5 Years of Marriage Taught Us THIS

[@NickiBluIs]

Love seeing Jared enter his cinematographer era! Put some respect on his name 😤

[@Idkwhatsup333]

When Jared said simple I was like yes. That’s it. That’s what I want. I read somewhere recently that simplicity is true elegance. Or something along the lines of that. You want a relationship that you can feel peace and ease in not more drama or confusion or fear.

[@Idkwhatsup333]

Also happy anniversary!!!!!!

[@shanboody]

You put this beautifullly!

[@elenajones3120]

Congrats Shan & Jared for making it to your 5 year anniversary!!! I hardly ever comment on your videos, but I’ve been watching y’all’s content since 2018. Watching your content has truly transformed my personal life, and has given me new perspectives on how I see myself and how I view love. I see you as the big sister that I never had. Congratulations again! ❤❤❤

[@fwredone1]

Ditto!

[@candigarcia1863]

Happy Anniversary to both of you 🍾🥂

[@shanboody]

thank you Candi

[@elissialareina]

Omg I’m so obsessed with this new direction yall are taking in your KZbin journey. I appreciate tuning into you two and gaining a greater perspective. Wishing you both blessings on blessings 🥰✨

[@shanboody]

Yay it’s definitely made making content more fun

[@solnova7928]

That video is gorgeous!!!! I love your love! Thank you for sharing!!! Happy anniversary 🎉✨

[@Ripplerimmel]

Wow the cimematc feels of the video you did Jared, ATEEEEE.

[@Ripplerimmel]

Also, Happy Anniversary to ya'll!

[@Christimony222]

This was beautiful. You saying “thank you for making the load easier” and him describing a relationship with you as simple. Those are like the epitome of the best things a man and woman could feel about each other. I’ll be honest - I am shocked this marriage lasted but I am very happy and proud and in favor of it, too. And, I wish you a lifetime and congratulations!!!!

[@cariiinen]

Not surprised at all. You clearly have great communication and self reflection tools. You set intentions for your life and relationships, and choose to put in the work to achieve those goals.

[@MsBre7]

Resenting your reality after parenthood. That hit a cord with me. I would love to see a video where you both dive into the topic of life after having children. How it has affected you both individually and as a unit in marriage.

[@sydsaywhaa]

Congratulations to yall🎉🥳🥳 I can't believe it's 5 years already!!! I'm so thankful yall have taken us along this journey. I've been a supporter of Shan since Those Girls Are Wild and I'm excited to whatever you choose to share next ❤❤❤

[@shanboody]

thank you SYD! I appreciate you so much

[@ronicajeannot6621]

Happy anniversary! That video made me uncontrollably sob, thank you for showing how great marriage can be.

[@marisolania2696]

Huge congratulations! I love when you said you’re both not resentful of your reality (a true gift!). Choosing love & devotion in the hard seasons of baby/toddlerhood is not easy but to me is worth it❤

[@Vivi-Price]

I literally love watching the content and art you guys create. You guys are part of the reason why I started making content myself. The visual that Jared created fully encompasses how I see your relationship. I think you guys have a love that is so precious and beautiful. I was vicariously living through you guys watching this because my husband and I will be married 5 years as well this year and everything you guys said in this video I also feel in my relationship and I just loving watching you guys love each other. It’s so refreshing and just admirable. All of it is admirable the good and the bad. Thank you guys for sharing.

[@thabisilentleko3741]

Happy anniversary guys! I'm not surprised at all that you have made it thus far. You guys have a good thing going on based on what I've observed over the years. I envy the 'safe space' that you guys have of being open and honest with one another. And it seems to be received with respect and consideration of each other. I hope you never lose that.

[@rhknow8888]

I love your love!!! Congratulations on your anniversary. Thank you for sharing your love with the internet. It's inspiring!

[@lenahs4632]

Happy birthday to yall and congratulations. Weve been on this journey together and thank you for allowing us into your world.

[@ivoryliving]

How sweet, simple and complex ❤ Congratulations on 5 years of marriage and the years of work you both did beforehand!

[@Lady_Luv]

Congratulations 🎉 I wish you guys many more years of the beautiful open and honest connection you have. It will sustain you in the years to come.

