#57 Moving out, Closing a Chapter & Dealing w/ Anxiety

[@AnnetteVartha]

You do have a family - your online family - and I, for one, am so inspired by you both. I know we are not 'real' family - but perhaps it is nice to think that the 'extended' family is there for you in spirit if not in body. Thank you for sharing your journey with us all: the reality of the hardships you face - and how you work through those difficulties with grace is uplifting! The rewards of your labour are shown in your gorgeous photography and it is a real pleasure to see your visions come to fruition bit by bit. As a mum of three, in New Zealand, I watch you and am so amazed at the life you have both built from a piece of barren and bare land. If you were my daughter (and I am old enough to be your mum!) - I would be so very proud of your accomplishments, the resilience and efforts you have put in to make your dreams come true...

[@noraalvarez5707]

SPECTECULAR, BOTH YOU ARE. LOVE YOUR DRIVE. STAY ON COURSE & DREAM BIGGER. THANK YOU FOR SHARING YOUR STORY. I CANNOT IMAGINE YOUR FAMILY NOT SUPPORTING YOU. I LEFT MY FRIENDS, WORK, CHURCH AND MY PRECIOUS HOME TO MOVE TO ANOTHER CITY TO HELP SUPPORT MY SON AND HIS LOVELY WIFE. I WAS 50 YEARS OLD, TOGETHER WITH MY HUSBAND WE CLOSED THE DOORS TO OUR LOVELY HOME AND CLOSE OUR EYES AND WENT TO BE THE SUPPORT MY SON NEEDED AT THE TIME. I HAVE NO REGRETS. I FOUND A NEW JOB AND MADE NEW FRIENDS AND WAS THEIR FOR MY SON AND HIS WIFE. WE ARE SO PROUD OF YOU AND PEPE FOR ALL YOU ARE DOING. THANK YOU FOR GIVING US SUCH LOVELY VIDEO'S . THANK YOU, THANK YOU. MANY BLESSINGS. MUCH LOVE FROM THE USA.

[@AC-iw5mv]

You are the most amazing parents to do that for your son and his wife 😢❤😢

[@Native-Kitty]

It’s messed up when your own family doesn’t support the type of life you are striving to live. It seems like they were willing to support their idea of who they thought you were instead of who you actually are. It’s their loss, not yours. You two are working hard to have the life you want and it’s bearing fruit ❤❤

[@HooliganMomma]

Well said @Native-Kitty!! It's very true..when family judges and doesn't support because your lifestyle isn't how they would choose to live just shows that the love isn't really there! As always, success will always outshine judgment and lack of support by the people who should really be standing by you!! It's sad for them..but we're here!! 💖 xo

[@penelope8948]

Any time we step out of our cultures “norm,” we get pushback from others. But, it is the only way to discover who you really are and the life you want to live. I think there is a lot of fear and envy from others. Secretly, we admire those who are brave enough to go after their vision for their life. Which is why so many people don’t dare it and are miserable. Kudos to you both. Forge on and don’t let go of your dreams. You have created a beautiful life together and have so many plans that I can’t wait to see you accomplish. Love from Sebastopol, California❤️

[@Freedomforvera]

So many beautiful people! Love to read the comments❤️

[@kevinfox6220]

I took a job overseas for 9 months and sold my car and left my belongings at a friend's house for that time. When I returned, my friend told me his mother decided to throw out all of my things so she could have more room. I lost everything. Though many years have passed since, it is still an awful memory. I have since done much more than I ever imagined, as the only way forward was to leave things behind. It's difficult to climb mountains when carrying too much baggage. So good to see you guys building a beautiful life of your own making.

[@terraniciaa]

Eugenia, I am so grateful for your openness and vulnerability. I have delighted in your videos for the last few years and knowing that you've created so much beauty out of incredible hardship gives me the courage and will to keep pushing through my own current season of adversity. Not having support from family is a kind of heartbreak that I am all too familiar with and knowing that you've gone through something similar, are still fighting, and have come out on the other side is so inspiring. You don't look like what you've been through, and it motivates me to believe that better days are coming for me as well. Thank you!! It means so much to see you fight and win!

