6 Most Important Things I Learned in 2020.

[@LanaBlakely]

What's something you learned this year? Edit: oh and, regarding my instagram: I haven't deleted it! Instagram deactivated my account twice in 24 hours for a reason I'm not aware of. It's frustrating, but I'm working on getting it back!

[@CyndyTangerineyyyy]

Self-love is the best kind of love!

[@esoc]

Forgiveness and self-love

[@MerryOlSoulGigglesmith]

The hours of my life are precious. Don't waste them on negativity. I also learned a youtuber helps me more than anyone i actually know. I glad for the help & guidance. Thank you Lana ✌️☺️

[@natemarx4999]

I hope you had a great Christmas, Lana.

[@amaraarinze]

I've learnt that you shouldn't live life to please others

[@arieli5398]

2020: You don't need someone to "complete" you. Save your finances or learn how to invest in stocks. There is no shame by visiting a therapist, mental health is just as important as physical. Books... Lot's of books (thanks Lana) Get yourself a schedule, eat, study, work, sleep.. Get into a rhythm. But don't overwork yourself. Last point: There is the you that you view, others view and your friends view, learn how to be proud of the way you view yourself. Anyone who reads this is simply amazing. Thank you 2020 for the pain and lessons.

[@intentionalliving7326]

Amen on all and particularly on that last point Arieli!! 👏🏻👏🏻🥳🎶

[@sandrafromnc3894]

Arieli, thank you, I totally agree with you. I have learnt the same lessons this year 2020

[@Iris-pm6ob]

Agreed

[@Caffeinatedyetcalm]

More like: *it’s a pleasure that it’s time to say goodbye*

[@SakyTalks]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Yeah. More like I hope we never see each other ever again

[@beeboodeeedo4753]

More like: get the f*** outta here!!

[@hidden1878]

@@SakyTalks next year will be even worst or at least same

[@intentionalliving7326]

😁😂

[@prcpree5659]

LOOOL What a mood

[@1.5Koreans0.5American]

If you’re reading this, our 2021 will be great guys.

[@SakyTalks]

Wishing you the same 🙂

[@Rick_Cleland]

You ain't seen nothing yet, 2021 will be worse.

[@antikertech157]

Time for growth on all aspects of being.

[@MarioSilva-xn9ho]

2020 was the best year for me in a really long time, so i kinda doubt that, but i guess we'll see

[@aimeejane_writings]

Don’t jinx it lol

[@ICEcoldJT]

“Tomorrow is never guaranteed, so live fully in the present moment.”

[@abigailmariamdavid1445]

That’s surely something I have to learn to do.

[@sxcrd1]

🐐

[@tauhid9983]

yea but that's too much work

[@sxcrd1]

​@@tauhid9983 just try to move on from whatever your going through there's always a light at the end of a tunnel. don't dwell on the past or overwhelm yourself by thinking bout the future, the more your remember this the less stress you will have its that simple...

[@tauhid9983]

thanks a lot for the info.

[@ChriselleLopez]

1. Self-care is selfless 2. Pay more attention to your thoughts 3. Love won't get you anywhere if you're not compatible* 4. Apps are actually cool 5. Connect more 6. Make time for fun

[@nadines_moments]

What I've learned: Why should I care about what that random person that I met back in high school thinks of my social media posts? Why should I care about what that random cashier at my grocery store thinks of how I look today? Why should I care about what my aunt thinks about my career choice? - I only have this one chance at life, so why should I not live it the way I want to?

[@dentaladdict98]

Beautifully said!

[@intentionalliving7326]

That is a powerful realization Nadine 😍 congratulations sistah 👏🏻👏🏻🥳 there is a lot of power and freedom that comes with it!! Keep following your intuition! We can depend on that! The people around, they are free to have and share their opinions but the decisions... are ours to make, the actions towards our goals are ours to take ✨🤗

[@nadines_moments]

@@intentionalliving7326 Exactly! 💛

[@introvertsparadise2395]

One of the most limiting mindsets I’ve found this year is fear. If you can overcome this, so many more opportunities open up!

