The MOMENT When Your Ex Realizes The Breakup Was a MISTAKE

[@JoseAlvarez-lb9uo]

You guys are doing God's work. Tell me how she said she was starting a new phase in her life... ... and after I wished her well. She asks "Do you still love me?" "Would you get back with me?" This was after 10 days of no contact after a month of our break-up where we had limited communication.

[@opusandtarquez]

Just like clockwork! Much appreciated Jose.

[@tonyk174]

And what did you do man?

[@sammybolton9580]

What did you do?

[@JoseAlvarez-lb9uo]

I moved on. I focused on myself. I became the healthiest I've ever been. Literally four months ago, I met my current girlfriend. I kid you not, I'm much better now. Listen, don't chase people. Chase your dreams. Those that willy be with will be with you regardless.

[@sammybolton9580]

@@JoseAlvarez-lb9uo that's what I did. I chased my dreams and she left. Those dreams Took a long time tbh, but finally paid off.

[@slickdickmemes]

If a woman leaves, let that be the fuel for you to build yourself up. When she sees you thriving in her absence, she’ll come back. And when she does...crush her hopes. 🔥 😈

[@brendonmartin7072]

Right on brotha!

[@antilaw9911]

Thats imature. And easier said than done if you were in long term relationship and had attachment.

[@swinfeflue]

@@antilaw9911 No its not. It's called karma

[@jin-rs5tu]

🤟

[@markwhyte7258]

Matthew Kingsley I totally agree with you 100%

[@mariog3326]

Once she leaves keep her outside. Do not take back cause she'll do it again.

[@antilaw9911]

You dont know if she'll do it again

[@inserter400]

If she comes back she want wont to do again , if you worked on yourself and the work.

[@jahleelx9270]

@@inserter400 why work on yourself to go back to a woman that blew you off for another guy and didn't think about u or how u felt until that guy either a. Dumped her after using her or b. They broke up. Either way that's like being a backup plan. You don't get better to go back to someone that took u for granted.

[@jahleelx9270]

@@antilaw9911 even if she doesn't it ain't worth taking her back.

[@Rizzy_K]

@@jahleelx9270 dude, people make mistakes. Shit happens. You can’t hold grudges over someone for making a mistake. Now, if they break up with you more than once, different story. Alpha mentality is to forgive her and give her another chance to proof herself (if that’s what you want). I know so many people personally that broke up and later got back together, and now have been married for 7-10+ years with children.

[@jasonarokiaraj9817]

If you don’t beg, she chases.

[@opusandtarquez]

Basically... it’s really simple.

[@jasonarokiaraj9817]

@@opusandtarquez you can still get her back, but you just have to be patient and not beg.

[@NFGNUKE_]

Understanding female nature is crazy 😂

[@faithfulpeak425]

I know bro that why we call them "crazy"

[@NFGNUKE_]

@@faithfulpeak425 facts

[@jamesdalyallout]

Just don’t lol

[@mannie602_is_my_IG]

That's why we like to bang the more crazy one's. The key is to never get attached

[@decklensworld1755]

Us real women out here have the same hard time trying to understand you males!!!🤦🏽‍♀️. My ex and I had a fantastic 1yr relationship and he still bailed. He actually said I was the “unicorn” he’d been searching for yet went back to the overly possessive girl with a big ass🤦🏽‍♀️

[@NiceOne1706]

Getting your ex back or allowing them to come back is a big big mistake. You will waste more of your time and emotions. You guys need to preach this instead of encouraging the whole ex back scenario. It never ends well, trust me. Move on!

[@dnzwill]

Fuzzy Dunlop aren’t you the informant from “The Wire” who was helping Herc? 😂🤣😂🤣

[@Rizzy_K]

“Never ends well” is complete crap. There’s millions of couples who have broken up, gotten back together and went on to have successful relationships/marriages.

[@liamisic911]

isn't it so crazy that we have to be gentle an considerate of their feelings even though it was them that left? Women are something else.

