6 Life Lessons the UK Taught Me

As a Canadian living in the UK for the last 6 years, I've learned a lot about what it means to be an expat in the UK! Here's 6 life lessons the UK taught me.
I still feel like I have a lot to learn about British culture and how I fit in, but it's been a lot of fun learning along the way!
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0:00 life lessons, let's go!
0:34 livin' life
2:29 go for it! you never know
5:13 try it all! twice!
7:16 it's not about the stuff
9:00 find your own way, bud
12:23 open that brain
15:04 ooh embarrassing lol
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Hey! I'm Alanna - a twenty-something documenting my life as a Canadian living in England.
I share the ups and downs of an expat living abroad and what it's really like living in the UK. It's not always easy, but there's been so many wonderful experiences, too. I post a KZbin video every Tuesday & Friday plus an additional video every Saturday on my Patreon account. I also livestream every Wednesday and Sunday at 5:30pm GMT/BST on Twitch.
Alanna x

[@davidlukey5189]

Adapting to the culture of the country you are in is the right way. Too many people see this as something to battle against, whereas you seem to see it as a virtue to master. Congratulations.

[@stevenmclaren2730]

There's no right or wrong.

[@davidhines7592]

i agree, and it applies to brits who retire to the costa del sol in spain - they ought to make the effort to learn some spanish and adapt to the local culture, not try to transport british culture and expect an english pub and chip shop to be provided. or else stay in britain.

[@eze8970]

Main UK Life Lesson - Never be surprised at finding Piccalilli & Marmite in a UK kitchen, just don't put them together in a sandwich! - Lots of laughs since then Alanna! - Thanks! Congrats on all your hard earned success! 🙏

[@WickedDandelion]

I loved your 'follow your own path' lesson. I have always looked at life like bread. If there was only one type of bread, life would be so boring. So our parents give us the basic ingredients, but we make the bread we want from that - if that makes sense. There's a template for life, but its not an instruction manual, its a guide.

[@alantheinquirer7658]

Your open-minded suggestion is so important in all walks of life. Certainty is great but adaptation is sensible in new life situations. Sometimes you need to change, not the world around you.

[@lizrichardson3309]

Such wise words Alanna! As someone who grew up with a mother whose mantra was 'What will other people think' if I dared to be different it was good to hear your life lessons! It took me over 30 years to outgrow mum...... now I am almost living my best life!

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

I'm so glad to hear it and thanks for your support!

[@joannecunliffe8067]

Alanna - I just wish I'd left the UK for the same reasons - just to experience life in another country. I did get the chance - twice - once to move to Spain and another to move to the USA. My life partner (at the time) refused. I wish I'd divorced then (as I ended up doing later). I'm just glad you're enjoying yourself. You ALWAYS have to have an open mind - wherever you are and whatever you are doing.

[@gerrimilner9448]

a trip to somerset to try all thier ciders in local pubs sounds like a trip you would like

[@nbclaymore1861]

Agreed - we should treasure the differences between peoples of different countries. Even if sometimes it feels daft! 🙂

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Totally! Thanks for watching!

[@briz1965]

Great video and should be an inspiration for anyone looking to move abroad. I moved to Canada in 1990, and, funnily enough, every day I have to stop and pause and somehow never lost the feeling of being on holiday. It is a big decision and I'm glad you are well and happy in the UK. I do miss the closeness of the UK and love sitting in my local pub when I visit. Cheers and all the best.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Ahh so glad you're enjoying Canada!!

[@TusharPankaj]

This is super helpful for anyone, but especially for anyone considering moving abroad!

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks so much pal!

[@leematthews6812]

Lots of new discoveries to be made and lessons to be learnt, such as 'avoid any drink with the word Brewdog on it'.

[@eturfrey]

Alana you are such a sensible young lady. Live your best life wherever that is. By the way I am a Brit but loved Canada when we visited.