[@HighFiveFriend]

👏 Yes, The fullest life is often found outside our comfort zones :). Here’s to taking the good forward and leaving the bad behind.

[@introvertsparadise2395]

@@HighFiveFriend cheers to that :)

[@LanaBlakely]

totally!

[@franciscocolin2008]

“Stay hard” - David Goggins

[@RachelGrayM]

What I learned: life is too short to “fake it” and live for others.

[@rudig5698]

Same ❤️

[@SakyTalks]

The truth. The art of saying "No" to what others expect you to be sets you free.

[@pinkvalentino]

OMG YES!!! I wouldn't describe it better.

[@anitacarter8060]

I totally agree!

[@rakeshkohli4571]

O really

[@Kasia_Luna]

This year took away many of the things I took for granted, like hugging a loved one, sitting in a movie theatre, or simply smiling at a stranger when walking down the street. However, the silver lining is that it has made those moments so much more meaningful when I finally get to do them again. In the meantime, I hope to keep growing and leveling up as a person, so that when the universe decides to press play on our currently paused world, I have more to offer to the ones that I love around me.

[@nevadasky9987]

This is beautiful and really helped me. Thank you for these thoughtful words.

[@Kasia_Luna]

@@nevadasky9987 awh thank you 🥰 I really appreciate your words.

[@knofi7052]

You are absolutely right. In the future we will experience these moments more consciously and appreciate them more. I hug you for your words virtually. :)

[@Kasia_Luna]

@@knofi7052 I hug you right back! :) Thank you.

[@mirelasemanjaku]

Thats a great mindset! Lets take this as the "gift" of 2020. That it took us down to earth and reminded us how much more valuable simple things are! The world had become too greedy and humanity had forgotten what it meant to live simply. The best things in life can not be bought. We knew but we had forgoten for a while..

[@pinkvalentino]

2020: it's been the best year for me in ages, because I finally started to break away from my depression. I started therapy in 2019, but only in 2020 I've started noticing small change after a small change. And here I am finishing this year: happy! Happy because I found hope that I can be myself, my depression, fear and constant stress created a |monster". I felt like someone else was living in side of me for years. Now... I'm finally becoming free from all this fakeness, pleasing everyone around, trusting my guts, not to be scared to say NO... I feel alive, hence 2020 is a year of me being RE-BORN! I wish all of us an amazing 2021. Focus on inner world as the external one will fix itself!

[@AnaS-of8ri]

I'm so happy for you and you really deserve to be happy and free! All the best to you and be proud of yourself! I had to accept this year that happiness means having a bad day but still knowing and having faith that there will be always better days

[@ilsaley4738]

Happy for you! I have sort of the same feeling about 2020. For many years I felt anxiety, stress and I had this episodes of depression. I had the constant feeling that there was something about me that was unfixable. But during the last year, it all changed so fast. Now I feel healed and connected with all and everyone around me. Just like you said: re-born. Thank you for sharing this. I wish you all the best!

[@meyssounebakkouche7883]

Aww I'm so happy for you 🥺🤍

[@mitziecuesta9342]

I feel so happy reading this.... All is well...

[@JournalingWithNadia]

2020 made me realize I was the only one stopping myself from doing the things I really wanted to do. Whoever is reading this, I hope 2021 will be an amazing year for you

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤷🏻‍♀️ yep!! 🤗✨✨

[@LanaBlakely]

I love reading this.

[@riri11-]

I realized this too. Such true words👍🏻👍🏻

[@themediocre5175]

Thank you

[@sanasdiary4851]

Every video of lana literally has DEEP meaning , she explains a lot in life !! Happy that I found your channel !!

[@LanaBlakely]

thank you

[@alexhenson]

Saem

[@nehainthebay]

“Doing things for fun is...almost wasteful in this productivity culture.” I love that you mentioned how odd this line of thinking is. I think we forget that because we have fun and relax that we get productive eventually. Thanks for sharing ✨✨👍🏽

[@intentionalliving7326]

Thank you for highlighting this 🙏🏻 rings so true 😍🤗

[@shamilfrancis6913]

Yes. Can't agree more

[@waelfaraj6705]

Happiness mostly comes from within and from how you respond to events in life... Do what you can to improve ... medium.com/@melanie.ginsburg/9-secrets-to-being-happy-according-to-neil-pasrichas-the-happiness-equation-1374f1b62083

[@reallifepsych3309]

2021 will be our year! We need to organize, strategize, but dont forget to prioritize yourself. I hope everyone reading this is safe and healthy for what’s left of 2020!

