Who else watches this as motivation like every other day
@miltons2956 жыл бұрын
Im gonna get my ex back I miss her soo much and gonna try get her the new me
@NRLJAY4 жыл бұрын
Your the GOAT. as I was taking notes I felt it working mentally first. It's about being playful and fun. Joking around with her. Get out the emotions first and then be happy and joyous around her or other women. Anyone for that matter. Turning an uncomfortable situation into a joke or something positive looks good to the other person. Taking away the negative tensions. Getting rid of stress hormones and giving into the healing chemistry that resides in the body. Love you man! I am greatness and so is anyone reading this. Nothing and no one can stop us. I just laugh at them.
@cesarquintana45967 жыл бұрын
I saw my wife for the 1st time in 40 days today. I was confident,calm and flirty, even when she was trying to make me mad. She even said I remind her of one we first met and she said why couldn't you change before we decided to get a divorce. what do you think this means?
@kailoma_2 жыл бұрын
I can confirm self-love and finding the confidence really works. My wife finally came back when she noticed how fast I had grown over the separation to the point of being so cool about being friends. I assure you, follow the steps outlined by Dan and you’ll be well on your way to getting that ex back. I became a better man, more confident in life instead of wallowing in self-pity, she noticed how strong I became and begged me with tears to consider her again. Dan, I owe you everything. thank you for the helpful tips which made me a better person in every aspect of life. Continue doing the life-saving work you do. A thousand thanks is not enough, Cheers Mate 👍
@erkazzofficiel7 жыл бұрын
I'm so scared to get in touch with her cuz she haa already moved on and I know Im gonna make a fool of myself and get rejected
@kenr2157 жыл бұрын
my god i messed up so much, my confidence was lost after she left with my son. now theres someone else..
@devonteedwards95034 жыл бұрын
My ex has met up with me twice secretly behind her new boyfriend’s back and again tonight. It’s going very well so far !
@afrobian14 жыл бұрын
This guy saved my dignity, i was gonna text my ex and pretty much beg her for a second chance because i genuinely changed. Time to edit the text lol
@ananseghana77087 жыл бұрын
This guy's so good. I used your tips and it's working great.
@DanBacon_7 жыл бұрын
Great to hear. Keep going and get her back!
@orslehoczki28526 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how.... but it worked😶😶😱
@fsxbigeefy34385 жыл бұрын
Dan Bacon you just boosted my confidence up 10 time what it once was from watching this. Everything you said was clear and understandable. Not only that but you also just told what I’ve been through and just literally told me to pulled the reverse card. I appreciate that bro tip. Because I may thought i lost someone very special but it was the way I acted before. I just need to believe in what I said and get her back and get her attracted to me.
@kaimatthews40714 жыл бұрын
I was a really angry and controlling guy in my relationship and she left me well left the old me now I am gonna be more relaxed and nicer to her
@josephstalin57766 жыл бұрын
You sir, are a legend. Spot on advice for when you can't use the no-contact rule 👌🏼
@DanBacon_6 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@wishwash66474 жыл бұрын
This is working she doesn't wanna stop messaging me lol she's playing hard to get but she is opening up to me... Usually she messages one time I. The morni g but now she's messaging me all day and wants to meet up... Good luck out there guys. The good fact about this is that all that anxiety and pain ur feeling now actually goes away when u start seeing how she is acting and messaging.... Gonna start to persue more 😊
@swamidude22145 жыл бұрын
She doesnt have a new boyfriend, but she definitly moved on. I met up with her after 4 months and I dont think she felt much attraction. Even though I lost like 15 kg of fat and put on 8 kg of muscle. I know she must have noticed, everyone notices it. Also I did a lot to improve my life in other ways and Im mentally much stronger. Still she seems to absolutely not care... I have litterally no idea how to make her feel attraction. The first time it went pretty natural. She chased me basically. Im not needy, Im fine with the breakup, I dont even act like I want her back. Im confused if maybe Im acting ‘to fine’ with the breakup, so she thinks I moved on and thus its better that its over. I pretty much accepted it right away, so perhaps she now thinks I never really cared that much...
@donniepistone63475 жыл бұрын
I am going to get her back !
@dudefacial6 жыл бұрын
Man please do a video about when you still live with your ex. I’d love to hear your views
@UchihaItachi000004 жыл бұрын
I love this video because it not only got me out of the feels but got me trying to get her back, so far I'm in the call zone!