[@sportstalkonly1442]

We don't have to be.

[@jonsmith848]

Have experienced this. Great post Fellas!

[@opusandtarquez]

Much respect Jon!

[@denadams2200]

What would be funny if someone actually called Tarquevione, would message and say "hey coach t,hey opus, stop giving me a bad rep,I've been in a committed relationship for ten years now". 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@opusandtarquez]

That’s funny me and T talked about that before. 😂😂😂

[@denadams2200]

Great minds an all that. I did email you guys also..

[@lennymcshits2288]

I wore my heart on my sleeve during our break up. I told her I have an absolute love for her and I want marriage counselling. She denied this, but now she has shit to consider during the period of no contact.

[@franciscocastillo8812]

How has everything been going? Fresh out of a 10-year relationship. Split about 3 months ths ago. Going through it..

[@zazlar4228]

@@franciscocastillo8812 hold on to yourself and learn to know that you are enough. This will be a real testament of yourself and a time for introspection. The pain does ease but it can take a few years, I won’t lie.

[@JihadBunnydick]

"From an holistic point of view" Wow Holy Spirit spoke through You ; Divine utterance Thank You. Simple words; Sure, but God's nature is direct, bullseye to the point , never confusing, grounding, or confounding. Only uplifting, soaring, & rising to higher heights & beyond!

[@opusandtarquez]

Thank you. We appreciate your kind words.

[@aminalawal4098]

Hello dear do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you love dearly?

[@aminalawal4098]

Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

[@aminalawal4098]

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[@DualShot]

Thanks for this one guys! It entertained me and y'all helped me keep my emotions in check. I'm looking forward to more advice. I really liked the sign about the social media thing since pretty much everyone is on that shit nowadays. It's a definite staple to relationships today and it honestly makes things much more complicated imo 🤧

[@opusandtarquez]

Definitely DualShot. The social media aspect causes people to get twisted out

[@DualShot]

@@opusandtarquez Yep and to me I've realized that it makes people become more indirect with communication via posts instead of just being more straightforward and telling someone what they want from them. .

[@opusandtarquez]

Preach

[@Tmacpherson]

Some just moved on though…I never ever go back…(went back once, learnt the hard way) I take time to heal and start talking to other people..Going back is never a good idea, it’s never the same..You never trust each other again…

[@aminalawal4098]

Hello dear do you wish to manifest your ex back or someone you love dearly?

[@aminalawal4098]

±2348103378310⏯️⏯️⏯️⏯️ Hello it's work I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up.,......

[@aminalawal4098]

Message the number above the comment on WhatsApp if you need your Lover back

[@ralph4370]

Funny thing is I have sat down and explained to exes during dating. "If this does not work out, you will not hear from me ever. I will never reach out, bother you, and stalk you. If you leave me, stay lost, pretend I died or never existed. If you made the choice of ending this, I will Respect your choice. I will not harbor ill feelings and wish you all the best and be happy even if its not with me. So careful what you wish for" Over 90% have tried to comeback.

[@supriimacy_7056]

This

[@jimdaniel4412]

Spot on...im happy with you and i will be happy without you..if you fail to understand..shame on you for not getting to know me..wish em well and continue your purpose..people come and go..no worries

[@zazlar4228]

Who starts a relationship on this kind of premise …. Pretty childish if you ask me

[@melleniethornton5171]

I need to use that!!

[@sammybolton9580]

Fucking always!!

[@donlothario8584]

I already know I'm going to love this one guys!!! 💯

[@opusandtarquez]

🙏🏾

[@Lewisevans1618]

Never take her back. Ever.

[@juglescort4461]

Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back

[@juglescort4461]

Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me

[@juglescort4461]

Contact him on what's app

[@MarceloSilva-oq8mk]

Why are you watching this video if you don't want her back?

[@whiteranger79]

Ex told me we needed break due to her trying to put me into a live triangle. She call and started giving me info that wasn’t needed. She miss my conversation snd our friendship.

