4 Tips on How to Get an Ex Back Who Wants Nothing to Do With You

[@yourlemonz3671]

How can you show her you’ve changed but she won’t answer my texts or meet up with me?

[@cgreen9686]

He’s right. Literally after going BACK to I was when her and I were good.. a few things happen IMMEDIATELY: 1.) You calm your anxiety 2.) You remind her of the old you 3.) You help yourself become detached from what SHES doing and begin to focus on what YOURE doing .... humor, humor and not being affected by what she’s doing. And if you’re going to text... DONT.... voice texts! 3 short ones are better than three texts! She can hear your voice and it simulates a phone call... one-sides of course... but they will keep your messages and listen to them. We can hope lol. But I PROMISE you the moment I went back to being an unaffected, sarcastic dude... turning every negative into a funny positive... I FELT better and she probably felt a twinge of attraction. You HAVE to remind them of the old you, especially if you were needy! Always end the voice text with... “I guess we’ll catch up soon!” Then disappear a day or two...

[@ShadOwnCast]

Is amazing how motivated i leave house after watching these videos...

[@EnterTheSoundscape]

From experience Dan's advice is the only one that works when getting an ex back. Absolutely spot on advice.

[@axmortz]

Man, my respects! I got the get your ex back and we are together again. I just bought the make her love you for life and this is all magic. Thanks, Dan!

[@mrkeitt]

This worked for me in a few day's. Great method because I WAS AT FAULT for being in a certain way emotionally abusive 😔 However I gave her some space for a few days and then begun to re-attract her and she called me crying out the blue saying how much I hurt her and I need to do better. Fellas I realized accountability goes along way with the woman you love. We spoke for about an hour and made some good ground. I love her and she's the best woman I've ever been with overall in my 46 years. Sadly when you're used to garbage women, you don't know how to appreciate when you get a good one so we sabotage it sometimes. Take it day by day fellas and I wish you the best if you're home watching this imagining her with another man.

[@halocayrolandaverde9681]

YES NEUTRAL! She claimed she liked me, but I was too friendly. I wasn’t being a bf. I was also too emotional! And I said oh give me a second chance, and she wasn’t impressed by it. I asked her out this Friday, and I plan to take initiative!

[@Dhoodlum94]

Hey Dan I've implemented a lot of your tactics with my recent break-up and it has helped a lot and honestly I never thought that KZbin page would ever be able to give me advice on my relationship and how to rekindle it but you have and I appreciate that thanks bro

[@kittenheels1958]

I enjoy listening to you from a women’s point of view you are spot on

[@daberry9159]

OMG!! DAN IT WORKED MY EX IS ON HER WAY BY ME NOW I GAVE HER 3 DAYS AND INSTEAD OF TELLIN HER WHAT IM GOIN TO DO I JUS DID IT, SHE SAID I SEE U TRYIN AND IM GLAD I HURD FROM U TODAY, JUS GOT A TEXT WYD, IM OFF TONIGHT CAN I COME.SLEEP MANNN I JUS SUBSCRIBED YOU THE MAN💪🏾 SOUTH LOUISIANA IN THE BUILDING 🦁

[@Goleafsgo101]

I love your videos I have been watching for lately as my wife left me, took off her ring, told me she wants me out. I was a constant liar our whole relationship, I treated her like shit and got away with it for so long before she snapped now I know how much I love her because it had to get to this point to realize that. I’m starting your program please everyone wish me luck I don’t want to lose her and will do whatever it takes

[@Metalgearraverkidd]

How would u get her to unblock u :( ?

[@lukesmith-zp6ic]

I recently lost my job and my girlfriend I have severe anxiety and depression and your videos are helping me, thankyou

[@mr.anderson3369]

Dan, I should be paying you instead of my Pdoc, your videos have been more helpful to have a chance of saving my marriage than talking to her has been. I made that mistake, I dont think I ever really got over her wanting to leave me early in our marriage, about 17 years ago.

[@MysteryShack616]

I feel much better now, I was about to reach out to her *not confident*. Thanks for the tip!

[@Drhaws]

Dan love your videos , you’ve completely changed my perspective on relationships, I’m so excited for the future. You rock !!