@luisleal86834 жыл бұрын
THIS GUY IS AWESOME! HIS PERSPECTIVE AND INSIGHT REGARDING ATTRACTION AND CONFIDENCE IS AMAZING! THANK YOU BRO!
@marloninquirer4 жыл бұрын
yes its true. those saying that you had to go no contact for 30 days to get her back is just BS. unless she's head over heels in loved with you, you will not re-attract her by not communicating with her for a long time. you gotta chase her at some point
@jbvelez28286 жыл бұрын
How can i get my ex back ? If she happy with other guy ?
@jcporosity47644 жыл бұрын
I lost my wife im here for help I have learn im learning sooo hard when u have kids also
@marcuswilliams467 Жыл бұрын
I am in the Friendzone currently and totally did all the things that I shouldn't have done.
@kaseycruz79835 жыл бұрын
I want her to forgive me. And i want her to want to be with me again.
@shatterednbroken14012 жыл бұрын
My wife just left 2 weeks ago and I did turn into that cry baby begging for her to come back with no confidence...now I know what I need to do to feel better about nyself and prove to her I'm going to keep better myself ...this gave me a boost
@Jordan.M237 жыл бұрын
THIS IS THE EXACT VIDEO I NEEDED
@DanBacon_7 жыл бұрын
I'm glad I made it then! I hope it helps you.
@Jay_chicago5 жыл бұрын
Are are we as men so confident when we are dating, but when we are in a long relationship or marriage we lose that confidence. Why is that?
@woolies94944 жыл бұрын
Why couldn't I have found your videos weeks ago.. I'm gonna try after this to get my beautiful woman back
@5orever5ive313 жыл бұрын
Man this gonna be the third time we might get back together
@angelamaro34804 жыл бұрын
I'm working on it. My woman is pretty stubborn and she sets her mind a certain way so it's a bit tough, however I know shes letting her guard down and I'm getting her back. Not sure when but I know itll happen.
@seantatum14847 жыл бұрын
I broke it off 6 months ago. I asked that she not contact me and she respected the wish by doing just that. I recently reached out to her in a fit of misery. I told her that I'd been miserable and lost and that these feeling simply came to a head and that I was sorry for reaching out and that it would not happen again. She mentioned that she had been thinking of me and that we could be friends and get together sometime soon to catch up. I expressed my reluctance to meet her simply because I didnt want to pick scabs on wounds Ive been trying to allow to heal. But in the end I agreed to meet her. We will see each other for the first time in 6+ months today. What should be my approach? Nothing has change on my end for the most part. Same clothes, same job (I am super successful), same look, same everything. What do I entice her with at this point when everything is the same?
@aaronsalentine78765 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I will be using this when i meet up with her again. I need my confidence back and myslef like when i meet her.
@williamanderson72362 жыл бұрын
Great video, I was in a beautiful marriage before my now ex wife left me,i still love her and most times i cant stop thinking about her, i am doing my very best to get rid of the thought of her, but i just cant, i love her so much, i dont know why i am bring this here for, i cant stop thinking about her.
@virenrodrigues17414 жыл бұрын
After three weeks of intentional ghosting , she has blocked me. I m just waiting for her to unblock me whenever so that I can block her.
@rockysingh84555 жыл бұрын
The best youtube channel on getting your love and exploring yours skills.
@skullguyonline5 жыл бұрын
This guy "gets it".
@TheXeliminatorX6 жыл бұрын
How long should I wait if she's just got another guy? The honeymoon phase is unbreachable
@connormitchell80486 жыл бұрын
We broke up today. I tried to make her laugh but it didnt work. I told her that I understood I acted weak and clingy and she said that's good that you broke a barrier, whatever that means. Then I said I'd be open to friendship and she didnt seem to like that idea. Dan if you could help me out with the next step I'd really appreciate it.
@oconnell1237 жыл бұрын
Im going threw this right now.. my girlfriend of ten years and my two little boys are moving out while im away for work.. I broke down in front of her twice, but now im trying to be the strong one. She broke down in front of me.. I have watched your videos Dan and they help me.. when i get home from work in two weeks im going to try to be the strong funny man she loved. Not the naggy i want you back please give me another chance type of guy! Any other tips buddy?
