57 Things We Don't Buy Anymore | Family Minimalism

[@ainorey882]

This is the type of minimalism I appreciate. It's not completely getting rid of almost all of your stuff and only wearing black, grey or beige clothes, it's about being mindful of what & why you buy and appreciating what you have.

[@angiegorman9935]

Souvenirs. I buy postcards. And then I write down important facts from our trip there. I have one binder to store them all together in page protectors.

[@dianekeller3720]

Great idea! If we ever start traveling again - I hope I remember this!

[@herzzr2362]

We do this as well. We send them from where we are. ... nowhere this year. Have to make a homecard.

[@annbeth6730]

Nicest idea I've heard for a while

[@JJ-cx8gl]

I especially like the making notes for the memory.

[@lorissakr]

I have one journal that I take when I travel anywhere. I write in it at least every night, but sometimes throughout the day I will write something specific that I want to remember. Then I also get postcards and put them in my journal. When I fill up a journal, I start another one, so all of my trips are in order. I like to read them later on and remember things I've forgotten. Oops, forgot to say to pack a roll of tape to put the postcards in the journal.

[@jessicastrople5376]

I love how you mentioned avoiding media that makes you dissatisfied with your lifestyle and home

[@oldgeezer2780]

I remember having the epiphany that the Sunday inserts informing me of sale items just caused me to go shopping to buy more. The irony was, usually it was more storage totes to put things in. My partner moved into my house, and it took months to get rid of things he moved here without thinking - broken utensils, 'non-perishable' food years past its best buy date. It was stuff he didn't even like, would never eat, but throwing it away was a 'waste.'

[@debracoffman4218]

I was in the grocery store recently and found myself becoming anxious. I tried to pinpoint the reason why. I think I hit the nail on the head. The shelves are packed with so many new products that scream Try Me. When I go past the boxes and bags I feel the pressure to buy them and somehow if I don’t buy the stuff I have failed my family and their opportunity to try something new. Please tell me I’m not alone.🙂

[@sct4040]

Yes, HG TV was bad for me. All those kitchen renovations made me dissatisfied with mine.

[@Cecilia-fc3sg]

One of my grown daughters suggested I watch this channel after my solution to having a houseful of crap was to get a dumpster and park it right next to the front door and start pitching. So some of is in the family, started the challenge of decluttering for 30 days. It was life changing. And I've never looked back. I'm still hauling things to donate but we are getting there. Box by box and room by room. We are close to being finished.

[@jodi578]

Sounds like a Win Win 🫶…

[@tinaavantis6900]

How wonderful! Following in your footsteps. 😊

[@danicegewiss862]

I do this every year. Once I was done the first time, I thought, I still have too much stuff. The weird thing is I rarely buy stuff.

[@kathleenrutherford733]

Great job

[@nmartin5551]

Congrats!

[@wh3549]

You are a blessing. I came from Venezuela. Grew up with very little. Then when I move to America it was like "the American dream" it is having it all. But actually the "the American dream" it is the ability to live with less and give more. God have give us many blessings in this country, yet we can live a full and happy life with less. God is good. I like your Chanel so much. Your family is a blessing. Thank you

[@lisagarrison9475]

I really appreciate your commitment.

[@rebeccaarzola3368]

I love that! The American Dream is the ability to live with less and give more! Thoughtfully put wixi Heyboer ! :)

[@Skyesoceaneyes]

This is such a great comment. Thank you!!💖

[@dantexventa3695]

This is one of the problems ,when you grow up having little or with strict parents you often grow up being a splurger. My parents saved all their lives,earned very good money yet I didn’t have much in terms of clothes ,shoes ,toys,it was mostly gifts or sale /outlet items ... 🙁 it worked well for them not quite as well for me ..but I’m trying ..

[@amybee40]

@@dantexventa3695 I grew up the same, now I have a split personality as far as stuff goes. Can you be a minimalist hoarder?

[@ponycyndi1]

I was raised by hoarders, and hoarded as an adult. I also started minimalism as a way to get out of debt, but I thought that meant hoarding things so I wouldn't have to buy them again later. Getting rid of things that I am not using NOW... HAS CHANGED MY LIFE!

[@whatzupLizzy]

I had a similar childhood and agree (sanity over stuff)

[@andmelinda]

same! my mom is still a huge hoarder to this day. I was proud when they came to visit a few months back (they rarely do) and my dad commented "Your house is so clean!" . Yeah, that's called minimalism. :)

[@AHL2018]

I can SO relate! My parents hoarded to the point that I had someone ask me once "do you all help in like a salvation army or something and store their stuff?" My mom still lives this way and it actually depresses me to go to her house.

[@ponycyndi1]

@@AHL2018 The reaction we usually got was "Are you moving?" Referring to piles and stuff in boxes.

[@healingandhappy9262]

Wow, ty for the comment! I grew up single mom worked as an LVN, went back got her RN when I was 14 and as soon as she started working the spending began kind of like making up the lost time. She bought and hoarded everything and always justified it by "it was on sale". So as an adult I'm repeating this same cycle and it seems as the this pandemic has intensified and justified my hoarding "urges". Thank you for the reminder! I HAVE TO DO BETTER, IM DROWNING IN THE ONE DAY. .... OR WHAT IF.. . OR YOU NEVER KNOW!!😥🤯😔

[@bonnietoney4200]

After we retired and were downsizing, I often wondered why we spend our whole adult lives amassing things that we end up getting rid of,

[@xpsxps1339]

Bonnie, do you really wanna read the answer, lol...?

[@kimgordon3695]

Unfulfilled Unmet childhood fears

[@khyrstynev]

I am purging my house right now and wondering the same! Of course I now have a 6 month old and family got a lot of toys that I didn't ask for and we didn't need 🙄

[@kathidau2869]

What I’ve witnessed, listened to after 60 years, is people trying to fill their unmet childhood needs with material things. It’s sad to watch.. knowing this prob will never end with this continued behavior. Those unmet needs are still unmet today. I highly recommend counseling.. and a lot of self love/talk. Here’s to a HOPEFUL New Year! Wishing you all Love, Hope, & Peace for ‘21♥️

[@esalenchik]

@@khyrstynev I’m sure there are children somewhere who would love them. Do you have a toy library in your town?

[@53islandgirl]

As a 64 year old widow, I think you are SPOT On! I can't tell you how many years I agonized over the holidays. Last year I put my foot down and said no more. I bought a few things for my 2 youngest grandkids because they still believe in Santa. Those things were a flashlight, sleeping bag, a fleece blanket for granny's house and one action figure. They don't have to steal my flashlights any more!

[@Jeannek4493]

I love that you got into the list immediately!

[@lisaxavier4498]

Same ..!

[@lisaxavier4498]

Same!

[@dawnpeacock4968]

YES! No excess stuff in your home, no excess talking on your video!

[@issaramos4110]

This. I had my video at double speed and actually had to go back to normal speed when a 10 item list suddenly sped by lol.

[@pgtrish]

Yesssss!