[@e-cat5169]

Genuinely just wish you would do videos for the ladies as well. You are the most real relationship coach I've found but everything is for men lol. Still going to watch and hope that some of these points apply to getting your man back 💔

[@curtismundie4931]

For real..watched a bunch of these types of videos and I feel like your the most genuine

[@juliaryan8001]

What if I hurt her too much so she is just not willing to open up even though I am not texting often, I am positive and light-hearted and fun...She replies but does not get into a real conversation, she has built up a strong protection layer and perhaps now her feelings are gone as well. How should my strategy be if the reason for the break-up was not lost attraction but too many fights and negativity? I know she finds me attractive but still doesn't believe in us anymore....Any good strategies?

[@livxxx6637]

Hey Dan due to my past i have slipped up on self improvement and have been led into the dumps unfortunately due to negativity. I can see that these videos are mainly for men but I still got alot out of them. I would love for you to do a video from the women's point of view and how you would go about getting your man back. Your videos have alot of value and it's great advice. I have gotten out of them what I can but both genders think differently. I wonder if it would differ. As for being a women I just want to mention that all these tactics are pretty much spot on. 😊 Have a great day

[@iitss_kaii]

THIS GUYS JUST STRAIGHT UP CALLED ME OUT ON EVERY DETAIL

[@whiskeyshikesbikes6150]

This struck my core! Thank you I am a new me

[@philippepalais]

Thank God for you Dan. You're a life saver.

[@epalacios11b]

I was literally gonna do everything you said not to do,glad I came across this video🤦🏽‍♂️

[@ChordsForU]

My ex broke up with me, she said I did nothing wrong but doesn’t want to be in a relationship because she feels she can’t be there for me and it was unfair on me and needs some space to deal with some stuff. We agreed to have some space but we carried on talking for a while after we broke up and then she got mad at me for not giving her enough space. We ended up fighting and she blocked me on Facebook and said that she knows that I had been talking crap about her (which I didn’t do) and her friends have told her I’d said crap to them. I spoke to these guys and all of them said I never spoke any crap to them and apparently she told one of them she knows I’ve not spoken any crap but it was that I never gave her any space. We dated for 3 years and never ever fought with each other before we broke up.

[@trevordowning4055]

What if there are external stresses in her life and she ended things saying that the stress of having a relationship just adds to the "pile"?

[@CJMilsey]

At what point do I reach out, or do I wait for her to reach out to me?

[@Woodwose88]

I did the level ups but got shit-tested until I kindly put her in her place & diffused the argument with communication. Then got told by text later what she appreciated about what I've done recently.

[@santanukn]

Your voice gives me hope

[@andresgonzalez1236]

This video really resonated with me. All of these points he made hit me right in the gut.

[@marktureaud4094]

Just the realization of being one up with women and them being one down, has drastically changed how women literally hand themselves over. Feel like, the experience is something out of a movie. Never knew, how much power we as men have. Every guy should be able to tap into this. It is our right and it is AWESOME.

[@asdf1425able]

Hi Dan, I love your videos. I followed your steps and I finally grabbed coffee with my ex yesterday. Unfortunately, she was cold and mentioned that she did not want to see me very often. I know that through the interaction, I was confident, attractive, and funny. I made her laugh and did not remind her of the past relationship. What can I do to warm her up to at least being friends again?

[@sparkie8253]

@Danbacon your explanation feels very true to my situation and I want to let you know I fully appreciate the advice

[@marktureaud4094]

Dan, you the man brother. Better than Bad Boy info was awesome. Reaction from women is night & day, like immediately. Finding that, the level of romantic response from women seems to be based on how much show nonverbal romantic appeal towards them. Oh Man, they really submit & give themselves over to you, instantly. It is amazing. Wow.

[@davo5809]

your a good bloke Dan thanks I will apply this advice drinking was my problem I have now stopped and working on myself losing weight getting fit etc see how it goes !

[@ChordsForU]

My ex broke up with me and afterwards I didn't give her enough space and other people have said things that aren't true. She's since said she doesn't care about the things people have said but that she does care that I didn't give her enough space and has now deleted me from social media.