[@Ello3342]

Killing it with the vids!

[@opusandtarquez]

Good looking! Emoneybags!!

[@weidrecords6963]

She kept my apartment key, but I moved out of state and ain’t even ask for it back. Idgaf anymore I want better

[@opusandtarquez]

💪🏽💪🏽🙌🏽

[@LoveLove-pj8oi]

Hello it's works I can't believe am with my love again after so many years of break-up

[@LoveLove-pj8oi]

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[@LoveLove-pj8oi]

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[@LoveLove-pj8oi]

[phone]..

[@bartzeegers3663]

She Came back and we where texting and now i fuck it up because i got Trust issues now. Man this sucks

[@SantiXiAmaru]

I know how it is bro. When my ex tried to come back in my life after she broke up with me, which was a good year or more after, I couldn't look at her the same. Things could never be the same, and it's for the best. I needed to move on.

[@bartzeegers3663]

Broke up with here myself now cause i don't Trust her nomore

[@SantiXiAmaru]

@@bartzeegers3663 you made the decision as a Man and with respect for yourself. Proud of you man.

[@bartzeegers3663]

@@SantiXiAmaru i kinda messed up but it's because i realised i did not Trust her nomore.. in my head she has been with someone Else.. Cant get over that.

[@SantiXiAmaru]

@@bartzeegers3663 it was the same way with me once I moved on. When I found out she had a baby and she was trying to be back in my life, it's almost a sense of peace that came over me. Like it was finally over. That desire or last lingering hope of rekindling the relationship, dwindled.

[@alfredosauce2798]

Me and my ex just broke up got real toxic she takes her nclex soon. She watches my stories on snap texted me but I haven’t texted her back yet. I need her to understand I’m valuable.

[@vperez2598]

Convince yourself you’re valuable then you won’t need anything from her and she’ll know it 😉

[@mxsharkgang3246]

Great stuff guys ! I love watching yall. I feel like Im on a slim chance & 3rd week of NC. - I suggest no music in the background. The video would feel more raw without it. Imo.

[@opusandtarquez]

Thanks MX. Keep moving forward with NC. And we appreciate the feedback.

[@mxsharkgang3246]

@@opusandtarquez I'm doing my best. Had another break down but I'll be alright. & yw. Are you guys planning on s live stream soon at all?

[@opusandtarquez]

Sunday afternoon

[@mxsharkgang3246]

@@opusandtarquez noted. Thank you!

[@EggZackLeeee]

My ex is delusional but to turn a negative to a positive I always showed love and my heart was always pure for her. I fucked up and slept with someone else after we broke up within that same 24 hours so she considers it as cheating so her trust issues are fucked. She contacted me today after 12 days of no contact and I told her I was done with her games. Was giving me mixed signals saying she loves me and misses me yet was hooking up with another dude a few days ago. So regardless if she decides if the break up was a mistake I’ll always feel conflicted because I really felt like she doesn’t love me like I did.

[@EggZackLeeee]

@@juglescort4461 no thank you my friend I’m putting myself first and loving myself she lost me for good

[@juglescort4461]

@@EggZackLeeee you did not love her

[@EggZackLeeee]

@@juglescort4461 I did but overtime you start to realize who’s who I trusted to see her well my life is not about to be a constant recycled lifestyle of events because of “love” that’s not enough. It’s more than that and all those other areas she broke

[@juglescort4461]

@@EggZackLeeee You can fixed that let him help you

[@juglescort4461]

@@EggZackLeeee You can fixed that let him help you

[@christianbenn316]

When a spouse of any gender breaks your trust there,ll be no 2nd chances after that once they leave they should never come back

[@juglescort4461]

Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back

[@juglescort4461]

Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me

[@juglescort4461]

Contact him on what's app

[@Healthycellph]

The GOATS! 🐐🙌🏽

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾

[@user-hk3el6wq9r]

You guys are hilarious! Great content... keep the videos going!

