My relationship of 3 1/2 years ended a month ago due to my toxic behaviors. Looking back I don’t blame her for leaving and doing what’s best for her. We’ve agreed to not diss on each other and do what’s best for each other. It’s been hard on me for sure but since I started watching your videos, it’s helped me grow up and realize I need to work on myself (putting myself first and bettering myself physically and mentally). The lessons y’all teach in these videos are what I need to hear to get my shit together and remind me of my worth. I can’t thank you guys enough💯
@ginzo6663 жыл бұрын
Yes! Self care always!
@georgespangler15173 жыл бұрын
5 months after she left she reached out and I didn't replie then she saw me with a younger and much more attractive lady and she had a nervous breakdown and now 2 years later she married out of loneliness but reached out to me again and I replied I don't talk to married woman,,lol now she's just mad..
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤴🏻
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
Whats"app him ....
@georgespangler15173 жыл бұрын
@@moonlightguidance4881 no thanks,,I never take a woman back after she had left me, exspeclly after she's been with another
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
@@georgespangler1517 okay
@Giovanni-013 жыл бұрын
I like this one. I walked away with no regrets, knowing I attempted to make it work. And if that person isn't wanting the same thing, then don't be surprised when you don't hear from me again 😂 that's what's real confusing sometimes. She acted cold initially, and when you just accept it, it's almost like that don't like it. Either way though, I'm doing alot better now, by myself. Anything could've happened since we last spoke 🤷🏾♂️ she wouldn't come back tho lol
@wmhhealth2018 Жыл бұрын
I left my ex 6 weeks ago and even though she initiated the breakup I went along with it because I was done with her BS. She had the audacity to ask me to fight for the relationship translation "I lost control of you and I am desperately trying to regain control" Um no thanks, hard pass. I went no contact and blocked her. 3 weeks ago I happened to see a video of her during an annual town event that she is involved with. She looked completely lost and upset. Moral of the story, treat me better and don't take me for granted and I will stick around. Otherwise I am out!
@wutabeta11873 жыл бұрын
Man that last quote at the end of the video really hit. It just confirmed that you guys are what I need right now. I just pinpointed that the hardest part for me emotionally in this break up is the anger it triggers. As I’ve been in no NC, I’ve seen that my rational thinking has been coming back and I’m learning more about myself and I’m becoming more definitive in the boundaries I’ll be setting for myself from this point on. Thank you guys so much for being real and helping me wade through this experience!
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Respect 💪🏽💪🏽
@anthonydavidmitchell3 жыл бұрын
Thanks Guys. Needed this today. It’s all about my growth.
@michaelvargas823 жыл бұрын
Ex said we were toxic at the breakup. Went No Contact and become the Toxic Avenger! Rebuild and level up! Let her enjoy that cold pillow and lonely nights. Connor said no to rinsing out that babypowder! Social Media post don't effect a 🦈!
@ChrisLT3 жыл бұрын
I liked your post even if I didn't understand half of it.
@antilaw99113 жыл бұрын
Give her taste of your absence! Silence speaks the loudest!
@dhdndndbdhdndbd42243 жыл бұрын
My story is this is our second breakup. I moved in an apartment with her last year. Broke up, did no contact she cried and came back months later. This time, we were gonna buy a house together, she got cold feet and dipped. She gonna realize one day how badly she fucked up and wanna crawl back! NEVER give her satisfaction of knowing she’s in your head!
@franciscoterrero33 жыл бұрын
I walked away since mid January and blocked her. I worked on myself and lately she watches my IG stories. We don’t even follow each other on IG but she’s spying.. now I don’t even want her no more!! 💪💪 stay strong fellas.
@MikeHawkHurtz3 жыл бұрын
Honestly, Thank you! Every word, every advice, every motivational phrase you both said helped me in an enormous way. I thought I lost her for good after treating her badly because I was in a dark hole. You guys helped me toughen up and start acting logical and I won her back. Bro I don’t know how to thank you guys but thank you. Keep doing what you’re doing. Of all the videos I saw, these were the only ones I could binge watch. You guys are real and you talk from the heart. It took less than the month (thankfully) but I’ve grown so much in this little time. I couldn’t believe how much I had lost myself. Take care gents -Airforce Vet (and yes, I cried like a little man)
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
We really appreciate it Pedro
@MikeHawkHurtz3 жыл бұрын
Yes sir and I appreciate you both
@RHammer19833 жыл бұрын
One week no contact. Although she watched my Instagram story twice since then...she definitely thinks I’ll come and rescue her from her dumb decision telling me to get lost. I will stand my ground until she comes crawling back begging for my forgiveness and mercy. I love her and want her back, but I will never follow her anywhere again. She can either latch on for the ride; or get lost.