[@deb664]

My mother and father were minimalist long before the word became popular. They were very austere and reared the six of us to never long for anything material. My mother used to say, “The more you own, the more IT owns you”. Wow! They could have written a book on this. Thanks, Mother and Dad.

[@shancan6328]

When my kids were young I never bought them "treats" off the racks at the check out. They never begged me for things while waiting in line at the check out.

[@lisacurtis8162]

Smart parents

[@jendebesse4110]

❤️

[@mindymudge7247]

I love that you don’t try to sell us anything on your channel, like some others do. You and Tom and your Sister Dianna are the best!

[@kristinesharp6286]

She has got product links in the description. It’s a living.

[@brittanyjohnson7554]

Product links are actually helpful because when I see things I like I want to know where to get them.

[@TxTonya]

I love how these people feel that they should take time out of their day to educate you for FREE and not expect to earn an income from of it because we deserve their time and energy.

[@kristinesharp6286]

I simply pointed out that she does, not that I had a problem that she did.

[@TxTonya]

@@n.n.7656 I was being sarcastic to Mindy Mudge comment.

[@hannahgendron7094]

Thank you for saying no to air freshener and scented laundry/bath products! I know someone who is allergic and in genuine pain to be in the same room with people who use scented products like that and I'm so glad to see people finally moving away from them!

[@SRose-vp6ew]

Same

[@alliswellwithkristywells8747]

Started adopting your philosophy of only buying and keeping clothes that fit well and make me feel good. I purged over 500 articles of clothing and breeze through picking out my clothes each day. So freeing!

[@sharonc316]

All is Well with Kristy Wells Oh my, pray for me because I really really need to do the same! I have such a hard time getting rid of clothes. It’s like a handicap I’ve given myself! 😔

[@gayleklein8890]

Fantastic! I finally got the walk in closet of my dreams, and nothing in it! Makes me feel better in the space! It says, you're ok with what you have inside!

[@Mimi-un5tr]

I really want to try this! It sounds amazing

[@Savingmomma]

We buy a Christmas ornament as a souvenir when we have a family vacation as a memory. It makes Christmas so much sweeter. This way we have a small token but it serves a purpose. Reflecting on all the amazing times we have had as a family! It's a blessing to everyone in the family. We talk about our trips and the sweetest memories we have while we put the tree up. Side note...you're my favorite KZbin person! So relatable and real! Glad God has given you and your sister this platform! Many blessings sweet sister!

[@darleneplant6604]

That’s what I do too. I used to buy shot glasses when I was a lot younger then once I got my own apartment and started buying a Christmas tree I started buying ornaments when I would travel and those shot glasses just sat there. Eventually purged all my shot glasses but one and never looked back.

[@ashleyreed3865]

I do that too. I think it helps to have one thing you're purposely looking for instead of just wandering in the shop just to buy something that may or may not be actually helpful in remembering the trip.

[@eavening4149]

Yes, I do the same! I also buy then as souvenirs for family. It's a more useful than a postcard, a small gift that has local flavor from those parts of the world.

[@zbrlvr]

We do the same thing!!

[@Roskeystravel]

We do the ornament too. And in recent years started buying magnets. So we look at the magnets every day and get to enjoy the ornaments at Christmas. It’s fun to search for just the right one!

[@steadontherock]

I just want to say, growing up we were always taught to get more and more. We were never taught to clean. My mom would literally buy new plates instead of washing them. My husband and i bought a new house this last year that was much much smaller and my hoarding tendencies became very apparent. I knew I needed help but didn't know where to start. So I hopped on youtube and stumbled on you're videos. Since then I have gotten rid of 2/3rds of our belongings and continue to get rid of stuff weekly. I have two kids and am very involved in my church and community and was feeling constantly overwhelmed. Your videos gave me hope that its possible to actually have time and a clean house. The videos you and Diana do on Sundays are amazing too! You guys are being used by God in such a fun way. Thank you for what you do and for inspiring me to live with less!

[@ginaconcialdi4352]

I started by pretending we were moving and thought about what I would NOT want to take with me and still not use. It’s really great! I love your videos. Making memories is where it’s at. Whatever doesn’t fit in my casket I don’t need it-actually since I’m a minimalist, I may think about cremation. 😂😂❤️

[@whynothanks2047]

This is exactly what I do! Would I take this if I was moving across the country? How about across the ocean? That one always gets things out the door!

[@IndieCindy3]

I’ve never had to move in my life (thus far), but I have had to help family members move out. So I know what a grueling job it can be to be pack/unpack, move, and sort. I would’ve never thought to think about a pretend move to help me get rid of stuff-thank you!!

[@sandyboswell6292]

Great idea!

[@arianekelly2633]

I know this was a year ago, but I am actually building a house and looked around realized there is A LOT of stuff I don't want to take with me. 😅 So I'm decluttering while I wait.

[@amycain.619]

I did.something similar today and imagined starting with an empty house...what essentials would I bring...

[@juliequates9529]

You're really teaching contentment. Very difficult for most folks today

[@itgetter9]

Contentment is the best thing to which to aspire -- it brings you closer to loved ones and gives you true peace of mind.

[@TheRealLaughingGravy]

Contentment is tricky. Americans are taught, almost since birth, to want more, to consume more, to always aspire to bigger and better things. People think there's something wrong with you if you're happy with what you have and content with where you are. A huge part of our national economy depends on our lack of contentment - it goes into freefall when people stop consuming. The simplicity of not wanting more is certainly alluring. But preaching contentment can also be a way to control and oppress others. It can be used to keep populations docile to make them more obedient. It can be a way to excuse and protect the ever-widening gap between the wealthy and the poor, between the rulers and the ruled, between those with more rights and those with fewer. Too many people think _other people_ ought to be content with what they have, but don't think that rule ought to apply to themselves as well. Contentment needs to be self-defined. You have to figure out for yourself how much you should be happy with, not follow what someone else tells you you should be happy with. I like this channel because she is always showing us what has worked for her family rather than telling us what should work for everyone. I hope people watch these videos with that in mind, that people shouldn't feel bad about themselves because, for example, they can't (or don't want to) stop buying new toys for their kids as suggested in this video.

[@makenna8454]

@@TheRealLaughingGravy omg yes. Like idk when exactly but I think once we got on our feet after the time period of 1920-1930? (I’m thinking this may be right idk/remember but) is when it all happened like keeping up with the joneses just all of these material goods and everything

[@maeb7723]

Hands down the BEST "things I don't buy anymore" video I've ever watched (and I've watched quite a few). As per always, you're super helpful, very practical, explain things well, in a non-judgmental and down-to-earth way. I love your channel so much. Thank you, Dawn.

[@swampsagacity4685]

I agree. The “I don’t buy daily lattes at Starbucks” videos are pointless.

[@obragg1]

Great list, unlike many influencers who cut back on “luxury” goods. My ah-ha moment came when I was fortunate enough to travel to Morocco. Our tour guide was a 20-something who used an old mobile phone with a cracked screen to run his guide business. He sent money to his very rural (remote) family so his sister could go to school. He took us to visit families who live in tents (what they’ve done for centuries) with the bare minimum of possessions and a very old woman who kept her two goats in her house and slept on the floor. It made me so ashamed of my excess. Most people in the U.S. just don’t have ANY idea how fortunate we are!