[@larryc9617]

You may be from Canada Alanna but that doesn't define who you are, you are a lovely girl and I am sure wherever you choose to call home you will fit in just fine, I feel if you are a good person which you obviously are, it doesn't really matter if you from the States Uk Canada or anywhere else, what defines you is where your heart is, your heart is in the right place, believe in yourself, we love you. Thats coming from an old fart of 70 years old, you brighten my day so you are doing a great job, enjoy the journey wherever you live :-)

[@adamjarvis4319]

Point 5 was the amazing moment. I reckon I'm about 10 years older than yourself, and had that clarity of understanding life around the same age. It was great when it happened, and trust me, the feeling just gets better. A wonderful video.

[@davidwebley6186]

Yes I have lived in another country for a short time, Sweden. I think you never really know yourself or your country until you move away from your comfort zone. You think you know everything and that your country (whichever one it is) is the best. That is such a narrow minded view that gets blown out of the water as soon as you move and gain new experiences and yes challenges, it is not easy but can be so rewarding. The most valuable things I gained were spending time with a friends elderly neighbour learning about her childhood and reading to a friends 4 year old twin daughters, None of whom spoke English. So yes I had to communicate and read in Swedish ( yes I found that challenging) . I never really thought about it at the time but now the knowledge and those experiences are some of my most treasured possessions in the form of memories which no physical item could ever replace. There is a right way to lead your life. Your own way! So don't waste it living according to others rules. It can be hard and take courage but life is yours to live so LIVE IT!

[@mylesmacleod4306]

It takes a lot of get-up-and-go to get up a go. So props to you, girl!

[@maxmoore9955]

I've watched your videos for sometime now ,and must say it's nice to have an opinion of a person from another country, Especially an English speaking country, Where we're so similar but different in some of things we do .

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you so much!

[@greyman3515]

I have always thought you are richer for your experiences rather than possessions. Greed can be good if you are greedy for the right things, like the pride you get from achievements. Love watching you on your KZbin path. Keep up the great work. 🍺

[@dave93x]

I'm glad that you've settled here. I can only imagine the guilt you mentioned that you feel, the homesickness in the first year. Our little island benefits from having you 👍

[@michaellovell1368]

These six years we have seen a big change in you, Alanna. I say that this has been achieved by you doing EXACTLY what you say/advise here !! To live life with an open mind is VITAL. That way you never get hung up on trivial stuff....and there is PLENTY of trivial stuff :):) I hope that there are folks out there who take this video on board and If only one person "gives any of this a go" then you have succeeded !! I still love your vids after six years !!

[@mothmagic1]

The mind is like a parachute, it only works when it's open.

[@angelique_cs]

you're honestly a huge inspiration to me, Alanna. I have spent my whole life fighting the idea that I couldn't do the things I wanted to do with my life and I still feel like I might be too old to make any of the changes. But you did it and you seem to be thriving and it's awesome to watch!

[@roberttreborable]

Your never too old to make the changes.

[@angelique_cs]

@@roberttreborable thanks It just gets more difficult to make huge changes the more embedded you get in a way of thinking. I'm working on it!

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

You're too kind, pal! I really appreciate your support and you CAN do all the things you set your mind to!!!

[@eze8970]

You can do it angelique! Stay positive, strong, true to yourself & always follow your heart!

[@joshuafontaine5870]

Your lovely!!

[@Elwaves2925]

Great video Alanna. While you're making you points from the view of an expat, these lessons could apply to so many people of all situations. The expectations of family, especially those you didn't see often, always really bugged me. I come from a time when you were kinda expected to do things in s certain order. If it didn't happen, they constantly asked you every time you saw them.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Absolutely!

[@colinblackledge2942]

Vive la difference! I've visited about 20 countries. I love how people can be so different but we all have so much in common 🙂

[@danjames5552]

You are definitely in one of the better areas of the UK , I love the Kent/Sussex area 😀. Plus your right about nik naks , I love them ❤.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Soo good! 😂

[@naitchb16]

I genuinely found this to be an inspirational vid and I could probably take on board some of these tips, especially go for it. Thank you, Alanna! Oh, I could go for a packet of Nik Naks now too 😅

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Ahh I'm so glad to hear it!!

[@kevinparkes417]

Hi Alanna. Such an insightful video. How did you get to be so wise? I've been lucky enough to travel around the world to work and one thing I've realised is that deep down people are basically the same wherever you go. We all seem to have the same worries and cares and hopes. We all have to get up and make it through the day. One of the best things was connecting with people at an ordinary level. Perhaps we should all just sit down for a brew and put the world to rights.

