6 HABITS of UPPER CLASS People That Will CHANGE Your Life

[@MannersMattersChannel]

What habit would you like to adopt❓

[@Kalika05-i2w]

All these habits 😊

[@NeonTurman]

I hate fast fashion but I don’t want to buy crap luxury that still falls apart. (Read: no YSL bags) what should I buy?

[@SculptExpress-gv8jp]

Buy what you like of good quality and workmanship. Pick a beautiful fabric and find a tailor! Buy jewelry made by artists or wear some special family jewelry. Remember that the jewelry you wear is like art that you have at home; it’s not about the price, it’s about the work (could be students or street artists).

[@chandrabose5398]

This is truly a good one. Will start by mastering the art of pause.

[@estherchandy6292]

@@NeonTurman buy well stitched thicker natural fabrics. Repair and maintain well. Avoid patterns, stick to a classic colour palette and make sure your cellphone case is fresh and your nail polish not chipped. Absolutely no trends. If in doubt, use the stuff you have that's 15 years old!!! Or your parents' stuff

[@mepulley7913]

1- Master the "Art" of the pause (take your sweet time/stay calm) 2 - Invest in quality (buy less, fewer better things) 3 - Keep clean and organized (consistency) 4 - Network (Be genuinely interested in building relationships) 5 - Prioritize (avoid impulse buying, or wasting your time) 6 - Confidence (inside and out)

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for summarizing the key points! 😀

[@autumn-g1n]

​@@MannersMattersChannel. Yes we'll done. Thank you. 💚

[@CleberLerm]

Really nice points made in this Video. I've just sent an email to you the link/website for the 1:1 you recommend *suluxy*

[@Anick8]

Thank u beach

[@klh1133]

My best friend once taught me the most powerful pause-if someone wants to engage in gossip, or males a catty remark about someone and looks to you for engagement-pause, contemplate what theyve said for just a beat, consider that whatever they just said, may be directed at you at some point- look at them-smile- change the subject. It lets people know that your confidence need not come at others expense. A very powerful, feel-good message.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for sharing! It's amazing how a simple pause can empower us and help create a more positive atmosphere.

[@ctriz76]

This works every time. Don’t forget to smile back before you change the topic. Don’t laugh, blush, angry or sad.

[@notmyrealname6272]

True class is making whomever you’re with feel special.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! It's all about making those around us feel valued and appreciated. Class truly shines through in how we treat others.

[@camillefunn6405]

Beautiful!!!!

[@reneemellott8612]

So true!!! ❤

[@kako6417]

All these things are result of not being afraid. They are not rushing cause they can afford other ticket, they can buy better thing, they have connections cause they used that serveces and payed that people well so when they called them again they will prioriteze them and so on.. if you still dont have enough money its normal to be more worried or scared and that showes in your actions.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

You make a great point! Confidence often comes from having resources and connections, which can definitely influence our actions and decisions.

[@kako6417]

@MannersMattersChannel true and you nailed them 💪I will definitly try to mimic these habits. I'm already subscribed.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you🫶

[@hautecouture2228]

I was an an au pair for English aristocratic family. They had a nice house in central London but they were otherwise broke. Coming from upper class family does not equal having cash

[@rhondar4063]

I do half of these things already and I'm broke. It's the few I don't do that brought me to this video. I use to do almost all of them but with an unhealthy mental state the others went away slowly. Some might have been born with a silver spoon but chances are their healthy living skills provided them with what they have. I'm getting ready to put several boxes of crap from my living room in the back room to make the house look better only because I'm very aware that the stuff piling up is bringing me down.

[@Jom-jg7ty]

A quality coat lasting only 5 years? Oh, no, it should last longer than that. I have a coat that is 20 years old and still looks good.

[@patriciavandevelde5469]

What s the name of the brand?

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It's impressive that your coat has lasted so long! Quality really does matter when it comes to longevity.

[@homodeus8713]

Which is why some girls are wearing their great grandmother’s Chanel dresses and jackets.

[@SilentByte00]

I have several London Fog coats that my grandmother had ( she is now gone) and I still wear them. Most long lasting coats I have ever had. So they are well over 30 years old.