[@jlseagull2.060]

Indeed!

[@obragg1]

JL Seagull 2.0. ....Love your user name! “J.L. Seagull” is my favorite book!

[@melissabarnes617]

Thanks for sharing, so true keeps our lives on perspective!

[@YPEFFLE]

Agree, I'm an immigrant and it definitely gives you a international perspective

[@tinahowe5258]

So true!

[@dellamohney7226]

My husband has been telling me for 42 year's we had to much stuff, but you are the one who has inspired me to try to clear out the stuff. At times it's still very hard to do, because of growing up in it. I do come from a family that loved to hoard thing's, but now I see that I can let a lot of thing's go. Thank you!

[@TheMinimalMom]

Tom said I talked too fast in this one! Sorry about that, it's alot to fit in 😉 We greatly appreciate you watching!!! - Dawn (& Tom, too!)

[@lindalong2297]

I liked how u didn’t drag it out--but then I have ADHD. Really, I would have clicked off if it had been longer. I’ll be 76 on Sunday so I’m not some youngster trying to click thru stuff. Lol

[@lindalong2297]

The Minimal Mom, (I forgot to put that before my comment.)

[@tamikocarter570]

I think you're just respectful of people's time, but we love listening to you so you really don't have to rush.

[@cindysessions5836]

I kept up just fine!! 😊

[@Myeverydaywifelife]

I don’t mind longer videos, you can talk slower no worries! 💜 We will we will still watch.

[@kathyhaynes6818]

Everyone has their priorities but being "Debt Free" is real peace and happiness that material things just can't give. It's a "Buy, Buy, Buy" world and I laugh at all the "store haul" videos of so many YT "influencers". I enjoy decorating, clothes and makeup too, but I'm happy to keep it to a minimum, yet still look great. I'd rather save my money for things like paying cash for my car. I don't do car payments or credit cards. Dawn, you are so inspiring!

[@likeargamanflaming940]

Yes. I agree. Sometimes I wonder where they put it all and if they have any intention of feeling they have enough or are they going to just keep collecting "stuff."

[@cinnzimm6778]

I just discovered you yesterday. I must say, this video is a breath of fresh air. I’ve been seeing so many people lately over stuffing their homes and brains, especially around the idea of food scarcity that it was a delight to find someone who buys what’s needed. I’ve been doing that for years now, and haven’t had to toss anything for a long time. My kids are all grown and gone, and recently have shared some memories of interactions with friends from way back when…of how they thought we were a poor family, as the kids didn’t dress in the most up to date fashion, or have the newest bikes and computer gear. We had chosen a life of laid back country living with no crushing debt and time to play. Those same friends, now, have commented on how being at our place were their best memories, their rambles in the hills and being creative with found items, sitting around a fire in the backyard for a full day of chatting. Thank you for this perspective…I dare say it could be revolutionary

[@DaisyM12345]

My mum always used to say "Only buy some new clothes if when you try them on, they make you look better than what you are currently wearing."

[@ingerfalch-jacobsen1717]

The benchmark principle, a great idea - when I remember it :-/

[@trishawall9619]

I heard you talk about"managing your stuff" on a previous video. I have given it a lot of thought and am adopting it for me. Its helping me realize why I have been so irritated in my home in the past! We just moved into a 900 sq. ft. home. We came from a 3,000 sq. feet! There are 8 in my family, so we definently have less stuff now! I started watching your videos 3 months before we moved. What a blessing you've been to me!

[@cynthiaakacyndsmith6539]

Wow! 3000 sq.ft. To 9. Wow! With an family go 8. Double wow! We moved from 3000, to 1500 that has been thought enough. And we are a family of 5. The one thought others forget in having a large home is that the kids grow up and move out. Now this house is plenty big for us.

[@游仲萱]

As a Taiwanese, it’s so convenient to just give “red envelope” as a gift for all kinds of occasions. It’s just a red envelope with cash inside and words of good wishes written outside. No gift cards needed!

[@YPEFFLE]

I'm also an immigrant in America and find American's obsession with giving gift cards just odd. My mother I law will get me a Visa $100 gift card for my birthday ....she has to pay an extra $5 fee for this "privelage"! I don't know 1 person who has never been happy receiving cash

[@CazSantiago]

This is BRILLIANT!! I will be doing this from now on!!

[@cmnr8487]

At some point you are just trading dollar bills. There is no personal thought or consideration in the gift, and that is what a gift is SUPPOSED to be. I give gift cards occasionally to a place I think the person would like, but probably wouldn't splurge their own money to go to-so they can try something new.

[@oklahoma1295]

I used to feel cash was impersonal, however Now that my kids are in collage & living on their own Cash is a big deal! I’ve had one kid need to use the cash for bills so he could put off working during a difficult semester (so the real gift was him not having to work & focus on school). The other is a saver & Never goes out, he used his cash to go on a New Years trip with his friends which he would have normally just skipped. I’m sure all the young adults love to receive cash!

[@cherylolivieri6190]

I love that idea.....

[@michellelawrence7327]

I love that you highlighted how reading magazines made you feel like you needed to buy or change something. I love watching home decor shows but I just realized that it makes me long for things I don’t have or need. Thank you

[@SarahByrd-l9y]

Same. I have to avoid those shows.

[@Missy-Leigh]

I snapped this Christmas. I can’t do it anymore. And people say: “it’s all about the kids, you can’t quit Christmas.” That’s both true and false. It’s all about training a new generation to be slaves to consumerism. So in that sense, yeah. It’s all about the kids. And yes, I can quit Christmas as I’ve known it my whole life... buying all this crap we don’t need... buying filler crap worrying their Christmas won’t look like enough to them. I have two children. I asked them each what their favorite gift was from last year. And neither one of them could even remember a single thing they got last year. This is painful... you know? I swear I feel like the less we have, the happier we are. I’ve been through some trying times financially... and I swear my family was the happiest we had ever been when we had the least amount of money to spend.

[@oldgeezer2780]

I hate filler stuff. My partner insists, but I'm trying to do better. I know there's stuff he uses all year (lens cleaning wipes for his glasses, for instance) and I can 'fill' with things he actually uses, thus he can use his money for fun things, if he wants. "Yankee swap" stuff bothers me a little less - though I still try to make the gift useful, and I appreciate the exercise in having a fun get-together and exchange gifts of some type. And actually, last year's swap left me with something I use weekly. I left with three mini-flashlights. I've griped at work that it would be good to have a flashlight around, and back-of-house person just didn't agree. I've hauled mine out of my bag several times to find things. I remember a magazine article written by a woman frustrated by buying things her children didn't really care about 30 minutes after opening the presents. The following year, she took the kids with her. They each got to pick out one special present that would be wrapped up and they wouldn't be able to play with until Christmas. Suddenly, they were selective and savvy shoppers. One child looked at something he'd been pining for and actually said, "This isn't worth that much money."

