Koj Muab Wb Tej Best Friend Secret Tev Rau Kuv Tus Txiv~12/14/2022~

[@monicaxyooj905]

I would be hesitated to go solos with a man who is not my lover. Any man can turn against you like that

[@missysmart8620]

This guy might be a bi-sexual man. He can go either way.

[@chonglee123]

Txawm yog li no e tej laus thiaj li hai tia kom txob ua phooj ywg nrog me nyuam tub no tsam tuaj tws no lau .😂😂

[@nancyvang1667]

The funny part when he say he forgot that he gay for a second lol!!! I'm dead!!! 🤣🤣🤣

[@electricgenie966]

Honestly, if you tell somebody your secret it is no longer safe. A secret should never be told that's why it's a secret.

[@xjangxjenix]

It wasn't just HER secret. It was both of theirs. Had she not told him about the baby, he could've sued her because he has parental rights to the baby too.

[@joycelychanel5331]

He got jealous of you when he saw you have a good life and lovely child

[@rochlychannel7736]

Aws tuaj mloog koj thiab os nawb.

[@yengyang9783]

Wow tswv yim zoo kawg thiab nawb koj tus best friend kov na yom. Yuav tau ua lub maib kov yog yus nyiam ib tug neeg txawv yus na.

[@moa-maioutdooradventures483]

Secrets are never meant to be told to anyone, not even your best friend. Don't know when they will betray you. That's why they say, secrets alive or dead don't tell the living , dead don't tell the dead.

[@xjangxjenix]

The secret is both of theirs. Idk ppl think it's just hers. The baby was half his. He has every right to also decide what happens to the baby.

[@82Brightstar]

I couldn’t help laughing when she said I didn’t raise my hand because “kv yeej ntseeg ntuj thiab” 😆😆😆

[@Elleucky]

Been waiting to hear an lgbtq story.

[@nasejyang6369]

He's a horrible friend. I hate ppl like that who use you and then use your secrets against you

[@helloemvee5877]

😮😮😮😮

[@yangthao5242]

The best secrets never leave the self and we all have them. Anyone who claims that they don't have any is lying to themselves. But, when one is shared with others, few are very safe. What's better is to safe guard yourself by being honest and open. It is true that some issues possesses damaging implications, however living with them in secret can be more toxic than people think. Your life could be surrounded by the negative shadow that it casts. You had a beautiful friendship that didn't need to be lost. Your husband is an uncaring and uncompassionate man when he learned about it. There is nothing wrong for a person, at a weak time, to display some humanity. Perhaps, your friend was reaching out at his time of need, and you have failed him. Never let someone else decide what is right and best for you. That is your choice you make. I feel you have lost much for letting him go due to your ideals and fear stemming form cultural obligations. What you two had was innocent, fair, and good.

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Best friend wanted benefits na lawv.

[@greenladylalaland4222]

Well your best male friend was able tried front door and back door 😘😄 = he liked back door more. He knew his true identity after became friend with you. It's okay, life goes on. Walk forward 👣👣➡➡➡

[@electricgenie966]

Men love friends with benefits but somebody will fall in love and somebody will get hurt.

[@mrsfabulouslee2995]

I had a best friend who told my business to my boyfriend (now husband) long ago when we first started dating. I was hurt from it because I am a strong believer in women code. When I found out she told him about my past i felt betrayed and never talk to her again. She never understood why. And I never got the chance to confront her. Beware of haters! They're everywhere.

[@Nchai-Yang]

No such thing as best friends when it involves a guy and a girl.

[@leethao3975]

Your friend used you. He probably wanted to test to see if he can sleep with a woman. He should do that with another woman, not his best friend. Also, he spilled your secret on purpose because he is jealous of you when he broke up with his bf. What a jerk.

[@kouxiong143]

Sister, he's unhappy and jealous of you. He wants you to be unhappy like him. He probably feels like you forgot about the friendship you shared and wanted to do something back at you. And he probably has some feelings for you too, but not enough to be with you.

[@Money-q9n]

Need to start pretending I'm gay too 😆

[@leevue1920]

What a toxic friend. I don't believe he was drunk when he exposed you two. He was probably jealous of the love you found. He took advantage of you. That's not what you call a best friend.

[@minecraftboy2676]

Trust no one not even your spouse!

