebook due to the fact it got very unsafe and had to protect myself and my family from my ex and you know my stroy and history there. I just really miss your Mondays with Matt and well they were always my best way to start Tuesday morning since we are a day ahead and your smile simply made the days brighter. So wondered if you could you do some on Instagram as well.

[@ethelpuetz4619]

This man I met has paid off my credit cards bought me an engagement ring and it's buying me a house I don't know what to think I'm very confused he says he's in love with me what do I do

[@bolajiamele8200]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@lenabeckwith7401]

Enjoyed this..it is so true!!!

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

So glad you enjoyed it!🙂 Many more to come!

[@marianorton8190]

Beautifully said Mat … I love the way you coach 🙏🏼😊🥰💚🔥💖❤️💓🤎🖤🧡💛💙💜

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks so much!

[@amygsmom2785]

Wow, I haven’t had a man act like this in many years lol.. no love

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Don’t give up on love sister!

[@KeshiaRobertsonBooks]

Mat is the real thing! So much great info! Yes thank you for this! I’m not confused about men anymore. Everyone subscribe please! ❤️🙏

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He can help you out

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

so sweet thanks for sharing! its a great connection🙂

[@nazabdullah9234]

Oh my god.. All these points are definitely true

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Many thanks!

[@patriciaking7892]

Hi Mat ✋✋. Just found your channel and enjoy watching your videos👍👍. I love listening to you, your eyes are hynotizing, and you're so gorgeous. Just telling the truth😊😊.

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Welcome aboard! Thank you so much, I really appreciate hearing that from you.

[@leticiabarnes9614]

This makes me pretty sure no one has ever fallen in love with me.

[@bolajiamele8200]

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[@dianneciresi6324]

Lol, Leticia Barnes

[@dianneciresi6324]

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[@lisacatherineoblsb]

💖. Are you still making videos ??

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yes I am!

[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@tinaoyim]

Thanks 👍

[@Mat_Shaffer]

AMAZING love that share!! :)

[@mirandaladouceur7636]

Got a couple questions

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Yeah sure thing!

[@daisyflora3914]

Wow...all in!!! 🤗

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

YESSS you got it my dear!! so glad this supported you🙂

[@lola4190]

Thank you🙂

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you like it!

[@lilasand8721]

Very nice

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks! Hope it helps.

[@ashleycaudill9062]

Thanks

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Welcome

[@aayushapokhrel8573]

U r right dear

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Glad to hear that.

[@ladyfili58]

OMG 😮HE LOVES ME! 😅❤

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Amazing! love hearing that!

[@kayhawkins5925]

Due to all these Red Pill coaches and guru's more men hate women and very doubtful if the majority capable of love other than self love.

[@gundampoon]

i feel like he’s scared of falling in love again. he’s divorced and so so damaged emotionally, he’s traumatized by past relationships.

[@goodlove1578]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Be careful with your beliefs! They create your reality

[@fegvillablanca9689]

Im interes to listen hope can help.w/ ..

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Many thanks!

[@ashleycaudill9062]

I see im lied too

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[@bebeysmael1.]

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[@bebeysmael1.]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks

[@bebeysmael1.]

@@Mat_Shaffer You're welcome ANYTIME 😊

[@ladylyonteeth3952]

Hope everyone here gets to have big wonderful romancing! 💋

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I hope so too!

[@studiopurpleboutique6443]

When he confirms that he doesn't have a potential partner

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

You got it!

[@derek5168]

I'm an idiot everytime a pretty woman smiles at me i have air supply running through me head

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Aww, you're the sweetest! ❤️✨

[@derek5168]

@@Mat_Shaffer that's alright Matt I don't discriminate I just don't like woke politics whatever someone's lifestyle it drives me insane those who are looking for an excuse to sue someone

[@klawz91]

Yeeeeeea, No one has ever fallen in love with me if these are the obvious signs. :/

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@teresaolofson8187]

Quickly See's Your Truth Courts You Claims You Fixates on You a little See's a Future with you without Fear

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@Sabrina96]

Yeah, and he turned out to be a narcissist

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@elarisa10]

Thats what narcs do too....

[@Mat_Shaffer]

not at all my dear :)

[@Mido_the_bestAdamalsayed]

If you love you will be loser / NO love / they learn me it

[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@gloriafutrell6305]

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[@AudreyAdams2011]

This is hilarious. This guy clearly read Steve Harvey book because he is repeating what Steve said almost verbatim. Wow ..where are your own thoughts.

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@XieYali]

I find all these things to be creepy and I don’t like any of it 😅

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Thanks for sharing!

[@XieYali]

@@Mat_Shaffer You’re welcome, two years later. 😂

[@elainepoole6686]

Don't ever fall in love

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@aleksandrakettner905]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Glad you like it!

[@gabriellamclellan1102]

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[@Mat_Shaffer]

Many thanks!