[@draculassweetheart]

I think that the less money you have to spend the more time you spend, and that’s what really makes good memories. So it’s OK to have money and not spend it, rather simply take the time to do things and have experiences with the people you love. This year I missed out on my cookie decorating party with my family and that was probably the biggest disappointment. when I am buying gifts, I try extremely hard to only gift either an experience, something consumable or some thing that the person actually needs. I used to do a lot of those filler gifts and they just wind up getting donated. But before they get donated they collect dust and then also have the potential to cause someone angst before they donate it because they don’t want you to feel bad because they’re getting rid of a gift you gave them! It’s ridiculous.

[@amybee40]

@@draculassweetheart My Mom is the queen of filler gifts. She gave me a "decorative" pillow this year with a motto about "loving a daughter just like you" on it. But it turned out to be fun, because when she asked me to read it out loud, I read all the notices on the plastic bag it came wrapped in -- "this bag is not a toy", Do not leave in crib, 100% polyester, etc -- until everyone in the room was laughing!

[@karingrant5872]

Last year my 3 kids (11, 14, & 16) literally had nothing to open at Christmas because they didn't tell me a single thing they wanted. We ended up just transferring some money into their bank accounts. This year, they each asked for a few things, which they received and opened on Christmas morning. Much simpler.

[@natalies5818]

Amen to that! I agree with you completely

[@RoseColoredGlasses]

If you enjoy ... “dusting them” 😂 As a full time housekeeper for many moms... this is why I became a minimalist.

[@universalsoldier2293]

As a dude, this is a good reminder for me. My mother, who didn't save a penny for retirement and decided one day that she just didn't feel like working anymore, has moved herself into my tiny apartment with her dog after she lost her house. Needless to say, her bad habits are my bad habits--too much stuff, not enough space, need to save more money, she's a total slob. This inspired me to really think long and hard about what I really need and what I can purge. My goal is to reclaim my apartment (and more importantly, my privacy and sanity) to eventually purchase a house with my girlfriend with VERY separate living quarters for the mom.

[@Dbb27]

There’s a great book called Boundaries by Dr Henry Cloud. It will help you set boundaries and give you language to speak to your Mom. Sounds like she’s taking advantage. You don’t owe her anything. Good luck!

[@saradirksen7711]

Good Luck

[@CuriouslyCute]

Great that you are turning the other cheek with such love by helping her as God does even when we were the ones who got ourselves into trouble

[@lauraw8851]

@@Dbb27 Wow, I was thinking exactly the same thing! It is a great book which a group of us are working on as a zoom group online. Fantastic to have the leader, and people to discuss it with as well. It is changing my life and that of my family :)

[@grannygoes7882]

You are a good son! I have several friends in my generation (I'm 62) who have done exactly what your mom has done. Things have really changed in the world. It use to be you worked and saved so your children could have a better life now we have grown assed people who think nothing of mooching off their children. When did that happen?

[@victorianelson8282]

I've heard you mention the target dollar spot in several videos now. The way I was able to kick the buying from the dollar spot and other "really good deal" type spending was, I started asking myself "why is this so cheap?" Most of the time things are that cheap it's because they're coming from a country where the people that are making these items are not being paid a fair wage, or might even be made by children, out of materials that are subpar and even potentially toxic. It's a sobering thought that helped me to form better spending habits.

[@maryroades8260]

Agree with everything you mentioned.

[@marcidrag]

The summary I took away from this video that I really need to adopt is to be content with what works "good enough" and stop seeking out something better. I'm notorious for always trying the newest laundry and cleaning products as if it's going to make laundry or cleaning go away 😂

[@calebdixon6652]

Yes, that really spoke to me! Like, I got out of the habit as I have 2 toddlers right now and just no time for shopping...so sort of been forced into minimalism right now, lol. But I STILL have make up and things that I bought pre-kids...you know, a cream that gets rid of freckles or something...and the 4 others I got because I kept trying to find a "better" one...now I just accept that my skin is my skin and the best thing I can do is drink water and be healthy. Instead of trying to pretend some magic pill is going to fix my face. But yeah, years later and as I still go through and clean up "junk" to make room, it's amazing how much of it fits into that lesson - I bought it trying to fix a problem that I let media convince me I had, instead of just accepting things as "good enough".

[@kristinatidwell6563]

@@calebdixon6652 plant some blueberries and pomegranates, get outside to play a little bit. they'll help everyone avoid cancer issues. Please! Filter the drinking water for cryptosporidium or giardia? And take some vitamin c then y'all will be a lot healthier in the long run.

[@soniccookie655]

@@kristinatidwell6563 Supplements have their place but I'd usually prefer to find a way to incorporate that nutrient into my diet by eating the thing that makes it, like oranges. I like seasoning with lemon juice too.

[@naomiburn8386]

"Works well enough." this is what the advertisers don't want us to know. But is the most freeing thought. We are not obligated to be on the constant search for better and brighter.

[@alisonsmith8653]

Yep my hot water heater from 1983 worked well enough- it just died last month. Got our money's worth out of that thing,

[@suzannepottsshorts]

When I was little and we went on vacations, we would buy Christmas ornaments as souvenirs. Each year decorating the tree we talked about where we went, what we did, "do you remember..."

[@kimgordon3695]

Now hauled fr dust cluttered attic's

[@tammyyes1062]

I've been doing this with my family too. It's fun to put up the tree and think of all those happy memories.

[@paradysetrezvant5001]

Love this idea, will definitely be using

[@amychissong]

We do, too!

[@angelkz7427]

That’s what I like to do as well. It’s so nice reminiscing about our travels.

[@hellohannahk]

I'm still a college student with only a little bedroom and closet but even with very little money and space it's easy to go down the road of accumulating things I don't need. I want to learn these lessons now so it's easier to live like this down the road. So many helpful ideas in this video--thank you!

[@angelasnodgrass6621]

It has changed my life. My friend came over and saw my apartment for the first time and she said I didn’t realize how big your bedroom is. That makes me happy.

[@nyahmanismommy]

Cable is my #1. I cut off the cable 3yrs ago & don't miss it.

[@mweinheim7911]

Me too!!😊

[@gayleklein8890]

Good for you! We haven't had cable in 20 years! Kids used to say we were Amish. I say the only freedom we have is in what we can do without!

[@shirleyhess7]

Four years without a TV connection! Really don't miss it, either.

[@TD-bz7rg]

never had cable and refuse to ever have it. not at home enough

[@rocioespinoza2098]

For me its been 9 years !! And don't miss it .

[@jonap5740]

I like the ideas here, but as an educator, I have to say that I would like to see books in a house, especially for kids. And the less time on an electric device, the better it is for sleep and eyesight. Our little ones even "made" their own books, writing their own stories, or drawing them, and binding them together with wool/thread and cardboard.

[@Katred12u]

Yes. We were frugal when the kids were little but the one thing I never said no to was when they asked for a book, and we were always at the library as well, but their own books are important. Even now I buy them books, and they are in their 30's. It broke my heart when I was in a store looking for books and I heard a Mom say "No, you have enough books!" to a kid.