[@shirleyn4677]

Without imparting judgement on your parents, one thing I learned in probably my 20s is something your therapist probably told you. You cannot control or change other people this includes parents and relatives. You can only control how you react to situations. So after I learned this what they say or do may aggravate or annoy me a short time but then after I leave I don’t obsess about any of it till the next time. 😊❤

[@dwaynegresham4857]

My family always told me that they loved me when I was young but then they never called, never checked on me. I was always reaching out to them and then one day I stopped. My father had died when I was a young man of 23. My mother hadn’t spoken to me since I was 21 and then only because I wrote to her. I lived my life the best that I could. Now I live to enjoy each day as it comes.

[@adaada8833]

Sorry to hear that. I can not unserstand why they stopped to contact you?!

[@janeorganizes2024]

I am so sorry! What heartlessness on your parents' part. No excuses for that lack of parenting.

[@orchidpanda2253]

beautiful

[@NotKekePalmer]

I'm Nigerian. My dad just learned that the phone works both ways because I realised that we wouldn't speak unless I reached out. So I stopped. My mom has still never picked up the phone to call me except for favors. It's a cultural thing, I think@@adaada8833

[@Santi-ce2eb]

No soy ni psicóloga ni terapeuta, solo una persona con cierta edad y experiencia en la vida. Pero diría que vuestra familia hizo lo que pudo y según sus creencias. No lo supieron hacer mejor porque probablemente tampoco tuvieron alguien que les enseñará y les guiará .Deberíais estar orgullosos de haber soltado esa mochila emocional familiar. No les tengáis resentimiento, si no más bien compasión. Ánimo que sois fenomenales!

[@alexglb2035]

Eugenia, I don't often take the time to write comments but definitely wanted to write you few words after watching this video. thank you for being so open and vulnerable. I always have been really inspired by the life you have created for yourself, but even more now when you have an idea of the journey. I can relate to the hardship of not feeling supported by family, you both should be so proud of what you have built. You are so talented and hard working, love you work and hoping to keep following you on your next garden projects.

[@O.BARRABES]

Me has echo que se me encoja el corazón.... vivi muchos años en camper, tengo un terreno off the grid y acabo de cumplir el sueño de mi vida que era tener un hijo desde el primer mes de embarazo mi familia no me visitó y cuando nació solo eran malas caras hoy dos meses y picó que tiene mi bebé ellos no han aparecido ni preguntado o ayudado . Sola completamente . Lei hace poco cambia tanto que los que te conocian no te puedan ni reconocer , así decidí quemar mi antiguo yo para ser mejor para mi hijo.. Me duele pq ver crecer a un niño es algo que no te puedes perder y ellos han decidido no verlo para hacerme daño a mi. Os deseo lo mejor y estate orgullosa de lo que habéis logrado tu y pepe yo estoy orgullosa de mi , no necesito que nadie venga a decírmelo. Ánimo abrazo desde Ibiza ❤

[@lisabayliss7872]

Happiness is not the desination, its the journey. You have both gound happiness in each ither and living like you do. Many will not like nor understand. My family were also a journey in my life full of pain and misunderstandings. 🙏 This was a huge hurdle that you have now jumped and ita behind you. Though you may not meet and hug your youtube followers, i will talk for myself here in the uk and say, i am with you on your journey and i support you and love the fact you are rising from the ashes and have so much love for you both being true to yourselves. Your path 'is' a beautiful one. Not everything comes easy in life, and usually i find the things that are worth it, I've had to work harder for on may levels... You've got this. You are proud of yourselves and that's all that matters. Families can make us sad inside... My darling friend who died always said to me "Lisa, if you expect yourself from others, you will always be disappointed"... He was right X

[@grahameburnip5880]

What a remarkable life you have given the trials you’ve faced. I had no idea things had been so tough on you, I just assumed you two had decided to drop out of the life you had (although I had no idea what that might have been). Seriously impressed with everything you do, the van conversion, buildings, garden, your food and now your house. It’s awful you don’t have the support of any family, on the other hand you have a huge KZbin family, speaking for myself and I’m sure many others, we support you all the way. You’re bright intelligent determined people, don’t let anyone say anything different. You are an inspiration for many many people. ❤

[@sugarbomb26]

I believe she said she was a doctor....

[@grahameburnip5880]

@@sugarbomb26 I had a look she has a background in medicine, but she designed and sold handbags (purses in the US I believe) when in the US. Pepe’s background is architecture, just the info on the internet, so it may be correct or may not be.

