$50,000 Brand New Car Los Tseem Raug Koj Reject~12/13/2022~

Hmong Drama Story: She did everything just for him to love her buying him a $50,000 brand new car.

[@Diamond78903]

OMG lady! You’re so desperate! Give him a break because he just got out of a divorce. Some people don’t want to rush into another relationship until they’re ready again. Give him time to grieve and heal. You’re making things more complicated for him.

[@nkaujhmoobvwj]

He's not even divorced yet lol

[@houavue8038]

He still In the process of a divorce ...she isn't In love. She's infatuated with him because of his looks. She knows nothing about him, but that he looks good. Such a desperate woman.

[@lizasaevang8041]

For real…You’re right.😮

[@TheLynierose]

So disparate for this guy…. How can u buy love.. good that he didn’t take off with the car

[@mkaomoua3096]

He is a good man, he honest and tell you the truth that's very good. U need to be proud that u have a brother or relative like that.

[@MissPeachie]

This story is proof that “money can’t buy love.” Sister, you were too clingy and desperate that it scared Meng off. It was just simply not meant to be. Glad you found your husband and learned an important lesson about being shallow and picky.

[@michaelvl494]

His mom died. He still wants his wife, she just doesn't want him. This girl came on too strong. Where were these girls at when I was still single? lol.

[@minecraftboy2676]

Glad you have found someone to love and love you back! That is what love is! You can not buy L-O-V-E!!!

[@crystalsong2039]

Unfortunately. .. money can never ever buy love...

[@MrsYaj-ei2io]

No matter what you do, a person who doesn’t love or see themselves with you will not stay with you.

[@andyvue6745]

Oht😅cuou😮 li Me on b hop inขชช

[@cey124]

Woman, he could’ve played you 😅 He never wanted you. You just made yourself available to him. You played yourself.

[@hlubkojforever1901]

He’s a real man! I respect him.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

Ruam tiag2 tseem vwm rau 1 tug yawg nrauj txom nyem. G muaj siab rau koj.

[@sijhawmtsitochannel1659]

Ntuj es nyiaj yuav tsi tau neeg lub siab hlub yus os me niam laus haw

[@electricgenie966]

Yes, the right person for you will do more things to fulfill your heart. When we were young, my wife was hot, she's curvy, mmm. Met her in line getting tickets to Sounders concert in Fresno, December of 1996. She did more than everything right that night. OMG, everything was going more than perfect, more than I could have imagined. All because we were into each other. That night If you didn't know any better, you think we been going out for awhile. Love that woman and still the love of my life. After 25 years, I love her even more.

[@ashton8878]

Haha, thank you for including the picture! I definitely am looking forward to listening!

[@aiinvestor3737]

Sister thanks for sharing your story. As I listened to your story, no matter what others write you negative comments l, I say you are very dedicated lady to your goal. One day will see find your true love and that lucky person will be very happy to have you. I applauded you for telling your true feeling. Most people would only tell a good side of themselves. Don’t give up ok 👍

[@KrypptikkSoulslayer]

If he or she don’t love you, no matter what you do it’s meaningless. Don’t waste your time. Move on 👍 It’s like what people say, “Xaiv xaiv ces tau paiv” ces yog koj lawm ntag lau 🤪 Don’t feel bad. Just think of it like this, you’re not the first and you won’t be the last.

[@bellayang6993]

You didn't pay attention to the signs! He was just a very nice person, and it's hard for nice people to say no or say how they really feel. A man will pursue the woman he loves no matter what. I'm glad you found your husband. Thank you for sharing.

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Great story to learn from

[@michaelf2700]

The title should be "My one-sided love". Lol

[@pt9730]

Agree 💯👍👍

[@mivayang1317]

Money cant buy love, lady!

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

This is a one in a million. This is a good man. I can see why you’re chasing him so much. Most men/women might of play along.

[@nkaujhmoobheu3874]

Xyov cas muaj tej tug neeg lam cia li vwm hlub lwm tus li ko.

[@missysmart8620]

Lesson learned. Money can’t buy love. Men don’t like desperate women. You make yourself too easy and available 🤦🏻‍♀️. Lower your standards and find someone who loves you more. You lucky he’s an honest man and did not take advantage of you.

[@junelove3839]

He still in love with his wife! And materialistic things won't buy his love. At least he returns your car and told you the truth. Some mens will just run off with the car.