@goodlivelive26213 жыл бұрын
It really works on me Some one did helped Visit him on wha'txpp......💪💪
@goodlivelive26213 жыл бұрын
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@yourmajesty27653 жыл бұрын
Not going to go into my story but I’m extremely thankful for you guys
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
We appreciate the support brother !!! 💪🏽
@cbcarlson5008cc3 жыл бұрын
Brothers love you like always . I got a statement for all the guys and gals Me saying in my head telling her you could not live with your failure , where did that bring you . "TO ME". , Be the sharks , I am the last bottle water on the face of this earth I am valuable and worth more than that water . Chin up chest out hold your heads up high gals and gals , definitely worth it , love ya brothers one of the best vids out there..
@cbcarlson5008cc3 жыл бұрын
@Anthony Base reported stupid
@eduardocardona66083 жыл бұрын
One interesting aspect of no contact its that when you really moved on and stop caring about your ex and the energy you gave her , its not longer there, she will sense it and if she still cares, she will reach out even if she is with someone else. Thats why when you really moved on and focus on new things and girls, outnowhere here she comes. Thats why you have to let them go to get them back and the clue its stop wanting them back and be really done with her. The scarcity energy you are transmitting will go back to you, even if you are not reaching out and even if she blocks you and she doesnt know anything about your life. I know its sounds weird but theres some disturbance on the force when you stop investing emotional energy on someone. Thats why they came back when you moved on. So be careful on just going no contact, stop waiting for her to come back and assume she wont, so you start faster to move on and let her go completely, thats when she can feel and realize your are not longer missing her and caring about her. Expecting, wishing and wanting, signals scarcity to the universe, so start having, being and doing to signal Abundance.
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
Whats"app him ....
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
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@thierryngoyi31883 жыл бұрын
That "toxic" wave everybody is on right now is getting on my nerves
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Works my last nerve.
@bp61673 жыл бұрын
I definitely think its right to go radio silent without a word for the most effective result; but I just want to share the coldest last words I ever witnessed anyone say to an ex-girlfriend that was from a friend who has since sadly passed. Before he cut contact with his psychotic bird of 6 years we went round her house to pick up a few things of his - she was following behind him shouting and screaming and just as he was about to leave the threshold of the front door he stopped, and with his back turned to her he gave off a gentle laugh and said "Tomorrow you'll forget the sound of that".. I've still never heard a woman go so quiet, and as far as I know he never spoke to her again. And I guess she never will remember it again. I miss him, but always smile at how Kaiser Soze levels of gangster that actually was. 😇❤
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
That was definitely gangster.
@bp61673 жыл бұрын
"The greatest trick the devil ever pulled, was telling a girl she'd forget his laugh" 😅🙌 anyway, thanks for taking the time to respond to all these comments it shows your passion for it. I wish yous all the best because you deserve all the credit coming your way very soon no doubt. Time to start the merch boys 🧢👕👑
@madrid40853 жыл бұрын
I just broke up with my baby momma we were together 5 years we both messed up n cheated a lot in the relationship n it was on my end for doing it more than I should have she said she no longer has feeling to me she feels numb about me I’m currently going through stages of the break up and I came across your videos n I’ve been just watching them one after another and your guy’s videos have been helping me so much man on how to be and what to do I’m truly starting to feel happy n feeling like that alpha shark keep up with the content man you guys deserve more subs n views 🔥🦈
@kellywilliam94863 жыл бұрын
I know of a relationship expert who can make your x lover go more crazy inlove for you
@kellywilliam94863 жыл бұрын
Contact him on WhatsApp* I'm from Dallas 🇱🇷 you can get help through me💬💞💞
@luispastrana51633 жыл бұрын
Man i really enjoy the content you guys put out! Its been hard to have no contact when she has my baby boy with her 24/7 and i only see him like once or twice a week when i was so used to sleeping next to them and waking up with them the next day. Its been the hardest month and half.
@luispastrana51633 жыл бұрын
Lol no one should’ve liked it i broke no contact a few days later 🤣
@luispastrana51633 жыл бұрын
@@vivianjohn4312 oh really? And ive been so confused lately.