[@Ireneijs]

​@@grahameburnip5880yes, doctor and he is an architect!

[@Keesha]

Thank you so much for this timely lesson. Now I know that it is never good to make assumptions about how well other people are doing. I’ve always thought that I needed to get my sh*t together in order to have the “dream” life, you guys have- but you’ve now taught me that it is in the messiness, the act of moving through the challenges and setbacks- that the “dream” life emerges. We just need to get up and do something. Wishing you both all the best ❤

[@aidajones-goins882]

I felt sad about your past experience but so grateful it has brought you to your present and inspirational life. We love you so much!!!

[@patisserie1524]

Mi corazon esta con ustedes. Yo soy Venezolana en Belgica y se lo que es tener que sobrevivir solo y sin ayuda. Deberian estar orgullosos de lo que han creado de la nada, es una maravilla. Me inspiro cada domingo con sus videos. Mucha fuerzai!! 💚🙌

[@Serenityfor1]

Thank you for sharing your stark truth. You’re on the right path with or without family support. You’re showing the way. Keep dreaming!

[@christineschultz6735]

Thanks for sharing. It’s so helpful to be reminded that other people have to go through hard times also. Helps me not to drown in self pity while pushing through the next challenge and the next and the next

[@JoanCaine]

I just want to add my affirmations to the many folks who have already commented. I continue to be in awe of what you and Pepe are creating and the connection you are building with those of us around the world who now feel invested in your success and are wholly behind you. Sharing your journey in the way that you do requires a willingness to be vulnerable and that is a great gift that you offer. We are all finding our way and our place in the world, at all stages of our lives. And the world now feels particularly challenging to comprehend. You are both part of a new vision for land stewardship and community building and finding the courage to follow a vision. I cannot thank you enough. From Seattle, my heart to yours.

[@janefaulkner1216]

As a psychologist (in Australia) I’m so glad that therapy has been so helpful for you. You’re an extraordinary person. So inspirational. Thank you for sharing your life with us. Xx

[@thewriterstuff]

You and Pepe have been through so much, yet here you are still going strong. You are the poster children for resilience and perseverance. You are inspirational!

[@makilahduncan556]

Coming from a rocky family myself and being in the process of "rising from the ashes" myself i appreciate you posting this video. Only last year my found family and i had everything that wasnt used on a daily basis to survive in a storage unit filled to the brim. Thankfully i am in a place were I dont have to have/ pay for the unit monthly anymore. Yohr have made so much beautiful and stressful progress in eachothers lives. Im glad you and pepe had and will continue go have eachother thoughout whatever will happen.

[@felisungerer3426]

Thanks for your honesty. It has helped me this evening as I was drowning in self-pity. I love your vlogs - so very inspirational. I am Portuguese but have been living in Cape Town South Africa since the age of 5.

[@oyandakona5994]

❤️🇿🇦

[@lydiasalerno2320]

Sending good vibes to you from Wales UK 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁷󠁬󠁳󠁿 💫

[@Jedi-n-Zoey-Lofi]

Wow, this is so powerful. I can relate to everything you went through here. My husb6and I have been on our own with no help. We built an amazing life but had to start over, again with little to no help. We are stronger than ever for it. We even lived in a garage apartment for a while. Even with allnof our degrees and success itnwas difficult to explain to family why we were moving to a new place and doing so many new things but we know its what we are meant to do. We lost alot of relationships through thisnprocess and are still going through it now. Thanks for letting me know there are other "palm trees" out here growing strong through each storm. Many prayers to you both, keep moving forward. You arent alone. ❤

[@LaurenRivera-w4d]

The Lord goes with you always, Foot Prints in the Sand One night I dreamed a dream. As I was walking along the beach with my Lord. Across the dark sky flashed scenes from my life. For each scene, I noticed two sets of footprints in the sand, One belonging to me and one to my Lord. After the last scene of my life flashed before me, I looked back at the footprints in the sand. I noticed that at many times along the path of my life, especially at the very lowest and saddest times, there was only one set of footprints. This really troubled me, so I asked the Lord about it. "Lord, you said once I decided to follow you, You'd walk with me all the way. But I noticed that during the saddest and most troublesome times of my life, there was only one set of footprints. I don't understand why, when I needed You the most, You would leave me." He whispered, "My precious child, I love you and will never leave you Never, ever, during your trials and testings. When you saw only one set of footprints, It was then that I carried you."