[@alisons9740]

My Banana Republic moto jacket will never go out of style and is still going strong after year round, almost daily wear and lots of travel +10 yrs. 😂 Wish I had bought two tho, cause if it ever does fade I’ll be hard pressed to replace it.

[@RaulDiaz-n9t]

Exciting video, A year ago i took the no contact route, well i wouldnt say it didnt go well, but i missed her and sometimes you have to leave your comfort zone and go for what you want, Without knowing and having a huge ego, we might actually miss out on our soul mate all in the name of not settling for less, I know who i am, and at the same time i know what i want for me, so i did all i could to get her back, and I must say, it was the best decision i have ever made, we have been together again for over 7 months, yes marriage isnt always rosey, but i am lucky to have her, just as she is to have me, we compliment each other

[@daniel-w5g1u]

its difficult to let go of someone you love, i am in a similar situation, and i do not know what else do to have her back, i have been dying inside, people actually think i am happy, i am not.

[@RaulDiaz-n9t]

I feel your pain brother, after trying out the no contact experiment that failed miserably, i had to find other means, i had to reach out to a spiritual adviser, it was brilliant idea which i never thouht it was, but it worked wonders for me.

[@daniel-w5g1u]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach him/ her?

[@RaulDiaz-n9t]

Her name is Shelly renee white , and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@daniel-w5g1u]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@andrewromaro12]

The concept of success in " The Art of Seductive Power" book completely explains this. I wish I read it sooner.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! Better late than never...

[@PrizzT]

Nice.

[@NeverTooLateForAchange]

Who is the writer? Thx

[@kliggio]

Robert Greens- he has an amazing book on Power too!

[@jag5798]

Went online to buy the audio - thank you for the suggestion! 😊

[@MadelineVail]

I have a long black wool coat that I purchased almost 30 years ago. Taking it to NY for thanksgiving and it still looks fabulous

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Wow, that's impressive! A timeless piece like that definitely shows the value of quality fashion. Enjoy your Thanksgiving in NY!

[@camharrison400]

Each year I have my Christmas shopping done by October, people think I’m crazy lol but during the holidays I’m calm and enjoying my time

[@MannersMattersChannel]

That's a smart strategy! Getting your shopping done early really does help you enjoy the holidays without the stress.👍

[@ninagoodwill8019]

love this! plus bet you had plenty of time to research products you wanted and waited for sales, & less holiday credit card debt in Jan!

[@jeanlow129]

Maintenance of your space is simply clean as you go. Wiping surfaces daily and not just when they are dirty. It’s about keeping it clean and not waiting for it to become dirty.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! 👍

[@palmerocounselling]

Yes, but also a lot of rich people have others that clean for them, it is unrealistic to have a mansion all cleaned and shiny all by yourself.

[@MaryPAULINElove]

It's hard, in a single mum of 3. After the end of the contract I'm overwhelmed by the stuff I have at home. I used to be so organised when I was young

[@Urmi-97]

0:42 Master the art of pause 1:55 Invest in quality 2:56 keep places unapologetically clean 4:06 Network 5:12 prioritize experience over stuff 5:55 Cultivate a calm confidence

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for taking the notes😉

[@lilblackduc7312]

@@MannersMattersChannel This comment should be 'pinned'.

[@davidjsouth231]

The pause is powerful! It exposes the hasty fool. OMG! I love a clean a home and I'm consistent except for my fellow household members. I can't stand clutter. I network like crazy. I know a ton of people, and when some one needs an expert in a field I know a person. Experiences are self soul filling. I'm a quiet confident person wherever I go. I don't captivate attention but I move with confidence.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! 👍

[@estherchandy6292]

Maintenance of things owned. Own less, but msintain things well. It doesnt need to look new but it needs to be cherished

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! It's all about valuing what we have and ensuring it lasts. Cherishing our belongings can lead to a more fulfilling life.

[@anthonys7534]

Best point on here!

[@bharetiedhorai4652]

💯 Exactly. Pauses give space to think. Quality over quantity. Networking is indeed their life style, they build relationships. Immaterial stuff is what I am into more than material things. Working on the tidiness, is sure keeps the head clean to. Yes. Manners matters🙏🏽 Confidence is a habit

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! It's amazing how taking a moment to pause can lead to deeper thoughts and connections. Quality interactions truly do matter!

