HOW TO MAKE YOUR WAIST LOOK SMALLER NO MATTER WHAT SIZE YOU ARE

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi lovely friends. I really hope you enjoy this video. I'm sure you will have lots to say (!) and I welcome that, as always. However, it took a lot of courage for me to bare my tummy, so I hope you will be kind, as you always are! And, as I mention in the video, anybody can have a lack of waist - me included. It's not about being overweight, it's just a matter of shape. Lots of love to you all. Deirdre. XX

[@KatrineNordland]

It’d take courage for pretty much everyone to bare their tummies on KZbin. But first of all, you look absolutely beautiful, and second of all, you’re doing it here with the intention of illustrating a point that is totally relevant and necessary and inspiring to us all. So thank you so much for having the courage. ❤

[@sharynvidito7810]

love your shirt i woukd love to order ..you look fabulous

[@maureenneans757]

You've nothing to be embarrassed about. You're always so tastefully dressed, with loads of information. Would love a blouse like the one you're wearing. Simply feminine. I love your seagulls !!

[@JaneCrossan]

When I saw your first all white outfit I thought "wow that's lovely" then I realised you were showing it as a not so good choice!! LOL. You are of course correct in all your examples and that is why I'm here for your advice. Thanks Deirdre, I love your channel ❤

[@deenab6476]

Yes please….more on colour…it’s like learning a foreign language to me…I I can’t get me head around it…😅

[@Darlnk]

Stay with either warm or cool primaries. Which suits you best

[@notapplicable9970]

I can say with complete confidence that menopause has not been my friend. I've gained 30 lbs post menopause and it's significantly impacted my self-confidence. It doesn't help that I have scoliosis, so it makes me look even thicker than I am around my back and waist. 😢 It's truly a challenge finding clothing that makes me look and feel attractive. You, Ms. Dierdre are an inspiration to me, and I appreciate the time you take each week to help those of us that are so dreadfully "fashion challenged." And, for the record, your "belly" is just fine. 😊

[@pageremick5504]

And PEPLUMS give the illusion of a smaller waist .... and they are coming back in fashion!! YAY!

[@americafirst9144]

Some peplums do. Straight ones on jackets. I have one blouse with a gathered peplum and I feel like it draws attention to my tummy and makes it look bigger.

[@sherides4341]

I loved hearing the seagulls!

[@deehess1652]

Please go through differert colors for us!!! Very helpful video❤

[@lizmillner414]

Hi Deirdre….I would only wish I had a “tummy” that partially looked like yours!!! I am 72 and you want to see embarrassment! HA! I love all your time consuming videos as they are not easy to put together…of that I am certain of. You give such a wealth of goodness to us and it is very appreciated….so thank you so much as I have incorporated so much of your info in my daily wear…..so again, thank you!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

That’s so kind of you, thank you. Lots of love xx

[@marycosgrove1587]

Great video Deirdre. These are all very important. I'm 68 and when I was younger I always had a very small waist in comparison to the rest of my figure. But now as I've aged, I've found that I'm not as defined in the waist area. So These tips and tricks will come in very handy to me. Ty very much.

[@leonahiggins5170]

Hi from Australia. Just came across your video by accident. I'm not usually interested in this sort of thing. I'm 70, tall.....nearly 6 ft and wear all the right things according to you, so quite pleased that after all these years I have got it "nearly" right. Thank you so much, I loved listening to you, you don't "waffle" and I covet your beautiful white blouse. As for baring your tummy. Well done, you have nothing to be ashamed off. Thank you.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Leona. Thank you so much for watching and commenting. Lots of love xx

[@robynwells8249]

Any suggestions for “uplifting bras” ? I know you did a bra video but any in particular that are “uplifting”? Also I think you are the first KZbinr I’ve seen that is an inverted triangle like me. Your styling suggestions for this body type are so helpful.

[@Cmash5195]

I'm a rectangle shape and always struggle to define my waist without making it appear wider than my hips. My instinct is to cover it up. Thanks for all your suggestions. I really enjoy your videos and look forward to all your posts.

[@fiddlersthree8463]

Thank you so much for your candor and bravery by exposing your tummy!! Anything to help us understand!! And thank you for the gulls -- you are so lucky to be living by the sea.