[@hudbajekrasa]

Hi Eugenia. I always feel super inspired by your work. I also think your designs from the previous business are so beautiful. Are you gonna sell the unsold pieces of bags and shoes? Thanks, Maria

[@sierraodessa]

I came here to ask the same thing! There are so many of us here who will ABSOLUTELY buy the leftover stock! 🤍🤍🤍

[@monikakarwat-bury6129]

Yes exactly the same question I've asked. Where they can be found to buy?

[@emmariveragarcia2072]

A medida que iba avanzando el relato y aumentando el conocimiento de vuetro relato sentia una mayor alegria por vuestro crecimiento , resilencia y el talento que desbordáis ambos desde siempre .El proyecto actual de construccion de vuestro nuevo hogar y reforestacion en armonia con el entorno es aleccionador . Habeis tenido y teneis la capacidad de transmutar tantas cosas y sobretodo poner acción para materializar aquello que soñais confiando en los tiempos y adecuandoos a las circunstancias y eso es mas que encomiable . Gracias por dar visibilidad a lo que de verdad es valioso

[@sanchezzz009]

Don’t be scared to let go of what is good for what is valuable 💓 Have a great day everyone!

[@judyp9141]

I am weeping watching the 1st 10 minutes. Thank you for sharing your truth. It resonates so deeply and pushes me to keep going ❤️

[@julib2526]

Oh my goodness - I just started watching and is there an opportunity for someone to buy one or two of your leather good samples?? 🙏🏻

[@annabelwaterhouse-biggins4075]

Yes! Please make the overstock available again, would love to buy ❤

[@ctheo2020]

Yes! I've also been wondering if there will be a relaunch of the brand? After I found this channel I did some research and found a few articles on your brand when you lived in L.A. After seeing the craftsmanship, I've always wanted a piece from your collection! 🌞

[@Minimalist_sway]

I’d love a piece as well!1

[@helenamachado4579]

Every struggle that we go through takes us one step foward in our internal growth and makes our inner light shine brighter. Never forget your light, your heart, your soul. Love is all that matters. The rest is just life lessons. And you have created the most beautiful home and life. Keep going strong. You are not alone.

[@barbaracamejo9840]

Saludos de Vieques, PR...I am so grateful for this particular video. What grabbed me was the comment you made of how you always felt ashamed of not having a loving supportive family. I too have struggled with that very exact same thing. Shame is like a death sentence...it has to be rooted out of ourselves. I am on the other side of that shame but it was not without help and support from the family I and my husband have created for ourselves. I applaud all you have shared here and my hope is that you continue to share. I have been so inspired by you and Pepe. We hope one day to be able to visit your little piece of paradise. ....P.S. I love the cookbook and have made almost every recipe!!! Thank you and many blessings to you both!!!

[@lauramonahan9343]

WE all believe in you 100%!! You are a natural leader in a quiet way, and an amazing person. Thank you for sharing with and inspiring others. ❤

[@Infinitepossibilitiesat56plus]

Honestly, you both are amazing and should be so proud of yourselves for following your dreams and overcoming so much ! Thank you for sharing and being vulnerable about your life because it lets us know that all humans suffer and no one is perfect. . Gosh , it looks like you have such cool stuff in storage , maybe now that some items are closer where you are , you can sell it on your website? You have a good eye for style and chic stuff !

[@STEPHANIEENAJE]

I had no idea! I applaud your ability to stay the course and believe in yourselves. In fact, those are the only ones we need to convince what we’re doing is worthwhile - ourselves! You both deserve everything and more that the universe has in store. I am inspired XO P.S. if the overstock goes on sale at any time, I would like a link 😂 it looks gorgeous

[@iamameliag]

As a KZbinr and to share the dark part of life, I give you unconditional respect. No one seems to show the real downside of life. You have gained a permanent follower and the slow living is what I thrive to do. Keep up the beautiful work and family can be anyone. ❤

[@lolomagosi9661]