[@mlee6092]

Wow, if we can't even trust gay men to be friends, who can we trust? He shouldn't have taken advantage of you like that, luring you under false pretext on a solo trip and getting you pregnant despite proclaiming to be gay. You also should've protected yourself, too. Why remain in contact with him? It was only a matter of time before he betrayed you again, and he finally did. Cut this guy from your life forever. Being in his vicinity only gives him more opportunity to backstab you again in the future.

[@amazinggrace8136]

You didn’t want to be “npam” for not telling him about the child, but went on to kill the baby and have no second thought about murder? You’re not off the hook yet, you’ll have to explain yourself to God one day.

[@Fromspam09]

Obviously he is bisexual and a BFF with benefits 😂 Take it gurl!!!

[@maipalo2895]

He seems like a bad drunk.

[@hueshangxiong38]

Trust nobody...Even your spouse...lol...If you know what I mean...lol..!!...They can turn against you at anytime...!!

[@pitherra]

My husband said all men knows how to lie to lay in bed with women. 😆 He said tus ruam los yeej txawj dag.

[@kerlee7015]

Niag neeg liam niag poj niam xyob txhiaj. Cas tsis txaj muag es tseem yuav muab tham rau ntiaj teb paub thiab.

[@hmongremark2686]

Yog Yim Leej mag sam lawm no ces koj thiaj tsis mag nws deev koj xwb. Nws ntse heev ces nws thiaj tau koj deev yam yooj yim kawg nkaus. Yog kuv nyob Yim Leej thaj chaw, kuv tseem yaum lwm tus txiv neej tuaj deev koj thiab siv tib lub maib Yim Leej siv ntawv ntag.

[@angie-gz4yg]

I think the "friend" is gay but wanted to see if he could be with and settle down with a woman. As for him sharing their secret, I think he was jealous of her happiness and bitter that she distanced herself from him.

[@Abbatiello053i]

Seems like kuv twb yuav paub tus txiv neej gay uas koj hais kov

[@sunnygirl973]

Maybe yim leej regret that you two didn't keep the baby.

[@goodlife916]

Thank you for sharing this story and representing the lgbtq Hmong community. As for what happened in your friendship, well those things happened, it happened before you met your husband you both were consenting adults. sometimes things in the dark comes out into the light. The secret itself doesn’t seem to be the problem. It seems the issue is that you did not tell your husband first and the way he found out sucked. I would feel betrayed too. Glad you guys were able to work through it.

[@Y0ungbl00d69]

🧑‍🤝‍🧑👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮

[@TusMeeMailee]

Ypur best friend was not a true friend. He is more like a toxic best friend. He didn't feel when bad when he slept with you, he didn't feel bad when he got you pregnant, and he sure didn't feel bad about spilling the tea to your husband.

[@frank7340]

I knew he was gay when she first described him.

[@kevinyher5240]

Your best friend was bisexual, either that or he was planning all along by asking you to go with him to Switzerland.

[@wisteria4550]

Txiv neej ces txawm gay gay los thaum nws qhov khoom sawv lawm ces tsis gay lawm os.

[@pitherra]

🤣

[@pkcyang2910]

Hahaha 😂 😆

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Right?… If not, they wouldn’t use back doors

[@444902720xv]

People like this should never be trusted. Anyone like this gay or non-gay will be removed from my circle. If it's me, he will not even have a second chance to come and say sorry cause one messed up is too much.

[@nkaujmogmim125]

It's your fault for still hanging with that gay guy when u r married. U should have ignored him stop being bf.

[@whatheck6797]

He’s gay, what did you expect from him?!!!!

[@hlubforlife]

8ppl is GAY with benefits. 🤣

[@thovkomluaghlub9114]

Ca koj tsi muab koj tus Best friend tswm thiab qhia poj niam cov thaj rau nws ko nws cia li tig kiag los ua txiv neej yawg na

[@menglor9901]

It's a lie ,its true then why now you expose the fact . What's a stupid story 🙄 😕

[@suabcuayaj877]

haha yim leej tau freeby vim koj yooj yim heev...yim leej lam tias nws gay xwb...nws tsis yog..nws nyiam poj niam thiab txiv neej..nws lam hais li ntawv rau koj. I wouldnt trust anyone claim they are gay unless they currently date/married to someone. haha and vim leej purposely tell the secret cause he wants to have you once more...you should never be close to him again after you guys got back.