[@33snowgal]

We do weekly trips to the library! Free, non cluttered and variety

[@Margatatials]

Yeah I was waiting for her to explain the reason/science behind that one but she didn't

[@Katred12u]

@@33snowgal Kids need their own books, books are never just clutter. I would take them to see authors at signings and buy them a book to get signed. That week we would eat a lot of rice and pasta, but they loved it. One has a Master's in History and designs travel tours, one has degree in culinary arts and just started their own restaurant popup. Yep it's the pandemic, he did it anyway. Both got scholarships and paid the rest for themselves. I will always believe that the books we read, together and their selves, the books they owned and had in their rooms instead of video games, computers or TV paved the way.

[@michellelansky4490]

I would totally agree. I don't even allow a Kindle. Sleep habits......eye strain.....just developing the habit of a good old fashioned book in bed......I think a house should have a certain amount of children's books as a foundation.....after that I would totally agree, can just use the library. I'm in the library picking up and dropping off about every other day. Otherwise I think her ideas are EXCELLENT.

[@christinedisneyqueen5746]

I will never be a minimalist. I love my stuff too much. ☺️ Although, I have learned that if everything is special...nothing is special. I am definitely going to continue to declutter and simplify my life. Thank you for this awesome list! 💜

[@charlie81dbz]

Same here, but I have decided that I can definitely do with less than what I have. So I guess minimal-ish not full on minimal, lol. I still love watching this channel and a few others (Clutterbug and Dana K White are also really great) and some of the philosophies/ideas/tips/etc., really help even if you don't go full in the same way the person in the video has.

[@AlexHider]

Yeah you got it, everything cannot be special. You can’t possibly use everything when you have too much, and you are not honoring the money, labor and effort that went into those extra items if they don’t get to be used. What’s the point in having 40 pairs of pants when you wear the same 5

[@rchirico1]

"It caused me to feel dissatisfied ". This really made me stop, this comment hits the mark! So true.

[@ashleyngrim]

This is so true. I feel dissatisfied with my life and apartment when I look at magazine pictures so I just avoid them

[@momof4onbreak553]

Yes! And watching "home improvement" shows!

[@kathydesroches1001]

Ashley Grim n

[@elenakasa5264]

I'm with you, too. Contentment in our society is a challenge. This was a good tip! 👆

[@JanuaryLisa]

It's so sad how media has made us feel like our homes aren't good enough. I'm 58--this is a new mindset. We all had "homely" looking houses when I grew up--and they were not only fine, they were sought after! No one would have considered decorating the way we do now, we all just wanted comfy, clean, and pleasant homes. 🏡

[@rnmom65]

One thing I realized a few months into the COVID-19 shut-down is that I have a ton of stuff...I kept thinking I needed storage solutions and that's why I have clutter...NO I HAVE TOO MUCH STUFF! Thank you for your simple approach to minimalism...removing the stuff that does not bring joy has been so refreshing...I love your videos. Thank you, thank you, thank you...we too are on that debt-free journey!!! Blessings!!!

[@naomiburn8386]

My mom taught me, only buy stuff on sale if you would have bought it (at full price) anyway.

[@mariajmc6557]

Yes you need it then you know there is going to be an offer coming up....

[@nankavanagh]

When it comes to anything other than groceries that would be tough for me as I NEVER buy things for full price, I shop exclusively at thrift stores. This weekend I bought new for the first time in years - We recently moved to CO so it was sport specific items like hiking poles and PFDs for our paddleboards and kayak (also new 🤯😵) and a new pair of pants since I've lost weight with the altitude. All things completely needed for new activities taken up, and thrift stores are not around where we are...so while they were not frivolous purchases, I still almost cried at all the full price purchasing 🙄 You can take the girl out of the thrift shop, but you can't take the thrift shop out of the girl 😉

[@christyh.8778]

I just saw this about two weeks ago, and I love it. I keep telling my DH that I am "taking a page from the Minimal Mom's book" ... and his response tonight was priceless ... "The minimal mom wouldn't be KEEPING all those pages ... she'd declutter them immediately!" :)

[@DawnDavidson]

Hahaha! That’s great! 😊

[@Dodadedededadodo]

Dude I really like your fire hose information delivery style. My biggest gripe with “how to” style KZbin videos is that so many people spend 30 min to give you 5 min worth of information. Nope. Not here! You just rapid fire. So awesome thank you!!

[@meganrasey4377]

We just moved into our first home and we finally went through what was in our former garage. We're giving away 9 FULL boxes of toys and clothes and random stuff we forgot we even had. Feels Amazing!!

[@skylarb.3363]

You can spray a little bit of vinegar on a washcloth and pop it in the dryer to eliminate static as well!

[@beckybohot5480]

Thank you

[@lyndabrooks2064]

Also a ball of aluminum foil!

[@corarobinson6944]

I really appreciate this video. As a family who is working on minimizing our lives this list has really smacked me in the face and helped me get rid of things I’ve been holding on to “just because”

[@bigdawgz4530]

I grew up in a family whose mantra was, "Use it up, wear it out; Make it do, or do without". I have always recited that to myself whenever I'm tempted to fall into that consumerist trap & make a purchase. More than a few times it has saved me from making unnecessary purchases I would later regret.

[@flynn1a]

Whenever you talk about having to “manage inventory,” it really speaks to me and helps me to make decisions in my streamlining process. Thank you!

[@chelebox1986]

That resonated with me also!

[@Natasha-bl1uo]

I can so relate to this. I changed all my thinking about spending after living abroad for 3 years. Became debt free this year, best feeling!

[@Incognosco]

This is probably one of the best videos that you have ever made. I think the clarity that you have gained from being on your journey so long about the way we all live these days really comes through.

[@lorrainejones6252]

I found myself walking around the supermarket at the weekend saying to myself “do I need this , Could I do without this , have I already got one , do I want more stuff to manage ? 🤣🤣 Your voice stopped me from buying ‘stuff’ I didn’t really need. Thankyou xx

[@alexandradominguez38]

Tip for making your house smell nice- boil some water and throw in a teabag that smells nice (especially fall flavors like cinnamon apple or pumpkin spice) and let it simmer on your stove.

[@charleneburroughs6920]

This is a wonderful tip!! I love tea.... but have purchased several kinds that I just don't care for. Hate to throw them away ..... now I won't have to. Thanks!!!

[@sharononeill8729]

@@charleneburroughs6920 Me too ,for me it's the berry one's,smell great but lack the same level of taste.Now my house will smell of mixed fruits lol.

[@sherylwoodward2247]

You should warn your husband first, I boiled, cinnamon, cloves, and allspice. My husband walked in and thought I’d been baking all day. 😳😂

[@alexandradominguez38]

@@sherylwoodward2247 it would never ever occur to my husband to think I was baking 😂😂 at least you bake often enough for yours to think it's a possibility haha

[@virgierutledge3004]

I used citris peelings in a pot with cinnamin stick boil. Smells nice.

