1. Objectively observe the brokenness of the person who hurt you. 2. Internally interrogate yourself a) did I damage/hurt myself b) what was deficient in me that I let them in c) what lies did I internalise 3. Look back at yourself and learn what needs to be changed/adjusted in you 4. Draft your own constitution (how u want to live, who u are, what u looking for) through meditation 5. Release the hope for something that was never meant to be
@Andtherewaslight427 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much.💓
@ZailynnNoel Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@angelmarshall2076 Жыл бұрын
Thank youu
@NikkitaChante Жыл бұрын
Thank you
@chevellehymans61509 ай бұрын
Yes king
@simplify_ Жыл бұрын
Ladies, financial security is no joke in today's world - make smart decisions that sustain security. You are able!
@sunshinesunflowerz1647 Жыл бұрын
This is one thing that my dad taught me because he wasn't there physically.
@notallabouttarot5194 Жыл бұрын
Yes. This is what Divine is telling us all Queen conscious women to do.
@Nikita_848 Жыл бұрын
"A queen conscious woman is calm, confident and present." ✔
@BL3SSed-Bliss Жыл бұрын
Don't forget hopeful! 💖
@elindabeanland5917 Жыл бұрын
What a Word! I'm a Proverbs 31 Woman and a Queen in God! ❣️
@yneztulsen Жыл бұрын
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@Markenyetta8 ай бұрын
I started crying when he said that because I know exactly how being queen conscious feel but I allowed a broken person to brake my spirit so bad I am trying to get back to being the calm me
@sherrijones4357 Жыл бұрын
I just started my healing journey at the age of 61. My volunteering days are over.
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
Better now than never...
@lous.1548 Жыл бұрын
there is no age for healing . Hope your journey will be full of joys
@Maryam-hb1cf Жыл бұрын
That’s beautiful ❤
@beckyfrancis481 Жыл бұрын
You are worth it.
@madelinebigio7565 Жыл бұрын
I just got away from a narcissist and on my way to my healing and I’m 59 years old! Thank goodness it was short lived less than 3 months 😂Thank goodness ❤❤❤
@melnq8 Жыл бұрын
I need this. It's been a year since I literally ESCAPED an awful abusive relationship with a Narcissist. People keep trying to get me back out onto the dating scene but for the life of me I just can't. God gave me the strength to remove myself from a toxic relationship, and I believe you popped up in my recommendations when I needed it the most for the very same reason. He does indeed work in mysterious ways!
@lanarose2460 Жыл бұрын
Same happened for me, Sis. He is a true man of God. He has been a real source of feeding my soul into healing properly.
@christineecheverri4194 Жыл бұрын
Same!! Except I've only been out for 1.5 months. RC helped me escape too. Thank God!
@melnq8 Жыл бұрын
Hang in there sister's. Narcissists are without a doubt the work of the devil, being in relationship with one feels and/or IS like you've dated a demon Bishop Rc Blake's is definitely the instrument of God. When God has a job to do, he always chooses individuals through whom he does his work. He's helping us heal, and shed light where there once was darkness. Like a lighthouse in a storm, as is God, working through him being such a big help to many of us women that need to hear his words
@user-ku5vm5jb1h Жыл бұрын
People think they know best for you and that finding a partner is the only lifestyle on the planet. Don’t give in to that.
@hj0628 Жыл бұрын
Same. I attribute a lot of my healing to his teachings and validation. Keep yourself encouraged sis, through loving support and resources like this.. you will feel and see the difference soon. 🙏🏽❤
@moniqueharriel757 Жыл бұрын
I prayed God would remove me from a toxic relationship. He answered my pray ! During my transformation I remained celibate for 5 years . During this time I was able to look deep into my spirit and understand how strong I am . I grew up with a loving father ! He taught me we teach people how to treat us . And to never ignore a man’s energy! I was so fixated on looks I ignored what I knew was not good for me . Sometimes God has to shake us up to wake us up . Now I am in one of the most beautiful relationships. My fiancé treats me like the true queen that I am . He is a true man of God ! On the beginning of our friendship I told him I don’t wear my scares on my face . He knew exactly what I was talking about . In that moment he held me close and said “ my love I got you “ and he does . I transformed myself into the true queen that I am . And God send me my queen . We’re getting married on my birthday next year . Pastor Blake’s thank you for your awesome teachings . I love you my God continue to bless you and your beautiful family ❤
@LadyHannahl Жыл бұрын
Ow that was really beautiful♥️🌙I pray God that he blesses you both and your future children.Pray for me sis. Growing up I haven't had a good relationship with my Dad and that made me insecure.I don't know how to behave with a man. Currently I'm working on myself hoping one day everything would be fine.