[@bashairzulfiqar6929]

UPPER CLASS HABITS 1. Master the "Art of Pause" (take your sweet time/ stay calmn) 2. Invest in quality (buy few but better things) 3. Keep the environment clean and organized (consistency: set 10 minutes daily to reset) 4. Network (be genuinely interested in building relationships) 5. Prioritize experience over gadget 6. Calm confidence (you belong)

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Love that you get it! 😁

[@anushkasingh4518]

Thank you

[@camillefunn6405]

Thanks for the summary!!!!

[@DeniseOwen-f1z]

My great aunt Peg always said ' It isn't what you know, It's who you know.'

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Your great aunt Peg sounds like a wise woman! It's true that connections can open so many doors in life.

[@CindiNelson-j2d]

So true, every good job I have ever held was through personal connections. My skills, education, professional experience were needed but to show the ri

[@Eirilyn]

Pause, and tidying up are my first steps

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your approach! Pausing to reflect and tidying up really sets the stage for productivity and clarity.

[@rowan7658]

Their cleaners keep their houses clean…not them!

[@Aristaifly]

Nice reminder! Thank you! Will try pause. This is a challenge as I'm naturally impatient. The staying calm was my nature by birth that I didn't know others don't have. Once I lost it, I realized I was just gifted.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found it helpful! Thank you for sharing!

[@hpiccus]

i like her idea about trying just one and starting it - rather than attempting many new variables all at once..

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Focusing on one thing at a time can lead to better results and a clearer path forward. It’s all about mastering the basics first!

[@gerhard6105]

During the funeral from my father, we were as a family in the family waiting room before going into the big hall, the funeral lady asked my aunt if she could say her first name if she would called forward to say something about my dad. My aunt said no. It sounds rude but it has to do with this: the funeral lady as not a friend or family from my aunt. My aunt had a real pearl necklace, a chique handbag and was dressed very well. Here daughter in law had a real Louis Vuitton handbag. My nephew has a stone whole sale company and his wife a Thai massage salon ( non-sex). My aunts husband was a Doctor doctor ( a hospital doctor/physician on the university doctor(al) level). It is old money. For the rest you must have table manners. You do not have to do chique all the time but keep it descent. Don't spent money on nonsense and keep your money in your pocket. " Mom, you want some flowers?" "No, keep your money in your pocket". A be a bit reserved and keep your arm with you. No big gestures with your arms. You can look how real royalty behave. Always relaxed. Ofcourse a Dime will never be a Quarter but if you can improve yourself, do it. And be able to talk to people on every level. Don't feel more than other people. And....no t-shirt under a polo shirt.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It's interesting how family dynamics play out during such solemn occasions. Your aunt's choice reflects her values and upbringing, which can definitely influence how we navigate these moments. Thank you for sharing.

[@EricDraven-qd9pu]

TMI....sheesh

[@cato1684]

You and your family are snobs. Not classy, just snobs. You had to name the brand of the handbags, but cannot spell decent or chic.

[@TheTravellingCritic-ke8kh]

I admit, those are some very well-intended pieces of advice, but then people are usually perfect because of their imperfections. I had recently met a couple of ladies that were adorable because of being a little chaotic. Somehow, it added charm to them. So, yes, some of us are a little anxious because we don't know how to fit all our endeavours in a 24-hour-day schedule. Some of us have a vivid desk, because, if clean up, we won't find anything again. Some of us are night owls. And some of us can't help being generous with money, even if we aren't Bill Gates or Elon Musk. But then again, what's wrong with just being yourself?

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I completely agree! Embracing our imperfections is what makes us unique and relatable. Each person's charm often comes from their quirks and individuality.

[@WealthMindset-99]

i didnt think there were great habits that could change your life so simply. thanks for sharing this wonderful thing.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm so glad you found the habits helpful! Sometimes the simplest changes can make the biggest impact.

[@thegrandmasabrina]

Most of this is pretty spot on. It all comes down to attitude. Being prepared and organized helps one not to be or feel rushed. So does not procrastinating and waiting until the last minute. So does having a personal assistant (like many rich people have.) I agree with what was said re: quality over quanty and valuing purchasing experiences vs buying material things. Although I'm not above hitting tourist traps. It's part of the 'experience' lol

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I completely agree! A positive attitude and good organization can make a world of difference. And hey, tourist traps can definitely add some fun to the journey!

