5 Ways to INSTANTLY Uncover His/Her Love Language

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How can you know what someone's love language is? What does the Bible say about love languages? What are the five love languages? How can you discover your love language or someone else's love language? Here are 5 ways to figure out what someone's love language is.
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[@saltytotobear5085]

“Don’t be creepy”-Excellent advice

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

When in doubt, just don't be creepy, lol!

[@tantig5923]

Jesús understood Love Languages. Look at Mary and Martha. He sees Martha hospitality, he does not minimize her “Acts of Service”. He commends Mary as a listener or one who liked “Quality Time” He understood John’s laying his head on Jesús as “Physical Touch”. He gave Peter “Words of Affirmation” ( when you are whole, heal others) He understood his Mother’s request for the wine request, “Receiving Gifts”. Yes, if Jesus understood what each of the people in his life needed, without condemnation, but Love, how much more we. 🇯🇲

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Great points! Thanks for sharing :)

[@chandu007i]

I love this thanks.

[@tantig5923]

@@chandu007i You are welcome!

[@abbya956]

Having someone want to learn your love language is the most beautiful thing. I had not experienced that until this current season. So pure. I have this same book 🌱 God Bless

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless you too!

[@ashleyh.2178]

4 videos in a row? You are on a roll!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Trying something new :) God bless!

[@mikeag]

Interesting topic. Thank you, Mark. I have heard that you should periodically re-evaluate the love languages of others and yourself as they can and do change over time.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Sounds wise to me

[@febin_vadukkoot]

God loves us, he personally avenges us. We must always acknowledge him as LORD and father. Pray that we have strength to acknowledge him before the accuser.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Romans 12 is helpful!

[@boisebadboy93]

I love these videos. Your second point, I've never even thought about. "When someone is deeply hurt or offended, it often points to their love language" I've never thought about that! It's brilliant truth. Thank you!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad this was useful to you!

[@dirtcop11]

I have never heard the term 'love language' but it makes sense. The ways we love are our own nature and expressions outside of that nature may be misunderstood. In college, I learned that children that all children have their own way of processing information. Some can learn through speaking but others may need to learn by doing. Tactile instruction is guiding a child through a physical activity to help them understand a concept. That may be why our witness to someone falls on 'deaf ears, they just can't process what you are saying to them.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless!

[@shawnd7742]

This is a very good book I read it a few years ago

[@JonahRemsberg]

Thank you so much, I’m so glad and fulfilled that you included verses that relate to this subject it’s something that I’ve struggled with for a long period

[@chriscampbell2679]

I can pick up on peoples love language very quickly. I watch and see the different ways they treat various people and I have been correct every single time.

[@Jayarod2332]

Thank you so much Mark for another message today, praying for My eyes to continue to be opened, in preparation for when God brings the one in my life, I can apply these lessons continually not just towards her, but those around.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God is good!

[@jacobgoris5998]

Brother mark its been a pleasure to get to know you and agw i hope that you bring more people to know God through your minstry. Shabbat shalom

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you are enjoying the content! All glory to God!

[@shannon6859]

I know all the different love languages,but this video is just Amazing and Interesting!!! 👍❤😊 I'm definitely going to share this video!! Thank you for making this video.. :)

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad you enjoyed it Shannon!

[@jassett132]

Wow Mark, you NAiLED this video!!! Very insightful!❤️❤️❤️

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was helpful Jassett! God bless!

[@ikeacha4153]

This was good. The only thing I would add, though, is that sometimes these love languages fall on a spectrum. So for me, yes my heart will melt most if you were to tell me that you were proud of me, but I would also feel warm inside if we spent time together (even if we just sat in silence). So, don't be discouraged if early in a relationship you pick the second best--you will learn your person's spectrum of satisfaction in time.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

I agree, we can enjoy all the love languages, but some just speak more loudly to us. Thanks for sharing!

[@nanetteconcepcion2502]

Thnks for sharing it..A way of defining it in biblical way of the (5) love languages..

[@888hereandnow]

Great insights!Thankyou Mark!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

So glad it was helpful!

[@jessicamerced9116]

I've been binging your videos...these are great! I tried explaining to a friend that love language is not only for romance, but for family and friendships too! 💖 My love language is words of affirmation, gift giving and acts of service. I do these things to show my friends and family I love them 🥰 Side note: On Halloween, my "friends" took one group picture when I went to the bathroom... Needless to say, it hurt my feelings 😂 What type of love language do y'all think that situation applies to?

[@estelaavila5475]

Gracias hermano, que Dios te bendiga!

[@hg3895]

Please make more love language videos 😊

[@preachingpoet]

Love languages are defined by 5 key determining factors. But we only have one God. 1 John 4:7,8 says God is love. So if God is the epitome of love and we are all His children, then the person He sends me has been masterfully designed by the Master. And if God is TRULY love, He is all of the language and lingo that I need to meet and marry the right one for me.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God is love!

[@QuietGirl2006]

I miss you guys. I’ve been away too long. I need to get to watching your videos. They have been a blessing and I need God now!!!

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Glad to have you back! God bless as you seek his will :)

[@elindigeno1215]

That book is amazing. I read it after my ex wife and I got a divorced 😭

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless as you follow the Lord!

[@aliscia09]

Me and my fiancee love Language is physical touch. We enjoy being affectionate with each other.

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Just be careful it doesn't go too far before marriage. Enjoy it in marriage :)

[@AudioRevelation144Hz]

Sometimes people are just not compatible and the love language does not align because they don't love you

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

true

[@thesetruths1404]

So do people think I am easy or difficult if I like all of them somewhat near equally? I like variety. A mix-up. Any single type too much, for too long gets old or boring to me.

[@jordanwhite4289]

My marriage is struggling. I have a 3 month old infant that wont sleep. My wife hasnt slept next to me for almost two weeks because she wants me to have rest for work. i cant be there for my wife when im at work. Im about to get deployed for 9 months. Im so lost right now. I love my wife. I love our family. I want us to be happy and i want my wife to be happy but with everything spiraling i feel out of control and lonely. I feel selfish feeling like this. My wife takes care of almost everything at home when she isnt dealing with our kids. We need help. Someone, anyone please pray for me and my family. We need God. I need God. Help

[@mirandacarter5197]

Time to communicate.. I mean really communicate.. the brutal honesty. There is going to fighting.. insecurities flare up...fear.. tons of emotions to sift through BEFORE anything gets listened to/fixed/looked at and evaluated in a rational mind. Prayer isn't going to help in this situation.. A hard conversation with LOTS of time, Consistency of talking about the hard subject. With you AND your partner. There may be a lot of resistance/denial from your partner at first. But don't give up. The first time is always the hardest. But keep going if the fight for your marriage is worth it to you.

[@escapatementalslavery8345]

Thus saith the LORD the King of Israel, and his redeemer the LORD of hosts; I am the first, and I am the last; and beside me there is no God Isaiah 44: 6 I am Alpha and Omega, the beginning and the end, the first and the last. Rev 22:13 .

[@jesusrules9925]

😥

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

God bless as you seek Jesus' will for you

[@jordanzuniga5324]

:D

[@ApplyGodsWordcomMarkBallenger]

Jesus reigns!