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I have a similar, rectangular, body shape and these are great tips. My waist isn’t really thick, but my shoulders and hips are quite narrow (and the same width). No matter how much I weigh, my waist:hip ratio never changes. I’m at a good, slender weight, but it makes no difference. My narrow hips, especially, make it nearly impossible to find any trousers/jeans that fit. If I get a decent waist fit, the hips, bottom and thighs will be absolutely enormous. The majority of women have much, much bigger hips, bottoms and thighs than I do, pants are always cut for that shape only. So, I mostly stick to stretchy knit, or silk, trouser styles. The former might pull in to be be slim enough below the waist, the latter drape nicely over my skinny hips and derrière. (I’ve never found a wearable pair of jeans, and after 50 years of looking, I’m sick of trying, with all the flops I got).

[@rosej9686]

Pleated trousers would probably look great on you, since they tend to create a bit more volume below the waist.

[@paulafoy8624]

Would love to hear about more dark color to use for illusion to hide my waist 😊

[@Justme-qn2qw]

Loved hearing the gulls!

[@Feathe3642]

Please do a video on colours.

[@marilynhealy7452]

Yes, more on the colour blocking, but could you give us one on the best bras for the D cups

[@collyf6010]

Great tips. Loving your makeup on the last few videos. Can you do a makeup video soon for spring colours.

[@denisebrown1678]

Thank you for this video. 👍🏽 Not only do I like the style examples, but also the inclusion of African American women to help emphasize your point. This is important to me, not only for the purpose of representing the diversity of the women who follow you, but color blocking as well. My skin tone is somewhere between two of the women you featured; comediennes Wanda Sykes - red blazer and Leslie Jones - pink blazer). The pink outfit was especially stunning. ❤

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Denise. I'm so glad you liked the video and I really appreciate your comments about inclusion of African American women to showcase a point. I really aim to be as inclusive as I can and I love all you ladies. Lots of love, XX

[@KatrineNordland]

You are SO GOOD at this, Deirdre! I love your videos and am eternally grateful for all the time you spend making all these looks and tips for us to be inspired by. ❤

[@rosej9686]

Wonderful tips and very useful information, delivered in an interesting, warm and relaxed manner, as always! The added touch of the sound of seagulls just added to the calm and charming atmosphere. Thank you! ❤️

[@jacquelinedonoghue2135]

As a typical apple shape….waist measurement is same as hips….this was a great video for me . Took inspiration from the looks you created Deirdre. Thank you so much. Would love a colour block video👍🌸

[@MiaHessMusic]

Thanks Deirdre, great advice as always!! Yes please for using color to make a waist look smaller.

[@dianedoonan8903]

I love your sense of humility. I also find that you are very tactful when discussing shapes and budget wise fashion.

[@janicechapman310]

Thanks very much. This is another great video. Cheers fromCanada 🇨🇦

[@lindsayhall6773]

Yes l would love to have a video on colour, clothes, makeup the lot.😊

[@bethbridgers21]

Would love to hear more on color and color patterns, blocking, etc .

[@kimberlyperrotis8962]

I’ve always preferred self-belts, or other ones that match the color of my dress, jacket, etc. Many current garments need to be belted because of the excess fabric, and/or straight cut in the waist area. (I wish brands would tell us that they’re oversized, a trend I really hate on my petite, small frame. One can’t always tell from the image because they put giant 6-foot models into XS). A garment-matched belt defines the waist, or cinches in the extra fabric without drawing as much attention as a contrasting-color one. Although I do also wear contrasting ones, too, depending on the outfit, they’re just not as flattering on my poorly-defined waist. Definitely, no belts wider than standard width (1.25 inches) or 1.5 inches on my short-torso, high-waisted body. I love how you analyze how clothes do or don’t flatter our shapes, Deirdre, that critical eye is so important, especially for each one’s own self-styling. Without this self-objectivity, one ends up as consistently badly dressed and styled as Meghan Markle, a walking fashion disaster despite her super-expensive designer choices. It just proves that money can’t buy taste or style.