Your Video's always bring a smile to my face. however this one really gave me hope. As a single mum of two I have been surviving and not living. And year I faced the worst burn out in my Life. 2024 I decided to give myself 3 months to see if I could stay at the same work place and I felt my energy depleting too fast for my liking. So now I am on my last week at work and excited about the unknown. I am paying more to how I feel more than what I have to do to survive. I am ready for the next door to open and have been enjoying my own company. I have land in the country and really looking forward to getting of the grid. Thank you for sharing your life

[@GrazieGoesBush]

You are an amazing person. Your drive to embrace new skills, focus on your health and build a life that suits you, is inspiring and you can be proud of what you have done. Any failures are not failures but the way we learn. I love watching you and Pepe tackle a range of projects and know you inspire many others to have a go and not be held back by perceived limitations or fear of failing or others demands. I am very old but have enjoyed the way you approach your goals and projects. You have achieved so much. All the best and much love to you both.

[@erinmiddleton9522]

What an ordeal you have been through! This world is not set up for creative people like us to thrive and grow. And most people are in survival mode - which is why they hate seeing people like us live our dreams. But our time is coming. We just have to not think our ideas or ourselves are failures. We are beautiful rare plants that can't flourish unsupported and in the cement desert that is most of modern life. Even the garden you are creating in Portugal had unforgiving soil. But look at you! nurturing yourself and building healthy soil so you can finally thrive. I am cheering you on from here. I am one of your people. I see you. I believe in you. Together we creatives will remake this planet so everyone can relax into themselves, enjoy life and thrive. ❤❤❤

[@Shelmichelle1985]

Eugenia, thank you for this video. I am going thru a similar situation and I feel like the timing of the release was no coincidence. Your insight gives me hope.🙏

[@sallydeslandes7990]

What a very moving episode that once again shows a true reality of life; the challenges, the sadness and then finding a way back to peace and comfort and eventually moments of joy. I have experienced anxiety too, and I found comfort and relief when outside in nature or working in my garden. Treat yourself kindly and know that you have many friends and supporters who wish only good things for you.

[@jag2002]

You two have made many accomplishments already and should be very proud of them. You're both extremely hard working, creative, and you create beauty all around you. Often we look for confirmation from others/family that we're on the right track but I've learned that it's best to look inwards for that. I never received guidance from my parents. They divorced when I was 10 and my father went missing. I've had to make my own way without much support. You'll have many external signs that will guide you on your path.

[@RINAKEYSER]

Perhaps you are aware of this already, but I'll mention it just in case. Proteas have very sensitive root systems and even weeding around could be detrimental to your plants and could and possibly will kill off your plants. You are strong girl and I admire you for the beautiful person that you are. You have so much going for you. Lift up your chin and give the world your most beautiful smile😊. You can do it!

[@maximalistnomad7673]

It’s so wonderful that you at least have each other. Life can be hard, but having a supportive partner makes such a difference.

[@BibBobBibOnVacation]

„You are not your job. You are not your parents. You are not your credit score. You are not your school diploma. You are not the clothes you wear. You are not the size of your network. You are not your house or neighborhood. You are the sum of your words, choices and actions.“ Eugenia ☘️ appreciate your sharing 🌻🌞keep going, you’re great 🌞🌻

[@leahalexander1216]

Oh my goodness... what a stressful situation! I'm sorry you experienced that, but you handled it with such grace. Your story is very inspiring, and I understand wanting to follow your passions. I often wonder how my life would've been different if I had stopped practicing medicine, and devoted my full time to my non-medical endeavors. Your comments about how BetterHelp has helped you to better manage stressors also resonated with me. I may take a look at the app. I did sign up, however, for Aura after watching another of your videos. I love it, so thank you!

[@kikisarri2995]

Δεν καταλαβαίνω αγγλικά δυστυχώς , έβγαλα φωτογραφίες και μετάφρασα όλη την μετακόμιση σας . Πάντα τα δύσκολα μας κάνουν πιο δυνατούς . Σας εύχομαι από εδώ και έπειτα να σας έρθουν όλα όπως θέλετε και όπως σας αξίζει . Τα βίντεο σας πάντα μου δίνουν χαρά και δύναμη . Ευχαριστω ! ❤

[@ginnywolf7968]

Thank you for this video. I recently have had a rough go with no one to fall back on. These times do make you stronger.❤️

[@debglaizer]