[@DanBacon_]

In that case, you need to use more advanced techniques to get her to re-add you, feel attracted again and meet up with you. All of those techniques are provided in: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html

[@jasonh8239]

My ex doesn't want me back but I'll definitely stop acting like a pussy and use this man's advice in a future relationship. Wish I would have seen these videos before losing all my confidence and turning my ex off.

[@Tweezy316]

This guy is the 🐐

[@ricric-po4pq]

I’m in a difficult position my soon to be x wife cheated got dumped we have kids and we do have a bond for each other if we need each other but now after she did that it hard to talk with her she morning over it how can I get her back? And out of her depression we been together for 23 years and kids

[@Agent94]

How once again I did not watch these videos, now if I catch up with her one day I’m doing all this with her and not going to be no deuce anymore

[@saswatdas5337]

You are a legend .

[@reneverlaine7346]

This guy is good.

[@BigFootCurt]

Really appreciate this video man. I’m gonna try and work on myself and try my best to get her back.

[@chrislayne3653]

Dan anyway i can contact you? My ex left me 3 weeks ago and we were talking and trying to fix things long story short I took her for granted and then I did alot wrong trying to get her to come back now she talks like she has no feelings for me. I regret what I did and this girl is the woman of my dreams! Help!

[@JmcArt17]

I'm trying to get back the mother of my child..we talk still but I'm trying to re attract her every time I see her. I know she still loves me, but she has a huge wall up and I can tell. I need some help Dan

[@nathanrodriguez629]

Damn good advice.

[@lepetitchat123]

So spot on

[@ScottAllars-jc1sf]

Hi Dan I only came across your stuff after I had managed to get my ex to agree to have drinks a few times but she has gone cold again won’t answer my calls or texts. I have watched your super system and I understand what I’ve done wrong now but it took me 5 months for her too agree to have a catch up and I think I may have blown my chance I wish I came across your stuff sooner Thanks Scott

[@carlosdelcid6841]

You are the man 👍

[@Joe7_OSRS]

Good advice, thank you

[@mcmatthewmaldonado8126]

What if it’s long distance and I have to text her

[@AICoverParadise]

Hi Dan! (Sorry if my english is not good i’m French) I post here because I need help with my ex. I am a 16 year old high school student. 4 months ago I was dropped by my girlfriend after going out with her for 2 months during the holidays. We unfortunately only saw one week because we left each other on our side on vacation. She just told me that she had no feelings for me anymore. I think I was too "duck" with her. (Too much I love you etc ...) which has (I suppose) killed her attraction that she had for me at the beginning. Today, I heard that according to one of her friends she did not love me anymore and she did not really want to go out with me again. The current goes well between us. She makes me small smiles and looks etc ... However I feel her disinterest even if some of my friends told me that they felt like she liked me. We are in two different classes and we see each other very little. I invited her to the cinema and several releases but she always finds an excuse without counterproposal. She only once agreed to come to my house with a friend. The best thing to do would surely be to move on but I am very motivated to try to seduce her. Thank you very much

[@jedcrossman1622]

She thought I cheated and I told my friends some stuff about her she didnt like and I'm talking to some friends she wouldnt like me to anymore apparently. And I didnt cheat. And I told my friends limited info she didnt know plus logging into my accounts secretly. I'm not mad I just want her back and wanna explain better. She is my everything I'll do anything for. I've pur my life on the line for her several times without her knowing

[@williamj2494]

She told me she needs a family and security. That's why she didn't get back with me.. I'm 28 and she's 34. I think I wasn't making her feel secure in terms of long term marriage.

[@marqitoslive]

Your a beast Dan I love how you made me a better man

[@Wishpool]

Dan, I love your videos, but I wish you had some for women, too.

[@chandantaneja6388]

thanks for the confidence boooost !! I have seen 100 of videos and in all they say "Do NO CONTACT and IMPROVE" but they never tell how. they are just selling their books and coachings session. like litterally everyone. I came to ypur channel like 3 hrs ago and continuously watching and got to know with what mindset i should approach my ex(yeah i am on 25 dayth of NC). Before breakup i went needy and she went more avoidant and distant. Now she was cold for about 2weeks after breakup and before nc. I will send her hii and see how she reacts. i have done improvements in my self and she had seen all my stories. I hope it goes well.

[@Blktxdom2004]

What if she cheated on me with my son in the house? The guy she cheated with has moved in and he is not working or capable of doing anything.