@shellebaby2074 Жыл бұрын
What do you mean don ignore a man's energy?
@saintejeannedarc9460 Жыл бұрын
@@shellebaby2074 Pastor Blakes has video on it. You'll see it in the titles. It basically means that a man will have a certain vibe. It can be good, bad or neutral. How healthy you are in spirit will depend on what kind of energy you're attracted to, or will chose to ignore (if it's bad).
@athenafarrell51277 ай бұрын
He delivered me too!
@marissachapman10223 ай бұрын
God has to shake us up to wake us up! I love it. This is so true. I am So happy for you. Thank you for sharing your journey. ❤
@victoriasheesley9558 Жыл бұрын
After 5 years with a narcissist I’m working on healing and becoming a queen again. It’s very difficult recovering from trauma. I’ll get there with the grace of the lord
@QeenBee86 Жыл бұрын
Six years with a narcissist. I chose me this time around and walk away for good ‼️The healing ❤️🩹 process suck. However, BUT GOD 🙌🏽- he’s my healer ❤and nothing is too big for him.🙏🏽🙌🏽🫶🏽
@yolandaburrage4848 Жыл бұрын
Love your comment my sister stay strong
@609Georgiana Жыл бұрын
it may take longer than you want it to, but you will rise from the ashes. make it a point to do so, and you will be wiser for it!
@lolachlih3136 Жыл бұрын
8 years with a narcissist left almost 2 years ago have been healing and with RC's sessions sure have helped me so much stay strong sis you got this!💖🙏
@onjanettehudson3669 Жыл бұрын
@@QeenBee86 Wishing well, my sister….. HURTS LIKE HELL
@knowyourkismat Жыл бұрын
“It is the natural inclination of an evolved and conscious man to protect and preserve womankind” -how beautiful. I pray I and all of us in the comments get ours soon
@queendippy1857 Жыл бұрын
Ever since I started watching your sessions, I'm healing, you are speaking to my life, everything you are addressing, approaching 40 yet always struggled in the area of relationship, even in marriage, I left a narcissistic husband. I'm finding myself through this session.
@Roro2023. Жыл бұрын
I just left a narcissist husband as well. Been 3 months. And I’m healing daily. I pray you continue to heal Queen. Stay empowered
@bridgettetraveler658 Жыл бұрын
My sister u will be free & made whole! U through JESUS will be a complete person all by yourself! Be BLESSED & keep your head up! Keep smiling & don't get frown lines! I find when I feel alone or depressed get your praise going! It's something about praising GOD that can lift our Spirits above measure!!!
@Bri3w Жыл бұрын
@@Roro2023. I can’t wait til I get to 3 months and say I’m healed 🥺😪🙏🏾.
@dcnelsons Жыл бұрын
Ditto
@mspj6008 Жыл бұрын
Peace is PRICELESS.
@Anonymous-cl2es Жыл бұрын
Sure is!!
@Queen360_Crown6 ай бұрын
“you hung around for the party, even when you knew it wasn’t thrown in you honor “ boooooom!!!! Thank you pastor, my problem is solved ❤
@dublingirl1691 Жыл бұрын
Broken people break people; I’ve had that looping question too, going around keeping me stuck; kept the recurring thought “why did he do this to me?” Pastor explained it perfectly clear. I’m stuck no more. 😁Forgiveness is much easier now Thank God. Blessings to you and your family. 💗🙏🏻
@Rashuana Жыл бұрын
I will never let a traumatizing moment define me. Thank you God for blessing him with this powerful message.