[@wallacerangel616]

I want 2020 to just get the hell out the door already. I’ve had enough of it

[@wallacerangel616]

@Khyber Zaman hi..

[@wallacerangel616]

@Khyber Zaman good and you?

[@krisan8605]

This year teach me about 1. Self boundary. Its the biggest lesson for me this year. 2. Fear feels reallyy big and heavy if i keep it alone with me. Share it with trusted people really helpful to make you face your fear clearer. 3. I don't need to change whoever and handle everything. 4. Its okay if i feel emotion that i perceived as negative like 'dont like something in people who perceived as perfect' it doesn't mean im envy or toxic etc. And how i don't need to be guilty for that. As long as i didn't harmful whoever. Its fine to feel something that i like or don't like from other people. No matter what their background or their status is

[@SamElle]

one lesson I learned this year was to trust my gut. I used to make SO many excuses for people and give them the benefit of my doubt and rationalize my thoughts. I learned to really trust myself and my thoughts!

[@alessiasutherberry]

Yesss! Trusting your gut! Same 💗

[@SamElle]

@@alessiasutherberry yes yes!!! And I think trusting my gut also helps with self confidence!!

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@SamElle for sure ! It’s all linked!:) x

[@thegoddess1694]

Yes I agree, this world is just too weak and fragile, so easy to bend and break underneath pressure. Its best to stay rooted to yourself, your own thoughts and imagination and let everything else collapse around you.

[@alessiasutherberry]

@@thegoddess1694 yess! Couldn’t have said it better myself

[@marthentik]

About mental health - I'm so glad more people are willing to talk about it. The effects of inner work have such a profound impact on all aspects of our life. 🦋

[@AfordStandup]

2020 has felt like 3 years in one

[@rkreaden6038]

So true

[@intentionalliving7326]

Well expressed! The learning and the wisdom was also 3 years into one!! Makes me wonder about the whole ‘get out of your comfort zone’ thing 🤔😁😅

[@shreya2732]

i have been waiting your video for long finally got it...thank you LANA for being here for us....lots of love💛💛💛

[@bridgetneuman1575]

2020 has been really hard for all of us; here are some quotes I find helpful for not only this year but the years to come. "Be stronger than your excuse." "Each morning we are born again. what we do today is what matters most." "Winners are not people who never fail but people who never quit." "Sometimes the bravest and most important thing you can do is just show up." "Tomorrow is the first blank page of a 365 page book. Write a good one." And finally: "Your entire life can really change in a single year...you just gotta love yourself enough to know you deserve more. Be brave enough to demand more, and disciplined enough to actually work for it."

[@LivsLifeline]

I’ve learned that social media doesnt serve me anymore, i find it quite draining and would like to spend alot less time on it in 2020 if posible

[@LanaBlakely]

Cheers to that!

[@amilinduwijesinghe]

in 2021 you mean.

[@chloekitching]

I’ve learned to: Live for yourself and do what makes you happy. Because if you can’t make yourself happy who will?

[@knofi7052]

Because if you can’t make yourself happy you are not able to make someone else happy! :)

[@intentionalliving7326]

Amen sistah 🤗

[@HIXHAM]

2020 has shown me what I want in life and what doesn’t serve me

[@aditighosh619]

Hi, I have seen your comments on vanessa,the gem goddess and obviously here and I just wanted to let you know,your comments give me a kind of belief that things will be okay and great. You are so full of good wishes and positivity 🌼🥺

[@HIXHAM]

@@aditighosh619 🙏🏾

[@nicolegenerale]

yess it has to me too! i have finally let go of things that weren't providing any real value in my life

[@kdalfndnfdjsf1702]