@mmosley8492 Жыл бұрын
Great advice, all these other people saying no contact, like if I want them back I have to contact them sooner or later
@sourabhgupta55635 жыл бұрын
Thank you you made my day now I can get her back easily
@noelmedina56657 жыл бұрын
Wow dan thank you very much, I really needed this advice. I now have more confidence in myself and believe that I can get my ex back. Wish me luck
@kohchungsoon63613 жыл бұрын
Your video is so informative! Thank you! I’m the begging type of ex as she recently is looking into another guy that they both are quite close now. I didn’t know it as she didn’t tell me about it until I found out. Now I know and I really want to get her back. Any tips for me for case? This happens 1week ago
@rafaelparra12604 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna make it, she will be back =)
@shalevsaada75962 жыл бұрын
the only one on you tube that give a real matures advices and no toxics mind games like wait 10 years until she misses you and crawl threw all the Sahara dessert to you and beg to come back
@typerbatman39352 жыл бұрын
I'm currently following this at the moment crazy how this actually works! I've leveled up I'm a better man 😤 and she can see that!! From the phone to the gym and now the bar last night 😏 cheers kings. Thank you @Dan Bacon
@dereksupino7 жыл бұрын
I broke up with my gf while we were away but regretted it and I tried to get back with her. She said she needed a break, when we met up after a week we hooked up and she gave me a second chance. However she wasn't ready to get back, she felt pressured into it and regretted giving me the second chance and now we are just friends. I don't see her for another week, I'll see here at college. My dorm room is right next to hers coincidentally. Any advice on what I should do.
@oicurpn4 жыл бұрын
What do you do when you messed up and you work together and has a new guy in her life
@travisrush76894 жыл бұрын
Wow this is the best video I have ever seen on getting your ex back. Great detail and guidance to perfection. Your explanation on no contact is so true, I felt and did all of the things you mentioned. Lack of confidence and worrying if she's with someone else. I never healed from it with using no contact.
@user-sw7bf1wl1b7 жыл бұрын
My ex left me for another guy what should I do
@jdx8K2 жыл бұрын
this video improve my emotional strength and my self confidence and I'm believing that I can get my ex back I just know it thanks dan🇹🇹💗
@techdude48644 жыл бұрын
Feedback from Dan or others is welcome. I’ve been hooking up with my ex gf for a while now. But she has been in a rebound for almost 3 months and she doesn’t seem to be slowing on that. Why aren’t they having problems with me and her? She keeps me a secret.
@justjames11113 жыл бұрын
Just so much good advice Dan. One question if you don't mind, if an Ex has moved on and time has passed and a new guy is now living with her, what would you advise, or is there a 'point of no return' once a certain amount of time has passed e.g years? Thanks Dan.
@elvato86695 жыл бұрын
This os the best advice that I have heard in any KZbin channel.
@miroslavgroh24445 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the video and all your content, it gives me hope of getting my ex back
@MrHVTelesz695 жыл бұрын
What if I broke it off with her for a stupid reason, and didn’t contact her for awhile and now when I just try to be friends she won’t even speak to me
@feny8Ай бұрын
I work with her and I’ve been following his tips. She is still giving me attention and is flirty. But work is all I got. She has me blocked on everything social media and phone
@Vigneshvicky-tb2ln6 жыл бұрын
Hey! I broke up with my ex before 2 months. But between that I begged her so much. And I shouted at her and I hurt her so much. I went to her and asked are you in relationship with someone else like that. So she got so angry. And I didn't relaized that. She told you won't change your character . But ri8 now I realized everything without her. I felt so bad what I did to her. So I went to her I told her that I am so sorry for everything. I don't have trust on you. I believe In others words. Not yours. I am so sorry. She told me I can understand your situation. And she told me don't wait for me I don't care you changed your character or not. I don't want any relation now I want to be happy with myself. I told her u r angry on me and my negative thoughts are making you to speak like this. But she told whatever, I am speaking normally with you . Don't wait and waste your time. I won't come back to you anymore. Is she will come back to me or not? We have to study till 4 more years in same class. What to do? She told I am not even Caring abt you. And she cried because of you I lost my Friends . But I can't understand her mind now is she is crying for them or for me. What to do now ?
@russschoewe35514 жыл бұрын
What if after 3 years together she ended it through text message and she was with her new "man" 30 hours after breaking up with me?
@talkingchannel64396 жыл бұрын
My ex from a long distance relationship left me because of lack of time and understanding. We dated for 4 months with physical contact and 8 months without physical contact. Can I still get her back?