@Terryon1219 Жыл бұрын
Yes lord ❤️
@kayfleming5180 Жыл бұрын
The love being poured into so many of our Hearts & Souls from Pastor RC Blakes is the love we needed from birth. We are beyond grateful. 🙏🏽❤️ Many Blessings to you, your beautiful wife, Lisa, and your family. ❤
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
Yes!!! Totally agree! 💕💕🙏🏾
@victoriasullivan9369 Жыл бұрын
💯🙌🏽
@tonikae8593 Жыл бұрын
I just want to say that you’ve helped me so much on my journey to becoming a Queen conscious woman and I thank God so much for you and your teaching and I pray God continues to bless you ❤
@gabychavez2265 Жыл бұрын
Im crying as you speak. Feels like your right in front of me. It was not my fault 😔 For any woman that has been in toxic emotionally abusive relationship we have to know it’s not our fault. ❤
@gabychavez2265 Жыл бұрын
But we learn and we learn to love ourselves first. It’s a process but we can do it! Put God first 💜 he is only removing what is not good out of our lives.
@heather7119 Жыл бұрын
Observe the brokenness of the person that broke you..... so true. I can tell you that doing this has greatly has helped me to forgive. Actually had me feeling sorry for them because I was able to recuperate and get a deeper understanding of myself and healing from God. Dude is still a hot mess, married and still trying to reach out with the same foolishness. BULLET DODGED and God is good. GREAT teaching, pastor. Thank you for all you do :)
@DoreenMorrison-b5q Жыл бұрын
My Ex Bf almost killed me, left me w a frac pelvis in 3 places and a wheelchair. It has taken much Work for me to be Whole physically & mentally. I sought out help wherever I could, prayed a lot. Also received the help of a Christian church & a Counselor!!!
@LadyBugShaun2 ай бұрын
I hope you are doing much better.. I wish he is in jail for doing all that to you.
@sharonscott8774 Жыл бұрын
Hello everyone. May God’s Grace and Mercy continue to chase after each and every one of us. May his Peace and Joy reign in our hearts.
@ambinodagreat Жыл бұрын
Your podcasts are HEAVEN SENT 🙌🏾‼️‼️ Praise God for blessing your word and your spirit 🙏🏾
@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын
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@oliveevergreen5401 Жыл бұрын
I will position myself to be able to take care of myself financially. I will maximize my potential!👸💖
@lynellb Жыл бұрын
I loved it when he said "the vase has taken a heavy blow, withstood the pressure and still standing" yesss! 🙌🏾🙌🏾💕 I'm still here! 💪🏾💪🏾💕🙏🏾
@Alomabfashionedbyfaith Жыл бұрын
To my Spiritual Dad, you ALWAYS have a WORD. Thank You so much. I truly wish that I had met you 3 years ago. Better Late Than Never!!!!. Thank You!
@gc2137 Жыл бұрын
For the first time by listening to this Bible study, I'm realizing that most of my life (and I'm over 50) I have lived from adopted and not true identity. God bless you and thank you Pastor 🙏 🙏 🙏
@sophiagreene4535 Жыл бұрын
Though We Are Cracked! We are Still Standing! Thank you God for The Strength and Courage to Keep Standing! The Mercy and Restoration of a Good and Faithful God! Keep Standing Ladies! God is For us and Within us!
@KrystleLaughter2 жыл бұрын
Really looking forward to this message. Been on a healing journey now for the last two years.
@Nikita_848 Жыл бұрын
I love when you say she's positive and bounces back from trauma. That is absolutely it, that's the differentiator.
@purplereignsupreme6990 Жыл бұрын
Bishop you will never know how many lives your words have changed. I thanknyou and God for the calling he put on you to helps us sleeping beautys. I am forever woke!
@lisabowman877 Жыл бұрын
This song will go to the top of all the charts! I absolutely love the song! ❤❤❤❤❤
@opallight8069 Жыл бұрын
The song is a Ministry in itself ❤️
@kirahale021610 ай бұрын
Ive been broken for so long i am breaking my family😢😢😢 I found your videos a few days ago and i love them. I want so badly to change and heal myself and my family
@LadyBugShaun2 ай бұрын
What do you want to heal yourself from? How are you doing today?