[@nadinewhalen6316]

I have impeccable manners and even though some people hate me I still use eloquent aptitude always positivily using my attitude

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It's great to hear that you maintain such a positive attitude and strong manners, even in the face of negativity. Keep shining!

[@roselove001]

Keeping a large house clean, and laundry done, is much easier with staff to help!😅

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! 😅

[@anuatwhitespace]

Frankly, all the points were immensely relatable. And to end with, do take a pause before writing a comment-it creates an impact! Also, I totally agree with you- The Pause, Buying Quality, Clean and Organized, Network, Experience over Stuff, and confidence. Thinking aloud, let's use the process of elimination. I think, I do buy Quality and rarely. Clean and Organized I am mostly but will be more careful hereon. I think, Network and Experience can be clubbed creating a base for the Confidence to be practiced. While this shall happen on a less often basis, On a regular basis, The Confidence and The pause are a MUST. CONFIDENCE Know who they are and what they bring to the table. Show up for yourself Speak a little more clearly Make eye contact Stand up Straight even when you are at a grocery store (* I would like to add here- Dress up well when you are stepping out, even when you are going to the supermarket nearby) DONT DOWNPLAY yourself. You DO NOT have to shrink to make other people comfortable. It isn't about being the loudest person, it is about quietly knowing you belong there too Me too- Chronically overscheduling and over-apologising! It's about "How you show up in your own life! " Very powerful words

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s wonderful to know that the message resonated with you. 🫶

[@Atilla-m9i]

#1 Prioritize experiences over stuff #2 Buying fewer higher quality items #3 Stay Calm/Confident #4 Network #5 De-Clutter #6 Pause Opinion: (#2 covers #3) (#3 covers #6).

[@MannersMattersChannel]

😎

[@iaynaushr3166]

Superb…. I didn't even realize it was the” pause thing”. I will definitely try. I am the person who always rushes for everything for no reason.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found the pause technique helpful! Taking a moment to slow down can really make a difference. Give it a try and see how it feels!

[@deidrelivingston4850]

It's an air of confidence! Their mindset is "I've got this"

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! That confident mindset is key to overcoming challenges. It really makes a difference!

[@poonamjonwal7431]

i has habit of choosing quality over quantity from so early like when i was 13 or 14 years old.....and after watching this video i realised that i'm lacking of few more things. Best video i've ever watched till now about habits

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It's awesome to hear that you've been focused on quality from such a young age! I'm happy you find the video useful.🫶

[@Cliohna]

#1 Pauses #2 Quality #3 Consistency #4 Curiosity #5 Experiences #6 Calmness

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for taking notes😀👍

[@martinajakubec3119]

I definitely need to pause and slow down. Great video, thank you!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Totally get you! Sometimes you just gotta hit the brakes and take it easy. Thanks for watching!

[@Mary-2u-b8i]

Me too !

[@andromedastrain9701]

Be yourself and that's that

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Being true to yourself is the best way.

[@8788bb]

You see a lot of folks who don’t have focus or knowing what to do except just live their life without direction. One of the best ways to keep focus and your intent is to start journaling. It helps organize your thoughts and keeps your focus. Take a few moments before you start your day. So instead of just looking at the paper without knowing what to write. Start with thinking like a to do list of what needs to be done for that day. You’ll be surprised at what you got done that day.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Journaling can be a game changer for clarity and focus. It's amazing how a simple to-do list can transform your day!

[@louisehicks3285]

Absolute facts!!!! The accuracy of this post. Wow.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you🫶

[@atashakgem]

Thank God I fit in „ upper class“ category according to this video... I am not wealthy by any standard at all, yet the list here all are important to me that is due to my upbringing born raised in average up class family backing days in my own country. I socialized w all classy boys and girls, w high standards great tastes, manners, etc,,,, I am forever thankful to my artist beloved mother she thought me develop taste to the top. The only factor I am missing is confidence 😢due to my culture and a bit my parents are to blamed.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It's wonderful to hear how your upbringing has shaped your values and tastes! Confidence can be a journey, but recognizing your strengths is a great first step.👍

[@HappyWarrior888]

Clutter is just delayed decisions. This will help me tackle the last bit of the garage. What can I do that I will remember in 5 years? This will help me decide what activities to do with my kids. Love these tidbits!!! Love a quick reframe 😊

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for your comment and fingers crossed for your garage. I'm sure your kids will love the activities and time together.🫶

[@Mia-sp8jc]

Fantastic tips!!! Yes, I have noticed that wealthy or smart people will go someplace another country or just an off-broadway play before spending money over some new toy -I admire that!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found the tips helpful! It's true that investing experiences often leads to greater satisfaction than material possessions.