[@Zeb1245]

Poor gal, take it as a lesson learned and don’t do anything for a man or woman if you’re not official with them. He made it clear to you that he’s not ready to be in a relationship bc he still love his wife and he’s in the wrong to use you for emotional support when he had issues with his wife. Just be glad that he’s kind enough to give your car back. Most women had to fight the guy to get the car back!

[@hmoobxwb7119]

He clearly said and show you he didn’t love you like you loved him

[@denamoua7262]

Good luck in finding mr.right lady

[@cavua4975]

good

[@pangvang2304]

Good he told you the truth.

[@denali12023]

Very good 👍 👏 👌

[@leelee8608]

Buying love isn’t going to work. Love should be given freely from the heart.

[@Love98fire]

At least he’s honest and not use you for your money. Your mom is right.

[@tvang8]

Wow where were you when I needed someone like you lol. Meng is an awesome guy. I knew he was still stuck in the past that’s why he couldn’t have a relationship with you

[@shouathao6281]

Very good lessons learned

[@angelalee4598]

Txob tu siab os mog twb yog nws hlub koj es nws thiaj li tsis lees txais koj li khoom os mog

[@Ntxhi67]

Never chase after any man. Let them chase you

[@maivang5388]

Tiam Tam Sim no tsis txhob uav thiab hlub ib tug neeg uas luag tsis hlub yus kav tsij hlub koj tus kheej zoo dua

[@yermoua8300]

Tus txiv neej nyiam yus thiab hlub yus tiag tsis coj li koj tus phooj ywg no os

[@HumbleGolds]

Tsis mus saib tus tuag los ho mus saib cov ciaj ma yom. Haha niam tuag tseg koob hmoov tiag! Very few men are as honest as he is. Good man.

[@nairvang]

Dang I've been waiting for someone like that 😕!!!!

[@mloognkauj1074]

Hhhha koj mas ntshaw txiv neej kawg yom

[@kathao5695]

Yuav tus phim yus xwb luag thiaj hlub yus nawb .

[@sandyvangyang110]

Never heard of a loyal and good looking man before with moral values lol wow! jk

[@wisteria4550]

You should be thankful that Meng is an honest man that he didn’t take advantage of you. I’m pretty sure if it was another man, he would’d taken advantage of you until you’re dry broke then leave. I’m glad you had found someone who really deserve your love. You didn’t mention if Meng’s wife came back to him.

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Dang that's a fine car! 50k is worth it. Hehe 😍😄

[@kouavang5928]

Don't use the word hlub hlub, siv lo lus vwm vwm

[@maimoua1371]

Agree 💯 LOL

[@pt9730]

Pog xiam hlwb vwm2 rau hmoob tus txiv zoo nraug LOL 😂

[@xiongvang9584]

They say that it takes just as long as you were with someone to get over that person. Yes He was still trying to get over his ex. I understand that he didn’t feel the same for her but he should of made that very clear from the beginning. Over and over she explains how she keeps confessing her love to him but he never said anything. I am sure he was leaning more towards not pursuing a relationship with her but still had 10% that a relationship might blossom. Because no man or women goes day after day keeps answering phone calls, visiting each other knowing the other party is head over heels for them just because they are nice. So he tested the water in silent hoping maybe his heart can change. It was only made clear to him what he really wanted after she bought that car, it push him to face the truth that he still could not give up his wife and that this can’t keep going like this. Things were moving too fast for him and wasn’t ready so half was his fault too. But A bit more concerning that she did not see the signs. However let’s remember that she has this facade of her dream man and held on to it for years and years and felt he the one for her . never really been in a relationship and believed this image was her dream come true and it will just blossom like the movies and they fall in love lol. Well it was a rude awakening for her when she realised life isn’t like the movies. I have to give him a thumbs up for not taking advantage of her at the end. Too many stories of our Hmong ppl taking advantage of each other or couples trying to kill the other spouse for money.

[@chongxiong340]

He's just friendly. Plus he has selfish respect for himself.

[@pt9730]

Hahaha 🤣🤣 nyob rau lub ntiaj teb no cas muaj tej tus poj niam xiam hlwb zoo li koj thiab los, koj twb tsis yog tus poj niam nyob rau nws lub neej ne. Nws tus poj niam thiaj li yog tus nws hlub os pog xiam hlwb aw. Muab saib los zoo li koj yog neeg tsis paub Cai li kawg mus nyob thawj luag tej txiv li lawm. Tsis txhob siv lo lus hais tias hlub2 tsis yog lawm koj yuav tau hais tias twb yog koj VWM2 rau hmoob tus txiv no mas thiaj li yog😁

[@nancyvang2126]

That's right girl, I love you courage a person like you and me have to learned the hard way. Dog rather eat shit and pig rather eats rice shells (hmong metiphor) dev yeem noj quav thiab npua yeem noj xua, it's good that he's honest to you. You should take your mom's words at the begining anyway I'm glad you're happy now. all of our women kind have to be stronger to live on the men's world...

