5 tips for dealing with difficult students

Classroom management of difficult students. 5 tips and key mindset principles
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[@meenashrestha655]

Summary 1. Dont take anything personally 2. Argument....never to be last one to say ( appolize) 3. Always settle argument privately 4. Make student part of learning experience ( active negotiating) 5. Walking away is strength (ONE ON ONE DISCUSSION) - always be on place of strength

[@etacude]

Thank you for making the summary, Meena!! 🥰 I will pin it to the top of the comments. 🙏

[@umuahu9902]

Thanku dear

[@angelv1393]

Thank you for this video. The number 3 is good but with the situation we have today where students felt privileged due to social media and no teacher protection when it comes to discipline process. They have this idea that we are ashaming them when we discipline them. So most of us felt we need to protect ourselves and do nothing instead so we don't lose our jobs or famed in social media negatively.

[@etacude]

I know how difficult it can be, but just think about maybe the 1 student you can make a difference to!

[@angelv1393]

@@etacude thank you, here in the Philippines you might have heard of some issues about teachers in social media and it is very sad some are being cursed in social media

[@elenabibi208]

Thank u Eric ! I have the class at school 13-14 years teens and it’s something unbelievable ((( they shout , they are bold . It’s not only at my English class but also with other teachers . As I am new at school , I was disappointed really . You give me confidence . Thank u 🙏🏻

[@jablestables682]

I love your calm way of speaking, and the chickens in the background amused me 😊. Thank you for your content!

[@etacude]

So nice of you Thank you! ^^

[@genelynarado8568]

Wow glad to see you visiting my country. I’m currently in the US as a teacher and your videos help me a lot 😊

[@etacude]

You're welcome Genelyn Arado!

[@bushra7352]

Omg those practical examples of scenarios between student-teacher is gonna save my life. So excited!!!

[@etacude]

I'll try my best to make them practical and explain why it is done a certain way. Hopefully release the first ones around March

[@hinnazayn]

@@etacude where are the videos available?

[@lonaomed5104]

As a teacher from Kurdistan,Iraq . I'm watching your vedios and they are really great man ,thank u🥰

[@etacude]

You're welcome Lona Omed!

[@NavarroIvette]

excelente contenido gracias bendiciones

[@TheLanguageLady]

My first week back has been a little overwhelming both personally and professionally. I decided to stay put home all weekend to catch on items so that I wouldn't feel rushed or overwhelmed on my return to work tomorrow. Looking forward to seeing more of your videos on your return to Korea. I am glad you were able to enjoy the Phillipines. It looks like such a beautiful country. I have never been to Asia and it is most definitely on my bucket list. All the best to you !

[@etacude]

Hi Dr. Hemphill, that first week back is always a major challenge. If we're lucky we can prepare well but there will always be obstacles at home or with work. Fortunately we have experience and I believe that if we focus on the process we will end up on top. New teachers have to find a different way of motivating themselves, be it through excitement or taking solace in the truth that there is always tomorrow, they will make it through. Good luck with your year and I hope you have a great week!

[@sudanesenightmare]

Thank you very much T. Eric. I really have a one student that I'm trying to work out with him.

[@wardarashad6530]

Amazing tips, thanks!

[@user-xj7et6zk4x]

Thanks alot , You talk about all teaching issues in your Vids . Evrey things that belong to teaching ,students class mangment (Mashallah )

[@user-jm2ds5og6z]

great advice.

[@nimusiimaprosper7093]

thanks so much for the service

[@malcolmtaylor3583]

Thanks Eric, your videos are always filled with useful and quality information

[@etacude]

Thank you so much for your kind words, Malcolm. 🙏 I really appreciate it! 😄

[@Eduscafflearn]

Thank you so much, you give great advice for new teachers.

[@etacude]

Thank you for watching, Rosemary! 😊 🙏

[@jenifergopo4917]

Thank you for sharing your tips and ideas, good job!!!

[@etacude]

Thanks Jenifer!

[@ascensioncano3606]

Thanks for sharing the summary the 5 tips with us, teachers and families.