[@Mia-sp8jc]

@@MannersMattersChannel Right 😃 Plus you are more interesting ✔️

[@celinefederici6951]

Re: Pause....I am a pause person...the problem is many people don't wait for me to finish my thought and just jump right in!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I totally get that! Pausing can really help clarify our thoughts, but it can be frustrating when others interrupt. Communication is a two-way street!

[@RosemaryPhilip-v9u]

[@MaryJames-z7v]

Please how ?

[@MaryJames-z7v]

Am a born Christian and sometimes I feel so down 😭of myself because of low finance but I still believe God

[@RosemaryPhilip-v9u]

It's Maria Angelina Alexander doing she's changed my life. A BROKER- like her is what you need.

[@RosemaryPhilip-v9u]

$356K monthly is something you should feel differently about....

[@MahmoudHamza-g5e]

Lovely! I enjoyed it like I enjoy a $100k monthly around the turn!!!

[@barbarastrzykalski7070]

Nice… I will try the pause thing…. I do tend to make a remark quickly without thinking!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for watching! I'm glad you found the pause technique helpful-it's a game-changer for so many!

[@DarlitaStephens]

I need to work on networking but I will do that when I relocate. I already know who I want in my life.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts! It’s inspiring to see someone so determined about their future connections. Best of luck with your move!

[@DarlitaStephens]

@@MannersMattersChannel Thank you. Your well wishes are much appreciated.

[@FreeSpirit47]

The everyday person can master these traits. Buy the best quality you can afford. Adopt consistent habits. It's habits that many people used to keep.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Mastering these traits is all about making small, consistent changes that lead to big results over time.

[@andikrauthofen3720]

quite helpful!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found it helpful! 🫶

[@Norfolkaeta]

I get ghosted more often than not so my goal is to improve on My follow-up schedule. Always did the article send, comes naturally in biz and when responding to previous inquiries.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Improving your follow-up schedule is a fantastic goal! Consistency is key, and it can really make a difference in your connections and opportunities. Keep at it!

[@AMcLennan]

Thanks for sharing Manners Matter 😊take care

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you ! I'm really glad you enjoyed the video. 😊

[@mornemyburgh3669]

Great content, thank you. I'm going to work on Pause and Networking

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found the content helpful! Pause and Networking are definitely valuable skills to develop. Best of luck with your progress!

[@cris471]

Pausing before making a decision, I can’t even do this in a restaurant. Indeed I have a lot to learn

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for sharing and fingers crossed.🫶

[@annddyyy-6920]

I think one manner the upper class practice is investing. My advice to everyone is this : if you want to grow big this year especially in your finances. Be willing to make investments. Saving is great but investing puts you on a pedestal where you wouldnt have to worry about savings as you do now. Thanks to larysa Caba, my portolio is doing really great and im proud of the decisions i made last year.

[@annddyyy-6920]

Making over 48k monthly is all because of her.

[@leticiaenraz8514]

I feel one Of the greatest challenges that we first timers face in the ma rket is that we end up losing all we have,making it difficult to find ourselves back to our feet. My biggest advice is to always seek the services of a professional just like I did when I ventured into it for the first time. Big thanks to Larysa Caba. I now make huge profits by weekly through her services while still learning to stand on my own.

[@ivarlast2966]

I know Larysa Caba. she trades for everyone I meet. I met her twice at a meeting in Germany and after her lectures from Ella I had to personally ask her to be my financial advisor. she is definitely good.

[@militaryorderly5386]

I have never seen a trader as open and transparent as Larysa Caba with her clients. The way she decides to make a profit for her clients. she allows you to express your fears and she still rests your fears and that is my respect. I don't normally comment on videos, but this word should be included. she is really cool.