[@DreamMachineX]

Should you talk to other women and date during leveling up to reattract an ex?

[@alifalsiam7799]

She thinks I am not the right person. :) What should I do?

[@kamatmehbro]

Hi Dan, Quick one, what if all elements described played a role in the break up? Do you prioritise the most dominant cause of failure and focus on improving that knowing they will have positive flow-on effects to the other areas or do you take time to level up in each area? Keen to hear your take on this. Furthermore, thank you for all that you do mate!

[@DanBacon_]

Yes. I explain that in this video: kzbin.info/www/bejne/p3enhoKed7eLsLsm18s

[@kamatmehbro]

Legend! thanks for your support and guidance

[@PatriziaValMadiona]

I assume this to be the same with a guy, as this video was based on women exes?

[@craigphone4718]

Dan I shared with you my story of how in my last meet up (about 3 weeks ago) me and my ex kissed. I made her feel the sexual tension and attraction and we kissed. But it's very hard to get another meet up, my ex is in college all week and has a part time job (which may as well be full time) so she is busy basically 7 days a week and even when I suspect she's not busy she puts off meeting up with me. she never says "oh maybe this day" or offers an alternative, just shuts me down. it's getting to the point where I have to text her every 4 or 5 days asking how's her schedule looking etc we should get together. nothing. what should I do about this? How can I get her to AT LEAST want to try arrange a day to meet up? I don't want to keep looking like I'm desperately trying to meet up with her. thanks Dan I hope you can give me some advice

[@livedeliciously]

I was dating a girl from work for about 4 months. I think the fact that I can easily contact her is a good thing, but it also doesn't help for no contact. I don't have time on my side because of the length of the relationship, but I at least want to try (Restraining order here we come!). I don't think she hates me, but at the present moment she definitely doesn't see me as a strong confident-masculine person. I'll have to admit that I think I turned her off because I was too nice, too available, and not dominant enough. Can anyone give me advice on how to make the best of this situation?

[@drewunstoppable]

Who should reach out first?

[@dexterguilford8164]

What if she deleted you from social and phone number? I would love to show her that I've changed

[@MyGamer14]

Hello dan, im in a bad situation right now. She is a co worker. She told me i was negative, slept on the couch, then asked for her key to be returned a few days later. Fast forward 2-3weeks, tried talking to her, and she says she hates me. I said, "all this petty shit that happened is in the past, i dont hate you", she says thats not why i hate you. She did recently block on Facebook. I think my situation is fubar.😣😔

[@pualo9263]

What happens when she blocked you and wont text you or call?

[@joserangel7486]

So do you let her have guy friends?

[@kevinheijnen4468]

Hey Dan, my GF just broke up with me a few days ago. She doesn't want to see me or talk to me. not because she is mad or angry but to find rest and to get happy and find herself again. We had a long relationship and we had it good. last month she did't feel that way anymore and I was too hard on her for like a year. she couldn't handle it anymore, didn't want to talk about it and pretending to be fine. Now her bubble snapped and she couldnt take it anymore and left. She has it really hard and me too. Now is her birthday in 1 week and I already baught some presents before we broke up and still want to give them. I also just started to play guitar. do you have any suggestions of how to get her back? I have so manny regrets of making her sad and I feel so stupid and dumb and sorry. I hope that you can help me. Kind regards, Kevin.

[@rochelleflores6658]

How to win her back is she fell out of love?

[@israelmanny-jd2jr]

Thank you

[@nvyblue1714]

Hi Dan, I broke up with my girl 5 days ago and I gave her space during the 4 days. Now, I talked to her and her group of friends and I actually made them all laugh. I tried texting her a joke during class which I know for sure she would laugh at and she just left me on read, but I shrugged it off. She just seems depressed when I she sees me, but when she sees another guy friend she seems more talkative. It seems that shes doing everything to get herself to be mad at me. What should I do? Am I following everything right?

[@safemoonseb]

Hey Dan, I was wondering if you offer 1 on 1 phone calls? I'm going through a very difficult time with my wife and I'm not sure what approach should I take. I would be more than happy to pay you for your time 🙏 thank you so much. Great video.