[@etacude]

Thanks for watching, Ascension! 🙏

[@NavarroIvette]

todos tus videos son perfectos de gran ayuda

[@carolinekelly3415]

Hello Professor, thank you for sharing your expertise!

[@etacude]

Thank you for watching, Caroline! 😊

[@learning2read]

Thanks for taking time to share these ideas. You are doing a great job.

[@etacude]

Thank you Theo! I subbed to your channel and enjoyed your video. Your reading is crisp and clear. It can help students learning to read. Keep on making videos if that's what you're into!

[@haripariyar2286]

Thank you so much for your tips.

[@etacude]

You're welcome Hari!

[@veronixawardwell8802]

Yes! You are very helpful. I am grateful for your intuitive and creative ideas that you share. Thank you!!! Veronica from No Venice, FL USA I would have loved to have been your student!! : )

[@etacude]

Thank you for your kind words, Veronica! 🙏 I'm sure you would've been a great student! 😊

[@josevil1513]

Salamat naman po at nakapunta ka dito sa pilipinas.

[@josefinacanullas8636]

Thank you for visiting Philippines Sir

[@etacude]

It was really fun! Beautiful country!

[@jhamilante9409]

thanks for sharing.

[@etacude]

Thank you for watching! :)

[@sabriinaatoulip4481]

Ow I am grateful for your interesting videos, thank you so much they are really helpful. Whenever I feel confused I go back to them Good luck !

[@etacude]

I'm glad you liked it. My mom told me I should stick to the main points. Also, I was kind of nervous while shooting cause there were people around. 2 weeks from now I'm back home and I'll be ready to make good videos again! Till then I hope you have an amazing week Sabrina! 😄

[@mymusic-no8lo]

love your videos . keep them up please . wishing you the best .

[@etacude]

Thank you Music! ☺ I'm busy with new videos I will release shortly. Thank you for your support! 🙏

[@mariam6927]

That's simply awesome.I've recently discovered your channel as if i have discovered a treasure..so useful for me as a teacher...regards from Egypt..

[@etacude]

Thank you so much for your kind words, Mariam! I'll try to share more useful content in the future. 😊🙏

[@jmbhteachusa4084]

Hi eric, one of your subscribers from the philippines. Im a teacher here in the USA.

[@etacude]

Welcome JMBH and welcome!

[@oxanaivasiunico8568]

I've just come across your videos, and can't stop watching them. You're fabulous !Thank you so much for sharing with us! Your experience is very very and extremely important! Thousand of thanks!

[@etacude]

You're welcome Oxana!

[@martezsatchell5163]

I enjoy this channel. I cannot wait for the new content.

[@etacude]

Thank you, Martez! 🙏 I'll try to make some more useful content soon! 😊

[@lilitbayatyan2543]

You do a great job thanks

[@etacude]

Thank you, Lilit! 😊

[@user-ln7ul7pb8o]

Really good!

[@etacude]

Thank you for watching! 😃🙏

[@chukoshenina5326]

Hi, Eric. I am a retired teacher. After a few years of following my dreams, I decided to return to teach again. I teach now at a community college in U.S. I've learned all over again rom your videos. Thank you. I didn't get the title of the book you were mentioning in this video. I'd appreciate if you reply with the title. Glad that you are teaching in Seoul, my home town when I was young.

[@etacude]

Hi Chu! Thank you for the comment and sorry for the late reply. The book is called 'Managing Behavior in the Classroom' by David Wright. It's quite rare to find so I'd like to make a newer version in the future. 😄

[@ayatabbasmostafa8848]

@@etacude Hi,Eric. First thank you so much. 💕 Any news regarding the newer version?

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[@maytecamacho7485]

I loved the Obi Wan Kenobi's explanation, it enlighted me !!!

[@alminodon3913]

Thanks for the videos you uploaded😀 It give us ideas😊 Love your videos Sir👍 Watching from Philippines, Hope you enjoy here😀

[@etacude]

Hi Almin. I had a fantastic time in the Philippines thanks to all the great people and the beautiful country! I've been a bit busy with my travels so I was unable to upload a lot. When I come back next week I will work on lots of great videos I wish go share. Thank you for your support!!😍

[@chahwrite1157]

Hello ,could you please provide us with videos about what is a lesson plan and how it should be well prepared. Thx in advance.