@alexislaura74263 жыл бұрын
@@luispastrana5163 +1 2 0 4 8 0 8 2 2 3 4..
@luispastrana51633 жыл бұрын
@@alexislaura7426 is that a phone number?
@LoveLove-pj8oi3 жыл бұрын
@@luispastrana5163 M e s s a g e h I m n o w
@samhouse91433 жыл бұрын
My baby mama said she miss me and our bond but still talking to a younger guy. On my birthday said she was open to get to know me and open to go out but went out with the guy that same night then flirted with me the next day. The wishy washy mess is ridiculous.
@chriss69453 жыл бұрын
Baby come back!!! I need you!!! Lol... but in all seriousness... where’d you guys go?! You guys are awesome! Waiting for that next video to drop 👏🏾👏🏾
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Soon, probably in about a week or so
@rafybj19813 жыл бұрын
You guys are awesome, may the MOST HIGH bless you and your family
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thank You !!! 🙏🏽
@Run2BFree Жыл бұрын
My ex don’t really post anything and if she does I’m not watching them. She still watching my stories liking my posts whenever I do post.
@lohengrinfortun25503 жыл бұрын
Your videos are brutally frank, but very inspiring! Thank you.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thank you!
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
Hello dear do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you love dearly?
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
@jaimedeltoro1761 Жыл бұрын
First off, I love your guys videos. Thank you so much for your content, it’s much needed. Second, I have a quick question. I’ve been in no contact for about three weeks and I saw my ex at work. She seemed mad or upset with me but I didn’t do anything. Why is she being like that 🤔
@l.franfort63403 жыл бұрын
Guys you 2 are gonna slay my soul. Words so true like the more you speak the deeper I feel that. Like a lot of truth going out your mouths. Can’t wait for her I gotta man up Big up from france. I see you homies Love
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
Hello dear do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you love dearly?
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back
@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
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@murtalaisah10053 жыл бұрын
±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,.....
@mdmohiuddin64883 жыл бұрын
God bless you coaches
@mrmarcusdmorgan3 жыл бұрын
I second that
@joshuadavis57213 жыл бұрын
You guys are always on the money with these videos. Thank you for the information. We appreciate it.
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the support Joshua 👊🏾
@TheNlinger3 жыл бұрын
Not sure if y'all bounced out for good, but regardless, great content.
@ThonBauer3 жыл бұрын
I am glad I learned English to undertand you, my brothers. I grew up in Brazil, lived in the UK and I am currently in Switzerland. I wish I could give you a big hug, guys. Everything you say here is true. I am there right now.and it isnt so bad cuz I have been there before. But this will pass. Thanks a lot
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Obrigado irmão! 👍🏾
@TheMusicpilot3 жыл бұрын
That doesnt make sense she broke up with other guys before. How come they never got back together whats so special about me.
@teetoo7513 жыл бұрын
Great video, hate the word toxic too, I’ve done all the work 2.0, no facial hair like Murphy though, hahaha. Can I ask how long before no contact becomes permanent? We’ve done 9 months no contact.
@ThePigfaceProduction3 жыл бұрын
Its permanent now bud
@angelvega77372 жыл бұрын
YOURE MEANT TO WANT ME BACK! 😂😂😂
@shannonc17933 жыл бұрын
Coach T 😍👀
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
😉
@bella30963 жыл бұрын
What if it’s the guy that broke up with a women?
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
Whats"app him ....
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
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@erikarivera34933 жыл бұрын
If friends influence the break up do you still think no contact is still effective?? I know I did everything right and more then her friends ever did should I trust the process?
@alexislaura74263 жыл бұрын
It really works on me Some one did helped Visit him on wha'txpp......💪💪
@JoJo-vz5yh3 жыл бұрын
“...all her teeth 🦷 ...” 😂
@andreaburns11983 жыл бұрын
Hmm this is interesting,you do know women leave the relationship mentality before she physically leaves chance are if the relationship was getting bad,it was already over,before it was over,a women will give a guy 1000 chances and it will be that last thing,I’ve never cuddled up with a guys nothing or smell his stuff,I just cut the ex off completely.
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
I know of a man who can help you get your ex back he help me restore my relationship back
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
Whats"app him ....
@moonlightguidance48813 жыл бұрын
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@dencalland1833 жыл бұрын
Then they get a cat.