Your definition of selfcare is ON-POINT! 🤍 It's so important and helpful. That's why I dedicated my channel to it. Sending you lots of love, Lana! 🤍🤍

[@salmanisrar3772]

Thank-you for vulnerability and sharing these. I just wanted to add something regarding finding compatibility: 1. Having a list of MBTIs that are highly compatible with your type (I'm also INFJ so that means I'm highly compatible with ENFP,INFP,INFJ,ENTP,ENTJ,INTJ,ENFJ) is really helpful. 2. Having list of must have qualities+abilities in your partner - you must develop thrse in yourself first - and list of must-not have qualities (minor+major red flags for you) also helps you.

[@merkisruiz3120]

Two big lessons learned in 2020: The first is that I’m weaker to love than I ever would have liked to admit. It’s my favorite drug and also the most debilitating for me personally and so I need to keep it at a good distance. The second is that for me to be productive I need to be alone. Actually, I’ve known this for years but my mid twenties was a time when I prioritized human connection and compassion to others to an extent where I realized that too much of my mental energy was being devoted to these, and while noble and worthy in their own right, my optimal self is one of solitude and minimum engagement. Of course I’m still companionate and loving towards my fellow man/woman but it’s not something that I have to make obvious all the time and that is perfectly OK. Lana, thanks for sharing your life with us this past year. Wishing you tons of strength and courage for all that comes your way during the next.

[@nicolegenerale]

i love this! thanks for sharing your insights, i can very much relate to this

[@shajrine4709]

This year, I've become more appreciative of the little things in life.

[@intentionalliving7326]

🤩🙏🏻🤗

[@TaniaSofiaM]

The most important lesson , accept who are and all your feelings. Be grateful . We all doing our best , it will never be a competition. Happy new year everyone , lets hope 2021 will be better .

[@chaemomileeee]

1. Change can happen any at second of time. You don't need to wait for New Year or Next month for it. 2. Change will be tough, life will take your test, it is a marathon, not a sprint. 3. Hard work.

[@benvixx6187]

changing the negative self talk probably help me the most. i write a kind notes whenever the negative thought goes full scale, and remembering i cried each and every-time while i wrote it. feels like all i need is understanding person, little do i know, i need it the most from myself. 💛 anyway, happy new year 🎉 lets do our best in 2021

[@mckinleyuntamed]

This year I have learned how to be alone in a non-detrimental way..I used to want to be alone when my mental health was bad and really used all of my happy moments around other people, whether in person or over the phone. Over quarantine I have distanced myself from social media (everything aside from youtube) which in combination with being in a pandemic has forced me to be okay with being alone with my thoughts AND has minimized my interactions with others to only be intentional and meaningful just by taking social media out of the picture. Its been so good for me and my mental and physical health to live slower and more intentionally. Also, I just want to say that Im proud of all of us for making it through a year that tested us all in many ways. 💚

[@mckinleyuntamed]

@Next Level Millennial I have been incredibly fortunate in my experience during this quarantine...it definitely hasn’t been easy but it’s been the push I needed for a lot of positive changes. I know a lot of people feel like it has just taken and taken from them so I am definitely working to remain grateful for my circumstances. We are all surviving through a deadly pandemic, and if that surviving is all you can manage to do that’s PLENTY. Thank you for the kind response!

[@jbjuguilon5147]

This year, I realized that I am in control of my own life. I've learned to stop making excuses and just do it. Best thing I've learned ever.

[@letthesunshine8170]

2020 has taught me to love myself more and be more patient. It has taught me to exercise more and be mindful of what I am eating and letting go of negativity. Im so thankful for all the lessons. Happy new year everyone. May your year ahead be full of peace, happiness and prosperity🌸😊💖

[@sarasmela5009]

All these things you've mentioned are so simple yet hard to achieve. Hearing you actually saying them out loud rather than assuming it's too banal was indeed helpful!

[@jeymariearchives]

This 2020 taught me that people are in the same ocean but not in the same boat. It taught me compassion and seeing things from a different perspective. With this covid pandemic, I am still figuring out how to make life more enjoyable.

