5 Tips to help you through life's BIGGEST CHALLENGES | Life After Divorce + What I've Learned

[@lshavers6211]

Relationships can be great with the right person but if you don’t meet your person, it’s okay to be happily single. Great video

[@AlishaWilliams]

Couldn’t agree more!

[@lshavers6211]

I’m in my 40s never been married and I’m still asked often when I’m getting married. I have my own house and doing it all. Travel. Working. Brunch and brunch hard 😊 living my best life

[@AlishaWilliams]

Live your life sis!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@crystaljackson240]

Same here. Im 47

[@typretty71227]

I remember when you had the family channel. I watched y’all so much then I found your twins channel. I remember the video you made I was so heart broken but I’m happy for you and all you have accomplished. Your strength is immense. I wish you the best

[@AlishaWilliams]

Thank you so much ❤

[@shamikasimmons9101]

Amen. I’m 42, never married, no kids, purchased my own house, traveled the world and is well in my career. I’ve come to the point of acceptance of not finding my person. Yes, it gets lonely, but I refuse to settle and lower my standards in my waiting season. All I can do is try to keep the peace with Gods timing. Proud of you Alisha ❤

[@AlishaWilliams]

Yes, That’s all you can do! Life is not about finding a partner. You can still live an amazing fulfilled life regardless of relationship status!

[@christinewarren8134]

Girl not not only the divorce video. But also the "its ok not to be ok" one and the one that was about a year update after divorce video. I have met a very amazing friend from the comment section of the divorce video, and let me say that video changed my life! You really are my partner in this journey, Alisha. I went thru it at the same time and with a child same age. My daughter will be 7 in September. Thank you ❤

[@AlishaWilliams]

We are never in this journey alone! So happy I have so many of you along the ride of life with me!!! 🥹❤

[@christinewarren8134]

@@AlishaWilliams I love youuuuuu

[@TheJoyJourney]

Same! My oldest will also be 7 in Sept. I started my journey at the same time as well. It's heart breaking how relatable our stories are. May God bless you ladies and our sweet children!

[@christinewarren8134]

@@TheJoyJourney thank you beautiful

[@msclaudeee-ca6312]

Divorce, death of a loved one, job loss, major illness, loss of a house, financial turmoil...all that! You must trust God, lean on your support group, and believe in yourself! Ladies, we are more than conquerors!🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@AlishaWilliams]

So so true! ❤

[@CocoJ]

Love this❤

[@VonJon886]

Yes! 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@4everlovedperson163]

Girl yes!!after my divorce!!I thought my life was over!!!but God every second by second kept me!!!..we made it this far praise the Lord!!!and as long as He wake us we'll continue to move forward,and it dont have to be fast,is what I'm learning,but as long as we moving positively❤#nevergiveup!!

[@AlishaWilliams]

Every day is a step towards healing, peace and joy after the storm. Just have to keep going!

[@robinayers600]

I rushed to this video so fast. I still remember your video announcing your divorce. You have grown so much and I appreciate you being transparent.

[@KayeFree]

Mourning the loss of a marriage/relationship is emotionally and physically draining. BUT it’s in those moments that we are the strongest! ❤

[@AlishaWilliams]

Absolutely! It is soooo exhausting. I don’t even feel like myself for a year. But God! We are so much stronger

[@almondystuffz7308]

Going through this now! But My God is so Good!

[@KayeFree]

@@almondystuffz7308 Take it one day at a time! Sending prayers and so much happy vibes your way! ❤️

[@KayeFree]

@@AlishaWilliams Same! Took me a little more than a year to feel “almost” like myself! But God! He’s so good! Thanks for sharing Alisha, I’m sure so many people will be blessed by your story and strength! Keep going!

[@user-ob4ng1tc5c]

Thank you so much for this 🙌 Divorce is not for the faint of heart. Even more so trying to navigate a divorce with an abusive partner. Much love 💗

[@katehudson6490]

Alicia you are such a blessing to the world, and such a great mom!

[@kcourtney6826]

Alisha, I'm sure you've heard this before but I've been so impressed with how you 've handled yourself over years when it comes to social media, I'm sure there are things that happen in your life no one sees, but when I see other influencers that have dealt with similiar situations I always consider you the standard.

[@AlishaWilliams]

That is one of the kindest things anyone has ever said to me. Especially when I think about how much I have had to keep to myself (when I really wanted to air some sh*t out lol) in order to maintain my integrity. It’s been a journey but I truly am proud of how I’ve handled it all. Thank you so much ❤️

[@dj.1094]

I remember the family channel and the divorce video and it broke my heart to see you go thru it. I went thru the same around that time. I saw how God continue to bless you and Val- first house, 2nd home, new job. But besides that he held you up and gave you the strength to move forward. I am so proud that you relied on Him and kept the faith things would get better! Congrats, you made it thru 🙌🏽

[@commanded2wait]

I have been following you for years remember the family videos I remember the divorce video fast forward to this video and all I can say is what the devil meant for evil to destroy you God turned all of it around for your good...God is Faithful God is a Keeper..Alisha you are blessed and nobody can take that from you. You and Val be blessed...thanks for sharing🥰

[@AlishaWilliams]

Thank you for those sweet words 🥹 God is so so good!

[@fdoctor79]

It's been 5 years?!? Wow! I love your resilience. Keep on keeping on! 😊

[@roslynbarnett5416]

You are so right about your circle of friends and family. God has been blessing you and baby girl.

[@gloriaalleyne7135]

It's nice to see you back again. Life can really be hard at times but I have found that when you are in the valley and think Lord this can't be happening there is always some one going through worse than you. Dust yourself off, look for the life lessons and move on. Trouble don't last always.