@kenr2157 жыл бұрын
when my ex left i couldnt deal with the pain so everytime we talked about our young son i would pour my heart out and we would get in to these stupid arguments. until she called the cops after words taken outta context as we could only comicate by text. we entered a civil restraints against my will but i was so tired of fighting and didnt want a peminant restraining order on me. one year later, 2 after the break up, she is messing with another guy keeping it secret from me. i cant really say anything to her with the order, but my heart is killing me. she has my son around this man and slept over his house im crushed.. its hopeless at this point , no? i was accused of so much that wasn't true, that its crazy i still want my family, but i do! i have no idea what to do. i wont make a scene even though she has everybody convinced i will she clams shes scared of me but i think thats just her way to get me outta her life. hell if i try to disrupt there process how would i even do that? id have the cops at my door the next day. this just feels like a lost case for me..
@standarduserxy5 жыл бұрын
I just met my ex yesterday after long time no See. Asked for meeting to get closure. Thanked her today and told her it made it easier. We said our goodbyes but now, three hours later, she wants to know why the meeting made it easier. What do I do???
@tanka933 жыл бұрын
My wife and I have been separated for over a year. We are close because of our son. About a month ago she had a date with a guy. Two weeks after that, we had sex two days in a row. She said that it doesn't change anything and that we can't do that anymore. I want her back! What should I do immediately?
@OC_Golfer154 жыл бұрын
Hello Dan, my ex and I broke things off back in April and now she has this new guy that she tells me about. I’m afraid to tell her that I don’t want to hear about him because we’ve had a similar situation happen in the past and it led up to our breakup. If you could contact me back and help me out then I would greatly appreciate it 🙏🏼
@ziyadomar58917 жыл бұрын
What if you are in college and you see her almost everysingle day? And you talk to her
@samyy92266 ай бұрын
Wish i had seen this sooner
@joshuamelendez26046 жыл бұрын
Bro!!! This is good stuff
@DanBacon_6 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@faizanrashid66376 жыл бұрын
How to interact when she doesn't want to talk? My girlfriend and I was dating for 2 years and we broke up. Now she blocked me from everywhere. She study in same university and class. But she is sitting with her new friend all the time. So who would I interact with her?
@_prowlerofthenight_2 жыл бұрын
Guys I don't know what to do, either contact her or do the 'No Contact 30 days' thing. We've been broken up for a little more than a month and I felt so much stress about the break up that I fainted. I miss her.
@pinkfurryhat4 жыл бұрын
All this makes so much sense jfc i love it
@breezy58317 жыл бұрын
God bless you Dan, you always hit it right on the nose.
@georgesummers84804 жыл бұрын
I’m in a sticky situation, I made the decision to break up with my girlfriend, which at the time I thought was the best thing for both of us. But leading on from that I now regret every single thing I did. She is the love of my life, the girl I wanted to marry, start a family with etc etc. She is currently speaking to someone at the moment but wants me to move on. But I just simply can’t.
@fiskur200003 жыл бұрын
I am getting her back
@paraSocialParadox3 жыл бұрын
Just a hypothetical question, what of both men are following your advice ?? Do I just get rid of the other guy?
@osvaldocorza14837 жыл бұрын
My ex girlfriend always hid things from me, for example communication with guys she dated before me, now 2 months after the break up she denied me having other person involved after. I really want her back, Is it a good idea to tell that I always knew all the things she hid from me ?
@eiji98404 жыл бұрын
I really lack confidence
@loner_stoner66677 жыл бұрын
Well this was helpful asf
@dendenmallorca83904 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much 💓 you're a flipping legend! Kudos!
@wikaum5 жыл бұрын
What if she and I aren't speaking anymore because she felt it would disrupt her new relationship? She said she accepted that me and her would just be friends and she no longer feels that way about me and that she's happy now. What should I do?
@Slow6oh_3 жыл бұрын
she has a bf but ik she’s still in love with me but i don’t know how to break the tension
@JRodthetripod696 жыл бұрын
What if you said awful and cruel thing to her and about her kids? I have a kid with her too... so there should still be a way to get her back but yet I'm so stuck in this feeling of hopelessness.
@jimmyt.30704 жыл бұрын
Great video! I used your tips and got her to agree to meet up with me roughly a month ago. However, it seemed to never happen one way or another, and now she stopped answering me altogether. When I first called her, she seemed happy to hear from me and happy about the idea of going out with me. I recently texted her (because she had not answered a call the day prior) and she told me that she has a boyfriend and does not want to disrespect him. She is very stubborn and no longer wants to speak to me on the phone. Is there any chance I can get her back? I would really appreciate any advice you've got for me.