@carismacatalyst1289 Жыл бұрын
"She will repair the damage of her soul and will return to her Thron" Thank you Sir!
@BeckyJade Жыл бұрын
Hello this is the first Christian video I have watched in a while as I had a breakdown after caring for my mum. Please can I ask you to pray in for me my name is Rebecca Jade Mawson. I was hit in the face by a man 2 nights ago after he smashed my phone. It was horrible. I don't know him that well but I have been vunerable since my mum died. I'm getting there but I need prayers not His to strengthen me. Thank you I love you
@orlanrichards Жыл бұрын
Prayers going up for you during this season of your. You got this🙏💪
@kimberlymay949710 ай бұрын
Was involved in a unhealthy relationship but I refuse to give up on love. I know it’s a healthy loving man out there for me ❤ these videos have helped me soooo much! Their not going to go on with their life and think I’m a stay in the bed depressed, no sir pray about it until it’s gone and move on ❤ Kind of glad I went thru it so the next time, I can end it much quicker!!! Amen 🙏
@patticiarose4526 Жыл бұрын
I'm always blessed every time I listen to your teaching. I was abused many times... Thank God 🙏🏿 I'm in healing process each day. It's 4 yrs now strong enough to make a decision.
@lizzsibs Жыл бұрын
This Bishop Blakes is what I really needed to hear. You sure have the anointing for ministering to women and you got no idea the impact you're making all over the world. Every woman needs to listen to one of your teachings. May the oil on your head never run dry in Jesus name. Amen 🙌🔥🔥🔥🔥
@markesastewart4741 Жыл бұрын
I seriously needed this because l'am committed to healing but I have moments I fill like running away but I have stiff conversations like I'm above never beneath not how I fill . I'am empowered the more to becoming the best version of myself unapologetically.. I appreciate you pastor Blake's I receive wisdom nuggets .I'am discovering why my ex husband or broken guys I attracted because of my brokenness. Thank you for healing and restoration becoming a whole woman 💜🙏🏾💕
@Bri3w Жыл бұрын
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@marypickney7490 Жыл бұрын
I just start my healing journey at the age of 61 . Getting a divorce, I been with narcissist for 20 years married 16 years. It was toxic I had no idea what was happening. 4 years ago I found your KZbin channel. And I am getting all the information I needed. Thank God for you Pastor RCBlakes for your honest. Thank you 🙏🏽
@1974Ny Жыл бұрын
#5 spoke directly to my soul...release what was never meant to be. I appreciate you Pastor Blakes.
@1muddonna Жыл бұрын
"You've been living a counterfeit vision with an adopted identity." Wow. That hit home.
@lizzyworld007 Жыл бұрын
Needed this one tonight!!! I'm just over 2months post breakup I hear the new supply is pregnant 🙃 if I needed more reason to move on this was it 💯 lort help the ridiculousness lol be back in a hr notification,on🖤
@MsAmazonAmazing Жыл бұрын
This!! I thank you for speaking life, and hope with this message. Meditation has helped me greatly in my moving forward process. As a Queen, I loved a joker. The loss is his not mine and wont let him turn me into a bitter woman ..The gym, journaling and meditation w/ loving on my self more has helped me greatly ❤
@victoriasullivan9369 Жыл бұрын
"What lies did I internalize?" ...if we asked ourselves this question more often while processing our relationships and situations in life, omg, the amount of time n energy we could save. 🤦🏽♀️
@darawatkis7084 Жыл бұрын
Excellent message Paster Blakes 🙏🏽🙏🏽I needed this so much. Just recently broke up with a Covert Narc. He was trying to break me into something that I wasn’t. Thank God that I dodged that bullet because it really could have been worst. Emotionally it’s been hard at times because I treated him excellent but yet he couldn’t see my worth. Your message makes me feeling good and confirms that I’m going in the right direction. It’s been five months healing ❤️🩹 I have no desire to get into another relationship. Focusing on me and fixing Me. Thank you again🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
@catherinewicker9541 Жыл бұрын
Really looking forward to this tonight. I need to hear this from a spiritual stance. I thought I had met my God sent mate; however, I was all wrong. My spirit still hurts. I am so hesitant to get back out there. My God. I am still here and still hopeful and at peace.