[@geovannygerman1939]

Awesome

[@robertfinkelstein2787]

Dan , how can l get my ex girlfriend back after two years apart. She has a boyfriend , and I would love to get her back permanently. We had a lot of outside influences causing problems and filling her head with negative things. You guessed it her girlfriends who I don't like because the heavy drinkers but they do know how to manipulate her. She is a follower not a leader. I sure would appreciate any and all advice I really do love her and I miss her and even though I was very busy with work I still made my time to be with her . By the way her mother is narcissistic and has belittled and operated her most of her life and she's now 54 and I actually watched it with my own eyes but I know at the time if I would have said something to her mother it would have caused a bigger problem but it was smarter for me to sit back and observe and then later on tell her that her mother was wrong that she can do anything she puts her mind to because she's smart and not to let anybody put her down

[@lambomatt2]

Got her on the phone again was still a bit nervous but she said yes to meeting up for coffee : 0 hopefully I get to China meet her and it goes well thanks so much! she said would be impossible to meet but I used lines from the ex back super system and managed to get her to say yes

[@kevinhylton1901]

I was nice to my girlfriend till day one but you saw something in my phone she didn't like I tried to tell that was nothing she wouldn't believe me she wanted to see what was in it try to prove to her it was nothing she wouldn't believe me so I snapped that's the only reason why she broke up with

[@ddmmunday]

So odd, my ex just started doing this to me after I thought we were rekindling things. We spent the last month back and forth and started sleeping together and hanging out and we had a few issues since she was still dating others and I was not fond of that because I felt we were getting back and then all of a sudden the past week, she wont respond to any text I have sent for two days. i got the drift and just left it alone. She has seen the improvements I have been making over the past few months and has said that they were winning her back and she loved the positive changes. i dont get it and not sure what to do at this point.

[@miguelrodriguez3325]

What to do if you guys work together and there is another guy who is flirting with her and she is accepting some of his move. ???

[@jakebenson4341]

What if she says she want space? how do you get around that?

[@jncyj]

i was waiting in line looked over at a girl she looked away as soon as i turn my head towards her. I looked back at my lineup in front of me. Waited a few minutes then looked back at her in the next line she again looked away before i could see her face...is she interested, shy, just something else?

[@kenforbes2210]

Dan my ex is with someone else and I have been doing what you have said last night she unblock me and said she is struggling so much and tries to call me 2 times but I was asleep after she said she was fine and that she had a moment and now she won’t hardly talk to me

[@bryansart4042]

dan, I know you said about re attracting you're ex fast but we only met once and she says she doesn't have time cause of a new job. I try texting but she doesn't text if it's not related to our pet. or meet if not related to our pet. she told me we only texting strictly. no calls. she really stubborn. it doemst bother me because I'm now confident enough that I'll get her back eventually but at times it does kill me... what can I do?????

[@dingowendingo7572]

Ignore my stupid pfp, but i have honestly put my girlfriend thru alot of pain. Ive made her question her trust in me and made her hurt badly. I did not mean it, i was just stupid, i dont know how to explain but i think she wont be give me a chance. Is there anything you guys recommend i do as i go about approaching this. I genuinely love her but the LDR is challenging, we used to see each other 24/7 but she had to move away, i just want to secure our future but my stupidity almost ruins it all the time.

[@jesussilva8032]

Dan, I could lose the love of my life, my best friend for good. I cheated on her and confessed. after the break up the attraction she had for me slowly starting fading even after following your advice. It wasn't really so much about her attraction towards me because she still was attracted. It was the cheating that really messed her up mentally. She has a very negative point of view now about everything. After the break up, we started having sex again, but it was the sex that reminded her about the cheating. What's the point of attracting her and being confident and showing her I'm ok and having sex after the break up if she's the one messed up in the head after my mistake. It doesn't matter how confident I look in front of her or how composed I am or how much I improve in life if it only reminds her of how bad she is doing mentally. Keeping my shit together in life isn't helping me get her back it's just making me look like a bigger asshole. But if I get too sensitive and emotional then I loose her attraction and respect like you explain in your videos. I'm stuck in between... I beginning to get scared and lossing hope Dan, what am I supposed to do! I cherish her so much... She means everything to me!! Please help!!