[@davidpenafiel1639]

Dear sir. When you talk about the third tip. Is it used on adults students too? For instance, can I take an university student aside and talk to them about the problem that he o she has? Thank you.

[@wadyahrh6107]

Where have you been all this time im glad that u discovered u today...love

[@etacude]

Welcome to the channel Wadya Hrh!

[@shooshjordan9172]

Wow! you are soooo amazing.. Hats off.. I learned a lot from you.. Every single word you say is a treasure. You helped me a lot in class management and control. The best ever 🏆❤️ Are you British?

[@etacude]

You're so welcome Shoosh Jordan!

[@bananatravel]

Hope you had a nice vacation in Philippines! My "Anneunhaseyo" to Korea! I studied Korean language there for one year😅

[@etacude]

Sad that I never ran into you. Where did you stay, Seoul?

[@bananatravel]

@@etacude in Cheongpeoyng, far to the North from Daegu where I guess you are))

[@jensmail7]

OMGOSH that’s cool, I am from the Philippines. Enjoy the food and lovely people.

[@etacude]

Thanks Jen!

[@TEACHINGTIPSGURU]

Very nice

[@etacude]

Thank you! Now that I'm back from vacation I can't wait to see more of your videos! 😍

[@wateenal_sayadi679]

You are amazing

[@etacude]

Thank you for your kind words, Wateen! ☺ Sorry for the late reply.

[@bolpinicreations7004]

I am a teacher from a foreign country. Not an english country. So my english would not be good. I follow you. Beacause I dont like our country s education system and I want to make a change. So I search for new tricks and tips, methods etc. Our country s teacher education is very boring. There are so many courses. We have to pay for that boring courses. Thank you so much sir because your content is very attractive and valuable to me. ♥️

[@etacude]

I am humbled by your kind words!

[@arnoldgabutan187]

Wow! You've been here in the Philippines! I hope you enjoyed your vacation here. Thank you for all the tips. I definitely learn a lot.

[@etacude]

I love the Philippines and can't wait to visit again! Thank you for watching, Arnold. 😊🙏

[@user-ud5vw9um8u]

Thank you for your videos. I heard you say you borrowed three basic rules for the classroom. Each rule included the main word of respect. I can't find the rules. Can you point me in the right direction? Which video did you post those in?

[@etacude]

Good question T! I probably said it in some other videos but I'm not completely sure which. The 3 rules I give my students are: 1. Respect everyone 2. Treat your classmates kindly 3. When someone is speaking, listen quietly. I hope these help. 😄

[@user-ud5vw9um8u]

@@etacude Thank you!

[@KCdierkes]

So glad to have discovered your channel. Your videos and advice are super helpful! Could you tell me the author or ISBN number of the book "Managing behavior in the classroom" ? Thanks so much! and greetings from France!

[@etacude]

Hi Carly! I'll post the code as soon as I get home. I'll also add it in the description. It is one of the best books I've read on classroom management and will make a video series of it in the future. 😊

[@etacude]

Hi, I put the book in the description. The author is David Wright. Fantastic book!

[@KCdierkes]

@@etacude Thanks so much! I look forward to watching more of your videos, especially on classroom management, in the future!

[@martha_ntakou]

Hi Eric! How do you deal with young learners who swear in classroom? I have a new student that swears every time he makes a mistake. I try to make him feel comfortable and your videos have helped a lot in classroom management. I show him it's ok to make mistakes but the other students don't want to make him part of the group so he feels isolated anyway. It's a complex situtation I know, but I was wondering if you any tips. Should I ignore the bad words? Should I pretend it never happened and then deal with it in private with the student? Thanks in advance!