[@meyjoanna2190]

I learned to appreciate the things I have. I also learned that wordly things are temporary and that I should enjoy and set my heart on the things that will last for eternity.

[@britaostermeier8477]

My biggest lesson from 2020: Judge someone by their actions and not only from their words. I let my previous partner back into my life because of how they said they felt, but their actions did not corroborate their words. Also, I love your videos Lana! 💕 what you said about love not equaling compatibility resonated with my experiences this year too.

[@tomdrummy4984]

My favorite person! 😊 I had more things simply reinforced for me in 2020 vs learning something new. You mentioned paying attention to your thoughts. Also, ask yourself if the thought is yours or it was picked up from society or other people. Many people believe whatever they hear over and over again without stopping and asking......is it true? Also, relationships are more than finding someone compatible. Many people feel incomplete if not in a relationship. You are a whole person and you are looking for another whole person. To me, you are not looking for another being to bring joy to you.......you are looking for a person to which you will both extract joy mutually from each other.

[@alexandraboadu]

It felt like a relief saying “2020 was a pleasure but it’s time to say goodbye 👋🏼 “ I felt that! And it made me feel better instantly

[@kasiar3054]

One mindful way to mark the end of 2020 is to express gratitude for all the lessons, memories, challenges... Definitely, I learned patience & acceptance this year - acceptance of the world, lack of control, things twisting around and us (myself, others). It is okay if things do not go the way we plan. I wrote a letter to myself to reflect on those things and set intentions for 2021. I believe it all comes to living in the present moment & let's be grateful for all that happened. All the best to you all!

[@carmenortiga5900]

I’ve learned that we musto not be afraid of being rejected and It is never to late to fight for your dreams...Happy New Year!

[@blessedlife4835]

I 've come to learn the hard way after my brother passed away last month that We need to spend more time with our family, love them, show them, tell them, hug them, help them no matter how small. Don't take anything for granted cuz you only Live once. You will only Live with your family once so be kind and genuine, and never too shy to say I love you

[@sarahharmonie]

This year I learnt to love the person I am, because I was stuck with myself in quarantine for so long I had no choice but to face myself and my thoughts and work on myself. Today I am more than happy 2020 happened because without this year I would probably still be stuck with my toxics behaviors against myself.

[@Lea-ov8vq]

Same!

[@LanaBlakely]

Love reading this!!

[@intentionalliving7326]

Congratulations 👏🏻👏🏻 that is beautiful to read!! It’s the most important relationship and i think it effects pretty much every other area of our life ! Well done you!! 🎉🤗💕✨✨

[@KaraKairis]

2020 taught me that happiness doesn’t exist outside of me but inside of me. That even in the most difficult of times I can find peace and harmony from the inside and I can be happy if I choose to be happy. We are all growing in different ways, spiritually, physically and so much more. So now I will choose to follow myself and my intuition. And to focus on the good because happy moments and gratitude live in the small and big things but mostly within ourselves

[@cassierxse]

the tips: 1. self-care is selfless. 2. acknowledge negative thoughts and replace them with positive ones. 3. love doesn't equal compatibility, and a healthy relationship has to have both. 4. apps are a great tool for organization! (bonus: don't reject things without trying them first) 5. connect more. 6. make time for fun:)

[@SanjaySkar]

This video really put a smile on my face when I was almost letting myself down by focusing on the negative side of 2020. It was a great reminder for me that 2020 was a year of growth, tolerance and acceptance. I just needed to hear that from someone else's perspective. Thank you Lana! WIsh you and whoever reading this a great year ahead... :)

[@ManishaJhalaan]

Not only I enjoyed watching the video but also got some time to reflect on my learnings from this year. Thanks for sharing. Can relate to each point. 👍

[@rudig5698]

2020 has been challenging, overwhelming, destructive and hopeless for so many of us. Me personally, I try to make the best out of it and to commit to small changes, to moments of stillness and gratitude, in order to appreciate life for the small things. 2020 has been challenging, but it has also been really really really beautiful for me. It showed me that I am vulnerable and alive. This is the best lesson I could have ever wished for. Thank you Lana, 2020 has also been the year in which I started my very own KZbin channel,...because of your inspiration!🥺❤️🎄

[@rupaliii]

"Love will not get you anywhere if you're not compatible" can't agree more on that!!