[@AmedamaCherry]

Not being obsessed by tons of new products and artifical scents and all that stuff feels so good for me. You, too, look so happy and lightweigt and free and just... unburdened! It's really nice to watch you talking about freeing oneself. It makes so much sense! Now I feel motivated to throw away some more stuff in my house! 😂

[@kimmyz]

Awesome lifestyle, and it's wonderful that your husband and kids are onboard with your philosophy. It doesn't really work when only half the family cooperates.

[@kristinbee9886]

That goes for all aspect of parenting

[@natscrappersnotables]

I had to laugh at the character sheets! We bought buzz lightyear bedding just before our son turned 7. He's 17 1/2 and still has the same bedding on his bed!

[@marygoff5413]

Nothing is better than Toy Story. Literally nothing. 😊

[@revan83sis]

Still got my care bear duvet cover and I'm 41 😂

[@terrilowe3530]

That is hilarious, and yet so sweet!

[@kathidau2869]

@@terrilowe3530 They are

[@ninthsquarecommunity]

I am the same way. I don't think it is wasteful at all. A pillowcase and or sheet set that lasts for years and years is cool by me!

[@elainestatema6654]

Bonus: it's SO much easier for Grandma and Grandpa can give gifts to kiddos that don't have everything already!!

[@esterwacasey4318]

Amen! The worst is giving a gift and they already have it in triplicate!

[@janetfitzgerald8072]

Good to see caution about chemical pollution! 1 other home pollutant to avoid: RF/EMF exposure: anything emitting Wireless - is really harmful - eg, Apple watches, cordless phones, iPads etc. Use shielded ethernet wire to connect all devices to your router that needs to be at least 18 feet away from all living beings. See details on the “environmental health trust” website.

[@Sunnyday069]

Excellent point!!!

[@miztenacioust1758]

Great point!!!

[@KimberlyCreates]

Absolutely agree, Elaine!

[@ChristaHiebertHiebertsDownHome]

Thank you Dawn for all of your tips, tricks and the whys behind minimalism! We are a family of 10 and I have been binge watching your videos while minimizing our home. With a large home and a large family we have a lot of inventory to manage!! I am so thankful for your wisdom. Three large truck loads to the thrift store and one huge trailer load to the dump later, there is room to spare again. I am still "peeling the onion" and working on that "vacation home feel," but we are definitely getting there and IT FEELS GOOD!!!

[@michellechouinard4958]

I love listening to your videos, Dawn. I listen to you when I have to clean/organize/eliminate inventory from a space. I just cleaned up my kitchen for the evening listening to you... something that I otherwise would have avoided until morning. And with 2 toddlers under foot, I would have regretted it. I also SO appreciate that you tell us you love us at the end of your videos. People need to hear that more. Thank you for sharing your life with us!

[@azhotmom]

Re: sheets- I've converted my linen closet to all white sheets & towels. So much easier/ versatile. Plus easy to bleach for stains!

[@soniccookie655]

Personally I enjoy more variety than only white, like blue and yellow (I got a new towel recently and it's a wonderful light yellow). Brown is good too. But it's all just personal taste.

[@thebabscat]

Haha, same reason I go with dark linens, yet no bleach required (septic tank).

[@INTHESKY016]

Very wise decision

[@bigdawgz4530]

I guess I'm super-minimalist, then, because my sheet & blanket purchases aren't based on color... they're based on need & sales. Yes, I have a horrendously ugly set of gray bedsheets & pillowcases... BUT I only paid $5 for the entire fitted, flat & 2 pillowcase set! Plus, I'm not in the bedroom unless I'm sleeping & I don't see the ugly color when I'm asleep!

[@sophieisabelle3762]

Same! I have five cats and people thought I was daft for getting white linens, but it’s actually way easier to keep clean. I put a blanket on the end of the bed where the cats sleep, and it does double duty keeping the linens clean and adding some colour. Towels are grey but that’s because I chose them years ago and they’re still in good condition. We have two sets of linens for our bed, two sets of towels, and one set of guest linens and towels. We do have a dryer though, which isn’t as common in the UK as in some other places, so that helps keep on top of laundry.

[@kaylatrausch1394]

I have been doing a lot of this without giving myself the title of a “minimalist” only because it gives me an expectation I can’t keep. Great job!

[@johnvanegmond1812]

"Knowing how to work with yourself." Very good.

[@KateECoughlin]

Fifteen years ago when I was first living on my own I would feel ashamed that I didn't have any desire to get into apartment decor or spend lavishly on travel/entertainment/fashion like my friends. I was always a simple person but the people/world around me made me feel like that was strange. Now that it has become a real lifestyle I'm finally on trend lol. Thank you for sharing your list. Looking fwd to watching more of your videos.

[@jomarriott1421]

This is a great comment! We bought our first house 15 years ago as well and I felt stupid buying stuff I didn't want that I had to dust and manage just to stay on trend, but I was also ashamed at my bare house 😭 you're right, we were the trend setters!!

[@carleenmccaffery619]

Everything you said about getting out of debt really resonates with me! It truly is a long, hard road, but teaches you to only buy what you need and what you value. The difference between cost and worth is another lesson I am practicing.

[@trilbyarnold3341]

I was raised by parents that came through the Great Depression: Use it up, make it over, repair it, do without it make what you need rather than buy it learn how to do repairs. In this past year in which I've been deep cleaning, catching up on long deferred maintenance, paying off some major obligations on social security augmented by a small income from a rental I have not purchased anything other than food and 3 tents used for selling my Mom's large household. I found I already had anything I needed for the repairs or anything else. It has been years since I bought any of those 57 items. I am 79. I don't make a very good capitalist I fear.

[@leratokgosane3604]

I love this!

[@shellyjay8954]

I heard something that changed my life about storing stuff. “You Can’t Organize Clutter”. You’re welcome. 🙂

[@KimberlyCreates]

That’s perfect, Shelly!

[@normasubia6807]

🏡🏡SPOT ON 🏡🏡

[@ginnashellhammer1251]

🤯

[@mary-celestericks5880]

Aaaaahhh! The truth! It burns me!

[@saradirksen7711]

Yes. My fiancee loves sculptures, little figurines and Nick nacks but i need everything in the house to have purpose.🧘

[@jessicaderstine4061]

The Mason jar you showed as "mid sized" is an asparagus jar. I've been hauling mason jars for nearly 20 years. I've only ever broken 2. My kids haul them everywhere too.

[@lauriey1518]

It's the minimalist that will go to the Prepper when times get really tough. Especially having children, you have to be prepared for rough times, especially now. That will be so much more important than being a minimalist.

[@EmmaAppleBerry]

You can add citrus peels or rose essence or whatever else in vinegar mix to avoid buying seperate or scented cleaning products.

[@eileenlester4342]

That's what I do. No chemicals!

[@ladypb2466]

That's a great idea

[@ohmcintyre2067]

I love your open-heartedness, practicality, and humor. You are leading many people to a better way to live.