[@jamesdeek7039]

You can't have your cake and eat it too. You want to come back after you've been ran through. Nah

[@deantayfletcher7038]

So true every thing yall said rip nr outtaviis stay strong Darren keep up the good work my dude lot of what yall said stay so true🎉🎉🎉

[@mikemitchell9957]

My ex still has a bunch of my cloths at her house hasn’t returned them yet. Lol

[@Omnitrix8]

I swear with women, you have to have a manual in your back pocket!

[@dt8427]

She won't give me my cat back LOL She wanna keep a memory of me

[@opusandtarquez]

That’s crazy

[@dt8427]

@@opusandtarquez Yeah bros love your chanel from Aus

[@Trataylor713]

Bruh u a man why the hell u have a cat SIMP MODE ACTIVATED fuck that cat

[@jimdaniel4412]

Let her have it...its like a hoodie..get another one..

[@dt8427]

The thing cost 4g's aud bro LOL!

[@rcnet5803]

U guys are the best!!!

[@harrisonayodi1529]

You guys are good. Cant always wsiy to see your videos. Best advice

[@opusandtarquez]

Much love Harrison!

[@terronb]

Notification squuuuuaaaaaad up!!!

[@opusandtarquez]

🤟🏾

[@14kurtismiller]

I was thinking about this channel today. Have you two ever considered how you may reach out to the prison community as well? I am sure that many of those guy's who are locked up are trying to keep their relationships with wives, mother's of their child or children, or just a female friend.

[@opusandtarquez]

How do think we can make headway to that community? Prison lectures? We might have to put a lot of money on brothas commissary

[@14kurtismiller]

@@opusandtarquez I have heard that some prisoners actually use the internet. Contact facilities and iquire about speaking engagements, but also inquire about how can you connect online with their in house population? Some facilities have internet access for their inmates.

[@opusandtarquez]

Good point. A lot of families and relationships dissolve when brothas go on that iron vacation.

[@Wouterlambregts]

Lmao kurtis I laughed at that stream callout yo

[@opusandtarquez]

Kurtis is hilarious

[@mdmohiuddin6488]

Good job coaches

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾

[@andyolson6781]

2 weeks of no contact she randomly texted me that she hates me!! 4 days later she texts she hates me again. then a day later she says u musta blocked me. I have not responded

[@hauwauabubakar8011]

Hello I'm so excited my relationship was fixed back again my ex is back to me we loving and happily together,I got help from a great man who brought us back together......

[@hauwauabubakar8011]

Wh atsA p p👆him now

[@deeflo6731]

Guard your heart and your wallet at all costs fellas....

[@reginaldsmith6949]

Don't forget about those bunions from wearing the high heels...

[@stu713]

2 things that resonate. 1. After the BU 7 months ago I got my shit together. Dropped over 80lbs and quit bad habits. Since then when she saw my post of changes, she’s posting pics of her workouts, healthy meals, etc. Second thing, this past weekend I posted pics of my dog (I’ve never posted him) and she started posting pics of her brothers dog. Strange times

[@opusandtarquez]

Congrats on your weight loss.

[@tektube6913]

If I already begged her to come back and she keeps saying she no feelings for me. Could I change this through doing no contact? (Shes the one that broke up with me)

[@ankolefx3272]

Don't beg bro,this is the time where you need reflect

[@justme-so2en]

My ex and I are done and yes she knows it was a mistake ( her new bf is abusing her daughter) but yes I told the grandparents and police , her daughter reached out to me needing help. But anyways I’m just saying things happen and they will realize it . I don’t want my ex back I got someone better but my point is be yourself and don’t play these game black book basics was there for me , they will be there for you too .. listen up !!

[@rexnorthrop3620]

She called me the other night after 2 weeks of no contact to ask what I’ve been up to and how I’m doing because she saw I was doing a lot, she’s very confusing, but I’m going back to no contact. What do you think about this? We were in a relationship for little over 2 years.

[@liamisic911]

give her the breakup she wanted, don't go back to someone who treats your feelings like a joke.