I hope we will continue to see a lot more of you. Don't give up. Your videos have been educational, inspiring, hopeful, and relaxing. I am sorry that you have been so unsupported by your family. But you have that wonderful husband of yours who is your family. I know that your viewers can't give you the same support as a family should. We are your cheerleaders and a different layer of support. Please continue to post your video updates regularly. Please tap into your strengths to do what you believe, what your passion is, and what you both are successful at. Thank you so much and God Bless. ❤❤🎉

[@sailthebigorb7174]

You and Pepe are living the life I hope to have one day by living minimally and providing my own food. I have only learned of and been watching your videos for six months. They move me so much with artful videography and bring peaceful, calming Zen to my day, so it saddened me to learn of familial discord in your life. I wish for you two much happiness and fulfillment as you both provide it to your viewers through beautiful storytelling that often is conveyed with barely a word being spoken. Please continue on your path and keep sharing with us. Much love.

[@sharonkershaw3091]

As the saying goes “what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”. I am a true believer of this saying. Both you and Pepe have what it takes to survive. You have us all behind you ❤

[@angieroushar4468]

I found myself tearing up at different moments throughout this video... honoring the sacred space you've created. Thanks for sharing ❤

[@peggygilbertsen9099]

I understand the loss one feels when your family loves with conditions. It’s not what we’d hoped for or what we think we see in movies and happy ending stories. That being said , resilience and self awareness help build a new life. “Don’t look back, you’re not going that way”, is something I read and resonates always. You’ll be fine , and thank you for sharing.

[@Bluebluepoodle]

Always be true to yourself, if others, even those that are family cannot deal with that. It is their problem to sort not yours. Feel sorry for their loss. Look forward never behind. 😊

[@simpleflylife8189]

I want to just say how much I love the work you do - your KZbin channel is a work of art! Good job to both of you - I love when a new video comes out from your channel. I am so sorry that you have endured what you have - but you are doing MEANINGFUL work, and in my eyes, you both are VERY successful at life! Keep being beautiful!

[@ilariabilancini8085]

what you and Pepe are doing is incredible. sending you both big love x

[@kaitlinmeadows6273]

Your story touched me deeply and helped begin to heal very old wounds in me. Your grace in the face of adversity is beautiful to behold. Your family does not have the capacity or compassion to celebrate your remarkable souks-but we, your faithful friends here do and I hope that helps ease your hearts some. Love from California.

[@ElizabethFinley-s3h]

I’m sad your family is not supportive but you and Pepe are such an inspiration. I bought a very small house last year with a small plot and you are one of the biggest inspirations for creating my own sacred space, thank you 🙏

[@carolynyoung5844]

Thank you so much for sharing parts of your story with us. When I watch you and Pepe’s videos. I feel so calm. This may be intentional in your editing because of your past. You both are right where you are supposed to be to be. I am cheering you both on that you will have an abundance of your hearts desires to share as you deem necessary. May your days ahead be peaceful and stress free ❤❤

[@alwaysbekindlove]

Living on your own terms of an act of courage. Placing boundaries as an act of courage. And sometimes we lose those that we thought we’re going to be there for the long run. More than ever I recognized that not everyone will be. And that’s OK. Letting go is OK. Letting go of the expectations that people will be there for us. And it’s sad really because we need each more than ever. And instead helping one another we hurt one another. But it is really hard to help when it’s only one-sided. Eventually the relationship frays.

[@yildizgozlemcisi]

Thank you for sharing your story and hardship. It gives us inspiration to move on no matter how hard it gets.

[@mrs.tomcollins2424]

The sense of calm that comes with each upload, is much anticipated and enjoyed. Thank you Eugenia for always sharing the ups and downs of life. Those are hard to share, but truly make you both even more personable. Thanks. Much 💕 love and respect.

[@juulikuu9472]

Thank you for sharing your story so open and honest. I am always amazed how beautiful and calming your videos are, it really brings joy in my life. I wish you all the happiness!

[@aquamaree7022]

For what it's worth your online family is proud of all you and Pepe have accomplished. Keep shining. Love from Australia.

[@gricellrosario]

I am really sorry about the family situation but I can't stop thinking about the white shoes... I love them!!!!!! The bags are amazing too.....