[@charlesher.9508]

Wow cas yuav crazy txog qhov siv nyiaj txog $50 rau ib tug txiv neej na... Remember money can't buy love nawb es txhob siv nyiaj yuav txoj kev hlub ntawm ib tug neeg luag twb g nyiam yus li no.🤗

[@xavyogkojniamtusnyabthoj8939]

$50 lo yog $50,000 mas

[@pt9730]

Tsis yog $50 xwb os 😂 hahaha yog $50,000 lawm os 😁

[@leevue1920]

It could have been worse. Be thankful he still had a heart and didn't use you to the core.

[@586duecelee]

Meng is right..fishing is better

[@yogkuv7218]

Tsis txhob cuam tshuamlawv lub neej

[@magicalunicorn5853]

Lady it’s called an infatuation, a crush. For being mature I’m surprised you never tested the waters. Sometimes a guy just wants to vent.

[@LinaLina-gv3hs]

I think it was all one sided love from the beginning. He clearly was going thru a separation and I’m sure he didn’t want to rush into another relationship. You can have all the money in the world but it won’t compare to true love. You try to cheat him and blind him with money and material stuff but that’s not important to everyone. Feel sorry for you

[@Llis3322]

Dang lady was THIRSTY as heck!!! 🤣 Wow. Be happy he returned the car to you! he could have just kept it and you would just be out 50k! you should have known he still wanted his wife when he refused to file divorce papers. oh my.

[@yingvang1276]

Shoua, it's ok. We all make mistakes for love. Take his advice at the end. What he said is true about the right one. This is just a mistake not only you've made but we've all made one. Some of the listener may call you desperate but we all have different hearts, different kinds of Love for others.

[@bluntbae]

I think this sister is too desperate! She’s chasing after him and paying everything- that is why she is turned down.

[@amazinggrace8136]

The real message here is not that you liked him so much that you went and bought him a new car, but it is that you disrespected him and looked down on him so much you thought you could bribe him with a new car.

[@15kou1]

Meej yog ib tus neeg zoo heev nws tsi nyuam koj los nws thiaj qhia tsi tau koj thiab tsi xav ua kom koj poob nyiaj rau nws🤙

[@touxiong7118]

nyiaj yuav tsi Tau Kev hlub

[@kangchang266]

Cas peb tseem muaj cov ntxhais txhawj ntse ruam mpaum no thiab tus sister aw koj .muab ua yooj yim dhau lawm es tus txiv neej ko thiab li tsis hlub koj os

[@hmongremark2686]

Koj yuav iav tsom koj tus kheej kom zoo zoo saib koj qhov zoo nkauj puas phim nyog nws qhov zoo nraug thiab koj qhov siab los qes puas piv nyog nws tau. Tsis tas li los qhov kev sib tham puas sib haum nyog tau thiab. Raws li mloog koj tham xwb ces koj qhov zoo nkauj tsis duav txog nws qhov zoo nraug ces nws thiaj xyeej koj tsis $50k offered. Tsis li ntawv los koj tus cwj pwm tsis haum taus nws kom ua nyog neej nrog nws tau thiab. Tus txiv neej hlub koj lawm tiag tiag mas nws hlub yam unconditionally.

[@maimoua5512]

Good story, maybe had you never went all out for Meng, you would have not notice and understood your husband, so it was worth the $50k you spent on the car. Glad you found love.

[@xsm83]

WHAT?!?!?! Why would you do that?? NEVER try to buy love. Uh uh! No! JUST NO! True love has no $ sign.

[@matthewvang495]

You're very lucky the man you were crazy for was a nice guy. But good to know youre doing okay now.

[@kanetoews7747]

You are lucky he didn’t take advantage of you and use you. Let this be a lesson for you. Men who are attracted to you and wants to know you more will definitely make sure you know

[@kenxiong5540]

Wowo cas tsis yog kuv ne .. yom.!? Kuv tsis Xav tsav koj lub tsheb li os Xav tau koj xwb ntshaw tus neeg nyiam yus hlub yus li koj tshaj li ...😥😭

[@denamoua7262]

Vim koj muab $ yuav kev hlub ne

[@houavue8038]

He's just in the process of getting divorced, chill. You are moving to fast. What you have here isn't love...it's infatuation. Don't be so desperate....and have some respect for yourself. Sounds like he still has feelings for his ex, you don't want to be his rebound. If you, " loved" him you wouldn't be rushing him.