[@bigelbow4854]

I just looked up her name online. she is licensed with credible certificates and has an amazing track record. Thank you for the message.

[@camillefunn6405]

Thanks for sharing!!!! Great video!!!!!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you enjoyed the video! Thanks for watching!

[@maddymacd6056]

Totally agree, I won’t not rush if I could afford a new ticket

[@thandekaraphahlelo4911]

I'll pick 2 Put things back where they belong and try to be calm even when I'm late.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

It’s always a good idea to stay organized and be calm in any situation. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@dianegerlach2454]

I got the networking habit always going :)))))

[@MannersMattersChannel]

That's awesome! Networking is such a valuable skill. Keep building those connections!

[@Chahlie]

All these things are true but I often wonder if it's possible for young people to learn these things from someone, rather than learn on their own like most of us. Often it doesn't make sense until you find out for yourself :)

[@MannersMattersChannel]

You make a great point! Learning from others can definitely help young people navigate their journey more smoothly. It’s all about sharing knowledge and experiences!

[@pennyt820]

you don’t't need a lot of money; estate sales-buy others' mistakes. others buy WAY higher quality than I do; I just like it better 90% off

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Thank you for sharing🫶

[@sararabieh7086]

This is my first time watching your video and I enjoyed it:)

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad to hear you enjoyed it! Welcome to the channel, and I hope you stick around for more!

[@christinaheltabbott7337]

I’m going to begin pausing ❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing! ❤️

[@BelledelaNouveau]

Great Tips!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Glad you like them!

[@71sml1]

How does one reconcile numbers 3) “they keep their spaces unapologetically clean” with number 1) “master the art of the pause”? Wouldn’t someone who has clutter (the result of decisions and actions delayed) just be someone who has “mastered the art of the pause?”

[@MannersMattersChannel]

You have mastered it! 😆👍

[@tejasvinitayade9540]

It's great.. Thank you❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Glad you like it!❤️

[@sheilakhodriya9152]

Best video I’ve ever seen.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you🫶

[@simplytoocomplicated3794]

Upper class people have servants to clean up their spaces for them. Even their servants have servants to clean up the spaces for them.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

[@stepht5]

I know plenty of people worth millions, living in homes worth over two million and yet they clean their own homes. If you don’t have clutter, and pick up after yourself you don’t need anyone to come in and do the cleaning because it doesn’t take very long to actually clean a space with with no clutter and nothing out of place 🤷‍♀️

[@jeanetteh.9240]

You make a very good point. My friends who have regular housekeeping services never worry about the bathroom being clean enough for guests, or the furniture being dusted, or whether their floors need vacuuming. That frees up a lot of energy--enough to allow an occasional pause. Now that I am older and in poor health, the pressure of doing it all is overwhelming.

[@simplytoocomplicated3794]

@@stepht5 I agree that without clutter it's easier to clean but all the upper class people I've met have housekeepers.

[@simplytoocomplicated3794]

@@jeanetteh.9240 I can imagine, I hope you get better soon. Priorize your mental and physical health over what guests might think. Most of the times it's always worse in our heads than it actually is, most people don't care about a moderate amount of mess. All best!

[@andyoeft]

My favorite coat is 26 years old. My favorite car is 25 years old. Both are impeccable and classically styled

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing! It’s awesome to hear about your classic favorites-there's truly something special about items that stand the test of time.

[@Sandhyaraochatruvedi]

Loved the video ❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you!!❤️

[@lisaw7390]

I want Hallmark main character energy! 😁

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Hallmark main character energy? Just add a sprinkle of hot cocoa, a charming small town, and a dash of unexpected romance, and you’re all set!😁

[@nehalsangoi3596]

Great advices.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you🫶

[@jeffmejia3556]

Upper class? There are many people who possess these skills that do not belong to the upper class and I’ve seen my share of upper class people with no class. This is a combination of smart money management, friends of temporary convenience to get what you want, and effective communication. One does not need to be in the upper class to be in control of their life and not life control them.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! It's all about the skills and mindset, not just the financial status. Anyone can learn to be in control of their life regardless of their background.

[@SJR_Media_Group]

Great Advice.... cheers

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I'm glad you found the advice helpful! Cheers to your success!