[@matc6221]

'"Give things a try - you never know!" I literally just wrote that advice down on my motivation pad 👍👌

[@markwalsh1474]

This is a great vid ,Full of wisdom and insight into living in the UK ...Many thanks for this one Alanna..Hope you two have a great weekend.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks so much!

[@michaellewin9339]

Loved the nik nak comment. I Remember the early days when you discovered salt and vinegar mccoys and double deckers. You’ve come a long way Alanna, and achieved so much, overcoming anxiety issues. So glad the channel is doing so well. Always a pleasure watching your content.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Ahhh thank you!!!! That was such a long time ago, really appreciate you sticking around!

[@marksnellingphotography]

Awe the baby Alanna clips from the early days. I've always enjoyed watching your videos, I find them relaxing in a mad world and reminds me it's the simple things in life that give us all the most pleasure... You've had your life ups and downs, but I hope you sharing them has helped you as well. Keep smiling Alanna..

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

😊 thank you

[@mothmagic1]

Be yourself and say what you think always. Those who matter don't mind and those who mind don't matter. I'm pleased you feel that way I'm sure we're pleased to have been with you on your journey.

[@dave_h_8742]

Agree with all your insights. was very depressed about a job I'd been in too long, Hiking over a mountain one day contemplating the problem when i got talking to a guy who said exactly what you said change the situation, which I did 🙂

[@rolanddunk5054]

Hi Alanna,can you believe it,I have followed your advice,and bought a box of Yorkshire tea bags,and as you say…it’s a rate gud brew tha knows …but I have to leave the teabag in the mug until the end to get the full body flavour,so thank you very much.and please keep the advice coming.cheers 🫖☕️Roly 🇬🇧.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Ahh so glad you like it!

[@Phiyedough]

I would certainly agree that telling yourself that you can do something goes a long way toward achieving that goal. It is not so much about self confidence it is more about realising that the people already doing stuff that you want to do are not that much different to yourself.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Well said!

[@norbertfricke7116]

Great video , as always. All countries have good and bad points. Nothing wrong with picking the best of both worlds ! Living in different countries can be a great life lesson. I love your obvious enthusiasm about stuff 😃😃👌👌👌👌

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Well said, thanks so much!

[@terencecarroll1812]

The way we see it is everyone is different and you live the way that best suits you, neither are right or wrong just different ways of doing it

[@stephenwatson8512]

What a lovely video Alanna, I've watched your videos for ever it seems like but that was such an honest video and something that we really all aspire to, it shows very much that your from Canada and I'm from England but we are all just people with the same aspirations and dreams x

[@Trillock-hy1cf]

I have been abroad 3 times, starting off a school trip to visit Rotterdam and Amsterdam, then joined the RAF (for 12 years) out of school so 2.5 years in Cyprus, 1 year in Bahrain, and a couple of visits to Australia (some family out there), and life was pretty much the same except for the different weathers, as mostly hot, sometimes very humid, the housing and another language, like having breakfast, go to work, something for lunch and work, then it's dinner time, TV and the bed again, repeat and rinse... I enjoyed my time doing the same sort of routines in different countries, and didn't really notice any thing much different apart from my new surroundings.......😀

[@charisse234]

Alanna every single word you have said I absolutely agree with.i can clearly see that you are a hard worker.you have carried on even when things for you were difficult (the horrific landlord) I personally think that you will go far in this thing we call life.thank you for your videos they are very much appreciated👏. Peace and love 💛

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you so much!! I really appreciate that

[@ericrabinowitz6390]

What great enthusiasm and curiosity you have, it's awesome. Is there anything (even the downers) that you don't appreciate, or find entertaining, or are thankful for the lesson it brought you? So many people in my world spend their time griping about things that are done or out of their control - it's exhausting. Your videos are a wonderful antidote of refreshing positivity and wonder at the beautiful, quirky, surprising world we live in. Thank you, may your attitude be contagious!