[@christinegallagher2894]

Thank you again Deirdre for another amazing and very helpful video have a great week

[@susanharding4358]

Thank you for your tips on defining your waist I'm the same height as you and I have a rectangle body.i always look forward to your vlogs 😊 xxx

[@cecibee3495]

Love the short torso advice. 🎉

[@carolmiller9838]

I’m 81 & really enjoy your videos; thanks so much & God Bless You for sharing such great tips!!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You are so welcome! xx

[@elainecampbell8319]

Thank you Deidre, every point you’ve made will be helpful. I’m 64 and somewhere along the line I lost my waist. I’m inspired now to go through my closet and try every single item on and either pack away or send away items that are no longer flattering. Thank you again, have a great week❤

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You got this! Have a great week too. XX

[@she_likes_her_style]

brilliant ideas here for showing off the waist Deirdre x

[@dreamingsilk]

Hi Deirdre! I always enjoy your videos, but this one *really* was delightful. I actually happen to have an “hourglass” figure, especially after losing 75 pounds over the last two years. Your demonstration about midrise vs. high rise jeans was eye opening to me. Color me convinced! And speaking of color, I’d love for you to do a video on that. Enjoy your sounds of the sea, lucky girl! ❤

[@rachelmolina3995]

I'm 6 foot and a rectangle. Would love to hear your ideas. Excellent video, thanks.

[@victoriahole4717]

Deirdre love the seagulls and the sound. What great ideas you gave is us to hide our tummy and give us a waist line. You always give us such wonderful ideas. Thank you for sharing Blessings Hugs Love Victoria and Barbara ❤️❤️❤️

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

XXXX

[@alanabailey6705]

Hi Deirdre yes please more tips on colours and other good videos ❤

[@jenniferrezende1460]

Awesome suggestions. I totally agree with you

[@angela3063]

Thank you Deirdre for the great tips.

[@petpilgrimgoose]

Hi Deirdre from snowy New Hampshire, USA! Thanks for another great video!!

[@loricanner7981]

Love your videos. I am a short waisted hourglass so the wide belt comment really resonated with me. I’d love more tips on chesty short waisted women.

[@GO-ku5pv]

Thanks so much for the helpful tips! Thank you for putting yourself out there- I wish my tummy looked that good!❤

[@Angelicabelle345]

Hi Deirdre, I'm going to try your tips since I'm 5'2" and apple shaped. If you could share color blocking and color tips in general, it would be greatly appreciated. Have a glorious day.❤

[@monikamichaelis-iw3to]

Even in a mumu you would look good. So elegantly put together.

[@debwheeler7499]

For sure on the color blocking💕!

[@elizabethpace1591]

You always do such fantastic videos, I like the high rise jeans as they are more flattering. I couldn’t go back to wearing low rise jeans 🙂

[@melodystover4246]

Hello yes color blocking would be a great video I would love to see you do! Thanks so much for your inspiration!!

[@juliewilson238]

You are so lucky to live near the sea. Very informative vlog ❤

[@janetrussell2819]

that was great and very helpful i have bought the Goliea bits and they are lovely still need to watch your vids for more help im 75 but not giving up yet

[@adriennedaley8940]

Thank you for this video, Deirdre! These techniques could really work for me. I'll be buying some new clothes soon so it's perfect timing try this out. Oh, and YES please do a color video! God bless.

[@momj1723]

YES .. Please share more on color also any tidbits on jean color washes - what's in this spring? Thank you!! Odalys

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Noted! XX

[@androideveland]

Yes pls for colours

[@LouLouMeyer]

Another great video! And I loved hearing the birds!

[@juliehanson1175]

Yes, belts have always been a little bit of a challenge. I have the dreaded short torso and it is tricky. Skinny belts always work the best, but it still can be hit or miss and even they can end up being awkward and uncomfortable. The rest of the tips were very useful. Thank you!

[@luzvarela-mastromarco927]

Yes, please make color videos. I'm addicted to black.

[@rmth9827]

I'd like to hear more about the color blocking. Also, can you show some skinny belt outfit ideas? Another youtuber has mentioned the stretchy belts and can you comment on those? Thank you.

