Like Elliott said thats IF he’s worth waiting for, if he’s a piece of shit , even if you thought you loved him , let it go, it’ll pass, it might pass like a fucking kidney stone but it’ll pass lol, but i wish everyone the best of luck, and i hope everyone has a beautiful day!! …. Lots of Love and Well Wishes 🤗 🩷 - Heather
@clariceBeddingham2 ай бұрын
like a fucking kidney stone!!! lol made my day that
@ceelee1265 ай бұрын
According to your blackboard, my guy is going to come back .. 5/5. Thing is, I DON'T want him back so there's that. You left, you ain't welcome back. Ever. Au revoir
@rebekahjette63045 ай бұрын
Encouraging men and correcting them should both be done in the same manner...gently. If a man is abusive, he will not be open to any kind of correction...stay away from that guy.⚠️ Men are looking to be able to share their hearts, this is a HUGE privilege that women are given if he shares from his heart... don't hurt him and never make fun of him.⚠️🙏🏼 A loving man needs an encouraging woman❤️ ⚠️ Trying to communicate with a man who is the wrong one WILL NEVER WORK!!! You can be the perfect woman but if he doesn't love you...it will be a confusing and miserable relationship. LEAVE💯
@Salsera72 ай бұрын
I’ve got someone who keeps coming back over and over but then treats me badly when I return. I’m so over it.
@babyxox949Ай бұрын
Theres billions of men, i hope you are well and taking care of yourself and dissing that man-child
@Liz-dragon-street.5 ай бұрын
Yes being the girl next door who loves God of War, watch football, is going 2 the gym, golf surfing, read books, having a great job, a loving personà, has her own money but doesn't brag about it, loves her own sexuality, has a life with travelling, loves 2 cook, has good friends and her humor is real humor.. yeh nobody can beat ya Ladies, working hard on yourself is so amazing ❤ you will atract many many man. Find out who you can love and be the best lover in life .. Grtz from Amsterdam
@veronicasmith13325 ай бұрын
thats me and men are grazy over me
@jessicahitchens69265 ай бұрын
Going Dutch doesn't do it for me with men. That's not feminine at all what you just stated. And that's the issue in the Netherlands all "equal".. No roles defined. A complete mess.
@Liz-dragon-street.4 ай бұрын
@@jessicahitchens6926 Trust me you can say Dutch are all the same.. You just can't 😁
@Minime6693 ай бұрын
Oh god so boring and pick me
@verarobinson67595 ай бұрын
I am all this he falling for me he came back after 3 weeks we are going. Strong now ❤
@IsabelSmith315 ай бұрын
Lol youre actually making me more confident 😂
@RinaSteyn5 ай бұрын
I am all these things and more.
@suttersynge92145 ай бұрын
Thank you for reminding me to be my authentic self.
@cristinachaliandroi13695 ай бұрын
He might come back ,but i won't be tbere🙂
@patriachampion65545 ай бұрын
Elliot, I told him I love him after 9 months of being in a situationship lol & it pushed him away for good
@graceperez12815 ай бұрын
I got in the same situation, my mistake was telling him after 3 months,,I couldnt help it, I felt it. Shortly after that he faded off and stopped seeing me, I was sad ,,,,very sad, I realized I made a mistake with him. We somehow remained friends for about 3 years after that, alot of things changed. We dont talk anymore, its been a year, cant say I dont miss him but I am better off without him. I do wish you good luck going forward, and meet someone who will appreciate you:)
@patriachampion65545 ай бұрын
Girl, We are intentional daters & we love hard. I aint mad @ the fact he don’t want me the same way, im mad @ the fact he accepted my love & gestures but only wanted sex. I don’t believe for 1 second he never loved me. He said that to push me away lol but I don’t care if he comes back anymore.Neither 1 of us need each other fr & the dynamic was draining me. It was Juss an experience & I stayed too long where I didn’t belong. Thank you for your blessings ! 🫶🏽 @@graceperez1281
@nailed_sa3 ай бұрын
Tiha uplifted me today Thanks elliot ❤
@kahleesi-queenfire1795 ай бұрын
So true Elliot ..girls went after that look and didn’t know how to be their true selves and that can cause bad connections on both sides..
@ymat84245 ай бұрын
Old-fashioned or classic?
@claracruz90662 ай бұрын
Thank you Elliot ❤
@PrincellachowАй бұрын
I know I’m all these things but he betrayed me deeply than immediately broke up with me and blocked me everywhere. It’s been a year and he’s made it clear he wants nothing to do with me. I thought I was his dream girl and I’m so confused.
@Mermaid03_035 ай бұрын
Great video!
@Justanothercog245 ай бұрын
I've watched this play out soooo many times with my male friends & coworkers. They don't pay attention to the women who are modest, classy, natural, graceful, stable & supportive or even genuinely like them outside of putting them in the friendzone or back burner. They don't see modest, chill women because they're so focused on chasing overtly sexual types because it's a flashy vibe. I've known many guys who wanted to be around me, but only to chill, have good conversation, emotional support & get dating advice. Or they reject other good women who genuinely like them & have the long term qualities they say they want. I still have guys who stay trying to reach out again & again... but it's not a compliment to be everyone's last choice once they ran through the "fun times" & crazy broads they claimed to not want.
@Eastonj995 ай бұрын
Agree 💯
@BrooklynBaby1005 ай бұрын
That’s all good but you also have to be *HOT* 💦🔥 not overtly trash just be the hottest you can be.
@renoaczhary12324 ай бұрын
This💯
@angelinadenisenko73963 ай бұрын
This just happened to me. After seeing me, hanging out for months, he said he didn't feel an emotional connection. You're kidding! I'm well rounded and stable and beautiful. Supportive and caring. Feminine. But he still didn't choose me
@angelinadenisenko73963 ай бұрын
It felt safe and not super crazy. Maybe he wanted crazy vibes???
@fantsylemonade5 ай бұрын
You’re the best 🎉
@heyyoholl81945 ай бұрын
I always have questions about if they left early on in dating (less than 5 dates), if this same stuff can apply or if it’s different?
@ceelee1265 ай бұрын
He left because he knows he isn't good enough for you! 😉 And that makes room for your man to show up for you!!
@bluebirdinthenightsky24915 ай бұрын
Thankyou for these videos Elliott
@IsabelSmith315 ай бұрын
Lmao dont kill the messenger 😂❤
@suziliciАй бұрын
Can you give some examples with malleability though? Not sure I understand exactly what you are referring to with this one
@jeandoe48872 ай бұрын
I don't even remember him 😅 my short term memory starting to get worst hahaha
@IsabelSmith315 ай бұрын
Im just a little bit unsure about the loving and malleable part :/ cuz of my hangups. I dont think i came across as those :( in the beginnings i did but i think i effed up and waited too long. I built up resentment 😢 :// i guess i have to just accept that
@tess77985 ай бұрын
Elliot ! You mentioned a movie… find one that demonstrates the feminine playfulness and let us know 😊
@ElliotScottDating5 ай бұрын
Homeward bound 🙌
@kimt81625 ай бұрын
Needed some Elliott advice today. Let's just say Brayden. Doesn't talk much and is impatient. Has been orbiting for the past two years. Starts college. A girl from a whole other town starts college comes in and makes him her boyfriend in like 3 months. Let's just say after seeing the facebook pic. She's easy. Don't know what to say. I guess he was just looking for something as easy as possible and found it.