@Ang_Nicole2 жыл бұрын
I can’t wait to tune in for this one pastor. I truly need it right now. Thank you for all that you do ❤
@lolachlih3136 Жыл бұрын
Still healing after getting out of my toxic relationship to a narcissist for almost 2 years now and thanks to you Bishop for all that you do now im finally on my journey to healing May God Bless you🙏
@charmee4045 Жыл бұрын
I am two years out as well, feels so good. It takes time to heal. I am waiting for the right one, not the next one.
@cynthiamcrae-winborn6375 Жыл бұрын
I am fairly new to your channel thank you so much for caring as much as you do for all women. I have been in a toxic marriage for over 11 years I didn’t listen to the voice of GOD or paid attention to the signs He showed me I got married anyway. I paid the price for being in this marriage but GOD has been turning my life around and now I realize my worth even more. I decided to separate from the marriage it’s been a year now. Within that year I was willing to reconcile but I saw there were no changes within our marriage. He refused counseling that’s it for me I am moving on. I refuse to continue being broken-hearted by a man who wasn’t worth it in the first place.. Great topic !! Thank you so much. I Might have learned a few things and it was painful but I’m becoming more of a Queen conscious woman I know my worth, and it sure is worth more than what this man was dishing out . May GOD continue to bless you and your wife in ministry 🙏🏾
@Jasmine-qw7tj Жыл бұрын
Thank God for my counselor because she told me about you. This is some real good teaching and this brought some comfort and change in perspective on my healing journey. You're truly a gem!!! God restore me!! Thank you Pasto!!
@marisolrivera5255 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for speaking life which helps me into my healing journey after survival of years of abuse failed relationships and marriage . Im choosing me til God opens my heart to love again to bring a king 🤴 🙏 it's a spiritual juprney to heal.
@fififi3714 Жыл бұрын
You are truly the God sent truth to women Bishop !!! May God continue to bless you and Lady Blakes 💞 I'm aspiring to be a delivered queen conscious woman 🙏🏿
@lynnlamont8942 Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that we as women can find ourselves👑🤗
@deborahpayton4105 Жыл бұрын
I simply love the intro song "She's A Queen". This is a great song to listen to daily. I like to buy a copy. Who is the artist?
@tiffanylcollins3631 Жыл бұрын
Don't just get the pain, get the wisdom.
@1goodgirl593 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, Pastor! Your teachings are penetrating my heart and soul and are an integral part of my healing process. Gob bless you and Lady Lisa!
@rachelroyster5807 Жыл бұрын
Healing is the children’s bread. Thank you and thank God for your obedience.
@keyscott-hale939 Жыл бұрын
This is literally a breath of fresh air. Thank you King RC Blakes ..
@busyv3124 Жыл бұрын
Anointed message! Christ takes away the shame and the guilt. Hallelujah! You offered deliverance to so many. I’m praying a hedge of protection for you and your family. ❤
@msjones287710 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!, I finally realized why I have been having such a hard time and have been consistently angry for something that was so short-lived. I thought I forgave the person but I really did not. God bless you and thank you.
@yolandamorton2096 Жыл бұрын
A three month relationship I’ve been in may be ending due to our culture differences and I’m really sad tonight, as he’s a lovely man. I could really benefit from your wisdom tonight Pastor Blakes.😢
@rosalindwashington7376 Жыл бұрын
What are the cultural differences?
@yolandamorton2096 Жыл бұрын
He’s Nigerian and I’m American.
@melnq8 Жыл бұрын
@@yolandamorton2096 I get that. I lived through the conflict of cultural differences growing between my Mom (American/Christian), and my Dad (African Arabian/Muslim) and I experienced that myself in my last relationship. I have many soul sisters that have married men of different cultures. It is possible if you are of the same faith, equals spiritually, or else you are setting yourself up for a life of misery with the devil constantly infiltrating your relationship and family life. There's many verses that touch on this but here's one: 2 Corinthians 6:14 "Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. For what partnership has righteousness with lawlessness? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?".