[@PedroPedroPedro-Pedro-Pe]

No. 3 and 4 are so spot on. They're essential life philosophies.

[@mikejamesporter]

As somebody who went the opposite direction (alebit to the US rather than Canada) nearly 16 months ago, I can already relate a lot (and I'm sure when I visit the UK again next week, I'm probably going to understand your first point for sure). It's certainly a unique experience moving abroad and whilst daunting is incredibly rewarding, although not for everyone.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

I totally agree - hope you're enjoying the US!

[@stevensibbet5869]

Very honest and accurate description of what life is about.

[@gerald112b]

Sounds like great advice to me. Loved that bit where you said you're happy and healthy:)

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks so much for watching!!

[@richt71]

Hey Alanna What a great vid. I wholeheartedly agree with many of your thoughts. I've recently gone back to being a digital nomad (part time) collecting experiences and memories. I'm sure many of these will live in my mind 30 years from now that material things won't! I was the black sheep of my family stepping away from corporate world at the tender age of 23...and doing my own thing. Still doing it decades later! (Yes old fart alert). Keep on trucking!! 😎

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Ahhh I can't even imagine all the stuff you must have seen and done - you'll never be able to buy those memories!

[@sandraback7809]

Wise words, this is a life lesson for people who are even staying in their own country. I decided long ago I want to fill my life with memories of family , travel, doing stuff that’s daft, follow dreams that seem odd to others and enjoy just being still and absorbing small things like a plant in my garden surviving my inexperienced care. It is little things and time passes so quickly! We now have small grandsons who are a joy but wear us out. But we make the most of these joyous little boys while we can( collapse on the sofa when they go home❤️❤️❤️😂). Life is short and seems to get shorter the older you get. Fill it with love, be kind, be open, be brave and keep a sense of humour IMHO🤷‍♀️

[@kimm3473]

Beautiful video. Your maturity is inspiring!

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

You are so kind!

[@billmayor8567]

Absolutely love your channel. It is very positive but also very honest. You are becoming such an inspirational young lady. You have a warm and friendly demeanour but you are also very courageous and motivational. I am sure your parents are extremely proud of you and we in Uk absolutely adore you. So glad you decided to come to England. Keep going and hope you have a great journey with lots of laughter and adventures.😊

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Wow thank you so much!! I really appreciate that

[@billmayor8567]

@@AdventuresAndNaps you’re welcome. It’s true😊

[@leejones2640]

It is refreshing to have a break from news of war, nuclear disaster,climate change etc by visiting your channel. You are so full of hope and joy. Don't listen to flag waving muppets who say their country is the best at everything. We are all homo sapiens, pretty much the same under the skin.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you!!

[@jcasillas78]

Nice one! Keeping an open mind and trying things more than once is great advice. I didn't like some of my favorite things till I tried them the 4th or 5th time.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

So true!

[@nickbeale6645]

Great video, you hit the nail on the head with many things you mentioned especially about having/ keeping an open mind. I'm a Brit that emigrated to Germany almost 30 years ago and it is a massive game changing experience. I also agree with your comment about possession, experience and knowledge are things that can not be taken away from me everything else is just stuff.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Wow, hope you're enjoying Germany!! I'm lucky I didn't need to learn a new language lol that's tough!

[@norbertfricke7116]

Hey Nick. I did the opposite move 40 odd years ago , Germany to UK. You are right , it's a big culture shock . But in time I learned that mixing two backgrounds really works. I consider myself British now in many ways , but still hang on to German roots , like food , music etc. I really hope my ex countrymen are treating you well. Viele Gruesse aus England

[@worcslee1287]

One of your wisest and most educational videos :)

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you!!

[@matc6221]

Unattainable Alanna of the past, is now a successful business woman and possibly invincible Alanna 💪. All credit to you! 😀

[@Clayton-S.]

Splendidly inspirational content Alanna. I think your videos are really worth watching especially for recently arrived folks or folks that are considering a move to another part of the world. You're absolutely right in saying things are different. Not better/worse, right/wrong, just different. As a relative newbie to your channel it was amazing to see you in the earlier video clips. Great fun and very interesting as always, thank you ☺👍

[@Malfie657]

Lots more great advice there Alanna, and it helps of course that it comes from real experience so it has that stamp of credibility by having 'done it' too. You do realise that somewhere on the horizon ought to be the A&N book capturing all of the challenges and the experiences of your life abroad - with a separate chapter on why Marmite and Pickled Onions are the best two things you've ever tasted (that was right wasn't it?)🤣🤣

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

😂😂😂 never!!