[@rhondesign9239]

Thank you for the reminder that adversity opens the door to solutions. I am in a valley right now and although it is hard, I have to believe that one day I’ll get to the top of the mountain. Family support is rare, especially when your dreams are bigger than what they think is possible-I can relate. At least you have each other to lean on. Cheers to continuing the journey no matter what happens. Peace, light and truth 🤎

[@luzclarke2729]

Gracias por compartir. Es increíble lo que han hecho juntos.

[@LifeHomeandGardenwithAnaRica]

Thank you! These been an inspirational video, You are making an impact for so many.

[@Falling_Stardust]

My heart is with you. May your roots keep growing with every storm ✨

[@ireneyetc]

Mucho ánimo y mucha fuerza Eugenia. Tu marido, vuestro perro, vuestras plantas y tú, hacéis una familia muy bonita. Enhorabuena por todo lo que estáis construyendo juntos, sois inspiración ❤

[@mountainmedic4617]

You are so blessed to have each other. When my family turned me out, my husband of 30 years had recently died. It was then that I came to these beautiful, strong mountains. I had nothing, I had lost everything. It is when you become totally alone that you find yourself and can begin to try to forgive yourself. That was ten years ago. While I still spend most of my time in total solitude, I fill my days with art and craft and have mostly made peace with myself living minimally as do you. Hugs from the mountains of Virginia. The land heals much. You are both courageous in your lives. You are worthy of the best life has to offer. Much love ❤️

[@csilveira8951]

This episode brought tears to my eyes, I’m so glad you are both thriving. Over coming disappointment and heartbreak takes time to heal. Thank you for sharing your journey, it will certainly help others. ❤

[@inazedernkern]

you can plant for the winter tulips, daffodils, crocus and primroses

[@saltlightoftheearth3913]

This was such an emotional video - I am so glad that you have each other and what a great team you make :) Thanks for being so candid with the struggles it's not easy.

[@teresaedwards3659]

Also want to add a saying I happened to find, author unknown "' Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass... It's about learning to dance in the rain."Thank you for your heartfelt video.

[@universallyinsync]

It seems that you know exactly how to deal with this. We come to Earth to learn, and others who think there is just one way are dealing with their own struggles. When I was a young adult my mother got in the way of everything that I tried to do, school, etc. As a much older person, I realized that due to her child hood, she didn't want anyone going away, and thought that's how you keep them close, and safe. I had to forgive her. I think the two of you are doing amazing things! You are pursuing your dream, but realize that it can change, so that flexibility is important.💗👍🏡

[@helenetaito-jensen9604]

You are creating such a beautiful life and an amazing future, even without a supportive background. It is very inspiring. Thank you for sharing your journey so honestly and openly.

[@arianahoule7223]

You are helping so many people with your outlook on life. I, too, have a family who continually abused me until I broke all contact with them forty years ago. I have moments when I feel sad. However, I love myself and will no longer accept abuse of any kind. I am sending you loving thoughts. I know there are many subscribers who love you and believe in you. You are both helping to make this world a better and more loving place. Thank you.

[@reneeroberts6438]

These are the chapters that make us warriors to handle whatever is ahead. Love your thought about the first van not working out. God bless and keep you both.

[@clarainesescovarposada8008]

Hola Eugenia, de acuerdo con lo que yo he tenido, ese eucalyptus plateado es un árbol de 10 metros de altura, ponlo en un lugar para árboles, no en una jardinera y le gusta el suelo con PH ácido al igual que a la phissalies

[@ilonaniinemae4735]

"Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim Because it was grassy and wanted wear, Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I, I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference." Robert Frost "The road not taken".

[@Kathysart]

You are just so sweet. Thank you for sharing your ups and downs. Thank you too for sharing how to grow sweet potatoes. 🍃🌸🍃

[@analysisonlight605]

I wish when you went back to the storage unit where you lived it did not make you sad. I wish instead it made you proud of yourself to see how far you have come. When you said it made you sad, it made me sad as well. It also made me admire you and be inspired by you. If you and Pepe can do so much with so little, so can the rest of us. You are not alone in going through difficult times. There was a time in my life where all I had was G-d. If it was not for him, I do not know if I would have made it and I had kids. Sometimes you just need someone to show you the way and be the proof that it can be done. I am sure you guys have become that proof for a lot of people today through this video. Thank you for sharing.