@amaragrace94 Жыл бұрын
@@yolandamorton2096 Cultural differences are as big as you make them. They only have a profound effect if there are expectations or aspects of the culture the other person isn't willing to embrace. What are you guys struggling with? I'm Nigerian American and I don't discriminate ethnicities. If the attraction is there, then I'm open to exploring if we are compatible. I have dated Indian, Latino, Black, and white men. I was in a 3 month situationship with a Mexican man and he later revealed to me that it wouldn't go anywhere because he believed having the same culture was important for a relationship. Though we connected in faith and had the best deep conversations about life, he wanted a Hispanic woman🤷🏾♀️. I know sooo much about Mexican culture. I grew up in LA with some of my best friends being Latinos. I understand a good amount of Spanish and can speak a little bit too. My neices/nephews call me tía, my Mexican friend's 1.5 yr old daughter calls me tía and I speak Spanish to her. I can make Nigerian, Mexican, and even some Korean dishes. Our cultures actually have a lot of similarities. But he never got to know that side of me 🤷🏾♀️. His loss. I don't argue with people that aren't interested in taking me seriously. Don't ever take rejection as an opportunity to "prove yourself." All I could do was respect his decision, dust off the hurt and keep it moving. And through my healing, I've realized he reallyyy wasn't right for me, which I couldn't see before. I was too busy focusing on what he wanted. I needed to stop with the anxious attaching and focus on my needs and what I want. No longer tolerating crumbs. And now I'm talking to a Caribbean American man who is open about how much he likes me. I'm happy to see where it goes.
@tysgem7 Жыл бұрын
@@amaragrace94 Glad you’ve moved on and thank him for his early honesty. The worst is to drag along the relationship knowing his heart isn’t in it. Good for you; on to better times and people. ☺️
@MySingleLifeADollShow Жыл бұрын
This song makes me cry so much. Its really beautiful and I appreciate these messages. My heart is in so much pain and the lonliness makes me feel like im not going to make it. At this point I just want to harden my heart and forget about finding love altogether. I just want to love myself to the fullest.
@nawhatererr2 жыл бұрын
I cant wait for this. Thank you. You have healed me this year. I keep learning from you
@anabella4296 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Pastor! 🙏🙌 😊 💓 You train us to REIGN 👑 🙌 ✨
@VCurtis7 Жыл бұрын
Wow! That awesome intro song! Powerful! Good word of wisdom! Thank you Bishop!
@misguidedpearls7456 Жыл бұрын
I love it
@tonyajackson8860 Жыл бұрын
Listening to it again!
@veronicaatkins4417 Жыл бұрын
“Her crown may have a crack in it but it is no less valuable “
@sandramallory4382 Жыл бұрын
This video is one of the most powerful ones he has ever made. I listen to it every day.
@t.rashon Жыл бұрын
After 13 years went back into a relationship with a narcissist and i just called it off officially and it was hard. Working on reclaiming my confidence. He knows he’s broken and would use it to get what he wants or to make me stay. I pray for his healing as well as mine.
@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын
R.C. Is a godsend because lord knows I needed to hear this . When he said objectively observe the brokenness of the person that hurt you … that’s deep
@gc2137 Жыл бұрын
This Bible study is such a true blessing Pastor, thanks so much! As a mental health professional who continues to do my own work for self healing, I appreciate your take on us doing self Inquiry and processing how trauma affects us in the present moment. Praise God for His unconditional Love toward us and His Power to make us whole in Him! 🙏🙏🙏
@latenitetubing Жыл бұрын
my soul has been broken. stopped trying to understand why it happened, because it doesn’t really matter why. it is on the perpetrator. not me. this has helped me survive mentally and spiritually. the attacker is also a victim because the attacker does this against their own soul and goodness. yes it happened to us, but at the same time it’s not really our thing to harbor. it is the attackers. the attacker doesn’t get to live in your soul. this is the choice you can make as you survive an attack on your body, mind and soul. Thank you Pastor Blakes. This is a tough topic and I really deeply appreciate you tackling this from a biblical, compassionate and sensitive way. I’ve noticed many spiritual leaders shy away from this topic and it can make survivors feel even worse. It is always empowering to hear you speak. I’ve shared your content with many of the women in my life who have lost their calm. Love from Canada.. 🇨🇦 ♥️
@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын
Agree! 💜
@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын
I agree . I kind of wish more spiritual leaders would speak heavily on childhood trauma primarily sexual abuse because it’s a lot of blockage that a lot of survivors need help with unblocking ! I think that’s unfortunately my biggest struggle yet
@latenitetubing Жыл бұрын
@@skyylea9859 Blockage is an excellent word for this. I’m sorry you are going through something so difficult. You are not alone here. Sending much love 💕
@skyylea9859 Жыл бұрын
@@latenitetubing Thanks … I appreciate it. Much love to you as well .