[@annaburns2865]

The “pause” is mastered by teachers not rich people. 😂 Let me tell you, it’s rich people who are in a rush. However, teachers have students who just got off their iPads asking them questions a mile a minute. 10 kids can literally pop up at you at once. You have to pause and give yourself time to think and focus on what they are asking. Now I use this in everyday life when I start to become stressed. I’m pretty sure it’s a trauma response. Lastly, the Bible tells us to have peace, so if I feel like I’m using mine, I remember how much the “pause” helps me. It’s really not a mystery and I don’t own the place or anything! Edit: “clutter is just delayed decisions.” Is why smart people are so cluttered, That’s literally what the “pause” is. 😂😂

[@MannersMattersChannel]

You make a great point! The ability to pause and reflect is such a valuable skill, especially in the chaos of teaching. It's amazing how it can transform our approach to stress in everyday life.

[@TheAllisonLab]

I'm a teacher and I agree 💯

[@krick7247]

My 100% wool cashmere full length coat still looks like a million bucks after 27 years. I’ve worn it all over the globe 🌎

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Wow, that's impressive! A timeless piece like that really shows the value of investing in quality clothing.

[@marguerite-rv2we]

confidence. I'm worth it.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Believing in yourself is the first step to achieving great things. You are definitely worth it!

[@gyangupta9995]

Really well researched.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you🫶

[@Siyaa0101]

A very well informative video and one of the best one in KZbin ❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you so much for your kind words! I'm really glad you found the video informative.

[@PegasusFleets]

When we can say we loved Love on it all.. was.. is ..and..is yet to be.. .. ..then..Yes.. We have success and with faith.. True wealth and upper class !! ..whether it seems like it or not . 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@verac6731]

Upper class people don't do housework. They have servsnts😅

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I completely agree! Embracing love and faith truly brings a sense of fulfillment and success in life, no matter the circumstances.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

😅

[@christinaduskisrealestate]

Excellent content!

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Much appreciated!

[@sohailtiwana8473]

Guess what, I am already doing all that most of my life, and I am a billionaire at heart. I love your content, I hope this beautiful voice is not AI generated. Confirm so I can make a decision to keep this subscription or else....😂❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Haha, that’s awesome! Thanks for loving my stuff!

[@archanashah7636]

The tips were great but everyone in india cannot afford that quality or expensive coats or boots. What matters is that no matter what u have u should be happy healthy contented and peaceful. As far as class is concerned its a matter of mindset. Start thinking rich not wealthy and take care of ur health. Invest ur time money and energy in lasting happiness and peace. Certain brands hzve😊a huge tagprice. So dont put a tag to ur moments of joy with ur family friends and colleagues. Stay smiling blessed with abundance.❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing such a thoughtful perspective! Happiness truly comes from within, and it’s important to focus on what truly matters in life.❤️

[@CharlotteEastwood-i6s]

I'm not sure about this list because everybody circumstances are different. I'm not refined in anyway and let me assure you that I am consistent with my home and space being clean and tidy with minimal effort because I don't clutter things, but I have a dog and however much I Clean his paws, do what I need to, it's not as simple as consistency because the elements change and one day my house can be perfectly respectable but the next it's pouring down with rain and it looks like a mud bath so that tips not very realistic. And five years for a good quality coat is not exactly very long.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I completely understand your point! Every household has its own challenges, especially when pets are involved. It’s all about finding what works best for you and your unique situation! 🫶

[@suef2837]

Wonderfully informative video. I recently started shopping "quality over quantity" but seem to be always rushing around and being impatient. Will definitely be starting with pause.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Awesome to hear! Taking a pause can be a game-changer. I’m working on it too-fingers crossed!🤞

[@farahscroggs2939]

Thank you , very good points it is full of very keen observations and practical advice.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I appreciate your feedback! I'm glad you found the points helpful and insightful.🫶

[@KimPetty-z3m]

I have one *suluxy* bag I got in 2019, it's the LV white catogram speedy. It's counter quality and it has a nice honey patina now, so the leather is real. I think whatever makes you happy go for it. I've seen LV with plastic leather and blood red glaze...

[@agaolejarnik1819]

Thank you ❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you❤️

[@raquelcpalomino9147]

Today, there are subcategories of fast fashion, and people think that more expensive fast fashion is good quality.🤷‍♀️

[@MannersMattersChannel]

You're absolutely right! Even brands that used to offer good quality seem to have dropped the ball. I’ve noticed I’m returning more items than I’m keeping lately because of quality issues.