[@annelisewhite6244]

I am 36 my husband is 43. We decided several years ago that we didn't want to have children. While both sets of our parents have been fine with this (helped by having grandchildren from our siblings). Several of my colleagues really struggle with my decision (even though it doesn't affect them in the slightest). One in particular often tells me I'll soon be at an age where I can't physically have a baby and I'll look back and regret it. This really annoys me because I don't want or need their opinion and I honestly don't want children! What's to understand? You live your life and I'll live mine!

[@juliawigger9796]

Bravo. My hubby and I felt the same way. We couldn't give a **** what other people think about us not having children. Even when a teenager I couldn't understand why there was this cudos about breeding. Hence I never had serious relationship until I met my husband. We could both relax and enjoy life, and most of all each other. 👍

[@gdfggggg]

I think you should do what you want and good on you. For me, I always knew I wanted kids. The family unit is paramount to me. The thought of my wife dying and me being left on my own with nobody is not something id look forward to. I’ve had kids now and it’s the best thing that ever happened to me. I know that when I get old I’ll always have someone there that loves me, and grandkids etc. Having kids tops every other aspect of my life.

[@SatyamSingh-nt5jz]

Soon you all gonna regret it 😂

[@tracy3364]

I agree.... you do what suits your life ...I have 3 kids love them to bits ...but I do understand why people don't want them if I had my time again I may decide not to, they are amazing but there's an opposite to that 😂

[@gunnysreviews9411]

Could be the birth control talking

[@davidpierce3217]

Thanks for sharing your thoughtful and heartfelt observations

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks for listening!

[@alanjagger5212]

Great video, Alanna. Seems to me you have your eyes open, kiddo. Well done. X

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks so much!

[@jimcounter4945]

Great video 🙌🙌👍👍

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you 👍

[@Rjhs001]

Hi Alanna. Great video and although I may be one of those people who has followed a typical path, we have brought up our daughters (now 24 and 28) to be their own people and to give themselves choices in life to do what they want. Thanks, as usual and again, love your content.

[@msmichydo]

My partner is British and we’ll be moving from Vancouver to the UK early next year. Recently subscribed to you, would love to connect with you after we move! 🇬🇧

[@robertmossberger3385]

I enjoy Alanna's channel very much. I visited the UK several years ago and fell in love with it. Also, I have been to Canada and Yes, they are very nice people. I've been to Europe, Asia, South America, China, and Australia. The people of the UK were nice, but reserved which I also liked about them. So am I.

[@andymcgarty3099]

Excellent video and useful to everyone to enjoy the moment and the little things in life.

[@neilhanstock]

Talking of Nik Nak crisps, I heard recently that they might be bringing their Scampi & Lemon flavour. If they do, you have to taste test them. They don't smell wonderful, but they taste great. 😁

[@iancomputerscomputerrepair8944]

Hi Alanna, another great video. People of all nations should strive to have a open mind. I thought with this hot weather that today's video would have been trying different drinks. (Alcoholic of course)😀🥵😎 Keep up the good work

[@BananaKing274]

These could be general life advice. I am not an expat, but I can relate heavily to all these topics Alana talked about in this video.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

🙏🏻 thank you!

[@Aracadius42]

Thank you

[@mauricecasey866]

Yes, there is always time to change the road you are on. Obvious but we are often blinkered to it. 🛣

[@thelastpilot4582]

Very impressed with you attitude to things.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you! I really appreciate that

[@marck717]

Hi Alanna, Thanks for a very inspirational video. I think being more flexible in life is important, and something I admittedly need to work on, as I do get set in my ways of doing things the same way all the time.