[@jennifertaylor-wright7694]

LOVE THE CREATIVITY IN THE EDITING JAREDDDDD! Yesss 🎉🎉🎉🎉 and congrats on 5 years man ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@victoriaj4272]

When Shan climbed out of the window onto the rooftop of her old apartment building to help Jared shoot his music video , I knew it was a love that would pass the test of time. I have watched you guys and your channel evolve into a work of art held together by the grounding yet ethereal nature of love. Keep evolving. It is the reason we exist. Congrats on your 5 year anniversary 🎉. And here's to many more to come . 🎉

[@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz]

1st of allI absolutely LOVE this new style for yall! I already really appreciated the good lighting, clear image, audio quality, & attention to details like background. Also enjoy when you include stuff like the potted tree falling in the background. lol! But everything about this is awesome. I am neurodivergent. I get easily over stimulated with sound in particular. You guys found a way to stimulate most of the senses without OVERstimulating them. That’s fucking art! 🔥 Also, the sponsored portion was very easy to listen to and much more engaging.

[@natcaineisworking]

Happy Anniversary you two! Thanks for taking us on this journey

[@rmmr1168]

Not surprised in the slightest. You two are perfectly suited BUT you also work to make it good and keep it good.

[@MandEmma7]

Thanks for sharing this beautiful video with the larger community I for one have loved watching you guys on videos for many many years now and I’m so happy that you feel this way in a relationship and have made it this far into it. It’s really a beautiful thing & a big inspiration and light.

[@fwredone1]

I love how well you love one another. I so appreciate your openness about the progression and reality of your relationship. It has helped me navigate so many parts of my own throughout the years. Also Jared is a whole as Cinematographer and we love it!

[@darynlatara3137]

I am loving the cinematic content! Happy Anniversary and many more! ❤‍🔥

[@alexatoribio]

The couple who helped me believe in marriage and love again ❤ not that I ever fully lost hope, but I just couldn’t see marriage working for me if it was gonna be as miserable as everyone made it seem. You taught me the beauty of it and I’m so grateful

[@MarianneMedlin-dz4dz]

Jared- love getting to see you try out new things in your cinematography skills. It looks great! Very stimulating to the senses without being overwhelming. I appreciate that! ❤ The video you made for Shan was stunning! I got chills.

[@cariiinen]

Love the editing in Jared's segments

[@Vivi-Price]

Happy anniversary!! To 5 million more years! ❤️💫

[@camenelson5373]

Happy 5th Anniversary to you guys! May God continue to bless your marriage with many many more years, happinesses, success and so much more ❤

[@hannahb.2984]

Congratulations 🎉 This was really beautiful to watch. I can relate to so much of this in my own marriage.

[@amark8786]

No I’m not surprised. I was surprised by that second child. But I would never wish negative on unity 💋 THANKS FOR SHARING

[@fionaodak2583]

Happy anniversary you guys!🎉We love you!Thankyou for showing me just how good openness and good communication can get! And the editing?!Stellar!Good job❤

[@northshoreindie]

What a beautiful love to celebrate! Would love to hear about that daily intentional time together - what does that look like and have you always had that habit or was it an intentional decision to do so?

[@shanboody]

It starts with this question: “what do you want to do?” And genuinely being curious about their answer even if you want something different. Bc truly we only have 9-12am as responsibility free time I want for both of us not to compromise. Sometimes the answer is, I wanna scroll on my phone for a bit then check in. Sometimes it’s I wanna do some work/ finish some errands. Sometimes it’s let’s make a snack and talk. Most of the time it’s let’s watch something and touch on each other. It’s our sacred time, and that doesn’t always mean doing something together sometimes the act of love is 💯 guilt free time to be alone

[@nompumelelobaso4508]

Thank you for this.@@shanboody

[@1hanakimi]

This video made my day!!! 💜💜💜 It makes me so happy and excited about marrying my best friend this fall! 🥰 Thank you for sharing your love with us!!!

[@AlexxWoodwick]

That was really sweet & endearing 🩷🩵

[@cking63]

Congrats guys! Your content is inspiring and honestly beautiful

[@spacegirli]

Happy Anniversary Thank you for the gift of the insight of your Relationship ❤

[@purdydre]

Love this!!! Let’s bring back realistic love 🥰

[@SiSiTheLyricist]

Congratulations! Both videos are beautiful! Surprised? No. Inspired? YES! Will I be surprised if I ever get there? Maybe lol. Excited for a forever simple love. Keep it going, and keep enjoying your beautiful family your way 🫶🏽

[@aniyaprice5068]

Happy Anniversary!!! To many more!!

[@ChrisTheAspergerGuy]

That's one of the things I like about you two. You're both very smart about avoiding the typical traps married couples fall into. It's too bad more of them can't figure it out. Happy 5th!

[@emmapearce3711]

goosebumps, brava Jared!!

[@CandyLyons]

Love you both.Youre so real

[@AmandaTayteTait]

Congratulations 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@shessodeep]

Happy Anniversary! Shan, you look so much like your sister in this video!