[@id5girl]

I use the pause now, being older. If they rattle on at me, I just find something else to look and say nothing as if to say "Oh, were you talking?", And STOP SAYING LIKE dammit.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I totally get it! Sometimes I think people should come with a mute button-especially when they say "like" one too many times!😁

[@hannirosa509]

Upper class people aren’t necessarily tidy. Lots of the English aristocracy have quite stylishly messy homes with dogs and wellington boots and books everywhere and never apologize for it.. They also don’t say “ My bad”.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

This reminds me of my childhood: dogs, boots and books. Not quite English aristocracy though!😆

[@Geemeel1]

Nice vid! Why is it that people in the USA always seem to distinguish 'upper class' from others? Do you really need to be 'upper class' to have or develop these habits?, or can anyone work on their personality to embody these qualities? 😊 🧐Well done on this video! 👏🏾

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thanks for the thoughtful comment! It's interesting how societal norms shape our perceptions. Anyone can develop those habits, regardless of class-it's all about mindset and effort!

[@MShaw-qq5tu]

It's simply "class". Class is not defined by ones wealth.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Class truly comes from within and how we treat others, not from our bank accounts.

[@EmotionDecode]

*GOD Bless you. I Love video so much*

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you so much for your kind words!

[@poisonedchalice]

It helps bring naturally pretty and having money

[@melusinam6250]

Upper class people hire domestic help that is the only way they keep things tidy. Upper class people do buy expensive things, but try saving for a pair of high end boots and feed your family, pay mortgage.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It’s important to remember the different financial realities people face.

[@gregoryadler7806]

The art of the pause depends on where you are in your profession and your life. Once upon a time I did not ever pause I immediately said “Yes Sir (or Ma’am) whenever my superior gave me an order. Fast forward 40 years, and I pause, or stop, or rush, whenever I want to because I’ve earned the right to do so.

[@schunkelperser1794]

This video is valuable.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you so much for your kind words! It means a lot to know you found it helpful.

[@Shinymarja]

Love the habits...but not the word upper class. If there are bettter persons than other. It is about your habits and manners what matter. Love, faithfullnes, friendlyness also to strangers, caring for each other,

[@MannersMattersChannel]

I completely agree! It's all about the values we choose to embody and how we treat others. Habits of kindness and respect make a real difference in our communities.

[@Pallabi_Samaddar]

Ummm... The intentional pause before answering a hard question is NOT intentional, they're actually thinking. It's not fake. Their troubles and peace is very real. They learnt from life , they don't fake their principles. So to all those poor people out there , "Don't copy upper class people before learning what they learnt in life." Rich people are not fake. They just don't have time for nonsense.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Thank you for sharing your perspective! It's a valuable reminder that we should all take the time to truly understand before we emulate others.

[@drnicolebeaumont7884]

Love this. Pause for me. 🎉

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Depends on the circumstances, I guess.

[@mariasahar2788]

I am actually living gracefully with all these habits (except having a coat). 😂❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Living gracefully without a coat? That's some next-level confidence! Just don't let the weather catch you off guard!😂❤️

[@mariasahar2788]

​​@@MannersMattersChannel It won't as I belong to the East, that too from Pakistan. Summer lasts here six to eight months almost. 😂❤

[@MannersMattersChannel]

😂👍

[@LeMans350Z]

Quality items that last decades instead of disposable items are better and less expensive. Buy dress shoes that can be resoled like Allen Edmonds and boots that can be too, like Danners. And quality clothing, coats and even other items that will last decades instead of cheap ones you replace every year.

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Absolutely! Investing in quality items really pays off in the long run. It’s all about creating a wardrobe and lifestyle that stands the test of time!🫶

[@Jason-o5s]

Cheer~~~the economic group with the greatest wealth and power in society.😊

[@MannersMattersChannel]

Wealth and power definitely know how to throw a party. 😊

[@KimPetty-z3m]

From the packaging to the details of the bags, I think the *suluxy* shop has made reproduction an art form.

[@inuvik491]

“That’s my bad” ???? Never.

[@Pedroaghyu]

So this is the confidence money brings