[@beonfire0844]

well i broke up simply because we were not talking much about what we felt... now every time we talk i ask questions to show i really want to hear what she thinks about different stuff... first i listen then she does

[@DanBacon_]

Just make sure that you're not getting too soppy/sensitive with all the questions and sharing of emotions. Women do love it when a man is fearlessly open with his emotions, but he also has to be expressing his emotions in a masculine way. In other words, don't express emotions like she does. Be manly about it. She will respect and feel attracted to that. Also, don't get stuck talking for too long. Get to a kiss, sex and back into a relationship.

[@wezzagustus4868]

Is it of any worth if she still has "in a relationship" on her FB and has pics up of us in FB and IG?

[@MichaelScott-ob8cw]

Hi Dan! but what if she left me for solmeone else And nos she is in a serios relationship? Anda she still acting the same way? she Was my girl friend for 4 years And my wife for another 3years And a half

[@AmjadKhan-em4kr]

before 20 days she say me i wanna meet you hug uh ... after 20 days whn m say i wanna also meet .. she say no pls hlp

[@DanBacon_]

Change her mind by changing how she feels. Don't just ask to meet her. Make her feel attracted to you first and then suggest meeting up. Attraction always has to come first.

[@KT-wx6wx]

You're the man

[@wildpshare1316]

what if she is a narc and just went for her new narcissistic supply?

[@jsang9025]

Hey Dan me and my wife have been married for 5 years and now been seperated for 6 months, and we just recently talked Feb 26, 2018. She told me her father is going down hill, if he ends ups passing away, would it be a good idea if I attended the funeral?

[@andyhernandez3517]

Dan my daughters mother is now seeing someone she says for a few months I left her when she was pregnant but I’ve been there since the baby came. There were a few times when she told me if I did what I had to do we can see where things go. But now she doesn’t want anything to do with me only for the baby she wants to be friends and want us to co parent and that’s it. Nothing more she tells me I’m not to consistant. What should I do I don’t want to lose her to this guy

[@emmanuelgarcia741]

Okay dan i need your advice here man or anyone so, my girl and i broke up because i wasn't supposed to be in a relation but we still loved one another but one of her friends told her that i liked and other woman and she got upset and blocked my number doesnt want to talk at all she got herself a new man but i really still care about her and i want things to work out so i need your help. What should i do?

[@isaacjeremiah173]

What about being sweet and going to her job and sending her a gift and being confident too? Also what to text her after a break up ??

[@jennifererby7266]

Hey dan my ex boyfriend broke up with me 7 months ago now hes being nice I talk to him over the phone last month he what's nice to me after 7 months I talk to him he didn't sound like he moved on it sounded like he's not ready to talk to me What does this mean? I'm confused he's giving me hot and cold messages what should I do I'm exhausted

[@dawndusk9220]

Um hey dan. I'm a new viewer. Mine is a long and different story and I'd like to contact u personally. I am from india and need your help. Is there any way contacting u personally? Perhaps ur email id?

[@kwesi344]

Hello Dan, I am beginning to be that confident guy I think I want her to look me as,I approach a lot of women with relative ease after the break up and although what me am my ex had was long distance I still think I can attract her but how can I when it’s a long distance

[@Silk066]

Dan my soon to be ex wife and I separated back in August. Found out she was having an affair the December prior. After months of trying to make things work, she kept sneaking around saying that she was no longer interested in the marriage. And after all her manipulation, I gave her an ultimatum and chose to leave the family. Soon after there was more disrespect from her, which led me to tell her that other than the children there is officially nothing between us. Which led to me getting a lawyer and filing for divorce. Sure the person she has become e is no longer worth dealing with, but who she was prior to this nonsense was a great person. Guess I am wondering if I wanted to try again where would I start? Communication is nothing at this point and I have been blocked on all forms if social media. Other than our child nothing. Though she did contact me the other day about picked for a new position, which I was surprised she even told me about.

[@DanBacon_]

You need to use my actual ex back strategy to get her back, which I teach in my program: www.themodernman.com/blog/get-your-ex-back-super-system-download-watch-online.html In the meantime, this free video will help you when you're interacting with her regarding your child: kzbin.info/www/bejne/j3yzqJ5vhtJ_pJY