[@gailtester8749]

I quit watching hgtv as well as buying magazines because it made me dissatisfied with our home. Feeling content is where I want to be! Thanks for everything...Love you girl!

[@CC-kr3mr]

I agree Gail, wonderful advice. Comparison is the thief of joy.

[@ebgbjo2025]

Same. HGTV has made everyone not only feel like what they haven't isnt good enough, has also encouraged everyone to make their homes look all too much similiar. No unique personality what so ever.

[@brennakandoll6722]

This channel is just so inspiring, it feels like a FaceTime with a friend. You’re so welcoming and kind ♥️

[@chicknthesticks]

This was truly eye-opening. I've seen lots of minimalist help videos, but this one made me realize how doable it actually is. Thanks! My new motto is "If you always buy what you want, you won't have enough money for what you need."

[@jenw2061]

How great is it that you launched right into the things you gave up? No 'welcome to the channel...etc” So refreshing!

[@RPG0018]

If something is on sale or greatly discounted, if you don't need it, it's expensive.

[@karingrant5872]

My mother-in-law is huge on buying things "because it was on sale". Oh, it bugs me!!!

[@chapman1569]

Your type of minimalism feels genuine and wholesome. I am far from being a minimalist but I share your philosophy about stuff and I am working toward a minimalist lifestyle. I have been influenced by marketing many years but when I stayed home to raise the kids I saw that I really didn't need many of the stuff advertised. Great ideas, I feel like I am doing therapy when I listen to your ideas. Thanks

[@LibertyHope95]

I love how simple but realistic this list is! We are in our debt-free journey right now and watching this was really encouraging!

[@stronggiftfromgod]

I have been decluttering for over 2 years little by little. I’m really happy as I’m nearing towards the end of the major stuff. I didn’t make lofty goals but took it one step at a time. I made a goal to not order in or out until my birthday in mid October! I have been cooking or eating vegetarian TV dinners when I don’t feel like cooking and I’m so proud of myself. And as a result of this decluttering and no food ordering I have saved so much money. We really don’t need a lot to live comfortably and I don’t want to be broke by trying to keep up with consumerism. Love your tips been watching you for years! 😉❤️

[@sandraoestmann5814]

I was born in Brazil and live in Germany. It amazes me to see what a well minded woman can do with her choices. Greetings from Dortmund. 😊

[@eattherich9215]

We are drowning in a tide of consumerism, so well done to you for cutting loose and teaching your children that STUFF is not required for a fulfilled life.

[@melaniej.roberts206]

Too much "stuff" stresses me out. Some of my kids and my husband for sure tends to just keep "stuff." My mother-in-law recently passed away and it broke my heart to have to just get rid of so much "stuff" of hers. It literally took three full loads of a junk hauler and uncounted trips to Goodwill to clear her home out. I never want my kids to have to deal with that when I'm gone.

[@amychissong]

I wish my hoarding family member understood the anxiety this creates. I cannot tell you all the feelings anticipating that "one day" brings.

[@tinabailey1791]

I agree. I made a promise to my kids that I would not leave a ton of junk for them to clear out when my husband and I are gone. Now, I go through stuff asking whether my kids would want or benefit from it. If it would have no meaning for them, out it goes.

[@pamelaknox7487]

I'll be doing that when my husband dies. This house will look so spartan!

[@jnorway7295]

When Covid hit, I told all my friends & coworkers NOW is the time to finally declutter! DON'T sit in front of the TV, computer or on your devices all day...start cleaning out a drawer a day! Move on to closets. Clean out your cabinets! What a liberating feeling getting rid of excess stuff in our homes! The ONLY downside was that Goodwill, thrift stores, churches & women's shelters ALL were closed for donations for many MONTHS! So then one end of our garage was piled high with donations. As places are slowly openng up, we're taking the stuff to donation places now. Finally. Whew!

[@indianne9781]

As a child, my parents also didn’t believe in “character” linens. That being said, they did get me a set of “snoopy” pillow cases. I still treasure those 50 ish years later.

[@deedsh6280]

Despite being 'character' cases, if your joy in having them as a child continues now, then it truly is worth keeping. I do appreciate that she is sharing what works for her and understands tweaks for others will be necessary. (fellow snoopy fan)

[@sherunswithscissors]

I was just looking at old Snooy cartoons - I would love a pillow case like that!

[@indianne9781]

DeedsH , I didn’t mean to sound critical of her methods, I just think that I treasure them because they were a special treat.

[@CastledarkDweller27]

geez, to still be okay 50 YEARS LATER....they must have been some terrific quality pillowcases! but things were made to last back then, werent they? not like the disposable society we live in now! these days youre lucky if you buy pillow slips that dont come apart at the seams, or split or start fraying within a month or 2.

[@amybee40]

I have a couple of 50 year old Noah's Ark pillowcases. They are so soft now!

[@susannaharget509]

Yes! Research has shown that we only have a certain amount of decision-making power each day before "decision fatigue sets in" and we start making choices that are not aligned with our goals. (that's why Mark Zukerberg wears the same uniform of dark tee shirt and jeans every day)--so minimizing your clothes, your menus, your make up, your cleaning products, etc. decreases the number of decisions you have to make in a day and sets you up to be better able to live in accordance with your goals/values. Also, did you know that the beauty industry is a multi-billion dollar industry that runs on making us feel "less than" and chipping away at our self esteem? They "promise" utter nonsense like if you buy this product, you won't have wrinkles!--Rubish! That business is not about serving us, it's about making us feel bad about our looks so they can make money. (Read "The Beauty Myth" by Naomi Wolf). So resisting the allure of the beauty industry and buying way less is a great way to LOVE yourself, decrease the inventory you're managing (which saves you time and money), AND decreases the waste this awful industry generates, which is SO hard on the earth. As to scents in the house, I'm with you--air fresheners are bad news. But a pan of water on the stove with a lavender branch from my garden simmering is a lovely scent in the spring and summer, and for the cold months, I simmer apple slices and a cinnamon stick--Ah! Thanks for all the great tips!

[@Soo_Blessed]

orange peel and cloves👌🏻

[@kimhanna191]

Oh I love that lavender idea. I'm going to try that

[@Tweeza57]

Boiling onions, apparently, makes the home smell good too, no I haven’t tried it, I saw it from a realestate site when selling a house

[@fern6545]

My old friend always suggested the easiest way to warm up the house and make it smell good was to bake a potato.

[@Tweeza57]

A great alternative to ornaments and Knick knacks is plants - fake plants need less work - good ones can be pricey but then they look much better forever

[@audreypayne2506]

I'm 23 and have 3 kids I can't tell you how many car loads of clothes and toys we've gotten out so far. All this started because I struggle to keep my home clean and organized. And i am still finding lots of things to donate! Thank you!

[@IndiBex86]

How's the situation for you now? Do you find that you have more balance? I've been overwhelmed with our inventory and decided I needed to get rid of a ton of our stuff. Sometimes I wonder if it's attainable though, without going full blown minimalist.