[@AlishaWilliams]

Such words of wisdom ❤

[@TheJoyJourney]

Amazing videos with such good advice! The point about pouring onto friendships now is vital! It will keep you from becoming isolated...once you really need them. It also shows your friends that they are priorities in your life.

[@AlishaWilliams]

I will scream about the importance of friendship at the mountain tops… whew! It’s what will get you through the good and bad time fr

[@gapeach238]

So glad to see your post. I was headed to fix lunch then I was like "Oh, hold up a minute...." 😃😃😃

[@benangieb7400]

Meeeee too been missing her😊❤🎉

[@AlishaWilliams]

Haha I hope you enjoyed it!

[@LatreseJBraziel]

Amazing video-divorce is hard, BUT we made it. 🙌🏽 Btw, you look amazing! ❤️

[@cheriseliesdek5166]

I got this! We got this ! This was so needed. Thank you 😊 🙏🏽

[@nicholecollins324]

Thank you for sharing your story. It gives me strength and hope despite going through my divorce. ❤much love

[@latishaturner1964]

Thank you for this, you don’t know how much I needed to hear this… my marriage is headed for divorce, but my husband is trying to sell me a dream buy talking about getting a bigger house and all the material things, but our relationship is trash.. I made up in my mind that I’m gonna move on with my life

[@FatouSamba-k8y]

Me too my marriage is already dead, the only thing left is to finalize the divorce and I have come to terms with it

[@mizztoya429]

Aww Alisha those 5 years flew by and you have truly persevered through it all. I've been watching you for several years now! Many blessings to you and Valerie!

[@Kayluvee7329]

I thank you so much for this I'm going through it now and it's hard and your words help me Make it through❤

[@janicetyson1068]

I'm so proud of you and you are an inspiration for all women and I thank God that he saw you through 🙏

[@CocoJ]

I’m so glad I watched this. I needed this. I have been through so much. And whenever I feel like I’m finally back on track, life gets to lifing haaaarrrdddd! But I remain prayerful and optimistic. I remember when you made the video announcing your divorce. I was so surprised. My heart aches for you, because I saw how much you loved him in all of your previous vlogs. I also saw you go from grief to where you are now. And you radiate in a such a new way now. I’m so happy for you. Thank you for this. It was right on time for me. ❤

[@SimplyNaturalBlack]

Hello Alisha and everyone. Happiest Thursday. Good seeing you again. Great message. Many Blessings to you and Valarie ❤❤

[@jakyrakimble5561]

Alisha your testimony continues to help so many ! I found you from your divorce video and followed you through your healing journey! This was also great advice for our younger ladies ! Keep doing you girl growing and getting all god has for you !

[@iamshe3275]

You're a gift, Alisha❤

[@soniagodlieb1896]

GOD BLESS YOU ALISHA AND FAMILY. 😚🤗

[@TNA_bloom]

There is a whole world waiting for you, hits so different now! 🙌🏾❤️

[@AlishaWilliams]

I could cry just thinking 😭 life really is just getting started!

[@tanyalovespink9428]

This video is just what I needed to hear, thank you so much for sharing and being so transparent. You reminded that I have to keep going in order to get to the other side of my situation. Thanks again for this very informative and inspiring video 💞💞

[@AlishaWilliams]

You’ve got this! One step at a time ❤

[@kbd85lw3]

Thanks for the encouragement!!

[@dianejackson3627]

You’re Right I’ve been watching you since your divorce and Girl you have come a long way ❤ thank you Lord Jesus

[@latishaturner1964]

I knew I started to follow you for a reason 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@l3l3Cakes]

Love this topic! I would even apply what you said about romantic partners to friendships. Yes, they are important, but you don’t need friends to live your life. It’s okay to do things alone. It’s okay to give your self space to process your emotions, or to lean on God when no one is in reach. I’m saying this as someone who doesn’t have a village. Without my belief in God and myself, I wouldn’t be here. It’s God above everyone for me🙏🏾

[@AlishaWilliams]

Omg yes, this! I just talked about this on IG today. There is SO much beauty in learning to spend time alone!

[@laj4186]

Very proud of you!

[@TheShonda89]

Thanks for sharing Alisha!!

[@sincerelychristianj]

I needed this.

[@kristallindsey4195]

Alisha, this was excellent. Thank you for sharing. So happy you are doing well! 😍🥰

[@yolandafaye6436]

You are so beautiful- your soul and spirit is so beautiful 🥰🥰🥰

[@AlishaWilliams]

Thank you 🥹

[@godsprecious6884]

Thank you ❤❤

[@dianejackson3627]

And I have another morning song before my workout (Square Biz by Teena Marie)

[@DeeDee-dl9wk]

Beautiful said ❤

[@FatouSamba-k8y]

Thanks for this the only thing I want know is divorce

[@allthingslisaw]

Excellent!!!!

[@lshavers6211]

I have a great friendship circle. We’re soulmates 💚

[@AlishaWilliams]

Yep, friends can be soul mates too! A lot of the times your friends are the ones who will truly get you.

[@shaletastevenson4551]

🤍🤍🤍

[@lifeandstyleatlanta8689]

The hardest time of my life was watching my Mom die. My colleague would often say…”You can do hard things.” She had loss her daughter years prior, so hearing those words come from her meant a lot. I repeated those words to myself often throughout my journey with my Mom…and they are true. We can do hard things! 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾

[@ForeverGodsGirl03]

🫂 you deserve all of the greatest things In the world 🙏🏽