[@denisecookson900]

Such an amazing video..straight and to the point..you really are great at showing styling info, so easy to watch!😍

[@jacquelinedegraeve5513]

Thank you ❤loved your video❤

[@beckyedmunds3608]

Hello, I lost my waist after the menopause so thanks for these 10 top tips x

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I'm afraid it's a real thing, isn't it? I really hope these ideas can help. XX

[@GriffithsJacqueline]

Just found you, wonderful! I have lots to watch! Thank you.

[@Schlei602]

You're so right, dear Deirdre! Thanks for your good solutions!

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

You are so welcome! XX

[@suzannemcguinness2502]

Lots of great content. I currently have a penchant for the wine colour that you showed in one of the fit and flare dresses. Would love to see a video about colours. Thanks again Deidre, and as always, I appreciate how you showing images with women of all sizes and cultures. #Iloveseagulls

[@shireenpassi4961]

Great styling tips for a surf board like me, with a broad waist and a bum one could roll round-shaped wraps on! A question though: What about if one wears a PADDED PANTY underneath dresses? Would that help too in forming a waist when there's none??

[@patriciaforan4789]

Thank you for all of the great tips!

[@gillmolony6781]

You have a really easy way of demonstrating your great ideas. Also, you're always kind and a wonderful self advertisement . Yes please a colour blocking video would be much appreciated. Thank you.

[@carolmiller9838]

I’m going to Grand Cayman Island 🏝️ for 2 weeks in August and want to travel light. What is best for me to wear on the plane? Also how many shorts, tops shall I pack? I will have one carry on & a big purse that will fit under the seat. I’ll be visiting my daughter and husband and Hope, age 5 and we’ll celebrate Eden Carol’s 3rd birthday ! I will also see my grandson, age 28. Of course we’ll go to the beach often and to church. I’m silver haired with a short curly cut. I lived in Cayman 20 years & my husband and I taught in a Christian school 🏝️❤️

[@elcehl]

🎉Loved Your Video. Ty Dierdre 🌷 You gave us a lot of great tips. Would you do a video on color blocking 👍💯❤️⁉️

[@dianejohnston8179]

thank you for the great tips.....from Australia

[@cycasey]

Very helpful. I’ve been longing for tips like these since the menopause middle hit! 😅

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Glad it was helpful! Xx

[@doreenboyd3347]

I love the way you use different pieces to flatter the body.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Oh thank you! XX

[@laurieclarke2363]

Great points, you look fabulous lady. Thanks for you videos

[@pamelabarker7259]

I love videos like this. It allows us to use what’s in our closet and make us look better.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

I’m so glad you liked it xx

[@WrenCottage302]

I really appreciated your honesty in sharing these tips with us. We all have tummies and as we mature, they do too. Your suggestions for creating illusions by using clothing shapes, colors and accessories were quite helpful. And with warmer weather coming in the next couple of months, it’s good to know we can dress well without having to wear constricting shapewear. Thanks for your ideas.

[@user-zf3mc1qv1c]

I'm just 5ft tall and colour blocking is a no no for me. I would love a video on colour to stop my mainly navy and off white capsule wardrobe looking like a uniform. I'm a rectangle body shape with a short torso and a rounded tummy, so you see my problem! I'm loving your tutorials. They make so much sense.

[@grannypattie]

Loved your video! I am 5-2 and am also a Rectangle. What about corset tops? Shape wear with belts?

[@ericalessie]

yes, please talk about color block

[@lindahawes3725]

Really love your video you have gave me some great tips as I am only 5 ft will watch again ❤❤

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Awesome! Thank you! Xx

[@roxannetakeuchi9726]

I am petite 5'1 with a straight-type body and short torso. Loved your tips but, again, I'm petite & need help!