[@johnhendry6636]

hi Alanna,..its been great fun watching you over the years, "Bloom and Grow".My wife and i, are VERY old Brits.(,m 73, she is 60) we moved to Benalmadena Spain in 2012,we had NO money, i HAD a business running a night cub and two Bars, after 22 years in the U.K. Fire service. and we went bust....completely.We landed here, in the cloths we wore, and a credit card, that i HAD to abuse!.I Taught myself, how to repair/ and teach other pensioners about computers.i bought some Karaoke gear, and did karaoke 3 nights a week.Here we are now, 12 years later, STILL broke, but "hardly suffering"requirements when moving abroad?. Adaptability,(be prepared to do,whatever you have to, to "make a buck). Good work ethic, and Courage!....Keep it up young lady!

[@gamingtonight1526]

I lived in Houston, Texas for over a decade, for me, it was always about people. The "things" I already knew about, due to Hollywood and all the American TV coverage on British TV. So for me, it was leaning how to communicate, how to talk to American women, socially. Understanding the different viewpoints of people.

[@princesshassim6009]

Re Choosing your own path. Congratulations girl, you've learnt probably one of the most important Life lessons that's out there.....YOU JUST DO YOU.....just remember, if it goes wrong and it's your fault always admit it and move on. Never stop, and never look back. Wow, you really are that strong. X

[@hughanderson8876]

Change isn't easy but planning tomorrow is NOT as straightforward as it seems, being open to change is difficult and the journey isn't easy either but you may find yourself happier than otherwise! Good video Alanna 👍🏿

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Well said!

[@terrybrett467]

A very thoughtful piece Alanna, thank you. ❤

[@laura-leeoconnor6298]

Would have loved to hear all this when I was your age. It has an impact hearing it even now later in life! ❤️

[@yoshu9983]

This comment goes back a week or so and is about the format for writing the date I Canada. I checked this out a few years ago when a piece of business correspondence I received had the date written multiple times and used three different formats! The Government of Canada recommends that all-numeric dates in both English and French use the YYYY-MM-DD format codified in ISO 8601.[10] The Standards Council of Canada also specifies this as the country's date format. That was copied from Wikipedia. Love your videos.

[@Saitamabaldopm]

Talking of trying new ciders, I think you should try and get Dickings or Cumins. Both great with a truly unique taste!

[@davidjones332]

Well, aren't we turning into a proper little philosopher! Seriously, I always find your pieces thought-provoking, so keep up the good work.

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you!!

[@jamesbrighton1778]

alanna... rockin like a hurricane, thats my nice quota used for the year

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

😂

[@SteveMikre44]

A very inspiring episode of Adventures & Naps...😊

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

☺️

[@MagentaOtterTravels]

Brilliant video! Made me think about my own list! So interesting to hear about your journey and your experiences as an expat. Cheers! XX Dara

[@paulshepherd1348]

Very well said Alana... as a Brit I have lived in Ontario now for 13 years... I have been told I am more Canadian than a lot of Canadians! Lol

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

13 years! Hope you’re still enjoying Canada!

[@silveribis55]

Loved this video, like so much that you make. And whilst watching it, you through in a quick few historical vids in there, and gave me an idea: that perhaps you could do a montage of some historical highs and lows, but no need for volume only your favourite music track that suits it! Like as you said before you never go back and rewatch any of your own content....and at the same time you got new folk to your channel and might make a nice sort of 'catch up' video or story so far sort of thing for you and fans. Just a thought and think you'd be good at it. All the best ☺️

[@Bluedex2011]

Awesome advice as always Alanna and kudos for the many achievements on your path, way to go 👏. What's exciting is the differences between folks from different countries and even between states or regions. I have an open mind, but it's pretty empty right now 🤣

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you so much!

[@galaxywhispers1787]

Great video as always Alanna, very thought provoking. 🙂

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thanks so much!!

[@garypltn69]

I don't know where you get your energy from with all the things you do you are pretty amazing

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

You're too kind!!