[@francescawollaston2227]

Dear Eugenia, you and Pepe have triumphed over adversity! What an amazing turn around in your lives. Just always know that “ YOU ARE ENOUGH “ and despite your families not being supportive, you have a huge online community that love and admire all that you are, and all that you do! Love, Francesca b❤❤❤❤

[@gasparija]

I know we here are not your family, but we sure are happy seeing you build your life. Not just happy to see, but enjoy watching it. I often watch and it is food for soul, but I guess it doesn't hurt to say it! Keep up building your house, garden, dreams and please continue to share.

[@SushiLesson]

Heartfelt and beautiful message, Thank you Eugenia

[@jenniferward5216]

I am 69 in a few weeks and through failure i have become successful. With my anxiety and fear my faith has taken me through.

[@GraceB305]

This video really resonated with me. Closing doors and moving on , it saved me ❤

[@RenataMalicka]

Eugenia, I watched quite a few videos of yours and I wonder. Why did you move to Portugal? Why not staying in Spain? BTW my plan is to grow sweet potatoes for the first time, this year. Thank you for your inspiring videos!

[@1whitecottagelife770]

Portugal is way less expensive than Spain

[@winniejack2492]

Anxiety is not permanent I suffered for years then I realize it was all me. When I changed my thoughts it went away. Good luck.

[@ilinkacenic2360]

You made me cry,,you are so inspirational,hard working,,courageous ,,I would love a daughter like you,,please never give up,,,you have so much love and support from us all 💕

[@harritimonen4018]

Eugenia y Pepe, gracias por este vídeo inspirador y por recordarnos lo importante que es seguir avanzando. Tuve experiencias muy similares con mi familia cuando me mudé al extranjero. He leído en alguna parte que la gente quiere menospreciarte por celos y te ven haciendo algo que ellos nunca serían capaces de hacer. Tómatelo como una victoria cuando te pidan que recojas tus cosas. Vosotros construyendo vuestra propia casa e inspirando a la gente en youtube es algo que les incomoda mucho.

[@blueyomogi]

I understand the pain…sometimes our families are of a different world, shaped by beliefs, ideas, and traditions that constrain our dreams and goals of who we need to be - our lives touch but there is not a connection. Build your beautiful lives and be free. They are experiencing their own kind of pain, masked, but still there.

[@sascotcher]

Ánimos a los dos. Sois una pareja maravillosa y la familia en España se lo esta perdiendo todo mientras que ganas personas que aprecian lo que estáis consiguiendo. Your videos (both channels) are inspiring in all respects. Sending you both lots of love from your original country (Spain), where my husband and I chose to live many years ago with all the challenges that one faces changing country and culture. Love to proteas and I hope they flourish. 😘

[@theresadurand5557]

To you and Pape, keep doing what makes you happy. Keep smiling, and keep gardening!!!! BIG HUG from me ❤

[@junejoseph3636]

Love your show. So calming and genuine. I look forward to it every Sunday. Your garden and home is beautiful and love your cooking. You and your husband are destined for greatness! Such determined spirits! I’ll be watching ! Keep up the good work you are doing.

[@laracosta1769]

Love you vulnerability, your transparecy and all the courage and strenght you put on things and in your life! That unconditional love you talked... You have it for you by you! I am rooting for you! 🍀

[@ytuser8154]

You are such an inspiration to young and old, adventurous and not-so-adventurous. Your videos are food for the soul. I am sure that many of your viewers think of you as family and are cheering you on, every step of the way. Thank you for the joy you give me through sharing your life with us.

[@ΜΑΡΙΑΛΥΚΟΥΡΓΙΩΤΗ]

Wonderful lessons of life. Thank you. 🙏

[@thomasweeks7992]

My own story is like yours, I became successful in spite of having no support. You are an amazing young lady and can do anything.

[@orchidpanda2253]

Thank you for this beautiful video, Eugenia. I relate to your story in many ways - with friends and family. I'm encouraged by your strength and wisdom and where you find inspiration. I wrote down the Gu Cheng poem. Most people give up on their dreams and they feel diminished by seeing someone fearlessly pursuing their dreams like you, rather than taking inspiration to pursue their own dreams. It's sad to lose connection with people you love but we are only given this one life to live. I recently saw a video by Oprah called "who she think she is" - advising us to surround ourselves with people who want the best for us... not people who want us to keep them comfortable. Looking forward to seeing more of your journey. :)