[@tubhmoobhmoob2944]

Koj tus hluas nraug no ces hmoov tag

[@LaDyDrEaMeR2011]

Good thing he was honest and didn't take advantage of you. You were in a puppy love situation since it was your first time liking someone and he saw you as a friend who understood his situation so he confided in you because he probably didn't have anyone to talk to. Basically, you were friendzoned but glad you found your true love.

[@mhaiyaaj]

This guy is a great guy, a real gentleman with integrity. If like most people (leeches), they will use you until you break down. I’m happy you have love now

[@millv7948]

You been FRIEND ZONE by him from the start. 😔💔

[@XMML33]

You may be educated but lacking relationships knowledge. On the bright side you should be glad he is a good guy and didn’t run away with your car. Good luck!

[@petercha5184]

Kuv nrhiav kev hlub nyuam kev lawm. $50,000.00 can not buy kev hlub os.

[@billionangelinachannel6943]

Wow..😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@sunvaj6754]

Some guys are afraid of women who come on strong.

[@iathor3045]

Nyiam qau loj nkaus2 xwb Lau koj nas yom. Me los yog txawj ua ces yeej txaus koj siab hlo lawm los mas.

[@mhlub1leeg]

Vwm hlub lol

[@youavu1433]

He only see you as a friend.

[@mayalee2400]

Some people, have alot of money but no love,and some have no money but have love.....weird

[@SkyFlower-ug9lm]

Damn all that $ for a guy who doesn't love u. Lady u could've look at some other man out there.

[@mhlub1leeg]

Maybe he isn’t ready yet n u go to fast hope it u find the man ur dreams

[@staySTAINED]

Emotional Damage 💔

[@hmooblubneej7116]

Buy me one too! 😆

[@charlielor9877]

Dag npaum li tus meej ko mas ntuj yeej yuav muab nws coj mus ua qab ke luag xwb li.

[@songvang1309]

Omg, it seems like he's not even interested in the relationship, normally men, when they say their not ready, meaning there already someone else, not just you.

[@pajtshiabtsheej1984]

Cov neeg qaug quav rau kev hlub mas yeej feeb tsis meej li no tiag lau. You were living in a fantasy world with this person. You broke your own heart.

[@thestoryofmylife6979]

When you’re too clingy, it get scary. Men or women don’t like that.

[@chiamoua7084]

Hahaha tus txiv neej ntawv twb tsis yog tus muaj npe nyob hauv koj daim ntawv txij nkawm es nws thiaj li tsis txais los mas .

[@yeryang3756]

Thaum yus nice dhau rau tib neeg lawm lawv get confuse about it

[@maliemay]

Damn, Hella thirsty. These people just rubs the wrong way. You know why he didn't love you, because all you did was care about how you feel and what you wanted. But you missed all the signs that he was giving you.

[@karenlor09]

Is that him in the photo?

[@mosvaj1385]

Ntshe nws tseem hlub nws poj niam los yog nws saib koj zoo li ib tug Muam xwb.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

Loj zoo nraug tiamsi dej loj tse me. Pojniam thiaj mus noj sab nrauv.

[@95leefamilychannel33]

There were too many red flags that he wasn’t interested in you lady! You too desperate for love! Your mommy was right! It’s your own fault!

[@nkaujmogmim125]

Lauj tag li koj e nyiam g noog nws Kom meej thiaj g nkim koj lub sijhawm.

[@5tuglis573]

Nobody wants a desperate and low-self esteem person for a partner. It's not desirable. Be glad he's a good person and didn't take you for all you have and then leave.

[@electricgenie966]

If you really want to do a selfless act, do it for your parents. I personally would never do it for a girlfriend. Girlfriends/boyfriends comes and go. You're moving too fast but the reason is he's just not that into you. Good luck.

[@cindyskenderovic6806]

Seems like he's not willing to take a step forward because he and his ex wife's trying to work things out that's why he is not ready to filed for divorce yet. Money can't buy love, always remember that 💯. You got him all wrong from the start lady, don't try so hard to impress him, like he said he still loves his ex wife that's why they working things out and not filing for divorce and accepting your gift to him.