@dencalland1833 жыл бұрын
No thanks.
@jezreelellis80233 жыл бұрын
My ex says she wants to be friends right now because she doesn’t want a relationship ship with me right now and today we met up and she kept hugging me and was keep on smiling. So I grabbed her ass and she said don’t grab my ass lol. She also said I missed you and gave me a I miss you hug. By her saying she wants to be friends for right now. What advice can you guys give me to make her want me even more?
@michaelvargas823 жыл бұрын
Turn down friendship and back away. She either gets you as a BF or nothing. Pull away and don't let her play you.
@chriss69453 жыл бұрын
I remember when my ex hit me with that one. Here is what that means - that means she wants to fuck other men while you take her out on “friendship dates”, give her free validation and use you as an emotional tampon while refusing to give you pussy. Basically... she is going to fuck other men and not fuck you. Reject friendship. Go into no contact. You got this. I’m 3 months in. On my end, I’ve taken it a step forward and went radio silent.
@3l.Buho.Kuernudo3 жыл бұрын
Do go in a relationship wit her if she just wanna be friends be the side dude that she wanna be fucking on the low 🤷🏽♂️
@wilfridjoseph61723 жыл бұрын
Not all the time women "I want to be friends" means exactly that. They are testing you. They don't want to let you go but afraid to tell you they want to start over because they are afraid you may reject them.
@jezreelellis80233 жыл бұрын
@@wilfridjoseph6172 I told her ion wanna be with her anymore Lmaoo and she okay🌝
@MsLadytiffany3 жыл бұрын
What about a man that dump you .
@kanika99953 жыл бұрын
Was thinking the same .
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Same principles apply.
@SULTANRS3 жыл бұрын
I always see the breakup as a race to who achieves success first
@vickysam773 жыл бұрын
🔥👍🏼
@Jay-cz7fc3 жыл бұрын
Y’all alright been a minute since a new video
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Yeah it’s coming soon. Probably with in the next week.
@TheMusicpilot3 жыл бұрын
Been 7 months since we broke up We sleep with eachother once a month for sex. So now what i dont really understabd whats going on
@TraumaAladdin2 жыл бұрын
Fear will make you reveal who u really are -Nas
@PManeGelato3 жыл бұрын
I need the beat name!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
@gluef6ce3403 жыл бұрын
Hey man I’m in a situation where she likes me but she pretends that she doesn’t like me . And you know she make no contacts with me , and the other way she sends interest texts to me , what should I do , should I be myself and tel her to hang out or just give her more time so she would blow up
@johnnyblaze22573 жыл бұрын
She’s “Bread Crumbing” you Short Bus!! She don’t like you fool, she’s training you and breaking you down to get to your Simp Core, so that you will passively serve her!
@johnnyblaze22573 жыл бұрын
@7empest Hate to tell you this but they are All like that!! Just think back as to how many girlfriends you had in the past, you thought they were girlfriends but they were just doing the same thing as your last chick!
@johnnyblaze22573 жыл бұрын
@7empest If you say so..
@Michael-xm6vy3 жыл бұрын
I need help,so I Broke up with her and stayed in contact with her everyday for 2 months and she begged for me back then meanwhile,then I asked to get back together and she said no,and of course I begged and pleaded and said I wouldn’t leave,this went on for 2 months and then she left me on seen after I said goodnight me day .I implemented the NC rule for a month now is that the smart thing to do right now to get her back ? Please help!
@kellywilliam94863 жыл бұрын
Wh'stapp him
@jjmaclellan58223 жыл бұрын
Been watching the no contact videos. A question comes to mind. Does no contact only work when she breaks up with you?
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Do you have another scenario that occurred?
@tonyrossi38143 жыл бұрын
I don’t really do social media and I don’t look at her social so what do you guys suggest?
@opusandtarquez3 жыл бұрын
Keep it that way. Stay off the socials.
@DannyDuhDemon3 жыл бұрын
Should I still have gone no contact after I broke up with my ex but now want her back
@kellywilliam94863 жыл бұрын
I was like this before I know who can he:lp you out text he now. He can solve your problems:: don't waste your time here: you can get ex back::+:1:9:7:2:5:3:4:8:3:9:9 whatzzp me:
@kellywilliam94863 жыл бұрын
Contact him on WhatsApp* I'm from Dallas 🇱🇷 you can get help through me💬💞💞