@moniqueharriel757 Жыл бұрын
One word describes you King Blake’s . Blessing ❤❤
@Christine-cf2bz Жыл бұрын
Nairobi Kenyan is also in Rev. Blakes... we listen, learn, and apply. God bless and keep you & Lisa. And yes, do come out here too!
@deja14 Жыл бұрын
Hardest thing ever …. Forgiving someone who isn’t even sorry…. Observing the brokenness of the person who broke you…. My ex husband shot me last year and maaaan it’s really hard to understand his demons and past but MAN ITS HARD
@LadyBugShaun2 ай бұрын
Oh wow... Shot you? Hopefully, he was imprisoned. I hope you are doing better.
@deja142 ай бұрын
@@LadyBugShaun he was definitely sent to prison. I am doing great tho. Thank you.
@LadyBugShaun2 ай бұрын
@@deja14 glad you're OK. May you never experience anything like that ever again.
@brittanybutler-lamar6450 Жыл бұрын
Wow! I'm just now realizing this in my own 7 years of marriage....🥺
@sheliasmith2884 Жыл бұрын
I thank him so much he has helped me to heal from a toxic relationship I just got out of at the age of 59 I thought I was good to go and got hurt the pool of men here in Mississippi is not good at all I thank God for this man and Lisa.
@DoctorCarrieHall Жыл бұрын
Watching again on my way to a healthier and better person. Thank you Lord for going deep and healing area's in me that I never gave permission to you before. Thank you Pastor RC.
@teresadavis4641 Жыл бұрын
Grace and Peace Everyone
@judithakosuadankwanimako3963 Жыл бұрын
Family please pray for me, im starting my divorce proceeding next month oo from my narcissistic husband.. 13 years of abuse with 2 kids.. I have no money no lawyer, but I trust God completely... So please help by praying with me and for me..
@ceecee8757 Жыл бұрын
You got this, sis. Stay encouraged and keep praying.
@LadyBugShaun2 ай бұрын
How are you doing now?
@MsBuffalo Жыл бұрын
Please come back to South Africa soon! And yes we really need Queenology here in Africa so please please please come back.
@rositayoung2725 Жыл бұрын
Pastor and your wife Lisa. I just tonight found out by a very negative family member, that my son the one I gave birth too. Has gone on Facebook and spoke very negatively about his ( according to him)horrible childhood! He has stop speaking to me again, for several months now. The first time he stopped speaking, was doing Conv 19 for over a year! That was pretty bad for me. I had to really dig deep inside myself to save myself! Now, he's gone public( Facebook)! Revenge came first to my mind but the Holy Spirit told me right away, " Revenge is mine,says the Lord"! So I thought, God if I can't tell him off, then, please tell me what to do! I got on the phone and there you were with this video! God always make a way out of no where! Thank you for this in formation. Its very helpful.
@juneelle370 Жыл бұрын
Before dismissing all he says, listen and pray about it. Parents sometimes need to make very important apologies and amends. It doesn’t make you a bad person to admit bad mistakes! Obviously if he’s lying that’s another issue completely. I just suggest not to so quickly dismiss his grievances. It take bravery to introspect and apologize for what you are responsible for. It’s equally wrong to take responsibility for what you’re NOT responsible for. We all have to own our side of the street.
@arlynnshankle83652 жыл бұрын
I'm looking forward to this too!