[@etacude]

Hi Martha! Great question. If it's an isolated incident, strategically ignore it, but later mention to the student that it was wrong in private. If it's obvious in front of class, you want to tell him publicly that it is wrong to swear ~ also, reinforce the rule about swearing by telling the class why it's wrong. Ask the student if he understands, if he apologizes then say okay, but you don't want to hear it again. If he doesn't apologize, ask to see him after class and continue so that the interruption doesn't steal more of your time. I guess those are the 3 options. 😄

[@martha_ntakou]

@@etacude Thanks for your answer! One of the things I've done is to make him say 3 good words for every bad word but it takes a lot of time. I guess I will have to create a clear rule about it! Thanks again for your help!

[@etacude]

@@martha_ntakou Good idea! I didn't think of what to do with him after. I like the idea of him saying nice words after to repent. :)

[@fizzarizvi7890]

Hello I have a problem creating student in my class.I need your help.How can I contact you sir?

[@ikarly2898]

Hello. Really appreciate these tips, but can these be applied to one-on-one teaching?

[@etacude]

I definitely think that the mindset that you have when controlling an entire class can be adapted to suit individual students. 👍

[@BeckyRiggs]

What is the name of the book that you mentioned in this video?

[@etacude]

Sorry I missed you message. Can't remember of hand. Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

[@edwardrossman9448]

I enjoy and benefit from these videos, but @ 8:50 I think he misuses the word capitulating. Demanding is not capitulating, demanding can force the capitulation on somebody else.

[@etacude]

Right. Sometimes I use the wrong to explain something. Thank you for the correction, Edward. 👍

[@nihilos7225]

Hey..are u a lecturer?..cuz i have some question to ask..btw i am a student doing research for my assignment

[@kylaandrews3658]

what if students are talking from another language I felt they are talking about me. Even I set the rule no speaking in their native language so hardheaded students,,,,

[@etacude]

Every week you have to start class by telling them that they will never improve unless they use English. They can not be afraid to look silly or make mistakes, because that is the only way they will grow. Sometimes they can quickly use their language to explain, but that is an English class. They have to use English, especially when they are doing activities! Do this every week and correct them. Be strict but understandable.

[@Rexxx123]

Hi Eric, is there an online version of this book? I can't find it🤣

[@etacude]

For such a useful book it is difficult to find. I believe it might be out of print. In the future I'll make content based on it. But that is a long time away! I hope you can find it Rex, I got it on Amazon.

[@englishforbeginners9652]

Unable to join to receive free resources .plz help me .

[@etacude]

Send me an email and I will add you!

[@nerminessamaldin1567]

What of all the class are very noughty and few students are good I'm music teacher I can't let them sing or play music they always move and don't keep calm

[@etacude]

Sorry I missed you message. Are you coping? Check out the video list or articles on Etateach.com. Best of luck!

[@nerminessamaldin1567]

@@etacude thanks

[@SleuthingSquadron]

I feel 3 is the same as 5

[@wateenal_sayadi679]

Hey, I'm a new teacher I'm really struggling with my noisy students..

[@etacude]

Hi Wateen! Here is a video I did about noisy classes. I hope it helps! kzbin.info/www/bejne/a2KpqneFj7uYjLc

[@roshnamohammadi2817]

Thanks for sharing your ideas. What is the name of facebook group? Can we join?

[@etacude]

Please do Roshna! It's called Etacude

[@mick5067]

It seems like a melt down was happening.

[@MrMario477]

I think so if the Filipinos were colonized by you American and have difficulties of English what good is they talking native language Filipino than English there that arises terrible doubts TRUE

[@etacude]

I was talking to some Philippinos last night and some of them think it would've been better for them to welcome the Americans. I don't know if it's true or not but it's an interesting idea.

[@MrMario477]

@@etacude yes theacher erick but the question is not because of reception, americans and yes because they are speaking more native filipino language than english, does that result in what the american colonization did not solve at all?

[@karinaserrano5953]

What is your facebook teacher's group? Can I join in?

[@etacude]

Hi Karina! You're more than welcome to join the group. The group is called etacude. Right now I use it to talk and share extra contentand material with teachers. They are also welcome to post questions or ideas they want to share. So far I feel like it isn't used to it's fullest potential, but with the new series I'm working on I hope it will grow into a valuable resource and community! 😁

[@karinaserrano5953]

@@etacude Thank you very much and greetings from Dominican Republic!

[@bananatravel]

Me join too!