[@shanboody]

Oh my what a compliment thank you

[@Chanelm445]

Congrats 🍾 I haven’t seen your videos in forever 😢.

[@de93si]

Happy anniversary 🥂 watched and learned a lot from yall

[@khensk]

So cinematic 😍

[@settairving]

Congratulations to you both ❤

[@alyx2781]

Damn tht beginning part almost made me cry 😩

[@007IceBaby]

that video teared me up

[@mindtheprivacy]

That video was beautiful

[@LiziBeth000]

Nope, not at all surprised that y'all have been together this long. 😂 Not even a little bit. It's very obvious that you guys support eachother and like eachother. I don't know how it works so well to share a lot of your life together and still be so strong as a couple.

[@marieluise6907]

Congratulations 🎉🎉

[@phumlajwili5600]

As a day one of your YT channel I cannot even express how happy and proud I am of you ♥️🇿🇦 watching your journey has been incredible ♥️

[@Dreadsinnababylon]

Not surprised at all ♥️✨

[@digserabreu]

❤beautiful intro

[@zantelb1287]

I love both of you 🎉❤

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

Congratulations on 5 years y’all

[@shanboody]

love your Edward

[@EdwardSanchezProductions]

@@shanboodylove you too Shan

[@AlexisBelon]

Wow and I've been here for the whole ride. Btw idk if you’re into nyc vlogs but if so, you might like mine! I’d be sooo grateful if you swung by and took a peek. 🙏 Stick around if you like!

[@shanboody]

Alexis I love that you plugged yourself! More ppl should follow your lead I’ll check it out

[@notl33t]

5 years in! congrats

[@Morenita570]

You said 3hrs at the end of the day and then you changed it to 2hrs. I was afraid if the video was longer you’d say those 2 minutes at the end of day are sooooo good, lol. And simple, I think he means the relationship lacks unnecessary drama. I love that in my marriage too. No insults, no toxicity, no passive aggressive comments- you just deal with the reality of the situation as partners. I’m happy he said that, because I’ve noticed more often men bring the drama in marriages and call drama free ‘simple’ relationships boring.

[@cattyp881]

💯 NOT surprised Secure

[@GingerChung2014]

Happy Anniversary

[@shanboody]

thank you Ginger

[@GingerChung2014]

@@shanboody you’re welcome

[@jennifertaylor-wright7694]

Not resentful for our reality noted love that Shan!

[@007IceBaby]

Jared's baby pic looks just like Ryu

[@drinaramirez1114]

I’m not surprised yall still together. I’m still surprised yall got married 😂😂 big difference

[@KaylaBayot]

no one is surprised here

[@samanthajobalmyard]

Someone fill me in - the podcast is back?!??!? 👀

[@reboundingfromnarcissistic5386]

❤

[@londonashlee_]

🥰

[@cariiinen]

Cute

[@TBREAKTIME]

Omygoddddd soooooo sweet crying

[@StopThankReflect]

Yeaaa… marriage and kids is definitely not for me

[@Lulonutrition]

Congrats. Being able to describe your love is already. Win in my book. Many people go years without being able to reflect on their love /relantionship and I believe it’s because they themselves are not self aware. This video and your words shows the deep work each of you have done and that self awareness spills over to your relationship. love to see it.

[@Khadijah_time]

Not sure what you mean about what “many people” are unable to do. But I guess it’s because I don’t ask people about any reflection of their lives/relationships for my consumption/curiosity or the like so… This is literally their bread & butter and we all have to hustle out here, so if they love it I love it. Wish them and all couples the best.

[@Lulonutrition]

By saying unable i meant that exactly, some people have a lot going on that working on themselves does not come easy so they are no able to be that self aware. I was congratulating them on the work they have actively put into themselves and therefore their relationship and how it shows on the way they communicate to each other. I'm sorry if I didn't explain myself correctly. @@Khadijah_time

[@Lulonutrition]

I meant to recognize it's not easy to reflect on a relationship, to work on ourselves because we do have a lot going on. The way they express themselves is an example of what it may look like when we have the time and can make the effort to work on selves. Sorry if it came off wrong. I just wanted to highlight that working on oneself is beneficial to the relationship you are in. @@Khadijah_time

[@Lulonutrition]

@@Khadijah_time your right and what I should have written was it can be hard for me (i can’t generalize my experiences) to find the time and put in effort to work on ourselves while in a marriage / relationship. Seeing their deep work on themselves and how it spills over their relationship is inspiring.

[@younghandsome3447]

Huh?? 🗑️🗑️🗑️

[@EDENBANKS-b3c]

100

[@Severianaxo]

I love this, I’m in my first year of marriage I’m excited to watch this video! 🫶🏼