[@Greenwood4727]

As a lot of people say we have a Different Work/life Balance, in america its work work work and people dont really have time to enjoy, not sure about canada, but here in the uk and europe we work to live, we get holiday time, we can go to other places, not just in the UK. we have the time to do more things, which i think makes us a rounder society

[@douglasmcclelland]

I loved this review - it's really great that you have embraced the new country, and you're right, its about experiences not things. Try new things, don't assume you won't like it... try it! Like you I had a life plan - it was not imposed on me just roughly what I was planning to do, but it worked out differently as my life unfolded and it was right for me! I think there are some RIGHT way of doing this, different but they can also be right or wrong - that's my opinion anyway, I wouldn't impose that on anyone its just my opinion!

[@jeffgraham6387]

Alanna, you dared to dream...you worked hard and made that dream a reality...you go girl...😉👏

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you!!

[@diannegooding8733]

Travel is mind blowing! Do it!

[@Varksterable]

You cover a _lot_ of ground in this vid. And express it so eloquently and profoundly. This isn't KZbin material. It's philosophy. When you say stuff that resonates, I think; "yes, I'm on board with that." And when you say something that doesn't quite fit with my worldview, I just think; "did I get that bit wrong?" There are so many reaction/comparison videos out there. But you just seem so _genuine_ and _invested_ and _insightful_ about it all. I loved this; but a lot of what you say suggests I need to reassess my life. I probably should do that.

[@sidrasalman4683]

Moving to a new country (The UK) has completely ruined my emotional and mental health. I feel so much anxious and home sick. Everything is new and weird but your videos give me hope.. But boy am I struggling…

[@spyhunter66]

How long has it been? I believe she said her first 6-8 months were hell and it took over a year to really settle in. I hope you do too!

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Sorry to hear that pal! My first 5 months were hell - everything was overwhelming and stressful. But I stuck with it and eventually it was so much easier! But that's not the case for everyone - if you really hate it after giving it a good try, the UK might not be for you and that's OK!

[@sidrasalman4683]

@@spyhunter66 It will be a year soon for me, I thought things would start getting better but I guess I need some more time...

[@sidrasalman4683]

@@AdventuresAndNapsI totally agree! Its just that going back is really not an option for me so I will have to just suck it up LOL.

[@peterobinson3678]

You are correct... there is no right or wrong. Except with roundabouts... They are the 'right' way.

[@mykota2417]

By moving uv just learned faster...some take decades to learn this or usually never do... Love ur smile!

[@chrisshelley3027]

Gorgeous heartfelt and informative video, you never fail to engage with the audience, YOUR viewers, yes people come back because you don't sugar coat things, but neither do you make it sound like torture because it isn't, maybe at the time it feels that way to the person involved, but you are good at bringing it back to where it is comfortable, this gives the viewer time to draw breath, re-group and try again, you really are far too clever for KZbin :)

[@julianwatson2301]

Well done girl, I admire your view

[@AdventuresAndNaps]

Thank you!!

[@shirleyboy8859]

I followed my own path and it took me all over the World...... The trick was Hard work.... People tend to like you if you put in some effort..... If you have a dream then go for it ..... But don`t expect it to be handed to you on a plate.... :-)) xx

[@kencope1984]

appreciate you

[@laratheplanespotter]

The whole do you thing, I’ve just changed careers and I’m 36! It took me 7 years to get a degree as I was pretty unwell but now I’m back on track, I’m going to university to study forensic science. At 36! And I’m glad it doesn’t matter if you’re a super mature student! Now, I’m not British but I do live in Britain (Kent of all places eh?! Will be at a campus in Chatham) I’m Irish and I love how multicultural this country is. I’ve been placed with a bunch of international students I love that!! Last time I was at university I was in the international student flat and every weekend we would take it in turns to cook something from our respective countries. I had 2 Asian friends there and they conditioned my tastebuds to like spicy food. We had a Chinese man, an Italian man, a woman from Ghana, one from Trinidad and Tobago a French person and an Indian. And once a semester we would put on a spread for other students to come and try things. We’re all still very good friends and have places to stay when we visit one another. Loved it!

[@MS-19]

5:13 is perhaps an important lesson for all, regardless of nationality or status: native, ex-pat, naturalised citizen. Trying something and not liking it is fine, but it's worth giving it a second go before making up the mind. You might find that you like it on the second try, in which case it would have been premature to reject it. Equally, you might find that you still don't like it, in which case you can be satisfied that you are right to reject.