[@KristinasDigitalDiary]

Your videos really hit different 🥺 extremely grateful for coming across your channel, you have helped me so much!! ✨💛✨💛✨💛✨💛✨

[@LanaBlakely]

Aww xx

[@la6007]

You feel so elegant (the word I know closest to what I’m looking for) , in your manners, looks and thoughts. You have got this mystical aura around you and a tranquile voice. That sounds a little bit far-fetched maybe but that is just what I feel watching your videos. I am also swedish so I dont know why I wrote this in english. I think at first I forgot you are from the same country as me haha

[@thecoolfarhan1]

Your voice is so soothing. Love listening to you

[@JB-gv3lo]

I guess the biggest thing this year reminded me of is that you have to keep moving regardless of circumstances, Because the one thing we can truly control is how we view the situation we're in.

[@Paulo-cy9vc]

This year I learned how to let things go, stuff happens and nothing lasts forever, everything has it's own time. Not worrying about what would or could've been. Enjoying every single second of my life as though it was my last one. No time for meaningless things in life such as fast cars, big houses, best job in the country, best son/daughter… Just going with the flow ! And let it be !

[@intentionalliving7326]

Being totally present ✨🤩✨

[@SaraMakesArt]

I learned that I can exercise at home if I really need to.

[@intentionalliving7326]

Ha ha yes!! It’s interesting, no??!! 😁🤗

[@kartikkhotele_2482]

Thankyou lana your video changes something in me everytime i watch it . THANKYOU

[@alexrguez2327]

This year I´ve learnt to listen way more, to care about my loved ones way more and to look at life experiences as a way of understanding life itself. I'm very excited for next years cos I'm finally moving out of my own bubble, I'm moving abroad but, at the same time it feels uncomfortable to do so.

[@maeve898]

Yes, it will feel uncomfortable but always be aware of who you truly are, enjoy yourself being abroad and learn as much as you can & I wish you best of luck

[@EashanKotha]

It's been one heck of a crazy year, and I'm glad a lot of us got through. We've lost a lot but I'm sure we've also gained a lot of appreciation for the things we typically take for granted.

[@AnyaYabe]

These are very good lessons to learn! Changing our way we talk about ourselves in our mind is probably the most powerful thing we can do. I'd personally love to work on reaching out to people more, some things you just won't get if you don't ask.

[@WeAreCreators]

This year has been a trip and I think I learned more than any other year but I'm looking forward to it being over and looking forward to *2021!!!* Very excited for the *New Year*!!!

[@amielkatz212]

ive been watching your videos for a while, and you've really grown Lana. I loved seeing your personal development. It's been so inspiring

[@kikikitten2761]

Yup 2020 thoughts us so many things directly n indirectly so finally bye bye!!! Hope 2021 wid positive thoughts,opportunity and healthy life's everyone❤️❤️

[@ekowmotivation]

This year has been full of ups and downs but I've learned alot personally. You inspire me with my channel.

[@MarioFabelo]

As a 16 year-old it has been great to listen to the life lessons of a 25 year-old like you, Lana! Personally, this year I've learned a lot about the becoming-big-on-social media mentality with a TikTok account I run. I realised how we don’t always need to be working and that rest is crucial. I've also learned to become more patient with life in general and don’t look as much into the future to focus more in the present reality. I also learned about doing what you love without the approval of others; being confident to step up for what really excites me!

[@aliel-hassani3831]

i like your videos for real . keep that up because you’re videos are helping someone’s out there even if it’s just one person it’s more than enough

[@CharleeNguyen]

This year was bad and weird due to COVID, but it gave us a lot of time to reflect on our lives! With each bad comes some good, and at least it’s making us more aware now. I just started implementing the self care tip and boy has it changed my life! I hope everyone has learned something about themselves this year :) Many blessings in 2021 to come!