@turbo_novaonytnova26323 жыл бұрын
This guy may have saved my life
@edmondmalepane31416 жыл бұрын
dude can you be my mentor
@EvelynHernandez4 жыл бұрын
u earned my follow! :) love the videos man! your super inspiring :D and I don't say that cuz I'm endlessly hopeful of getting with my ex gf, rather the advice you give has been the best I've gotten compared to the advice I get from people. Your not a Debby downer and you're all about just growing as a person and letting that positively lead the future to come which is the best way to do it.
@kevhed35894 жыл бұрын
Hey Dan, I'm in a real bad situation and need your expertise. I've been in a relationship for 9 years now and have three boys with her. To be breif I've done almost everything wrong over the years. She has decided to leave me. I believe it started as just a test and because of my persistent begging and pleading for almost 6 months now. Even finally proposed to her. She seems to of decided to go from a separation to a full on breakup. She plans on leaving in one week. Through it all I have really introspected and now finally understand the whole relationship and what I have been doing wrong and can easily make these behavior changes if given another chance. To make matters worse I believe she is already talking to someone else. I figure I should stop pleaing with her this last week we are together. Is there anything else you would recommend me to do?
@natej54404 жыл бұрын
to disrupt the moving on process should i contact her during no contact
@randonlee7 жыл бұрын
I broke up with her last Nov. she calls me out of the blue 2 weeks ago to come over.. We had sex and danced and she said I have grown and become a great man. After this she has totally pulled away and said she doesn't know what she wants.. She even told me she loves me .. I may need to buy your system or I may just throw in the towel
@crimsoncannon20065 жыл бұрын
I needed this so bad
@beastlaser96114 жыл бұрын
This gave me hope !!! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🔥🔥🔥🔥
@rickfisher89597 жыл бұрын
Thanks man. Respect
@DanBacon_7 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Cheers
@edendlc3117 жыл бұрын
Dan, my ex gf was texting me here and there and finally she blocked me on fb. She had unblocked me when we went to a concert and she asked me if i was there and then told me if i saw her, but we didnt' end up finding each other. after that i asked her, why are you looking for me? it was a long text and she replied with move on and how she doesnt feel it and blocked me again. i am clear headed more than i was and i cant shake the feeling that she is lying to me and just trying to force a move on. really confused. i cant meet up with her cause her rebound doesnt let it happen. please guide me to what video i should watch...
@parkesey7 жыл бұрын
My ex is talking to me. I've taken your advice and made sure I am keeping in contact. I've just found out that she is going to meet her ex in a few weeks though so I'm very nervous.
@andrewhill5443 жыл бұрын
What can you do if she does not interact with you..blocked you on all media. Feels it is hopeless.
@tivoisxtothecore7 жыл бұрын
this is whats going on with me right now I've been with my ex for 9 years we use to live with each other but last year she moved back with her parents and she works close by her parents. this year on July 14th she broke up with me and since then I've been going though it. been depressed as shit. she told me "sometimes people just grow apart." I did the whole annoy her process off calling her, begging her to the point she lost all respect for me. we still calls like sometimes once a day but she doesn't talk or chat or anything else on Facebook or whatever. she is with someone already also. she and him started dating on the day our break up.
@DanBacon_7 жыл бұрын
Instead of talking to her every day, do this: kzbin.info/www/bejne/bn-og5aaZ9t8bKc
@tivoisxtothecore7 жыл бұрын
oh nice u actually replied thanks ill check it out now
@tivoisxtothecore7 жыл бұрын
can I DM you? I just have a lot to talk about and it just happened july 14th
@tylerfarrimond29304 жыл бұрын
So my gf broke up with me 3 months ago but started dating a guy 2 month ago and is now in a relationship with him, she still contact me and want to be friends and hang out. What should I do?I've begged and pleaded and did no contact for 5 days and she messaged me during that time saying she had been thinking about me and misses me. Should I use my friendship with her to reattract her?The guy she's with doesn't live in the same town so it's like a long distance thing. I was with my gf 9 years so surely she can't be over me that quickly?Please help me Dan Bacon!!
@ukaszkamienszczyk43596 жыл бұрын
I think that this is one of the most important questions- what is the longest period after breakup when one can try to get woman back? Sooner is better (as I think) but what about long periods?
@DanBacon_6 жыл бұрын
I've heard of men getting their ex woman back after years apart. Here's a post I wrote on how to do it: www.themodernman.com/blog/getting-an-ex-back-after-being-apart-for-years.html However, most guys get their ex back within days, weeks or months. Check this out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/ep_RYpZ9rcl1baM