@athenafarrell51277 ай бұрын
Wow i needed this. My absentees father. That has mental illness and never have been sit down w. Him and he be real and protective over me. He was the first abusive partner i had. Well i prayed to God for his wisdom and 2 weeks later I've found your show. I've never seen it explained to why i do what i do. You are being my surrogate and feel you are my answered prayer. So thank you for sharing and you've just made a life long watcher.
@joellabarkus66 Жыл бұрын
Lord thank you fot every bit of the content that has been spoken here. Continue to bless this man of God and his wife Lisa in Jesus name. 🙌🏾
@tapashyarasaily1373 Жыл бұрын
The intro gives me goosebumps everytime...just beautiful ❤️
@sinayehlanjwa6019 Жыл бұрын
Watching from South Africa😊 I absolutely love your teachings
@josephineperez7225 Жыл бұрын
And yes our brother KING R C BLAKE AND HIS QUEEN INTO MY LIFE . Helping me just in this time. I am slowly moving forward with HOLY SPIRIT 🕊🔥♥️. I’m hearing listening and Asking for ❤️🩹 healing and physical THANK YOU FOR YOUR PRAYERS IN JESUS NAME . My song 🎧 COME HOLY SPIRIT CAUSE HE IS GENTLE AND STRONG.
@manesiapennmon8722 Жыл бұрын
You are without a great blessing and empowerment to many broken women. I pray God will continue to help your Queens heal.🙏😊
@berniceopare940511 ай бұрын
As a South African, I’m proud of my people’s love and kindness.
@veeoby3364 Жыл бұрын
This is Therapeutic, anointing, prolific and profound message. Thank you Bishop Blakes for allowing God to use you as his vessel to send us this wonderful gift. I listen to this message whenever my spirit is low and it resonates with me and tremendously helps my healing.
@KKP20111 Жыл бұрын
Thank you, RC Blakes, for those wise and precious words! 🙏💯❤️
@deborahjoyvalentine6180 Жыл бұрын
Incredibly PROFOUND teaching for ALL.
@0743468060 Жыл бұрын
It was lovely having you in South African Bishop 🙏🏿❤️ we greatful
@jessicalagrange9452 Жыл бұрын
I follow Bishop RC Blakes quite a bit but my oh my this message was beyond what I needed. This message was divine and filled with so many nuggets. May God continuously bless this ministry!
@tammyp2214 Жыл бұрын
Ironically, I just came to a realization about a situationship minutes before I found this broadcast. The sadness and hurt are melting away because I now understand he is a broken man (recovering alcoholic). Unfortunately, it took the passing of a friend (by addiction) to teach me this. 🙏 This message is highly accurate.
@Lebo-Aaliyah Жыл бұрын
Yes! Queenology Africa sounds amazing Pastor. God willing 🙏🏿
@antoniarobinson7272 Жыл бұрын
I really need to hear this message tonight. I always be filled with your powerful messages. God Bless You and First Lady!🙏🏿🙏🏿
@MsDreya22 Жыл бұрын
Your words of wisdom soothe my soul and gives me confirmation to my thoughts and feelings and the questions I so much needed to have answered. God speaks in great timing I really needed this. I spent the past 6 years with a narcissist. Trust me my soul is so broken 😞 and like pastor said we don’t forget our value despite the cracks🙌🏼
@tracystreet8338 Жыл бұрын
Praise God Amen. God bless you Bishop Blakes and Lisa Amen. God bless and heal every single person listening to this amazing teaching in the mighty name of Jesus Amen 🙏 🙌 ❤️
@christianlife429 Жыл бұрын
I can absolutely say I damaged myself because the mental has me trying to recall the emotions when i try to stay positive and move on.
@anaarrendell Жыл бұрын
My God, My God! The right Words at the right time! 🙌🏾
@toptiertrina Жыл бұрын
The tears from the song alone. I needed that...
@desiliana2925 Жыл бұрын
Dear Pastor Blakes. Thank you very much. I dont know how to articulate my appreciation for your teachings, but every thing is spot on. It comes at the right time. God loves me to lead me to your video. May God bless you even more. Warm regards from Indonesia.