[@maricelfreire]

amazing video as always! and you look stunning

[@lauraahwangg]

I am actually typing a reflection of this year right now. I will use this video to almost ask me some guiding questions.

[@anselangel5756]

2020 has taught me to let go of the things that I can't control :)

[@7184610369]

Fun fact: Those with a positive outlook of life also get a higher quality of sleep. Studies also show that if you are sleep deprived an hour of sleep will do more for you daily happiness than a $60,000 raise!

[@ChanoWilliams]

"Networking" sounds impersonal, probably because we do associate it with computers. "Connecting" definitely doesn't sound as harsh. There's also some psychology with the beginning letters too (strong back of "N" vs the soft curve of "C"). I've spent my entire life fighting negative thoughts because I've seen how it affects others and prevents them from growing. At 36 I'm happy to say that I have a reputation of being a positive person. And I've lived a very adventurous life because of it. Even during the pandemic I've enjoyed new experiences and the challenge of weaving through the social restrictions. I look forward to seeing your continued personal growth and outlook!

[@nevadasky9987]

This year I learned that loving my body is one of the most important things effecting my mental health. Please if you arent feeling confident in how you look realize that you are so much more than how you look and you are beautiful

[@loveisreaal]

Same 💖💞

[@intentionalliving7326]

Right on sistah 🤗 It is quite the insight to realize that we are not our body... i think it is something that we can tell others however, that does not mean they get it. They might hear it but its not a realization yet... it has not reached ‘the heart’ ... from that place of knowing it, really knowing we can appreciate it and take awesome care of it, as something precious we will have with us till our last breath✨

[@lattesdarling]

My 2020 lesson continues to be to NEVER GIVE UP! Always continue SHOWING UP for yourself no matter how hard, one step FURTHER, and one step at a time

[@LanaBlakely]

yes!!

[@intentionalliving7326]

🙌🏻 amen sistah 👏🏻👏🏻🤗💕

[@JoeriAnimalfanTV]

No one: Lane Blakely: 2020, it's been a pleasure

[@lullatstars]

2020 taught me that there's nothing more important than learning how to manage negative self-talk, black-and-white thinking and catastrophizing... Btw, I'm looking forward to be joining your book club in 2021

[@intentionalliving7326]

Amen to that 🙌🏻🤗✨

[@PetterHughes]

One of my best things about 2020 was following Lana Blakely and learning from her! 😁

[@alessiasutherberry]

I love this topic, so interesting and thoughtful! I learnt to set boundaries, say no to people (including friends) if I needed to in 2020. I’ve said goodbye to many ‘friendships’ but I feel so much better for it! Thanks for the great content Lana ! 👏😃🌟

[@LanaBlakely]

Thanks you Lessie!

[@BrunaClaas]

Reaching out to people even if we don't hear back. Just the practice makes it worth it, the attempt. Getting out of our comfort zone until it becomes more natural. There is one thing I needed to be reminded of today! Great video as always, Lana!

[@LanaBlakely]

yes!! thank you x

[@anitacarter8060]

I resonated so much with your comment about not doing things purely for fun… We live in a hustle culture where if you’re not working or being productive 24 seven then you are not a good person… And that’s not true… Life is short let’s have fun too! 😬❣️✌🏻

[@sharethelight9338]

I should trust my inner voice despite what other people are telling would be better for me. I started to respect my personal boards and didn’t allow anybody to cross it. To say “NO” comes after. Also I’ve learned not to be such a perfectionist in all things I do. And I still keep learning to enjoy my life, my projects and my hobby without thinking about final results (especially finance). I mean to do something without expectation to earn money from that, otherwise I just could lose my passion and inspiration. A 2020 was exactly the year of knowing and exploring myself. I’ve tried to understand better what I want to do and where I want to go. It’s still on progress. Thank you for such a nice video! I really enjoy listening you!

[@TheInsanePhil]

The time where I treated myself the worst was the time I was most apathetic towards other people, so I wholeheartedly agree with the first point. It's like when you are filled with nothing but hate and pity towards yourself you won't find it in you to care about what others are thinking and feeling.