[@robinwallace9655]

Funny how I’ve been doing a lot of this for years and you don’t even realize it. If you don’t have it you don’t miss it!

[@sjwestmo]

That’s where smart shopping comes in. I like her comment about keeping blinders on in target. Priceless!

[@bonniestevens6932]

@@sjwestmo blinders!! I can walk thru a store and immediately say ,I have that, that, 3 of those ......no need to even be in a store!!!

[@poolfield2]

I’m so glad you aren’t trying to sell us a book on minimalism, that always seems the ultimate irony!

[@diellensy27]

Marketers are selling a solution to a problem. Minimalism is realizing the problem is as manufactured as the product--or that the solution lies within.

[@victoriaoliver9958]

Yes, like the "problem" of being out of style or not on-trend.

[@juliewagner259]

I love this comment so much. Thanks!

[@diellensy27]

@Cathy Rowe I have several heirlooms, collectables and antiques. I'm not sure what you mean. Seems like if no one got rid of anything, collectors, like yourself, couldn't collect them.

[@hannahmetz3727]

You are the least pretentious minimalist, I’ve ever watched on KZbin. I appreciate that. Just a normal mama. ❤️

[@sandywheeler5500]

While watching this, I’ve become so convicted about being a good steward of my money! God bless you, sweet friend! As I sit in a house with TONS of stuff in it, 2021 is a new year where I’m encouraged by you to try minimalism. ❤️

[@happyathome2695]

Me too! Absolutely! I’ve donated to our thrift store a couple times this month, and all I can think is “this stuff used to be money”,

[@ajalicea1091]

I'm working on getting rid of excess. I keep asking myself "Do you or family & friends need this?" I'm known to pick up an item, place it in the cart, and before leaving the store taking the item back to were i found it. Leave the store and give myself time to think about it. More and more people are trying to minimalize their homes. At least those who I know.

[@alisonsmith8653]

I spent two years cleaning the junk out of my basement. It is very hard emotionally to part with a lot of the stuff, but I realized I have not used most of it in 20 years and never will use it again. I still have to go through and do another "fine tune" of the junk, and I am hoping to get rid of more stuff.

[@ajalicea1091]

@@alisonsmith8653 That is what I have been told. Start with one area, and go room from room. And then like you said start all over again and fine-tune each area.

[@dlsdyer9071]

"Best if used by" is not an expiration date. Most expiration dates are ridiculously conservative due to liability. Canned goods, grains, etc., often depend on how you store them. Our extra food helped others in our neighborhood during the lockdown. Passing it on is always a good idea.

[@milomassage]

Thank you for giving others permission to be mindful consumers. Existing with less is LIVING. Love your channel!!!! The amount of packaging and plastic waste you have eliminated from your routine is inspiring.

[@barbaraparkinson703]

I love the way you presented the information in this video. I wondered how you were going to list 57 things in 18 minutes, but it all flowed so nicely! Better than saying "#1 is..." and "#2 is..."

[@stellerkags]

Wow! Thanks for truly making this a list video! We do all of these and are almost out of debt (we will buy and pay off a vehicle and a baby this year, our only debt). Three things that have helped: grocery pickup, not buying one time use things like paper plates and cups, and realizing shopping is not a past time, but finding other things to do as a family (like using the stuff we already have ie biking, playing games, going camping, having people over for meals and using the nice dishes we save for “special occasions”. Just use the China now!)

[@naeDRz]

💚Dawn, You should make a course for new mommies. Your content is crucial for those first years of motherhood ❤️😉 Also! 🤗Congrats on your channel growth!! Soon you’ll be in the millions!!🎉💚 Thank you!!

[@Soo_Blessed]

OH DAWN YOU COULD REALLY HELP THEM they would not get to the point we are Saving soooooo much stress money TIME A book deal you should put in for a book deal!!

[@fancynancy2870]

I just love how neat your home is. So calming :). When you talk about having to "manage" things, I couldn't agree more.

[@lisa.hennessey19]

I had my daughter 2 years ago and bought literally everything for her from FB market place amd spent $200 total. And her stuff was all almost brand new looking!! Was such a money saver!!!

[@veronicastapleton9001]

My oldest is 9, even then I bought everything but the carseat and paint second hand or half off. Even then I waited until the shower because we got so much stuff from that alone. Thrift stores are my favorite.

[@ajalicea1091]

If someone could convince my daughter-in-law that used is OK

[@daniellerocha2808]

While watching this, I’ve become so convicted about being a good steward of my money! God bless you, sweet friend! As I sit in a house with TONS of stuff in it, 2021 is a new year where I’m encouraged by you to try minimalism. ❤️

[@TheBeautyAround]

I love that you explain minimalism with with logical arguments. They way you put it makes sense therefore it doesn't feels like a huge sacrifice.

[@twirlybacchus7974]

I stopped buying my kids birthday gifts 5 years ago. Instead we have a birthday “experience”. The kids love their experiences and look forward to them every year. They get to choose what they want to do as their experience. We decided to do this because we were accumulating to much stuff that was barely played with. We decided the lasting memories of those experiences would be what matters to them as adults. Toys are fleeting and forgotten but time spent together as a family is invaluable. Some experiences we’ve had include a ninja a day at the zoo, a warrior course, skiing, a trip to Disneyland ... just to name a few.

[@Anna-gz2sh]

A few months ago, i did a beautiful clean up, but I'm still tempted to buy little "cute" things. Every once and a while I really need to watch these kinds of videos. They are refreshing and remind me that I don't need everything I have to be happy. Looking at a glimpse of your house, is a breath of fresh air. ps...I'm a working progress. Thanks for your video!

[@kaitlinobrien243]

I choose experiences over stuff any day. And staying debt free.

[@mariajmc6557]

Absolutely my knowledge kids are professionals and I didn't have any debt to help them get there also they worked hard cause they knew I wouldn't allow debt praise the Lord Jesus 🙌🙌

[@londalujan9706]

I’m brand new and I can’t stop watching all of your videos! My kids are out of the house but I can still benefit so much, I’m super excited to get rid of all my stress! When you say you love 💕 us I know you mean it! Because your making our lives so much better. Thank you so much Dawn, love you 😘 and appreciate everything you do!

[@kimhanna191]

I sometimes feel guilty that I don't take nearly enough pictures, and then I remind myself that our grandparents weren't walking around with a personal photographer everywhere they went and they managed just fine :-)

[@jessie9653]

Yes I agree

[@kimjarvie378]

Thank you for posting this.

[@peacelovesquirrels8550]

I think about this too. I don't feel as bad now. I would rather be in the moment then constantly trying to capture it on camera.

[@Emilyfitchick]

So true! Yes!! We cherish those single photos we have of our great grandparents!

[@cmnr8487]

I have always taken a lot of photos over the past 20 years of my kids growing up, places we've went, my garden, our pets ect. Like everything in life, those moments are short lived, and people and pets and places leave us. I know that some day, the photos I take now, may end up being all I have. As I get older, I am unable to keep up with the large garden I love, and I am so glad I took those extra few moments to take pictures of the things I've nurtured. I will always have that.