[@rexnorthrop3620]

@@liamisic911 your right, she asked for something from me yesterday and I met up with her to give it to her and we talked for a good while and then I left and later that night she called me again telling me how good the things I gave her where and things like that, and she still can watch my location. She’s confusing, I think she knows that she’s losing a good guy and trying to stay in my bubble basically

[@rexnorthrop3620]

@7empest we have been hooking up and going out lately actually lol I just now saw this

[@sammybolton9580]

@@rexnorthrop3620 update please dude 🙂

[@rexnorthrop3620]

@@liamisic911 I did and it was the best thing I could of done I’m feeling way happier with my life now, I’m chasing new goals building my money and about to buy real estate things are looking good for me right now and I’m glad I took the step to focus on myself and well being because it made me realize my worth 💯

[@SpacelyNYC]

8:07 LMAOOO

[@Chippy8900]

What if your ex misses you. But her best friend is telling her stuff not to go back? How can this be avoided or how can my ex make her own decision without listening to her best friend....

[@ZOne_26]

Eventually she will listen to her internal voice. The best friends/ family telling her not to go back only lasts for so long.

[@Chippy8900]

@@ZOne_26 exactly its been 1month no contact... Building myself up her family adored me just a mistake I made back in the talking stage. Before we got together and her best friend just making her decision for her. But keeping no contact we both never got that closure

[@ZOne_26]

@@Chippy8900 how long was the relationship ?

[@Chippy8900]

@@ZOne_26 6 months

[@ZOne_26]

@@Chippy8900 she’ll be back give her more time

[@AskHasani]

Not ursula… nah lol

[@Jaywrzd]

She left texted me and said “ she didn’t know what she wants rn” she stop answering my calls an everything.I got tried of the feeling of being down so I haven’t responded to it It’s been 3 days. Everyday I feel stronger like why do I need her 😂. Started working on my clothing business an been in the gym 💪🏾 an learning to day trade. I am the KING to my KINGDOM

[@opusandtarquez]

That’s what the fuck is up man !!!! 💪🏽🙌🏽🦈

[@alstonfernandez]

i have been blocked my my ex for cheating for about 10 months now. she has been in a relationship like a month right after we broke up with this dude for about 10 months now. i recently crept her facebook. i seen she posted pictures of her only on our vacation with the quote "memories" with two kisses and a love heart emoji. lol do i still have a chance. i never contacted her or apologized ..

[@juglescort4461]

Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back

[@juglescort4461]

Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me

[@juglescort4461]

Contact him on what's app

[@excellenthealthglobal5386]

I am missing you tooooooo much my queen 👸

[@levicook8787]

Common now. 360 means mandem is going the same way again. You mean 180. 🤦‍♂️

[@algrande2841]

Yo . Y’all funny as hell but this is clear man straight G logic. I ain’t crying or need advice. Just y’all funny I watch AND I’ll tell dudes the same. Church. Why have 1 chick when u can have 5 why 5 when u can have 9

[@brucealmighty7288]

Bam bam

[@jimdaniel4412]

Is a mazing the.self entitlement characteristic..not gender specific..dudes behave same way as well..best to not give a fuck and dont aquire that personality characteristic..no time in life to reward people when they disregard you..give em what they ask for and walk the fuck away..they will be back..then its up to you if you want to reward poor behavior..

[@jimdaniel4412]

@@harrietjeremiah7830 i dont need help..piss off

[@revanthperambuduri642]

My ex dumped me. She tells me to leave her, move on & focus on my life via our mutual friends. When i asked her to tell it directly on my face, she said my friend that she’d get convinced to be in a relationship with me again. What does it mean? What should i do? How can i get her back? I feel there are few chances; As she also didn’t give my stuff back even though she told she’d. Please help🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@Lewisevans1618]

She will leave you again Move on

[@revanthperambuduri642]

@@Lewisevans1618 To leave again, she should come back first right.. so will she come back?😕

[@sinelizwisongca1312]

Dont go back.