[@SakyTalks]

Lived another year thinking more and doing less. Now entering 2021 with a plan of healthy habits. One of those habits is KZbin. 💪💪💪💪

[@dani_isla]

I think the biggest thing I learnt this year is that in order to pluck the fruits of the tree regarding your self-development and growth (haha i hope this saying is correct), you need to put in the effort and work. Meditate, journal, workout, challenge your beliefs - do it not just once, but keep doing it. 🙂 Also want to thank you for your videos, I always watch them because I love your style and content - so keep up the good work and a happy 2021 for you!💕

[@stephenschamber6004]

Merry Christmas and happy new year Lana! The most important thing I learned this year was that when you pursue the opportunities that call to you, often you end up happier even if you don't get as good results as you hoped for. Loved this video, I'm happy to see some positive messages associated with this year. Despite all the trouble in the world my year was among my best ever, and I made a video for my channel (Narrow Ground Entertainment) about it. I look forward to watching your 2021 content!

[@1234dfgj]

I learned that when you're doing something with consistency you will advance you will be better on that, even if sometimes you don't percibe that advance. The lesson i learned is to just be constant and patient and early or late you will get that objective. By the way: sorry for my english , I'm learning

[@Green-tr8wh]

you inspire me lana..thank you for your wisdom.. happy 2021 🧚🏼‍♀️

[@DemiThomas]

2020 gave me motivation and learned me lessons that I can share with others through this platform. This year was the start of something new and I am very grateful for it🤗

[@theRoms0709]

I tried painting this year and it has changed my life. Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Have a blessed-filled new year 🤍

[@TheKhanFamily]

hope 2021 is a better year for everyone 🙂

[@monocyte2210]

Congratulations for 500+ K subs !

[@TechLead]

Maybe build a PC gaming rig in your next video.

[@larsandreasolsen5034]

Would like to see this

[@justadudeintheworldman.120]

As a millionaire...

[@lemonsqueezexd5468]

very good idea

[@SilVerRoxetZ]

lol lana blakely on xbox live xD woulda beenfunny and nonsense at the same time

[@zeinomadikizela1153]

As a billionaire

[@thiswasmytumblr]

Lana you look great, top looks awesome. Cheers to 2021 and how far you’ve come on your channel. Sending you immensely good vibes. 🌛

[@ananeu]

I’ve learnt the importance of self discipline. Self control is one of the biggest challenges I think humans face. We need to control it!!!!

[@RukaandDimo0323]

I’ve learned how to live my life.I’ve so much struggle and sometimes I’m so tired to face this life but this way I can grow myself without regretting it at all cause life is once and this is our all opportunity that been given.

[@carolina.helena]

Happy New Year Lana! I also should allow me hobbies not related to my work nor my side projects ;))

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

Sometimes you have to get knocked down lower than you have ever been to stand back up taller than you ever were.

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

The lesson I learned in 2020 is to don't give up and appreciate the small things. You can find happiness in yourself. Don't have to go away to find it.

[@LanaBlakely]

Cheers to that!

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

@@LanaBlakely Thank you!

[@ZerontOfficial]

2020 has been a meaningful year. I learned that investing in myself is the most worthy investment. I start reading books and it changed my mindset by a lot ( I never read a book before xD) and now I'm just really trying to figure out things in life. I'm trying to establish a new habit of waking up 4.a.m and meditate, exercise and read books. I feel I'm happier by doing a new routine and all of this comes from reading books I really love - Atomic Habits and The Miracle Morning, such a powerful combo to change your life. I've learned to create my own youtube channel too, but it's just a gaming channel. By having a channel really punch perfectionism in the face, so many critics and hate comments, but not to mention the positive comments are massive. I've heard a quote " If you don't want to have haters, then do nothing", it's so true that every action you have done, someone will disagree, but the key to growth is action so kick out FOPO(Fear of people opinion). Thanks Lana, I just feel better after writing this :)

[@bonnenouvellle]

And people like me are also feeling better reading your story. Thank you and what a great progress you have done ✨

[@HIXHAM]

“Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.” -Ralph Waldo Emerson