[@peggyawald2749]

Thank you such great ideas, now I will have to watch all your videos

[@carolinesaunders8603]

Great tips and tricks Deidre!😊And YES please to the tricks around colour blocking I would love to find out the right ways of doing it! Thank you 🤗

[@terrysmith5868]

Hello from Vermont USA. I am 5Ft 2 and a size 6 US. I have a little lower tummy and have leaned to wear the right things to disguise it. I have MS so am very sensive to the feel of certain fabrics and theings around my waist. I have mid rise jeans that i used to love because they are so soft. But they are too low now and accentuate my lower tummy. I wish i could find a pair that fit properly but havent been able to so gave up and dont even wear pants at all now unless it is atheisure wear. I wear dresses a lot because they hide so much! In the winter i will just wear leggings under them and if short sleeved a sweater over the top.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Hi Terry and thank you so much for sharing. XX

[@RootCauseWithDr.Alda1]

Love your videos; I just discovered you. As a full-busted, small (5'4") woman, it can be very difficult to look like you have a small waistline. I always incorporate a v-neck line and A-shaped skirt or bell-bottom jeans, as you have suggested, and it always helps. I always struggle with a good-fitting bra. I have looked at Victoria's Secret, Intimisso, Soma, and many other brands. I am a 34DD to 34DDD. What are your favorite bra brands to use?

[@roxw7221]

Thanks for the tips. I'm a 5'3 rectangle. Always been a rectangle even before menopause. I don't own a belt. I like the tips because I want a belt.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So glad it was helpful! Take care. XX

[@annzaccaria5299]

Please make a video for really petite women . I am 5 feet and weigh 115 where can I find sophisticated clothes for my figure? I have practically no waste

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

kzbin.info/www/bejne/oHTdhZZ6iKmqjaM here is my latest one which you may like. Also, kzbin.info/www/bejne/m5W2ioqvqJ2Xm6M is all about petite styling. XX

[@cltinturkey]

More on color please! Thank you for considering. Happy spring!

[@dianegray509]

This was super helpful. I’m very thin but don’t have a defined waist, never did, and I do practice most of what you suggested. Now I know why and it should cut down on shopping time 😀 Like I keep buying button up cardigans only to return them because now I know the round neckline is not flattering for me Would love to learn more about color

[@juliemoore6957]

Princess seams always make your waist look smaller.

[@vivvoveo384]

Thank you for all the great info .

[@Donnaconrad1]

Very good content thanks from the USA

[@amygerges6974]

Excellent interesting tips I haven’t heard

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Glad it was helpful! XX

[@MariaRomero-qc1hn]

First time I see your videos they’re wonderful I will try it thanks many blessings

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

Thanks and welcome to my channel! XX

[@shireenpassi4961]

Great styling tips for a surf board like me, with a broad waist and a bum one could roll round wraps on! A question though: What about if one wears a padded panty underneath dresses? Would that help too in forming a waist when there's none??

[@Mapielit]

what to wear with a pear silhouette? Thank you LOVE from France

[@sunnyflorida12]

Thanks! I just changed my outfit! 😅😊

[@alanalarsen7759]

Love your advice! Thanks

[@maralynosman]

Thanks Deirdre for another informative video. I have gone through skinny jeans to straight leg jeans, and now my favourite is bootcut, high-waisted (Magic M&S jeans of course) they truly are the best for flattering my size 16 figure. I am pear shaped so wear darker denim with a slightly fitted top. Great tip about a narrow belt too, Looking forward to your expertise on colour. Maralyn xx

[@elizabethsmolens2752]

Thank you for this advice. It is so helpful. I love all of your advice.

[@50FabulouswithMyFriendDeirdre]

So glad! XX

[@NightOwl11]

Hello from Canada! We have the same shape...subscribing! 😊

[@sarahlea7618]

Great video. Thanks for being willing to show your stomach, although you are very slim.

[@myhillslife27]

hahaha love the seagulls ahaha

[@estherglenn6875]

Deirdre Wonderful helpful information. Yes please more on color ! Thank you so much and you always look lovely!

[@kpops168]

My key tips are belting higher than the natural waist, using empire line cuts and my special bra. My smallest section is my ribs under the bra and I belt quite high. The other thing is getting your breasts up higher and for me that is not achievable with an underwire bra. I use a bra by Sugar Candy and it lifts breasts very high due to its inner ‘harness’ structure which is also super comfortable. It’s ugly stretchy but super structured at once. It’s not under wired and I think brings me up two inches higher than any underwired bra I’ve used. It’s a little pointy in shape which is good because it makes your chest looks smaller by lifting and projecting you forward (unlike so called ‘minimiser bras’ which just flatten your chest all over reducing the projection and making your look like a dumpling😂)