[@timkebienda1809]

Bro, just get a new girl.

[@opusandtarquez]

That’s what I love to hear!

[@johncommatose6591]

You guys are right though I've had many multiple ex-girlfriends hit me up after 3,4,6 months even a year or 2 recently getting over a breakup, myself I know how to my girls never had a really bad breakup never had a bad breakup ,, it looks like I have to go in hardcore no contact with her I tried to contact her in 9 days way late too soon, he was only because I seen on her social media she wrecked I was concerned I fucked up ,, I guess just show them that you are what they've been dreaming.. really like the videos, I watched a few of them you gave me some better input. I haven't fell in love with someone for a long time so that is why this breakup is tougher for me .. good look brohs

[@mareewaugh95]

What if your ex is s male not all ex are female I miss my husband very much

[@mareewaugh95]

I've been scammed bye people on what's app of $3,000 dollar's so no thanks

[@opusandtarquez]

These are spam, we get like 10 post like this a day.

[@mareewaugh95]

He is the one that scammed me for the $3,000 dollars

[@opusandtarquez]

@Mauree you should report it

[@juglescort4461]

Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back

[@brego12317]

Nelson and murphy hahaha

[@maxdanielstrauss7735]

D’arquavion 😂😂😂😂

[@opusandtarquez]

👊🏾

[@maxdanielstrauss7735]

@@opusandtarquez all jokes aside, your videos have been a source of strength during this time. Been in no contact for weeks, I do not engage with her on social media though I see her watch every story of mine:) ... it’s a story that I can write a book on... anyway, I keep coming back to your videos whenever I’m in my head and I realign my thinking

[@Nathan-sq9xv]

Oh god, she claimed she had undying love for me since literally, LITERALLY, day 1. When we’d argue it’s never her fault. She left cause she cancelled our plans because she wanted to see her friends and I got mad that she cancelled our plans and claimed I won’t let her see her friends. She’d always cancel our plans, she would always show up late, she’d never thank me for paying, she’d cancel plans literally an hour before plans. The 1 time I noticed it right away, she victimizes and leaves. She’s manipulative She knew my past of not being able to trust people so she took advantage of that She wants what’s best for her and will do so regardless of her moral standards Glad she left, relationships are meant to be give and take dynamics, when someone chooses to take and take and take from you, it’s bad. She has a short fuse when it comes to patience and forgets about what her fake persona looks like. I waited long enough to realize her true colours. I don’t tolerate that greedy behaviour I kept chasing her for the past week I raised her ego to the max for sure. I’m gone now

[@Candleowen]

This is fairly my situation currently. Any update?

[@Nathan-sq9xv]

@@Candleowen nah man, it’s almost as if I meant nothing to her. Haven’t heard from her since late August, it’s unreal She told me to never reach out again in August, and she blocked me afterwards. Idk if I’m still blocked but I’m not gonna text her to find out

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

Make a video on how to get an ex gf back after years apart.

[@albertodeulofeu5277]

@@hassanmuhammad1587 u guys need to stop with these scam comments. I mean does it ever work?

[@juglescort4461]

Hello friend do you need help to get your ex back

[@juglescort4461]

Hope not lost I know of Dr oselumese who can help you just like he helped me

[@juglescort4461]

Contact him on what's app

[@carlosrosado9560]

She aint comin back if tarquavian got her

[@opusandtarquez]

😆

[@whiteranger79]

You have to wait till she us tired ic that 20% dude, bc might not want her

[@masculinemindset6749]

Well shit, my ex reached we broke up January 5. Mistakenly messaged her after a monthish and went back no contact and 6 weeks later she reached out asking me a favour. The favour could probably be looked after on her own with some extra work, I’m not sure how to respond? Thoughts?

[@kiwi9065]

Nobody helps her, so she asks you.. You got choosed of her shelf of people she has access to. I also don't know what to do in this situation

[@agbordaniels]

Ignore her until she applies more effort

[@ianbetts4435]

Tell her to f off.